All of Her Ex-Boyfriends and Ex-Husbands Were No Good

Of all the girls I met and keep on meeting, I keep on hearing the same stories of their last boyfriend / husband.

1 - He was abusive

This is a scam, did she really mean that she was loving, caring, giving and sharing and all he did was punch her in the face? I can walk on any street in America today and take a poll of 10,000 men (including you and I) and they would all say they would never hit a female. These females want me to believe that they found that 1 man in 10,000 that would hit a female. I won't believe it.

2 - He didn't give me enough attention

- Danger Will Robinson, my sensors indicate extreme human manipulation - Every time I hear this excuse, I think to myself the following;

- How much attention did he promise you?

- Did he give you a lot of attention, but that was not enough?

- Did he give you all the attention any human can give, but that was not enough?

- How much attention did he promise you when you first met?

- How much attention is enough?

- How much attention have you received since you two split?

- Was breaking up your family your solution to your attention needs?

3 - He didn't love me

When I hear this I can't help but asking, "You must have loved him a whole lot for you to leave him." or "How do you measure someone's love for you?" or "Do you measure your pet's love for you?"

4 - He cheated on me

An oldie but goodie. I've seen this a million times. Females don't mind cheaters if the man is cheating on his wife for her. They never mind being the target of a cheating man. But that's the man they partnered with and now they are surprised that he cheated yet again.

5 - He was a gambler, alcoholic or a substance abuser

Gamblers and substance abusers rarely just pop up out of nowhere. There are indications and warning signs all around that the female chooses to ignore.