Angered by news of her ex-husband’s new child, she destroyed the house she lived in with her current husband.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Sunday, September 21, 2025
Trick Her Into Admitting She Was Wrong
I have asked this one question to many women who have been single for a while, and 99% of them answered, “Yes.”
The question is:
“If you knew that the last man in your life would be the last man in your life, would you have treated him better?”
When they said “Yes,” they admitted without realizing it that they had mistreated him. They admitted they took him for granted, disrespected him, or pushed him away thinking there would always be another man waiting in the wings.
That single answer exposes the entitlement. They assumed men were an endless resource. Only when time and options ran out did they look back and realize they had destroyed the one relationship that mattered. By then, it was too late.
The question is:
“If you knew that the last man in your life would be the last man in your life, would you have treated him better?”
When they said “Yes,” they admitted without realizing it that they had mistreated him. They admitted they took him for granted, disrespected him, or pushed him away thinking there would always be another man waiting in the wings.
That single answer exposes the entitlement. They assumed men were an endless resource. Only when time and options ran out did they look back and realize they had destroyed the one relationship that mattered. By then, it was too late.
Saturday, September 20, 2025
TheXYGhost III 264
She began looking for a stepfather for her child the moment she heard that her husband was in a car accident and in intensive care.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
For What Men and Women Are Known
What Women Do
• Cry
• Lie
• Talk
• Want
• Shame
• Accuse
• Bicker
• Provoke
• Complain
• Gaslight
• Manipulate
• Throw tantrum
• Reject Accountability
What Men Do
• Build
• Provide
• Protect
• Instruct
• Repair
• Invent
• Formulate teams
• Cry
• Lie
• Talk
• Want
• Shame
• Accuse
• Bicker
• Provoke
• Complain
• Gaslight
• Manipulate
• Throw tantrum
• Reject Accountability
What Men Do
• Build
• Provide
• Protect
• Instruct
• Repair
• Invent
• Formulate teams
Friday, September 19, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 263
Her : You never really loved me.
TheXYGhost : You are right. Love requires respect. You made that impossible.
TheXYGhost : You are right. Love requires respect. You made that impossible.
TheXYGhost II 263
Women often avoid responsibility for mistakes by blaming others and claiming they were misled.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
To Single Women With Multiple Children From Different Fathers
• In high school, you dismissed your male classmates, chasing gang members, drug addicts, and drug dealers.
• In college, you continued to look down on your male peers, seeking out married men and other unreliable options.
• You placed men you did not like in the friend zone and rejected good men, claiming they were “too nice.”
• You married and divorced men not because of irreconcilable differences, but because you grew bored or magnified their flaws.
• You expected men to pursue you while you played hard to get, only to pressure them into commitment before ending the relationship yourself.
• You went out with men you did not even like, simply because they offered you dinner, a night out, or a vacation.
• You ended every relationship, whether boyfriend, engagement, or marriage, always finding a reason to walk away.
• You used the legal system, police, lawyers, and judges, to strip as much money as possible from the men you once promised to love “until death do us part.”
• You alienated your children from their father, the most important man in their lives.
Now, as your children grow older, you fantasize about Prince Charming rescuing you and funding the rest of your life, but you are left with only memories of men you never truly cared for.
You demand that every man invest in you from the very first date under the illusion of building a future, only to walk away once you have extracted what you wanted. Many men have invested in you, and you left them all. Now, you expect a man you have never met to provide you with luxuries for the rest of your life, while you offer no genuine interest in building a meaningful bond.
When a man judges your situation, multiple children from multiple fathers, you deflect with “Nobody’s perfect,” “Don’t judge me,” or “People make mistakes.” But did you not judge the men in your past for being less than perfect? Were you forgiving of their mistakes?
Do you truly want your daughters to follow in your footsteps, raising multiple children from multiple men?
Do you want your son’s children taken from him, forcing you to visit your grandchildren in another man’s home?
• In college, you continued to look down on your male peers, seeking out married men and other unreliable options.
• You placed men you did not like in the friend zone and rejected good men, claiming they were “too nice.”
• You married and divorced men not because of irreconcilable differences, but because you grew bored or magnified their flaws.
• You expected men to pursue you while you played hard to get, only to pressure them into commitment before ending the relationship yourself.
• You went out with men you did not even like, simply because they offered you dinner, a night out, or a vacation.
• You ended every relationship, whether boyfriend, engagement, or marriage, always finding a reason to walk away.
• You used the legal system, police, lawyers, and judges, to strip as much money as possible from the men you once promised to love “until death do us part.”
• You alienated your children from their father, the most important man in their lives.
Now, as your children grow older, you fantasize about Prince Charming rescuing you and funding the rest of your life, but you are left with only memories of men you never truly cared for.
You demand that every man invest in you from the very first date under the illusion of building a future, only to walk away once you have extracted what you wanted. Many men have invested in you, and you left them all. Now, you expect a man you have never met to provide you with luxuries for the rest of your life, while you offer no genuine interest in building a meaningful bond.
When a man judges your situation, multiple children from multiple fathers, you deflect with “Nobody’s perfect,” “Don’t judge me,” or “People make mistakes.” But did you not judge the men in your past for being less than perfect? Were you forgiving of their mistakes?
Do you truly want your daughters to follow in your footsteps, raising multiple children from multiple men?
Do you want your son’s children taken from him, forcing you to visit your grandchildren in another man’s home?
TheXYGhost 332
Her : You will find thee right one.
TheXYGhost : Not unless she buys me a new Bugatti.
TheXYGhost : Not unless she buys me a new Bugatti.
Thursday, September 18, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 262
Her : You are emotionally unavailable.
TheXYGhost : No, I am selectively available. Earn it.
TheXYGhost : No, I am selectively available. Earn it.
Make Me Like You
I was working on securing a contract with a new company that had shown interest in my services. After some initial back-and-forth, they suddenly stopped responding.
Weeks later, their secretary texted me, and we arranged to meet at a local TGI Fridays near their office. We sat down, ordered drinks, and she hinted that she could be influential in getting my contract approved, but she wanted a monetary incentive. I agreed. She then asked if she could order a cheap appetizer. I said yes. When it arrived, she smiled and said how easy she was to please, calling the dish a true delight.
I paid the bill, and she promised to contact me soon.
A week later, she sent me a link to a restaurant’s website. This place was on a sprawling estate with horse-drawn carriages, a marble staircase to the dining area, a grand piano, wandering violinists, and an over-the-top five-course menu with absurdly expensive wines.
I asked why she sent it. She said it was her favorite restaurant. I commented, “You must go there often to like it so much.” She replied, “You’re not catching my hint. Do I need to spell it out for you? I want you to take me here if you want my boss to accept your bid. You need to make me like you for this to happen.”
That’s when it became clear she had no real influence at all. She just wanted someone to drop piles of money on her. I texted back, “I don’t know how to make anyone like me. If I could, I’d make a hot model like me, not someone like you.”
She never contacted me again, and I never wondered why.
Weeks later, their secretary texted me, and we arranged to meet at a local TGI Fridays near their office. We sat down, ordered drinks, and she hinted that she could be influential in getting my contract approved, but she wanted a monetary incentive. I agreed. She then asked if she could order a cheap appetizer. I said yes. When it arrived, she smiled and said how easy she was to please, calling the dish a true delight.
I paid the bill, and she promised to contact me soon.
A week later, she sent me a link to a restaurant’s website. This place was on a sprawling estate with horse-drawn carriages, a marble staircase to the dining area, a grand piano, wandering violinists, and an over-the-top five-course menu with absurdly expensive wines.
I asked why she sent it. She said it was her favorite restaurant. I commented, “You must go there often to like it so much.” She replied, “You’re not catching my hint. Do I need to spell it out for you? I want you to take me here if you want my boss to accept your bid. You need to make me like you for this to happen.”
That’s when it became clear she had no real influence at all. She just wanted someone to drop piles of money on her. I texted back, “I don’t know how to make anyone like me. If I could, I’d make a hot model like me, not someone like you.”
She never contacted me again, and I never wondered why.
Wednesday, September 17, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 261
Her : You need to prove yourself to me.
TheXYGhost : You are free to find someone who needs to audition for you.
TheXYGhost : You are free to find someone who needs to audition for you.
TheXYGhost III 261
Men, who do you think is deserving and entitled to your provisions and protection so they can live life off you?
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
The Never-ending Pursuit of, "Happily Ever After"
I have spoken to many women about relationships, both casually and in a counseling setting. No matter the context, this ever-elusive state of “happy” seems to dominate the concerns of the modern woman. Here are actual examples of what I have heard:
Her: I divorced him because he could not make me happy.
Me: What makes you happy?
Her: I do not know what makes me happy, but it is his job to find out.
Her: I never said I marry bad men. Both of my ex-husbands were really good men, they just never knew how to make me happy.
Me: Why do you keep breaking up with these men?
Her: None of them know how to make me happy.
Me: Have you ever thought the problem is that you are not happy?
Her: You hate women.
Me: I am never dating again. I am not going to be an ATM for someone who will point out every fault she sees in me while expecting me to fund everything she desires. I am not doing that again.
Her: Who hurt you? Not all women are the same. You need to find your happiness. You need to keep trying to find a girlfriend until you find your happiness. You need to know you have the right to be happy.
Her: I do not care how many times I have to marry and divorce, I am going to keep doing this until I find my happiness.
Her: I divorced him because he could not make me happy.
Me: What makes you happy?
Her: I do not know what makes me happy, but it is his job to find out.
Her: I never said I marry bad men. Both of my ex-husbands were really good men, they just never knew how to make me happy.
Me: Why do you keep breaking up with these men?
Her: None of them know how to make me happy.
Me: Have you ever thought the problem is that you are not happy?
Her: You hate women.
Me: I am never dating again. I am not going to be an ATM for someone who will point out every fault she sees in me while expecting me to fund everything she desires. I am not doing that again.
Her: Who hurt you? Not all women are the same. You need to find your happiness. You need to keep trying to find a girlfriend until you find your happiness. You need to know you have the right to be happy.
Her: I do not care how many times I have to marry and divorce, I am going to keep doing this until I find my happiness.
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Her : Why do we do everything your way?
TheXYGhost : Because you never offer suggestions, you just follow.
TheXYGhost : Because you never offer suggestions, you just follow.
Tuesday, September 16, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 260
Her : I just thought you’d understand.
TheXYGhost : I understand. I just don’t accept nonsense.
TheXYGhost : I understand. I just don’t accept nonsense.
TheXYGhost III 260
She spent $10,000 on a dating coach and over $60,000 on cosmetic surgery to attract a man, but spending even $1 on a man or being kind to him is out of the question.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost II 260
If you caught her cheating on you, no need to argue, now you know she’s your side piece.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Dating Strategies of a Female as a Fisherman
A woman wants to catch the biggest and tastiest fish without owning a pole, line, hook, reel, or lure. She will not step near a lake, pond, creek, or river. She expects the fish to find her, pursue her, and convince her to take him, all while she hides away in a mountain cabin waiting for her meal to leap into her frying pan.
Just like Sleeping Beauty, she hides in the woods expecting someone to come to her. A woman initiates nothing but breakups and divorces, yet still believes the best will somehow arrive at her doorstep without effort, risk, or pursuit on her part.
Just like Sleeping Beauty, she hides in the woods expecting someone to come to her. A woman initiates nothing but breakups and divorces, yet still believes the best will somehow arrive at her doorstep without effort, risk, or pursuit on her part.
Monday, September 15, 2025
TheXYGhost III 259
Women often prefer dating over marriage because dating is focused on fun and enjoyment, while marriage involves real-life responsibilities and challenges.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost II 259
If you caught her in your bed with another man, she planned that. She wanted you too to fight for her.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
What a Shitty Way of Ending a Relationship
I had a girlfriend who went to an out of state college after we had been dating for almost eight months. We had known each other for a year before we started the relationship. I had already been in college for two years but dropped out a year before she began. I asked her if she wanted to end things when she left, but she said no. During her first year away, I visited her every month, and she even convinced me to restart my education at her college.
I applied, got accepted, and was set to start in September. At the end of her semester, we found an apartment together for the new school year. I paid the first month’s rent and the deposit for both of us.
That summer was great, we spent time together and talked about our future living together while attending school.
When September came, we packed and prepared to move. Out of nowhere, she called me from our apartment, saying she had arrived early to get it ready.
Two days later, I arrived to find the locks changed. She came to the door wearing another man’s shirt and handed me an envelope with the money I had paid for rent and deposit. She told me it was time to break up.
Inside, a shirtless man sat drinking beer and watching TV. My first reaction was rage, I wanted to lash out, but growing up in a rough neighborhood taught me that violence would not fix anything.
Now I was in a new city on the first day of school with nowhere to stay. I found a last minute spot in an expensive dorm across the street. I stayed there for a year and never saw her again.
I applied, got accepted, and was set to start in September. At the end of her semester, we found an apartment together for the new school year. I paid the first month’s rent and the deposit for both of us.
That summer was great, we spent time together and talked about our future living together while attending school.
When September came, we packed and prepared to move. Out of nowhere, she called me from our apartment, saying she had arrived early to get it ready.
Two days later, I arrived to find the locks changed. She came to the door wearing another man’s shirt and handed me an envelope with the money I had paid for rent and deposit. She told me it was time to break up.
Inside, a shirtless man sat drinking beer and watching TV. My first reaction was rage, I wanted to lash out, but growing up in a rough neighborhood taught me that violence would not fix anything.
Now I was in a new city on the first day of school with nowhere to stay. I found a last minute spot in an expensive dorm across the street. I stayed there for a year and never saw her again.
Sunday, September 14, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 258
Her : You’re controlling.
TheXYGhost : Telling you no is not control; it is standards. Learn the difference.
TheXYGhost : Telling you no is not control; it is standards. Learn the difference.
TheXYGhost III 258
She provokes him until he gets angry then cries, saying that he’s abusive.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost II 258
Her : What type of woman do you like?
TheXYGhost : She’d need to be a bit taller than you, has a college degree and definitely not a Capricorn.
TheXYGhost : She’d need to be a bit taller than you, has a college degree and definitely not a Capricorn.
Her Perception of Her Provider's Duties
Regardless of her age, marital status, or social standing, a woman will not give her love to a man unless he surpasses her in status and income. She will expect him to take on even her most basic responsibilities without question. You will often hear her say, “He is not making me happy,” placing the entire weight of her happiness on his shoulders as if her emotional state is his lifelong assignment. She sees him as a provider by default and believes it is his duty to ensure her comfort, her lifestyle, and her sense of fulfillment. In her mind, a man’s primary purpose is to pay the bills for another full grown adult.
It does not matter if she has one child or several from previous relationships, she assumes any man stepping into her life should want to provide for them as if they were his own. In her mind, his main role is not to build a partnership but to financially support her and another man’s offspring without complaint.
When she finds such a man, she will often push for marriage, not out of deep love, but to secure a lifelong contract binding him to her needs. The moment he legally commits, the dynamic shifts. Affection can fade, appreciation can vanish, and her energy turns to highlighting his flaws, whether they exist or not. Divorce then becomes a profitable exit strategy, a way to cash out on the man she once claimed to cherish.
Any man who obeys her every demand is not, in her mind, a “real man.” The irony is that any man who refuses to be her personal provider gets branded with the exact same insult. In her world, a man only earns respect when he sacrifices himself entirely for her benefit, and even then, it is never enough.
It does not matter if she has one child or several from previous relationships, she assumes any man stepping into her life should want to provide for them as if they were his own. In her mind, his main role is not to build a partnership but to financially support her and another man’s offspring without complaint.
When she finds such a man, she will often push for marriage, not out of deep love, but to secure a lifelong contract binding him to her needs. The moment he legally commits, the dynamic shifts. Affection can fade, appreciation can vanish, and her energy turns to highlighting his flaws, whether they exist or not. Divorce then becomes a profitable exit strategy, a way to cash out on the man she once claimed to cherish.
Any man who obeys her every demand is not, in her mind, a “real man.” The irony is that any man who refuses to be her personal provider gets branded with the exact same insult. In her world, a man only earns respect when he sacrifices himself entirely for her benefit, and even then, it is never enough.
Saturday, September 13, 2025
TheXYGhost II 257
On her first date she ordered 48 oysters, 4 sides, 2 entrees and 4 drinks and she wondered why he left her cold.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Her Pickup Strategy
She rejects, mocks, and ridicules any man who approaches her, yet she depends on those approaches to feed her self-worth. Every glance, every compliment, every attempt to connect is validation that she still has value. The more men approach, the more powerful she feels. The irony is that she will even reject men she finds attractive, because turning them down boosts her sense of superiority. Her ego swells with every dismissal.
She hides behind predictable routines of home, work, and school, waiting for her perfect Prince Charming to seek her out, discover her, and rescue her from her own monotony. She refuses to initiate any form of relationship, convincing herself that making the first move would mean forcing something that is not “meant to be.”
In social settings, even when she has her eye on a man in the room, she refuses to act directly. Instead, she adjusts her clothes, flips her hair, and shifts her posture in a silent plea for attention. She treats these subtle gestures as effort, expecting him to notice, approach, and pursue. If no one does, she leaves the event irritated, blaming men for not “stepping up.”
She will even avoid eye contact or any gesture that might make her interest obvious. And if, by some rare chance, the man she desires approaches her and initiates contact, she still finds a reason to reject him. Maybe he spoke too soon, waited too long, stood too close, or said the wrong words. No matter the reason, she frames it as proof that he did not approach her the “right way,” preserving her throne while keeping every man beneath it.
She hides behind predictable routines of home, work, and school, waiting for her perfect Prince Charming to seek her out, discover her, and rescue her from her own monotony. She refuses to initiate any form of relationship, convincing herself that making the first move would mean forcing something that is not “meant to be.”
In social settings, even when she has her eye on a man in the room, she refuses to act directly. Instead, she adjusts her clothes, flips her hair, and shifts her posture in a silent plea for attention. She treats these subtle gestures as effort, expecting him to notice, approach, and pursue. If no one does, she leaves the event irritated, blaming men for not “stepping up.”
She will even avoid eye contact or any gesture that might make her interest obvious. And if, by some rare chance, the man she desires approaches her and initiates contact, she still finds a reason to reject him. Maybe he spoke too soon, waited too long, stood too close, or said the wrong words. No matter the reason, she frames it as proof that he did not approach her the “right way,” preserving her throne while keeping every man beneath it.
Friday, September 12, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 256
Her : You’re being mean.
TheXYGhost : No, I’m being honest. You’re just not used to it.
TheXYGhost : No, I’m being honest. You’re just not used to it.
TheXYGhost III 256
She only is attracted to men who don’t like her. Once she wins him over, she finds him boring as she seeks out another man that dislikes her.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
What She Really Wants
• She does not want to be a girlfriend.
• She does not want to be a fiancée.
• She does not want to be a wife.
• She does not want to be a mother.
• She wants to be a bride.
• She does not want to be married.
• She only wants a wedding.
• She does not want a boyfriend.
• She does not want a man.
• She does not want a husband.
• She does not want a father for her kids.
• She only wants a provider.
• She does not want a man to love her.
• She wants a never-ending stream of men to praise and compliment her while giving her endless attention and an endless flow of men pursuing her.
• She does not want to have a family.
• She does not even want to have kids.
• She does not even want to work.
• She only wants multiple streams of income in the form of child support from multiple providers while being the center of attention in family court as a judge with higher status than the men she chose gets dominated and controlled to her delight and benefit.
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I wrote the above and sent it out to several of my male friends. They all laughed, and some even replied that they knew a few women who fall into this line of thought.
hen I started to send this out to a few of my female friends. They all responded with, “Not ALL girls are like that.”
One woman, who had been married for 40 years and had grandkids, took it upon herself to call me in order to berate me and correct my evil and misogynistic ways.
She called, and the first words out of her mouth were, “Not ALL girls are like that.”
I replied, “I was not writing about ALL women. I started all lines with ‘She,’ not ‘All women.’”
Noticing her mistake, she paused for a moment and said, “But you made it seem like all women want that.”
I corrected her immediately. “I did not make it seem that all women were like that. I wrote that about one girl. I did not make it seem like anything. It was you who manipulated and misinterpreted it in a way that demonized me and victimized ALL women. I am not responsible for how you interpret my writings. You are mad at me for your own thoughts based on how you see the world. I did not make you mad, you got angry on your own.”
She immediately said, “You could have written that in a better way.”
I asked her, “How could I write that in a better way? Please tell me. I am willing to hear you out so I can correct my evil ways and write something you think is better. Please give me some pointers on how to become a better writer.”
She simply said, “You just could have written it better.”
I countered, “How could I have written this better? I do not know a better way to write what I have just written. I need some clue on how to better my writing.”
With that, she hung up the phone, but before she did, she uttered her final judgment: “You hate ALL women.”
• She does not want to be a fiancée.
• She does not want to be a wife.
• She does not want to be a mother.
• She wants to be a bride.
• She does not want to be married.
• She only wants a wedding.
• She does not want a boyfriend.
• She does not want a man.
• She does not want a husband.
• She does not want a father for her kids.
• She only wants a provider.
• She does not want a man to love her.
• She wants a never-ending stream of men to praise and compliment her while giving her endless attention and an endless flow of men pursuing her.
• She does not want to have a family.
• She does not even want to have kids.
• She does not even want to work.
• She only wants multiple streams of income in the form of child support from multiple providers while being the center of attention in family court as a judge with higher status than the men she chose gets dominated and controlled to her delight and benefit.
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I wrote the above and sent it out to several of my male friends. They all laughed, and some even replied that they knew a few women who fall into this line of thought.
hen I started to send this out to a few of my female friends. They all responded with, “Not ALL girls are like that.”
One woman, who had been married for 40 years and had grandkids, took it upon herself to call me in order to berate me and correct my evil and misogynistic ways.
She called, and the first words out of her mouth were, “Not ALL girls are like that.”
I replied, “I was not writing about ALL women. I started all lines with ‘She,’ not ‘All women.’”
Noticing her mistake, she paused for a moment and said, “But you made it seem like all women want that.”
I corrected her immediately. “I did not make it seem that all women were like that. I wrote that about one girl. I did not make it seem like anything. It was you who manipulated and misinterpreted it in a way that demonized me and victimized ALL women. I am not responsible for how you interpret my writings. You are mad at me for your own thoughts based on how you see the world. I did not make you mad, you got angry on your own.”
She immediately said, “You could have written that in a better way.”
I asked her, “How could I write that in a better way? Please tell me. I am willing to hear you out so I can correct my evil ways and write something you think is better. Please give me some pointers on how to become a better writer.”
She simply said, “You just could have written it better.”
I countered, “How could I have written this better? I do not know a better way to write what I have just written. I need some clue on how to better my writing.”
With that, she hung up the phone, but before she did, she uttered her final judgment: “You hate ALL women.”
Thursday, September 11, 2025
TheXYGhost III 255
It does not matter her age or marital status, she will only like you if you have something she needs from you.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
How Much Money Will It Take?
How much money does a man need to make before you even consider loving him?
How much will your son have to earn just to be tolerated by a woman who measures his worth in dollars instead of character?
How fat does a man’s wallet have to be before you decide your daughter is safe in his hands, not because of who he is, but because of what he can buy?
How much will your son have to earn just to be tolerated by a woman who measures his worth in dollars instead of character?
How fat does a man’s wallet have to be before you decide your daughter is safe in his hands, not because of who he is, but because of what he can buy?
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Her : Men are afraid to commit.
TheXYGhost : Men are not afraid to commit, you are not worth any man's commitment.
TheXYGhost : Men are not afraid to commit, you are not worth any man's commitment.
Wednesday, September 10, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 254
Her : You hate all women.
TheXYGhost : I hate childish accusations. Thanks for reminding me why.
TheXYGhost : I hate childish accusations. Thanks for reminding me why.
TheXYGhost III 254
She mocks men when she’s with her girlfriends, but deep down, she secretly hates and distrusts them. When faced with financial troubles, she quietly turns to a man for support.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
A Real Woman
So many times over the years, I have heard women spit out the words “not a real man” toward any man who refuses to bend, break, and submit to their immediate wants. They use it as a weapon, a way to shame men into compliance. But if we are going to talk about what “real” is, then it is time to lay down what makes a real woman.
• A real woman is feminine, not a cheap imitation of masculinity.
• A real woman smiles, because her energy lifts her family, it does not drain it.
• A real woman keeps her family together instead of threatening to destroy it when she does not get her way.
• A real woman is grateful and thankful to her husband for what he provides, instead of treating his efforts as bare minimum requirements.
• A real woman is intelligent, not just educated, but wise enough to know how to keep a man and raise a family.
• A real woman is calming, not chaotic.
• A real woman takes responsibility for her own happiness instead of demanding a man hand-deliver it to her.
• A real woman is the pride of her family, not the shame whispered about at reunions.
• A real woman is beautiful at any age because she values self-respect over self-exposure.
• A real woman is not masculine, because competing with her man is not the same as loving him.
• A real woman turns a man’s house into a loving home instead of a place he dreads walking into.
• A real woman wipes the tears off her husband’s face and does not belittle him for showing human emotion.
• A real woman holds high standards for her own actions instead of policing everyone else’s.
• A real woman is her man’s support, not his burden.
• A real woman does not get divorced as a shortcut to “finding herself.”
• A real woman does not have a body count over one, because she understands her value is not in being passed around.
• A real woman does not cheat on her husband, period.
• A real woman does not plot against her husband like he is the enemy.
• A real woman does not yell, scream, or hit when she is angry, because self-control is not optional.
• A real woman is the source of her man’s peace and comfort, not the reason he hides in the garage to avoid her.
• A real woman does not throw temper tantrums like a child.
• A real woman does not fake ailments for attention.
• A real woman does not crave attention, because she knows her worth without needing a crowd.
• A real woman does not threaten to tear apart her own family to win an argument.
• A real woman does not turn her children against their father for revenge.
• A real woman does not manipulate, shame, or test the people she claims to love.
• A real woman does not crave status symbols like overpriced clothes or jewelry to feel important.
• A real woman does not blame others for her own poor choices.
• A real woman does not whine or complain her way through life.
• A real woman does not need makeup to be beautiful, because beauty is built on character.
• A real woman does not cover herself in tattoos to appear edgy.
• A real woman does not carve herself up with surgeries to impress strangers.
• A real woman does not drink, smoke, or take drugs to escape reality.
• A real woman does not beg for validation from anyone outside her home.
• A real woman does not need a degree to prove her worth, because her value is not tied to a title.
• A real woman does not weaponize her status against her husband.
• A real woman is not jealous or insecure, because she is confident in the role she has built.
• A real woman does not measure her husband’s love in gifts or money, but in the loyalty, sacrifice, and dedication she gives him in return.
When was the last time you saw one? For most men today, the answer is simple, never.
• A real woman is feminine, not a cheap imitation of masculinity.
• A real woman smiles, because her energy lifts her family, it does not drain it.
• A real woman keeps her family together instead of threatening to destroy it when she does not get her way.
• A real woman is grateful and thankful to her husband for what he provides, instead of treating his efforts as bare minimum requirements.
• A real woman is intelligent, not just educated, but wise enough to know how to keep a man and raise a family.
• A real woman is calming, not chaotic.
• A real woman takes responsibility for her own happiness instead of demanding a man hand-deliver it to her.
• A real woman is the pride of her family, not the shame whispered about at reunions.
• A real woman is beautiful at any age because she values self-respect over self-exposure.
• A real woman is not masculine, because competing with her man is not the same as loving him.
• A real woman turns a man’s house into a loving home instead of a place he dreads walking into.
• A real woman wipes the tears off her husband’s face and does not belittle him for showing human emotion.
• A real woman holds high standards for her own actions instead of policing everyone else’s.
• A real woman is her man’s support, not his burden.
• A real woman does not get divorced as a shortcut to “finding herself.”
• A real woman does not have a body count over one, because she understands her value is not in being passed around.
• A real woman does not cheat on her husband, period.
• A real woman does not plot against her husband like he is the enemy.
• A real woman does not yell, scream, or hit when she is angry, because self-control is not optional.
• A real woman is the source of her man’s peace and comfort, not the reason he hides in the garage to avoid her.
• A real woman does not throw temper tantrums like a child.
• A real woman does not fake ailments for attention.
• A real woman does not crave attention, because she knows her worth without needing a crowd.
• A real woman does not threaten to tear apart her own family to win an argument.
• A real woman does not turn her children against their father for revenge.
• A real woman does not manipulate, shame, or test the people she claims to love.
• A real woman does not crave status symbols like overpriced clothes or jewelry to feel important.
• A real woman does not blame others for her own poor choices.
• A real woman does not whine or complain her way through life.
• A real woman does not need makeup to be beautiful, because beauty is built on character.
• A real woman does not cover herself in tattoos to appear edgy.
• A real woman does not carve herself up with surgeries to impress strangers.
• A real woman does not drink, smoke, or take drugs to escape reality.
• A real woman does not beg for validation from anyone outside her home.
• A real woman does not need a degree to prove her worth, because her value is not tied to a title.
• A real woman does not weaponize her status against her husband.
• A real woman is not jealous or insecure, because she is confident in the role she has built.
• A real woman does not measure her husband’s love in gifts or money, but in the loyalty, sacrifice, and dedication she gives him in return.
When was the last time you saw one? For most men today, the answer is simple, never.
Tuesday, September 9, 2025
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Her : You don’t love me anymore.
TheXYGhost : Then you should stop wasting time with a man who doesn’t love you.
TheXYGhost : Then you should stop wasting time with a man who doesn’t love you.
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She treats her husband like a slave only to become the slave’s wife. If she treated him like a King, she would be a Queen.
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TheXYGhost
What About Me? I’m One of the Good Ones
Today, a woman who knew my writings decided to confront me about my views on women. She asked why I only wrote about bad women and never about the good ones. I asked her where I could find one of these good women. She pointed at herself with both thumbs and said, “Me.”
I started asking questions. She told me she had been married for six years and had two children, a 12 year old boy and a 9 year old girl. I immediately realized she had been married before and asked why she divorced her first husband. She claimed he never worked. But after digging deeper, I found out that her first husband had actually worked two jobs. Her real complaint was that he did not make enough money for her liking. She also admitted she refused to work because she believed providing was a man’s job.
I pointed out that in her second marriage she was now working, the very thing she refused to do in her first marriage. She did not like hearing that.
I asked how she met her second husband. She said they met and hit it off right away. I pressed further, asking if she had been looking for a replacement while still married to her first husband. She admitted she had. I asked if she secured her second husband before leaving her first. She said yes, without the slightest hesitation, as if there was nothing wrong with it.
Then I asked if she was currently looking for a replacement for her second husband. She acted shocked and demanded to know why I would ask that. I repeated the question. She said she loved her current husband. I told her it would have been easier to answer “yes” or “no” rather than dodge the question twice. I told her I would take her non-answer as a “yes.”
I asked if she wanted her son to marry a woman and raise another man’s children. She said, “No,” without hesitation. When I asked why, she said it was a terrible deal. So I asked how she felt about her second husband accepting the exact same terrible deal from her. Her face went red.
Then I hit her harder: “Do you want your son’s future wife to declare that he’s not doing enough, find a new man, and have him raise your future grandchildren so you can visit them in another man’s home?” She tensed up but kept her composure because she was at her place of business. She insisted that would never happen because her son is a great kid.
I reminded her that boys often seek out women like their mothers, so she should not be too confident.
Finally, I asked if she wanted her daughter to actively look for a replacement husband once she got married. That is when she got up and walked away.
I never judged her. I never insulted her. I just asked questions. She got angry because I made her look in a mirror, and she did not like the reflection staring back at her.
I started asking questions. She told me she had been married for six years and had two children, a 12 year old boy and a 9 year old girl. I immediately realized she had been married before and asked why she divorced her first husband. She claimed he never worked. But after digging deeper, I found out that her first husband had actually worked two jobs. Her real complaint was that he did not make enough money for her liking. She also admitted she refused to work because she believed providing was a man’s job.
I pointed out that in her second marriage she was now working, the very thing she refused to do in her first marriage. She did not like hearing that.
I asked how she met her second husband. She said they met and hit it off right away. I pressed further, asking if she had been looking for a replacement while still married to her first husband. She admitted she had. I asked if she secured her second husband before leaving her first. She said yes, without the slightest hesitation, as if there was nothing wrong with it.
Then I asked if she was currently looking for a replacement for her second husband. She acted shocked and demanded to know why I would ask that. I repeated the question. She said she loved her current husband. I told her it would have been easier to answer “yes” or “no” rather than dodge the question twice. I told her I would take her non-answer as a “yes.”
I asked if she wanted her son to marry a woman and raise another man’s children. She said, “No,” without hesitation. When I asked why, she said it was a terrible deal. So I asked how she felt about her second husband accepting the exact same terrible deal from her. Her face went red.
Then I hit her harder: “Do you want your son’s future wife to declare that he’s not doing enough, find a new man, and have him raise your future grandchildren so you can visit them in another man’s home?” She tensed up but kept her composure because she was at her place of business. She insisted that would never happen because her son is a great kid.
I reminded her that boys often seek out women like their mothers, so she should not be too confident.
Finally, I asked if she wanted her daughter to actively look for a replacement husband once she got married. That is when she got up and walked away.
I never judged her. I never insulted her. I just asked questions. She got angry because I made her look in a mirror, and she did not like the reflection staring back at her.
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When she says that she doesn't love him any more, she made a conscious choice to stop loving him. Don't be fooled.
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