Subtle Signs That She Blames Others

OK, we all know that there are many women out there that blame others of everything that goes wrong in their lives, and here is how you spot them. Just have a conversation with them and you will hear it.

Most men will say, "That comedian is funny" (an opinion based on his evaluation) or "I laughed my ass off" (a point of fact). Most women that you want to stay away from will take an accusatory stance, "He made me laugh". Although innocuous, she is accusing the comedian of making her laugh.

The difference is subtle, yet it is still there. "I was angry at him" versus "He made me angry"

Women Are Extremely Dependent on Men to Make Them Happy

I just read the introduction of a book called "Women's Infidelity" written by a woman, Michelle Langley. In her introduction she alludes that women are not happy and they look for external sources of happiness from their partners. When they don't find it in them, they look for another man to provide that happiness.

What are your thoughts?

Cheaters Are Deceivers

I was out with a bunch of politicians in a bar one night when one of them started to tell the whole group how dirty politics is. He stated how he was constantly cheating on his wife. He told us how his opponent found out and threatened to use that against him. To solve this issue, the man confessed all his infidelities to his wife.

He then stated to brag how many times he cheated and with who. Then he stated, "Everybody cheats."

I looked at him and told him that I have never cheated on a girlfriend or my wife. He looked at me in total disbelief and I had to reconfirm my point. Then he asked me how did I accomplish such an act.

I asked him a series of questions. I asked;

Did you want your mother to cheat on your father?

Did you want your father to cheat on your mother?

Do you want your wife to cheat on you?

Do you want your daughter to cheat on her husband once they get married?

Do you want your daughter's husband to cheat on her?

Do you want your son to cheat on his wife?

Do you want your son's wife to cheat on him?

To wit he answered, "No" to all.

I told him, "It's easy not to cheat, just don't do what you want other not to do."

I also told him that women love cheaters and they love married men, they are so easily blackmailed afterwards.

The Quintessential Feminist Woman of the Modern Age

My sister is the quintessential feminist woman of the modern age. She had 3 children from 3 different men divorcing them all while claiming that all the fathers were substance abusers. All of her boyfriends had some sort of drug addiction. From, cocaine, crack, alcohol and pills. She lived in government housing while renting out one room at market value. She collected welfare and child support payments from 3 men while she had under the books jobs. She instructs her female peers with ways to use the courts to collect as much as she thinks they can get.

Now that her kids have grown up, she bought herself a nice vacation home on the waterfront while maintaining her apartment in the projects. Where did she get the money?

I've Changed My Ways Because I Kept Hearing the Same Old Story Over and Over and Over Again

By the time I was in my mid 20's I started becoming tired of meeting women with their stories of cheating, abusive and substance abusive boyfriends while I was seeing in my life and the lives of my friends that their girlfriends and wives were cheating and leaving with claims of "Not Enough!"

Not enough attention

Not enough love

Not enough quality time

Not enough sex

Not enough money

When I persistently made the mistake of dating these women, (all women think their last boyfriends were abusive, so I was left with no real choice) I found myself in the same boat I was not doing enough as they sought out their next partner under the umbrella of protection and provisions, I supplied them.

But they were never at fault for cheating. Even in the eyes of other woman, I was the fault for picking them or not providing them enough and they were not even about to say that those women were at fault for seeking another man.

My solution: I do not pick any longer. Buy me gifts, shower me with attention, provide for me and I will tell you it's not enough.

He Knocked Out His Ex-Wife's New Boyfriend For Slapping His Daughter

The arrogance of some guys that proclaim that they are a better father than the man the woman kicked out. Who will be better for that man's child once he is kicked out for being imperfect?

I once witnessed a pissed off woman drive into a loading dock where her ex worked. She stormed out of her car leaving the child in the back seat and her new guy in the front. She walked over to the man and started yelling, screaming and hitting him. He was totally un-phased.

He was suing this woman for full custody because his daughter told him that mommy's boyfriend slapped her for saying something.

A minute or two went by and the boyfriend in the front seat got the courage to step out of the car to join in, the child followed and was upset at her mom and dad fighting. The daughter ran to her dad and her dad picked her up. By this time the mom backed off and that's when the boyfriend chimed in with his two cents.

The man, with his daughter in his arm, looked astonished.

In a loud voice that drowned out the sounds of the truck engines, he said, "Who the FUCK are you?"

Not caring for an answer, he turned to his daughter and said, "Is this the man that hit you?"

The girl nodded and with one punch he knocked the boyfriend out. Then he turned to his daughter and said, "I bet you he won't hit you any more."

The cops were called and the boyfriend regained consciousness. The boyfriend wanted to press charges but the man stated to the cops that the incident is all on camera and he will press charges on his ex if any charges are to be pressed. Then he told the cops why he hit the boyfriend, and the cops began telling the boyfriend, "Are you stupid? Hitting another man's kid?"

The boyfriend started to explain his actions to the cops telling them he was only just reprimanding the girl.

The cop looked at the boyfriend and told him, "I don't care! You do not hit anyone's kid! You understand?"

Like I said earlier, The arrogance of some guys that proclaim that they are a better father.

A Great Video Idea For You to Try

Here is an interesting question you should ask a female then post her reaction on video. If you do, add the hashtag #TheXYGhost

Here is the question:

Should a 25 year old go to prison for having sex with a 13 year old?

When the dust settles, ask, how many years should that woman be locked up?

Watch the look on her face.

The Pride She Has in Homewrecking Herself

I've ran into so many women in my life that have this sense of pride when they talk about their divorce or breakup. They almost always make it a point to hammer in the fact that they broke it off with their partner and not the other way around. They will continue on by saying that they do not want their partner back but their partner wants her back. From Middle School to High School to College to your neighborhood, your work place and beyond, they are all full of pride breaking up with some man.

I was talking to this girl about her ex-husband and in the middle of the story, I asked her why she divorced him, as it is almost always the case where the woman breaks up with the man. I could not believe my ears when she thanked me for noticing that she was the one that divorced him and not the other way around.

They Never Initiate Anything, Therefore They Have No Responsibility

In a chat session between a man and a girl, it seems that if you do not send them a question to answer, the conversation is over. It's almost like they don't know what to say or do after that. Are they waiting for another question to answer or are they just not interested? It never ceases to amaze me about how often this happens. Do women not know how to communicate or are they just lazy?

They, also never take the opportunity to initiate a conversation. Be it a phone call, email or text. In the rare cases that they do initiate a conversation, it's only to say, "Hi" and they wait for you to say something. If you reply only with a, "Hi" Back, most likely that's the end of the conversation.

Even back in the day when there was no internet, a girl would sit by the phone waiting for someone to call her. But when that call came in, she wasted no time to let the phone ring a few times before she answered it. Once she answers, she playsssss "hard to get"

None of the above applies if they are in need of your resources, then they have no problem telling you their problems so you initiate "Fix It Man" mode. Again, they never ask, they only state their problems.

I'm Sure You Men Heard These Words Before

Woman : Yes, you were a good provider, you gave me food to eat, clothes to wear, you helped me a great deal in my personal life and career. We had great times together, we went places and shared experiences together. You were so good to me in every way I can think of. Yes dear, you loved me. But that is not enough. I met another and I'm moving in with him today. I fell in love with him. It just happened. It was not my fault. I never planned it this way.

Remember, I still love you.

(I hope he buys this in case my new boyfriend does not work out)

Women Searching For The Married Man

The arrogance of some women that do not think they are cheating when they are in bed with a married man. They think they are next in line for a ring on the finger and a white gown.

I feel like yelling at the top of my lungs to these women, "HEY, STUPID! HE IS MARRIED, YOU IDIOT! IF YOU MARRY HIM, YOU ARE MARRYING A CHEATER!"

Men almost never initiate the divorce of their wives. The cost is too great. It's a rigged game and the judges are one sided. Never will you see a woman giving half her wealth, the house and kids to the man, let alone pay him alimony.

You will almost always hear the same thing out of their mouths when you simply ask, "Why?"; "Because I love him."

You will see them scoping men out in social settings looking for that band of gold on the man's finger. They actively search for that man.

When I had a ring on my finger, I was hit on more than once. To them, a wedding ring is their sign that another woman thinks he is a good provider. They do not have to strain their brain to do the analyzation themselves, that is their proof.

There are men that don't cheat on their wives and there are women that want that man. Those women will stop at nothing to break up that union any way they can.

I've seen women in office settings that will put lipstick on their finger and make like they are fixing their boss's collar before they leave for home. They put a dab of lipstick on the man's collar and when he gets home, his wife sees the lipstick mark and that is all she needs to prove, without a shadow of doubt that her husband is cheating. Cue in the lawyers that will make the wife profit from her misunderstanding.

I've heard of women that threw their panties in the back seat of a man's (her coworker) car to start up drama between the married couple. When the man divorces, she can console him and get close to him.

Men are treated as property to women, don't you believe otherwise.

At Work, I Covered His Six and He Covered Mine

At work, my manager started dating a girl in a different department. I told him to be careful. He took my warnings light heartedly.

After a few weeks of dating and bed hopping, he took the woman to an after work gathering where he was asked if that is his new girlfriend. He answered with, "I'm not sure yet, but so far, it looks good."

When she heard his reply, she was furious! "What do you mean you are not sure?"

From what I heard, she yelled, screamed and carried on way beyond a normal office party setting.

The next morning, he told me the story. He thought he was going to lose his job over it. As the day went on, he was assured from Human Resources, that his part in the incident was not going to be a negative as far as they were concerned.

By 5pm, it was time for me to go home. I had things to do. My cubicle was right next to his office and I heard the front door open and close. It was her. She stood in front of his office door. She was explaining how last night's incident was not her fault. He stayed sitting at his desk telling her it was over and he can't afford an incident like that and it would damage his career.

She pleaded and begged him to reconsider. He stuck to his guns and adamantly said, "No"

The conversation slowly escalated from, "It's not my fault" to "You are to blame"

My manager (also a great friend) knew that I was still in my cubicle listening intently to back him up when the time arose.

Noticing that this encounter was starting a path to a place he had no intention of going, my friend told the girl that I was still at my cubicle to be witness and protect him. When I heard that, I spoke up in the deepest and most authoritative voice I had, "Is there any trouble in there?"

She walked over to my cubicle and took a look at me and got very intimidated. (I'm a nice guy but I look as intimidating as a member of the Tony Soprano's crew) I held up a broken digital camera and told her that I was recording things.

She looked shocked and she said a few last words and left.

My friend thanked me. When he found a new employment opportunity, I was his first hire and he gave me a great position.

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Rest In Peace

Nathanial "Nate" Johnson

I Ain't Gonna Do That No Mo'e

• I paid for the dinners

• I paid for the drinks

• I bought the flowers

• I bought the candies

• I bought the jewelry

• I paid for the entertainment

• I paid for the trips

I've done it all and the recipients of the above declared that it wasn't enough. It's never enough. It doesn't work. That's why I don't do it anymore.

If you think I'm cheap, I had a great fun dinner with my friend Gilbert Wong. Our bill was $219.93. He even guessed the amount of the bill before it arrived. He was only 7¢ off. Great time we had. We split the bill and enjoyed the whole evening.

Thanx Gil.

No more paying for cunts making their foodie calls.

You Sure Cured Me From Being Chivalrous

Yes, I was a human placeholder. The good guy that came to a girl's rescue when her bad boy that she picked, abused, cheated and was a no good gambler, drug addicted or all around criminal.

I was that guy that never cheated and did the best I could to build that girl up. Once she had the confidence she once lacked, off she would go in another bad boy arms with the claims that I was not good enough etc. I would then get the goodbye kiss and an affirmation that she still loves me.

Not no more.

I won't do that ever again.

Not this man.

Where Are Feminists now When Disaster Strikes?

Are they risking their lives saving people in flood zones with their boats?

There were No feminists on the Titanic.

Men and men alone to her rescue and not a Feminist in sight.

Same Old Story From Women About Abusive Men

I saw this beggar on the NYC Subway system today. She was claiming that she was homeless, single mother that had an abusive husband and now they are divorced.

I started to think, was this woman in a great relationship before she went to bed with that man to get pregnant, or was this man abusive from day one. Nobody just becomes abusive all of a sudden, for no reason whatsoever.

But since it is in New York City, and on the Subway, it is all just probably a lie.

Lie or not, this woman wouldn't tell that story day in and day out riding one train car after another if she was not making money from the deal.

But women and men pay her for her story.

A man would be looked down upon by women. They would not give him a cent.

All of Her Ex-Boyfriends and Ex-Husbands Were No Good

Of all the girls I met and keep on meeting, I keep on hearing the same stories of their last boyfriend / husband.

1. He was abusive

a. This is a scam, did she really mean that she was loving, caring, giving and sharing and all he did was punch her in the face? I can walk on any street in America today and take a poll of 10,000 men (including you and I) and they would all say they would never hit a female. These females want me to believe that they found that 1 man in 10,000 that would hit a female. I won't believe it.

2. He didn't give me enough attention

Danger Will Robinson, my sensors indicate extreme human manipulation - Every time I hear this excuse, I think to myself the following;

a. How much attention did he promise you?

b. Did he give you a lot of attention, but that was not enough?

c. Did he give you all the attention any human can give, but that was not enough?

d. How much attention did he promise you when you first met?

e. How much attention is enough?

f. How much attention have you received since you two split?

g. Was breaking up your family your solution to your attention needs?

3. He didn't love me

a. When I hear this, I can't help but asking, "You must have loved him a whole lot for you to leave him." or "How do you measure someone's love for you?" or "Do you measure your pet's love for you?"

4. He cheated on me

a. An oldie but goodie. I've seen this a million times. Females don't mind cheaters if the man is cheating on his wife for her. They never mind being the target of a cheating man. But that's the man they partnered with and now they are surprised that he cheated yet again.

5. He was a gambler, alcoholic or a substance abuser

a. Gamblers and substance abusers rarely just pop up out of nowhere. There are indications and warning signs all around that the female chooses to ignore.

You Will Be Picky Until You Are Desperate

I was talking to this girl once when we were talking about relationships. I asked her why was she single and she said what all girls say, "I'm picky".

I responded with, "You will be picky until you are desperate"

She quickly replied, "I'm not desperate!"

I repeated with, "You will be picky until you are desperate"

She replied only with an, "Oh."

Then she caught herself saying, "I will never be desperate, look at this" (as she sat up in her seat displaying her body)

I only replied with an, "Oh"

I think I ruined her day.

No Matter What, You Are Always The Fault of Her Actions

It's so sad to see that every time a man talks about his cheating partner to another woman, she will spare no time to blame the man sitting in front of her. She will blame him in the following ways;

1 - It's your fault for trusting her

2 - It's your fault for picking her

3 - It's your fault for not giving her enough

4 - It's your fault because maybe unconsciously, you wanted her to cheat

5 - It's your fault for not paying her enough attention

6 - It's your fault because you must have treated her badly

7 - It's your fault for not showing her that you love her.

And my favorite;

8 - It's your fault for giving her everything she wanted, because maybe she didn't want what she asked for

Face it fellas, it's just your fault.

Women Will Believe The Most Obvious Lies But Never The Truth

I think that women are so desperate to find a larger-than-life man they will believe any liar that tells them all the lies they want to hear.

"I love you more than anything on this earth" - That's a lie. Nobody loves one thing so much.

"You are the most beautiful woman I've ever seen" - This is a lie too.

"You are the world to me" - Is there a man out there that will stop living because she is gone?

"I love you more than the sun, moon the sky and stars" - No man love these things.