Rules for Women

1. Do not make him responsible for every single one of your wants, needs, and desires. He is not your personal genie.

2.He is not your doctor, lawyer, therapist, and handyman rolled into one. Stop treating him like a utility.

3. Quit nitpicking every flaw you think he has. You are not perfect either, and you never will be.

4. You can take him out too. He is not your personal ATM or your unpaid entertainment director.

5. The answer to your problems is not another man. Stop monkey-branching the moment you see something you don’t like.

6. Stop testing him like he is some experiment. He is not a lab rat and you are not a scientist.

7. Treating him like a provider while screaming about equality is dehumanizing. If you want a partner, act like one.

8. Just because it is easy for you to cheat doesn’t mean he is. Every text or photo in his phone is not proof of betrayal.

9. You can’t mold him into your fantasy. He is who he is. Growth happens naturally if you stop trying to control it.

10. Stop complaining constantly. If something isn’t how you want it, take initiative instead of acting helpless.

11.“The grass is greener on the other side” is not a suggestion. It is a warning.

12. Know when to shut it down. There is a limit to nagging, whining, crying, complaining, and throwing threats.

13. Do you really believe that taking his kids away and moving in with another guy who also lost his kids will somehow fix your life?

14. Threatening to leave if he doesn’t marry you doesn’t prove your love. It exposes your manipulation and your bloated ego.

15. No one can make anyone happy. Stop expecting him to fill your emotional void.

16. He cannot read your damn mind. If you want something, speak it.

17. Stop with the hints. They are childish and inefficient. Use your words like an adult.

18. If you ask a direct question and he gives you a direct answer, don’t get mad that he didn’t decode your hidden meaning.

19. If you go for “bad boys,” you chose that chaos. You invited dysfunction. Bad means bad. Period.

20. Just because you hinted at something doesn’t mean he owes you a deeper response. You are not playing mind games with a child.

21. Manipulation is lying. Sugarcoat it all you want, but deceit is still deceit.

22. Having a “Plan B” is not smart. It is cheating. Own it.

23. Your best relationship was your first. After that it’s been compromise, damage, and denial.

24. Treat him how you scream you want to be treated. No double standards. No excuses.