On Her Level

Most modern women want a man on her self-defined level or higher. This level is vague, subjective, and changes from woman to woman, but it almost always comes down to his income, status, height, and looks.

For the sake of this point, say she rates herself as a level 5. She will demand a man who is a 6 or higher, factoring in whatever components she decides matter at the moment.

The very fact that she seeks a man on a higher level is a red flag, and here is why:

1. What happens if she raises herself to a 7 in her mind and decides he is still the same? In her eyes, he is falling behind.

2. What happens when time passes and she decides his level is now lower than hers?

3. What if his level rises to a 10 or 12 while she drops to a 3 or 4?

4. Do you think she will stay if she believes she is above him?

5. Do you think her self-assessment is inflated?

6. Do you think her assessment of your value is accurate?

Regardless of her perception, you will still be expected to pay all the bills, open her doors, and kiss her feet while she saves her money for herself. You will be her personal servant, expected to fight and die for her, while she sees it as beneath her to even get you a glass of water.

Women like this say things like, "He needs to keep up with me" and "I might give him a chance." Imagine a woman thinking she is offering you the privilege of becoming her servant.

The truth is she is not looking for a man to love, honor, or respect. She is looking for a man to raise her status and income while looking down on him as her provider and protector. A man should never provide for or protect someone who uses him. A man should provide for and protect only those who respect him.