Regardless of her age, marital status, or social standing, a woman will not give her love to a man unless he surpasses her in status and income. She will expect him to take on even her most basic responsibilities without question. You will often hear her say, “He is not making me happy,” placing the entire weight of her happiness on his shoulders as if her emotional state is his lifelong assignment. She sees him as a provider by default and believes it is his duty to ensure her comfort, her lifestyle, and her sense of fulfillment. In her mind, a man’s primary purpose is to pay the bills for another full grown adult.
It does not matter if she has one child or several from previous relationships, she assumes any man stepping into her life should want to provide for them as if they were his own. In her mind, his main role is not to build a partnership but to financially support her and another man’s offspring without complaint.
When she finds such a man, she will often push for marriage, not out of deep love, but to secure a lifelong contract binding him to her needs. The moment he legally commits, the dynamic shifts. Affection can fade, appreciation can vanish, and her energy turns to highlighting his flaws, whether they exist or not. Divorce then becomes a profitable exit strategy, a way to cash out on the man she once claimed to cherish.
Any man who obeys her every demand is not, in her mind, a “real man.” The irony is that any man who refuses to be her personal provider gets branded with the exact same insult. In her world, a man only earns respect when he sacrifices himself entirely for her benefit, and even then, it is never enough.
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