Most modern women want a man on her self-defined level or higher. This level is vague, subjective, and changes from woman to woman, but it almost always comes down to his income, status, height, and looks.
For the sake of this point, say she rates herself as a level 5. She will demand a man who is a 6 or higher, factoring in whatever components she decides matter at the moment.
The very fact that she seeks a man on a higher level is a red flag, and here is why:
1. What happens if she raises herself to a 7 in her mind and decides he is still the same? In her eyes, he is falling behind.
2. What happens when time passes and she decides his level is now lower than hers?
3. What if his level rises to a 10 or 12 while she drops to a 3 or 4?
4. Do you think she will stay if she believes she is above him?
5. Do you think her self-assessment is inflated?
6. Do you think her assessment of your value is accurate?
Regardless of her perception, you will still be expected to pay all the bills, open her doors, and kiss her feet while she saves her money for herself. You will be her personal servant, expected to fight and die for her, while she sees it as beneath her to even get you a glass of water.
Women like this say things like, "He needs to keep up with me" and "I might give him a chance." Imagine a woman thinking she is offering you the privilege of becoming her servant.
The truth is she is not looking for a man to love, honor, or respect. She is looking for a man to raise her status and income while looking down on him as her provider and protector. A man should never provide for or protect someone who uses him. A man should provide for and protect only those who respect him.
Tuesday, October 7, 2025
Monday, October 6, 2025
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She married a man after her boyfriend was sent to prisonn. Once he was paroled, she divorced her husband, and left her kids to be with her true love.
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She married a man after her boyfriend was sent to prisonn. Once he was paroled, she divorced her husband, and left her kids to be with her true love.
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They Never Stop Looking for Their Provider #2
I have been writing these articles since I was 42. Now at 61, I see the pattern clearly. When a woman starts talking about having a companion, she is often hinting that you should consider her for that role. Women speak in hints, and this is one of their favorites.
For most of my life, my female friends were married, had children with the same man, and had never been divorced. I believed they were devoted to their husbands and families. I made it a point to know their husbands personally.
Recently I have noticed that some of these same women, now my age, approach me when their husbands become sick or retire. They start by pushing the idea that I need a companion. Later I learn their husbands are either in the hospital or no longer working.
One woman even cried to me, “How can I travel to Europe to see my family if my husband retires? Does he only think about himself?”
The real meaning behind that is, “How dare he stop working after 40 years without asking me” or “How dare my provider stop providing for me.”
I am not anyone’s Prince Charming, but I have been single for 25 years and have made enough money to support a wife and family. To some women, that alone qualifies me as a potential provider.
But I will not be mom’s boyfriend. I will not be grandma’s boyfriend.
For most of my life, my female friends were married, had children with the same man, and had never been divorced. I believed they were devoted to their husbands and families. I made it a point to know their husbands personally.
Recently I have noticed that some of these same women, now my age, approach me when their husbands become sick or retire. They start by pushing the idea that I need a companion. Later I learn their husbands are either in the hospital or no longer working.
One woman even cried to me, “How can I travel to Europe to see my family if my husband retires? Does he only think about himself?”
The real meaning behind that is, “How dare he stop working after 40 years without asking me” or “How dare my provider stop providing for me.”
I am not anyone’s Prince Charming, but I have been single for 25 years and have made enough money to support a wife and family. To some women, that alone qualifies me as a potential provider.
But I will not be mom’s boyfriend. I will not be grandma’s boyfriend.
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Her : I divorced him because it was not meant to be.
TheXYGhost : Next time marry one that is meant to be.
TheXYGhost : Next time marry one that is meant to be.
Sunday, October 5, 2025
They Never Stop Looking for Their Provider #1
A female friend I had known for 21 years called out of the blue to have coffee. We had not seen each other since the pandemic. I was 60, she was 63, her husband was 72. We had worked together in various ways over the years. I had met her husband a few times. We even ran into each other in the Hamptons one summer. Her husband owned a shipping company. We got along fine.
She and I used to talk on the phone about news and movies. I was comfortable with her because she had been with her husband since she was 16.
We met at a bagel deli in Manhattan. We hugged, exchanged pleasantries, asked about each other’s families. She said everyone was fine.
After about 30 minutes she asked, “Why are you still single?”
I thought she knew, but I said it anyway. “I am not going through that again. Women hate men.”
She replied with the standard line, “You just picked the wrong women.”
I told her, “I picked the wrong women. My neighbors picked the wrong women. My family picked the wrong women. My friends, classmates, coworkers, all picked the wrong women. Everyone is picking the wrong women, but the women are never wrong for their actions. Besides, I do not have the money, knowledge, energy, patience, or time to make a woman happy.”
She snickered. “Don’t be silly. You need to open your mind. I heard you are doing well for yourself. It is not hard to make a woman happy.”
I snapped. “I will not provide for and protect another woman who has backstabbed all of her previous men, only to backstab me for doing the same. I will not be used again.”
She smiled. “I’m sure you will find someone you fall in love with. It’s just a matter of time.”
My anger grew. I told her, “I have loved many women and been betrayed every time. I want a woman to pick me because I am the right one. I want her to love me. I want her to reach into her pockets and buy me a car, a watch, and a dinner or two. What woman, with no history of loyalty or respect, should I devote my life and earnings to protect? All I am offered now is a position of servitude as mom’s boyfriend or grandma’s boyfriend. I will not provide for another man’s wife or raise another man’s child.”
She brushed it off. “That’s dumb. You’re paranoid. Not all women are out to get you. You need a loving woman beside you.”
I wondered why she was pushing so hard. I told her bluntly, “Let’s get off the subject. I don’t want to talk about it. If we keep talking about this, I will leave. I don’t want to offend you, but if you continue, I will have no choice.”
She got the message. We changed the subject for about 10 minutes. Then she checked her watch, said she had to go. I walked her to her building, gave her a hug and a kiss on the cheek, and apologized for my tone.
Three weeks later, she called me crying. Her husband was in the hospital and might not make it. I tried to console her. She said he had pancreatic cancer and may not have long. Then she told me he had been admitted to the hospital about a month ago.
In case you missed it, here is the timeline: her husband went into the hospital. Three weeks later she met me, told me everyone was fine, then tried to sell me on getting a companion. One week later she called with the news.
She never realized what she had admitted. That was months ago. I am sure her husband has passed. She has not called me about it since. While he was in the hospital, she was hunting for her next provider. Maybe she found him.
She and I used to talk on the phone about news and movies. I was comfortable with her because she had been with her husband since she was 16.
We met at a bagel deli in Manhattan. We hugged, exchanged pleasantries, asked about each other’s families. She said everyone was fine.
After about 30 minutes she asked, “Why are you still single?”
I thought she knew, but I said it anyway. “I am not going through that again. Women hate men.”
She replied with the standard line, “You just picked the wrong women.”
I told her, “I picked the wrong women. My neighbors picked the wrong women. My family picked the wrong women. My friends, classmates, coworkers, all picked the wrong women. Everyone is picking the wrong women, but the women are never wrong for their actions. Besides, I do not have the money, knowledge, energy, patience, or time to make a woman happy.”
She snickered. “Don’t be silly. You need to open your mind. I heard you are doing well for yourself. It is not hard to make a woman happy.”
I snapped. “I will not provide for and protect another woman who has backstabbed all of her previous men, only to backstab me for doing the same. I will not be used again.”
She smiled. “I’m sure you will find someone you fall in love with. It’s just a matter of time.”
My anger grew. I told her, “I have loved many women and been betrayed every time. I want a woman to pick me because I am the right one. I want her to love me. I want her to reach into her pockets and buy me a car, a watch, and a dinner or two. What woman, with no history of loyalty or respect, should I devote my life and earnings to protect? All I am offered now is a position of servitude as mom’s boyfriend or grandma’s boyfriend. I will not provide for another man’s wife or raise another man’s child.”
She brushed it off. “That’s dumb. You’re paranoid. Not all women are out to get you. You need a loving woman beside you.”
I wondered why she was pushing so hard. I told her bluntly, “Let’s get off the subject. I don’t want to talk about it. If we keep talking about this, I will leave. I don’t want to offend you, but if you continue, I will have no choice.”
She got the message. We changed the subject for about 10 minutes. Then she checked her watch, said she had to go. I walked her to her building, gave her a hug and a kiss on the cheek, and apologized for my tone.
Three weeks later, she called me crying. Her husband was in the hospital and might not make it. I tried to console her. She said he had pancreatic cancer and may not have long. Then she told me he had been admitted to the hospital about a month ago.
In case you missed it, here is the timeline: her husband went into the hospital. Three weeks later she met me, told me everyone was fine, then tried to sell me on getting a companion. One week later she called with the news.
She never realized what she had admitted. That was months ago. I am sure her husband has passed. She has not called me about it since. While he was in the hospital, she was hunting for her next provider. Maybe she found him.
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A female who has had an abortion, won't think twice about exterminating your life in any way possible.
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Saturday, October 4, 2025
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She pretended to lose interest, hoping he’d fight harder for her. Instead, he saw that she wasn’t invested and walked away without looking back.
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She pretended to lose interest, hoping he’d fight harder for her. Instead, he saw that she wasn’t invested and walked away without looking back.
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She Obeys Her Enemies
Therapy is code for a dependency on others to think and analyze for her.
What most people do not understand is that women are dependent on others for almost everything they do. They consult psychics, therapists, astrologers, and their female friends, who often guide them to fail because they do not want their friends to rise above them in status.
The modern woman obeys and submits to astrologers, psychics, therapists, jealous girlfriends, lawyers, psychiatrists, and doctors who prescribe harmful mood-altering drugs. Yet she is combative toward the man who professes his love for her, using shaming tactics, insults, humiliation, guilt trips, nagging, and constant arguments.
In short, she obeys everyone who profits from her loss while spitting on the man who loves her.
What most people do not understand is that women are dependent on others for almost everything they do. They consult psychics, therapists, astrologers, and their female friends, who often guide them to fail because they do not want their friends to rise above them in status.
The modern woman obeys and submits to astrologers, psychics, therapists, jealous girlfriends, lawyers, psychiatrists, and doctors who prescribe harmful mood-altering drugs. Yet she is combative toward the man who professes his love for her, using shaming tactics, insults, humiliation, guilt trips, nagging, and constant arguments.
In short, she obeys everyone who profits from her loss while spitting on the man who loves her.
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She aborted his child because her husband didn't do what she told him to do.
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Friday, October 3, 2025
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She tested him by flirting with other men on their first date. He saw it as disrespectful and walked away. She laughed and said, “He couldn’t handle me.
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She tested him by flirting with other men on their first date. He saw it as disrespectful and walked away. She laughed and said, “He couldn’t handle me.
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But That's My Money
My childhood friend married a widowed mother. Her first husband died while working as a maintenance worker on the Verrazzano-Narrows Bridge in New York City. My friend vowed to provide for and protect her and her daughter.
They later had three more daughters. The apartment was too small, so he started working nights and weekends, seven days a week, to save for a down payment on a house. This went on for two years.
He finally bought a small home built in 1957. It was modest but bigger than the apartment. He promised to add a second floor so all four daughters could have their own rooms.
He worked as a bouncer on the side and sometimes drove a limousine. Many nights he slept in my living room because he was too exhausted to drive home. I often packed food for him since I was single and cooked in large portions.
He hired an architect and took an apprentice job as a carpenter to make the expansion happen. By September, the second floor was finished after years of planning. Halloween came and went. Thanksgiving was in the new house. Then came Christmas.
With little money left, he still bought a Christmas tree, decorations, and presents for the whole family. Just before New Year’s, the boiler broke. He told the family they would have to brave the cold with blankets and space heaters until they could fix it.
One day, he picked up the mail and accidentally opened his wife’s bank statement, thinking it was a credit card bill. The balance was $180,000. Shocked, he showed her. She snatched it from his hands and shouted, “That’s my money!”
When he asked where it came from, she said it was from her late husband’s insurance policy. He asked when she got it. She said while she was pregnant with their first child.
He asked when she was going to tell him. She kept repeating, “That’s my money.”
He reminded her he had worked two and three jobs, seven days a week, for years to buy the house. She snapped, “You wanted to work those jobs.”
He asked if she would have let the kids freeze without a boiler. She replied, “That’s your job, and that’s my money.”
He made her sign over the money. He repaired the boiler, completed the second floor, bought a new car, and opened four investment accounts for his daughters’ futures.
They later had three more daughters. The apartment was too small, so he started working nights and weekends, seven days a week, to save for a down payment on a house. This went on for two years.
He finally bought a small home built in 1957. It was modest but bigger than the apartment. He promised to add a second floor so all four daughters could have their own rooms.
He worked as a bouncer on the side and sometimes drove a limousine. Many nights he slept in my living room because he was too exhausted to drive home. I often packed food for him since I was single and cooked in large portions.
He hired an architect and took an apprentice job as a carpenter to make the expansion happen. By September, the second floor was finished after years of planning. Halloween came and went. Thanksgiving was in the new house. Then came Christmas.
With little money left, he still bought a Christmas tree, decorations, and presents for the whole family. Just before New Year’s, the boiler broke. He told the family they would have to brave the cold with blankets and space heaters until they could fix it.
One day, he picked up the mail and accidentally opened his wife’s bank statement, thinking it was a credit card bill. The balance was $180,000. Shocked, he showed her. She snatched it from his hands and shouted, “That’s my money!”
When he asked where it came from, she said it was from her late husband’s insurance policy. He asked when she got it. She said while she was pregnant with their first child.
He asked when she was going to tell him. She kept repeating, “That’s my money.”
He reminded her he had worked two and three jobs, seven days a week, for years to buy the house. She snapped, “You wanted to work those jobs.”
He asked if she would have let the kids freeze without a boiler. She replied, “That’s your job, and that’s my money.”
He made her sign over the money. He repaired the boiler, completed the second floor, bought a new car, and opened four investment accounts for his daughters’ futures.
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Australia's female soccer team (ranked 5th in the world) was beaten 7-0 by a team of boys, all under 15 years old.
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Thursday, October 2, 2025
How Stingy and Petty Women Can Be
When Kobe Bryant and his nine-year-old daughter died in a helicopter crash, he left his wife a $680 million estate.
Five years later, Kobe’s parents were struggling financially. His widow refused to help them.
Five years later, Kobe’s parents were struggling financially. His widow refused to help them.
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80% of divorces are initiated by women and family courts will stop fathers getting custody to see their kids.
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Wednesday, October 1, 2025
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A real man won’t sit there and watch his woman struggle to pay her bills. He will breakup with her and get with a woman that is worth something.
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A real man won’t sit there and watch his woman struggle to pay her bills. He will breakup with her and get with a woman that is worth something.
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Women Will Almost Never Be Generous
Hetty Green, known as The Witch of Wall Street, is listed in the Guinness Book of World Records as the stingiest woman in history. Her net worth in today’s dollars was over $5.4 billion.
Despite her extreme wealth, she married a millionaire and lived on leftover cakes and broken biscuits from a nearby bakery.
She caused her own son to lose his leg because she wasted time looking for a free clinic instead of paying a hospital bill.
She died in 1916 at the age of 81 from a stroke while arguing with her maid over a pay raise.
Despite her extreme wealth, she married a millionaire and lived on leftover cakes and broken biscuits from a nearby bakery.
She caused her own son to lose his leg because she wasted time looking for a free clinic instead of paying a hospital bill.
She died in 1916 at the age of 81 from a stroke while arguing with her maid over a pay raise.
Tuesday, September 30, 2025
Men and Women Lie
I was at a gathering with three men and four women when one woman suddenly blurted, “Men are dogs. They lie all the time to get what they want from us women.”
The men turned to me, knowing I was about to say something the women would not like.
I said, “Yes, men lie. They say, ‘I love you,’ or, ‘You are the most beautiful woman in the world,’ and you eat it up. Do you really believe it when a man says you are the most beautiful woman on the planet? But women lie too. They say, ‘You are the father,’ or, ‘He was abusive.’ The truth is, both sexes lie.”
One woman huffed. “You are generalizing. Not all women are like that. You cannot judge all women like that.”
I responded, “You started this conversation by saying men are dogs and that they lie all the time. Was that not a generalization? Was that not a judgment? I gave examples of both sexes lying, but you only defended women. Did I not also make examples about men? Why did you jump to defend women as if I only criticized them? Why do you excuse negative generalizations about men but take offense when it is about women?”
She said, “You made it seem like women are evil.”
I replied, “I never said that. I spoke about both sides equally. I do not understand your concern.”
She thought she ended the conversation by saying, “You hate women,” as the other women nodded in agreement.
I said, “Are you not a hater of men if you make such negative statements about men?”
I know, I ruin the party sometimes.
The men turned to me, knowing I was about to say something the women would not like.
I said, “Yes, men lie. They say, ‘I love you,’ or, ‘You are the most beautiful woman in the world,’ and you eat it up. Do you really believe it when a man says you are the most beautiful woman on the planet? But women lie too. They say, ‘You are the father,’ or, ‘He was abusive.’ The truth is, both sexes lie.”
One woman huffed. “You are generalizing. Not all women are like that. You cannot judge all women like that.”
I responded, “You started this conversation by saying men are dogs and that they lie all the time. Was that not a generalization? Was that not a judgment? I gave examples of both sexes lying, but you only defended women. Did I not also make examples about men? Why did you jump to defend women as if I only criticized them? Why do you excuse negative generalizations about men but take offense when it is about women?”
She said, “You made it seem like women are evil.”
I replied, “I never said that. I spoke about both sides equally. I do not understand your concern.”
She thought she ended the conversation by saying, “You hate women,” as the other women nodded in agreement.
I said, “Are you not a hater of men if you make such negative statements about men?”
I know, I ruin the party sometimes.
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If he wants traditional family and gender roles, he's a beta male, creep or "living in the 1950s".
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Monday, September 29, 2025
The Many Powers That Men Have
Men have the rare ability to shut out everything and focus entirely on one thing until the job is done. You see it when a man is watching his game of choice and nothing anyone says or does breaks his focus until the commercial break.
Men also have the ability to self-sacrifice for the good of the team. "Take one for the team" is not just a phrase. In WWI and WWII, men threw themselves on live grenades to save their brothers in arms.
Women think everything is connected to everything else.
1. How she looks depends on how others see her.
2. How she feels depends on how she looks.
3. How successful she is depends on how she feels.
After 60 years of the feminist movement, they still believe the smartest business move they can make is to marry the right man. Once again, dependency on others.
Every story about why women cheat centers on her dependence. Listen to her words: "He didn't make me happy," "He made me upset," "He made me feel unwanted," "He made me cry." Then when she is pleased: "He makes me feel good," "He makes me feel confident," "He makes me laugh," "He makes me smile."
There is always an outside source she depends on. Always.
Men also have the ability to self-sacrifice for the good of the team. "Take one for the team" is not just a phrase. In WWI and WWII, men threw themselves on live grenades to save their brothers in arms.
Women think everything is connected to everything else.
1. How she looks depends on how others see her.
2. How she feels depends on how she looks.
3. How successful she is depends on how she feels.
After 60 years of the feminist movement, they still believe the smartest business move they can make is to marry the right man. Once again, dependency on others.
Every story about why women cheat centers on her dependence. Listen to her words: "He didn't make me happy," "He made me upset," "He made me feel unwanted," "He made me cry." Then when she is pleased: "He makes me feel good," "He makes me feel confident," "He makes me laugh," "He makes me smile."
There is always an outside source she depends on. Always.
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Adolf Hitler : 6 million Jews.
Planned Parenthood : 68 million babies and counting.
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Planned Parenthood : 68 million babies and counting.
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Sunday, September 28, 2025
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She publicly humiliated men on the first date in order to test them. She wonders why she’s single at 40.
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She publicly humiliated men on the first date in order to test them. She wonders why she’s single at 40.
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Mommy-daughter Day
Single mothers and married mothers looking to upgrade their husbands will often take their daughters out to socialize. The mother uses her daughter’s presence to attract men while blocking any man who shows more interest in the daughter than in her.
Man: “Hey, you two look like sisters.”
That kind of line makes the mother tingle inside.
Just like a fat, unattractive friend will chase off men interested in her better-looking friend, the mother will run interference for herself. In these situations, a second man is often needed to take one for the team by charming the mother or the chubby friend so the other man can pursue his target.
Man: “Hey, you two look like sisters.”
That kind of line makes the mother tingle inside.
Just like a fat, unattractive friend will chase off men interested in her better-looking friend, the mother will run interference for herself. In these situations, a second man is often needed to take one for the team by charming the mother or the chubby friend so the other man can pursue his target.
Saturday, September 27, 2025
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Her best idea of meeting “the right one” is finding a way to manipulate him into approaching her.
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Her best idea of meeting “the right one” is finding a way to manipulate him into approaching her.
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Women Love Jerks
Let’s face it, women are often drawn to bad men. I have spent a lifetime searching for someone who could be a wife and a loving mother in a stable home. Yet the more love you show, the more disrespect you get.
Women will cry over the abusive man who left them, run to your arms for comfort, let you restore them, and then leave you for another abuser. It is like a boxer retreating to the corner between rounds to be patched up, only to step right back into the fight. She uses the man with resources for stability but always goes back to the one who hurts her. She may even tell the next man you were abusive because victimhood has value when it goes unchallenged.
I know this too well. Over 24 years of relationships, I have watched women I cared about betray me for abusive men.
If you rescue a damsel in distress, care for her, provide for her, and protect her, she will often leave you for another abuser, only to become a damsel in distress again. She enjoys the rescue.
I do not drink, smoke, or use drugs. I have never been to prison. I live clean and I have always made sure the women I dated had similar values. Yet many of my exes told me horror stories about abusive, deceptive, and violent men they dated before me. And after we broke up, most went to men even worse.
Two of my exes ended up with heroin addicts. Three others, including my ex-wife, chose heavy drinkers. One dated a man already married with two kids, who also had another child with a different woman in his home country. At the same time, he had two women pregnant, one in the Bronx and another in Washington Heights.
One ex dated a car thief. I read later in the news that he took her on a joyride in a stolen car. It ended in a high-speed chase on the Long Island Expressway, a crash, and a hospital bed. He was paralyzed. She had multiple broken bones.
Another moved in with a felon on parole. Yet another fell under the control of a pimp.
People hear this and say, “You picked the wrong women,” or, “Where do you find these women?”
My answer is simple: How can anyone predict someone’s future choices? Should I have earned a Ph.D. in human behavior by the age of 19 just to date?
This is not just my experience. I have seen the same pattern in the lives of friends, family, coworkers, classmates, and neighbors. It shows up on social media, in YouTube videos, and everywhere else.
Corrections officers across the country will tell you most male inmates have children with multiple women who visit them regularly. Some even start new relationships from prison. High-profile violent criminals receive love letters from women all over the world after they are arrested.
There is even a trend where women in church prison ministries leave their husbands and children, give up alimony and shared property, and marry inmates serving long sentences or life.
Women will cry over the abusive man who left them, run to your arms for comfort, let you restore them, and then leave you for another abuser. It is like a boxer retreating to the corner between rounds to be patched up, only to step right back into the fight. She uses the man with resources for stability but always goes back to the one who hurts her. She may even tell the next man you were abusive because victimhood has value when it goes unchallenged.
I know this too well. Over 24 years of relationships, I have watched women I cared about betray me for abusive men.
If you rescue a damsel in distress, care for her, provide for her, and protect her, she will often leave you for another abuser, only to become a damsel in distress again. She enjoys the rescue.
I do not drink, smoke, or use drugs. I have never been to prison. I live clean and I have always made sure the women I dated had similar values. Yet many of my exes told me horror stories about abusive, deceptive, and violent men they dated before me. And after we broke up, most went to men even worse.
Two of my exes ended up with heroin addicts. Three others, including my ex-wife, chose heavy drinkers. One dated a man already married with two kids, who also had another child with a different woman in his home country. At the same time, he had two women pregnant, one in the Bronx and another in Washington Heights.
One ex dated a car thief. I read later in the news that he took her on a joyride in a stolen car. It ended in a high-speed chase on the Long Island Expressway, a crash, and a hospital bed. He was paralyzed. She had multiple broken bones.
Another moved in with a felon on parole. Yet another fell under the control of a pimp.
People hear this and say, “You picked the wrong women,” or, “Where do you find these women?”
My answer is simple: How can anyone predict someone’s future choices? Should I have earned a Ph.D. in human behavior by the age of 19 just to date?
This is not just my experience. I have seen the same pattern in the lives of friends, family, coworkers, classmates, and neighbors. It shows up on social media, in YouTube videos, and everywhere else.
Corrections officers across the country will tell you most male inmates have children with multiple women who visit them regularly. Some even start new relationships from prison. High-profile violent criminals receive love letters from women all over the world after they are arrested.
There is even a trend where women in church prison ministries leave their husbands and children, give up alimony and shared property, and marry inmates serving long sentences or life.
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Women hate it when the government forces them to be mothers. They only want the government to forced men to pay.
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Friday, September 26, 2025
Promiscuity: Male Vs. Female
If you put a good woman in front of a man who has slept with a thousand women, he will value her because men judge women by who they are in the present, not by their past. He will protect her, care for her, and see her as something worth keeping.
But if you put the best man in front of a woman who has slept with more than five men, she will pick him apart piece by piece. She will focus on every flaw, real or imagined, because women judge men by their ability to measure up to every man she has ever been with. Her mind will compare, her ego will test, and her loyalty will falter the second she feels she can “do better.”
Men forgive a woman’s past when they see present value. Women punish a man in the present for not matching the fantasy she built from her past. That is why a man can cherish a woman who has been through hell, but a woman will discard a man who doesn’t measure up to her smallest expectation.
But if you put the best man in front of a woman who has slept with more than five men, she will pick him apart piece by piece. She will focus on every flaw, real or imagined, because women judge men by their ability to measure up to every man she has ever been with. Her mind will compare, her ego will test, and her loyalty will falter the second she feels she can “do better.”
Men forgive a woman’s past when they see present value. Women punish a man in the present for not matching the fantasy she built from her past. That is why a man can cherish a woman who has been through hell, but a woman will discard a man who doesn’t measure up to her smallest expectation.
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Women have the legislative "right" to abortion. Men don't have the legislative right to say no to child support.
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Thursday, September 25, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 269
She does not want a man to love and raise a family. She wants a man to raise her status in every way possible.
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TheXYGhost III 269
She does not want a man to love and raise a family. She wants a man to raise her status in every way possible.
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TheXYGhost II 269
Her : You make it seem like all women are bad.
TheXYGhost : I’m not responsible for your interpretations.
TheXYGhost : I’m not responsible for your interpretations.
I Can Do Better
When a man says he can do better, he rolls up his sleeves and gets to work. He grinds through long nights, sacrifices comfort, learns new skills, takes risks, and eats failure for breakfast until he creates something worth respecting. He builds himself from the ground up because he knows no one is coming to save him.
When a woman says she can do better, she doesn’t roll up her sleeves, she rolls her eyes and looks for a man who has already built the life she wants to step into. She scans for success someone else has bled for, a lifestyle someone else earned, and positions herself to enjoy the rewards without enduring the process.
A man’s “better” comes from what he creates.
A woman’s “better” too often comes from who she can attach herself to after the work is already done.
When a woman says she can do better, she doesn’t roll up her sleeves, she rolls her eyes and looks for a man who has already built the life she wants to step into. She scans for success someone else has bled for, a lifestyle someone else earned, and positions herself to enjoy the rewards without enduring the process.
A man’s “better” comes from what he creates.
A woman’s “better” too often comes from who she can attach herself to after the work is already done.
Wednesday, September 24, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 268
Height matters to her because it’s a status symbol, part of how she competes with other women.
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