The Illusion of Powerlessness, Her Choices, Her Consequences

The average woman gets approached over a hundred times a month, online, at work, in public, on dating apps, in DMs, on the street. Men constantly throw compliments, attention, offers, and resources at her feet. From that endless stream of options, she gets to handpick who she gives her time, her body, and her future to.

She does not settle for an equal. She chooses the man who is better than her, more stable, more attractive, more successful. She targets the top tier man and then pressures him to marry her, because no man wakes up dreaming about signing a one sided lifelong contract that only benefits her. Men do not fantasize about weddings or commitment, they get dragged into it, manipulated by ultimatums, pregnancy traps, or emotional blackmail.

From the start, she holds every single card.She decides when to date. She decides who to sleep with. She decides whether to use birth control. She decides whether to take Plan B. She decides whether to have an abortion. She decides whether to keep the baby. She even decides whether the father gets to be in that child’s life at all. Family court will hand her the final say on everything, even if he is a great father. To the system, he is just an accessory to her decision.

And yet, when it all falls apart, when she is single with kids, broke, bitter, and alone, it is never her fault. It is always “he left,” “he changed,” or “men ain’t shit.” She had thousands of opportunities to get it right, thousands of men chasing her, and the power to vet, delay, protect, or abort. But when it blows up, she plays the victim.

She will claim she is powerless, but she had full reproductive control. She will claim men do not step up, but she picked the wrong men. She will claim she was tricked, but she controlled every single checkpoint from start to finish.

This is the modern scam, she has every choice, but accepts none of the blame.It is not that women are powerless, they are shielded from accountability. Empowered to choose, entitled to complain, and excused when their choices explode.

That is not oppression, that is unchecked power.