He Believed His Female Manager and He Thought He Was Worthless

I was working in this large government agency in NYC in the computer lab with a female coworker. She was OK, maybe because I kept my distance from her.

We needed an assistant and hired a man that was just let go from Montclair State University. You see, his previous manageress and part time tyrant called him useless every chance she had. I remember the first day he showed up for work in his tie and white shirt, I told him to dress down. The computer lab was in a remote building far away from anyone ever seeing us. The next day he showed up in khakis and a dress shirt, I insisted that he dress down further. After all, I was in jeans and a teeshirt every day. By his third day, he was wearing jeans.

I quickly knew that this job was way below his capabilities and told him so before the end of his first week. The look of shock on his face was a combination of “Is he going to fire me because I’m over qualified?” and “I never thought I was so valuable.”

Needless to say, we bonded instantly. He introduced me to an “Open Source” programming language and we would talk about relationships and our respective single moms. It was amazing how his psycho mom was so much like mine in many ways.

As luck would have it, a few short months later, my manager was fired by the project leader and upper management was upset that the project leader didn’t hire a replacement before firing my manager. With a little quick thinking, the project manager said he did hire someone for my manager’s job. Now my assistant became my manager.

I was OK with his new position, he had to dress the part and deal with the real idiots, the executives. He immediately apologized for his quick promotion and I laughed, congratulating him for doing a job I would have refused. Over the years, we had a very great friend manager relationship. He politely did his job and I respected his position all while being friends.

Years went by and the project ended. I went my way and he went his. He ended up working for this technology firm starting salary $240,000 a year plus bonus and stock options. This was a far cry from useless his previous manager would have him believe.

The funny part of the story is that his previous manager in MSU got fired herself and moved back to Ohio where she is the assistant manager of a local supermarket.

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Women will sabotage your success out of fear you will be more attractive to prettier girls. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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Once upon a time, a woman needed protection. Now, she mocks men, until she actually needs one. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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She craves attention and validation over respect and authenticity, feels entitled to what men around her possess, takes everything for granted without appreciation, constantly wants more, and holds unrealistically high expectations without offering anything in return. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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Beware the woman that says, "I deserve" or "I'm entitled" Nobody deserves or is entitled to anything from anyone. <br><br> TheXYGhost

A Civilization Built by Men, Dismantled by Women

Women across the globe are living off the blood, sweat, and sacrifice of men who built the world from the ground up. Every ounce of safety, every piece of comfort, every convenience they enjoy exists because men made it happen. Now that the world is secure, women claim they don’t need men, yet they keep living in the shelter men provide.

The brutal truth is women never loved men, they loved what men could give them. Today’s woman is trapped in an endless chase for a “perfect” man who exists only in the revolving carousel of her fantasies. Her desires shift weekly, her definition of “ideal” changes with her moods. She refuses to grow up. She clings to the mentality of a spoiled child, demanding attention, gifts, and indulgence.

She only wants a man who lets her keep playing little girl while he foots the bill and takes the blame. The moment he expects maturity, loyalty, or accountability, she’s gone, off to find another man willing to enable her delusions. And she will keep running that cycle until the day she dies, never once admitting the debt she owes to the men who built the very world she takes for granted.

Women still rely on men for everything they claim they no longer need:• The police and military forces that protect them, built and maintained by men• The roads, bridges, and infrastructure they travel on, built by men• The power grids, plumbing, and clean water they use daily, designed, built, and repaired by men• The technology in their hands and homes, invented and advanced by men• The legal systems and protections they hide behind, established by men• The supply chains that deliver their food, clothing, and luxuries, run by men• The firefighters, utility workers, and emergency responders who save them when disaster strikes, overwhelmingly men

They don’t see it because they’ve never had to build it. They think comfort and safety are the natural state of the world, but take away men, and within a month that illusion collapses. Without men, their fantasy of independence turns into the nightmare of reality.

If every man stopped working tomorrow, society would collapse before the week was over. The lights would go out. The water would stop running. Food would vanish from the shelves. Phones would go dead. Law enforcement and military protection would disappear. The so-called “strong, independent woman” would be reduced to begging the nearest man for protection and survival. That’s the truth they don’t want to face, their freedom only exists because men keep the world standing. Take that away, and the princess act ends overnight.

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Her : You are the worst lover I've ever had. <br><br> TheXYGhost : Am I the worst of 100 or more?

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Once upon a time, a woman was shamed for being promiscuous. Now, she celebrates it, and blames men when she’s used and discarded. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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There are men who actually believe that if they take on the role of a provider, the woman they're providing for will never look for a better provider while they're out working. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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She has 3 kids from three men and she is angry because one father gave his kid a Christmas present and not the others. <br><br> TheXYGhost

The Irony

Find an animal on the side of the road. Pick it up, clean it, and feed it. In return, it will be your best friend for life, always loyal and by your side. Its gratitude will be simple and unwavering.

Help a man when he is down. Feed him, offer him shelter, and share your space with him. He will remember your kindness and be there for you whenever you need him. A bond forged through compassion will endure.

But find a girl who is insecure, scared, and broken. Lift her up, show her she is valuable, and help her see her true beauty. Yet in the end, she may call you foolish for trusting her and laugh as she walks away.

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How many times were you threatened with false rape or false Domestic Violence? <br><br> TheXYGhost

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Once upon a time, a woman was honored for loyalty. Now, she’s praised for “finding herself” by sleeping with multiple partners. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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She found religion and divorced her husband, left her kids behind and had an affair with the preacher. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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Give all you can to her and she'll call it "The Bare Minimum" even though she's never received any better. <br><br> TheXYGhost

Subtle Signs That She Blames Others

We all know there are many women who blame others for everything that goes wrong in their lives. Here is how you spot them. Just have a conversation and you will hear it.

Most men will say, “That comedian is funny,” an opinion based on his evaluation, or “I laughed my ass off,” a point of fact.

But women you want to avoid will take an accusatory stance, “He made me laugh.” It sounds harmless, but she is accusing the comedian of making her laugh. The blame is subtle, but it is there.

It is the difference between “I was angry at him” and “He made me angry.” One owns the emotion. The other shifts blame. That mindset will bleed into every part of her life.

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How many times has a woman faked a domestic violence charge on you? <br><br> TheXYGhost

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Once upon a time, a woman couldn’t raise children without a man. Now, she chooses single motherhood and complains about the consequences. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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She hates the man she can control, but she loves to control men. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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Pursuing her is begging her to be her servant. <br><br> TheXYGhost

Women Are Extremely Dependent on Men to Make Them Happy

Women often seek fulfillment outside themselves. When they do not find happiness in their partner, they may look for it elsewhere. This behavior aligns with the concept that some women expect men to supply emotional needs they do not fulfill themselves. This dynamic can lead to infidelity when the partner fails to meet those expectations.

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When was the last time you saw a real feminine woman? <br><br> TheXYGhost

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Once upon a time, a woman couldn’t go to college. Now, she dominates universities, and majors in gender studies. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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The solution to all her marital troubles, whether real or imagined, is to break up her family and bring another man into the children's lives. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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The more she fails, the more she shames you for judging her. <br><br> TheXYGhost

Cheaters Are Deceivers

I was out with a group of politicians in a bar one night when one of them started talking about how dirty politics is. He admitted he was constantly cheating on his wife. He said his opponent found out and threatened to use it against him. To handle this, he confessed all his infidelities to his wife.

Then he bragged about how many times he cheated and with whom. He said, “Everybody cheats.”

I looked at him and said I have never cheated on a girlfriend or my wife. He looked at me in disbelief, so I confirmed my point again. Then he asked how I managed that.

I asked him a series of questions:

Did you want your mother to cheat on your father?

Did you want your father to cheat on your mother?

Do you want your wife to cheat on you?

Do you want your daughter to cheat on her husband once married?

Do you want your daughter’s husband to cheat on her?

Do you want your son to cheat on his wife?

Do you want your son’s wife to cheat on him?

He answered “No” to all.

I told him, “It’s easy not to cheat. Just don’t do what you don’t want others to do.”

I also told him women love cheaters and married men because they are easy to blackmail afterward.

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Her pregnancy "Just Happened" if he is rich. All others, she aborts. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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Once upon a time, a woman couldn’t press charges. Now, she can destroy a man’s life with a single false accusation and face no consequences. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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The woman that you loved and married changed into an unrecognizable woman that you divorced. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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She aborted his child because he bought her the wrong color car. <br><br> TheXYGhost

The Quintessential Feminist Woman of the Modern Age

My sister is the quintessential feminist woman of the modern age. She had three children from three different men, divorcing them all while claiming that all the fathers were substance abusers. All her boyfriends had some form of drug addiction, cocaine, crack, alcohol, and pills. She lived in government housing while renting out one room at market value. She collected welfare and child support payments from three men while holding under the table jobs. She teaches her female peers how to use the courts to collect as much as possible.

Now that her kids have grown up, she bought a nice vacation home on the waterfront while keeping her apartment in the projects.

Where did she get the money?

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Women will do whatever it takes to get a man's earnings for her very own. In the process, she will gladly destroy him if she is successful or or not. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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Once upon a time, a woman was expected to be a wife. Now, she mocks the role and chases validation from strangers she sleeps with. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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She has a list of 750 requirements you must meet before she’ll allow you to become her servant and spend significant money on her and the children she had with a drug addict. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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She knew he wanted a family, but she secretly took birth control pills and blamed him for not getting pregnant. Meanwhile, she was searching for a better man while he supported her. <br><br> TheXYGhost

I've Changed My Ways Because I Kept Hearing the Same Old Story Over and Over and Over Again

By my mid 20s, I grew tired of hearing women’s stories about cheating, abusive, and substance abusing boyfriends. Meanwhile, I saw in my life and my friends’ lives that their girlfriends and wives were cheating and leaving with the same excuse, “Not enough.”

Not enough attention.

Not enough love.

Not enough quality time.

Not enough sex.

Not enough money.

When I kept making the mistake of dating these women, because all women claim their last boyfriend was abusive, so I had no real choice, I found myself in the same position. I was never doing enough. As they sought their next partner under the protection and provision I provided, I was left behind.

But they were never at fault for cheating. Even other women blamed me for picking them or not providing enough. Nobody blamed the women for seeking another man.

My solution: I do not pick anymore. Buy me gifts, shower me with attention, provide for me, and I will tell you it’s still not enough.

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Feminists choose abortions because deep down inside their empty souls, they real ize that they would be horrible mothers. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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Once upon a time, a woman couldn’t join the military. Now, she does, and sues the military when she doesn’t get special treatment. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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She divorced her husband because her 2 kids liked him more than her. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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She does not want a husband, kids and a family but she will sleep with multiple men per month as she charges by the hour <br><br> TheXYGhost

He Knocked Out His Ex-wife's New Boyfriend for Slapping His Daughter

The arrogance of some guys who claim they are better fathers than the men women kicked out is unbelievable. Who will actually be better for that man’s child once he is thrown aside for being imperfect?

I once saw a furious woman drive into a loading dock where her ex worked. She stormed out of the car leaving the child in the back seat and her new guy in the front. She walked over to the man yelling, screaming, and hitting him. He didn’t flinch.

He was suing her for full custody because his daughter told him mommy’s boyfriend slapped her for saying something.

After a minute, the boyfriend in the front seat got up to join the fight. The child followed, upset at her parents fighting. She ran to her dad. He picked her up. The mom backed off. That’s when the boyfriend stepped in with his two cents.

The man, holding his daughter, looked at him and yelled loud enough to drown out the trucks, “Who the FUCK are you?”

Without waiting for an answer, he asked his daughter, “Is this the man that hit you?”

She nodded. With one punch, he knocked the boyfriend out. Then he told his daughter, “I bet you he won’t hit you anymore.”

The cops arrived. The boyfriend regained consciousness and wanted to press charges. The man told the cops the whole incident was on camera and he’d press charges on his ex if any charges were pressed.

He explained why he hit the boyfriend. The cops told the boyfriend, “Are you stupid? Hitting another man’s kid?”

The boyfriend tried to explain he was just reprimanding the girl.

The cop cut him off, “I don’t care! You do not hit anyone’s kid! You understand?”

Like I said, the arrogance of some guys who claim they’re better fathers is staggering.

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Are you too hot to allow your children to have only one live-in father? <br><br> TheXYGhost

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Once upon a time, a woman was expected to raise children. Now, she pawns them off to daycares while she collects multiple child support payments. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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Your son has a stepfather while his father is a stepfather to another man's children. One day soon, your grandchildren will have a stepfather while your son raises another man's children. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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The step-dad got his step-daughter pregnant. The mother chose him over her daughter's real dad. <br><br> TheXYGhost

A Quetion to Ask Her. The Answer Will Blow Your Mind.

Here is an interesting question you should ask a female.

Here is the question:

Should a 25 year old go to prison for having sex with a 13 year old?

When the dust settles, ask, how many years should that woman be locked up?

Watch the look on her face.

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Women want what they shouldn't have. They want the forbidden fruit. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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Once upon a time, a woman couldn’t file for divorce. Now, she files 80% of them and calls it “empowerment.” <br><br> TheXYGhost

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She will renounce feminism once she is ordered to pay child support or alimony. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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She had a child that was not her husband's. 8 years later DNA revealed the truth and she said it was an accident and it was only once. <br><br> TheXYGhost

The Pride She Has in Homewrecking Herself

I have met so many women who take pride in talking about their divorce or breakup. They always make it clear they were the ones who ended it, not their partner. They claim they do not want their ex back, but say their ex wants them back. From middle school to high school, college, neighborhoods, workplaces, and beyond, women boast about breaking up with some man.

I was talking to a girl about her ex-husband. In the middle of her story, I asked why she divorced him, since it is almost always the woman who ends it. I could not believe my ears when she thanked me for noticing she was the one who divorced him, not the other way around.

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She will always accuse you of cheating. Tell her to leave. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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Once upon a time, a woman wasn’t allowed to work. Now, she looks for ways to take her employer and co-workers to court to get a financial judgment. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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Crying without tears is an act. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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No matter how much you do for her, it's never enough. <br><br> TheXYGhost

They Never Initiate Anything, Therefore They Have No Responsibility

In a chat between a man and a girl, if you do not send a question, the conversation ends. It is like they do not know what to say or do next. They either wait for another question or they are not interested. This happens so often it is amazing. Women either do not know how to communicate or they are lazy.

They also never initiate conversations. Phone calls, emails, texts, when they do start a conversation, it is usually just to say, “Hi,” then they wait for you to respond. If you reply with “Hi” back, that is usually the end of the conversation.

Even before the internet, girls would sit by the phone waiting for someone to call. But when the call came, they would let it ring a few times before answering. Once they picked up, they played “hard to get.”

None of this applies when they need your resources. Then, they have no problem telling you their problems to trigger your “Fix It Man” mode. They never ask for help, they only state problems.

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TheXYGhost : What makes you happy? <br><br> Her : I don't know, that's why you need work hard to find out <br><br> TheXYGhost : I pass. <br><br> Her : Selfish

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Once upon a time, a woman wasn’t allowed to work. Now, she uses her career as an excuse to put her family planning on hold. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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She feels no guilt as it requires accountability and responsibility. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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She wants a man to praise her for being a burden to him. <br><br> TheXYGhost

I'm Sure You Men Heard These Words Before

Woman: Yes, you were a good provider. You gave me food to eat, clothes to wear, and helped me a great deal in my personal life and career. We had great times together. We went places and shared experiences. You were good to me in every way I can think of. Yes, dear, you loved me. But that is not enough. I met another and I am moving in with him today. I fell in love with him. It just happened. It was not my fault. I never planned it this way.

Remember, I still love you.

(I hope he buys this in case my new boyfriend does not work out)

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Family Court : The modern day Philistines that comes to Delilah's aid when she sees a slight imperfection with the true father of her kids. <br><br> TheXYGhost

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Once upon a time, a woman couldn’t own property. Now, when she owns a house, she is unable to find a man “on her level.” <br><br> TheXYGhost