• If she hits you, you must have done something wrong, because in this twisted world, women don’t get held accountable. She hit you for a reason, they say, and that reason is always your fault.
• If you hit her back, you are automatically the villain. It doesn’t matter if she attacked first. It doesn’t matter if she drew blood. You are a man, so you are wrong by default.
• If you file for divorce, you’re a monster who gave up too soon, who abandoned his vows, who walked away from a good woman.
• If she files for divorce, it’s because you failed as a man. She had no choice. The system will nod along and hand her everything.
• If she divorces you, kidnaps your children through the court system, bleeds you dry for your money, your house, your retirement, alimony and child support, then the world says she must have been justified. You must have done something cruel.
• If she accuses you of rape, domestic violence, sexual harassment or abuse, society doesn’t ask for proof. They don’t need facts. They need outrage. And you are the target. Why would she lie, they ask, as if women never lie, as if false accusations aren’t a weapon used every day.
• If she cries “inequality,” the world halts and hands her sympathy and solutions. If you cry injustice, you get told to “man up,” like your suffering is weakness and your pain is a punchline.
According to the US Justice Department, every single crime has a false allegation rate of about 1 to 2 percent. Except for rape, domestic violence, sexual harassment, and child abuse. Those spike up to 30 percent, but nobody wants to talk about that.
Face it. You are always the bad man.
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