When it reaches the point where a spouse feels the need to hire a private investigator, the motives are entirely different, and so are the reactions.
A wife will call in a PI not to seek truth, but to confirm her suspicions, to dig up dirt. And if nothing is found, she doesn’t feel relieved, she feels robbed. She’s angry. Furious that her suspicions were wrong. She wanted evidence, not clarity. She needed an excuse to blow up the marriage, and now she has none.
The husband, on the other hand, hires a PI hoping to be wrong. He wants peace of mind. He prays for loyalty. If he finds out his wife is cheating, it guts him. It breaks him. And if nothing is found, he feels grateful. He feels like a weight was lifted.
The woman uses the investigation as a weapon. The man uses it as a last resort.
And they still want to preach that men and women are equal?
Give me a break. Equal in biology? No. Equal in behavior? Absolutely not. One seeks destruction, the other seeks truth. One walks away vindictive, the other walks away shattered. That’s not equality. That’s a completely different operating system.
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