TheXYGhost : I lost a leach. I can deal with that loss.
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The more money and status a women earns, the fewer men that meets her minim requirements to be her husband.
The more money and status a man earns, the more women that finds him worthy to serve her many needs.
This only proves one thing; Women look at men as a meal ticket and will never love a man for the sake of loving him.
I lived with my mother and her husband until I was 15.
She told me that she didn’t know if my biological father was alive or not.
It was all a big lie. My father was alive and paying 20% of his monthly salary to my mother. It was automatically deducted from his check. In addition, the medical insurance was paid as well. She got the money every month.
When I was 14, I wanted to travel to another country for my 15th birthday, and discovered that my father was alive and paying something similar to alimony.
I searched and found him. He was living in the same city, in another neighbourhood and still working for the same government office.
So, both my mother and former stepfather lied to me for years.
She divorced him as well.
Those things happen.
I was working 2 jobs; 8 hours a day in a truck stop and 6 to 8 hours a day selling and installing CB radios, linear amplifiers and trucks. I was doing my business and doing my job, as a man should, to bring home money for food, clothes and diapers for the baby. She also needed pot to smoke because Mexican women like to smoke weed.
I was busting my ass just like my father did for his family. Her complaint was that I was never home and when I was home I was sleeping.
Well I knew about the pot. What I didn’t know about was the meth. So while I was working all night on the graveyard shift, she was fucking the dude with the bag and glass dick (crack pipe) they smoked all of my weed.
It took me 3 years to figure this shit out. They say love is blind until you get hit in the head with a big stick. Then I woke up.
You know I don’t care if someone uses dope. Likewise, I don’t care if someone drinks. But if the alcohol or the use of a mind altering substance takes control of your life then you have a problem.
You can buy a bag of whatever you want with leftover money after all bills are paid and consume some on your time off work. Have fun enjoy. But if you have to consume every day just to function or spend all your money on it and not take care of bills then you have a problem and you need to stop.
Well my ex had a big problem with consuming too much. She would buy a big bag and would try to smoke it all at one time or till unconscious, whichever came first. I couldn’t understand that. I kept asking her how high she wanted to go. For me, I like to fly 15,000 to 35,000 feet. This is a nice cruising altitude. You can still function and take care of business.
I was never married but I paid child support for 21 years. At first the amount was set at $123.00 per month but every few years she had my finances re-investigated and by the end of my support was over $400 plus a month.
I figured it out! We used a condom and the KY jelly always came up missing. She, being a nursing student, knew that petroleum jelly breaks down the latex of condoms. After our fun, I pulled out and only the bottom half of the condom was intact. She sperm jacked me!
She only initiated sex during her optimum fertile time. With me being so high and horny, we used petroleum jelly to lubricate the condom. She was supposed to be on the pill as well. 2 month later she’s sick in the morning. We went to the doctor, and sure enough, she comes back pregnant.
Well, I did what every other male would do at 29 years of age. I buckled down and bust my ass. But, that was not good enough for her. No matter how much money I brought home, her hidden meth habit took more than I could make. Then certain things came up missing.
When they sabotaged the tires on my vehicle, hoping for me to have a fatal accident and cash in on my life insurance that was the last straw. Of course I couldn’t prove it at the time, but I took a crossbow arrow out of my rear truck tire when it went flat on me. My buddy, who was a tire man, showed me this.
I wish I could rip out that chapter of my life she changed my whole life on my opinion on bitches. She ran me through the gutter.
Then, with an electronics back ground I put electronic bugs in our house to listen in. It turned out that the dude she ran off with was making her turn tricks at the local bar and he beat the stuff out of her.
I stalked her for 4 years after that. It’s amazing what you can hide in a children’s toy that runs on batteries and give it to your baby they never found out and it would transmit over a mile.
I’m glad the whore is out of my life. Now with social media, I can see what they’re doing. I looked at her she has so many miles on their body she looks older than I am and we’re the same age.
I moved to Florida an was engaged to my child’s mother for 2 years. I was going to full time night classes so I could be with my daughter during the day. I got injured in the Marines in ’07 which made the Florida Police Academy really tough to accomplish in 2012, but I did because I knew it was my only hope of keeping and supporting my daughter.
Then she walked out on me, taking my daughter with her. I spent $5,000 on an attorney which did absolutely nothing for me, because he couldn’t serve her mother the papers. Florida has awful laws for unwed fathers. I’m on the birth certificate and my child has my last name but I have zero rights because you must be married to the child’s mother before you have any rights to your child.
So, January 2013, her mom took off with my child again to another state. It took me a year and a half to find out that they were in North Carolina. Back in 2011 I bought her a brand new Nissan Altima which, of course had to be in my name because I had perfect 760 credit score back then. She let it get repossessed, which made my credit go to 450.
So back to me after finding out she ran; I applied for Tampa Police Department, which I didn’t get the job because I failed my mental evaluation. They told me I was emotionally unstable due to my child being taken. They told me to try back again in 8 months.
So at this point I had no reason to live in Florida any more then I moved back home to Texas to be around family and friends and try to regroup and find my kid.
I went from a $60,000 year career to no career at all. From a 760 credit score to 450, and I lost my only purpose and my joy (my child).
So 3 weeks ago I moved here to North Carolina to fight for my baby girl. I’m not sure how I will get that done because I spent most my money getting put here and paying rent and other expenses. But I can’t give up. She is 6 yrs old and I haven’t seen her since Nov 22, 2012. It has literally killed me. One day Madi daddy will hold and kiss you again.
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Why does this man have to fight to be in his child’s life?
Our prayers are out to you my brother.
When I meet a girl, I will sometimes tell them, “I promised myself that if I met a girl that looks as good as you do, I would buy that girl a diamond ring.” Then I would walk away.
Sometimes I tell them, “If I met 5 more girls like you, I would marry them all the very next day.”
Some days I will ask a girl I met, “I always attract the craziest women, so if you are attracted to me, I do not want your number.”
Most of the time when I’m the third wheel between my friend and his wife, I tell the waitress, “I wanted to bring my girlfriend but my wife would get pissed at me.”
I’m glad that we have a culture that fosters love for mothers, but at this point, it’s become a cult that considers mothers and females in general beyond reproach and criticism. Every conversation that is brought up about single mothers, the talk of responsibility must either be split by mothers and fathers (which we already know that deadbeat dads are already criticized) or thrown onto fathers by those that are offended. As always, nothing gets done, and the end result is that anyone who questions single motherhood must hate women. Rinse and repeat.
From time to time I see stories of gold digging whores who attached themselves to a millionaire. To seal the deal and secure her own personal financial future, she spits out a kid. To the amazement of the treasure seeker, the millionaire conducts a DNA test to find out that the kid is not his and the real father is a thug in prison. I gotta laugh at this point but it still is tragic for the child and a bitter sweet victory for the man.
If it were me, and I was the female digging for gold, I definatly would not risk losing a millionaires wealth by sticking around with a gangster. That’s like knowingly having the winning Power Ball ticket in your hand and instead of going home with the ticket, you go out and get drunk until you pass out.
They become what men require of them. That’s why they always end up asking men, “What kind of woman do you like?” They ask us this so men can tell them how we want them to be. I’ve spoken to way too many of them to be fooled. They are all the same. Trust me, they want someone to put food in their mouths and they will behave the way we expect them to until they get what they want. They hear the phrase, “The grass is always greener on the other side” and they view that as their roadmap instead of a warning.
Help a man out once and when you meet many years later, he will remember all you did for him, thank you and offer a hand if and when you need.
Do the same for a woman and she will either ask for more, make excuses for not keeping in-touch (partly because she feels guilty for deliberately keeping away from you) and point all your faults.
My friend’s son fell off a skateboard and had a severe compound fracture very close to the elbow. Surgery was eminent. We all came to visit him and his father in the hospital before and after surgery to bring presents and other fun stuff for little boys. When all of a sudden, out of nowhere the boy’s grandmother started crying out, yelling, “When is it ever going to be my turn?” As she stormed out the hospital room.
As it turned out, this woman was jealous of all the attention that her 12 year old grandson was getting.
I hate when I hear a man that was brought up by a single mother, bad mouth his father. He will still talk bad about his father even after his baby’s mother runs off and alienates him from his child, all the while telling that child how bad his father was. Doesn’t this man see the pattern?
I would love to have the guts to ask a girl if she wants to go to Greece or some place far. I will buy her a ticket there and buy myself a round trip ticket and see if she makes it home.
Sure Fire Way To Mess With A Girl
Here is a sure-fire way to see if a girl likes you; ask her if she is married or has a boyfriend. If the answer is "no", she may be lying but she is looking at you as a possible mate.
If she says "yes", she may be lying but she doesn't like you for sure.
When I ask that question, no matter what answer I get from the girl, I congratulate her and tell her that she is so lucky. I tell her that she is lucky to be all alone and independent or she is lucky in this day and time that a man would commit to her. Either way, it's a mind fuck for her.
We Need To Work Together!
I was watching a documentary on Scientology, the so-called religion created by science fiction writer L. Ron Hubbard. It seemed that, at one time, the IRS did not accept that The Church of Scientology was a church and that Scientology was not a religion. The IRS further claimed that this organization fraudulently exempted themselves from taxes and, as a result, owed $1.5 Billion in back taxes and penalties.Like my grandmother always used to say...
TheXYGhost
The Provider
There is a definite problem with women that refer to men as a "Provider". They seem to have a profound unrealistic view of the meaning of the word. They seem to want a man that will be by her side 24 hours a day 7 days a week working hard and earning money for the sole purpose of pampering them and them alone. She wants you at her disposal at any time day or night no matter what you are doing at the time.
Women Change
All my life I've been told to look for a nice woman and settle down. I've looked hard for 20 years. I've even followed the advice that girls give, "Not to look, let it happen." They only say that because they would never initiate any relationship in their life. And I found one thing to be true; women are children that want a fantasy, fairytale life where they place themselves in bad situations, creating the damsel in distress while they wait for their prince charming, knight in shining armor to rescue them. I have not only seen this in my life but in the lives of my sisters, brothers, cousins, neighbors, coworkers, in college and everywhere I go even to this day. I have studied divorce since I was 9 years old and now, I'm 43. I have consulted with many men going through divorces for at least 25 years of my life and they are all clueless how cold and calculating, mean, vicious and vindictive their woman turned out. I have lived on my own for 18 years and it has been a peaceful journey with events happening from time to time.
Reclaiming Valentine's Day
Remember that February 14th is the day that women must show their love to Men, after all, we build their houses, install and maintain the roofs, walls, driveways, windows, plumbing, gas, electricity, heating and cooling. We pay for these services too. We have invented cars, boats, airplanes, jets, radios, televisions, telephones, computers, and software. We are constantly improving the skills of men long ago to create bigger, better, stronger, faster, and more efficient products than ever before. Men created and maintained roads, sewers, refuge, water supplies, gasoline (petrol), propane, and power generators (nuclear, hydro-electric, coal, and petroleum). On a daily basis Men risk their lives as police officers, firemen, construction workers to make our lives better. Men pilot planes, drive trucks and taxis and navigate ships so the world can travel and for commerce. Men do not need to prove their love to one woman because we have shown love to the people everywhere with the sweat from our brows.
I look at members of my military and thank them for their duty and service for they freely volunteered to risk their lives for my safety and security. I will not demand gratuity from them.
Women should thank men for our service to the world and not demand us to bow to them further. We are not their indentured servants for life.
Women have nothing, do nothing and achieve nothing without men. All they have is due to men. If they have taken too much it is our fault and we need to correct it now.
Even Saint Valentine, himself was a man that risked his life to marry people when the law of the land punished priests with death for doing so.
Valentine's Day is for women to show their love and respect to the man that has given her and his community so much.
Say NO to Valentine's Day
I’ve been single now for 17 years and I have saved a ton of money in that time, I suddenly have the urge to find me a single mom with 2 or 3 kids (preferably from more than one father) and blow my life savings on their school, activities, clothes, toys and vacations. Hell I just want to buy another man’s child their first car. I want to be their father without the permission of the man that inseminated her. Oh, he can send money but I’ll be glad to see him every other weekend while my new girlfriend sneaks her way into my phone and erase pictures of girls that I save. It wont matter if the picture is of my cousin in a beauty pageant, she will delete them. I get to see her ex live and the spawn of his sperm every day.
Independent woman is a woman that makes their own money while they refuse to love any man that has or makes even a few dollars less than her. Meanwhile she sleeps around with gangsters, thugs, criminals and pimps until she meets the mega millionaire that accepts her the way she is; burnt out, with several STDs brewing and either a few kids in tow or a history of several abortions. When in her thirties, her standards will drop dramatically to be impregnated by any guy she meets or rushes to marriage because her biological clock is ticking.
Its funny how no man claims to be Independent.
Women: There are 3 basic rules to keep a man happy;
1) Feed Me
2) Fuck Me
3) Leave Me The Hell Alone
1 is optional, if you don’t feed him he can make himself a sandwich
2 is optional as well, if you are not in the mood or you are too tired, he can rub one out in the shower
3 is mandatory. If you continually badger and nag him, he will have no choice other than to leave.
You just need to wonder why a father will walk out on a pretty girl and his own flesh and blood.
Is a woman entitled to receive free meals, gifts and entertainment from any and all men until she feels that her sexual currency is diminishing or has completely eroded away? Is she entitled always and forever to a man’s earnings?
I have had my eyes open and need to join woman’s struggle to be free and independent. I believe that women are our equals
I believe that they should get equal pay as men. In fact, they should get paid more than men. But they aren’t getting the pay they deserve.
I look up and down my street every day for many years and see our country going to hell and there is hardly an outcry for the misogyny that I see gone completely rampant;
Trucks delivering packages every day and there is not a woman allowed to take those jobs. And the guilty parties are UPS, FedEx and the USPS. They are secretly forbidding women to drive those trucks so that they too can have productive lives like men do on a daily basis. They are to blame. They are at fault. This needs to change.
But that is just the very tip of the iceberg that is big enough to sink our sexist country let alone a tiny ship in the North Atlantic.
I stayed home one afternoon waiting for my cable to be installed and to my surprise there was a man setting up my cable, phone and Internet. I was perplexed at this but kept my mouth shut. “Where are the female workers?” I thought.
So I called my friends to see if they agree with my observations. They too have been noticing what was in front of their very eyes. It was almost as it were hidden in plain sight. My friends said their cable providers were Verizon, Time Warner Cable, Optimum and they too started to see that their installers were men and not women.
One of my neighbors had work done on his basement and the other had his roof repaired. Again, both places had no women workers. A male plumber worked on my bathroom and a male electrician worked on my friend’s house.
I started to call plumbers, electricians, roofers, and other general contractors, and what I discovered was completely astounding. When I called these places, some of them had a female picking up the phone but that’s where it stopped. When I asked if there were any female workers that could do the work, they all replied with a resounding, “No!” In fact, some of the companies that I called even laughed at me for even asking that.
Let me get this straight, companies throughout this country are keeping their doors closed to one half of the population based on their sex and giving the most visible positions to women as a token.
To give a job to a woman as a receptionist, a job so easy that an 8th grader could do it, is a slap in the face for women around the world. Women are capable of anything and more and they are relegated to only perform menial tasks that require no thought at all.
This is a travesty that you will never see on the nightly news. In fact, MSNBC, Fox News and the rest will hire women and put them in front of the camera for the entire world to see as a token for they do not have the same male to female ratio behind the scenes.
In the television court shows, they only display mostly female judges to make you believe that the appointed judges in your local courts are equally male and female when they are not. Judge Judith Sheindlin, Judge Jeanine Pirro, Judge Lynn Toler, and Judge Marilyn Milian are the visible tokens when they know that your court system is comprised of mostly men.
The same goes with just about every restaurant I have ever visited. There is a female hostess, waitress, and maybe a female bartender where everyone can see. The sexist sided of the restaurants comes to play when you open the kitchen doors. You will never see a woman in any kitchen. Sexism is in restaurants as well. They won’t even allow a women cook.
Speaking about cooking, why are most of the celebrity chefs male? If you do a search on the top celebrity chefs you will be overwhelmed at the ratio between male and female chefs, Jamie Oliver, Gordon Ramsay, Wolfgang Puck, David Chang, Emeril Lagasse, Anthony Bourdain, and Guy Fieri. You have the occasional Rachael Ray and a few others that are not household words due to lack of promotion.
In the transportation industry I see in the New York City Transit Authority all the train conductors and the motormen (a sexist job title to ostracize women) are men. Their bus drivers are overwhelmingly men but there is no outcry. Stand outside the Port Authority Bus Terminal where the busses enter and you will never see a female bus driver. This is very overtly sexist without shame. I’m very sure that this is true in many cities throughout America.
You can’t find a cab in New York City that is driven by a man. Uber and Lyft are new companies that just emerged in the past few years and you would have to look real hard to find a female driver. In fact the men line up at the Taxi and Limousine Commission to get licensing to drive such cars but there is no encouragement provided by the T&LC to get women to drive and earn a decent living.
When was the last time you saw a female auto mechanic? Sears, Pep Boys, and just about any independent mechanic you find, are men.
I watched the garbage trucks that drive by picking up garbage every day and wouldn’t you know it? I have never seen a woman do these jobs. In fact, most the New York City Police Department and the Fire Department are overwhelmingly men. This is the hidden sexism and they are editing that from the news.
Feminist organizations speak out about this injustice by stating that the gender wage gap is such that women get paid 77¢ to a man’s dollar but I think that gap is much wider. These organizations respond by saying that women need encouragement in order to get these high paying jobs so that they can earn more. I say we need to go further.
We need to find the organizations that only encourage men to do these jobs and punish them for not encouraging women. By the way, these employment encouraging agencies must be encouraging men in the direction towards high paying jobs while directing women to the porn and modeling industries. These jobs overtly objectify women to the point that it’s humiliating beyond reason.
We have to do our part by voting with our dollars and only get our cars fixed where females are allowed to be mechanics. Go to restaurants that have women that work behind the scenes. We need to focus our collective monies where women are getting employed. We need to boycott taxis that are not driven by women and only take such cabs that are operated by women. Women are not allowed to be gainfully employed and we wonder why they fight so hard for alimony, palimony, child support, welfare, section 8 housing, food stamps, and social security disability. There are women’s shelters throughout America because there are no jobs for them.
Together we can help make women truly independent and productive.
Why is it that every time I explain to some girl why I’ve been single for so many years, they manipulate my pointing out how women are hateful to men as me hating women. Their knee jerk reaction to me pointing out women’s bad behavior is me hating women and suggest that I learn to be gay.
Let me get this straight, I should suck dick because women are so messed up.
There is an article on the Internet titled “Dating: 10 Things Men Don’t Do Anymore”
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It lists 10 things men do not do anymore on or for dates. And they are;
1 – Men don’t accept rejection anymore
2 – Men don’t make phone calls anymore
3 – Men don’t buy drinks anymore
4 – Men don’t ask women to dance anymore
5 – Men don’t give meaningful compliments anymore
6 – Men don’t work at impressing anymore
7 – Men don’t show up at your door with a gift/token anymore
8 – Men don’t take charge of dating plans anymore
9 – Men don’t ask women out in advance anymore
10 – Men don’t ask women on dates anymore
I’ve come up with my list of 10 things that women do not do any more.
1 – Women will never tell you whose child you are raising – At the dawn of the 21st century we are now finding out that women have more affairs than usually believed. With DNA testing we find that some men are raising children that are not even theirs. Some conservative estimates state that some 30 – 35% of fathers today are raising another man’s child unbeknownst to either of the men.
2 – Women do not keep their families together – In this age of disposable razors, lighters, pens, diapers, etc. women found a way to dispose of the most important man in their child’s life for any minuscule reason they can think of and they will have the backing of the Family Courts’ anti-masculine agenda to cut a man to pieces just because that man is imperfect for her immediate needs.
3 – Women are not forgiving – 80% of all divorces in America today are initiated by females. Make no mistake, forgiveness is not part of their plan that includes taking everything you own (children included) and they will stop at nothing to ruin your life with false rape and domestic violence accusations if you do not meet their exact expectations.
4 – Women do not cook – It was once said that a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach but that line of thinking is gone. Once a woman places the dehumanizing label of “provider” or gets you to agree to “take care of her”, she will take that to mean that you provide for her every need, want and desire and that includes food, clothes, happiness and excitement when she wants it and how she wants it. Every man would kill or die for a woman that gave him a warm meal at the end of his hard day, but that is too hard for today’s woman.
5 – Women do not partner with strong masculine and moral men – good bye John Wayne and hello to Joey, Chandler and Ross. Women also like the meanest and nastiest men around. They have love affairs with murderers, rapists, thugs and criminals. In fact, when there is a high profile murder or rapist on the news that just got arrested, women will waste no time in writing love letters to that man.
6 – Women do not contribute to the household expenses – If you talk to any married woman and you get to the point where she talks about finances, she will inevitably say that there is “her money” (The money she acquired even if it was from his wallet) and there is “our money” (the money that he works hard to make). If the hot water heater is broken and there is no money in “our” bank account to fix it, even if she has enough of “her” money to fix it, there is going to be some cold showers in the household’s future.
7 – Women have no shame – Once upon a time women were shamed to have a child out of wedlock, be divorced or even caught in another man’s bed other than her husband’s. Now these things are the source of a woman’s pride and attention. Single motherhood, divorce, receiving welfare and having multiple children from multiple men are badges of honor for today’s woman.
8 – Women do not work – Nearly 60 years have past since the feminist movement of the 1960’s and women still do not work. Sure they will take the part time, minimum wage job but they will not even try to be ambitious to do their share to bring in money for the household. If they make more money than their husband, that is grounds for divorce in her eyes. During WWII women worked in factories building ships, tanks and planes for their men at war. In the pre industrial revolution, a woman scrubbed the floors, washed dishes by hand, washed clothes on a washboard by hand chopped wood for fire to make bread, breakfast, lunch and dinner. Today’s woman wants a provider to pamper her in luxury to the point that he needs 2 and even 3 jobs to pay for it.
9 – Women do not take care of their children – Today’s statistics show that 75% of all convicted criminals in prison today come from a single mother home. What kind of morals are being instilled by a mother to her child without the father’s influence? It seems that for the most part, women only care about theirselves and the care they give to their kids ends up being responsible for America’s ultra high prison population.
10 – Women are not loving – When a man comes home from work, instead of a hot meal, a change of clothes and a shoulder rub after a hard day, a woman will complain how hard her life was, give her worn out husband orders to take out the trash, order up food and sweep the leaves.
Its no wonder why men now are doing their own thing for themselves and excluding selfish, self-centered women behind.
In these times, women, in the Western World are the unhappiest of all.
They feel unfulfilled. They feel unaccomplished. And they will always blame the man they selected and labeled as their own personal “Provider”. Their dependency on their unreasonable expectations they place on that provider is so great that they have nothing to do to obtain a sense of pride that comes from doing something deserving of the fulfillment they desire.
They place all their wants, needs and desires, real or unreal on that provider and they will do nothing to get what they want, need or desire, except for another provider.
They are the ones that sit back and relinquish themselves any and all responsibility to do anything to achieve.
I hear it all the time when women tell me the reason they divorced or broke up with a man.
“I’m not happy”, the implication is that their provider did not provide them happiness.
I would love to see women that are independent. I want to see them independent from me, men, the state and their parents. I want them independent from alimony and welfare.
Ungrateful
It does not matter how much money you have, the woman that you select (she really selects you) will find a way to accuse you of wrongdoing while she calls the lawyers (The modern-day Philistines to your Delilah), the police and judges to take your money and take away your kids because men are treated as the second-class citizens.Any Man Can, But Who Would Want This?
Any guy can get laid, but do you want to eat pussy that was filled only hours before you lick it? Maybe you like tonguing broad only minutes after she gave the last PUA a blowjob.
It's up to you. Wipe another man's goo off your dick and kiss that filthy mouth afterwards.
Not All Women Are Like That
Her: Not all girls are the same!
TheXYGhost: Good. I'll wait until some girl takes me out, buys me dinner and sweeps me off of my feet until she is ready to propose to me with a new car.
Her: That's never gonna happen.
TheXYGhost: Why? Because there are no girls will ever take the time, energy and money to pamper a man?
Her: You got that right!
TheXYGhost: So, what you are telling me is that all girls are the same.
My Perfect Date
TheXYGhost: Hey, do you want to join me for dinner?
Her: You mean like a date?
TheXYGhost: If you want to call it that, I guess so.
Her: That would be nice. Where are we going?
TheXYGhost: Burger King.
Her: Burger King? That's the cheapest date that anyone has ever offered me.
TheXYGhost: Have you been on many dates that were more costly?
Her: Hell yeah. More than you can imagine.
TheXYGhost: Are any of those guys still with you now?
Her: You hate women!
Women Complain That They Have a Hard Life
From the American Revolution to the present-day wars, men have died for our collective freedoms at a ratio of 1000 men for every 1 woman when the ratio between men and women in the military are 5000 men for every woman. When those ratios change to about 1 to 1, I'll look at women differently.What Girls Want
So, you are looking for a man that will kill or is willing to be killed to protect you?Women hate men to the point that they refuse to have them in their child’s life. These women have children for the purpose of the child loving the mother. They place the burden of the child to love them and they do not want the child to love another. That is also the reason that women choose to divorce the father when the child starts to prefer the dad over the mom. Dads play with their children. Dads wrestle and make their child laugh, a feat that no mom has ever done.
Women hate men. They are taught that by media, movies and commercials. This is part of the reason why there is a overwhelming amount of single mothers in this country. 80% of divorces are initiated by women.
Women have hatred in their hearts for men because men could never live up to the ever increasing standards they impose on men.
Women want a king and make him her servant. If he falls in line as a servant, she hates that he dose what he is told. If he refuses to be her servant, he is labeled, “mean” and “abusive” the way a child calls it’s parents mean for not letting them eat candy all day.
A woman is a child protected by the state. They look for a person to provide for them the way a child wants the parents to provide.
They take provider to mean that a man is to provide for her every want, need and desire whether they are real or imaginary. “I’m not happy” turns into “Provide me happiness on a silver platter, when, where and how I want it.”
Her: What kind of work do you do?
TheXYGhost : Would you date a man that works at McDonald’s?
Her: No!
TheXYGhost : Not even the CEO of McDonald’s, Inc.?
Her: Well, that’s a different story.
TheXYGhost : I am a French Fry chef at a McDonald’s now go and find your Prince Charming elsewhere. I’m not interested in broke people looking for money.
Every man admires a Ferrari, but no man wants a Ferrari with 600,000 miles on the odometer no matter how shiny it looks.
I’m talking to you Mrs. I’m-50-years-old-but-I-look-30.
I guess you can call me a feminist. I want to see men and women treated the same. Equally. I want to see more men getting sole custody and child support payments. I want to see more female mechanics, firemen, sanitation workers, construction workers, painters, plasterers, dry wall installers, plumbers, roofers, electricians, gardeners, pilots, maintenance workers, janitors, truck drivers, taxi drivers, bus drivers, train conductors, fork lift operators, coal minors, oil riggers, etc.
Let’s show support for woman risking their lives to support their husbands and families with hard work.
OMG, I wrote this on October 6th, 2013 and I would post it on any dating site that someone insisted that I join.
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I sometimes wonder what people look for on a site like this. I have been happily divorced for about 13 years. Whenever somebody is not satisfied with my current state of zen, they usually tell me to find myself a girl with whom I can settle. When they tell me of a new website to join, I join it.
When women divorce men, the general consensus is that the man must have done somthing wrong for the woman to have left. When a man divorces a woman, he is looked at as evil. Never is a woman wrong.
This was true even of my divorce. When I told people that my wife left me, they usually asked me what did I do to make her leave. When I tell people that she cleaned out my bank accounts and maxed out my credit cards to furnish her new apartment that she moved in right away with her new boyfriend, they tell me its my fault for trusting her. When I tell people that she lied to me about not being able to have children, and finding birth control pills hidden in the house after she left, they say its my fault too for not searching the home for something hidden. When I tell people that my ex-wife lied, cheated, deceived and stole from me the reply is simple for the simple minded, its my fault for picking her.
It is the current mindset that it is never a woman’s fault. When was the last time you heard of a woman that had to leave the house and the kids to the man that worked so hard to pay for the house and all of the kids care. Never. In fact, quite the opposite happens. The woman is awarded the custody of the children, the house and weekly payments awarded to the kids that the woman uses for her own needs. Just to add a insult to a injury, a man in that position, would have to pay the mortgage and the upkeep of a house while the woman that backstabbed the father of her children got the home.
When you say that women only want money, you will be attacked by women, telling you otherwise.
When I told a woman that I only attract the craziest women and that last year I received 6 marriage proposals. Her reply was quick. “You must be very rich.” Mind you she never said that I was kind or very caring, she said that the only reason that women proposed marriage to me is because I maybe rich.
I went on a date with one girl that told me the best business decision a woman can make is marrying the right man. Immediately asked for the check and paid the bill and left. I parted with the following words of advice. There are millionaires and billionaires in america, start with the billionaires and move your way to the millionaires when the billionaires do not like you.
I am so sick of these single moms in my neighborhood asking me to do something for them around the house only to find out its their way of flirting with me. I hate it even more when they ask their kids if they would like it if I were their new father.
They divorced the father of their kids because the man was less than perfect. Funny, that is why my ex-wife left me. I guess I am less than perfect as well.
Women seem to hold their single parenthood like a badge of honor. I look at it this way; since 80% of the divorces are filed by women, and 90% of all divorces are for financial reasons. It is safe to say that she most likely filed the divorce papers on the most important man in her children’s life for her perception of money problems.
My grandfather once told me; “Never complain about my efforts unless you can do better”. My guess is that the women complaining about their mans efforts to earn a living can do better. Why don’t they just do a better job?
When I was over a friends place, his mother, a very sweet lady, asked me if I was interested in a nice single woman. My friend interrupted his mother, because he knew my opinion. Later on I found out that this woman wanted me to be introduced to a woman that had 5 children from 5 different men. I really can’t see myself in that situation. Like I really want to change my lifestyle to feed and clothe 5 children that are not mine and juggle visitation schedules with men I have never met. Not me.
Women seem to hate it when a man saves pictures of their ex-girlfriends. But living in a household with another man’s children, you see the children every day and see the woman’s ex-(fill in the blank) every other weekend for visitation.
My neighbor tried to tell me about her niece that was available. I wanted to hear more. After asking my neighbor a few choice questions, I found out the following; Her niece was married and divorced 2 times with 2 children. The second child was from a man whom she had an affair while married to number one. The reason for her first divorce. The second divorced came after lucky number two found out that both of her kids were not from her first husband.
One final question before I finish. Have you ever heard of a man (without a home of his own) marry a woman with a home of her own. Have kids, then the man files for divorce then is awarded the home, the custody of the children and child support from the woman?
Now I can tell my friend that I joined this site that he recommended. Mission accomplished.
Did you even read the whole thing?
What is with some of you women? Did you really put a picture of you and your child on a dating site? Really? Did you ask them what they thought about it?
1. Don’t make him responsible for your every want, need and desire.
2. Don’t expect him to be your doctor, lawyer, psychiatrist and handyman all in one.
3. Don’t go looking for his faults every second of the day. You have faults too.
4. You can take him out too.
5. The solutions to all your problems are not in another man when you find an imperfection in him.
6. Stop testing him, he is not a lab rat and you are not a scientist.
7. Treating him like he is your provider is dehumanizing. Strive to be equal partners.
8. Just because it is easy for you to cheat, does not mean that every text and picture on his phone is a cheating partner of his.
9. You can’t change him from what he is to what you want. Change will come for you and him if you just sit back and enjoy.
10. Stop complaining. If something is not the way you want it, take the initiative.
11. The saying “The grass is greener on the other side”, is a warning not a roadmap.
12. Know when enough is enough and when to stop. This goes for nagging, whining, crying, complaining and threatening to leave.
13. Do you really think that taking away his kids and living with a new guy that had his kids taken away is going to be less problems for you?
14. Threatening to leave him if he doesn’t want to marry you only proves to him how little you love him and how inflated your ego is.
15. Nobody can make anyone happy.
16. He cannot read your mind.
17. Stop hinting. It is not the most efficient means of communication.
18. If you ask a question and he answers it directly, don’t be sad that he didn’t figure out what you really meant.
19. If you like “Bad Boys” it’s your fault that he he is in your life. Bad means bad.
20. Just because you hint at him, doesn’t mean that you need to look deeper than his answer.
21. Manipulation is done via deceit. That is lying.
22. Having a “Plan B” is cheating.
23. Your best relationship is your first one, it’s all downhill from there.
24. Treat him the way you want to be treated.