Her : I’m a single mom.
TheXYGhost : Who hurt you?
TheXYGhost : Who hurt you?
Wednesday, September 10, 2025
A Real Woman
So many times over the years, I have heard women spit out the words “not a real man” toward any man who refuses to bend, break, and submit to their immediate wants. They use it as a weapon, a way to shame men into compliance. But if we are going to talk about what “real” is, then it is time to lay down what makes a real woman.
• A real woman is feminine, not a cheap imitation of masculinity.
• A real woman smiles, because her energy lifts her family, it does not drain it.
• A real woman keeps her family together instead of threatening to destroy it when she does not get her way.
• A real woman is grateful and thankful to her husband for what he provides, instead of treating his efforts as bare minimum requirements.
• A real woman is intelligent, not just educated, but wise enough to know how to keep a man and raise a family.
• A real woman is calming, not chaotic.
• A real woman takes responsibility for her own happiness instead of demanding a man hand-deliver it to her.
• A real woman is the pride of her family, not the shame whispered about at reunions.
• A real woman is beautiful at any age because she values self-respect over self-exposure.
• A real woman is not masculine, because competing with her man is not the same as loving him.
• A real woman turns a man’s house into a loving home instead of a place he dreads walking into.
• A real woman wipes the tears off her husband’s face and does not belittle him for showing human emotion.
• A real woman holds high standards for her own actions instead of policing everyone else’s.
• A real woman is her man’s support, not his burden.
• A real woman does not get divorced as a shortcut to “finding herself.”
• A real woman does not have a body count over one, because she understands her value is not in being passed around.
• A real woman does not cheat on her husband, period.
• A real woman does not plot against her husband like he is the enemy.
• A real woman does not yell, scream, or hit when she is angry, because self-control is not optional.
• A real woman is the source of her man’s peace and comfort, not the reason he hides in the garage to avoid her.
• A real woman does not throw temper tantrums like a child.
• A real woman does not fake ailments for attention.
• A real woman does not crave attention, because she knows her worth without needing a crowd.
• A real woman does not threaten to tear apart her own family to win an argument.
• A real woman does not turn her children against their father for revenge.
• A real woman does not manipulate, shame, or test the people she claims to love.
• A real woman does not crave status symbols like overpriced clothes or jewelry to feel important.
• A real woman does not blame others for her own poor choices.
• A real woman does not whine or complain her way through life.
• A real woman does not need makeup to be beautiful, because beauty is built on character.
• A real woman does not cover herself in tattoos to appear edgy.
• A real woman does not carve herself up with surgeries to impress strangers.
• A real woman does not drink, smoke, or take drugs to escape reality.
• A real woman does not beg for validation from anyone outside her home.
• A real woman does not need a degree to prove her worth, because her value is not tied to a title.
• A real woman does not weaponize her status against her husband.
• A real woman is not jealous or insecure, because she is confident in the role she has built.
• A real woman does not measure her husband’s love in gifts or money, but in the loyalty, sacrifice, and dedication she gives him in return.
When was the last time you saw one? For most men today, the answer is simple, never.
• A real woman is feminine, not a cheap imitation of masculinity.
• A real woman smiles, because her energy lifts her family, it does not drain it.
• A real woman keeps her family together instead of threatening to destroy it when she does not get her way.
• A real woman is grateful and thankful to her husband for what he provides, instead of treating his efforts as bare minimum requirements.
• A real woman is intelligent, not just educated, but wise enough to know how to keep a man and raise a family.
• A real woman is calming, not chaotic.
• A real woman takes responsibility for her own happiness instead of demanding a man hand-deliver it to her.
• A real woman is the pride of her family, not the shame whispered about at reunions.
• A real woman is beautiful at any age because she values self-respect over self-exposure.
• A real woman is not masculine, because competing with her man is not the same as loving him.
• A real woman turns a man’s house into a loving home instead of a place he dreads walking into.
• A real woman wipes the tears off her husband’s face and does not belittle him for showing human emotion.
• A real woman holds high standards for her own actions instead of policing everyone else’s.
• A real woman is her man’s support, not his burden.
• A real woman does not get divorced as a shortcut to “finding herself.”
• A real woman does not have a body count over one, because she understands her value is not in being passed around.
• A real woman does not cheat on her husband, period.
• A real woman does not plot against her husband like he is the enemy.
• A real woman does not yell, scream, or hit when she is angry, because self-control is not optional.
• A real woman is the source of her man’s peace and comfort, not the reason he hides in the garage to avoid her.
• A real woman does not throw temper tantrums like a child.
• A real woman does not fake ailments for attention.
• A real woman does not crave attention, because she knows her worth without needing a crowd.
• A real woman does not threaten to tear apart her own family to win an argument.
• A real woman does not turn her children against their father for revenge.
• A real woman does not manipulate, shame, or test the people she claims to love.
• A real woman does not crave status symbols like overpriced clothes or jewelry to feel important.
• A real woman does not blame others for her own poor choices.
• A real woman does not whine or complain her way through life.
• A real woman does not need makeup to be beautiful, because beauty is built on character.
• A real woman does not cover herself in tattoos to appear edgy.
• A real woman does not carve herself up with surgeries to impress strangers.
• A real woman does not drink, smoke, or take drugs to escape reality.
• A real woman does not beg for validation from anyone outside her home.
• A real woman does not need a degree to prove her worth, because her value is not tied to a title.
• A real woman does not weaponize her status against her husband.
• A real woman is not jealous or insecure, because she is confident in the role she has built.
• A real woman does not measure her husband’s love in gifts or money, but in the loyalty, sacrifice, and dedication she gives him in return.
When was the last time you saw one? For most men today, the answer is simple, never.
Tuesday, September 9, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 253
Her : You don’t love me anymore.
TheXYGhost : Then you should stop wasting time with a man who doesn’t love you.
TheXYGhost : Then you should stop wasting time with a man who doesn’t love you.
TheXYGhost III 253
She treats her husband like a slave only to become the slave’s wife. If she treated him like a King, she would be a Queen.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
What About Me? I’m One of the Good Ones
Today, a woman who knew my writings decided to confront me about my views on women. She asked why I only wrote about bad women and never about the good ones. I asked her where I could find one of these good women. She pointed at herself with both thumbs and said, “Me.”
I started asking questions. She told me she had been married for six years and had two children, a 12 year old boy and a 9 year old girl. I immediately realized she had been married before and asked why she divorced her first husband. She claimed he never worked. But after digging deeper, I found out that her first husband had actually worked two jobs. Her real complaint was that he did not make enough money for her liking. She also admitted she refused to work because she believed providing was a man’s job.
I pointed out that in her second marriage she was now working, the very thing she refused to do in her first marriage. She did not like hearing that.
I asked how she met her second husband. She said they met and hit it off right away. I pressed further, asking if she had been looking for a replacement while still married to her first husband. She admitted she had. I asked if she secured her second husband before leaving her first. She said yes, without the slightest hesitation, as if there was nothing wrong with it.
Then I asked if she was currently looking for a replacement for her second husband. She acted shocked and demanded to know why I would ask that. I repeated the question. She said she loved her current husband. I told her it would have been easier to answer “yes” or “no” rather than dodge the question twice. I told her I would take her non-answer as a “yes.”
I asked if she wanted her son to marry a woman and raise another man’s children. She said, “No,” without hesitation. When I asked why, she said it was a terrible deal. So I asked how she felt about her second husband accepting the exact same terrible deal from her. Her face went red.
Then I hit her harder: “Do you want your son’s future wife to declare that he’s not doing enough, find a new man, and have him raise your future grandchildren so you can visit them in another man’s home?” She tensed up but kept her composure because she was at her place of business. She insisted that would never happen because her son is a great kid.
I reminded her that boys often seek out women like their mothers, so she should not be too confident.
Finally, I asked if she wanted her daughter to actively look for a replacement husband once she got married. That is when she got up and walked away.
I never judged her. I never insulted her. I just asked questions. She got angry because I made her look in a mirror, and she did not like the reflection staring back at her.
I started asking questions. She told me she had been married for six years and had two children, a 12 year old boy and a 9 year old girl. I immediately realized she had been married before and asked why she divorced her first husband. She claimed he never worked. But after digging deeper, I found out that her first husband had actually worked two jobs. Her real complaint was that he did not make enough money for her liking. She also admitted she refused to work because she believed providing was a man’s job.
I pointed out that in her second marriage she was now working, the very thing she refused to do in her first marriage. She did not like hearing that.
I asked how she met her second husband. She said they met and hit it off right away. I pressed further, asking if she had been looking for a replacement while still married to her first husband. She admitted she had. I asked if she secured her second husband before leaving her first. She said yes, without the slightest hesitation, as if there was nothing wrong with it.
Then I asked if she was currently looking for a replacement for her second husband. She acted shocked and demanded to know why I would ask that. I repeated the question. She said she loved her current husband. I told her it would have been easier to answer “yes” or “no” rather than dodge the question twice. I told her I would take her non-answer as a “yes.”
I asked if she wanted her son to marry a woman and raise another man’s children. She said, “No,” without hesitation. When I asked why, she said it was a terrible deal. So I asked how she felt about her second husband accepting the exact same terrible deal from her. Her face went red.
Then I hit her harder: “Do you want your son’s future wife to declare that he’s not doing enough, find a new man, and have him raise your future grandchildren so you can visit them in another man’s home?” She tensed up but kept her composure because she was at her place of business. She insisted that would never happen because her son is a great kid.
I reminded her that boys often seek out women like their mothers, so she should not be too confident.
Finally, I asked if she wanted her daughter to actively look for a replacement husband once she got married. That is when she got up and walked away.
I never judged her. I never insulted her. I just asked questions. She got angry because I made her look in a mirror, and she did not like the reflection staring back at her.
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When she says that she doesn't love him any more, she made a conscious choice to stop loving him. Don't be fooled.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Monday, September 8, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 252
She blamed her father for walking out on her mother, but years later, she walks out on her mother for pulling the same stunts she once defended.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost III 252
Her : I gotta go but if you buy me a drink, I will stay with you for a while.
TheXYGhost : I’m fine, but thanks for the offer.
TheXYGhost : I’m fine, but thanks for the offer.
TheXYGhost II 252
TheXYGhost : Do you want to pay for the date or are you broke and you don’t deserve my company again?
The Illusion of Powerlessness, Her Choices, Her Consequences
The average woman gets approached over a hundred times a month, online, at work, in public, on dating apps, in DMs, on the street. Men constantly throw compliments, attention, offers, and resources at her feet. From that endless stream of options, she gets to handpick who she gives her time, her body, and her future to.
She does not settle for an equal. She chooses the man who is better than her, more stable, more attractive, more successful. She targets the top tier man and then pressures him to marry her, because no man wakes up dreaming about signing a one sided lifelong contract that only benefits her. Men do not fantasize about weddings or commitment, they get dragged into it, manipulated by ultimatums, pregnancy traps, or emotional blackmail.
From the start, she holds every single card.She decides when to date. She decides who to sleep with. She decides whether to use birth control. She decides whether to take Plan B. She decides whether to have an abortion. She decides whether to keep the baby. She even decides whether the father gets to be in that child’s life at all. Family court will hand her the final say on everything, even if he is a great father. To the system, he is just an accessory to her decision.
And yet, when it all falls apart, when she is single with kids, broke, bitter, and alone, it is never her fault. It is always “he left,” “he changed,” or “men ain’t shit.” She had thousands of opportunities to get it right, thousands of men chasing her, and the power to vet, delay, protect, or abort. But when it blows up, she plays the victim.
She will claim she is powerless, but she had full reproductive control. She will claim men do not step up, but she picked the wrong men. She will claim she was tricked, but she controlled every single checkpoint from start to finish.
This is the modern scam, she has every choice, but accepts none of the blame.It is not that women are powerless, they are shielded from accountability. Empowered to choose, entitled to complain, and excused when their choices explode.
That is not oppression, that is unchecked power.
She does not settle for an equal. She chooses the man who is better than her, more stable, more attractive, more successful. She targets the top tier man and then pressures him to marry her, because no man wakes up dreaming about signing a one sided lifelong contract that only benefits her. Men do not fantasize about weddings or commitment, they get dragged into it, manipulated by ultimatums, pregnancy traps, or emotional blackmail.
From the start, she holds every single card.She decides when to date. She decides who to sleep with. She decides whether to use birth control. She decides whether to take Plan B. She decides whether to have an abortion. She decides whether to keep the baby. She even decides whether the father gets to be in that child’s life at all. Family court will hand her the final say on everything, even if he is a great father. To the system, he is just an accessory to her decision.
And yet, when it all falls apart, when she is single with kids, broke, bitter, and alone, it is never her fault. It is always “he left,” “he changed,” or “men ain’t shit.” She had thousands of opportunities to get it right, thousands of men chasing her, and the power to vet, delay, protect, or abort. But when it blows up, she plays the victim.
She will claim she is powerless, but she had full reproductive control. She will claim men do not step up, but she picked the wrong men. She will claim she was tricked, but she controlled every single checkpoint from start to finish.
This is the modern scam, she has every choice, but accepts none of the blame.It is not that women are powerless, they are shielded from accountability. Empowered to choose, entitled to complain, and excused when their choices explode.
That is not oppression, that is unchecked power.
Sunday, September 7, 2025
TheXYGhost III 251
Her : I gotta go but if you buy me a drink, I will stay with you for a while.
TheXYGhost : I don’t want to keep you from what you need to do.
TheXYGhost : I don’t want to keep you from what you need to do.
TheXYGhost II 251
No matter what happens to her or why, she will find a way to pat herself on the back.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
The Hatred for Men Is Strong
There is a deep rooted, institutionalized hatred for men in today’s culture, and the moment you dare to call it out, you are branded a misogynist. Women are systematically trained, through TV shows, movies, music, and talk shows, to distrust, belittle, and despise men at every level. From childhood, they are spoon fed a narrative that men are disposable, abusive, or useless, unless of course they need something. Then suddenly, a man becomes valuable for a moment, whether it is protection, money, attention, or emotional labor. But once that need is filled, he is tossed aside like a used napkin. Men are no longer seen as human beings, they are tools, temporary utilities in a woman’s emotional and financial toolbox, to be picked up when convenient and thrown away when they are not.
A man is expected to jump in front of a bullet, but keep his mouth shut when he is being emotionally gutted. He is expected to pay for dinner, even if he goes home alone. He is expected to provide, but never complain. He is expected to protect, but never be protected. His pain is mocked, his struggles ignored, and his worth measured only by what he can offer a woman in the moment. The second he stops being a benefit, he is labeled weak, toxic, or insecure.
When a woman cries in public, the world stops to comfort her. When a man cries, he is told to man up. When a woman is broke, people rush to help. When a man is broke, he is called a loser. When a woman vents, she is “empowered.” When a man vents, he is “bitter.” This double standard is not just obvious, it is celebrated. Even in the courtroom, a woman can destroy a man financially, lie without evidence, and walk away with half his income, full custody, and public sympathy. The man is left treated like a criminal simply for existing after she no longer wants him.
Men have been reduced to temporary solutions for permanent female desires. Need help moving? Call a man. Need a bill paid? Call a man. Need someone to listen to you cry? Call a man. But once the emotions are soothed, the rent is paid, and the crisis has passed, he disappears again. He is invisible. Disposable. Until the next need arises.
The worst part is that most men have been conditioned to accept this treatment without question. They are told this is what strength looks like. This is what a “real man” does. Be silent. Be useful. Die quietly. Society values a man only for what he gives, never for who he is. And the rare few who speak out are mocked, shamed, and accused of hating women simply for telling the truth.
This is not bitterness, it is clarity. The system is not broken, it is functioning exactly as it was designed, to exploit men while erasing their humanity. And the longer men stay silent, the more this exploitation becomes the norm.
A man is expected to jump in front of a bullet, but keep his mouth shut when he is being emotionally gutted. He is expected to pay for dinner, even if he goes home alone. He is expected to provide, but never complain. He is expected to protect, but never be protected. His pain is mocked, his struggles ignored, and his worth measured only by what he can offer a woman in the moment. The second he stops being a benefit, he is labeled weak, toxic, or insecure.
When a woman cries in public, the world stops to comfort her. When a man cries, he is told to man up. When a woman is broke, people rush to help. When a man is broke, he is called a loser. When a woman vents, she is “empowered.” When a man vents, he is “bitter.” This double standard is not just obvious, it is celebrated. Even in the courtroom, a woman can destroy a man financially, lie without evidence, and walk away with half his income, full custody, and public sympathy. The man is left treated like a criminal simply for existing after she no longer wants him.
Men have been reduced to temporary solutions for permanent female desires. Need help moving? Call a man. Need a bill paid? Call a man. Need someone to listen to you cry? Call a man. But once the emotions are soothed, the rent is paid, and the crisis has passed, he disappears again. He is invisible. Disposable. Until the next need arises.
The worst part is that most men have been conditioned to accept this treatment without question. They are told this is what strength looks like. This is what a “real man” does. Be silent. Be useful. Die quietly. Society values a man only for what he gives, never for who he is. And the rare few who speak out are mocked, shamed, and accused of hating women simply for telling the truth.
This is not bitterness, it is clarity. The system is not broken, it is functioning exactly as it was designed, to exploit men while erasing their humanity. And the longer men stay silent, the more this exploitation becomes the norm.
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Her : I need a man like a fish needs a bicycle.
TheXYGhost : Who will provide for you?
TheXYGhost : Who will provide for you?
Saturday, September 6, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 250
A rich man can change a broke woman’s life, but a rich woman would never even look at a broke man.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Do Good Guys Really Finish Last?
Good guys finish first because they refuse to carry the dead weight of a woman’s endless demands, emotional chaos, manufactured crises, tantrums, guilt trips, backhanded insults, fake tears, and psychological warfare. They rise because they are not wasting their lives pandering to a bottomless pit of neediness, entitlement, and manipulation. They move forward without being chained to someone who drains their energy, poisons their peace, and sabotages their progress. They win because they understand that walking alone is better than crawling under the weight of someone who only takes.
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She is always looking for ways to prove you love her. Never will she ever prove her love for you.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Friday, September 5, 2025
TheXYGhost III 249
Her : I don’t need no man, I have a job and pay my own bills.
TheXYGhost : I don’t need a woman, I can afford the services that most women refuse to provide.
TheXYGhost : I don’t need a woman, I can afford the services that most women refuse to provide.
TheXYGhost II 249
Some men go to jail for not paying child support for a child that is not theirs. The mother knows but does nothing to exonerate him.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
The Basic Female
For many women who grow up without a father in the home, the idea of the perfect man starts taking shape in their early teens. Movies, television, books, and traits they admire in people around them become the blueprint. The image is not based on one real man, but on a patchwork of qualities, charm, confidence, looks, status, humor, all stitched together into one idealized figure.
Over time, she fine tunes this fantasy. She adds traits, sharpens details, and upgrades the picture until her version of Prince Charming feels real in her mind. This man is no longer just a vague daydream, he becomes her destiny, the one who is supposed to find her.
But she does not go looking for him. She convinces herself that searching would ruin the “meant to be” moment. Instead, she waits. When men approach her, she rejects most of them, sometimes even men she finds attractive. She tells herself she is testing them. She wants to see persistence, as if enduring rejection is proof of worthiness.
This fantasy is built over years, shaped by flashes of influence, a smile from an actor, the ambition of a fictional hero, the voice of a singer. She collects what she likes, discards what she does not, and keeps refining the standard. Eventually, she starts judging real men against this impossible model and refuses to settle for anything less.
When she dates men who fall short of the fantasy, she treats them as placeholders. They are not “the one,” they are stopgaps, temporary providers of emotional comfort, financial help, or convenience. She calls it “survival mode,” but in truth, the fantasy is untouched and waiting in the background.
This mismatch poisons the relationship. She grows cold, critical, and emotionally withdrawn. She complains to friends but leaves her partner confused about why her affection has dried up. Beneath it is resentment, resentment toward him for not being her dream, resentment toward herself for compromising, and resentment toward the fact that he believes in the fake version of her she has been acting out.
Her affection becomes strategy, not love. She plays nice when it serves her, but it is calculated. When she meets men who treat her well, she mistrusts them, calling them “too nice.” This is projection, she assumes they are pretending because she has been pretending.
If someone appears who seems closer to the fantasy, she shifts. The act with her current man crumbles. She becomes distant and harsh. This is not a sudden change, it is the unmasking of how little she was invested from the start. Her energy and attention move toward the new possibility.
She expects total commitment from a man, but rarely gives the same. She waits until she feels secure that he is fully invested, then she relaxes her loyalty and begins scanning for upgrades. Her attachment is conditional, based on being chosen, not on choosing him in return.
When she says a man has “potential,” she does not mean career or intellect. She means potential to be molded into the man she has invented in her mind. She will influence, manipulate, and test to try and shape him into that role.
If the roles are reversed, and a man says she has potential, she takes offense. She hears it as proof that she is not already perfect. It rattles her self image.
The older she gets, the more the gap between reality and fantasy widens. By her forties or fifties, the fantasy has been so polished and refined that no real man can compete with it. At that point, she is chasing a ghost she created.
It is the same as a young man working entry level jobs while training for a career in law, each job is a stepping stone. Except in her case, the “career” is a man who may not even exist outside her imagination. And every real relationship in her life was nothing more than another stepping stone toward a man who only lives in her head.
Over time, she fine tunes this fantasy. She adds traits, sharpens details, and upgrades the picture until her version of Prince Charming feels real in her mind. This man is no longer just a vague daydream, he becomes her destiny, the one who is supposed to find her.
But she does not go looking for him. She convinces herself that searching would ruin the “meant to be” moment. Instead, she waits. When men approach her, she rejects most of them, sometimes even men she finds attractive. She tells herself she is testing them. She wants to see persistence, as if enduring rejection is proof of worthiness.
This fantasy is built over years, shaped by flashes of influence, a smile from an actor, the ambition of a fictional hero, the voice of a singer. She collects what she likes, discards what she does not, and keeps refining the standard. Eventually, she starts judging real men against this impossible model and refuses to settle for anything less.
When she dates men who fall short of the fantasy, she treats them as placeholders. They are not “the one,” they are stopgaps, temporary providers of emotional comfort, financial help, or convenience. She calls it “survival mode,” but in truth, the fantasy is untouched and waiting in the background.
This mismatch poisons the relationship. She grows cold, critical, and emotionally withdrawn. She complains to friends but leaves her partner confused about why her affection has dried up. Beneath it is resentment, resentment toward him for not being her dream, resentment toward herself for compromising, and resentment toward the fact that he believes in the fake version of her she has been acting out.
Her affection becomes strategy, not love. She plays nice when it serves her, but it is calculated. When she meets men who treat her well, she mistrusts them, calling them “too nice.” This is projection, she assumes they are pretending because she has been pretending.
If someone appears who seems closer to the fantasy, she shifts. The act with her current man crumbles. She becomes distant and harsh. This is not a sudden change, it is the unmasking of how little she was invested from the start. Her energy and attention move toward the new possibility.
She expects total commitment from a man, but rarely gives the same. She waits until she feels secure that he is fully invested, then she relaxes her loyalty and begins scanning for upgrades. Her attachment is conditional, based on being chosen, not on choosing him in return.
When she says a man has “potential,” she does not mean career or intellect. She means potential to be molded into the man she has invented in her mind. She will influence, manipulate, and test to try and shape him into that role.
If the roles are reversed, and a man says she has potential, she takes offense. She hears it as proof that she is not already perfect. It rattles her self image.
The older she gets, the more the gap between reality and fantasy widens. By her forties or fifties, the fantasy has been so polished and refined that no real man can compete with it. At that point, she is chasing a ghost she created.
It is the same as a young man working entry level jobs while training for a career in law, each job is a stepping stone. Except in her case, the “career” is a man who may not even exist outside her imagination. And every real relationship in her life was nothing more than another stepping stone toward a man who only lives in her head.
Thursday, September 4, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 248
It’s one thing to reward her for sex; it’s another thing entirely when sex is her way of rewarding you.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost III 248
She will never be satisfied with the actions of others. No matter how great the effort is, nobody will ever be good enough for her.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost II 248
Her husband died while she was on vacation, and she returned after his burial. She only cried upon learning she wasn’t in the will.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Things Men Want Women to Stop Doing to Their Husbands
• Stop competing with men on every level.
• Stop being combative.
• Stop constantly testing men.
• Stop faking ailments for attention.
• Stop speaking in hints.
• Stop creating drama.
• Stop acting immature.
• Stop playing the victim.
• Stop telling others private details about your life with your husband.
• Stop putting yourself in dangerous situations and expecting men to save you.
• Stop questioning our every move.
• Stop focusing on our flaws while ignoring your own.
• Stop using double standards.
• Stop expecting us to read your mind.
• Stop treating us like projects to fix.
• Stop withholding affection as a manipulation tactic.
• Stop comparing us to other men.
• Stop assuming the worst about our intentions.
• Stop making everything a power struggle.
• Stop belittling our interests and hobbies.
• Stop bringing up past arguments to win current ones.
• Stop expecting us to be perfect while accepting flaws in yourself.
• Stop dismissing our feelings just because we express them differently.
• Stop being combative.
• Stop constantly testing men.
• Stop faking ailments for attention.
• Stop speaking in hints.
• Stop creating drama.
• Stop acting immature.
• Stop playing the victim.
• Stop telling others private details about your life with your husband.
• Stop putting yourself in dangerous situations and expecting men to save you.
• Stop questioning our every move.
• Stop focusing on our flaws while ignoring your own.
• Stop using double standards.
• Stop expecting us to read your mind.
• Stop treating us like projects to fix.
• Stop withholding affection as a manipulation tactic.
• Stop comparing us to other men.
• Stop assuming the worst about our intentions.
• Stop making everything a power struggle.
• Stop belittling our interests and hobbies.
• Stop bringing up past arguments to win current ones.
• Stop expecting us to be perfect while accepting flaws in yourself.
• Stop dismissing our feelings just because we express them differently.
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You want a traditional man yet you have 2 kids from 2 different men, you don't know how to cook and you wont do domestic chores.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Wednesday, September 3, 2025
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Give her something for sex if that’s your choice; just watch if she uses sex to buy your choices.
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To her, nothing is ever good enough. Nothing has ever been good enough. Nothing will ever be good enough for her. She will never be satisfied and content.
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Make Me Happy
Women are emotional dependents by design. Their happiness rarely comes from within. They outsource their peace of mind to everything and everyone around them, the weather, horoscopes, boyfriends, girlfriends, social media likes, therapists, antidepressants, and whatever trend of the month tells them how to feel.
They do not cultivate happiness, they expect it to be delivered. They lean on a man to lift their mood, then resent him when he gets tired of being her emotional janitor. One minute it is “you do not make me feel special,” the next it is “you are not supportive.” She is a bottomless pit of need, disguised as sensitivity.
Her entire mood can flip because it is cloudy outside. She will blow up a relationship over a text she thinks was “too dry.” She expects love to be constant reassurance, validation, pampering, and therapy. And when no one meets that impossible demand, she calls it depression or claims the world is “toxic.”
The truth is, women have become emotional parasites, relying on others to feed a happiness they refuse to grow for themselves.
They do not cultivate happiness, they expect it to be delivered. They lean on a man to lift their mood, then resent him when he gets tired of being her emotional janitor. One minute it is “you do not make me feel special,” the next it is “you are not supportive.” She is a bottomless pit of need, disguised as sensitivity.
Her entire mood can flip because it is cloudy outside. She will blow up a relationship over a text she thinks was “too dry.” She expects love to be constant reassurance, validation, pampering, and therapy. And when no one meets that impossible demand, she calls it depression or claims the world is “toxic.”
The truth is, women have become emotional parasites, relying on others to feed a happiness they refuse to grow for themselves.
Tuesday, September 2, 2025
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You can reward her for giving it up, but don’t miss when she’s giving it up to control you.
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The Rebellion That Never Ends
From the beginning of time, one truth has echoed through every ruined home, every fallen man, and every broken covenant, not even GOD could tell a woman what to do.
GOD gave Eve paradise. No pain, no death, no suffering, no burden. Just one rule, do not eat from that tree. One boundary in a world of limitless freedom. And she broke it. Not out of hunger, not under threat, but by choice. She invited the serpent, embraced it, and let it come between her and the man who loved her. The first crack in creation was not war or bloodshed, it was defiance born of pride. And it began with a woman who refused to obey.
Modern women walk the same path. The serpent no longer has scales. Today it comes disguised as a male friend, a jealous coworker, a biased therapist, or a self help book wrapped in pseudo empowerment. She does not resist it. She welcomes it. She invites anything that feeds her ego and undermines the man beside her. The serpent never left, it just rebranded, and women are still listening.
They run from truth because truth hurts. They prefer fantasy, where they are always right, always the victim, always justified. Confront them with reality, and they do not reflect, they retaliate. They reject accountability just like they reject GOD. They pray for performance, not purpose. Their prayers are scripted, shallow, and theatrical. It is not about repentance, it is about applause. Not about truth, it is about validation.
When a man dares to challenge their delusions, they do not listen. They launch attacks. They shame, mock, and belittle any man who speaks plainly. In their eyes, no man has the right to correct them. No man can tell them what they do not want to hear. They do not want growth, they want comfort, even if it means living a lie.
Take the 500 pound woman who insists she is stunning and “body positive” while her body collapses under the weight of denial. Call out the lie, and you are labeled hateful. Or the woman with four children by four different men who calls herself a queen. Tell her she is failing her children and violating every principle of structure and stability, and you will be branded a misogynist. In their world, correction is cruelty. Accountability is abuse.
Lot’s wife chose the same rebellion. GOD sent angels to pull her from a burning city. He gave her a simple command, do not look back. But she did. She defied Him even in the face of destruction. She had to have the last word, the last look, the final decision. And it cost her everything. She turned to salt, a permanent symbol of the danger in a woman who refuses to submit.
And it did not stop there.
Delilah hunted Samson. Not because she loved him, but because she wanted to conquer him. She questioned him, seduced him, wore him down until she uncovered his strength, then betrayed him. She summoned his enemies and stood back while they took everything from him. Modern women do the same. But they do not call Philistines, they call lawyers, judges, therapists, and child support offices. Not because the man deserved it, but because they could.
And just like Delilah deferred to the Philistines, modern female teachers defer to the principal the moment a student challenges them. They do not lead. They do not stand firm. They call for backup. But when a male teacher faces the same situation, he handles it. He commands the room. He figures it out. That is leadership. The female teacher is Delilah in the classroom, appearing strong, but utterly dependent when faced with real resistance.
Even Solomon, the wisest man in history, was not immune. Women turned his heart away from the GOD who gave him everything. But before his fall, he delivered a lesson that still burns today. Two women came to him, fighting over one child. Solomon proposed to cut the child in half. The true mother gave up her claim to save the child. The other agreed to the slaughter. She would rather see a child die than let another woman win. That is not just cold. That is evil.
This same spirit of rebellion lives on. Today, women are told that motherhood is bondage, masculinity is toxic, and family is oppression. They are told that aborting a child is empowerment, that raising a son as a daughter is progress. Some even choose to abort solely because the child is a boy. This is not about choice. It is hatred, raw, unchecked hatred for men, for masculinity, and for the very idea of manhood.
They dress their sons like girls, punish them for being rough, drug them for being strong, and hand them over to doctors with a scalpel and a handful of pills so the doctor can perform gender reassignment surgery because being a boy is toxic. All in the name of expression. But they never do this to their daughters. They do not raise girls to become boys. Because the issue is not with girls. The target is boys. The problem is masculinity. The enemy is men.
And though they hate men, they still demand to be provided for. But not by GOD. They want the government. They want their husband. And when they leave him, they want their sons to take his place. They demand everything but give nothing. They will not build. They will not submit. They will not sacrifice. They will not obey. They sit, they demand, and they refuse to lift a finger.
This hatred runs deep. It hides behind smiles, slogans, and scripts. But it starts early, often the moment the ultrasound shows a boy. There was a time when having a son brought pride. Now it brings sighs. Some call it a curse. Some mutilate their sons into dolls, then into patients, then into casualties of a rebellion that began in Eden.
Eve did not want peace. She wanted control. Lot’s wife did not want salvation. She wanted the last word. Delilah did not want love. She wanted power. The woman before Solomon did not want justice. She wanted destruction. And women today do not want truth. They want dominance disguised as equality.
You cannot lead someone who refuses to be led. You cannot guide someone who sees submission as slavery. You cannot love someone who sees your strength as a threat. If even GOD could not tell her what to do, what makes you think you can?
This rebellion never ended. It just changed shape.
And until men understand that, they will keep falling to the same spirit that destroyed Eden, Sodom, Samson, and Solomon.
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She won't stop looking for richer and more submissive providers until she sees herself getting ugly. That's when she'll cry, "Where have all the good men gone?
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Monday, September 1, 2025
TheXYGhost III 245
Her excuse was that she was never taught accountability in her life, so she’s exempt.
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TheXYGhost II 245
Her definition of abuse is not treating her like a Disney princess 24 hours a day.
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Using Dating Apps
Before you go on a single date, you must settle one thing in your mind, you are the prize, not her. There are more women than men in this world because men live harder lives. Men die at work, they die at play, they die at war.
With that reality in mind, know this, any dating app is a holding tank for the absolute bottom of the barrel. The women on these platforms are usually hiding something, overweight, married, much older than they claim, or carrying baggage that would scare off any man in person. Many of them are looking for a virtual relationship only, because showing up in real life would instantly expose the lie. The same deception happens with gay men pretending to be women, using female photos to lure single straight men into virtual affairs.
There is also an entire breed of women who are there purely for validation. They have no intention of meeting anyone in person. They simply want endless attention. They want to be told a thousand times a day that they are beautiful, gorgeous, princesses. Your time and energy are nothing more than free fuel for their ego.
If you are going to use these apps, here is how you protect yourself and set the tone.
1. Get a cheap phone or an app that provides a disposable phone number. Never give out your personal number. Women will run background checks on you before you even meet. If she turns out to be a scammer or a problem, you can drop the number instantly.
2. If you contact her first, or if she contacts you, send this message: "I liked your profile and I am a busy man, here is my number, call me. I do not want either of us to waste time. 212.555.6650. Time is money." Then wait.
3. If she complains, do not reply, block her immediately. If she sends you her number instead, call her in twenty minutes. When she answers, tell her you expected her to call you.
4. Remember, if she is divorced, she broke her vows and her word. If she is a single mother, she already disrespected the structure of a family. Proceed knowing exactly what you are dealing with.
5. Set up the first date as coffee and cake somewhere you do not normally go.
If she agrees to meet, test her immediately by asking her to do something small for you. This could be as simple as wearing her hair a certain way, wearing a specific color or floral print, or bringing gum or aspirin. If she will not do even the smallest thing for you before the first date, you have dodged a major bullet.
If she makes it to a second or third date, require that she bring you something each time. It does not need to cost more than five dollars. This is not about the value of the item, it is about seeing whether she invests in you at all.
A woman who will not give you anything early on is a woman who will take everything later.
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Women, are you tired of cheating men? It's because you got off cheap. Next time pay for the first date.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Sunday, August 31, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 244
Remember: It is always the fault of the man for picking the wrong girl, but it’s never the fault of the girl for acting up.
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TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost III 244
To her, “her truth” and “the truth” are two different things, but since “her truth” changes according to the situation at hand, she feels she’s not lying.
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TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost II 244
Stay quiet! A good woman will understand, the bad ones will complain, and want drama.
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TheXYGhost
A MGTOW Public Service Announcement
It is important to understand that MGTOW is not an organization, not a political movement, and not a club. It is a philosophy. At its core, it is the belief that a man does not need a woman or a gynocentric society to determine his worth. A man determines his own value by his own standards, by his own accomplishments, and by his own life, not by anyone else’s judgment or approval.
MGTOW is not bound by race, politics, or religion. Black, White, Asian, and Brown men are MGTOW. Conservatives and liberals are MGTOW. Christians, Muslims, Jews, agnostics, and atheists are MGTOW. There are disagreements among them because of cultural, racial, and societal differences, but one truth remains constant, feminism and everything it has spawned is a cancer to men, families, and society.
One of the most effective tools in MGTOW is ghosting. At its simplest, ghosting means being invisible. The best defense against narcissistic women who want to trap you, drain you, and weaponize your emotions is to avoid them entirely. Feminists cannot attack what they cannot see. The less you expose yourself to their games, the less you become a target.
Avoiding female manipulation also means avoiding men who enable it. Tradcons, liberal white knights, pickup artists, and thirsty simps all worship the same idol, female validation. MGTOW avoids that cult entirely. The philosophy rejects the idea of organizing protests, petitions, or advocacy campaigns because it recognizes that walking away from commitment to narcissistic, abusive, manipulative women is far more powerful than trying to debate them. Natural consequences hit harder than any argument we could make.
MGTOW recognizes time as a non-renewable resource. Instead of wasting it trying to reason with a woman who will never accept responsibility or truthful criticism, that time is invested in self-improvement. Learn. Build skills. Strengthen your body and mind. Share knowledge with other men. Become an example that other men can see and respect.
This philosophy understands the truth about the rigged game, marriage, cohabitation, long term commitment, and the legal, social, and financial traps surrounding them. By refusing to play, MGTOW men are labeled dangerous, bitter, or hateful by a society that fears men who cannot be controlled. The response is simple, ghost. Disappear. One cannot be attacked if one cannot be found.
MGTOW men are not alone. Every day, more men wake up to reality, get red pilled, and see that most modern women are incapable of sustaining a lifelong marriage or even maintaining a monogamous dating relationship. The hypocrisy of gynocentrism continues to grow, and with it, so does the MGTOW movement.
So wherever you are, whatever you do, support your brothers. In moments of crisis, make sure they know they are not alone. Show them there is life after walking away from gynocentrism. Show them it is a better life. Because at the end of the day, ghosting, living on your own terms, and standing with your brothers is the strongest defense against a system built to exploit men.
We are men. That means we are strong enough to overcome any obstacle we commit to facing.
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She said that she dated many men in the past. This means that she accepts free meals from strangers. She sees the next one as a sucker.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Saturday, August 30, 2025
TheXYGhost III 243
She does not want a man that loves her, she prefers a man that can afford her.
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TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost II 243
She will find any way to degrade, insult and embarrass you in public. That’s her test for you.
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TheXYGhost
Women Never Dress to Attract Men
Women are in a constant, cutthroat competition for attention and status over other women. Attention is her oxygen, she can barely survive without it. With makeup, piercings, wigs, fake eyelashes, fake nails, facelifts, rhinoplasty, Botox, injections, breast implants, tummy tucks, liposuction, tattoos, and Brazilian butt lifts, she tries to outshine every other woman in the room. Some go so far that they cross the line into looking gaudy and grotesque, because to her, all attention counts. There is no such thing as bad attention. Whether it comes from men or women, she does not care, as long as someone is paying her.
Ask any man if he would want his wife or daughter to go through these procedures and most will say, “No.” But women do not do it for men.
Women instantly hate women who outshine them, yet they also look down on women they outshine. In her world, there is no balance, no mutual respect, only a hierarchy built on who is getting the most eyes on them at any given moment.
Ask any man if he would want his wife or daughter to go through these procedures and most will say, “No.” But women do not do it for men.
Women instantly hate women who outshine them, yet they also look down on women they outshine. In her world, there is no balance, no mutual respect, only a hierarchy built on who is getting the most eyes on them at any given moment.
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She demands that you change to suit her needs but she will call you a jerk for telling her to change.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Friday, August 29, 2025
TheXYGhost III 242
Women over 40 think a rich, strong, masculine man will bankroll their life and four kids just because they still think they look 30.
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TheXYGhost II 242
Did you ever notice that the richest men on the planet are nerdy beta males?
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TheXYGhost
Mother
By Pink Floyd
Track 6 on the album The Wall
Produced by:
James Guthrie, Bob Ezrin, David Gilmour & Roger Waters
Mother, do you think they'll drop the bomb?
Mother, do you think they'll like this song?
Mother, do you think they'll try to break my balls?
Ooh-ah, Mother, should I build the wall?
[Verse 2: Roger Waters]
Mother, should I run for president?
Mother, should I trust the government?
Mother, will they put me in the firing line?
Ooh-ah, is it just a waste of time?
[Chorus: David Gilmour]
Hush now, baby, baby, don't you cry
Mamma's gonna make all of your nightmares come true
Mamma's gonna put all of her fears into you
Mamma's gonna keep you right here, under her wing
She won't let you fly, but she might let you sing
Mamma's gonna keep baby cozy and warm
[Post-Chorus: David Gilmour]
Ooh babe, ooh babe, ooh babe
Of course, Mamma's gonna help build the wall
[Guitar Solo]
[Verse 3: Roger Waters]
Mother, do you think she's good enough...
For me?
Mother, do you think she's dangerous...
To me?
Mother, will she tear your little boy apart?
Ooh-ah, Mother, will she break my heart?
[Chorus: David Gilmour]
Hush now, baby, baby, don't you cry
Mamma's gonna check out all your girlfriends for you
Mamma won't let anyone dirty get through
Mamma's gonna wait up until you get in
Mamma will always find out where you've been
Mamma's gonna keep baby healthy and clean
[Post-Chorus: David Gilmour]
Ooh babe, ooh babe, ooh babe
You'll always be "baby" to me
[Outro: Roger Waters]
Mother, did it need to be so high?
Track 6 on the album The Wall
Produced by:
James Guthrie, Bob Ezrin, David Gilmour & Roger Waters
Mother, do you think they'll drop the bomb?
Mother, do you think they'll like this song?
Mother, do you think they'll try to break my balls?
Ooh-ah, Mother, should I build the wall?
[Verse 2: Roger Waters]
Mother, should I run for president?
Mother, should I trust the government?
Mother, will they put me in the firing line?
Ooh-ah, is it just a waste of time?
[Chorus: David Gilmour]
Hush now, baby, baby, don't you cry
Mamma's gonna make all of your nightmares come true
Mamma's gonna put all of her fears into you
Mamma's gonna keep you right here, under her wing
She won't let you fly, but she might let you sing
Mamma's gonna keep baby cozy and warm
[Post-Chorus: David Gilmour]
Ooh babe, ooh babe, ooh babe
Of course, Mamma's gonna help build the wall
[Guitar Solo]
[Verse 3: Roger Waters]
Mother, do you think she's good enough...
For me?
Mother, do you think she's dangerous...
To me?
Mother, will she tear your little boy apart?
Ooh-ah, Mother, will she break my heart?
[Chorus: David Gilmour]
Hush now, baby, baby, don't you cry
Mamma's gonna check out all your girlfriends for you
Mamma won't let anyone dirty get through
Mamma's gonna wait up until you get in
Mamma will always find out where you've been
Mamma's gonna keep baby healthy and clean
[Post-Chorus: David Gilmour]
Ooh babe, ooh babe, ooh babe
You'll always be "baby" to me
[Outro: Roger Waters]
Mother, did it need to be so high?
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Dating : When a woman accepts food, drinks, entertainment and more, from a man until she finds someone that will spend even more on her.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Thursday, August 28, 2025
TheXYGhost III 241
He caught her in the act with the security cameras he had at home, but somehow she turned it around and faulted him for not trusting her.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost II 241
When will women realize that yearling, screaming, whining, crying and complaining is not a way to a man’s heart.
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TheXYGhost
She Will Upgrade Her Children's Father
A woman will divorce the husband she once called perfect and separate him from his children in the hope of finding her Prince Charming, but a man will never destroy his family chasing the fantasy of landing a supermodel.
A woman will wreck her own home the moment she believes her status or income is greater than her husband’s, but when a man’s status or income rises above his wife’s, he shares the fruits of his success with his family.
A woman will wreck her own home the moment she believes her status or income is greater than her husband’s, but when a man’s status or income rises above his wife’s, he shares the fruits of his success with his family.
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