Andrew Tate's 41 Tenets

1. Men have the divine imperative to become as capable, competent, and powerful as possible in this life.

2. I reserve my human right to hold my own beliefs, practice them as I see fit, and give people the same right to believe and act as they wish.

3. I prefer loving, rewarding, consensual relationships with beautiful, positive, virtuous, (feminine) women.

4. Men and women are different, each has their own unique and important strengths and abilities (skillsets).

5. Men have the sacred duty to protect and provide for the important people in their lives.

6. Men have the sacred duty to protect the innocence and sanctity of their children and reserve the right and responsibility to raise their children as they see best to ensure their long-term happiness, health and success.

7. Men have the sacred duty to raise strong, capable, and honorable sons.

8. Men have the sacred duty to raise kind, feminine, and virtuous daughters.

9. I utterly disprove violence within familiar and romantic relationships.

10. I support good and honest governments, and will obey their laws.

11. I prefer to conduct business dealings only with trusted and vetted brothers.

12. A man has the sacred duty to hold true to his word and do exactly what he says he will do.

13. A man's life is difficult, so he has the sacred duty to become strong to handle such difficulty.

14. Men are personally responsible for their actions and for the results they achieve in their lives.

15. I believe in emotional control and the vital need to become disciplined and professional in all things.

16. Men have the sacred duty to approach everything in life from a position of strength.

17. All men have the sacred duty to become men of upright and virtuous character and live above all possible reproach.

18. I believe it is incumbent upon me to ruthlessly identify my own weaknesses and limitations and work to overcome them and become more capable in all realms.

19. I seek to improve my personal freedom to think, act and live true to my masculine imperative in all ways.

20. Each man has a sacred duty to mold the physical body into the strongest, most resilient, and most capable version of itself.

21. Men have the sacred duty to rigorously mold themselves, both physically and mentally every day.

22. I have the sacred duty to only eat the highest quality foods possible.

23. I reserve the right to protect the sanctity of my bloodstream and make my own decisions about my own medical care and procedures.

24. I affirm the importance of endlessly improving my mental faculties through diligent work, study, and practice.

25. I believe in acquiring wealth and abundance in order to improve my life and do good to those I care about.

26. I believe in the merits of healthy competition and constantly encourage men to seek out the competition to improve themselves.

27. I believe masculine brotherhood is essential to men's mental health, happiness and success, and I relentlessly encourage men to meet together, work together, and train together.

28. I maintain the trust of my brothers through reverent silence regarding our most sacred and shared experiences.

29. I believe in honoring my ancestors and living in a way that would make most of them proud of me today.

30. I reserve the right to administer difficult rights of passage to our young men to allow them to earn the rank of manhood.

31. I affirm the importance and need of travel and adventure as men.

32. I seek to help men overcome poor mental health by embracing hard work, physical improvements, and shared masculine brotherhood.

33. I reserve the right to make the best choices I can at the time to protect myself and respect my mental health.

34. I do good in the world and seek to help those less fortunate.

35. I believe all men have the responsibility to lead and guide those they care about for greater prosperity, health, and happiness.

36. I choose to only interact with those who are respectful and civil to me, in return for my own respectfulness and civility.

37. I reserve the freedom to speak and refer to others as I believe is the best and most truthful.

38. I reserve the right to choose my company and include only those whom I believe is best for my health, happiness, and success.

39. I believe I have an imperative to only spend my time in a way that I determine is beneficial, uplifting, and empowering to myself and others.

40. I choose to only allow myself to be influenced by those whom I believe have my best interests in mind.

41. Each day I dedicate myself a new to creating the greatest possible positive impact on the world and doing the work necessary to achieve greater masculine excellence across all realms of human endeavor. -Andrew Tate Top "G"

You Are Not The Father!

30 years and more than 5,000 episodes of the Maury Show and the phrase "You are not the father" hasn't told you anything yet?

Why I Am TheXYGhost

I've been deliberately single for 23 years now and in that time I had many women come to me implying they will leave their husbands to be with me. I had many more women (single moms divorcees etc) approach me and I push them all aside. Even at age 59 I was approached by this old 50-something bank manager who gave me her business card.

I'm not saying I'm the object of all female desire, I'm fat, bald, ugly and I'm nearly blind. I do admit, I have a big personality. I stay away from broads altogether.

I was married and 23 years ago my wife moved out and divorced me taking $250k out of the bank. She racked up $50k in credit card debt furnishing her new boyfriend's apartment. 4 lawyer friends told me that there was not much I could do and that contesting the divorce might get worse with false accusations etc.

American women hate men. They will say that they love men but they want to love as many as they can as they take those men's resources.

Ask any woman, "How many successful relationships have you been in?" And if her answer is more than one then you know that she is looking for yet another successful one. A successful relationship, to her, is when she takes, for herself, a profit. I tell those women, "I wish you many more successful relationships"

When a girl tells me that they like older men, I reply by saying, "There are many older men out there for you to choose. The world is your oyster.."

This is why I'm The XY Ghost (The Invisible Man)

Google my name. TheXYGhost

New First date Rules For Her

Non-virgins need to split the bill

Divorces need to pay the whole bill

Single moms need to pay for the whole date and a Rolex for each child he needs to take care of.

Why I DO What I Do

I'm 60 years old, when I was 7 my babysitter gave me my first oral. When I was 14 and 15 I had affairs with 3 of my high school teachers. My first girlfriend left me for a 20 year old drug addict that I saw lying in the streets strung out 20 years later. I had 3 girlfriends that were pregnant but tests prove I was not the father. I had 2 of my ex's that had abortions behind my back. Although I was never formally charged, I had 3 girls that accused me of gRAPE. They spread rumors around the circle of people with whom I surrounded myself. Two of those girls I never even touched, the third one I have never had sex.

Two weeks before my wife served me my divorce papers, she blurted out, "the first time we had sex, you raped me". Did she mean to say that I raped her, and then she married me?

In my teens and into my twenties, I had a few girlfriends confide in me that their step dad was constantly molesting them. (And you want to marry a single mother). Female classmates in college and in high school told me similar stories. I never knew why those girls never reported this to the police. I later found out that young girls have gRAPE fantasies about their step-fathers. Sometimes these young girls blurt out their fantasies to invoke or manipulate a "rescue me" response from a boy with whom she's talking. (And you STILL want to marry a single mother)

I've dated movie starlets and had 3 women in my life that were singers. (2 well known at the time and 1 not so well known.) I was married in my late 30's and when she divorced me, stole $310,000 from my accounts. After my divorce 23 married women in my neighborhood started approaching me suggesting they will leave their man for me. 10 of those women had kids. One of those women divorced her husband, and when the divorce was final, she started coming around again. One time she sent her 12-year-old daughter to tell me, "you're my mommy's boyfriend." I'm not about to break up a family. When I showed my disinterest, they went to their husbands and told them I was hitting on them. In my teens I had 4 girlfriends of single mothers and their mom (3 of them) made advances towards me. When I turned them down, they told their daughter to leave me. One of the girl's I dated, her aunt hit on me and left it alone after that.

I've had several girlfriends in the past. When their best friend hit on me and I refused, they told my girlfriend that I hit on them. One of my girlfriends' best friends convinced my girlfriend to break up with me. When she did, that girl came up to me and asked if I could "give her a try".

I've dated a woman that had a net worth of $41 million back in the 1980's, she left me for a 55 year old man that was worth much more. He ended up dumping her a few months later and she begged me to come back to her.

My 61 year old sister had 3 kids from 3 different men and married and divorced 2 of them. From the age of 16, all of her boyfriends and husbands were alcoholic, drug addicts and violent criminals. Mind you that growing up, her and I were never surrounded by any drugs or alcohol.

My life has been a series of temporary hookups based on financial worth. I've watched my childhood friends, my classmates, coworkers and neighbors in the same storm. No love, just temporary conquest until something better comes along. I have only wanted one girlfriend, I'm ashamed that I've had so many.

I've been single for 22 years and even last month a 50+ year old female bank manager came over to my side of the bar to give me her business card. I am not a drinker of spirits but I have a coffee every afternoon at the bar of a nice restaurant near me. She overheard that I was single while I was talking to the bartender. She said, "I overheard that you are single. We are both in the same boat". The bartender was shocked when she saw this. She thought I was lying about my dating past. The only thing that was going through my mind when she handed me her card was, "we are not in the same boat, we are in the same storm"

I'm 60 years old, bald, ugly, fat and going blind. I'm not saying that I'm this "hot" commodity that every girl desires, I'm saying I know the modern feminist influenced woman so well, I can even predict with almost 60% accuracy, what they will say next and how they lie.

When I tell women my story, they almost always say one of the following.

"Not ALL women are like that!" "You hate women." "Who hurt you?" "You just pick the wrong women." "Where do you find these women?"

A Man Has Way More Love in His Heart Than Any Woman Has Ever Had

A man will die to save his family A man will die to save friends A man will die to save a stranger A man will die for the betterment of society

And I'm not even talking about war.

How many men in Japan went on a suicide mission to clean up the reactors in Fukushima

How many men went to work cleaning up Chernobyl knowing they would die?

How many firemen run into a burning building to save strangers?

How many women risk their lives to do anything? They just stand outside a burning building screaming, "Somebody save my baby"

A man I once knew had a burnt face because as a baby his mother ran out of a burning house and left him as a 5 year old in the same room she ran from.

I cringe when I hear women say they don't need a man. I just wish men would go on a 1 week strike every year and do absolutely nothing. No work, TV nor buying, etc.

If Women Claim They Can Multitask, Then Why...

Women are incapable of juggling a career and a relationship at the same time, yet they say that they can multitask. Men have juggled their families and careers for meliniae.

Her Self-Control Is Only for Her Employer

I dated a Director of Marketing for a large international cosmetics company, where she had worked for 12 years.

We spent weekends together, and from time to time, she experienced what she called a "panic attack." Whenever this happened, I did my best to calm her down, asking what I could do to help and taking steps to alleviate her condition.

Over the course of eight months, she had six such episodes. Determined to help, I read books and consulted professionals to better understand her condition.

One day, I asked her how often she experienced these attacks at work, hoping to identify possible triggers. She told me, quite directly, that she had never had these episodes at work.

At that moment, I realized these "attacks" were likely contrived and deliberately staged, perhaps as a way to manipulate me for attention.

I saw an opportunity to exit this toxic situation. I told her, "Maybe I'm the trigger that causes these episodes."

Hearing this, she knew I was about to leave her, and almost immediately, another attack began. Seeing this unfold, I told her, "This confirms I'm no good for you," and I left her apartment.

When I arrived home, there was a message on my answering machine. Her friend informed me that the police had been called and that she had been admitted to Bellevue Hospital for observation.

The same friend called again, trying to convince me to return and help her. I replied, "What are you doing to help her?"

That was the last time I ever heard from her.

A woman will never;

1. Approach you. 2. Introduce herself to you. 3. Make the first move. 4. Open up with a "line". 5. Ask for a number. 6. Make the first call. 7. Suggest a date. 8. Set up a first date. 9. Initiate the first date. 10. Pick you up. 11. Hold open a door for you. 12. Buy you a gift. 13. Drive to the date. 14. Initiate conversations. 15. Maintain conversation. 16. Make you laugh. 17. Make you happy. 18. Pay for the date. 19. Drive you home. 20. Initiate the first kiss. 21. Initiate any communication after the first date. 22. Help you out. 23. Risk her life for you. 24. Protect you with her life. 25. Commit to you. 26. Buy you an engagement ring. 27. Get on one knee and propose marriage. 28. Pay for a wedding. 29. Buy you a house. 30. Buy you a car. 31. Buy you a wedding ring. 32. Initiate sex. 33. Perform better than your last 20 partners. 34. Work hard to support your expensive taste. 35. Work 2 and 3 jobs to support you.

But if you fail, in her eyes, any of the above things she will never do for you, she will initiate a new boyfriend (at that point she won't consider that cheating) initiate a divorce, take your home, kids, pension, 401 K, stock portfolio and force you to pay alimony, child support and the mortgage for the house she is living with your replacement as he tucks your kids in bed every night.

If you think she wronged you, remember this, you picked her, therefore you should have known that she was planning this for you. It's all your fault. You must have done something wrong, because she never is wrong.

In fact, she will initiate nothing with you except the divorce.

And you wonder why men are not begging to do that all over again.

Do you think that this has been done this way to break up families, confuse children and emasculate men and destroy their power?

Why Men Cheat vs. Why Women Cheat

Men cheat because, as the saying goes, there is one food that, when consumed, depletes a woman's sexual appetite by 99.99%: wedding cake.

Women cheat because they find a provider who supports them in every way. They often interpret "support" as an unconditional vow to stand by them no matter what they do. Once they have a supporter and provider, they may feel that this provider fails to deliver happiness, excitement, and drama—so they seek to create it themselves.

Private Support Group For Men Only Females are not allowed!

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TheXYGhost = The Missing Man

MGTOW = Men Going Their Own Way MGHOW = Men Going His Own Way

Men Going Their Own Way means men who choose their own lifestyle. Whether it is by being a PUA's (Pick Up Artists), MRA's (Mens' Rights Activists), MRM's (Men's Rights Movement), one of the various stages of MGTOW, or a man maintaining his own family, we are here to help in any way we can.

Men excel at finding solutions to problems and implementing help. This is why we helped women in our past only to receive the proverbial kick in the groin in return. Please use this group to ask questions of all the men here for any reason you see fit. Questions on your personal life, business, financial, car, whatever. We are men, and unlike women we invent, fix, improve and help others.

We are men becoming ghosts in the family. Men are being ejected from the families by Delilahs that are supported by the Philistines of our times (Police, Family Courts, Social Justice Warriors, etc.) These modern day Philistines are willing to do whatever Delilah demands.

We realize that women hate men and for the most part, we are OK with that. We do not hate women in return, we will leave you to your devices and go our own way.

When audiences of women all over the country, time and time again over the past 20 years give Lorena Bobbitt standing ovations for sexually mutilating an unarmed man in his sleep as an act of revenge, we know it's hatred in their hearts. Women like man hating lesbian Gloria Steinem glorifies abortion to the tune of 58 million unborn children since 1972 (Row vs Wade) Donna Hylton who spends 27 years in prison for beating, torturing, raping and killing a 62 year old man, speaks for women's rights.

This is Not "The He-Man Woman Haters Club" But We Don't Want Any Women.

"As iron sharpens iron, one man sharpens an other" Proverbs 27:17

Est. July 22, 2016

Proof That Men Are Sexy at Any Age

As sexy as 45 year old Tina Turner was back in the mid 1980's, no man in their 20's and 30's has ever drooled over her.

Sean Connery in his 60's had girls in their 20's, 30's and beyond who found him sexy.

I once talked to a 50 year old woman who said that when she was 16 she that 45 year old Ed Asner, who played Lou Grant on the 1970's TV show, The Mary Tyler Moore Show. Ed Asner was a short, frumpy, bald man. That woman said that she was turned on whenever Lou Grant yelled out for Mary

Can you imagine a 16 year old girl being attracted to a 45 year old, bald, short man. It happens.

Who Is Making Her Feel Safe Now?

Her: All I want is someone to make me feel safe.

TheXYGhost: Have you ever been safe in your life?

What or who has ever made you feel safe?

Will feeling safe mean you actually are safe?

What's threatening you at the moment?

Are you paranoid?

He Worked for 25 Years So She Can Save Her Money

After 25 years of marriage, she divorced him and had saved enough money to buy a house all in cash. He had to pay alimony because she made less than him.

There is "Our Money" and there is "My Money". She lived off her provider.

Don't be a provider!

Providers are servants.

Be a king and get treated well.

Dating Tip

Before you ask a girl on a date, ask her if she would go on a date with a man she does not like. If she says, "Yes", Don't ask her.

Men Are Just Intimidated by a Strong, Independent Woman Like Me

Men are not intimidated by women like you. That's a euphemism women like to use to manipulate others and themselves to feel superior to men. Men don't care about your success, you judge men by the power you think you have over him. You think you are superior to men that you out earn. They just walk away from you due to how you treat them. Then you pat yourself on the back by saying that men are intimidated by you.

#TheXYGhost

Detecting Emotional Thinking in Guys and Females

How to detect emotional thinking;

1) They constantly change the subject or they add non-relevant subjects to the conversation especially when they disagree with you..

2) They tend to speak incredibly fast, once triggered.

3) They constantly interrupt you in conversations once a trigger word or phrase is mentioned.

4) They have an accusatory tone. (In their mind they hear a statement then they manipulate it to the most negative version of that statement then they accuse that person for their own interpretation of that statement)

5) They constantly protect their provider (the government) or collective. Children and women protect their providers. When a woman protects the government over her husband, she is looking to divorce that husband soon.

When someone speaks bad about President Obama, The emotional thinking will say, "You hate him because he's black" When someone speaks out about what their ex-wife did to them, the emotional thinking will say, "You hate all women." (Both of the above are examples of 4 and 5)

6) They consistently use the phrase, "I feel...". Like, "I feel that you are not telling the truth." or "I feel that he is a jerk".

7) They justify their actions by manipulating facts or statistics

These are traits of children and women. Men need to transform from a child's emotional thinking to thinking logical. Young boys raised by single mothers never grow to become logical men.

Do Women Really Want Kings or Servants?

A subject proves his worthiness to royalty. Maybe I'm wrong but I'm not a servant that will invite a woman into my world the way she wants, how she wants when she wants and pay and provide for her every needs, wants and desires. Feminism made you females equal to men and its your turn to ask us out and entertain us properly or get turned down because you haven't proven yourselves worthy.

I have to ask you girls something; Do you want to walk around with a king or a servant? Its your choice. A servant serves and a king gets treated well. Its that simple.

Men can take rejection. Most men get rejected tens of thousands of times at work, in team sports, etc. We know its part of life. We know if we ask and get rejected, we are still OK with it. No is only a word to us. No real man preaches political correctness because we know that words can never harm us. It is the perception of women that men fear rejection because women fear rejection, this is why women throughout history almost never go after anything they really want. Men get the jobs they want because they go to 100's of interviews undaunted. You think a tiny "No" will shatter us? Its OK to think the way you want.

So what? We do not choose to communicate the way you want us to communicate. Tough. Again, men are not your servants.

If you want to dance, then dance and entertain us.

Compliments? Oh, OK, you look nice today. Well you had better put your best outfit together for us. If not, we don't connect. Maybe you need to re-think the jeans and business suits that looks so butch and un flattering. If men wanted to date a person in jeans, figure out the rest.

Men are not supposed to impress you or shower you with gifts at your doorstep. Get a servant for that. Men are taking charge but they are not taking charge the way you define it, by serving your needs, wants and desires.

I need to ask one final thing; how many years do you think you are entitled to full royal pampering? Because kids in their teens and 20's are dating. Why not you?

Trading Your Dysfunctional Family In for a New Dysfunctional One

I sit back and watch as my friends, neighbors and relatives get divorced because their wives think that happiness is provided to them from a provider. When these wives are unhappy, because they are not achieving anything, and blame the man for not handing them happiness on a silver platter, the remedy is divorce. That man watches helplessly as he pays through the nose for lawyers just to watch judges play GOD with his children's lives. Then helplessly he watches another man marrying his ex-wife and move in and is the dominant figure in his children's lives. Sadly, the only thing he does is marry another home wrecker that left her husband as he supports children that are not his as the real father of those children watches helplessly as he takes over another man's children.

I looked at my step father one day and told him, "you are not my father." As my mother insisted that he lay down the law on me. Coincidentally, his kids said the same thing to their surrogate father once he tried the same thing.

I vowed never to be a surrogate father nor let my children have one. The first part, I can control, the second is dependent of the prerogative of a woman, and that is to change her mind. ("But that is not all women" as all women say)

Men Are Disposable to Women

Women hate men. They only like a man's wealth. They have sh!tted on men all their lives and now when they have 2 or 3 kids from 2 or 3 men, 3 or 4 abortions, a slew of STDs now they want a man for the only purpose of fixing their things because they are too cheap to pay a man to fix stuff. They are too stupid to fix things. Once the item is fixed, they will dismiss you.

I have been single now for 23 years after my wife left, cheated, stole and lied to me. The female collective responds to this as;

1 - You picked the wrong one 2 - You let her steal from you 3 - You hate women

And the all time fave rate;

Not all women are like that.

To which I answer;

Not all bees sting! Not all alligators eat people. Not all bears attack.

Women hate men, and when I have been pointing that out for 40 years, they call me a woman hater