In An Email Thread I Received:

Anna : Remember that the next time you try to minimize or belittle a woman.

TheXYGhost : Women belittle themselves. Nobody needs to belittle women. They have invented nothing throughout time. They have built nothing throughout all of history. They have done nothing to improve mankind. If you hate men so much, get your car fixed by a female mechanic, get your plumbing repaired by a female plumber. Get your roof repaired by a female roofer. Get a job as a sewer worker. Join the military and get your legs blown off for your fellow countrymen. Get a job as a trucker. Become a sanitation worker you nasty, stinking, smelly, angry, ugly, fat, old, feminist, witch, that wants a man so bad you can't even taste it. You Bitch, Cunt, Slut, Skank, Vixen, Trollop, Harlot, Wench, Tramp, Whore, Hag, Floozy, Jezebel, Hussy, Vamp, Hoe, Shrew, Bimbo, She-Devil, Hooker, Heifer, Dame, Broad, Tart, Sleaze, Fem Fetale, Streetwalker, Strumpet, Skirt, Concubine, Witch, Succubus, Squeeze, Diva, THOT, Feminoid, Shetard, Sow

Women are Like Children

Women, just like children, need constant and never-ending attention when, where and how they want. When a child does not get what they want, a tantrum ensues, and the fully grown woman will throw her tantrum too. You can discipline a child with some harsh words and a punishment. But the adult female is more immune to those tactics and well above the law to hit you. She knows damn well you won't hit her and is proud of that. She will never learn right from wrong when she can manipulate and command a group of nearby servant males to come to her aid anytime, she wants, whether she is right or wrong. Police, judges and bystanders will come to her aid in no time at all. She feels vindicated because people running to her aid are proof that she is in the right.

A child needs toys and will not care where the money comes from as long as they get the toy that they will end up discarding in only a few days. The woman wants more expensive toys and will never work to get them. Her provider needs to get that.

The wedding day gives her all the attention they want on the silver platter they've desired. She is the center of attention. All eyes on her. Now, once you marry her, you need to, single handedly give her all the attention of the many that gave her before you got married.

But you can't stop there. If you do not give her all she desires, she has another attention grabber up her sleeve.

Divorce gives a woman everything she missed out on that day you married and much more. She gets to be viewed as a victim of a very bad man. She is sure that man is bad because she sees every single imperfection in him, but she will never see the imperfections in herself. She gets police, judges and lawyers to defeat the bad man. She gets to temporarily feel that she is in control and empowered to get others to serve her to destroy that bad man. She uses kids to get to see that man come back and beg for her, but he is only there to see his children. She has manipulated so many for so long that she manipulated herself to think that the man still wants her. She gets weekly payments for being married and to support his kids. But that money is going straight to her. His children are an ancillary thought in her mind.

Parasitic Relationship

Women could be as good as men or even better if they resort to finding a host they can call a "provider" and latch firmly on. They will feed off this host like a parasite while warding off any and all other potential feeders. When the man is drained of all his strength and emotion, she will walk away blaming and faulting him for allowing "letting" her to do such damage. He is deemed weak as she walks away, but not before she finds and secures yet another host to leach off like a tic. Once she is gone, vultures come and take the scraps. They act as of they care and pretend to nurture while their eyes are searching for more of your carcass to devour. When they are finished with you, you are poor, destitute and struggling to even breathe as you try to figure out what had happened.

Understanding The Dysfunctional Pseudo-Logic of Women

One day after work, I met up with a friend, his girlfriend and a few co-workers at a lounge. His girlfriend started to "educate" the men on the thought processes of women.

She started out by saying, "You men do not understand us women. You guys need to know that when a woman says 'No' it can mean, 'No' but it can also mean, 'Try harder'."

The men were a bit perplexed at this statement and started to ask her questions. They were eager to find out more but they, knowing who I was, kept an eye on me because they knew I would chime in on this subject.

I kept quiet until the questions died down. After all the questions were asked, I reached in my pocket and pulled out 5 - $100 bills and handed to her.

Not knowing what to say she looked at the others, looking for cues on how to react. She then asked, "What is that for?"

"Its for you. Take it.", I said.

She, sheepishly reached out and started to take the money. When she was about to touch it, I pulled back and said, "Why did you not tell me 'No', even if you meant 'No' or 'Try harder'?"

She almost stuttered when she said, "Well, there is no need for me to tell you 'No' or 'Try harder' that money has value."

"Exactly right", I said.

I told her that if I asked a girl on a date and if she said "No" and meant "No" then I will respect her wishes. I also told her that if I asked a girl on a date and she said "No" that was meant for me to try harder, then she has no respect for me and sees no value in my offer. I asked the group if they would ever order someone offering a gift to them to "Try harder. The group shook their heads in unison.

This is a key factor in understanding female dysfunctional pseudo-logic.

Another example of this disfunction is when I was in Miami and we were out in a nightclub with the boys. There was a younger guy in our troop that was an amazing dancer. He asked one girl to dance and he was turned down. With his tail between his legs he came over to me and told me that he wanted to dance but he got turned down. I looked towards the bar and saw 6 girls in a row nursing their drinks watching the dance floor. I told him to ask those girls to dance.

Puzzled, he asked, "What if they turn me down?"

I looked at him and said, "If one turns you down, ask the other."

I told him to keep asking until one says "Yes".

He then walked over to the first girl and asked her to dance. When she said, "No" he went to the next. By the third girl, he had a partner. The third girl got the hint that this guy would not ask a second time and she would miss an opportunity if she did not accept. They danced fantastic together. In fact, all the other girls that turned him down were upset and even jealous that he was getting compliments on the dance floor.

The most interesting part of this story is that, after a while, the first of the 6 girls that he asked came up to me and said, "Your friend is stupid"

I answered her with a short, "I know", because that would make it harder for her to say anything else. She wanted a lead-in like, "Why?" To make it easier to reply.

Frustrated, (Ha ha) she blurted out, "He only asked me once. I would have danced with him if he asked again."

I finished the conversation with, "I'll let him know he is stupid when he gets back."

This girl said, "No" but wanted him to try harder. She put the barrier in front of him to see how much this man desired her when he breaks that barrier. She wanted to be desired so much that he would break the block she put in his way.



Do you get it? Good!

I showed some examples how women place roadblocks (to herself) in front of a man to see if the man desires her so much that he would break the block she put in his way. She will use the word "No" to block you when she really means, "Try harder". This is not to say that all "No's" mean to "Try harder", some "No's" do actually mean "No" at her discretion which makes this situation pretty precarious to say the least.

Once you have identified this problem, you have a decision to make. You can nip it in the bud before blossoms. No matter what you do it will be there, but managing someone's innate subconscious impulses can be trying on ones patience. Either that or you can leave. No matter what you decide to do, identifying the problem is key and not knowing the problem can be costly.

As a teen you may have had a girl abruptly stop a make out session or interrupt the flow of a sexual encounter with the dreaded words, "Where is this relationship going?" No matter how you answer it at the time, she will become more and more frustrated because the roadblock she put between you prevented you from going after her. She asks what she doesn't want and gets mad when you comply.

In another story I wrote, (tinyurl.com/jma3egn) a girlfriend of mine was on the phone from the minute I arrived at her place, through dinner until after I went to bed. When I was asleep, thats when she attacked. From her perception, she was mad that her deliberate block from me to her (never ending phone conversations) was successful in stopping me to get to her.

When you ask a girl for her number or her name, (don't do that that is the wrong approach) her immediate response will almost always be, "Why?" In this case, questioning your request is the block. She is putting a rule in front of you that she wants you to break. This is how she unconsciously responds to block your approach.

A better approach to get her phone number is to offer her your smartphone, already in dial mode and tell her to dial her number. She may perceive asking as begging and a direct order as evidence of confidence. She may still say "No" or ask "Why" but if you insist without showing any anger or frustration, she may give in. Bear in mind that she may say "No" and mean it. Make sure when you do this, you have a good phone case, she may even drop your phone.

I know many of you have heard the phrase, "I want a man that knows what he wants." To you or me that statement sounds stupid. Any 6 year old knows what they want. They want a pony and live in a castle. What women should say is, "I want a man that knows what he wants from me no matter how much I try to stop him." To her, a man who knows what he wants despite the roadblocks she puts up in front of him and taking her, is "putting her in her place." Which is another phrase a girl might say. Can you see where this is going?

In all these cases a woman is using a lie or a manipulation, to get you to do what she expects of you, to correct her to for your purposes to her liking. She uses a lie to get you to show how much you desire her, whenever she sees fit that will meet her approval. This video (goo.gl/ERF5c2) is a girl explaining it as best a girl can.

So if you are about to go out on with a girl and she gives you a hard time at the last minute, thats a block. The thing you can do is keep in focus and be firm about going out while ignoring her complaints, without being angry or frustrated. You can not cater and nurture this behavior or it will get worse. Do not give in to her lies and manipulation.

There is a whole lot more of this in Part 3 that will explain;

why women leave men why the like criminals why they take kids away from men and say that the father didn't love their own child

So, You Say Masculinity Is Toxic

43% of boys are raised by single moms.

78% of teachers are female.

50% of boys have 100%female influence and 80% female influence at school.

Toxic Masculinity is not the problem.

The lack of masculinity is.

She Decides Who Fathers Her Child

Women, and women only decide with which man they will procreate. They hold all the cards.

If she is with a man she deems undesirable (married or not) she may be on some sort of birth control while telling that man she can't have children. She may go as far as checking into a fertility clinic and even blame it on him. After all, its never her fault and the man to her is a place holder until the one she selects comes along to rescue her from that man.

If a woman agrees with her partner to wait a while to have children, she may skip out on taking birth control and get pregnant on her terms and not what was agreed upon. She has control again.

If you use a condom and do not flush the evidence immediately, she may insert the condom's contents when you are not looking.

If she gets pregnant, she may have an abortion without that man's knowledge or permission.

She needs no permission from her husband to abort their child, get her tubes tied or put their child up for adoption while the man needs consent from the wife to have a vasectomy.

Another option she may look at is running off, hiding and never looking back or tell the man about her pregnancy.

How One Sided The Office Can Be

I was working in this large government agency in NYC in the computer lab with a female coworker. She was OK, maybe because I kept my distance from her.

We needed an assistant and hired a man that was just let go from Montclair State University. You see his previous manageress and part time tyrant called him useless every chance she had. I remember the first day he showed up for work in his tie and white shirt, I told him to dress down. The computer lab was in a remote building far away from anyone ever seeing us. The next day he showed up in khakis and a dress shirt. I insisted that he dress down further. After all I was in jeans and a teeshirt every day. By his third day he was wearing jeans.

I quickly knew that this job was way below his capabilities and told him so before the end of his first week. The look of shock on his face was a combination of "Is he going to fire me because I'm over qualified?" and "I never thought I was so valuable."

Needless to say we bonded instantly. He introduced me to an "Open Source" programming language and we would talk about relationships and our respective single moms. It was amazing how his psycho mom was so much like mine in many ways.

As luck would have it, a few short months later, my manager was fired by the project leader and upper management was upset that the project leader didn't hire a replacement before firing my manager. With a little quick thinking, the project manager said he did hire someone for my manager's job. Now my assistant became my manager.

I was OK with his new position, he had to dress the part and deal with the real idiots, the executives. He immediately apologized for his quick promotion and I laughed, congratulating him for doing a job I would have refused. Over the years we had a very great friend manager relationship. He politely did his job and I respected his position all while being friends.

Years went by and the project ended. I went my way and he went his. He ended up working for this technology firm starting salary $240,000 a year plus bonus and stock options. This was a far cry from useless his previous manager would have him believe.

The funny part of the story is that his previous manager in MSU got fired herself and moved back to Ohio where she is the assistant manager of a local supermarket.

He Believed His Female Manager and He Thought He Was Worthless

I was working in this large government agency in NYC in the computer lab with a female coworker. She was OK, maybe because I kept my distance from her.

We needed an assistant and hired a man that was just let go from Montclair State University. You see his previous manageress and part time tyrant called him useless every chance she had. I remember the first day he showed up for work in his tie and white shirt, I told him to dress down. The computer lab was in a remote building far away from anyone ever seeing us. The next day he showed up in khakis and a dress shirt. I insisted that he dress down further. After all I was in jeans and a teeshirt every day. By his third day he was wearing jeans.

I quickly knew that this job was way below his capabilities and told him so before the end of his first week. The look of shock on his face was a combination of "Is he going to fire me because I'm over qualified?" and "I never thought I was so valuable."

Needless to say we bonded instantly. He introduced me to an "Open Source" programming language and we would talk about relationships and our respective single moms. It was amazing how his psycho mom was so much like mine in many ways.

As luck would have it, a few short months later, my manager was fired by the project leader and upper management was upset that the project leader didn't hire a replacement before firing my manager. With a little quick thinking, the project manager said he did hire someone for my manager's job. Now my assistant became my manager.

I was OK with his new position, he had to dress the part and deal with the real idiots, the executives. He immediately apologized for his quick promotion and I laughed, congratulating him for doing a job I would have refused. Over the years we had a very great friend manager relationship. He politely did his job and I respected his position all while being friends.

Years went by and the project ended. I went my way and he went his. He ended up working for this technology firm starting salary $240,000 a year plus bonus and stock options. This was a far cry from useless his previous manager would have him believe.

The funny part of the story is that his previous manager in MSU got fired herself and moved back to Ohio where she is the assistant manager of a local supermarket.

With Regards to Bill Cosby

With regards to Bill Cosby's situation, I need to say that I have not followed this trial at all for two reasons;

1 - Bill Cosby has been around for many many years without incident.

2 - I know how women lie and manipulate to get others to overpower someone they don't like. In other words all the false rape allegations I have seen in my life leads me to believe that others have done this as well.

The boy who cried, "wolf" became the women who cry, "rape".

The Irony

Find an animal on the side of the road. Pick it up, clean it, and feed it. In return, it will be your best friend for life, always loyal and by your side. Its gratitude will be simple yet unwavering.

Help a man when he is down. Feed him, offer him shelter, and share your space with him. He will remember your kindness and be there for you whenever you need him. A bond forged through compassion will endure.

But find a girl who is insecure, scared, and broken. Lift her up, show her she is valuable, and help her see her true beauty. Yet, in the end, she may call you foolish for trusting her and laugh as she walks away.

Subtle Signs That She Blames Others

OK, we all know that there are many women out there that blame others of everything that goes wrong in their lives, and here is how you spot them. Just have a conversation with them and you will hear it.

Most men will say, "That comedian is funny" (an opinion based on his evaluation) or "I laughed my ass off" (a point of fact). Most women that you want to stay away from will take an accusatory stance, "He made me laugh". Although innocuous, she is accusing the comedian of making her laugh.

The difference is subtle, yet it is still there. "I was angry at him" versus "He made me angry"

Women Are Extremely Dependent on Men to Make Them Happy

I just read the introduction of a book called "Women's Infidelity" written by a woman, Michelle Langley. In her introduction she alludes that women are not happy and they look for external sources of happiness from their partners. When they don't find it in them, they look for another man to provide that happiness.

What are your thoughts?

Cheaters Are Deceivers

I was out with a bunch of politicians in a bar one night when one of them started to tell the whole group how dirty politics is. He stated how he was constantly cheating on his wife. He told us how his opponent found out and threatened to use that against him. To solve this issue, the man confessed all his infidelities to his wife.

He then stated to brag how many times he cheated and with who. Then he stated, "Everybody cheats."

I looked at him and told him that I have never cheated on a girlfriend or my wife. He looked at me in total disbelief and I had to reconfirm my point. Then he asked me how did I accomplish such an act.

I asked him a series of questions. I asked;

Did you want your mother to cheat on your father?

Did you want your father to cheat on your mother?

Do you want your wife to cheat on you?

Do you want your daughter to cheat on her husband once they get married?

Do you want your daughter's husband to cheat on her?

Do you want your son to cheat on his wife?

Do you want your son's wife to cheat on him?

To wit he answered, "No" to all.

I told him, "It's easy not to cheat, just don't do what you want other not to do."

I also told him that women love cheaters and they love married men, they are so easily blackmailed afterwards.

The Quintessential Feminist Woman of the Modern Age

My sister is the quintessential feminist woman of the modern age. She had 3 children from 3 different men divorcing them all while claiming that all the fathers were substance abusers. All of her boyfriends had some sort of drug addiction. From, cocaine, crack, alcohol and pills. She lived in government housing while renting out one room at market value. She collected welfare and child support payments from 3 men while she had under the books jobs. She instructs her female peers with ways to use the courts to collect as much as she thinks they can get.

Now that her kids have grown up, she bought herself a nice vacation home on the waterfront while maintaining her apartment in the projects. Where did she get the money?

I've Changed My Ways Because I Kept Hearing the Same Old Story Over and Over and Over Again

By the time I was in my mid 20's I started becoming tired of meeting women with their stories of cheating, abusive and substance abusive boyfriends while I was seeing in my life and the lives of my friends that their girlfriends and wives were cheating and leaving with claims of "Not Enough!"

Not enough attention

Not enough love

Not enough quality time

Not enough sex

Not enough money

When I persistently made the mistake of dating these women, (all women think their last boyfriends were abusive, so I was left with no real choice) I found myself in the same boat I was not doing enough as they sought out their next partner under the umbrella of protection and provisions, I supplied them.

But they were never at fault for cheating. Even in the eyes of other woman, I was the fault for picking them or not providing them enough and they were not even about to say that those women were at fault for seeking another man.

My solution: I do not pick any longer. Buy me gifts, shower me with attention, provide for me and I will tell you it's not enough.

He Knocked Out His Ex-Wife's New Boyfriend For Slapping His Daughter

The arrogance of some guys that proclaim that they are a better father than the man the woman kicked out. Who will be better for that man's child once he is kicked out for being imperfect?

I once witnessed a pissed off woman drive into a loading dock where her ex worked. She stormed out of her car leaving the child in the back seat and her new guy in the front. She walked over to the man and started yelling, screaming and hitting him. He was totally un-phased.

He was suing this woman for full custody because his daughter told him that mommy's boyfriend slapped her for saying something.

A minute or two went by and the boyfriend in the front seat got the courage to step out of the car to join in, the child followed and was upset at her mom and dad fighting. The daughter ran to her dad and her dad picked her up. By this time the mom backed off and that's when the boyfriend chimed in with his two cents.

The man, with his daughter in his arm, looked astonished.

In a loud voice that drowned out the sounds of the truck engines, he said, "Who the FUCK are you?"

Not caring for an answer, he turned to his daughter and said, "Is this the man that hit you?"

The girl nodded and with one punch he knocked the boyfriend out. Then he turned to his daughter and said, "I bet you he won't hit you any more."

The cops were called and the boyfriend regained consciousness. The boyfriend wanted to press charges but the man stated to the cops that the incident is all on camera and he will press charges on his ex if any charges are to be pressed. Then he told the cops why he hit the boyfriend, and the cops began telling the boyfriend, "Are you stupid? Hitting another man's kid?"

The boyfriend started to explain his actions to the cops telling them he was only just reprimanding the girl.

The cop looked at the boyfriend and told him, "I don't care! You do not hit anyone's kid! You understand?"

Like I said earlier, The arrogance of some guys that proclaim that they are a better father.

A Great Video Idea For You to Try

Here is an interesting question you should ask a female then post her reaction on video. If you do, add the hashtag #TheXYGhost

Here is the question:

Should a 25 year old go to prison for having sex with a 13 year old?

When the dust settles, ask, how many years should that woman be locked up?

Watch the look on her face.

The Pride She Has in Homewrecking Herself

I've ran into so many women in my life that have this sense of pride when they talk about their divorce or breakup. They almost always make it a point to hammer in the fact that they broke it off with their partner and not the other way around. They will continue on by saying that they do not want their partner back but their partner wants her back. From Middle School to High School to College to your neighborhood, your work place and beyond, they are all full of pride breaking up with some man.

I was talking to this girl about her ex-husband and in the middle of the story, I asked her why she divorced him, as it is almost always the case where the woman breaks up with the man. I could not believe my ears when she thanked me for noticing that she was the one that divorced him and not the other way around.

They Never Initiate Anything, Therefore They Have No Responsibility

In a chat session between a man and a girl, it seems that if you do not send them a question to answer, the conversation is over. It's almost like they don't know what to say or do after that. Are they waiting for another question to answer or are they just not interested? It never ceases to amaze me about how often this happens. Do women not know how to communicate or are they just lazy?

They, also never take the opportunity to initiate a conversation. Be it a phone call, email or text. In the rare cases that they do initiate a conversation, it's only to say, "Hi" and they wait for you to say something. If you reply only with a, "Hi" Back, most likely that's the end of the conversation.

Even back in the day when there was no internet, a girl would sit by the phone waiting for someone to call her. But when that call came in, she wasted no time to let the phone ring a few times before she answered it. Once she answers, she playsssss "hard to get"

None of the above applies if they are in need of your resources, then they have no problem telling you their problems so you initiate "Fix It Man" mode. Again, they never ask, they only state their problems.

I'm Sure You Men Heard These Words Before

Woman : Yes, you were a good provider, you gave me food to eat, clothes to wear, you helped me a great deal in my personal life and career. We had great times together, we went places and shared experiences together. You were so good to me in every way I can think of. Yes dear, you loved me. But that is not enough. I met another and I'm moving in with him today. I fell in love with him. It just happened. It was not my fault. I never planned it this way.

Remember, I still love you.

(I hope he buys this in case my new boyfriend does not work out)