Her : I start problems with him so he can put me in my place.
TheXYGhost : You should know your place, it will save time and arguments.
TheXYGhost : You should know your place, it will save time and arguments.
Thursday, March 20, 2025
How I See Girls Today
I look at the girls of today that they can't keep their legs closed and they blame you that its your fault that you didn't give them enough attention while you were working.
Wednesday, March 19, 2025
TheXYGhost II 079
Her : I feel that you are too nice.
TheXYGhost : Teach me to be more evil for your pleasure.
TheXYGhost : Teach me to be more evil for your pleasure.
False Allegations
According to the Department of Justice ALL crimes have approximately a 2% false allegation rate. Rape and domestic violence is upward of 30%. This means that 30 out of every 100 rapes and domestic violence reported by women are false reports. I think those figures are way too low. I was accused of rape 4 times in my life and none of those accusations ever reached the police. Even my ex wife told me, only days before she handed me divorce papers, that I raped her before we were married. Does that mean that she married me after I raped her? Did she marry me as some form of sick punishment?
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This is the new normal...
- 5 kids from 5 different restaurant owners. - 21 DNA tests and she still can't find any the fathers to her 4 kids. - 3 divorces and 6 abortions because they were not 'Right' for her.
If you say it's her fault, you are a misogynist.
TheXYGhost
- 5 kids from 5 different restaurant owners. - 21 DNA tests and she still can't find any the fathers to her 4 kids. - 3 divorces and 6 abortions because they were not 'Right' for her.
If you say it's her fault, you are a misogynist.
TheXYGhost
Tuesday, March 18, 2025
TheXYGhost II 078
If she says, "He didn't make me happy," she's outright admitting that she's incapable of taking responsibility for her own emotions and pathetically relies on others to fix her life.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Integrity: The Difference Between Two Generations
My grandmother took care of two kids for 2 years, on her own when her husband, my grandfather went and volunteered to serve his newly adopted country in WWII.
I look at the girls of today that they can't keep their legs closed and they blame you that it's your fault that you didn't give them enough attention while you were working.
I look at the girls of today that they can't keep their legs closed and they blame you that it's your fault that you didn't give them enough attention while you were working.
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Your wife divorced you and took your kids, then you remarried and had kids with a woman that divorced her husband and took his kids. Do you not see a destructive pattern?
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Monday, March 17, 2025
TheXYGhost II 077
She divorced her husband, took the kids making everyone else miserable. She did this because she was not happy.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Equal Pay vs. Equal Outcome in the Bible
I believe in equal treatment as opposed to making sure that everyone achieves an equal outcome.
I was talking to my best friend's 16 year old daughter, who claimed to be a feminist. She talked about equal treatment of everyone. I agreed on that. She even mentioned equal pay for people doing the same job despite their sex. I agreed as well with a tiny difference;
If you accept a salary for a job, don't complain when your coworker is getting more. This idea is as old as the hills.
Matthew 20:1-16 The Parable of the Workers in the Vineyard 20 "For the kingdom of heaven is like a landowner who went out early in the morning to hire workers for his vineyard. 2 He agreed to pay them a denarius[a] for the day and sent them into his vineyard.
3 "About nine in the morning he went out and saw others standing in the marketplace doing nothing. 4 He told them, 'You also go and work in my vineyard, and I will pay you whatever is right.' 5 So they went.
"He went out again about noon and about three in the afternoon and did the same thing. 6 About five in the afternoon he went out and found still others standing around. He asked them, 'Why have you been standing here all day long doing nothing?'
7 "'Because no one has hired us,' they answered.
"He said to them, 'You also go and work in my vineyard.'
8 "When evening came, the owner of the vineyard said to his foreman, 'Call the workers and pay them their wages, beginning with the last ones hired and going on to the first.'
9 "The workers who were hired about five in the afternoon came and each received a denarius. 10 So when those came who were hired first, they expected to receive more. But each one of them also received a denarius. 11 When they received it, they began to grumble against the landowner. 12 'These who were hired last worked only one hour,' they said, 'and you have made them equal to us who have borne the burden of the work and the heat of the day.'
13 "But he answered one of them, 'I am not being unfair to you, friend. Didn't you agree to work for a denarius? 14 Take your pay and go. I want to give the one who was hired last the same as I gave you. 15 Don't I have the right to do what I want with my own money? Or are you envious because I am generous?'
16 "So the last will be first, and the first will be last."
I was talking to my best friend's 16 year old daughter, who claimed to be a feminist. She talked about equal treatment of everyone. I agreed on that. She even mentioned equal pay for people doing the same job despite their sex. I agreed as well with a tiny difference;
If you accept a salary for a job, don't complain when your coworker is getting more. This idea is as old as the hills.
Matthew 20:1-16 The Parable of the Workers in the Vineyard 20 "For the kingdom of heaven is like a landowner who went out early in the morning to hire workers for his vineyard. 2 He agreed to pay them a denarius[a] for the day and sent them into his vineyard.
3 "About nine in the morning he went out and saw others standing in the marketplace doing nothing. 4 He told them, 'You also go and work in my vineyard, and I will pay you whatever is right.' 5 So they went.
"He went out again about noon and about three in the afternoon and did the same thing. 6 About five in the afternoon he went out and found still others standing around. He asked them, 'Why have you been standing here all day long doing nothing?'
7 "'Because no one has hired us,' they answered.
"He said to them, 'You also go and work in my vineyard.'
8 "When evening came, the owner of the vineyard said to his foreman, 'Call the workers and pay them their wages, beginning with the last ones hired and going on to the first.'
9 "The workers who were hired about five in the afternoon came and each received a denarius. 10 So when those came who were hired first, they expected to receive more. But each one of them also received a denarius. 11 When they received it, they began to grumble against the landowner. 12 'These who were hired last worked only one hour,' they said, 'and you have made them equal to us who have borne the burden of the work and the heat of the day.'
13 "But he answered one of them, 'I am not being unfair to you, friend. Didn't you agree to work for a denarius? 14 Take your pay and go. I want to give the one who was hired last the same as I gave you. 15 Don't I have the right to do what I want with my own money? Or are you envious because I am generous?'
16 "So the last will be first, and the first will be last."
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Men Provide, Protect and Create
Women Want, Whine, Nag, Provoke, Complain and Destroy.
TheXYGhost
Women Want, Whine, Nag, Provoke, Complain and Destroy.
TheXYGhost
Sunday, March 16, 2025
TheXYGhost II 076
She's always keeping score on everything, how much you love her, what you do for her, and so on. No matter how much you give, it'll never measure up to her endless list of shortcomings.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Who Has the Incentive to Marry and Divorce
With men paying for everything from the first date to the engagement ring, wedding ring, the house, car and all the bills, don't you think that the man has a vested interest to preserve the marriage?
With all of the outrageously high alimony and child support settlements given out, without much thought by the judges, don't you think that the woman has a vested interest to end the marriage?
With all of the outrageously high alimony and child support settlements given out, without much thought by the judges, don't you think that the woman has a vested interest to end the marriage?
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When she says that she doesn't love him any more, she made a conscious choice to stop loving him. Don't be fooled.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Saturday, March 15, 2025
TheXYGhost II 075
Women don't get it. Good men reject cheaters, while weak men welcome them with open arms. If she cheats, she'll only end up with a spineless man who'll let her walk all over him.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Duality Instilled by a Single Mother and the Community
I was raised by a single mom that lived in the government projects. She went to all the Women's Liberation (Women's Lib) and Feminists Movement meetings with her kids (me and my sister) in tow.
My older sister would constantly provoke and torment me for her pleasure. If I complained to my mom when she got home from work, she would tell me to not bother her. When I hit my sister back, I was beaten, badly.
By the time I was 14, (1978) I would not stand for that shit from my sister. One day she played with me the wrong way one too many times and I knocked her out cold with one punch. She had a fat lip and she showed it to all the project rats that I was an abusive brother.
For years after that day I would get the local thugs chase me whenever they saw me.
I never resorted to violence, that's not my thing. It takes a whole lot to get me to that point. The only time I would attack anyone is if they were to attack me. Curse me, look at me, say what you may, the minute you touch me, I will be one of the people that will be arrested after I am done.
My older sister would constantly provoke and torment me for her pleasure. If I complained to my mom when she got home from work, she would tell me to not bother her. When I hit my sister back, I was beaten, badly.
By the time I was 14, (1978) I would not stand for that shit from my sister. One day she played with me the wrong way one too many times and I knocked her out cold with one punch. She had a fat lip and she showed it to all the project rats that I was an abusive brother.
For years after that day I would get the local thugs chase me whenever they saw me.
I never resorted to violence, that's not my thing. It takes a whole lot to get me to that point. The only time I would attack anyone is if they were to attack me. Curse me, look at me, say what you may, the minute you touch me, I will be one of the people that will be arrested after I am done.
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If you think you are a better father than the child's natural father, you may be a cuck, simp or a beta male.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Friday, March 14, 2025
TheXYGhost II 074
If she sees a good man who's married, she'll eagerly ruin his life by falsely accusing him of cheating, all so she can swoop in and replace his wife. And if she can't tear them apart, she'll destroy him just to satisfy her petty revenge.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Differences Between A Man and a Woman
A woman will block men from her friend in any way she can so she wont be alone.
A man will jump on the fat chick that every hot girl drags along so his buddy can get the hottie.
A man will jump on the fat chick that every hot girl drags along so his buddy can get the hottie.
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If you move in on another man's wife and kids, you may be a cuck, simp or a beta male.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Thursday, March 13, 2025
TheXYGhost II 073
A 97-year-old woman was filmed saying, "I sure hope the man of my dreams comes and gets me, I don't have much longer to live." She still clung to the fantasy that a man would save her.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Men and Women in Songs
Whenever you hear a love song by a man, you hear him professing his love for someone. The direction of love flows from the man to the woman. From the one who has love to the target of his love. Men's songs contain stories and information hidden or blatant. They also sing about the loss of of their target object of affection.
Modern women, on the other hand sing songs of what they want, need and desire. Their songs of love always are a want, need and desire to be loved. The direction of love is in their direction. They are looking to be the target of that love in the hopes that if someone loves them enough, their feeling of longing will go away.
One of the most obvious examples of this is a song by Whitney Houston, "I Want to Dance With Somebody Who Loves Me" where the direction of love is pointing to her. Yes I also know that Whitney sings, "I Will Always Love You" a song written by Dolly Parton in 1973.
The first is a sign of narcissism and it is very evident when you listen to people speaking. From biblical times, Songs of Solomon to the songs of Eminem and Beyonce, very little has changed except that more female song writers in the past 50 years have been singing more and more about their needs to be loved.
In high school and college when I was young, I would come across many girls expressing their need to give birth so that their newborn baby can love them. They place the burden on an infant to love them. Again, the direction of love is to them from the baby.
Most men understand that in order to change his feelings from normal to loving, an action on his part has to be taken. This is why men have fun with children (show love and affection) and they feel great. Most women wait for their baby to love them and get jealous of the love and bond that the child has with the father and thats when they find an excuse to break it off with them. They feel betrayed by both child and father.
What eludes women most about love is they will never feel love until they become loving.
Modern women, on the other hand sing songs of what they want, need and desire. Their songs of love always are a want, need and desire to be loved. The direction of love is in their direction. They are looking to be the target of that love in the hopes that if someone loves them enough, their feeling of longing will go away.
One of the most obvious examples of this is a song by Whitney Houston, "I Want to Dance With Somebody Who Loves Me" where the direction of love is pointing to her. Yes I also know that Whitney sings, "I Will Always Love You" a song written by Dolly Parton in 1973.
The first is a sign of narcissism and it is very evident when you listen to people speaking. From biblical times, Songs of Solomon to the songs of Eminem and Beyonce, very little has changed except that more female song writers in the past 50 years have been singing more and more about their needs to be loved.
In high school and college when I was young, I would come across many girls expressing their need to give birth so that their newborn baby can love them. They place the burden on an infant to love them. Again, the direction of love is to them from the baby.
Most men understand that in order to change his feelings from normal to loving, an action on his part has to be taken. This is why men have fun with children (show love and affection) and they feel great. Most women wait for their baby to love them and get jealous of the love and bond that the child has with the father and thats when they find an excuse to break it off with them. They feel betrayed by both child and father.
What eludes women most about love is they will never feel love until they become loving.
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If you only judge a woman based on how good she looks to you, you may be a cuck, simp or a beta male.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Wednesday, March 12, 2025
TheXYGhost II 072
Ask a married woman if she could redo her life from scratch, would she marry the man she's with today, and watch her scramble for an answer as she tries to mask the regret.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
A Question to Ponder #7
If she can keep her tantrums, arguments, drama, and hormonal rages in check while at work or in her family's presence, why can't she keep it in check when she is with you?
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No matter how "Alpha" you are, she will find your fault and label you a beta.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Tuesday, March 11, 2025
TheXYGhost II 071
Ask a married woman what she'd do if she won the lottery and watch her immediately start fantasizing about how she'd ditch her husband and his useless ass.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
A Question to Ponder #6
Can you name me one song where the singer professes her love for a man?
Excluding the Dolly Parton song that Whitney Houston sang, "I Will Always Love You" and Tammy Wynette's, "Stand By Your Man"?
Excluding the Dolly Parton song that Whitney Houston sang, "I Will Always Love You" and Tammy Wynette's, "Stand By Your Man"?
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If she refers to you as a "Provider", she does not love you, she loves your provisions.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Monday, March 10, 2025
TheXYGhost II 070
Ask a married woman if her husband is happy and watch her fumble, completely clueless, because she's too busy with herself to notice.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
A Question to Ponder #5
If I don't want you to feed me and support me any longer, because I found an imperfection in you, how much would you owe me?
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You will never ever hear a woman faulting herself for a divorce. It is always his fault on every single level.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Sunday, March 9, 2025
TheXYGhost II 069
The only reason women get college degrees is to inflate their status, hoping it'll land them a high-status man who'll pay off her student loans and finance her life while she does nothing with the degrees she worked so hard for.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
A Question to Ponder #4
If I don't want you to feed me and support me any longer, how much would you owe me?
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TheXYGhost : You are 38 years old and still looking for a provider?
Her: I'm picky.
TheXYGhost : Well, beggars can't be choosers.
Her: I'm picky.
TheXYGhost : Well, beggars can't be choosers.
Saturday, March 8, 2025
TheXYGhost II 068
I always hear women say, "I might give him a chance." A chance at what? A chance to be her unpaid servant and provider?
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
A Question to Ponder #3
Do you think that a working wife will work hard to add extra money to her loving husband and family or is she hoarding that extra cash while spending her husband's money so she can break free from someone that openly helped her when she had nothing?
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Men never leave their own kids. They leave women after finding out the kid is not theirs.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Friday, March 7, 2025
TheXYGhost II 067
The new trend for women is to toss aside a loving, caring, great man, all for some shallow excitement or selfish reason.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
A Question to Ponder #2
What would anyone have to do for you, in order for you to protect them with your life, work hard all day to pay their bills?
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Why do women want their husbands and sons in charge of taking out the trash?
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Thursday, March 6, 2025
TheXYGhost II 066
She'd rather be a king's concubine than a loyal, average man's wife. Her worth is tied to status, not real commitment.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
A Question to Ponder #1
How have women, in your past thanked you for wining, dining, entertaining, providing and protecting her with your life?
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Men never leave their own kids. They leave women that make life impossible while they have the police, lawyers, judges and all the simps of the world supporting and encouraging her bad behavior.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Wednesday, March 5, 2025
TheXYGhost II 065
If you marry a non-virgin, you're nothing more than her second choice. Her ideal man is a fantasy made up of the best traits from all the men she's slept with, yet that man will never exist.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
A Pattern That I've Noticed
Women seem to start disliking their man they are with around the time their youngest child hits 4 - 5 years of age. They also start this trait after 3 years when there are no kids involved. Have you notice this in your lives? Let us look at this phenomenon to find the cause and cure.
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I only take advice from people I wish to be like.
I do not want to be like a woman.
TheXYGhost
I do not want to be like a woman.
TheXYGhost
Tuesday, March 4, 2025
TheXYGhost II 064
She claims to hate cheaters, yet she has no problem being the side piece for a married man.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
The Aftermath of 2 Girls Hidden From Their Fathers
Today I ran into a friend of mine that retired to Florida. He came back to NYC to visit. He told me that his 44 year old daughter contacted him from out of the blue. You see, when my friend returned from duty in Vietnam, he settled down with a woman. When only 8 months pregnant, she ran away, never to be seen again. Well, the baby turned out to be a girl that he had never seen. She found her father through Ancestry.com and wrote a letter, that ended up arriving at the man's old place of residence where his son lives.
It turned out that his newly found daughter lives 8 miles away from were her father retired. She has 2 kids, one 10 the other 13. He says that his daughter looks and even acts like him and they even ""complete each others sentences."" He is happy now that he has grandchildren to watch over.
As for the mother, when her kids grew up, that woman and 2 other boys from 2 other fathers, she got involved with a gang of criminals. They were shooting heroin and she died somehow or another. He didn't give much detail and I didn't press him for any.
Anyway, he is happy. This is the second daughter that came back to him. The other one, from a past wife, ran off just to get the child support. When this daughter came back to him 20 years ago to confront him on not paying child support, this man opened his desk drawer and gave his daughter a box of canceled checks proving otherwise.
It turned out that his newly found daughter lives 8 miles away from were her father retired. She has 2 kids, one 10 the other 13. He says that his daughter looks and even acts like him and they even ""complete each others sentences."" He is happy now that he has grandchildren to watch over.
As for the mother, when her kids grew up, that woman and 2 other boys from 2 other fathers, she got involved with a gang of criminals. They were shooting heroin and she died somehow or another. He didn't give much detail and I didn't press him for any.
Anyway, he is happy. This is the second daughter that came back to him. The other one, from a past wife, ran off just to get the child support. When this daughter came back to him 20 years ago to confront him on not paying child support, this man opened his desk drawer and gave his daughter a box of canceled checks proving otherwise.
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Women want equallity for all yet they hate poor men. Never will they ever take a poor man out for a dinner.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Monday, March 3, 2025
TheXYGhost II 063
He got rid of his stalker by asking her out, then whining and complaining the entire time.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
How Women Define Themselves
Women define themselves by how they perceive their partner's worth and status. They constantly compare their situations to the ones of the women in their sphere of influence.
With absolutely no regards as to his needs, a woman will place ALL of her needs, wants, and desires (real or imaginary) solely on that partner to fulfill. Without his knowledge or consent she puts him in charge of satisfying her in every way without giving him a single clue as to what she wants. He should know or else it is not meant to be. If he does not live up to unrealistic expectations, she will then start look at him as if he betrayed her and she will act accordingly.
With absolutely no regards as to his needs, a woman will place ALL of her needs, wants, and desires (real or imaginary) solely on that partner to fulfill. Without his knowledge or consent she puts him in charge of satisfying her in every way without giving him a single clue as to what she wants. He should know or else it is not meant to be. If he does not live up to unrealistic expectations, she will then start look at him as if he betrayed her and she will act accordingly.
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Women loudly yell, "My body, my choice!" But a woman will never abort a child of a millionaire.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Sunday, March 2, 2025
TheXYGhost II 062
She actually claims she's still a virgin because the sex she had on video was "professional" and doesn't count.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Here is What I Do Not Understand
Why are there so many females heading up the Fathers' Rights movement? That makes no GOD damn sense. I started up this account to empower men and to shatter the angelic images of females in the heads of men. I post stuff all day, more than any Mens' or Fathers' rights group. I never asked for money and I am only one person they are groups of male followers lead by Judas Goat females leading men to slaughter. I have my own group (Men Only) and I only friend with men, no females. I have complimented women on their comments and even posted videos of great women of today. I do not hate strong, powerful, intelligent, creative women. I wish they could all be that way. Instead I see bossy, vicious, vindictive, money grubbing whores and women that enjoy leading men.
There was this female who put her kid's face on her profile. No doubt a single mom that walked out on the father yet she feels sorry for the new man in her life whose wife walked out on him. Now she is the admin that deleted one of my posts.
There was this female who put her kid's face on her profile. No doubt a single mom that walked out on the father yet she feels sorry for the new man in her life whose wife walked out on him. Now she is the admin that deleted one of my posts.
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If you earn more than her, she loves you until she earns more tha you or she finds another that earns more than you. In any case she never knows who she loves until she knows whats in you wallet.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Saturday, March 1, 2025
TheXYGhost II 061
Even the loudest, most hardcore feminists always end up with some rugged biker. Funny how they never touch the soft, spineless feminist men they claim to idolize.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Men!
We have sold ourselves way too short to women for far too long. These women are not the women of the 1950's that will raise our kids, make our homes and beds when we go out in the foxholes and risk our necks for the family. Those women made sure we came back to a clean home, clean clothes and warm food when we come home.
Today's women want slaves that will provide for their every want, need and desire, real or imaginary. They wont do anything loving for us, we have to provide the hot meals for them after a hard days work and we have to provide $10,000 handbags, maid service and a gourmet chef at their disposal. They demand new cars and a fancy home with all the furnishings. They demand that we provide them happiness and shower them with attention, jewelry and roses all on a silver platter. They demand constant and never ending compliments and accolades.This is far more than any 10 men could ever give one female.
She will abort and kidnap our children and make us pay through the nose just for the possibility of seeing our kids 4 days a month if you dont pamper the queen like a good servant.
And what does she give back that is worth all that?
I think the time is right to say to women, "If you want to live under my protection and to enjoy my provisions, you need to prove your worth to me." What can you offer a man that will risk his life to defend, feed and clothe you?
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Today's women want slaves that will provide for their every want, need and desire, real or imaginary. They wont do anything loving for us, we have to provide the hot meals for them after a hard days work and we have to provide $10,000 handbags, maid service and a gourmet chef at their disposal. They demand new cars and a fancy home with all the furnishings. They demand that we provide them happiness and shower them with attention, jewelry and roses all on a silver platter. They demand constant and never ending compliments and accolades.This is far more than any 10 men could ever give one female.
She will abort and kidnap our children and make us pay through the nose just for the possibility of seeing our kids 4 days a month if you dont pamper the queen like a good servant.
And what does she give back that is worth all that?
I think the time is right to say to women, "If you want to live under my protection and to enjoy my provisions, you need to prove your worth to me." What can you offer a man that will risk his life to defend, feed and clothe you?
Share This if You Think I am Correct.
I mean it!
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Women are praised for securing a new man that will fully provide for her while under the care of another man she designated for the same purpose. When she leaves the first man, he is constantly asked, "What did you do wrong?", as if the woman did no wrong.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Friday, February 28, 2025
TheXYGhost II 059
A woman gets turned on by a man she fears and finds intimidating, but the moment she gets comfortable and realizes there's nothing to fear, the excitement dies and so does her loyalty as she walks away.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
A Friend Wrote Me the Following #3
I lived with my mother and her husband until I was 15.
She told me that she didn't know if my biological father was alive or not.
It was all a big lie. My father was alive and paying 20% of his monthly salary to my mother. It was automatically deducted from his check. In addition, the medical insurance was paid as well. She got the money every month.
When I was 14, I wanted to travel to another country for my 15th birthday, and discovered that my father was alive and paying something similar to alimony.
I searched and found him. He was living in the same city, in another neighborhood and still working for the same government office.
So, both my mother and former stepfather lied to me for years.
She divorced him as well.
Those things happen.
She told me that she didn't know if my biological father was alive or not.
It was all a big lie. My father was alive and paying 20% of his monthly salary to my mother. It was automatically deducted from his check. In addition, the medical insurance was paid as well. She got the money every month.
When I was 14, I wanted to travel to another country for my 15th birthday, and discovered that my father was alive and paying something similar to alimony.
I searched and found him. He was living in the same city, in another neighborhood and still working for the same government office.
So, both my mother and former stepfather lied to me for years.
She divorced him as well.
Those things happen.
Thursday, February 27, 2025
TheXYGhost II 058
An old woman told me many years ago, if there's a problem in the marriage, it's her doing. Either she created a problem or she complaining about a problem that never existed. The end goal is drama.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
A Friend Wrote Me the Following #2
I was working 2 jobs; 8 hours a day in a truck stop and 6 to 8 hours a day selling and installing CB radios, linear amplifiers and trucks. I was doing my business and doing my job, as a man should, to bring home money for food, clothes and diapers for the baby. She also needed pot to smoke because Mexican women like to smoke weed.
I was busting my ass just like my father did for his family. Her complaint was that I was never home and when I was home, I was sleeping.
Well, I knew about the pot. What I didn't know about was the meth. So, while I was working all night on the graveyard shift, she was fucking the dude with the bag and glass dick (crack pipe) they smoked all of my weed.
It took me 3 years to figure this shit out. They say love is blind until you get hit in the head with a big stick. Then I woke up.
You know I don't care if someone uses dope. Likewise, I don't care if someone drinks. But if the alcohol or the use of a mind-altering substance takes control of your life then you have a problem.
You can buy a bag of whatever you want with leftover money after all bills are paid and consume some on your time off work. Have fun and enjoy. But if you have to consume every day just to function or spend all your money on it and not take care of bills then you have a problem and you need to stop.
Well, my ex had a big problem with consuming too much. She would buy a big bag and would try to smoke it all at one time or till unconscious, whichever came first. I couldn't understand that. I kept asking her how high she wanted to go. For me, I like to fly 15,000 to 35,000 feet. This is a nice cruising altitude. You can still function and take care of business.
I was never married but I paid child support for 21 years. At first the amount was set at $123.00 per month but every few years she had my finances re-investigated and by the end of my support was over $400 plus a month.
I figured it out! We used a condom and the KY jelly always came up missing. She, being a nursing student, knew that petroleum jelly breaks down the latex of condoms. After our fun, I pulled out and only the bottom half of the condom was intact. She sperm jacked me!
She only initiated sex during her optimum fertile time. With me being so high and horny, we used petroleum jelly to lubricate the condom. She was supposed to be on the pill as well. Two months later she's sick in the morning. We went to the doctor, and sure enough, she came back pregnant.
Well, I did what every other male would do at 29 years of age. I buckled down and bust my ass. But that was not good enough for her. No matter how much money I brought home, her hidden meth habit took more than I could make. Then certain things came up missing.
When they sabotaged the tires on my vehicle, hoping for me to have a fatal accident and cash in on my life insurance that was the last straw. Of course, I couldn't prove it at the time, but I took a crossbow arrow out of my rear truck tire when it went flat on me. My buddy, who was a tire man, showed me this.
I wish I could rip out that chapter of my life. She changed my whole life on my opinion on bitches. She ran me through the gutter.
Then, with an electronics background I put electronic bugs in our house to listen in. It turned out that the dude she ran off with was making her turn tricks at the local bar and he beat the stuff out of her.
I stalked her for 4 years after that. It's amazing what you can hide in a children's toy that runs on batteries and give it to your baby they never found out and it would transmit over a mile.
I'm glad the whore is out of my life. Now with social media, I can see what they're doing. I looked at her and she had so many miles on their body. She looks older than I am and we're the same age.
I was busting my ass just like my father did for his family. Her complaint was that I was never home and when I was home, I was sleeping.
Well, I knew about the pot. What I didn't know about was the meth. So, while I was working all night on the graveyard shift, she was fucking the dude with the bag and glass dick (crack pipe) they smoked all of my weed.
It took me 3 years to figure this shit out. They say love is blind until you get hit in the head with a big stick. Then I woke up.
You know I don't care if someone uses dope. Likewise, I don't care if someone drinks. But if the alcohol or the use of a mind-altering substance takes control of your life then you have a problem.
You can buy a bag of whatever you want with leftover money after all bills are paid and consume some on your time off work. Have fun and enjoy. But if you have to consume every day just to function or spend all your money on it and not take care of bills then you have a problem and you need to stop.
Well, my ex had a big problem with consuming too much. She would buy a big bag and would try to smoke it all at one time or till unconscious, whichever came first. I couldn't understand that. I kept asking her how high she wanted to go. For me, I like to fly 15,000 to 35,000 feet. This is a nice cruising altitude. You can still function and take care of business.
I was never married but I paid child support for 21 years. At first the amount was set at $123.00 per month but every few years she had my finances re-investigated and by the end of my support was over $400 plus a month.
I figured it out! We used a condom and the KY jelly always came up missing. She, being a nursing student, knew that petroleum jelly breaks down the latex of condoms. After our fun, I pulled out and only the bottom half of the condom was intact. She sperm jacked me!
She only initiated sex during her optimum fertile time. With me being so high and horny, we used petroleum jelly to lubricate the condom. She was supposed to be on the pill as well. Two months later she's sick in the morning. We went to the doctor, and sure enough, she came back pregnant.
Well, I did what every other male would do at 29 years of age. I buckled down and bust my ass. But that was not good enough for her. No matter how much money I brought home, her hidden meth habit took more than I could make. Then certain things came up missing.
When they sabotaged the tires on my vehicle, hoping for me to have a fatal accident and cash in on my life insurance that was the last straw. Of course, I couldn't prove it at the time, but I took a crossbow arrow out of my rear truck tire when it went flat on me. My buddy, who was a tire man, showed me this.
I wish I could rip out that chapter of my life. She changed my whole life on my opinion on bitches. She ran me through the gutter.
Then, with an electronics background I put electronic bugs in our house to listen in. It turned out that the dude she ran off with was making her turn tricks at the local bar and he beat the stuff out of her.
I stalked her for 4 years after that. It's amazing what you can hide in a children's toy that runs on batteries and give it to your baby they never found out and it would transmit over a mile.
I'm glad the whore is out of my life. Now with social media, I can see what they're doing. I looked at her and she had so many miles on their body. She looks older than I am and we're the same age.
TheXYGhost 127
Her: Your ex must have been hot. Only good looking girls cheat.
TheXYGhost : So, are you ugly or a cheater?
Her: Um, neither?
TheXYGhost : So, are you ugly or a cheater?
Her: Um, neither?
Wednesday, February 26, 2025
TheXYGhost II 057
You think she broke up with you yesterday? She dumped you six months ago. She just waited until she had your replacement lined up to tell you.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
A Friend Wrote Me the Following #1
I moved to Florida and was engaged to my child's mother for 2 years. I was going to full time night classes so I could be with my daughter during the day. I got injured in the Marines in '07 which made the Florida Police Academy really tough to accomplish in 2012, but I did because I knew it was my only hope of keeping and supporting my daughter.
Then she walked out on me, taking my daughter with her. I spent $5,000 on an attorney which did absolutely nothing for me, because he couldn't serve her mother the papers. Florida has awful laws for unwed fathers. I'm on the birth certificate and my child has my last name but I have zero rights because you must be married to the child's mother before you have any rights to your child.
So, in January 2013, her mom took off with my child again to another state. It took me a year and a half to find out that they were in North Carolina. Back in 2011 I bought her a brand-new Nissan Altima which, of course, had to be in my name because I had a perfect 760 credit score back then. She let it get repossessed, which made my credit go to 450.
So back to me after finding out she ran; I applied for Tampa Police Department, which I didn't get the job because I failed my mental evaluation. They told me I was emotionally unstable due to my child being taken. They told me to try back again in 8 months.
So, at this point I had no reason to live in Florida any more then I moved back home to Texas to be around family and friends and try to regroup and find my kid.
I went from a $60,000 year career to no career at all. From a 760-credit score to 450 and I lost my only purpose and my joy (my child).
So, 3 weeks ago I moved here to North Carolina to fight for my baby girl. I'm not sure how I will get that done because I spent most of my money getting put here and paying rent and other expenses. But I can't give up. She is 6 years old and I haven't seen her since Nov 22, 2012. It has literally killed me. One day Madi, daddy will hold and kiss you again.
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Why does this man have to fight to be in his child's life?
Our prayers are out to you, my brother.
Then she walked out on me, taking my daughter with her. I spent $5,000 on an attorney which did absolutely nothing for me, because he couldn't serve her mother the papers. Florida has awful laws for unwed fathers. I'm on the birth certificate and my child has my last name but I have zero rights because you must be married to the child's mother before you have any rights to your child.
So, in January 2013, her mom took off with my child again to another state. It took me a year and a half to find out that they were in North Carolina. Back in 2011 I bought her a brand-new Nissan Altima which, of course, had to be in my name because I had a perfect 760 credit score back then. She let it get repossessed, which made my credit go to 450.
So back to me after finding out she ran; I applied for Tampa Police Department, which I didn't get the job because I failed my mental evaluation. They told me I was emotionally unstable due to my child being taken. They told me to try back again in 8 months.
So, at this point I had no reason to live in Florida any more then I moved back home to Texas to be around family and friends and try to regroup and find my kid.
I went from a $60,000 year career to no career at all. From a 760-credit score to 450 and I lost my only purpose and my joy (my child).
So, 3 weeks ago I moved here to North Carolina to fight for my baby girl. I'm not sure how I will get that done because I spent most of my money getting put here and paying rent and other expenses. But I can't give up. She is 6 years old and I haven't seen her since Nov 22, 2012. It has literally killed me. One day Madi, daddy will hold and kiss you again.
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Why does this man have to fight to be in his child's life?
Our prayers are out to you, my brother.
Tuesday, February 25, 2025
Throwing Them The Curveball
When I meet a girl, I will sometimes tell them, "I promised myself that if I met a girl that looks as good as you do, I would buy that girl a diamond ring." Then I would walk away.
Sometimes I tell them, "If I met 5 more girls like you, I would marry them all the very next day."
Some days I will ask a girl I met, "I always attract the craziest women, so if you are attracted to me, I do not want your number."
Most of the time when I'm the third wheel between my friend and his wife, I tell the waitress, "I wanted to bring my girlfriend but my wife would get pissed at me."
TheXYGhost 125
Men, be perfect for her in every way possible. Provide for her every want, need and desire, when, where and how she wants. If you don't, she will take your kids, your house, half of your future income and half your net worth.
TheXYGhost
Monday, February 24, 2025
TheXYGhost 124
Imagine what would happen to divorce rates if there was only one flat rate for child support no matter what the parent earns. TheXYGhost
Worship Women or Be Called A Misogynist
I'm glad that we have a culture that fosters love for mothers, but at this point, it's become a cult that considers mothers and females in general beyond reproach and criticism. Every conversation that is brought up about single mothers, the talk of responsibility must either be split by mothers and fathers (which we already know that deadbeat dads are already criticized) or thrown onto fathers by those that are offended. As always, nothing gets done, and the end result is that anyone who questions single motherhood must hate women. Wash, rinse and repeat.
Sunday, February 23, 2025
TheXYGhost 123
Women: If you want a man to provide for you and protect you with his life, you need to show him on a constant and consistent bases that you are worthy that effort. TheXYGhost
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