To Single Women With Multiple Children From Different Fathers

• In high school, you dismissed your male classmates, chasing gang members, drug addicts, and drug dealers.

• In college, you continued to look down on your male peers, seeking out married men and other unreliable options.

• You placed men you did not like in the friend zone and rejected good men, claiming they were “too nice.”

• You married and divorced men not because of irreconcilable differences, but because you grew bored or magnified their flaws.

• You expected men to pursue you while you played hard to get, only to pressure them into commitment before ending the relationship yourself.

• You went out with men you did not even like, simply because they offered you dinner, a night out, or a vacation.

• You ended every relationship, whether boyfriend, engagement, or marriage, always finding a reason to walk away.

• You used the legal system, police, lawyers, and judges, to strip as much money as possible from the men you once promised to love “until death do us part.”

• You alienated your children from their father, the most important man in their lives.

Now, as your children grow older, you fantasize about Prince Charming rescuing you and funding the rest of your life, but you are left with only memories of men you never truly cared for.

You demand that every man invest in you from the very first date under the illusion of building a future, only to walk away once you have extracted what you wanted. Many men have invested in you, and you left them all. Now, you expect a man you have never met to provide you with luxuries for the rest of your life, while you offer no genuine interest in building a meaningful bond.

When a man judges your situation, multiple children from multiple fathers, you deflect with “Nobody’s perfect,” “Don’t judge me,” or “People make mistakes.” But did you not judge the men in your past for being less than perfect? Were you forgiving of their mistakes?

Do you truly want your daughters to follow in your footsteps, raising multiple children from multiple men?

Do you want your son’s children taken from him, forcing you to visit your grandchildren in another man’s home?