Him: What’s wrong? Her: Nothing. Him: Are you sure? You seem upset. Her: Nothing’s wrong. I’m OK. Him: OK, I was just checking.
Her mind: Why didn’t he ask me a third time? I was ready to tell him if he had just asked once more. He must not love me anymore.
Sunday, October 19, 2025
TheXYGhost 361
He pays $25,000 a month towards child support for a child he has never seen yet.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Saturday, October 18, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 292
I divorced him because he never cherish and treasured me like the high value woman I am.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost III 292
I divorced him because he never cherish and treasured me like the high value woman I am.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Female Communication #2
Most of the time, women communicate with men through hints. They speak in statements or questions laced with hidden meanings. That is only half the problem. Because she speaks in hints, she assumes your direct statements also contain hidden meanings.
She may ask, “Are you going to wear that suit to the event tomorrow?”
You, as a man, answer “Yes” or “No.” But the hidden meaning behind her question is disapproval. Your direct answer will be taken as dismissive, proof in her mind that you do not care about her feelings.
If you ask her a direct question like, “Do you want to order takeout tonight?” she may interpret it as a hint that you hate her cooking. She will fill in the blanks with the worst possible scenario.
Even something as simple as, “Are you going to work tomorrow?” can turn into a trap. She may not see a direct question. She may pause, suspicious, and ask, “What do you mean by that?”
I have seen countless interviews where a woman is asked a direct question, yet she answers as if the real question is hidden between the words. It is how she hears the world.
She may ask, “Are you going to wear that suit to the event tomorrow?”
You, as a man, answer “Yes” or “No.” But the hidden meaning behind her question is disapproval. Your direct answer will be taken as dismissive, proof in her mind that you do not care about her feelings.
If you ask her a direct question like, “Do you want to order takeout tonight?” she may interpret it as a hint that you hate her cooking. She will fill in the blanks with the worst possible scenario.
Even something as simple as, “Are you going to work tomorrow?” can turn into a trap. She may not see a direct question. She may pause, suspicious, and ask, “What do you mean by that?”
I have seen countless interviews where a woman is asked a direct question, yet she answers as if the real question is hidden between the words. It is how she hears the world.
TheXYGhost 360
He spent 5 years in prison for not paying child support for a child that was not his.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Friday, October 17, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 291
She doesn’t want to be a wife, she doesn’t want a husband. She wants an equal partner where she sets the ever changing terms.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost III 291
She doesn’t want to be a wife, she doesn’t want a husband. She wants an equal partner where she sets the ever changing terms.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Female Communication #1
She will complain to her friends and family that you are not giving her what she never asked for. She will be angry that you cannot read her mind. In her mind, if you truly loved her, you would magically know what she wants.
She believes telling you directly would ruin the gesture because it would not come from you naturally. So she drops hints. But hints are not communication, they are games.
She feels betrayed when you do not give her what she wanted, but the truth is she betrayed herself. She set impossible expectations. Her own refusal to communicate clearly built the wall between you and her, and she will still blame you for it.
She believes telling you directly would ruin the gesture because it would not come from you naturally. So she drops hints. But hints are not communication, they are games.
She feels betrayed when you do not give her what she wanted, but the truth is she betrayed herself. She set impossible expectations. Her own refusal to communicate clearly built the wall between you and her, and she will still blame you for it.
Thursday, October 16, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 290
Her : I’m the prize.
TheXYGhost : You do have potential. I’m sure some guy will give you a chance.
TheXYGhost : You do have potential. I’m sure some guy will give you a chance.
TheXYGhost III 290
Her : I’m the prize.
TheXYGhost : You do have potential. I’m sure some guy will give you a chance.
TheXYGhost : You do have potential. I’m sure some guy will give you a chance.
Why Are Girls Attracted to Married Men?
The answer is simple but layered. Many men notice that when they are single, women reject them. Once they have a girlfriend, other women suddenly show interest. Several forces may be at work:
1. A man carries himself with more confidence when he has a partner.
2. Women use social proof, seeing another woman choose him as proof of his value.
3. She is drawn to the forbidden nature of pursuing a taken man.
4. She sees the girlfriend as a rival and wants to even the score by sleeping with her man.
5. She envies the girlfriend's looks or status and wants to take what she has.
6. She sees how well he treats his woman and wants to punish her own man for not doing the same.
7. She wants to break them up so she can have him for herself.
1. A man carries himself with more confidence when he has a partner.
2. Women use social proof, seeing another woman choose him as proof of his value.
3. She is drawn to the forbidden nature of pursuing a taken man.
4. She sees the girlfriend as a rival and wants to even the score by sleeping with her man.
5. She envies the girlfriend's looks or status and wants to take what she has.
6. She sees how well he treats his woman and wants to punish her own man for not doing the same.
7. She wants to break them up so she can have him for herself.
TheXYGhost 358
She is twice divorced and has 3 kids from 3 different men, and you think she loves you?
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Wednesday, October 15, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 289
She pouts and withdraws when she’s upset, waiting for the man she’s angry at to notice and pry her feelings out of her.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost III 289
She pouts and withdraws when she’s upset, waiting for the man she’s angry at to notice and pry her feelings out of her.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
We Are Not in the Same Boat
I am 58 years old and have my daily coffee at a local restaurant bar. I often chat with the female bartender and sometimes share stories about my past relationships. I could tell she doubted some of them.
One day, as I was telling her how long I have been single, a woman in her 50s walked up and handed me her business card. She said, “You’re single? I’m single too. We single people need to stick together. We’re in the same boat.”
I took her card and replied, “We are not in the same boat. We are in the same storm.”
Her card said she was a branch manager at a bank down the street. Over the next few days she came back to the bar with a laptop, pretending to work while sitting near me. The bartenders, knowing my vision is limited, kept watch. They told me she kept glancing at me, waiting for me to make a move.
Every time she left, they said she walked out frustrated.
I will not be fooled again.
One day, as I was telling her how long I have been single, a woman in her 50s walked up and handed me her business card. She said, “You’re single? I’m single too. We single people need to stick together. We’re in the same boat.”
I took her card and replied, “We are not in the same boat. We are in the same storm.”
Her card said she was a branch manager at a bank down the street. Over the next few days she came back to the bar with a laptop, pretending to work while sitting near me. The bartenders, knowing my vision is limited, kept watch. They told me she kept glancing at me, waiting for me to make a move.
Every time she left, they said she walked out frustrated.
I will not be fooled again.
TheXYGhost 357
Her : Why are you still single?
TheXYGhost : I can't find a woman that can buy the type of car I want.
TheXYGhost : I can't find a woman that can buy the type of car I want.
Tuesday, October 14, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 288
Her : I want to find a man on my level or higher.
TheXYGhost. : Every man is higher than your level.
TheXYGhost. : Every man is higher than your level.
TheXYGhost III 288
Her : I want to find a man on my level or higher.
TheXYGhost. : Every man is higher than your level.
TheXYGhost. : Every man is higher than your level.
Are Women Good at Multitasking?
Women love to claim they are great multitaskers, yet they put relationships on hold to chase degrees and careers. When they are finally ready for a family, they expect a man who can juggle keeping them happy, keeping his customers happy, and keeping his bosses happy, all at the same time, while they focus only on running the household.
If they are such great multitaskers, why can they not handle school, work, and spending time with a man who wants to build a family?
If they are such great multitaskers, why can they not handle school, work, and spending time with a man who wants to build a family?
Monday, October 13, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 287
It’s never about her lacking acceptance, forgiveness, gratitude, or appreciation. He is always expected to do more for her.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost III 287
It’s never about her lacking acceptance, forgiveness, gratitude, or appreciation. He is always expected to do more for her.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Breakups: Men Vs. Women
A man will end a relationship based on what a woman did.
A woman will end a relationship based on what a man did not do, specifically what she expected him to do despite all the hints she thinks she gave him. Afterward, she may still claim he wronged her.
A woman will end a relationship based on what a man did not do, specifically what she expected him to do despite all the hints she thinks she gave him. Afterward, she may still claim he wronged her.
TheXYGhost 355
Her : I left him because he always did what I told him.
TheXYGhost : Why did you ask for what you didn't want?
TheXYGhost : Why did you ask for what you didn't want?
Sunday, October 12, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 286
It’s never about her lacking acceptance, forgiveness, gratitude, or appreciation. He is always expected to do more for her.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost III 286
It’s never about her lacking acceptance, forgiveness, gratitude, or appreciation. He is always expected to do more for her.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
This May Be the Hardest Pill to Swallow
If you were raised by a single mother who filled your head with stories about how badly your father treated her, it may be time to reevaluate. She may have been attracted to that man, whether he was a substance abuser, violent, a con artist, a liar, a cheat, or a criminal. Or she may have exaggerated, lied, or provoked him until he snapped.
TheXYGhost 354
He never cheated on his wife for 40 years. He asked my advice and 10 years later, he slept with over 300 women.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Saturday, October 11, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 285
She will never approach a man, because she does not want to look desperate. But when a man approaches her, she feels he’s desperate.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost III 285
She will never approach a man, because she does not want to look desperate. But when a man approaches her, she feels he’s desperate.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Ask Her Qualifying Questions
Ask her about the man who loved her the most, and she will call him boring. She wanted entertainment, not stability.
Ask her about the man she loved the most, and she will say he was abusive and a cheater.
Make no mistake, women are often drawn to men who cheat or have the potential to cheat. If her man does not cheat, she may invent stories that he did. This victim narrative gains her sympathy and attracts other men who want to rescue her.
Ask her if she would have treated her first boyfriend better if she had known he would be the last man in her life. If she says yes, she admits she mistreated him.
Be cautious. Keep your distance or see her only as casual. She will likely never be satisfied.
Ask her about the man she loved the most, and she will say he was abusive and a cheater.
Make no mistake, women are often drawn to men who cheat or have the potential to cheat. If her man does not cheat, she may invent stories that he did. This victim narrative gains her sympathy and attracts other men who want to rescue her.
Ask her if she would have treated her first boyfriend better if she had known he would be the last man in her life. If she says yes, she admits she mistreated him.
Be cautious. Keep your distance or see her only as casual. She will likely never be satisfied.
TheXYGhost 353
Her : My son needs a father.
TheXYGhost : Don't look at me, you divorced his father, not me.
TheXYGhost : Don't look at me, you divorced his father, not me.
Friday, October 10, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 284
Her : Single women are happier than married women.
TheXYGhost : I pray you remain single for the rest of your life.
TheXYGhost : I pray you remain single for the rest of your life.
TheXYGhost III 284
Her : Single women are happier than married women.
TheXYGhost : I pray you remain single for the rest of your life.
TheXYGhost : I pray you remain single for the rest of your life.
Sperm Jacking Is Real
A hotel maid, while cleaning a suite, found a used condom in the trash. Knowing the occupant was wealthy, she took the contents and inserted them into herself. She became pregnant and sued the man for child support. With DNA results and her story, the courts ruled in her favor and awarded her a large sum.
Coaches warn new athletes to dispose of condoms immediately and properly after use.
What would happen if there were a law blocking any woman from collecting child support unless she was married to the father or if the DNA did not match?
And what should happen to the child and the wife if the child she gave birth to is not her husband’s?
Coaches warn new athletes to dispose of condoms immediately and properly after use.
What would happen if there were a law blocking any woman from collecting child support unless she was married to the father or if the DNA did not match?
And what should happen to the child and the wife if the child she gave birth to is not her husband’s?
Thursday, October 9, 2025
Have You Been Home Wrecked?
Home wrecking is when a woman deliberately sabotages a relationship for her own gain. She may call your girlfriend or wife and lie about your supposed infidelity. The sad truth is this tactic often works because many women will take another woman's word without investigation. They will react emotionally based on the shock of the accusation. Your partner may not even tell you about the anonymous call from this manipulative Jezebel.
Has your wife or girlfriend ever accused you of cheating out of nowhere?
Possible reasons for these sudden accusations:
1. She is angry at you for something you said or did at work or in your social circle.
2. She sees you as a great catch and wants you and your partner to break up so she can step in and console you.
3. Your girlfriend or wife angered her.
4. She is jealous and wants your relationship to fail because you have something she does not.
Has your wife or girlfriend ever accused you of cheating out of nowhere?
Possible reasons for these sudden accusations:
1. She is angry at you for something you said or did at work or in your social circle.
2. She sees you as a great catch and wants you and your partner to break up so she can step in and console you.
3. Your girlfriend or wife angered her.
4. She is jealous and wants your relationship to fail because you have something she does not.
Wednesday, October 8, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 282
She tested him by accusing him of flirting with another woman. She made such a scene, he never called her back.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost III 282
She tested him by accusing him of flirting with another woman. She made such a scene, he never called her back.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Summary of Today's Modern Woman
Today's woman wants a personal slave.
Provide me food.
Provide me shelter.
Provide me clothes.
Provide me protection.
Provide me attention.
Provide me compliments.
Provide me entertainment.
Provide me luxuries.
Provide me travel.
Provide me adventure.
Provide me drama.
Provide me jewelry.
Provide me happiness.
Provide me emotional care.
Make me feel special.
Make me feel comfortable.
Make me happy.
Commit to me on my terms, but I will never commit to you.
Love me and honor me, but I will never put in the effort to love you.
Love me.
Protect me.
Provide for me.
Praise me.
Fight for me even when I am wrong.
I will measure, question, and challenge your love for me, but you are never allowed to do the same.
Be taller than me.
Be stronger than me.
Be faster than me.
Be richer than me.
Be older than me.
Be nice when I demand it.
Never be too nice.
Be strong when I need strength.
Be sensitive when I want sensitivity.
Be my doctor.
Be my lawyer.
Be my therapist.
Pay my rent.
Pay my bills.
Pay me attention.
Pay me compliments.
And if you do all that, I owe you nothing. You cannot tell me anything.
Listen to my problems but do not solve them unless I present them in the way I want them solved.
Do not tell me your problems, I will see you as weak and lose respect for you.
I will use your words to shame and humiliate you in public.
Tiptoe around my insecurities from my past toxic men I chose over you.
If you have insecurities from your past, that is your fault. I will ignore them, mock them, and dismiss them.
I want a leader. Lead me only where I want to go. Lead me how I want to be led. Lead me when I want leadership. Never guide me where you want me to go. If you fail to lead me exactly as I demand, I will take control and leave you.
I will never forgive your mistakes, but you better forgive mine.
If I raise my status with degrees, income, or attention, you must raise yours too or I will leave.
I will only accept you if you are six feet tall or taller, if you make six figures or more, if you have six pack abs. You must accept me no matter how I look, how I act, or how much I make.
They say relationships are hard work, so you must work hard to understand me and make me happy.
I do not know what makes me happy, but you better find it.
I will not cook for you, provide me a chef and an assistant. I will not clean for you, provide me a maid.
If you give me more than any woman in history, it might still not be enough.
Work more.
Work better.
Work faster.
Work longer.
If you do everything I demand, you are weak.
If you do not, I do not want you.
If I lie, it is your fault for believing me.
If I swindle you, it is your fault for trusting me.
If I cheat, it is your fault for choosing me.
I will speak in hints and expect you to know exactly what I mean because communication is key.
I will never tell you what I want, but I will tell everyone you are not giving it to me.
I will find your weaknesses and exploit them. If you fall for my manipulation, you are too weak, so I will keep trying.
If I cheat, you must forgive me.
If I even imagine you cheated, I will destroy you, take everything, and keep your children from you.
Be better in bed than the hundred men before you.
Take care of me and my children from other men who failed me.
Give me everything I want because I am worth it.
I will insult, guilt, cry, manipulate, complain, and nag until you do what I want. I will never simply ask.
I am allowed to hit you, but if you touch me, I will have you arrested.
If you please me and my kids, I will still divorce you, take your home, your pension, your money, and more. You will pay child support for children I will withhold from you and alimony because I want it. This will prove I am independent and do not need a man.
I am the prize. Get on your knee and offer yourself to me. But others can still take me from you at any time.
I am not like other girls.
And remember, we are equal.
Provide me food.
Provide me shelter.
Provide me clothes.
Provide me protection.
Provide me attention.
Provide me compliments.
Provide me entertainment.
Provide me luxuries.
Provide me travel.
Provide me adventure.
Provide me drama.
Provide me jewelry.
Provide me happiness.
Provide me emotional care.
Make me feel special.
Make me feel comfortable.
Make me happy.
Commit to me on my terms, but I will never commit to you.
Love me and honor me, but I will never put in the effort to love you.
Love me.
Protect me.
Provide for me.
Praise me.
Fight for me even when I am wrong.
I will measure, question, and challenge your love for me, but you are never allowed to do the same.
Be taller than me.
Be stronger than me.
Be faster than me.
Be richer than me.
Be older than me.
Be nice when I demand it.
Never be too nice.
Be strong when I need strength.
Be sensitive when I want sensitivity.
Be my doctor.
Be my lawyer.
Be my therapist.
Pay my rent.
Pay my bills.
Pay me attention.
Pay me compliments.
And if you do all that, I owe you nothing. You cannot tell me anything.
Listen to my problems but do not solve them unless I present them in the way I want them solved.
Do not tell me your problems, I will see you as weak and lose respect for you.
I will use your words to shame and humiliate you in public.
Tiptoe around my insecurities from my past toxic men I chose over you.
If you have insecurities from your past, that is your fault. I will ignore them, mock them, and dismiss them.
I want a leader. Lead me only where I want to go. Lead me how I want to be led. Lead me when I want leadership. Never guide me where you want me to go. If you fail to lead me exactly as I demand, I will take control and leave you.
I will never forgive your mistakes, but you better forgive mine.
If I raise my status with degrees, income, or attention, you must raise yours too or I will leave.
I will only accept you if you are six feet tall or taller, if you make six figures or more, if you have six pack abs. You must accept me no matter how I look, how I act, or how much I make.
They say relationships are hard work, so you must work hard to understand me and make me happy.
I do not know what makes me happy, but you better find it.
I will not cook for you, provide me a chef and an assistant. I will not clean for you, provide me a maid.
If you give me more than any woman in history, it might still not be enough.
Work more.
Work better.
Work faster.
Work longer.
If you do everything I demand, you are weak.
If you do not, I do not want you.
If I lie, it is your fault for believing me.
If I swindle you, it is your fault for trusting me.
If I cheat, it is your fault for choosing me.
I will speak in hints and expect you to know exactly what I mean because communication is key.
I will never tell you what I want, but I will tell everyone you are not giving it to me.
I will find your weaknesses and exploit them. If you fall for my manipulation, you are too weak, so I will keep trying.
If I cheat, you must forgive me.
If I even imagine you cheated, I will destroy you, take everything, and keep your children from you.
Be better in bed than the hundred men before you.
Take care of me and my children from other men who failed me.
Give me everything I want because I am worth it.
I will insult, guilt, cry, manipulate, complain, and nag until you do what I want. I will never simply ask.
I am allowed to hit you, but if you touch me, I will have you arrested.
If you please me and my kids, I will still divorce you, take your home, your pension, your money, and more. You will pay child support for children I will withhold from you and alimony because I want it. This will prove I am independent and do not need a man.
I am the prize. Get on your knee and offer yourself to me. But others can still take me from you at any time.
I am not like other girls.
And remember, we are equal.
Tuesday, October 7, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 281
Her : What do you mean by coffee date?
TheXYGhost : Do I look like a simp? How confused are you?
TheXYGhost : Do I look like a simp? How confused are you?
TheXYGhost III 281
Her : What do you mean by coffee date?
TheXYGhost : Do I look like a simp? How confused are you?
TheXYGhost : Do I look like a simp? How confused are you?
On Her Level
Most modern women want a man on her self-defined level or higher. This level is vague, subjective, and changes from woman to woman, but it almost always comes down to his income, status, height, and looks.
For the sake of this point, say she rates herself as a level 5. She will demand a man who is a 6 or higher, factoring in whatever components she decides matter at the moment.
The very fact that she seeks a man on a higher level is a red flag, and here is why:
1. What happens if she raises herself to a 7 in her mind and decides he is still the same? In her eyes, he is falling behind.
2. What happens when time passes and she decides his level is now lower than hers?
3. What if his level rises to a 10 or 12 while she drops to a 3 or 4?
4. Do you think she will stay if she believes she is above him?
5. Do you think her self-assessment is inflated?
6. Do you think her assessment of your value is accurate?
Regardless of her perception, you will still be expected to pay all the bills, open her doors, and kiss her feet while she saves her money for herself. You will be her personal servant, expected to fight and die for her, while she sees it as beneath her to even get you a glass of water.
Women like this say things like, "He needs to keep up with me" and "I might give him a chance." Imagine a woman thinking she is offering you the privilege of becoming her servant.
The truth is she is not looking for a man to love, honor, or respect. She is looking for a man to raise her status and income while looking down on him as her provider and protector. A man should never provide for or protect someone who uses him. A man should provide for and protect only those who respect him.
For the sake of this point, say she rates herself as a level 5. She will demand a man who is a 6 or higher, factoring in whatever components she decides matter at the moment.
The very fact that she seeks a man on a higher level is a red flag, and here is why:
1. What happens if she raises herself to a 7 in her mind and decides he is still the same? In her eyes, he is falling behind.
2. What happens when time passes and she decides his level is now lower than hers?
3. What if his level rises to a 10 or 12 while she drops to a 3 or 4?
4. Do you think she will stay if she believes she is above him?
5. Do you think her self-assessment is inflated?
6. Do you think her assessment of your value is accurate?
Regardless of her perception, you will still be expected to pay all the bills, open her doors, and kiss her feet while she saves her money for herself. You will be her personal servant, expected to fight and die for her, while she sees it as beneath her to even get you a glass of water.
Women like this say things like, "He needs to keep up with me" and "I might give him a chance." Imagine a woman thinking she is offering you the privilege of becoming her servant.
The truth is she is not looking for a man to love, honor, or respect. She is looking for a man to raise her status and income while looking down on him as her provider and protector. A man should never provide for or protect someone who uses him. A man should provide for and protect only those who respect him.
Monday, October 6, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 280
She married a man after her boyfriend was sent to prisonn. Once he was paroled, she divorced her husband, and left her kids to be with her true love.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
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