Her : I'm a Queen! The Queen is the most powerful piece on the chessboard. TheXYGhost : Chess can be won without the Queen. The game is over once the King is dead! No Queen needed.
Friday, January 31, 2025
Women Complain That They Have a Hard Life
From the American Revolution to the present-day wars, men have died for our collective freedoms at a ratio of 1000 men for every 1 woman when the ratio between men and women in the military are 5000 men for every woman. When those ratios change to about 1 to 1, I'll look at women differently.
And don't give me that bullshit about men always wanting war. Maxine Waters, Hillary Clinton, Nancy Pelosi, Diane Feinstein, Barbara Boxer, Barbara Bush and even Laura Bush were all in for men to fight and die for our freedoms.
And don't give me that bullshit about men always wanting war. Maxine Waters, Hillary Clinton, Nancy Pelosi, Diane Feinstein, Barbara Boxer, Barbara Bush and even Laura Bush were all in for men to fight and die for our freedoms.
Thursday, January 30, 2025
TheXYGhost 099
60 Years of feminism and the best a woman can do is to go after a man's wealth and not create her own. TheXYGhost
What Girls Want
So, you are looking for a man that will kill or is willing to be killed to protect you?
You also want him to work hard and earn enough money to feed, clothe and shelter you as he showers you with gifts and pampers you.
He will be your provider and he must live up to his responsibilities to you. You will hold him responsible for your every want, need and desire. If you are not happy in your life, you hold no personal responsibilities for your own happiness, he is the provider and he needs to provide you happiness when, where are how you want it.
After a long hard day at work, you want that man to complete a list of things to be done around the house. You affectionately call it your "Honeydew List" (Honey Do List). This is all the things you want him to work on because you have no smarts to do them yourself. You were too busy getting a manicure, pedicure, a facial and a massage from his hard-earned money. You dare not spend the money you earned because you think that's unfair. Besides you want to see that man of yours to work non-stop.
While he is working on that list, after a hard day's work, you take his money and order out food because you do not dare touch dishes, pots or pans. That's sexist.
He will have to ask you permission to hang out with his buddies as you do as you please when you want. If he utters a single word about your night out, you label him "controlling" as you consult a lawyer while he is away.
If he cheats on you, (your definition for cheating is so broad that even being cordial to a waitress is cheating) you take his kids away from their father and collect alimony and child support that you will use on yourself to get prettied up to find a new dad for the kids you took from the father. The child support will support no kids.
If you cheat on him, it's his fault for not giving you enough of what you want from him. You always have sufficient justification for your actions. Now you get to sue him for half his current and future worthwhile you are with a new man that will be the new father to your kids because you are the one that assigns an arbitrary guy to be a father at your command.
You want some stranger to ask you for a date. Spend money on you, show you a great time. When he has done these enough times, you will pressure him to marry you. You want him to spend obscene amounts of money on a ring, wedding dress, and a wedding party until he is in debt to his eyeballs.
You want him to get down on one knee; like the subservient slave that you want him to be and beg to be your servant with an expensive bribe (Engagement ring) in his hand so that he can be your obedient servant.
I think I'll pass.
Find yet another subservient wimp that will serve your needs until you find another one with more resources to offer.
I'll be my own boss.
I'll live my own life.
You also want him to work hard and earn enough money to feed, clothe and shelter you as he showers you with gifts and pampers you.
He will be your provider and he must live up to his responsibilities to you. You will hold him responsible for your every want, need and desire. If you are not happy in your life, you hold no personal responsibilities for your own happiness, he is the provider and he needs to provide you happiness when, where are how you want it.
After a long hard day at work, you want that man to complete a list of things to be done around the house. You affectionately call it your "Honeydew List" (Honey Do List). This is all the things you want him to work on because you have no smarts to do them yourself. You were too busy getting a manicure, pedicure, a facial and a massage from his hard-earned money. You dare not spend the money you earned because you think that's unfair. Besides you want to see that man of yours to work non-stop.
While he is working on that list, after a hard day's work, you take his money and order out food because you do not dare touch dishes, pots or pans. That's sexist.
He will have to ask you permission to hang out with his buddies as you do as you please when you want. If he utters a single word about your night out, you label him "controlling" as you consult a lawyer while he is away.
If he cheats on you, (your definition for cheating is so broad that even being cordial to a waitress is cheating) you take his kids away from their father and collect alimony and child support that you will use on yourself to get prettied up to find a new dad for the kids you took from the father. The child support will support no kids.
If you cheat on him, it's his fault for not giving you enough of what you want from him. You always have sufficient justification for your actions. Now you get to sue him for half his current and future worthwhile you are with a new man that will be the new father to your kids because you are the one that assigns an arbitrary guy to be a father at your command.
You want some stranger to ask you for a date. Spend money on you, show you a great time. When he has done these enough times, you will pressure him to marry you. You want him to spend obscene amounts of money on a ring, wedding dress, and a wedding party until he is in debt to his eyeballs.
You want him to get down on one knee; like the subservient slave that you want him to be and beg to be your servant with an expensive bribe (Engagement ring) in his hand so that he can be your obedient servant.
I think I'll pass.
Find yet another subservient wimp that will serve your needs until you find another one with more resources to offer.
I'll be my own boss.
I'll live my own life.
Wednesday, January 29, 2025
Did She Love Him or His Money?
My neighbor's son got into a serious accident that left him permanently crippled and partially brain damaged. A girl "fell in love" with him for a long time until he won a huge amount of money in the lawsuit. Before that, she was pressuring the boy to marry her.
The father made his son sign over all his awards to himself and made himself his son's caretaker and guardian.
When the girl found that the father was the only one that was in charge of the money, the girl left as if the boy was poison. She never returned.
The father made his son sign over all his awards to himself and made himself his son's caretaker and guardian.
When the girl found that the father was the only one that was in charge of the money, the girl left as if the boy was poison. She never returned.
Tuesday, January 28, 2025
TheXYGhost 097
Your ex-boyfriend beat you, cheats on you and now he's in prison.
That's what Bad Boys do.
TheXYGhost
That's what Bad Boys do.
TheXYGhost
Women Hate Men
Women hate men to the point that they refuse to have them in their child's life. These women have children for the purpose of the child loving the mother. They place the burden on the child to love them and they do not want the child to love another. That is also the reason that women choose to divorce the father when the child starts to prefer the dad over the mom. Dads play with their children. Dads wrestle and make their child laugh, a feat that no mom has ever done.
Women hate men. They are taught that by the media, movies and commercials. This is part of the reason why there is an overwhelming number of single mothers in this country. 80% of divorces are initiated by women.
Women have hatred in their hearts for men because men could never live up to the ever-increasing standards they impose on men.
Women want a king and make him her servant. If he falls in line as a servant, she hates that he does what he is told. If he refuses to be her servant, he is labeled, "mean" and "abusive" the way a child calls its parents mean for not letting them eat candy all day.
A woman is a child protected by the state. They look for a person to provide for them the way a child wants the parents to provide.
They take the label of "provider" to mean that a man is to provide for her every want, need and desire whether they are real or imaginary. "I'm not happy" turns into "Provide me happiness on a silver platter, when, where and how I want it."
Women hate men. They are taught that by the media, movies and commercials. This is part of the reason why there is an overwhelming number of single mothers in this country. 80% of divorces are initiated by women.
Women have hatred in their hearts for men because men could never live up to the ever-increasing standards they impose on men.
Women want a king and make him her servant. If he falls in line as a servant, she hates that he does what he is told. If he refuses to be her servant, he is labeled, "mean" and "abusive" the way a child calls its parents mean for not letting them eat candy all day.
A woman is a child protected by the state. They look for a person to provide for them the way a child wants the parents to provide.
They take the label of "provider" to mean that a man is to provide for her every want, need and desire whether they are real or imaginary. "I'm not happy" turns into "Provide me happiness on a silver platter, when, where and how I want it."
Monday, January 27, 2025
Turn Her Down Fast and Hard
Her: What kind of work do you do?
TheXYGhost: Would you date a man that works at McDonald's?
Her: No!
TheXYGhost: Not even the CEO of McDonald's, Inc.?
Her: Well, that's a different story.
TheXYGhost: I am a French fry chef at a McDonald's now go and find your Prince Charming elsewhere. I'm not interested in broke people looking for money.
TheXYGhost: Would you date a man that works at McDonald's?
Her: No!
TheXYGhost: Not even the CEO of McDonald's, Inc.?
Her: Well, that's a different story.
TheXYGhost: I am a French fry chef at a McDonald's now go and find your Prince Charming elsewhere. I'm not interested in broke people looking for money.
Sunday, January 26, 2025
TheXYGhost 095
You're a single mom and he is a deadbeat dad?
I thought you liked the Bad Boys.
TheXYGhost
I thought you liked the Bad Boys.
TheXYGhost
This is What Women of Today Can Never Understand
Every man admires a Ferrari, but no man wants a Ferrari with 600,000 miles on the odometer no matter how shiny it looks.
I'm talking to you Mrs. I'm-50-years-old-but-I-look-30.
I'm talking to you Mrs. I'm-50-years-old-but-I-look-30.
Saturday, January 25, 2025
I Guess You Can Call Me a Feminist
I guess you can call me a feminist. I want to see men and women treated the same, equally. I want to see more men getting sole custody and child support payments. I want to see more female mechanics, firemen, sanitation workers, construction workers, painters, plasterers, drywall installers, plumbers, roofers, electricians, gardeners, pilots, maintenance workers, janitors, truck drivers, taxi drivers, bus drivers, train conductors, forklift operators, coal miners, oil riggers, etc.
Let's show support for women risking their lives to support their husbands and families with hard work.
Let's show support for women risking their lives to support their husbands and families with hard work.
Friday, January 24, 2025
TheXYGhost 093
The thing that irritates a woman most is to see her "provider" resting after 16 hours of work. To her, her "provider" needs to be working more.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
My Dating Profile
Oh, my goodness, I wrote this on October 6th, 2013 and I would post it on any dating site that someone insisted that I join.
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I sometimes wonder what people look for on a site like this. I have been happily divorced for about 13 years. Whenever somebody is not satisfied with my current state of Zen, they usually tell me to find myself a girl with whom I can settle. When they tell me of a new website to join, I join it.
When women divorce men, the general consensus is that the man must have done something wrong for the woman to have left. When a man divorces a woman, he is looked at as evil. Never is a woman wrong.
This was true even of my divorce. When I told people that my wife left me, they usually asked me what I did to make her leave. When I tell people that she cleaned out my bank accounts and maxed out my credit cards to furnish her new apartment that she moved in right away with her new boyfriend, they tell me it's my fault for trusting her. When I tell people that she lied to me about not being able to have children, and finding birth control pills hidden in the house after she left, they say it's my fault too for not searching the home for something hidden. When I tell people that my ex-wife lied, cheated, deceived and stole from me the reply is simple for the simple minded, it's my fault for picking her.
It is the current mindset that it is never a woman's fault. When was the last time you heard of a woman that had to leave the house and the kids to the man that worked so hard to pay for the house and all of the kids care? Never. In fact, quite the opposite happens. The woman is awarded the custody of the children, the house and weekly payments awarded to the kids that the woman uses for her own needs. Just to add an insult to an injury, a man in that position would have to pay the mortgage and the upkeep of a house while the woman that back stabbed the father of her children got the home.
When you say that women only want money, you will be attacked by women, telling you otherwise.
When I told a woman that I only attract the craziest women and that last year I received 6 marriage proposals. Her reply was quick. "You must be very rich." Mind you she never said that I was kind or very caring, she said that the only reason that women proposed marriage to me is because I may be rich.
I went on a date with one girl that told me the best business decision a woman can make is marrying the right man. Immediately asked for the check and paid the bill and left. I parted with the following words of advice. There are millionaires and billionaires in America, start with the billionaires and move your way to the millionaires when the billionaires do not like you.
I am so sick of these single moms in my neighborhood asking me to do something for them around the house only to find out it's their way of flirting with me. I hate it even more when they ask their kids if they would like it if I were their new father.
They divorced the father of their kids because the man was less than perfect. Funny, that is why my ex-wife left me. I guess I am less than perfect as well.
Women seem to hold their single parenthood like a badge of honor. I look at it this way; since 80% of the divorces are filed by women, and 90% of all divorces are for financial reasons. It is safe to say that she most likely filed the divorce papers on the most important man in her children's life for her perception of money problems.
My grandfather once told me; "Never complain about my efforts unless you can do better". My guess is that the women complaining about their man's efforts to earn a living can do better. Why don't they just do a better job?
When I was over at a friend's place, his mother, a very sweet lady, asked me if I was interested in a nice single woman. My friend interrupted his mother, because he knew my opinion. Later on, I found out that this woman wanted me to be introduced to a woman that had 5 children from 5 different restaurant owners. I really can't see myself in that situation. Like I really want to change my lifestyle to feed and clothe 5 children that are not mine and juggle visitation schedules with men I have never met. Not me.
Women seem to hate it when a man saves pictures of their ex-girlfriends. But living in a household with another man's children, you see the children every day and see the woman's ex-(fill in the blank) every other weekend for visitation.
My neighbor tried to tell me about her niece that was available. I wanted to hear more. After asking my neighbor a few choice questions, I found out the following; her niece was married and divorced 2 times with 2 children. The second child was from a man whom she had an affair with while married to number one. That was the reason for her first divorce. The second divorce came after lucky number two found out that both of her kids were not from her first husband.
One final question before I finish. Have you ever heard of a man (without a home of his own) marrying a woman with a home of her own? Have kids, then the man files for divorce then is awarded the home, the custody of the children and child support from the woman?
Now I can tell my friend that I joined this site that he recommended. Mission accomplished.
Did you even read the whole thing?
What is with some of you women? Did you really put a picture of you and your child on a dating site? Really? Did you ask them what they thought about it?
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I sometimes wonder what people look for on a site like this. I have been happily divorced for about 13 years. Whenever somebody is not satisfied with my current state of Zen, they usually tell me to find myself a girl with whom I can settle. When they tell me of a new website to join, I join it.
When women divorce men, the general consensus is that the man must have done something wrong for the woman to have left. When a man divorces a woman, he is looked at as evil. Never is a woman wrong.
This was true even of my divorce. When I told people that my wife left me, they usually asked me what I did to make her leave. When I tell people that she cleaned out my bank accounts and maxed out my credit cards to furnish her new apartment that she moved in right away with her new boyfriend, they tell me it's my fault for trusting her. When I tell people that she lied to me about not being able to have children, and finding birth control pills hidden in the house after she left, they say it's my fault too for not searching the home for something hidden. When I tell people that my ex-wife lied, cheated, deceived and stole from me the reply is simple for the simple minded, it's my fault for picking her.
It is the current mindset that it is never a woman's fault. When was the last time you heard of a woman that had to leave the house and the kids to the man that worked so hard to pay for the house and all of the kids care? Never. In fact, quite the opposite happens. The woman is awarded the custody of the children, the house and weekly payments awarded to the kids that the woman uses for her own needs. Just to add an insult to an injury, a man in that position would have to pay the mortgage and the upkeep of a house while the woman that back stabbed the father of her children got the home.
When you say that women only want money, you will be attacked by women, telling you otherwise.
When I told a woman that I only attract the craziest women and that last year I received 6 marriage proposals. Her reply was quick. "You must be very rich." Mind you she never said that I was kind or very caring, she said that the only reason that women proposed marriage to me is because I may be rich.
I went on a date with one girl that told me the best business decision a woman can make is marrying the right man. Immediately asked for the check and paid the bill and left. I parted with the following words of advice. There are millionaires and billionaires in America, start with the billionaires and move your way to the millionaires when the billionaires do not like you.
I am so sick of these single moms in my neighborhood asking me to do something for them around the house only to find out it's their way of flirting with me. I hate it even more when they ask their kids if they would like it if I were their new father.
They divorced the father of their kids because the man was less than perfect. Funny, that is why my ex-wife left me. I guess I am less than perfect as well.
Women seem to hold their single parenthood like a badge of honor. I look at it this way; since 80% of the divorces are filed by women, and 90% of all divorces are for financial reasons. It is safe to say that she most likely filed the divorce papers on the most important man in her children's life for her perception of money problems.
My grandfather once told me; "Never complain about my efforts unless you can do better". My guess is that the women complaining about their man's efforts to earn a living can do better. Why don't they just do a better job?
When I was over at a friend's place, his mother, a very sweet lady, asked me if I was interested in a nice single woman. My friend interrupted his mother, because he knew my opinion. Later on, I found out that this woman wanted me to be introduced to a woman that had 5 children from 5 different restaurant owners. I really can't see myself in that situation. Like I really want to change my lifestyle to feed and clothe 5 children that are not mine and juggle visitation schedules with men I have never met. Not me.
Women seem to hate it when a man saves pictures of their ex-girlfriends. But living in a household with another man's children, you see the children every day and see the woman's ex-(fill in the blank) every other weekend for visitation.
My neighbor tried to tell me about her niece that was available. I wanted to hear more. After asking my neighbor a few choice questions, I found out the following; her niece was married and divorced 2 times with 2 children. The second child was from a man whom she had an affair with while married to number one. That was the reason for her first divorce. The second divorce came after lucky number two found out that both of her kids were not from her first husband.
One final question before I finish. Have you ever heard of a man (without a home of his own) marrying a woman with a home of her own? Have kids, then the man files for divorce then is awarded the home, the custody of the children and child support from the woman?
Now I can tell my friend that I joined this site that he recommended. Mission accomplished.
Did you even read the whole thing?
What is with some of you women? Did you really put a picture of you and your child on a dating site? Really? Did you ask them what they thought about it?
Thursday, January 23, 2025
TheXYGhost 092
If a woman wants a man that will protect her with his life, she better show him what he would be fighting for. She should pay for the first date, because no woman would ever risk her life to protect a man.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Rules for Women
1. Don't make him responsible for your every want, need and desire.
2. Don't expect him to be your doctor, lawyer, psychiatrist and handyman all in one.
3. Don't go looking for his faults every second of the day. You have faults too.
4. You can take him out too.
5. The solutions to all your problems are not in another man when you find an imperfection in him.
6. Stop testing him, he is not a lab rat and you are not a scientist.
7. Treating him like he is your provider is dehumanizing. Strive to be equal partners.
8. Just because it is easy for you to cheat, does not mean that every text and picture on his phone is a cheating partner of his.
9. You can't change him from what he is to what you want. Change will come for you and him if you just sit back and enjoy.
10. Stop complaining. If something is not the way you want it, take the initiative.
11. The saying "The grass is greener on the other side", is a warning not a roadmap.
12. Know when enough is enough and when to stop. This goes for nagging, whining, crying, complaining and threatening to leave.
13. Do you really think that taking away his kids and living with a new guy that had his kids taken away is going to be less of a problem for you?
14. Threatening to leave him if he doesn't want to marry you only proves to him how little you love him and how inflated your ego is.
15. Nobody can make anyone happy.
16. He cannot read your mind.
17. Stop hinting. It is not the most efficient means of communication.
18. If you ask a question and he answers it directly, don't be sad that he didn't figure out what you really meant.
19. If you like "Bad Boys" it's your fault that he is in your life. Bad means bad.
20. Just because you hint at him, doesn't mean that you need to look deeper than his answer.
21. Manipulation is done via deceit. That is lying.
22. Having a "Plan B" is cheating.
23. Your best relationship is your first one; it's all downhill from there.
24. Treat him the way you want to be treated.
2. Don't expect him to be your doctor, lawyer, psychiatrist and handyman all in one.
3. Don't go looking for his faults every second of the day. You have faults too.
4. You can take him out too.
5. The solutions to all your problems are not in another man when you find an imperfection in him.
6. Stop testing him, he is not a lab rat and you are not a scientist.
7. Treating him like he is your provider is dehumanizing. Strive to be equal partners.
8. Just because it is easy for you to cheat, does not mean that every text and picture on his phone is a cheating partner of his.
9. You can't change him from what he is to what you want. Change will come for you and him if you just sit back and enjoy.
10. Stop complaining. If something is not the way you want it, take the initiative.
11. The saying "The grass is greener on the other side", is a warning not a roadmap.
12. Know when enough is enough and when to stop. This goes for nagging, whining, crying, complaining and threatening to leave.
13. Do you really think that taking away his kids and living with a new guy that had his kids taken away is going to be less of a problem for you?
14. Threatening to leave him if he doesn't want to marry you only proves to him how little you love him and how inflated your ego is.
15. Nobody can make anyone happy.
16. He cannot read your mind.
17. Stop hinting. It is not the most efficient means of communication.
18. If you ask a question and he answers it directly, don't be sad that he didn't figure out what you really meant.
19. If you like "Bad Boys" it's your fault that he is in your life. Bad means bad.
20. Just because you hint at him, doesn't mean that you need to look deeper than his answer.
21. Manipulation is done via deceit. That is lying.
22. Having a "Plan B" is cheating.
23. Your best relationship is your first one; it's all downhill from there.
24. Treat him the way you want to be treated.
Wednesday, January 22, 2025
TheXYGhost 091
Feminists are very confused; They want to be more masculine, instruct guys to be feminine and they wonder where all the good masculine men gone. Real men don't like masculine women, that's for sure.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Snow White and Sleeping Beauty Syndrome
To a woman, a good man is defined as a walking ATM machine that will pay for anything and everything she wants, needs and desires.
Sno White Syndrome: She wants an instant Prince Charming while she looks down at the little working men.
Sleeping Beauty Syndrome: She hides in the forest, away from the rest of the world waiting for Prince Charming to find her, kiss her, awaking from her slumber and change her life. She does not want to look for a man but she wants to be found.
Sno White Syndrome: She wants an instant Prince Charming while she looks down at the little working men.
Sleeping Beauty Syndrome: She hides in the forest, away from the rest of the world waiting for Prince Charming to find her, kiss her, awaking from her slumber and change her life. She does not want to look for a man but she wants to be found.
Tuesday, January 21, 2025
TheXYGhost 090
You have 3 kids from three guys and you tell me that I have commitment issues.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
My Grandfather During WWII
In the 1930's my grandfather came to America waving the American flag. He kissed the ground of his new homeland. He worked hard and studied to become an American citizen. He married an American woman and had two kids, my mother and my uncle.
When WWII broke out my grandfather volunteered to join the US Army. He left his wife and children behind to do his part for his adopted country.
By herself, my 8th grade educated grandmother took a few jobs as a maid and supported her family. There were no Food Stamps; there was no Welfare, no WIC, no housing projects or Section 8 housing.
For 2 years this went on, no telephones, a few letters as my grandfather never knew enough English to write a letter.
My grandmother held on to her family. She didn't complain that she didn't have enough attention from her husband. She never once complained that she didn't have a $10,000 Gucci purse.
Today, we see migrants entering this country illegally, with hatred and disdain in their hearts for the country of which they want to be a part. They burn our flag and wave the banner of the country they are fleeing. They demand welfare and housing from the government they despise.
The women of today praise the government for breaking up their family, demand free and subsidized housing, food and medication while financially destroying the most important man in their child's life. They switch their dependency from a man to the government and they shout out that it's not enough and they are empowered and independent.
When I tell this to today's woman, they dismiss all I have said with the phrase, "That was then."
Do you think that today's woman can do what my grandmother and other women did during a time of crisis? They will leave at the first sign of trouble to switch his child's father at the drop of a hat. Yet the women of today claim their independence and shout to the world how empowered they are.
When WWII broke out my grandfather volunteered to join the US Army. He left his wife and children behind to do his part for his adopted country.
By herself, my 8th grade educated grandmother took a few jobs as a maid and supported her family. There were no Food Stamps; there was no Welfare, no WIC, no housing projects or Section 8 housing.
For 2 years this went on, no telephones, a few letters as my grandfather never knew enough English to write a letter.
My grandmother held on to her family. She didn't complain that she didn't have enough attention from her husband. She never once complained that she didn't have a $10,000 Gucci purse.
Today, we see migrants entering this country illegally, with hatred and disdain in their hearts for the country of which they want to be a part. They burn our flag and wave the banner of the country they are fleeing. They demand welfare and housing from the government they despise.
The women of today praise the government for breaking up their family, demand free and subsidized housing, food and medication while financially destroying the most important man in their child's life. They switch their dependency from a man to the government and they shout out that it's not enough and they are empowered and independent.
When I tell this to today's woman, they dismiss all I have said with the phrase, "That was then."
Do you think that today's woman can do what my grandmother and other women did during a time of crisis? They will leave at the first sign of trouble to switch his child's father at the drop of a hat. Yet the women of today claim their independence and shout to the world how empowered they are.
Monday, January 20, 2025
TheXYGhost 089
If your girl wakes up early on a weekend, gives you a BJ before she leaves for "yoga class", she is not going to yoga, she is meeting another man.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
You Are Always a Bad Man
• If she hits you, you must have done something wrong; she hit you for a reason.
• If you hit her back, you are wrong as you should never hit a woman.
• If you divorce her, you did the wrong thing
• If she divorces you, she did it for a reason, you were bad.
• If she divorces you, takes your children away and takes you through the family court system for all your money, house, alimony and child support, then you really did her wrong.
• If she accuses you of rape, domestic violence or sexual harassment, you must be a bad man why would she lie about something like that.
• If she cries, "inequality", the world cries for and with her. When you cry foul, you get told to, "Man up" as if you are a crying whining boy.
According to the US Justice Department, every single crime has a false allegation rate of about 1 - 2% except for rape, domestic violence, sexual harassment and child abuse. Those have an up to 30% false allegation rate.
Face it; you are always a bad man.
• If you hit her back, you are wrong as you should never hit a woman.
• If you divorce her, you did the wrong thing
• If she divorces you, she did it for a reason, you were bad.
• If she divorces you, takes your children away and takes you through the family court system for all your money, house, alimony and child support, then you really did her wrong.
• If she accuses you of rape, domestic violence or sexual harassment, you must be a bad man why would she lie about something like that.
• If she cries, "inequality", the world cries for and with her. When you cry foul, you get told to, "Man up" as if you are a crying whining boy.
According to the US Justice Department, every single crime has a false allegation rate of about 1 - 2% except for rape, domestic violence, sexual harassment and child abuse. Those have an up to 30% false allegation rate.
Face it; you are always a bad man.
Sunday, January 19, 2025
TheXYGhost 088
I'm not afraid of a woman. I'm afraid of 10,000 simps and a society that is willing to take action on a one sided false accusation.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
You Divorced Her Because She Was Crazy
She tells everyone that she left you because you were abusive.
Now you found a new one that tells you that her ex was abusive and her ex said that she is crazy.
Wash, Rinse, Repeat
Solution: MGTOW
Now you found a new one that tells you that her ex was abusive and her ex said that she is crazy.
Wash, Rinse, Repeat
Solution: MGTOW
Saturday, January 18, 2025
TheXYGhost 087
Your biological clock is ticking and you want me to rush out and buy you a ring? Buy me a Corvette.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Top 10 Cruel Things Women Do To Men - TheXYGhost way
There was this article sent to me back in 2009.
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I read it and thought it was weak. Then I looked at the author and found out a woman wrote this. So, I decided to write my own article. I started writing it back then, but for some reason, I had to stop. This week, 8 years later, I finished my version of the article, finishing items #1 & #2 just now.
Top 10: Cruel Things Women Do to Men and How to Avoid Them.
10: They Don't Pick Up The Phone.
Girls relinquish their responsibilities when it comes to the initiation of relationships. They feel any action on their part is an act of desperation. Let's face it, when was the last time a girl took you out, asked for your contact information or even bought you a drink to get to know you? Even after the courtship is over and the wedding ring has been on for many years, girls will still complain that their husbands will not take them out as if they had no ability to go out on their own or even set up something for the man they claim to love. Some girls feel that returning a call is too much work putting towards the relationship start up. Barring the fact that you are some notable, wealthy individual, she will never initiate a conversation with you let alone ask you for your number. Although girls require men to take the initiative in the courtship process, they will label unwanted men desperate for taking the same action they expect from a man they desire. Girls have a much stronger need to be in a relationship than men because their principle needs are their personal security. A man around to protect her is a major step up to her security needs. Chances are that her grandmother, in the 1960's, burned her bra and raised her fists in solidarity along with Gloria Steinem, Jane Fonda and Billy Jean King to prove they are equal to men. There is no equality. Men are men and women are women and they will never be equal. With that in mind, if you happen to get a phone number from a girl, and that number happens to be real, treat all women equally. When you do call and get to the point of leaving a voicemail, leave only one message and one message only. At the end of that message, in a nice way, state that if she doesn't call back that it was good meeting her. After that call, never call her again! If you do call her again, she will then know that she means more to you than you mean to her. She may even label you a "Puppy dog" if you call a third and fourth time. Either case, it's a bad place to be if she thinks you need her more. You never ever give away a valuable prize cheaply. If she wants to earn the type of security that a man is capable of giving, she has to earn that prize. A man has the innate ability of sacrificing his own life to protect others. A long time ago, I was told that if you ask more than once, you are begging. Don't beg for the chance of giving away a million-dollar prize that is innate in you.
9: They Use Men for Free Drinks, Dinners and Nights Out.
This has always been true. Girls do this and you need to understand that. Girls use men to pay for this petty vice more blatantly than ever before. Some girls deliberately leave their homes without any cash in their pockets as insurance that they will not buy their own drinks. Never put yourself in the position that you have to buy a girl something she has yet to earn. Do not be her personal automatic teller machine. Do not be her sucker. Girls hate suckers yet they are great in making men their sucker for a day. Don't prove to her how big of a sucker you can be. You are not so desperate for a conversation that you have to pay someone to listen to you. In a bar situation, you should only approach girls with a drink in their hand when you have a drink in yours. If she finishes her drink quickly in order for you to pay for another one, ask her, "Is that the cost of talking to you?", and walk away. She may slap you, but read on how to deal with that. Maybe it would be better to just walk away without saying a word. I usually leave with this quote; "Now I see why you are a magnet to wimpy and desperate boys". My line of thought is that someone desperate for conversation will pay for someone to listen to them.
8: They Use Men As Placeholders
A placeholder needs to be explained. Since a girl's first priority is her self-security, she needs a man around her until she finds "the right one for her". Put simply, a placeholder is a man that she is with until she finds the man she wants. Girls usually do not leave their man until they have someone to go to. In some cases, that go-to place is their parents' place. You can avoid being a placeholder by making sure that she earns the abilities you possess that she needs. Show that you are not tolerant of nonsense. Even though she wrongly earmarks you for a placeholder, she will eventually see that she has to earn you as a prize and then she will respect you. There's more about that coming up.
7: They Emotionally Manipulate Men
This is as straightforward as I can get without a prescription; immune yourself from the most powerful weapon a woman has against you. Superman has his Kryptonite but unlike Superman, you can remove this deadly weapon from your life. Crying is emotional blackmail and girls can cry on command as easy as your uncle could fart on command when he told you as a child "Pull my finger". Girls get a lot of mileage from crying and they use it whenever and however they can against you. Unless your girl is physically hurt and injured, ignore all tears and get to the point at hand or excuse yourself away from her as fast as possible until the tears are gone. When she sees that you are not putting up with her nonsense, you win. Crying and other emotional tactics in her arsenal are a way that she regresses her behavior to resemble a helpless child. If a child gave you that look, pouted and cried, you are still going to say no to more candy.
6: They Use Violence
Men know that physical violence is the last resort of any confrontation. Girls on the other hand have never experienced the physical ramifications of their violent attack. Men won't hit back. Being a woman does not give you special rights to assault anyone whenever you want without repercussions. Men are told never to hit women under any circumstances but what is a man to do if his child is being attacked by a crazed woman? If you are hit by a girl that you know, stop everything and make a really big deal about her hitting you. Do not hit back but make it a really big deal and verbally reprimand her for doing that. There is no excuse for hitting and you have to show her that you are not playing games in this serious matter. Raise your voice and keep focused on the fact that she hit you and you are not taking it lying down. When a girlfriend of mine hit me a second time, I told her right then and there it was over. There is no excuse for hitting unless she is being attacked.
5: The Criticize Men in Public
This is one of the things girls do best. If you are in a public argument with a girl, you date, she will air out all of your most intimate secrets not related to the argument without any warning. She will attempt to make you feel as small and insecure as she possibly can. What she doesn't know is how she is showing all within earshot that she can't keep secrets and she can't be trusted. Let her know that she is no longer trustworthy and treat her as such. I would just walk away as if she didn't exist. Girls hate that you will not give them any attention.
4: They Don't Disclose Their Relationship Status
There are two reasons that a girl will not disclose their relationship status; one, it's none of your business and she just enjoys the conversation. If she accepts drinks from you and still does not disclose her status, that is a problem but you now know, after reading this article that you are not so desperate for someone to listen to you that you have to pay someone for drinks at a bar. The second reason is that they are playing the "available" card in the hopes that you are interested then you buy them a drink. Refer to item #9. The real problem resides when a girl that easily tells everyone she meets that she is attached, everyone except you. Is she lying to others to get rid of them or is she telling the truth and not revealing the truth to you? Does she have a placeholder that she labels a boyfriend to ward off unwanted men at her command and earmarks you as her next upgrade? This is a judgment call you have to make. A girl that will upgrade her placeholder to you will replace you too.
3: They Withhold Sex To Make A Point.
There is only one word for someone who uses sex for personal gain. Take it from there. There is nothing much you can do when you are financially obligated to her in the form of a marriage. If you get some for elsewhere, that is grounds for her to take everything you own. There are other ways to discourage a wife's behavior. Since she married you, she found something valuable about you, take that away from her. Two can play at that game. Take credit cards, jewelry, cars, whatever you bought her in the past. If your girlfriend does this to you, then you can take a walk and not tell her anything when you return. Let her imagination get the best of her.
2: They Test Men
Women will test men on a constant and never-ending bases until you put a stop to it right away. Tests come into play in a variety of different ways.
A. She accuses you of something so that you can be on the defensive as you explain to her what she will not take time to figure out on her own.
B. She will accuse you of not loving her, loving someone other than her, lying, cheating, etc. If you get one or more of these on a daily basis, you simply say, "If you think that I don't love you, then you must be doing something wrong, and now you must leave. Women hate when their man is defensive. To her it looks like you fear her.
C. She will flirt or talk about another man as if you should be jealous of this guy. Again, let her know that if she pointed out that you are not good enough, tell her to find a perfect man and leave you.
D. They start petty arguments to see how you deal with conflict. Again, kill cancer before it kills you.
Women can conjure up tests on the fly without rhyme or reason. Their feeble tests and outcomes are not scientific in nature and you are not a lab rat to be tested by an immature amateur scientist.
1: They Flirt To Inspire Jealousy
If there is one emotion that women obsess over all others is the one of jealousy. From my days in grade school, middle school, high school, college and into my 50's, the talks that women cackle to their gaggle of friends are of jealousy. They speak of jealousy as if jealousy from a man equates to love when, in fact, they hate when they are jealous.
For decades I have listened to women as they have professed how they want to "make him jealous" but I never heard them saying how much they want to make a man feel loved, comfortable, happy or proud. Jealousy is the feeling women prefer to invoke their men overall.
Jealousy is nothing but insecurity, anger and frustration and a woman loves when she has the power to invoke such emotions from the man, she so calls the one she loves. She will manipulate this emotion out of a man as if that man is her personal play toy. She will flirt and talk about other men until she gets what she wants. Like all things in this article, cut it off before it grows and consumes you. When you see her working overtime to force you to have the emotion, she demands of you, dismisses her and tells her that it's over.
Remember, never ever threaten or hit anyone that hasn't hit you first, especially not a woman, but always let the girl know that you are prepared to go to jail over her foolishness.
https://ift.tt/MZDg6XS
I read it and thought it was weak. Then I looked at the author and found out a woman wrote this. So, I decided to write my own article. I started writing it back then, but for some reason, I had to stop. This week, 8 years later, I finished my version of the article, finishing items #1 & #2 just now.
Top 10: Cruel Things Women Do to Men and How to Avoid Them.
10: They Don't Pick Up The Phone.
Girls relinquish their responsibilities when it comes to the initiation of relationships. They feel any action on their part is an act of desperation. Let's face it, when was the last time a girl took you out, asked for your contact information or even bought you a drink to get to know you? Even after the courtship is over and the wedding ring has been on for many years, girls will still complain that their husbands will not take them out as if they had no ability to go out on their own or even set up something for the man they claim to love. Some girls feel that returning a call is too much work putting towards the relationship start up. Barring the fact that you are some notable, wealthy individual, she will never initiate a conversation with you let alone ask you for your number. Although girls require men to take the initiative in the courtship process, they will label unwanted men desperate for taking the same action they expect from a man they desire. Girls have a much stronger need to be in a relationship than men because their principle needs are their personal security. A man around to protect her is a major step up to her security needs. Chances are that her grandmother, in the 1960's, burned her bra and raised her fists in solidarity along with Gloria Steinem, Jane Fonda and Billy Jean King to prove they are equal to men. There is no equality. Men are men and women are women and they will never be equal. With that in mind, if you happen to get a phone number from a girl, and that number happens to be real, treat all women equally. When you do call and get to the point of leaving a voicemail, leave only one message and one message only. At the end of that message, in a nice way, state that if she doesn't call back that it was good meeting her. After that call, never call her again! If you do call her again, she will then know that she means more to you than you mean to her. She may even label you a "Puppy dog" if you call a third and fourth time. Either case, it's a bad place to be if she thinks you need her more. You never ever give away a valuable prize cheaply. If she wants to earn the type of security that a man is capable of giving, she has to earn that prize. A man has the innate ability of sacrificing his own life to protect others. A long time ago, I was told that if you ask more than once, you are begging. Don't beg for the chance of giving away a million-dollar prize that is innate in you.
9: They Use Men for Free Drinks, Dinners and Nights Out.
This has always been true. Girls do this and you need to understand that. Girls use men to pay for this petty vice more blatantly than ever before. Some girls deliberately leave their homes without any cash in their pockets as insurance that they will not buy their own drinks. Never put yourself in the position that you have to buy a girl something she has yet to earn. Do not be her personal automatic teller machine. Do not be her sucker. Girls hate suckers yet they are great in making men their sucker for a day. Don't prove to her how big of a sucker you can be. You are not so desperate for a conversation that you have to pay someone to listen to you. In a bar situation, you should only approach girls with a drink in their hand when you have a drink in yours. If she finishes her drink quickly in order for you to pay for another one, ask her, "Is that the cost of talking to you?", and walk away. She may slap you, but read on how to deal with that. Maybe it would be better to just walk away without saying a word. I usually leave with this quote; "Now I see why you are a magnet to wimpy and desperate boys". My line of thought is that someone desperate for conversation will pay for someone to listen to them.
8: They Use Men As Placeholders
A placeholder needs to be explained. Since a girl's first priority is her self-security, she needs a man around her until she finds "the right one for her". Put simply, a placeholder is a man that she is with until she finds the man she wants. Girls usually do not leave their man until they have someone to go to. In some cases, that go-to place is their parents' place. You can avoid being a placeholder by making sure that she earns the abilities you possess that she needs. Show that you are not tolerant of nonsense. Even though she wrongly earmarks you for a placeholder, she will eventually see that she has to earn you as a prize and then she will respect you. There's more about that coming up.
7: They Emotionally Manipulate Men
This is as straightforward as I can get without a prescription; immune yourself from the most powerful weapon a woman has against you. Superman has his Kryptonite but unlike Superman, you can remove this deadly weapon from your life. Crying is emotional blackmail and girls can cry on command as easy as your uncle could fart on command when he told you as a child "Pull my finger". Girls get a lot of mileage from crying and they use it whenever and however they can against you. Unless your girl is physically hurt and injured, ignore all tears and get to the point at hand or excuse yourself away from her as fast as possible until the tears are gone. When she sees that you are not putting up with her nonsense, you win. Crying and other emotional tactics in her arsenal are a way that she regresses her behavior to resemble a helpless child. If a child gave you that look, pouted and cried, you are still going to say no to more candy.
6: They Use Violence
Men know that physical violence is the last resort of any confrontation. Girls on the other hand have never experienced the physical ramifications of their violent attack. Men won't hit back. Being a woman does not give you special rights to assault anyone whenever you want without repercussions. Men are told never to hit women under any circumstances but what is a man to do if his child is being attacked by a crazed woman? If you are hit by a girl that you know, stop everything and make a really big deal about her hitting you. Do not hit back but make it a really big deal and verbally reprimand her for doing that. There is no excuse for hitting and you have to show her that you are not playing games in this serious matter. Raise your voice and keep focused on the fact that she hit you and you are not taking it lying down. When a girlfriend of mine hit me a second time, I told her right then and there it was over. There is no excuse for hitting unless she is being attacked.
5: The Criticize Men in Public
This is one of the things girls do best. If you are in a public argument with a girl, you date, she will air out all of your most intimate secrets not related to the argument without any warning. She will attempt to make you feel as small and insecure as she possibly can. What she doesn't know is how she is showing all within earshot that she can't keep secrets and she can't be trusted. Let her know that she is no longer trustworthy and treat her as such. I would just walk away as if she didn't exist. Girls hate that you will not give them any attention.
4: They Don't Disclose Their Relationship Status
There are two reasons that a girl will not disclose their relationship status; one, it's none of your business and she just enjoys the conversation. If she accepts drinks from you and still does not disclose her status, that is a problem but you now know, after reading this article that you are not so desperate for someone to listen to you that you have to pay someone for drinks at a bar. The second reason is that they are playing the "available" card in the hopes that you are interested then you buy them a drink. Refer to item #9. The real problem resides when a girl that easily tells everyone she meets that she is attached, everyone except you. Is she lying to others to get rid of them or is she telling the truth and not revealing the truth to you? Does she have a placeholder that she labels a boyfriend to ward off unwanted men at her command and earmarks you as her next upgrade? This is a judgment call you have to make. A girl that will upgrade her placeholder to you will replace you too.
3: They Withhold Sex To Make A Point.
There is only one word for someone who uses sex for personal gain. Take it from there. There is nothing much you can do when you are financially obligated to her in the form of a marriage. If you get some for elsewhere, that is grounds for her to take everything you own. There are other ways to discourage a wife's behavior. Since she married you, she found something valuable about you, take that away from her. Two can play at that game. Take credit cards, jewelry, cars, whatever you bought her in the past. If your girlfriend does this to you, then you can take a walk and not tell her anything when you return. Let her imagination get the best of her.
2: They Test Men
Women will test men on a constant and never-ending bases until you put a stop to it right away. Tests come into play in a variety of different ways.
A. She accuses you of something so that you can be on the defensive as you explain to her what she will not take time to figure out on her own.
B. She will accuse you of not loving her, loving someone other than her, lying, cheating, etc. If you get one or more of these on a daily basis, you simply say, "If you think that I don't love you, then you must be doing something wrong, and now you must leave. Women hate when their man is defensive. To her it looks like you fear her.
C. She will flirt or talk about another man as if you should be jealous of this guy. Again, let her know that if she pointed out that you are not good enough, tell her to find a perfect man and leave you.
D. They start petty arguments to see how you deal with conflict. Again, kill cancer before it kills you.
Women can conjure up tests on the fly without rhyme or reason. Their feeble tests and outcomes are not scientific in nature and you are not a lab rat to be tested by an immature amateur scientist.
1: They Flirt To Inspire Jealousy
If there is one emotion that women obsess over all others is the one of jealousy. From my days in grade school, middle school, high school, college and into my 50's, the talks that women cackle to their gaggle of friends are of jealousy. They speak of jealousy as if jealousy from a man equates to love when, in fact, they hate when they are jealous.
For decades I have listened to women as they have professed how they want to "make him jealous" but I never heard them saying how much they want to make a man feel loved, comfortable, happy or proud. Jealousy is the feeling women prefer to invoke their men overall.
Jealousy is nothing but insecurity, anger and frustration and a woman loves when she has the power to invoke such emotions from the man, she so calls the one she loves. She will manipulate this emotion out of a man as if that man is her personal play toy. She will flirt and talk about other men until she gets what she wants. Like all things in this article, cut it off before it grows and consumes you. When you see her working overtime to force you to have the emotion, she demands of you, dismisses her and tells her that it's over.
Remember, never ever threaten or hit anyone that hasn't hit you first, especially not a woman, but always let the girl know that you are prepared to go to jail over her foolishness.
Friday, January 17, 2025
TheXYGhost 086
Within days, a woman will know every single one of your faults.
Within her lifetime, she will never see any of her own.
TheXYGhost
Within her lifetime, she will never see any of her own.
TheXYGhost
They Ask Me Why I'm A MGTOW
I am a 53-year-old man that was divorced in 2000 and considered myself luckier than most men in my position.
There is this one very important issue about false rape allegations that I can't get to the younger men quick enough.
I was a product of a "broken home" when my father went on his way and left my mother with two kids, my sister (age 5) and I (age 4). This is when the abuse began. In retrospect I saw that my mother manipulated men to do her will, this abuse from her was the reason my father left. It would be now harder for her with 2 kids in tow so we were in her way and she had to get rid of us. The beatings were severe to the point that a broomstick was broken over my back at age 5.
Side note: When I tell females about my mother breaking a broomstick over my back, the female collective responds every time that I must have been a very bad kid to be hit with a broomstick. I would stop and ask what a 5-year-old child would have to do for you to break a broomstick over their back.
By age 7 or so, I remember a morning news show warning of a rapist in the area. My mother slapped me hard and told me, "If you ever rape a woman, I will disown you." Her instruction to my sister was to scream "Rape" if she was in trouble with a man in the future.
Imagine, I do not even know the word "rape" and she is warning me against committing such a violent act. One day we were all sitting down to watch our favorite show, "Star Trek" (1968). In this one episode, "Shore Leave", a female member of the landing party was raped then it was revealed that the planet they landed on was fulfilling all of their fantasies. I questioned my mother asking why the girl was beaten and the others were given their fantasy. My mother told me that that woman wanted to be raped by Don Juan as my mother giggled. Now I was confused.
A number of months or maybe years went by when my mother was called into jury duty. Her case was an admitted prostitute claiming to be raped by some man; I remember my mother's talk on the phone with her friends stating that she did not believe the woman because she claimed that the man ripped her jeans and that jeans were not easily ripped from someone's body.
As I got older, about 16 - 17 years old, I remember having a very heated argument with my mother. When I was winning my argument on a logical level, I could see that my mother was getting more and more frustrated to the point she yelled, "Rape! Rape! Rape!", from the living room of our project apartment. I wasted no time to run out and not come back for a few days. Hell, I even spent the summer night in Central Park, in NYC.
As I was about 19 years old one of my friends called me to inform me that a girl, of who I had common friends, was spreading rumors that I broke into her apartment and raped her. My female friends, who never knew where I lived, were angry at me without even investigating the allegations. I left that group of friends as fast as I could.
In my early 20's I discovered myself further and enjoyed meeting new girls I liked and they seem to like me too. I kept things going until one morning when I woke up to the girl, I came home with looking at me in shock, as she told me that I raped her. When the night before was purely consensual. I kept a very strict policy of never telling anyone where I lived. I escaped with the skin of my teeth.
Over the years I have dated many girls that told me stories of a rapist attacking them. I can remember up to 5 girls of my past tell me that their step father molested them for many years. What surprised me in how they all mentioned their rape so casually and then they never called police. Yet these same girls that gave a pass for a violent criminal that raped them would not forgive a person that said something that pissed them off.
I finally got married in my mid 30's, and after 3 years of marriage, my wife told me one day out of the blue that the first time we had sex, that I raped her. "Where the hell did that come from?", I thought to myself. Did she mean to say that I raped her then she married me? A week later, she presented me my divorce papers when she had been working on for months before while being lovey dovey with me.
False rape allegations do exist and they are very serious. I have escaped 2 and experienced even more than my personal experience.
By the way, 7 years ago I reunited with my 80-year-old father and we enjoy each other's company, we even text each other on a regular basis.
P. S. I showed this letter to one of my friends and they told me that he never came across any girl that did any of that. Then he quickly remembered a time when he was driving in NYC in a brand-new sports car waiting for the light to change green. A woman opened his door and sat in the car and told him, "If you don't give me some money, I will scream, 'Rape!!'" When he finished that story, he recalled a time when his sister warned a boy on the phone that if he didn't stop calling her, she will call the police and claimed that he raped her.
There is this one very important issue about false rape allegations that I can't get to the younger men quick enough.
I was a product of a "broken home" when my father went on his way and left my mother with two kids, my sister (age 5) and I (age 4). This is when the abuse began. In retrospect I saw that my mother manipulated men to do her will, this abuse from her was the reason my father left. It would be now harder for her with 2 kids in tow so we were in her way and she had to get rid of us. The beatings were severe to the point that a broomstick was broken over my back at age 5.
Side note: When I tell females about my mother breaking a broomstick over my back, the female collective responds every time that I must have been a very bad kid to be hit with a broomstick. I would stop and ask what a 5-year-old child would have to do for you to break a broomstick over their back.
By age 7 or so, I remember a morning news show warning of a rapist in the area. My mother slapped me hard and told me, "If you ever rape a woman, I will disown you." Her instruction to my sister was to scream "Rape" if she was in trouble with a man in the future.
Imagine, I do not even know the word "rape" and she is warning me against committing such a violent act. One day we were all sitting down to watch our favorite show, "Star Trek" (1968). In this one episode, "Shore Leave", a female member of the landing party was raped then it was revealed that the planet they landed on was fulfilling all of their fantasies. I questioned my mother asking why the girl was beaten and the others were given their fantasy. My mother told me that that woman wanted to be raped by Don Juan as my mother giggled. Now I was confused.
A number of months or maybe years went by when my mother was called into jury duty. Her case was an admitted prostitute claiming to be raped by some man; I remember my mother's talk on the phone with her friends stating that she did not believe the woman because she claimed that the man ripped her jeans and that jeans were not easily ripped from someone's body.
As I got older, about 16 - 17 years old, I remember having a very heated argument with my mother. When I was winning my argument on a logical level, I could see that my mother was getting more and more frustrated to the point she yelled, "Rape! Rape! Rape!", from the living room of our project apartment. I wasted no time to run out and not come back for a few days. Hell, I even spent the summer night in Central Park, in NYC.
As I was about 19 years old one of my friends called me to inform me that a girl, of who I had common friends, was spreading rumors that I broke into her apartment and raped her. My female friends, who never knew where I lived, were angry at me without even investigating the allegations. I left that group of friends as fast as I could.
In my early 20's I discovered myself further and enjoyed meeting new girls I liked and they seem to like me too. I kept things going until one morning when I woke up to the girl, I came home with looking at me in shock, as she told me that I raped her. When the night before was purely consensual. I kept a very strict policy of never telling anyone where I lived. I escaped with the skin of my teeth.
Over the years I have dated many girls that told me stories of a rapist attacking them. I can remember up to 5 girls of my past tell me that their step father molested them for many years. What surprised me in how they all mentioned their rape so casually and then they never called police. Yet these same girls that gave a pass for a violent criminal that raped them would not forgive a person that said something that pissed them off.
I finally got married in my mid 30's, and after 3 years of marriage, my wife told me one day out of the blue that the first time we had sex, that I raped her. "Where the hell did that come from?", I thought to myself. Did she mean to say that I raped her then she married me? A week later, she presented me my divorce papers when she had been working on for months before while being lovey dovey with me.
False rape allegations do exist and they are very serious. I have escaped 2 and experienced even more than my personal experience.
By the way, 7 years ago I reunited with my 80-year-old father and we enjoy each other's company, we even text each other on a regular basis.
P. S. I showed this letter to one of my friends and they told me that he never came across any girl that did any of that. Then he quickly remembered a time when he was driving in NYC in a brand-new sports car waiting for the light to change green. A woman opened his door and sat in the car and told him, "If you don't give me some money, I will scream, 'Rape!!'" When he finished that story, he recalled a time when his sister warned a boy on the phone that if he didn't stop calling her, she will call the police and claimed that he raped her.
Thursday, January 16, 2025
TheXYGhost 085
Women use match.com, POF, eHarmony and Tinder to get free meals and home repairs.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Husbands and Wives Calling Private Investigators
When it comes to the point where a spouse feels the need to call a private investigator, both husbands and wives call for different reasons and get different reactions.
The wife would call the investigator to find dirt on her husband and will be pissed off if there is none.
The husband will hire a PI to see if there is any infidelity on the wife's part. He will be devastated if there is and relieved if there is not.
And they say men and women are equal.
The wife would call the investigator to find dirt on her husband and will be pissed off if there is none.
The husband will hire a PI to see if there is any infidelity on the wife's part. He will be devastated if there is and relieved if there is not.
And they say men and women are equal.
Wednesday, January 15, 2025
TheXYGhost 084
Her: You don't think I'm worth a dinner?
TheXYGhost : You are definitely worth a dinner, and nothing more.
TheXYGhost : You are definitely worth a dinner, and nothing more.
The Jealousy of Women Is Insane
From time-to-time previous girlfriends of mine found their way to my photo album, back in the day when photos were paper and displayed in a book. Nowadays pictures are stored on phones). They would question every photo I had with another female, even if I wasn't in the photo with them. Back in those days my hobby was photography and I had many photos. I would sometimes find certain photos of girls missing as they would take and destroy them and deny they ever did. I remember one time a girlfriend took a look at a group of pictures of my first cousin that was in a beauty pageant. She made sure she looked at my facial expressions when she asked me who that was in the picture in the hope of catching me in a lie. Those pictures were gone one day, maybe while I was asleep. It was then I found out how deep a woman's jealousy really is. They are jealous to the point where they will not tolerate an image, thought or the spoken word of another girl in Her Majesty's Holy presence.
I hear the same thing in modern times when a girl sneaks a peek at her boyfriend's phone as he enters his password or conveniently asks for his password for his phone when she tells him her phone's battery died. This is all to gain access to your photos for her scrutiny.
When a woman learns that you are working in an office with another woman, they will go nuts even if they do not show it right away. She may tell you to quit that job and find another, and if you say "no" she will find a way to swing on the monkey branch again to find your replacement. But before she leaves you, she will make sure you pay for her jealousy by breaking something of yours.
It seems so hypocritical that the same woman will think nothing about pushing her kids (a living, breathing existence of her former lover) on you to accept unconditionally with the promise that you will have to see the man's face in the child and the man himself every other weekend when he comes for his scheduled visitation. You will be labeled a cheater if you ever talked to your ex while you are with her but you are to tolerate her talking to the father of her kids.
I hear the same thing in modern times when a girl sneaks a peek at her boyfriend's phone as he enters his password or conveniently asks for his password for his phone when she tells him her phone's battery died. This is all to gain access to your photos for her scrutiny.
When a woman learns that you are working in an office with another woman, they will go nuts even if they do not show it right away. She may tell you to quit that job and find another, and if you say "no" she will find a way to swing on the monkey branch again to find your replacement. But before she leaves you, she will make sure you pay for her jealousy by breaking something of yours.
It seems so hypocritical that the same woman will think nothing about pushing her kids (a living, breathing existence of her former lover) on you to accept unconditionally with the promise that you will have to see the man's face in the child and the man himself every other weekend when he comes for his scheduled visitation. You will be labeled a cheater if you ever talked to your ex while you are with her but you are to tolerate her talking to the father of her kids.
Tuesday, January 14, 2025
TheXYGhost 083
You want me to get down on one knee, present you with an expensive ring, and beg to be your personal slave-provider?
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Who is Laughing Now?
In the mid-1990s, a psychiatrist friend of mine accused me of being a misogynist for pointing out how violent some women can be. He also claimed that I was the problem because I sought out women like the ones I had been involved with. Additionally, he said I surrounded myself with men who, like me, were attracted to problematic women.
He eventually ended our friendship and spread a host of lies about me to our mutual friends. He claimed that I beat my wife, advised him to buy stocks that went under, and even hit on his unattractive live-in partner, whom he refused to marry. Ironically, I later discovered that he had been hitting on my wife while I was married.
He also told people that I wrote a bad review of his book back when Amazon.com only sold books. Furthermore, he insisted I needed medication for my so-called neurotic ideas. That marked the end of our friendship.
Fuck You George Viddler
The Principles of Seduction: How to Get Another Person to Fall in Love With You by G. Clayton Viddler
https://ift.tt/4VZQzKW
He eventually ended our friendship and spread a host of lies about me to our mutual friends. He claimed that I beat my wife, advised him to buy stocks that went under, and even hit on his unattractive live-in partner, whom he refused to marry. Ironically, I later discovered that he had been hitting on my wife while I was married.
He also told people that I wrote a bad review of his book back when Amazon.com only sold books. Furthermore, he insisted I needed medication for my so-called neurotic ideas. That marked the end of our friendship.
Fuck You George Viddler
The Principles of Seduction: How to Get Another Person to Fall in Love With You by G. Clayton Viddler
https://ift.tt/4VZQzKW
Monday, January 13, 2025
TheXYGhost 082
The hardest thing for a woman to do is to admit she done anything wrong. She can point out everyone's problems except her own.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Gender Duality
1. When a man hits a woman, he is a bad man and he needs to pay the price for his actions.
2. When a woman hits a man, there must have been a reason she hit him. He is a bad man.
3. When a man cheats on a woman, he is a bad man, a dog.
4. When a woman cheats on a man, it is his fault for not initiating sex when she wants, how she wants, and as often as she wants.
5. If a woman gives birth to a child and it's not her boyfriend's or husband's, it's the man's fault because he didn't keep tabs on her, he didn't control her and he allowed it to happen. Also see #2
6. If a man divorces a woman and leaves his kids behind because she makes life difficult for him and the kids, he is the bad one, not only because he divorced her, it's because he picked the wrong person. Needless to say, he needs to pay her for life and he is mandated to pay child support for her use towards her luxury.
7. If a woman divorces a man, he is the bad one and he has to pay her for life and he is mandated to pay child support for her use towards her luxury.
8. If a woman takes a man's kids away from him, he must be the bad one. He has to pay. If he takes his kids away from her, he is a kidnapper and must be dealt with accordingly.
9. If a man opts out of a system that demonizes his every move, he is called a whiner, a crybaby and he need therapy. Society tells him that he must jump back in that same system to be 'happy' once again as if it was his personal duty and obligation to be responsible for another grown human being's every want, need and desire, when, where and how they desire.
2. When a woman hits a man, there must have been a reason she hit him. He is a bad man.
3. When a man cheats on a woman, he is a bad man, a dog.
4. When a woman cheats on a man, it is his fault for not initiating sex when she wants, how she wants, and as often as she wants.
5. If a woman gives birth to a child and it's not her boyfriend's or husband's, it's the man's fault because he didn't keep tabs on her, he didn't control her and he allowed it to happen. Also see #2
6. If a man divorces a woman and leaves his kids behind because she makes life difficult for him and the kids, he is the bad one, not only because he divorced her, it's because he picked the wrong person. Needless to say, he needs to pay her for life and he is mandated to pay child support for her use towards her luxury.
7. If a woman divorces a man, he is the bad one and he has to pay her for life and he is mandated to pay child support for her use towards her luxury.
8. If a woman takes a man's kids away from him, he must be the bad one. He has to pay. If he takes his kids away from her, he is a kidnapper and must be dealt with accordingly.
9. If a man opts out of a system that demonizes his every move, he is called a whiner, a crybaby and he need therapy. Society tells him that he must jump back in that same system to be 'happy' once again as if it was his personal duty and obligation to be responsible for another grown human being's every want, need and desire, when, where and how they desire.
Sunday, January 12, 2025
TheXYGhost 081
Her : What kind of work do you do?
TheXYGhost : I don't make enough money for you to love me.
TheXYGhost : I don't make enough money for you to love me.
If You Want to be Happy For the Rest of Your Life
If You Want to be Happy For the Rest of Your Life There is this song, by the 1950's R & B group The Coasters, called "Get An Ugly Girl to Marry You".
https://youtu.be/Y1ZJiBHh-Yw
(Partial Lyrics below)
I asked a girl what the song meant, and she told me that beautiful women are trouble and they tend to cheat. I then asked her if she was a cheater or if she ugly. She was in shock as she froze and had no clue how to answer.
If you want to be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So, for my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you
A pretty woman makes her husband look small And very often causes his downfall As soon as he married her and then she starts To do the things that will break his heart
But if you make an ugly woman your wife Ah you'll be happy for the rest of your life An ugly woman cooks meals on time She'll always give you peace of mind
If you want to be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So, for my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you
Don't let your friends say you have no taste Go ahead and marry anyway Though her face is ugly, her eyes don't match Take it from me, she's a better catch
If you want to be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So, for my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you
Say man! Hey baby! I saw your wife the other day! Yeah? Yeah, an' she's ugly! Yeah, she's ugly, but she sure can cook, baby!
Yeah, alright!
If you want to be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So, for my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you
https://youtu.be/Y1ZJiBHh-Yw
(Partial Lyrics below)
I asked a girl what the song meant, and she told me that beautiful women are trouble and they tend to cheat. I then asked her if she was a cheater or if she ugly. She was in shock as she froze and had no clue how to answer.
If you want to be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So, for my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you
A pretty woman makes her husband look small And very often causes his downfall As soon as he married her and then she starts To do the things that will break his heart
But if you make an ugly woman your wife Ah you'll be happy for the rest of your life An ugly woman cooks meals on time She'll always give you peace of mind
If you want to be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So, for my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you
Don't let your friends say you have no taste Go ahead and marry anyway Though her face is ugly, her eyes don't match Take it from me, she's a better catch
If you want to be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So, for my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you
Say man! Hey baby! I saw your wife the other day! Yeah? Yeah, an' she's ugly! Yeah, she's ugly, but she sure can cook, baby!
Yeah, alright!
If you want to be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So, for my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you
Saturday, January 11, 2025
TheXYGhost 080
Single moms; did you really wanted your mother to replace your dad when you were a child?
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Reunion With a Girl I liked When I was 16 Years Old
A girl that I once dated when I was 16 years old found me on Facebook some 35 years later. We met up and had dinner. She told me that her two kids that she had with an alcoholic, drug addicted thug she married in high school were doing fine. She also wanted to know if I was married. When I told her I was divorced, she was unhappy to find out I would never marry again. She tried to encourage me saying that I can correct the errors I made in that marriage to make my next marriage better.
It's always a man's fault.
It's always a man's fault.
Friday, January 10, 2025
TheXYGhost 079
Women never want a husband and a marriage.
They are only looking tor a wedding.
TheXYGhost
They are only looking tor a wedding.
TheXYGhost
Did Women Kill Chivalry? (A YouTube Commentary)
A promotional segment, disguised as a news story, aired on a local morning news program. It opened with a dating site survey claiming, "73% of single women say that chivalry is dead."
The host invited two women to discuss the topic.
On one side of the panel was Suzanne Venker, author of The Alpha Female's Guide to Men & Marriage, subtitled How Love Works. On the other side was Nigerian-born Professor Dr. Wendy Osefo of Johns Hopkins University, a Democratic strategist and a single mother, possibly because the father of her child did not meet her expectations and was removed from the home.
The panelists were presented with three scenarios:
1. A man picked up a woman for a date. He told her to get in the car because the door was unlocked. When she insisted that he open the car door for her, he drove off.
2. A man wrote a telegram to his bride-to-be in 1954. It read: "Darling, I shall be waiting for you at eight with a lifetime of expectancy. My heart will be coming with you down the aisle. May God be with us tonight as we pray we will always be with Him. Thank you for becoming my wife. My love forever yours, Henry."
The host invited two women to discuss the topic.
On one side of the panel was Suzanne Venker, author of The Alpha Female's Guide to Men & Marriage, subtitled How Love Works. On the other side was Nigerian-born Professor Dr. Wendy Osefo of Johns Hopkins University, a Democratic strategist and a single mother, possibly because the father of her child did not meet her expectations and was removed from the home.
The panelists were presented with three scenarios:
1. A man picked up a woman for a date. He told her to get in the car because the door was unlocked. When she insisted that he open the car door for her, he drove off.
2. A man wrote a telegram to his bride-to-be in 1954. It read: "Darling, I shall be waiting for you at eight with a lifetime of expectancy. My heart will be coming with you down the aisle. May God be with us tonight as we pray we will always be with Him. Thank you for becoming my wife. My love forever yours, Henry."
3. A social media post stating: "Chivalry is harmful for both men and women because it forces this idea that women need to be helped or saved by a stronger man and it takes away from a woman's agency."
Ms. Venker commented that after 40 years of feminists telling men that women don't need them and that men should let women be, men have gotten the message.
https://youtu.be/2IMKyIj0_oU
Her Royal Highness Dr. Wendy Osefo PhD (https://ift.tt/oDlCMFJ) has all the sheepskin she could muster from student loans but has no idea that she is a little whining baby that demands way too much. She said that women evolved and men have to "Rise to the occasion to meet where we are". Which means, "Rise to my ever-increasing level, the level that is based on my ever increasing, overinflated sense of her, misperceived worth".
First off, this telegram that you mentioned was from a man that loved his wife dearly. She was probably his first love. Which means his wife must have stayed with him through thick and thin. She stayed with him and allowed love to develop. She didn't go to the next guy because he didn't have a better car or a better paying income as seen in today's modern "independent" woman that is always on the lookout for a higher earning guy. Love does not happen instantly as today's modern woman demands. She wants instant love and instant security in the form of status and earnings while she pesters him for the "commitment". The woman in this telegram earned his love with kindness and care.
Today's woman wants a man to buy her gifts, pay her way, wine, dine and entertain her under the understanding that if you don't, she will divorce you and take it all. She wants you to spend, spend, and spend on her all the while she is saving her money for the jerk, she will love over you. She knows way too well that a man's innate abilities are to help and provide for his woman, except she thinks that is every man's job.
I wonder if she would tell her sons to rise to the levels of their girlfriends. Good luck.
By the way, holding a door open is not exclusively for men holding doors for women only. Holding a door open is, what used to be called, "politeness" and it means that the first one to the door holds it for the next. Men hold the door open for women and for men all the time and that is a sign of self-respect and honor. Make no mistake, many times women will go through a door with no regard for anyone behind her, man or women.
Ms. Venker commented that after 40 years of feminists telling men that women don't need them and that men should let women be, men have gotten the message.
https://youtu.be/2IMKyIj0_oU
Her Royal Highness Dr. Wendy Osefo PhD (https://ift.tt/oDlCMFJ) has all the sheepskin she could muster from student loans but has no idea that she is a little whining baby that demands way too much. She said that women evolved and men have to "Rise to the occasion to meet where we are". Which means, "Rise to my ever-increasing level, the level that is based on my ever increasing, overinflated sense of her, misperceived worth".
First off, this telegram that you mentioned was from a man that loved his wife dearly. She was probably his first love. Which means his wife must have stayed with him through thick and thin. She stayed with him and allowed love to develop. She didn't go to the next guy because he didn't have a better car or a better paying income as seen in today's modern "independent" woman that is always on the lookout for a higher earning guy. Love does not happen instantly as today's modern woman demands. She wants instant love and instant security in the form of status and earnings while she pesters him for the "commitment". The woman in this telegram earned his love with kindness and care.
Today's woman wants a man to buy her gifts, pay her way, wine, dine and entertain her under the understanding that if you don't, she will divorce you and take it all. She wants you to spend, spend, and spend on her all the while she is saving her money for the jerk, she will love over you. She knows way too well that a man's innate abilities are to help and provide for his woman, except she thinks that is every man's job.
I wonder if she would tell her sons to rise to the levels of their girlfriends. Good luck.
By the way, holding a door open is not exclusively for men holding doors for women only. Holding a door open is, what used to be called, "politeness" and it means that the first one to the door holds it for the next. Men hold the door open for women and for men all the time and that is a sign of self-respect and honor. Make no mistake, many times women will go through a door with no regard for anyone behind her, man or women.
Thursday, January 9, 2025
TheXYGhost 078
Her : When will you commit to me?
TheXYGhost : When will you show me you are worthy of a commitment?
TheXYGhost : When will you show me you are worthy of a commitment?
The Gillette Ad and More
To all of those who do not understand why so many men and women are against the Gillette ad.
This is not just about the one ad. It is a combination of strategically targeted attacks against men and boys in general. Here is a list of ONLY Australian events.
1. An Australian wide, government funded, feminist led Domestic Violence awareness campaign targeting only male perpetrators.
2. Petitioning of men's awareness films such as The Red Pill to shut down screenings and threats of violence made if failure to comply.
3. Push from feminist groups to rename Father's Day 'special person's day'.
4. Airline policy not allowing unsupervised children to sit next to men.
5. Duluth model of DV - only men can be perpetrators.
6. National campaign to end "violence against women".
7. Women standing up for male issues being targeted by feminists.
8. Women being "name called" by feminists for acknowledging male issues. Terms such as "internalized misogyny" are used. This implies that the women that support men's issues are trying to appeal sexually to men.
9. Women being labeled "gender traitors" for wanting to discuss men and women's issues.
10. Minister for women. No minister for men.
11. Julia Gillard and women's groups continue to try to remove shared parenting laws.
12. The ludicrous idea of male privilege.
13. Lisa Wilkinson on The Project openly being able to say "Men are the problem", without repercussion.
14. Advertising displaying men as the "dumb" dads.
15. Cafes have a "men's" tax to offset an imaginary gender wage gap.
16. Australian Army male recruiting ban in 2017.
17. Women's pink parking in shopping centers.
18. Feminists commentators are able to make statements of "kill all men", and "I bathe in male tears", whilst a male will lose his job for commenting on a woman's dress.
19. Female only superannuation top up (Retirement plan), paid for by men.
20. Men in universities have to take consent tests.
21. The fortnight gamer, who was attacked repeatedly by his partner (who has a history of violence) being painted as the abuser.
22. Men's rights march to raise awareness into male suicide and family court issues being counter protested (by feminists) and misrepresented in the media.
23. Men being abused in social media ever raising male issues online.
24. Consistent fabricated statements to stifle discussion on male issues, such as "derailing", "mansplaining" etc. etc.
25. #WhatAboutAry - only applies to men.
26. Man spreading!
27. Mansplaining!
28. Boys having to compete with genitalia, regardless of merit due to gender quotas.
29. Zero discussions into male workplace deaths.
30. Men's sheds being petitioned to be gender inclusive whilst female only gyms being protected.
31. Barbers being charged with discrimination on the grounds of gender.
32. Men being attacked and shamed for using "parents" rooms.
33. Fathers' discrimination in family court.
34. Sunrise, studio 10 and numerous other media outlets consistently releasing segments about women having it harder. Do you think men need to do this? Should men do that?
35. Next to zero discussion into male suicide.
36. No services for male domestic violence victims and no discussion in regards to it.
37. Zero male victims of DV funding.
38. No discussions into male health issues and 10% of the funding.
39. No media discussions on international men's day.
40. Discrimination awareness training in the workplace, focusing solely on women.
41. Gender wage gap, ignoring men on average working longer hours.
42. Consistent discussions on toxic masculinity, without discussing the inherent issues within femininity.
43. Politicians being able to call all men "morons and pigs", without ANY repercussions despite that same politician hypocritically going through a sexual discrimination case.
44. Domestic violence campaigns such as White Ribbon being able to go around to our schools telling boys to stand up in front of the class and swear an oath to the girls; however, the opposite is not reciprocated. This gives the boys the idea that they are inherently dangerous because they are boys.
45. Boys failing in school and university with nil discussions into how to resolve this.
46. Male victims of Domestic Violence (Such as the John Howard saga) being misrepresented as the perpetrator.
This continues every single day and Australia is tired of it.
If we cannot bring girls and boys up together, equally, and address each other's faults, then we will further divide our country and create more tension.
This feminist attack is dangerous and toxic.
Consistent subtle attacks then being gas lighted telling us we are imagining it.
This is not just about the one ad. It is a combination of strategically targeted attacks against men and boys in general. Here is a list of ONLY Australian events.
1. An Australian wide, government funded, feminist led Domestic Violence awareness campaign targeting only male perpetrators.
2. Petitioning of men's awareness films such as The Red Pill to shut down screenings and threats of violence made if failure to comply.
3. Push from feminist groups to rename Father's Day 'special person's day'.
4. Airline policy not allowing unsupervised children to sit next to men.
5. Duluth model of DV - only men can be perpetrators.
6. National campaign to end "violence against women".
7. Women standing up for male issues being targeted by feminists.
8. Women being "name called" by feminists for acknowledging male issues. Terms such as "internalized misogyny" are used. This implies that the women that support men's issues are trying to appeal sexually to men.
9. Women being labeled "gender traitors" for wanting to discuss men and women's issues.
10. Minister for women. No minister for men.
11. Julia Gillard and women's groups continue to try to remove shared parenting laws.
12. The ludicrous idea of male privilege.
13. Lisa Wilkinson on The Project openly being able to say "Men are the problem", without repercussion.
14. Advertising displaying men as the "dumb" dads.
15. Cafes have a "men's" tax to offset an imaginary gender wage gap.
16. Australian Army male recruiting ban in 2017.
17. Women's pink parking in shopping centers.
18. Feminists commentators are able to make statements of "kill all men", and "I bathe in male tears", whilst a male will lose his job for commenting on a woman's dress.
19. Female only superannuation top up (Retirement plan), paid for by men.
20. Men in universities have to take consent tests.
21. The fortnight gamer, who was attacked repeatedly by his partner (who has a history of violence) being painted as the abuser.
22. Men's rights march to raise awareness into male suicide and family court issues being counter protested (by feminists) and misrepresented in the media.
23. Men being abused in social media ever raising male issues online.
24. Consistent fabricated statements to stifle discussion on male issues, such as "derailing", "mansplaining" etc. etc.
25. #WhatAboutAry - only applies to men.
26. Man spreading!
27. Mansplaining!
28. Boys having to compete with genitalia, regardless of merit due to gender quotas.
29. Zero discussions into male workplace deaths.
30. Men's sheds being petitioned to be gender inclusive whilst female only gyms being protected.
31. Barbers being charged with discrimination on the grounds of gender.
32. Men being attacked and shamed for using "parents" rooms.
33. Fathers' discrimination in family court.
34. Sunrise, studio 10 and numerous other media outlets consistently releasing segments about women having it harder. Do you think men need to do this? Should men do that?
35. Next to zero discussion into male suicide.
36. No services for male domestic violence victims and no discussion in regards to it.
37. Zero male victims of DV funding.
38. No discussions into male health issues and 10% of the funding.
39. No media discussions on international men's day.
40. Discrimination awareness training in the workplace, focusing solely on women.
41. Gender wage gap, ignoring men on average working longer hours.
42. Consistent discussions on toxic masculinity, without discussing the inherent issues within femininity.
43. Politicians being able to call all men "morons and pigs", without ANY repercussions despite that same politician hypocritically going through a sexual discrimination case.
44. Domestic violence campaigns such as White Ribbon being able to go around to our schools telling boys to stand up in front of the class and swear an oath to the girls; however, the opposite is not reciprocated. This gives the boys the idea that they are inherently dangerous because they are boys.
45. Boys failing in school and university with nil discussions into how to resolve this.
46. Male victims of Domestic Violence (Such as the John Howard saga) being misrepresented as the perpetrator.
This continues every single day and Australia is tired of it.
If we cannot bring girls and boys up together, equally, and address each other's faults, then we will further divide our country and create more tension.
This feminist attack is dangerous and toxic.
Consistent subtle attacks then being gas lighted telling us we are imagining it.
Wednesday, January 8, 2025
TheXYGhost 077
Beyoncé : If you liked it then you should've put a ring on it.
TheXYGhost : No hymen, no diamond.
TheXYGhost : No hymen, no diamond.
When I was 16 Years Old
When I was 16 years old, I had a heated argument with my mom, I brushed past her to get away from her rage and she called the cops on me. She claimed that I beat her. With the help of my sister, by the next day all the kids in the neighborhood knew that I beat my mom.
When my sister and my mom fought and busted up the house, the television and all the dishes until those two were on the floor pulling each other's hair while punching each other violently in the face repeatedly. When I got home to see this, my sister ran out. My mom cried about how confused my sister was. She felt sorry for my sister who beat her.
Not a word was said to the kids in my neighborhood.
When my sister and my mom fought and busted up the house, the television and all the dishes until those two were on the floor pulling each other's hair while punching each other violently in the face repeatedly. When I got home to see this, my sister ran out. My mom cried about how confused my sister was. She felt sorry for my sister who beat her.
Not a word was said to the kids in my neighborhood.
Tuesday, January 7, 2025
Not All Women Are Like That #4
I made a general statement about women to a woman I know and like clockwork she protected the female collective by saying, "That's a generalization. Not all women are like that."
I responded with, "You're right. You got me. But, at least men like watching their favorite sports team."
She agreed by saying, "Yeah, that's true."
I immediately jumped in with, "But not all men. Not all. Not all men watch sports."
She corrected herself and said, "Yeah, you're right."
I continued with, "Men are good at fixing things, right?"
She agreed by saying, "Yeah."
Again I snapped with, "But not all men. Not all. Not all."
Now she started looking at me like I was crazy. She said, "OK"
Then I asked, her, "Do bees sting?"
Cautiously she said, "Yes."
I came back with, "But not all bees. Not all of them. Not all bees sting."
Her final statement made it clear to me I was talking to a woman. She said, "I don't get the point you're trying to make."
I just laughed.
I responded with, "You're right. You got me. But, at least men like watching their favorite sports team."
She agreed by saying, "Yeah, that's true."
I immediately jumped in with, "But not all men. Not all. Not all men watch sports."
She corrected herself and said, "Yeah, you're right."
I continued with, "Men are good at fixing things, right?"
She agreed by saying, "Yeah."
Again I snapped with, "But not all men. Not all. Not all."
Now she started looking at me like I was crazy. She said, "OK"
Then I asked, her, "Do bees sting?"
Cautiously she said, "Yes."
I came back with, "But not all bees. Not all of them. Not all bees sting."
Her final statement made it clear to me I was talking to a woman. She said, "I don't get the point you're trying to make."
I just laughed.
Monday, January 6, 2025
TheXYGhost 075
We are men! We burp, fart, scratch our balls and abuse our best friends.
Now Go Fuck Yourself. ..!.,
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Now Go Fuck Yourself. ..!.,
TheXYGhost
Not All Women Are Like That #3
Her: Not all girls are the same!
TheXYGhost: Good. I'll wait until some girl takes me out, buys me dinner and sweeps me off of my feet until she is ready to propose to me with a new car.
Her: That's never gonna happen.
TheXYGhost: Why? Because there are no girls will ever take the time, energy and money to pamper a man?
Her: You got that right!
TheXYGhost: So, what you are telling me is that all girls are the same.
TheXYGhost: Good. I'll wait until some girl takes me out, buys me dinner and sweeps me off of my feet until she is ready to propose to me with a new car.
Her: That's never gonna happen.
TheXYGhost: Why? Because there are no girls will ever take the time, energy and money to pamper a man?
Her: You got that right!
TheXYGhost: So, what you are telling me is that all girls are the same.
Sunday, January 5, 2025
TheXYGhost 074
Women, become a real feminist, just join the military without asking for female privileges.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Not All Women Are Like That #2
The female collective will constantly repeat this phrase whenever a man speaks about the terrible experience he had with a woman. Lets explore this.
Women want a man in her life who is:
Taller than her Stronger than her Smarter than her Faster than her Richer than her More dgrees than her More experienced than her
And whenever you speak negatively about women in general, They all speak out in unison.
"Not ALL women are like that!" "You hate women." "Who hurt you?" "You just pick the wrong women." "Where do you find these women?"
When you marry the above woman and have kids with her, she will divorce you and make your children fatherless because she imagines that she has surpassed your status. If she wins a lottery, her winnings will determine that your kids do not need you any longer.
Women want a man in her life who is:
Taller than her Stronger than her Smarter than her Faster than her Richer than her More dgrees than her More experienced than her
And whenever you speak negatively about women in general, They all speak out in unison.
"Not ALL women are like that!" "You hate women." "Who hurt you?" "You just pick the wrong women." "Where do you find these women?"
When you marry the above woman and have kids with her, she will divorce you and make your children fatherless because she imagines that she has surpassed your status. If she wins a lottery, her winnings will determine that your kids do not need you any longer.
Saturday, January 4, 2025
Not All Women Are Like That #1
If you talk about women, in front of women about how great they ALL are, not one woman will stop you. If you state that ALL women are beautiful, strong and intelligent, they will nod their heads in unison. If you state that ALL men are pigs, weak, cheaters and deadbeats, the women will not raise a voice to object.
BUT
If you state the fact that 80% of women are home wrecking their own family by initiating a divorce or breakup because they found a flaw in that man, you will watch the women jump out of hibernation and say these words.
"Not ALL women are like that!"
"You hate women."
"Who hurt you?"
"You just pick the wrong women."
"Where do you find these women?"
In an instant, the woman defends "The Female Collective" unceasingly at all costs to herself and others.
BUT
If you state the fact that 80% of women are home wrecking their own family by initiating a divorce or breakup because they found a flaw in that man, you will watch the women jump out of hibernation and say these words.
"Not ALL women are like that!"
"You hate women."
"Who hurt you?"
"You just pick the wrong women."
"Where do you find these women?"
In an instant, the woman defends "The Female Collective" unceasingly at all costs to herself and others.
Friday, January 3, 2025
So, You Say Masculinity Is Toxic
43% of boys are raised by single moms.
78% of teachers are female.
50% of boys have 100%female influence and 80% female influence at school.
Toxic Masculinity is not the problem.
The lack of masculinity is.
78% of teachers are female.
50% of boys have 100%female influence and 80% female influence at school.
Toxic Masculinity is not the problem.
The lack of masculinity is.
Thursday, January 2, 2025
TheXYGhost 071
Her: You are just afraid of commitments!
TheXYGhost : No. You are not worth my commitment.
TheXYGhost : No. You are not worth my commitment.
How And Why Women Pick Their Partners
Women will partner with those who will elevate their status; either by association or by contrasts.
Elevating by association:
• Most women of certain strength reject men they perceive are weaker than they are.
• If a woman is rich, she rejects men she perceives are less financially successful than she is.
• If a woman has a college degree, she rejects men with no degree.
• If a woman has 2 college degrees, she rejects men with less than two degrees.
• If a woman is tall, she rejects men that are shorter than her.
• A female bodybuilder will reject all men that are not at her level.
• A woman with a 140 IQ will reject men with lower IQ than herself.
• Women hate lesser men than her. She will kick a man out of her life once she sees that she can overtake that man.
• Whatever a woman thinks are her strength, she rejects men that are lesser than her strength.
• In short, if a poor woman marries a billionaire, she becomes a billionaire by association.
• Mind you, perception is the key here. If a man is smarter than a woman who perceives herself smarter, she will leave.
Elevating by contrast:
Imagine, if you will, all of the above scenarios with the woman deliberately picking men that were less than they were. When she does, she will hold those strengths over that man's head every chance she gets. This is also why she partners with the gangster, thug, criminal, substance abuser, ex-convict, gambler, sweet talker, liar, cheater, woman beater, jerk, married men, con artist, lazy idiot, and abuser. They love the bad boy that is weaker than a man.
The problem is women. Women are the ones that pick men and women are the first to divorce them.
Elevating by association:
• Most women of certain strength reject men they perceive are weaker than they are.
• If a woman is rich, she rejects men she perceives are less financially successful than she is.
• If a woman has a college degree, she rejects men with no degree.
• If a woman has 2 college degrees, she rejects men with less than two degrees.
• If a woman is tall, she rejects men that are shorter than her.
• A female bodybuilder will reject all men that are not at her level.
• A woman with a 140 IQ will reject men with lower IQ than herself.
• Women hate lesser men than her. She will kick a man out of her life once she sees that she can overtake that man.
• Whatever a woman thinks are her strength, she rejects men that are lesser than her strength.
• In short, if a poor woman marries a billionaire, she becomes a billionaire by association.
• Mind you, perception is the key here. If a man is smarter than a woman who perceives herself smarter, she will leave.
Elevating by contrast:
Imagine, if you will, all of the above scenarios with the woman deliberately picking men that were less than they were. When she does, she will hold those strengths over that man's head every chance she gets. This is also why she partners with the gangster, thug, criminal, substance abuser, ex-convict, gambler, sweet talker, liar, cheater, woman beater, jerk, married men, con artist, lazy idiot, and abuser. They love the bad boy that is weaker than a man.
The problem is women. Women are the ones that pick men and women are the first to divorce them.
Wednesday, January 1, 2025
Now A Word From Our Members
A Message from Our Members
It's important to remember: MGTOW is not an organization or political movement—it's a philosophy. At its core is the belief that men do not need women or a gynocentric society to determine their value. MGTOW men determine their worth through their own personal achievements, based on their lives and standards—not anyone else's.
MGTOW includes men of all races—Black, White, Asian, and Brown. It spans across political spectrums, from conservative to liberal, and includes followers of many different religions. Because of these cultural, racial, and societal differences, MGTOW members may disagree on various issues. However, all share the understanding that feminism, and everything derived from it, is harmful.
A central concept of MGTOW is "ghosting." At its simplest, this means being invisible. The most effective defense against narcissistic women who seek to manipulate and emotionally abuse you is to avoid them entirely. Feminists cannot attack what they cannot see.
The best way to avoid societal pressure to conform to gynocentric ideals is to remain invisible while focusing on your own life. Avoiding the worship of women is a core survival skill. Equally important is steering clear of men who engage in such behavior, whether they are traditional conservatives (tradcons), liberal "white knights," pickup artists (PUAs), or simply "thirsty simps."
We don't need protests, petitions, or advocacy. MGTOW simply requires stepping away from commitments to narcissistic, abusive, and manipulative women. Doing so allows us to focus on our own lives. Often, natural consequences for such women are far more effective than anything we could orchestrate.
Time is a non-renewable resource, and MGTOW understands this deeply. Our time should be spent on self-improvement and personal happiness—not wasted arguing with individuals who refuse to acknowledge the truth or take accountability for their own flaws. Political protests in the name of men's rights are rarely effective. It's far better to ghost and let nature take its course.
Instead, educate yourself. Read, learn new skills, or refine existing ones. Share your knowledge with other men. These actions strengthen the MGTOW community and set an example for others to follow.
MGTOW recognizes that avoiding the rigged systems of marriage, commitment, and the politics surrounding them draws criticism from gynocentric hypocrites. The best response is to ghost and disappear. After all, no one can attack what they cannot see.
You are not alone. The number of men embracing this philosophy grows daily, as more awaken to the reality that many modern women are unable to uphold the lifelong commitment of marriage—or even monogamous relationships.
MGTOW is a natural reaction to feminist policies. As long as these policies continue to discriminate against men, the movement will grow.
So, brothers, wherever you are and whatever you do in life, support one another. In times of crisis, ensure that those in need know they are not alone. Life after gynocentrism is not only possible—it's worth living. Ghosting, doing your own thing, and standing by your brothers is the best defense against gynocentric hypocrisy.
We are men. As such, we are strong enough to overcome any obstacle we set our minds to.
It's important to remember: MGTOW is not an organization or political movement—it's a philosophy. At its core is the belief that men do not need women or a gynocentric society to determine their value. MGTOW men determine their worth through their own personal achievements, based on their lives and standards—not anyone else's.
MGTOW includes men of all races—Black, White, Asian, and Brown. It spans across political spectrums, from conservative to liberal, and includes followers of many different religions. Because of these cultural, racial, and societal differences, MGTOW members may disagree on various issues. However, all share the understanding that feminism, and everything derived from it, is harmful.
A central concept of MGTOW is "ghosting." At its simplest, this means being invisible. The most effective defense against narcissistic women who seek to manipulate and emotionally abuse you is to avoid them entirely. Feminists cannot attack what they cannot see.
The best way to avoid societal pressure to conform to gynocentric ideals is to remain invisible while focusing on your own life. Avoiding the worship of women is a core survival skill. Equally important is steering clear of men who engage in such behavior, whether they are traditional conservatives (tradcons), liberal "white knights," pickup artists (PUAs), or simply "thirsty simps."
We don't need protests, petitions, or advocacy. MGTOW simply requires stepping away from commitments to narcissistic, abusive, and manipulative women. Doing so allows us to focus on our own lives. Often, natural consequences for such women are far more effective than anything we could orchestrate.
Time is a non-renewable resource, and MGTOW understands this deeply. Our time should be spent on self-improvement and personal happiness—not wasted arguing with individuals who refuse to acknowledge the truth or take accountability for their own flaws. Political protests in the name of men's rights are rarely effective. It's far better to ghost and let nature take its course.
Instead, educate yourself. Read, learn new skills, or refine existing ones. Share your knowledge with other men. These actions strengthen the MGTOW community and set an example for others to follow.
MGTOW recognizes that avoiding the rigged systems of marriage, commitment, and the politics surrounding them draws criticism from gynocentric hypocrites. The best response is to ghost and disappear. After all, no one can attack what they cannot see.
You are not alone. The number of men embracing this philosophy grows daily, as more awaken to the reality that many modern women are unable to uphold the lifelong commitment of marriage—or even monogamous relationships.
MGTOW is a natural reaction to feminist policies. As long as these policies continue to discriminate against men, the movement will grow.
So, brothers, wherever you are and whatever you do in life, support one another. In times of crisis, ensure that those in need know they are not alone. Life after gynocentrism is not only possible—it's worth living. Ghosting, doing your own thing, and standing by your brothers is the best defense against gynocentric hypocrisy.
We are men. As such, we are strong enough to overcome any obstacle we set our minds to.
Tuesday, December 31, 2024
TheXYGhost 069
Feminists just need to find themselves a feminized guy and be happy to boss him around.
TheXYGhost
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Feminism Taught Women to Partner With Bad Guys
Women love the gangster, thug, criminal, substance abuser, ex-convict, gambler, sweet talker, liar, cheater, woman beater, jerk, married men, con artist, lazy idiot, and abuser all in the name of feminism.
Feminism taught women that they were empowered and superior to men. Women took it so literally that they now pick a mate which they can be superior. Either that or women have this overwhelming urge to be rescued by some handsome prince with shining armor from the guy they chose. Either way, women will never get out from harm's way on their own.
They call these guys fixer uppers. Women want to fix them in their own image through manipulation and drama.
Feminism taught women that they were empowered and superior to men. Women took it so literally that they now pick a mate which they can be superior. Either that or women have this overwhelming urge to be rescued by some handsome prince with shining armor from the guy they chose. Either way, women will never get out from harm's way on their own.
They call these guys fixer uppers. Women want to fix them in their own image through manipulation and drama.
Monday, December 30, 2024
Think About This
Do you want to spend your time, efforts and money buying expensive dinners, gifts and entertainment for an entity that feels entitled to your efforts, just for the chance that this entity approves you to be her personal servant and financial slave?
Or do you want someone that will be on her toes trying to pamper your life ensuring that you will protect her on the time of need.
Or do you want someone that will be on her toes trying to pamper your life ensuring that you will protect her on the time of need.
Sunday, December 29, 2024
TheXYGhost 067
Her : I love you. I love you. I love you. I love him now.
TheXYGhost : Wash, Rinse Repeat.
TheXYGhost : Wash, Rinse Repeat.
Single Mothers - Living Proof That She is a Man Hater
Single Mothers - Living proof that she is a man hater and does not have a single forgiving bone in her body. It was always his fault, but it was never her fault for laying down with him. She hates the most important man in her child's life as she looks for a strange man that likes touching kids to replace the real dad.
If she says he was abusive, an ass kicking didn't fall from the sky for no reason or she likes bad boys.
If he was a substance abuser, chances are he was abusing in front of her all along and she likes the bad boys.
She should be shamed and ridiculed on every level, like they did once before. Now days they are praised and exulted and if she wants such praise, she will call a lawyer and divorce your ass without cause.
If she says he was abusive, an ass kicking didn't fall from the sky for no reason or she likes bad boys.
If he was a substance abuser, chances are he was abusing in front of her all along and she likes the bad boys.
She should be shamed and ridiculed on every level, like they did once before. Now days they are praised and exulted and if she wants such praise, she will call a lawyer and divorce your ass without cause.
Saturday, December 28, 2024
TheXYGhost 066
Women, the saying, "The grass is greener on the other side" is supposed to be a warning not a roadmap.
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Does This Remind You of Something?
What does this remind you about? "I love you!" "I love you!" "I love you!" "I love him now!" "It was not my fault!" "It just happened." "It was your fault." "You didn't do _________ enough." "You weren't _________ enough." "You always __________." "You never _________." "You didn't _________." "It was never meant to be."
Friday, December 27, 2024
TheXYGhost 065
Support Feminism! Take your car to a female mechanic, call a female plumber and hire a female electrician.
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Women Defined in Literature
For the lips of the adulterous woman drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil; but in the end she is bitter as gall, sharp as a double-edged sword. Her feet go down to death; her steps lead straight to the grave. Proverbs 5:3-5
For a prostitute can be had for a loaf of bread, but another man's wife preys on your very life. Proverbs 6:21
Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife. Proverbs 21:19
But I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God. 1 Corinthians 11:3
A woman should learn in quietness and full submission. 1 Timothy 2:11
I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; she must be quiet. 1 Timothy 2:12
And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner. 1 Timothy 2:14
I also want the women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, adorning themselves, not with elaborate hairstyles or gold or pearls or expensive clothes. 1 Timothy 2:9
Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. Titus 2:3
There is a good principle which created order, light, and man, and an evil principle which created chaos, darkness, and woman. Pythagoras (570-495 BC)
Women and people of low birth are very hard to deal with. If you are friendly with them, they get out of hand, and if you keep your distance, they resent it. Confucius (551-479 BC)
A firm bosom; sparkling eyes; a small mouth [...] are characteristics of a woman which are always praised. But when we neglect the surface, we find that the internal characteristics corresponding to these are hardness of heart, shifty eyes, a deceitful face, insecurity and cunning. When we bear in mind both the superficial and inward characteristics of a woman, we must declare that the one who should possess them can be dear only to the beasts of the field. The Vairagya Sataka
A woman talks to one man, looks at a second, and thinks of a third. The Sringa Sataka
By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you will be happy. If you get a bad one, you will be a philosopher. Socrates (470-399 BC)
O botheration take you all! How you (women) cajole and flatter. A hell it is to live with you; to live without, a hell. Aristophanes
There is no beast, no rush of fire, like woman so untamed. She calmly goes her way where even panthers would be shamed. Aristophanes
Woman is adept at getting money for herself and will not easily let herself be deceived; she understands deceit too well herself. Aristophanes
There is but one thing in the world worse than a shameless woman, and that's another woman. Thesmorphoriazusae
Women are accustomed to creep into dark places, and when dragged out into the light they will exert their utmost powers of resistance ... therefore, as I said before, in most places they will not endure to have the truth spoken without raising a tremendous outcry. Plato
One single thing I trust a woman saying. To other statements no attention paying: When I am dead, I won't return to grieve you. Till death takes place, in naught else I'll believe you. Antiphanes
What! When you court concealment, will you tell the matter to a woman? Just as well tell all the criers in the public squares! Tis hard to say which of them louder blares. Antiphanes
Cursed be the dart of love that works men pain! Cursed be the land where women rule supreme! And cursed the fool that bows to woman's sway! Jataka
There's no such thing as picking out the best woman: it's only a question of comparative badness. Titus Maccius Plautus
Amongst all the savage beasts none is found so harmful as woman. St John Chrysostom
It does not profit a man to marry. For what is a woman but an enemy of friendship, an inescapable punishment, a necessary evil, a natural temptation, a domestic danger, delectable mischief, a fault in nature, painted with beautiful colors? St John Chrysostom
The Prophet, said, 'I was shown. ' Hellfire, and when the majority of its inhabitants are women, they disbelieve. ' It was said, 'Do they disbelieve in God? ' He said. 'They disbelieve in marriage, and they disbelieve in benevolence. If you were to do good to one of them all the time and then she saw something from you, she would say, ‘I have never seen anything good from you.’ Muhammad
When the Prophet heard the news that the people of the Persia had made the daughter of Khosrau their Queen (ruler), he said, 'Nnever will succeed such a nation as makes a woman their ruler.' Muhammad
A man can be happy with any woman, as long as he does not love her. Oscar Wilde (The Portrait of Dorian Grey)
The great question that has never been answered, and which I have not yet been able to answer, despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, is 'What does a woman want? Sigmund Freud
You sometimes have to answer a woman according to her womanishness, just as you have to answer a fool according to his folly. George Bernard Shaw
Never ever ever, under any circumstances financially obligate yourself (marry) to an entity that will profit from exercising her natural born prerogative to change her mind. TheXYGhost
For a prostitute can be had for a loaf of bread, but another man's wife preys on your very life. Proverbs 6:21
Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife. Proverbs 21:19
But I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God. 1 Corinthians 11:3
A woman should learn in quietness and full submission. 1 Timothy 2:11
I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; she must be quiet. 1 Timothy 2:12
And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner. 1 Timothy 2:14
I also want the women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, adorning themselves, not with elaborate hairstyles or gold or pearls or expensive clothes. 1 Timothy 2:9
Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. Titus 2:3
There is a good principle which created order, light, and man, and an evil principle which created chaos, darkness, and woman. Pythagoras (570-495 BC)
Women and people of low birth are very hard to deal with. If you are friendly with them, they get out of hand, and if you keep your distance, they resent it. Confucius (551-479 BC)
A firm bosom; sparkling eyes; a small mouth [...] are characteristics of a woman which are always praised. But when we neglect the surface, we find that the internal characteristics corresponding to these are hardness of heart, shifty eyes, a deceitful face, insecurity and cunning. When we bear in mind both the superficial and inward characteristics of a woman, we must declare that the one who should possess them can be dear only to the beasts of the field. The Vairagya Sataka
A woman talks to one man, looks at a second, and thinks of a third. The Sringa Sataka
By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you will be happy. If you get a bad one, you will be a philosopher. Socrates (470-399 BC)
O botheration take you all! How you (women) cajole and flatter. A hell it is to live with you; to live without, a hell. Aristophanes
There is no beast, no rush of fire, like woman so untamed. She calmly goes her way where even panthers would be shamed. Aristophanes
Woman is adept at getting money for herself and will not easily let herself be deceived; she understands deceit too well herself. Aristophanes
There is but one thing in the world worse than a shameless woman, and that's another woman. Thesmorphoriazusae
Women are accustomed to creep into dark places, and when dragged out into the light they will exert their utmost powers of resistance ... therefore, as I said before, in most places they will not endure to have the truth spoken without raising a tremendous outcry. Plato
One single thing I trust a woman saying. To other statements no attention paying: When I am dead, I won't return to grieve you. Till death takes place, in naught else I'll believe you. Antiphanes
What! When you court concealment, will you tell the matter to a woman? Just as well tell all the criers in the public squares! Tis hard to say which of them louder blares. Antiphanes
Cursed be the dart of love that works men pain! Cursed be the land where women rule supreme! And cursed the fool that bows to woman's sway! Jataka
There's no such thing as picking out the best woman: it's only a question of comparative badness. Titus Maccius Plautus
Amongst all the savage beasts none is found so harmful as woman. St John Chrysostom
It does not profit a man to marry. For what is a woman but an enemy of friendship, an inescapable punishment, a necessary evil, a natural temptation, a domestic danger, delectable mischief, a fault in nature, painted with beautiful colors? St John Chrysostom
The Prophet, said, 'I was shown. ' Hellfire, and when the majority of its inhabitants are women, they disbelieve. ' It was said, 'Do they disbelieve in God? ' He said. 'They disbelieve in marriage, and they disbelieve in benevolence. If you were to do good to one of them all the time and then she saw something from you, she would say, ‘I have never seen anything good from you.’ Muhammad
When the Prophet heard the news that the people of the Persia had made the daughter of Khosrau their Queen (ruler), he said, 'Nnever will succeed such a nation as makes a woman their ruler.' Muhammad
A man can be happy with any woman, as long as he does not love her. Oscar Wilde (The Portrait of Dorian Grey)
The great question that has never been answered, and which I have not yet been able to answer, despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, is 'What does a woman want? Sigmund Freud
You sometimes have to answer a woman according to her womanishness, just as you have to answer a fool according to his folly. George Bernard Shaw
Never ever ever, under any circumstances financially obligate yourself (marry) to an entity that will profit from exercising her natural born prerogative to change her mind. TheXYGhost
Thursday, December 26, 2024
TheXYGhost 064
97% of ALL violent criminals were raised by a single mother.
80% of women initiate their divorce.
Do the math.
TheXYGhost
80% of women initiate their divorce.
Do the math.
TheXYGhost
The MGTOW Concept is Perfect
The MGTOW concept is perfect. It is all about Men Going Their Own Way. It's not about hating women or male supremacy. It has nothing to do with feminism, masculism, matriarchy, patriarchy, misogyny or misandry. If a woman wants to go along with me, then that would be OK. If she is an enhancement to my life, she is welcomed. If she wants to burden my life with her self-created problems and place them squarely on my shoulders, then off she goes.
Wednesday, December 25, 2024
I Can't Believe What Fabio Told Me
A number of years ago I was sitting at a bar in Caffe Roma in Beverly Hills, California (https://ift.tt/os48TH0) waiting for my friends to arrive. They were late again. After a while of sitting there nursing my drink, this well-dressed man with long blonde hair stood next to me. As it turned out, this gentleman was Fabio, Fabio Lanzoni! (https://ift.tt/l3D1R0s) Fabio, you know the Italian model that was on the cover of all those Harlequin Romance Novels (https://ift.tt/Wi3rTRh) and the famous "I Can't Believe It's Not Butter" ads. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xszIaNpYILY That Fabio! The icon of female desire.
Well, he and I began to talk, it was so surreal, and after a while I asked him if he was married. A very serious look came on his face as he looked at me and said with a tone that I would never forget.
"Do I look stupid to you?" he said.
He continued with, "Women are crazy."
Here I am sitting and talking with the one man that could attract any woman he wants by his looks and popularity yet he keeps women at arm's length and no more.
As you can see from the Wikipedia page (https://ift.tt/6rxz5d2) he was never married. If he won't get married, why should you?
By the way, congratulations go out to Fabio for becoming a US Citizen as of March 16, 2016. Welcome to our country, we are proud to have you.
Well, he and I began to talk, it was so surreal, and after a while I asked him if he was married. A very serious look came on his face as he looked at me and said with a tone that I would never forget.
"Do I look stupid to you?" he said.
He continued with, "Women are crazy."
Here I am sitting and talking with the one man that could attract any woman he wants by his looks and popularity yet he keeps women at arm's length and no more.
As you can see from the Wikipedia page (https://ift.tt/6rxz5d2) he was never married. If he won't get married, why should you?
By the way, congratulations go out to Fabio for becoming a US Citizen as of March 16, 2016. Welcome to our country, we are proud to have you.
Tuesday, December 24, 2024
TheXYGhost 062
Unconditional love means that she will love you under the condition that you provide for her every want, need and desire, until she finds someone better.
TheXYGhost
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Former Feminists Are Still Dictating
There are some antifeminist women out there claiming that they were old time feminists once before but now they see where feminism has gone wrong. They have seen what has become of feminism and they do not approve of its direction and accomplishments. These feminists rode the attention seeking highway promoting their vile spew and now they have switched sides. Now they are riding the attention seeking bandwagon of the antifeminist rant.
These nouveau antifeminists are denouncing their old feminist ways of the past 60 years, but see no real reason for societies reverting back to the old traditional archaic gender roles. In other words, women of the past didn't like the way things were going and expected everyone to change to their way and now some of these women realize their way was wrong but they want everyone to go another untested way that they have not decided upon yet, but reverting back to a proven ideology of "Leave People Alone, The World Will Not Go Your Way" is not good enough for them.
Where do you want to go? Do you want to go down a road that someone plans for you and see where it goes 60 years down the line? As for me, I am going my own way; I will not follow your way nor dictate where another should go.
These nouveau antifeminists are denouncing their old feminist ways of the past 60 years, but see no real reason for societies reverting back to the old traditional archaic gender roles. In other words, women of the past didn't like the way things were going and expected everyone to change to their way and now some of these women realize their way was wrong but they want everyone to go another untested way that they have not decided upon yet, but reverting back to a proven ideology of "Leave People Alone, The World Will Not Go Your Way" is not good enough for them.
Where do you want to go? Do you want to go down a road that someone plans for you and see where it goes 60 years down the line? As for me, I am going my own way; I will not follow your way nor dictate where another should go.
Monday, December 23, 2024
TheXYGhost 061
Ask a feminist if she wants to date a man that is her equal and watch her head explode.
TheXYGhost
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You Can't Compromise With Greedy and Selfish Women.
Feminism - A man freely gives an inch out of the kindness of his heart and she demands 10 miles or else she takes it all. If you give in, you are a sucker and if you don't, you are cheap and stingy. Meanwhile your friends tell you to compromise and meet her in the middle.
Never ever ever under any circumstances offer anything to an ungrateful woman.
Never ever ever under any circumstances offer anything to an ungrateful woman.
Sunday, December 22, 2024
A Married Woman and My Brother
I was visiting my dad's place on Halloween night when I heard the doorbell ring. I thought it was a bunch of Trick-or-Treaters so I answered the door with a bowl full of candy. To my surprise, I opened the door to find a girl in her late 20's to early 30's standing outside waiting with an envelope in her hands.
She told me that she lived down the road from me and that she had a "peace offering" for my son. I corrected her and told her I had no son but I did have brothers. She then told me that she was dating my brother and that there was a break up, that their relationship ended on a sour note. She handed me an envelope and asked that I give the envelope to my brother as her personal "peace offering" and that she was leaving the country tonight.
I took the envelope and ensured that it would get to my brother as soon as he gets back.
She left and I texted my brother, "Some girl stopped by dad's place to leave off a card as a piece offering. She is leaving town today and her mom lives down the block from dad. She thought that I was your father."
He texted back, "It's a married woman who is obsessed with me.
But thanks man"
I'm 32 years older than my younger brother and nobody in my family knows anything about my affiliation with MGTOW and alias as AKA John Stone. I guess he has the same troubles that I had.
She told me that she lived down the road from me and that she had a "peace offering" for my son. I corrected her and told her I had no son but I did have brothers. She then told me that she was dating my brother and that there was a break up, that their relationship ended on a sour note. She handed me an envelope and asked that I give the envelope to my brother as her personal "peace offering" and that she was leaving the country tonight.
I took the envelope and ensured that it would get to my brother as soon as he gets back.
She left and I texted my brother, "Some girl stopped by dad's place to leave off a card as a piece offering. She is leaving town today and her mom lives down the block from dad. She thought that I was your father."
He texted back, "It's a married woman who is obsessed with me.
But thanks man"
I'm 32 years older than my younger brother and nobody in my family knows anything about my affiliation with MGTOW and alias as AKA John Stone. I guess he has the same troubles that I had.
Saturday, December 21, 2024
TheXYGhost 059
You want a $150K ring to prove that I love you?
Where is your proof to me that you love me?
TheXYGhost
Where is your proof to me that you love me?
TheXYGhost
"That Girl Likes You"
So, after my divorce was over, and a number of months went by, I thought that going to a church for the first time was going to improve my odds in finding a decent girl with whom to share my life. I picked a church that was not near me; away from anyone I would ever know and attended services very quietly.
It wasn't long until a few gentlemen approached and welcomed me. They gave me tremendous support and sound logical advice and not a sermon. They invited me to bible study on Wednesday nights, pre and post sermon groups and events and they even invited me into their homes for other studies. They really reached out and open their hearts to me. I will always thank them.
One day, while I was working on setting up snacks for an after-sermon lecture, an older woman approached me and asked me my name. She introduced me to her other two friends, also elderly women. The first woman took me aside and asked me, confidentially, what kind of work I did. My guard was down and I never would have thought that she was sizing me up. So, I told her occupation and as soon as I was done, she became very excited! Huffing and puffing she said, "Oh! Oh! Oh! You're rich! This girl, Wilma, likes you."
I politely told her that I was not here for that, yet I started to think who this Wilma was, as I've never talked or never been introduced to a Wilma before. I would have remembered that name as it was the name of Fred Flintstone's wife in the cartoon series, we all know and love.
A few weeks past and the second of the two women pulled me aside to ask a few questions of me. Then she asked, "What kind of work do you do?" My guard was up a bit due to my experience before but I told her. Just like the first old woman, she exclaimed with excitement, "Ooow! You're rich! Did you know that Wilma likes you?" I could not believe it. It was like I was in the Twilight Zone. I told this woman that I was not here to be set up with anyone, and that I was fine the way I was.
The following week, the first woman told me to pray during the sermon to meet someone right after services and GOD would answer my prayers. I told her that I was not here to be set up with anyone now. She insisted that I should pray anyway so that GOD's will could be revealed to me.
I had to admit that during this whole time, I was wondering who this "Wilma" was. Over the weeks I sought her out without asking for her. I attended other groups and stood in the hallways seeking her out. Then I saw her. There she was! A very tall and elegant black woman that was very attractive.
I walked over to her to be near her in order to see if she would, at the very least, say something to me. After all, two ladies said that she liked me. Why would they lie? But nothing happened. Wilma had no idea who I was.
Later on, while I was preparing for a kids function at the church, the third old lady asked me what kind of work I did while others were listening. I thought to myself, "Oh no, here we go again." So, I told her my occupation. Just like a precision time piece, she said, "Ooooh, you're rich…" I cut her off before she could tell me about someone liking me, saying, "If I had 10 times the money of Bill Gates, I would not be as rich as Jesus Christ." The three women looked at each other with a puzzled look on their face. Needless to say, I was fed up with this nonsense.
The following Sunday I attended services and sat on the opposite side than usual. At the end of services there was announcements being made and the last of which was the engagement announcement of Wilma and Jacob. I whipped my neck around to look at the 3 old ladies. All 3 of them had sour looks on their faces. My assumption is that the three women did not approve of the lily-white Jacob getting together with that woman that was not white. They wanted me to be placed between them. I could be wrong, but who knows for sure. They never bothered me about Wilma liking me again.
It wasn't long until a few gentlemen approached and welcomed me. They gave me tremendous support and sound logical advice and not a sermon. They invited me to bible study on Wednesday nights, pre and post sermon groups and events and they even invited me into their homes for other studies. They really reached out and open their hearts to me. I will always thank them.
One day, while I was working on setting up snacks for an after-sermon lecture, an older woman approached me and asked me my name. She introduced me to her other two friends, also elderly women. The first woman took me aside and asked me, confidentially, what kind of work I did. My guard was down and I never would have thought that she was sizing me up. So, I told her occupation and as soon as I was done, she became very excited! Huffing and puffing she said, "Oh! Oh! Oh! You're rich! This girl, Wilma, likes you."
I politely told her that I was not here for that, yet I started to think who this Wilma was, as I've never talked or never been introduced to a Wilma before. I would have remembered that name as it was the name of Fred Flintstone's wife in the cartoon series, we all know and love.
A few weeks past and the second of the two women pulled me aside to ask a few questions of me. Then she asked, "What kind of work do you do?" My guard was up a bit due to my experience before but I told her. Just like the first old woman, she exclaimed with excitement, "Ooow! You're rich! Did you know that Wilma likes you?" I could not believe it. It was like I was in the Twilight Zone. I told this woman that I was not here to be set up with anyone, and that I was fine the way I was.
The following week, the first woman told me to pray during the sermon to meet someone right after services and GOD would answer my prayers. I told her that I was not here to be set up with anyone now. She insisted that I should pray anyway so that GOD's will could be revealed to me.
I had to admit that during this whole time, I was wondering who this "Wilma" was. Over the weeks I sought her out without asking for her. I attended other groups and stood in the hallways seeking her out. Then I saw her. There she was! A very tall and elegant black woman that was very attractive.
I walked over to her to be near her in order to see if she would, at the very least, say something to me. After all, two ladies said that she liked me. Why would they lie? But nothing happened. Wilma had no idea who I was.
Later on, while I was preparing for a kids function at the church, the third old lady asked me what kind of work I did while others were listening. I thought to myself, "Oh no, here we go again." So, I told her my occupation. Just like a precision time piece, she said, "Ooooh, you're rich…" I cut her off before she could tell me about someone liking me, saying, "If I had 10 times the money of Bill Gates, I would not be as rich as Jesus Christ." The three women looked at each other with a puzzled look on their face. Needless to say, I was fed up with this nonsense.
The following Sunday I attended services and sat on the opposite side than usual. At the end of services there was announcements being made and the last of which was the engagement announcement of Wilma and Jacob. I whipped my neck around to look at the 3 old ladies. All 3 of them had sour looks on their faces. My assumption is that the three women did not approve of the lily-white Jacob getting together with that woman that was not white. They wanted me to be placed between them. I could be wrong, but who knows for sure. They never bothered me about Wilma liking me again.
Friday, December 20, 2024
Women and Tipping
I've spoken with waiters, waitresses and cab drivers. They have all told me that men tip way better than women. The overwhelming number of tips in the hospitality sector comes from men. I know many New York City cab drivers that will avoid a woman to pick up a man because of this fact. The only time I've ever seen a woman tip well is if that woman was, at one time or another, a waitress herself.
Which of the sexes are greedy, stingy and selfish? Remember that when a female calls you cheap for not buying her the most expensive meal and wine on your first date.
Which of the sexes are greedy, stingy and selfish? Remember that when a female calls you cheap for not buying her the most expensive meal and wine on your first date.
Thursday, December 19, 2024
TheXYGhost 057
If a woman’s prerogative is to change her mind, why ask her opinion in the first place?
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TheXYGhost
Women in Prisons
Over my lifetime I have spoken to many corrections officers, male and female, from New York City, New York State, New Jersey, New Hampshire, Arizona and California. This much is very clear, the men in jail are vicious and violent (the more violent ones are on television shows) but the women are nasty, dirty and disgusting. All the officers I've spoken to tell me they would rather be in a men's prison than a female one.
Wednesday, December 18, 2024
TheXYGhost 056
MGTOW is about men choosing their freedom over being a servant "provider".
Why do women hate that?
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Why do women hate that?
TheXYGhost
The Divorce Equation
There absolutely is a mathematical equation for understanding when a woman will separate from her man…
1) A woman will leave a man if there are no kids between them on or before 3 years.
2) A woman will break it off with a man when the youngest child between them is 4 - 5 years old.
If it goes beyond that, you got a good one.
If a woman divorced her husband after 7 or 8 years, you can almost calculate that there are, at least 2 kids that were involved.
This is one thing I have never seen written anywhere but I've seen it over and over again for many years.
1) A woman will leave a man if there are no kids between them on or before 3 years.
2) A woman will break it off with a man when the youngest child between them is 4 - 5 years old.
If it goes beyond that, you got a good one.
If a woman divorced her husband after 7 or 8 years, you can almost calculate that there are, at least 2 kids that were involved.
This is one thing I have never seen written anywhere but I've seen it over and over again for many years.
Tuesday, December 17, 2024
TheXYGhost 055
Her : Buy me a ring or I’m leaving you.
TheXYGhost : Retract that demand or I’ll leave you.
TheXYGhost : Retract that demand or I’ll leave you.
Women of Today Think That Men Are the Problem
I hate when women of today say men are the problem but here's something to think about.
Women today think that 90% of men are below average.
Women of today think that the following men are the problem
…men under 6 feet tall.
…men that earn under $200k per year.
…men that are not pleasing them all the time.
…men that are pleasing them all the time.
…men not pursuing them every day.
…men pursuing them every day.
…men not giving them everything they want.
…men giving them everything they want.
…men that are too masculine.
…men that are too feminine.
…men that are too strict.
…men that are too nice.
…men that work too much.
…men that don't work enough.
…men that are too aggressive.
…men that are not aggressive enough.
…men that love them too much.
…men that don't love them enough.
…men that give them too much attention.
…men that don't give them enough attention.
Should I keep on?
Women of today think that men are the problem, always.
Have you ever met a woman that said that they were the fault of their last breakup?
Women today think that 90% of men are below average.
Women of today think that the following men are the problem
…men under 6 feet tall.
…men that earn under $200k per year.
…men that are not pleasing them all the time.
…men that are pleasing them all the time.
…men not pursuing them every day.
…men pursuing them every day.
…men not giving them everything they want.
…men giving them everything they want.
…men that are too masculine.
…men that are too feminine.
…men that are too strict.
…men that are too nice.
…men that work too much.
…men that don't work enough.
…men that are too aggressive.
…men that are not aggressive enough.
…men that love them too much.
…men that don't love them enough.
…men that give them too much attention.
…men that don't give them enough attention.
Should I keep on?
Women of today think that men are the problem, always.
Have you ever met a woman that said that they were the fault of their last breakup?
Monday, December 16, 2024
TheXYGhost 054
5 kids, 21 DNA tests, 10 years and you still can’t find all your kid's fathers. You blame men for this, right?
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Women Love Abusive Men
Several times in my life I met women that said they were in abusive relationships. Some were married and others were living together. When I would tell them they should break it off, they would tell me that they couldn't. When I asked them as to why they couldn't, their response would be the same, "You just don't understand". Some of those girls would even say, "But I love him".
Sunday, December 15, 2024
TheXYGhost 053
Her : I want a $25,000 ring because I’m worth it.
TheXYGhost : Is that the price of your love for me?
TheXYGhost : Is that the price of your love for me?
My Father Dealing With Me Being Single.
Today I had an argument with my 81-year-old father.
My father and mother separated when I was only 4. I lived with a psycho-mom up until the age of 10. Then I lived in Europe with my retired grandparents until age 14. When I returned to America, I was told that my father was found. Mother really hid us. I was taught to hate him and I did.
Years later, my mother's psychotic ways made it impossible for me to stay. I moved in with my dad, when my hate for him still occupied my heart. I graduated high school and off to college. I quit college and found an apartment as I worked for my father who I still hated through no fault of his own.
My father later got married. He had two sons and, although I was never pushed aside by anyone, I felt as though I was not a part of this family.
So, I left and never turned back.
16 years later I saw my 2 brothers on Facebook and there was a very tearful reunion.
As I was divorced now, I understood my dad. The hatred for my father was gone, sometime after my mother passed away.
As the years went by, I visited my dad, my stepmom and newly found brothers on a regular basis. My father always asked me about me being single.
Every time for the next few years he would ask the same questions;
"How's your love life?"
"Do you have any new romances in your life?"
"Do you have anyone new in your life?"
"Have you met anyone at your new job?"
"You know, I got married when I was 46. There's still hope for you."
"You know, your grandfather got married when he was 53. There's still hope for you."
"You know, my tenant upstairs thinks you are quite good looking."
Every single time I went to visit my father, he cycles through one of the same statements above. It drove me insane. It got to the point where the older of my half-brother joined in. He started with lectures. I shrugged it off for years until a few days ago when I stopped him and started to yell at him while we went out to a nearby mall.
He asked the same question yet again. I returned with, "What's with the questions? Do you think I'm a faggot or something? What is wrong with me? What should I do in my life to make you happy?" I yelled and yelled at my dad trying to get into his head that I was single and I'm not going to change that.
The next day, he asked again. I could not believe it. Didn't he hear me say before?
I got home and the next day sent him about 7 of my Facebook posts. Then I texted him;
—–
Me: I sent you a few articles I wrote. Show them to Billy (not real name). Maybe one day you and him will not call me a faggot any more.
My Dad: Don't be ridiculous
Me: There is a lecture from Billy almost every time. And you constantly toss hints at me every single time. Don't you know it hurts me every time you ask me about my "Love Life" or "Romantic Interests"?
My Dad: Ok
Me: I get this all the time from people that nag me constantly about me being and remaining single. I really don't care that Mary (tenant) thinks I'm "good looking". Does that mean she wants to leave her current man for me? Does that mean that I can now view myself as good looking because some Asian woman says so? You can't keep poking at a tiger and expect it not to lash out after the 100th time.
I had enough psychopathic girlfriends that wanted me to be their own personal provider for everything they could ever imagine. It's insane. You want me to return to that insanity?
Yes, I know, they always tell me, "Not all women are like that" and I'm at fault for picking them.
So, I will not pick them any longer.
I stopped talking to the people that nag me about being single. Who really wants to be around people that nag all the time?
I do not want to do that with you.
I've been with way too many women in my life.
I only wanted one
I'm not jumping into that fire of insanity again.
Women with kids from multiple men with a history of abortions and a few STDs are not for me.
I've had it up to my neck in entitled women that expect the world from me.
I was never put on this earth to be a woman's sole meal ticket.
My Dad: kay there's not much to say except to say I won't mention it again
Me: Please.
———
I wrote this article then texted the following;
Me: I'm sorry I blew up like that. It's a sensitive issue for me.
My Dad: No problem, John we all get to blow off once in a while no problem at all
Me: I'm very sorry I did. I'm very proud that we have these small amounts of time together. I don't want it to end.
My Dad: It ends when I pass on. Then you have Bobby, Billy and Maria (his wife). No sweat
Me: There will be time.
My father and mother separated when I was only 4. I lived with a psycho-mom up until the age of 10. Then I lived in Europe with my retired grandparents until age 14. When I returned to America, I was told that my father was found. Mother really hid us. I was taught to hate him and I did.
Years later, my mother's psychotic ways made it impossible for me to stay. I moved in with my dad, when my hate for him still occupied my heart. I graduated high school and off to college. I quit college and found an apartment as I worked for my father who I still hated through no fault of his own.
My father later got married. He had two sons and, although I was never pushed aside by anyone, I felt as though I was not a part of this family.
So, I left and never turned back.
16 years later I saw my 2 brothers on Facebook and there was a very tearful reunion.
As I was divorced now, I understood my dad. The hatred for my father was gone, sometime after my mother passed away.
As the years went by, I visited my dad, my stepmom and newly found brothers on a regular basis. My father always asked me about me being single.
Every time for the next few years he would ask the same questions;
"How's your love life?"
"Do you have any new romances in your life?"
"Do you have anyone new in your life?"
"Have you met anyone at your new job?"
"You know, I got married when I was 46. There's still hope for you."
"You know, your grandfather got married when he was 53. There's still hope for you."
"You know, my tenant upstairs thinks you are quite good looking."
Every single time I went to visit my father, he cycles through one of the same statements above. It drove me insane. It got to the point where the older of my half-brother joined in. He started with lectures. I shrugged it off for years until a few days ago when I stopped him and started to yell at him while we went out to a nearby mall.
He asked the same question yet again. I returned with, "What's with the questions? Do you think I'm a faggot or something? What is wrong with me? What should I do in my life to make you happy?" I yelled and yelled at my dad trying to get into his head that I was single and I'm not going to change that.
The next day, he asked again. I could not believe it. Didn't he hear me say before?
I got home and the next day sent him about 7 of my Facebook posts. Then I texted him;
—–
Me: I sent you a few articles I wrote. Show them to Billy (not real name). Maybe one day you and him will not call me a faggot any more.
My Dad: Don't be ridiculous
Me: There is a lecture from Billy almost every time. And you constantly toss hints at me every single time. Don't you know it hurts me every time you ask me about my "Love Life" or "Romantic Interests"?
My Dad: Ok
Me: I get this all the time from people that nag me constantly about me being and remaining single. I really don't care that Mary (tenant) thinks I'm "good looking". Does that mean she wants to leave her current man for me? Does that mean that I can now view myself as good looking because some Asian woman says so? You can't keep poking at a tiger and expect it not to lash out after the 100th time.
I had enough psychopathic girlfriends that wanted me to be their own personal provider for everything they could ever imagine. It's insane. You want me to return to that insanity?
Yes, I know, they always tell me, "Not all women are like that" and I'm at fault for picking them.
So, I will not pick them any longer.
I stopped talking to the people that nag me about being single. Who really wants to be around people that nag all the time?
I do not want to do that with you.
I've been with way too many women in my life.
I only wanted one
I'm not jumping into that fire of insanity again.
Women with kids from multiple men with a history of abortions and a few STDs are not for me.
I've had it up to my neck in entitled women that expect the world from me.
I was never put on this earth to be a woman's sole meal ticket.
My Dad: kay there's not much to say except to say I won't mention it again
Me: Please.
———
I wrote this article then texted the following;
Me: I'm sorry I blew up like that. It's a sensitive issue for me.
My Dad: No problem, John we all get to blow off once in a while no problem at all
Me: I'm very sorry I did. I'm very proud that we have these small amounts of time together. I don't want it to end.
My Dad: It ends when I pass on. Then you have Bobby, Billy and Maria (his wife). No sweat
Me: There will be time.
Saturday, December 14, 2024
TheXYGhost 052
Her: My boyfriend does not know how to make me happy.
TheXYGhost : Next time date Bozo the Clown.
TheXYGhost : Next time date Bozo the Clown.
How My Father Sees Me As A Single Man
I used to visit my 84-year-old father every other weekend. I spend a night or two every time. For the past 4 - 5 years he has asked me one of the following questions every single time I've visited.
He asks;
"How's your love life?"
"Did you meet any girls lately?"
"Are you involved with any one now?"
"Are you seeing anyone?"
"Is there someone special in your life?"
"Do you have any romance in your life?"
"Have any new romances popped up?"
"Did you meet anyone new at your new job?"
"Have you ever dated a nice girl in your life?"
"You said you were consulting with a (female) nutritionist. Is she available?" (She was 60 years old and hated her husband because he never made enough money.)
"Are you dating anyone special?"
"I know this girl (53-year-old divorced woman) that thinks you are handsome."
He just won't stop no matter how gruff of a response I give him.
I've answered the above questions with the following;
"No."
"No!"
"I only love GOD and Jesus. There is no room left in my heart for anyone else."
"I don't have enough money, time or effort to make any one woman happy. I've failed every time."
I've asked him, "How many times do you think you can poke a tiger before it attacks?"
I've even started to respond with, "NO! BECAUSE I'M A FUCKEN FAGOT! IS THAT WHAT YOU WANT TO HEAR? DO I EMBARRASS YOU BECAUSE I'M SINGLE? AM I NOT A MAN BECAUSE I'M SINGLE? WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH ME THAT YOU PRESS FOR SO LONG? DO YOU THINK I'M A FAGOT BECAUSE I WALK ALONE?"
My best friend of 35 years has never once seen me angry, ever! He saw for the very first time how angry and enraged I got when I explained this situation.
Meanwhile nothing is said about my eldest sister that has 3 kids from 3 men that were all substance abusers and lives in the NYC Housing Projects.
Now my younger (half) brother chimes in with his two cents trying to probe me for information as to why I don't have a girlfriend and it are getting sick.
Sure, I see a girl or two on the side. I never pay one dime to be with them. But I toss them away once they start their shit. I dare not bring them to my place let alone my dad's home.
In the book, "The Art of War", Sun Tzu said, "You can never avoid war. You only postpone it." I have come to understand this quote more and more. I should have tossed over tables and chairs after he asked me the third time.
I hang out with my youngest (half) brother (age 30) we go out and have fun all the time. I flirt with waitresses and bartenders and other females everywhere we go. We have a great time together always.
I stopped visiting my dad until he texts me telling me he misses me, I text him back with, "What time is the intervention? Are you going to ask me about my love life again?"
He promises me that he won't but when I arrive, he continues.
I leave the next day and stay away longer.
Most people I tell this tell me that he nags me because he loves me. That is sick and twisted. Why do people have this deranged view of love? Where is the love in asking a question over and over again when the answer has been the same year in and year out? Since when nagging until you strike anger is love? Why is it love to enrage someone for so long?
Please give me advice. I do not want to miss out on my father's company this late in life. I reunited with him after I walked away for 22 years. He got remarried and his wife is a real gem. I love her dearly. But at that time, I didn't believe I fit in his new life.
I have no problem walking away. I walked away from my mother and sister for upwards of 15 years after they blamed me for my wife leaving, cheating and stealing $250,000 from me. (It's not stealing if you are married)
Please help.
He asks;
"How's your love life?"
"Did you meet any girls lately?"
"Are you involved with any one now?"
"Are you seeing anyone?"
"Is there someone special in your life?"
"Do you have any romance in your life?"
"Have any new romances popped up?"
"Did you meet anyone new at your new job?"
"Have you ever dated a nice girl in your life?"
"You said you were consulting with a (female) nutritionist. Is she available?" (She was 60 years old and hated her husband because he never made enough money.)
"Are you dating anyone special?"
"I know this girl (53-year-old divorced woman) that thinks you are handsome."
He just won't stop no matter how gruff of a response I give him.
I've answered the above questions with the following;
"No."
"No!"
"I only love GOD and Jesus. There is no room left in my heart for anyone else."
"I don't have enough money, time or effort to make any one woman happy. I've failed every time."
I've asked him, "How many times do you think you can poke a tiger before it attacks?"
I've even started to respond with, "NO! BECAUSE I'M A FUCKEN FAGOT! IS THAT WHAT YOU WANT TO HEAR? DO I EMBARRASS YOU BECAUSE I'M SINGLE? AM I NOT A MAN BECAUSE I'M SINGLE? WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH ME THAT YOU PRESS FOR SO LONG? DO YOU THINK I'M A FAGOT BECAUSE I WALK ALONE?"
My best friend of 35 years has never once seen me angry, ever! He saw for the very first time how angry and enraged I got when I explained this situation.
Meanwhile nothing is said about my eldest sister that has 3 kids from 3 men that were all substance abusers and lives in the NYC Housing Projects.
Now my younger (half) brother chimes in with his two cents trying to probe me for information as to why I don't have a girlfriend and it are getting sick.
Sure, I see a girl or two on the side. I never pay one dime to be with them. But I toss them away once they start their shit. I dare not bring them to my place let alone my dad's home.
In the book, "The Art of War", Sun Tzu said, "You can never avoid war. You only postpone it." I have come to understand this quote more and more. I should have tossed over tables and chairs after he asked me the third time.
I hang out with my youngest (half) brother (age 30) we go out and have fun all the time. I flirt with waitresses and bartenders and other females everywhere we go. We have a great time together always.
I stopped visiting my dad until he texts me telling me he misses me, I text him back with, "What time is the intervention? Are you going to ask me about my love life again?"
He promises me that he won't but when I arrive, he continues.
I leave the next day and stay away longer.
Most people I tell this tell me that he nags me because he loves me. That is sick and twisted. Why do people have this deranged view of love? Where is the love in asking a question over and over again when the answer has been the same year in and year out? Since when nagging until you strike anger is love? Why is it love to enrage someone for so long?
Please give me advice. I do not want to miss out on my father's company this late in life. I reunited with him after I walked away for 22 years. He got remarried and his wife is a real gem. I love her dearly. But at that time, I didn't believe I fit in his new life.
I have no problem walking away. I walked away from my mother and sister for upwards of 15 years after they blamed me for my wife leaving, cheating and stealing $250,000 from me. (It's not stealing if you are married)
Please help.
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