There are not enough wealthy men in the world today for the multitude of women that feel they are deserving of one.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Tuesday, July 15, 2025
TheXYGhost II 197
She will tell you that her man is immature but it's not true. She treats him like a child.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Do Women Really Want Kings or Servants?
A subject proves his worthiness to royalty. Maybe I'm wrong but I'm not a servant that will invite a woman into my world the way she wants, how she wants when she wants and pay and provide for her every needs, wants and desires. Feminism made you females equal to men and its your turn to ask us out and entertain us properly or get turned down because you haven't proven yourselves worthy.
I have to ask you girls something; Do you want to walk around with a king or a servant? Its your choice. A servant serves and a king gets treated well. Its that simple.
Men can take rejection. Most men get rejected tens of thousands of times at work, in team sports, etc. We know its part of life. We know if we ask and get rejected, we are still OK with it. No is only a word to us. No real man preaches political correctness because we know that words can never harm us. It is the perception of women that men fear rejection because women fear rejection, this is why women throughout history almost never go after anything they really want. Men get the jobs they want because they go to 100's of interviews undaunted. You think a tiny "No" will shatter us? Its OK to think the way you want.
So what? We do not choose to communicate the way you want us to communicate. Tough. Again, men are not your servants.
If you want to dance, then dance and entertain us.
Compliments? Oh, OK, you look nice today. Well you had better put your best outfit together for us. If not, we don't connect. Maybe you need to re-think the jeans and business suits that looks so butch and un flattering. If men wanted to date a person in jeans, figure out the rest.
Men are not supposed to impress you or shower you with gifts at your doorstep. Get a servant for that. Men are taking charge but they are not taking charge the way you define it, by serving your needs, wants and desires.
I need to ask one final thing; how many years do you think you are entitled to full royal pampering? Because kids in their teens and 20's are dating. Why not you?
I have to ask you girls something; Do you want to walk around with a king or a servant? Its your choice. A servant serves and a king gets treated well. Its that simple.
Men can take rejection. Most men get rejected tens of thousands of times at work, in team sports, etc. We know its part of life. We know if we ask and get rejected, we are still OK with it. No is only a word to us. No real man preaches political correctness because we know that words can never harm us. It is the perception of women that men fear rejection because women fear rejection, this is why women throughout history almost never go after anything they really want. Men get the jobs they want because they go to 100's of interviews undaunted. You think a tiny "No" will shatter us? Its OK to think the way you want.
So what? We do not choose to communicate the way you want us to communicate. Tough. Again, men are not your servants.
If you want to dance, then dance and entertain us.
Compliments? Oh, OK, you look nice today. Well you had better put your best outfit together for us. If not, we don't connect. Maybe you need to re-think the jeans and business suits that looks so butch and un flattering. If men wanted to date a person in jeans, figure out the rest.
Men are not supposed to impress you or shower you with gifts at your doorstep. Get a servant for that. Men are taking charge but they are not taking charge the way you define it, by serving your needs, wants and desires.
I need to ask one final thing; how many years do you think you are entitled to full royal pampering? Because kids in their teens and 20's are dating. Why not you?
Monday, July 14, 2025
TheXYGhost III 196
A single mother has 3 undesirable traits ; Attracted to "Bad Boys". Seeks out flaws in others. Has no forgiveness.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost II 196
The very women that say, "I don't need no man" are the same women that will stick with a man they hate until they have a new man secured.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Trading Your Dysfunctional Family In for a New Dysfunctional One
I sit back and watch as my friends, neighbors and relatives get divorced because their wives think that happiness is provided to them from a provider. When these wives are unhappy, because they are not achieving anything, and blame the man for not handing them happiness on a silver platter, the remedy is divorce. That man watches helplessly as he pays through the nose for lawyers just to watch judges play GOD with his children's lives. Then helplessly he watches another man marrying his ex-wife and move in and is the dominant figure in his children's lives. Sadly, the only thing he does is marry another home wrecker that left her husband as he supports children that are not his as the real father of those children watches helplessly as he takes over another man's children.
I looked at my step father one day and told him, "you are not my father." As my mother insisted that he lay down the law on me. Coincidentally, his kids said the same thing to their surrogate father once he tried the same thing.
I vowed never to be a surrogate father nor let my children have one. The first part, I can control, the second is dependent of the prerogative of a woman, and that is to change her mind. ("But that is not all women" as all women say)
I looked at my step father one day and told him, "you are not my father." As my mother insisted that he lay down the law on me. Coincidentally, his kids said the same thing to their surrogate father once he tried the same thing.
I vowed never to be a surrogate father nor let my children have one. The first part, I can control, the second is dependent of the prerogative of a woman, and that is to change her mind. ("But that is not all women" as all women say)
TheXYGhost 265
Women don't want families anymore. They want multiple sources of child support payments as they collect welfare.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Sunday, July 13, 2025
TheXYGhost III 195
She will watch him abuse one woman after another while waiting to be the next one he treats differently, all while rejecting the "nice" guys.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Men Are Disposable to Women
Women hate men. They only like a man's wealth. They have sh!tted on men all their lives and now when they have 2 or 3 kids from 2 or 3 men, 3 or 4 abortions, a slew of STDs now they want a man for the only purpose of fixing their things because they are too cheap to pay a man to fix stuff. They are too stupid to fix things. Once the item is fixed, they will dismiss you.
I have been single now for 23 years after my wife left, cheated, stole and lied to me. The female collective responds to this as;
1 - You picked the wrong one 2 - You let her steal from you 3 - You hate women
And the all time fave rate;
Not all women are like that.
To which I answer;
Not all bees sting! Not all alligators eat people. Not all bears attack.
Women hate men, and when I have been pointing that out for 40 years, they call me a woman hater
I have been single now for 23 years after my wife left, cheated, stole and lied to me. The female collective responds to this as;
1 - You picked the wrong one 2 - You let her steal from you 3 - You hate women
And the all time fave rate;
Not all women are like that.
To which I answer;
Not all bees sting! Not all alligators eat people. Not all bears attack.
Women hate men, and when I have been pointing that out for 40 years, they call me a woman hater
TheXYGhost 264
Women are strong invincible, empowered and independent until they go to divorce court.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Saturday, July 12, 2025
A Poem From an Unknown Artist
I'm tired of hearing Some of these women From the beginning Feeling entitled to men who accomplished what they need.
Having a long list of standards They haven't met And some of them probably never meet
He has to make 6 figures Has to have excellent credit While you can't keep a job and your credit is shot
He has to have no kids While you have plenty He has to finish college While you have not
He has to have a nice car Because yours keeps breaking down He must stay loyal While you mess with your ex
He has to bring you the world And all things in it So you can toss it out And ask for snacks
Yet, but still things get real, You have flaws Let's not forget
He has to deal with your self proclaimed "craziness" And disrespectful mouth and still hand you all the respect
Then you brag about being spoiled And have a bad attitude And how he hasn't left yet
But I'm sorry baby girl In all actuality A woman of his equal He probably hasn't met
He has to work his full shifts Accept endless O, T, To pay all the bills And expensive trips
Just to come home To no home cooked meal Yet you provide excessive lip
He has to play daddy With no kids of his own Because your kids' dad wont claim them
And when he asks you something As small as some of his favorites You can't even name them
Out of all that he does for you Bending over backwards all the time All you really want to do is to shame him
And when things don't go right Inside of your life You just find a way to blame him
And now he is stuck Trying to figure out why he has to pay for what your ex did And when you start to realize he's not the same him
Well, that was your fault You stayed where you didn't belong Thinking you can change him
Now the man you prayed to GOD to send your way Because you knew you deserved better Got with you and realizes he does too And a woman of his equal He wants to go get her
Because you laugh at his dreams You think it is cute to be mean And play victim when he goes astray
But he has no use for verbal abuse And those egotistical games that you play
See, you have to stop thinking You're GOD's gift to man When all you bring to the table is sex
Men have endless battles daily to continue to come home to stress
And when he leaves You better believe All those credentials you wanted Are tagged only to his name
And now you are stuck Claiming you do not give a fuck When clearly you are accustom to lame
The term, "Nice guys finish last" I've heard in the past And unfortunately, it seems to be true
You may think you're bad But that's just a fad If nothing else comes with you
You see, being attractive on the surface Serves no purpose If there is no personality to match
And all the negativity that comes with you Just is not worth it for a good man in reality to be attached
You say hoes are winning But that's just the beginning Of the many excuses To make you feel like you are above
If you can't reciprocate what you think you deserve Then you are just not ready for love
People want what they can's have Reach but can't grab And if that is the case Put it back on the shelf
And those credentials you want your real man to have You need to start acquiring them yourself
You see, life don't goes as expected Which its smart to have a "Plan B" And C And D And E
Not another man But those plans that solely involve "Me"
So before you chant, "there are no good men" Make sure that men of that caliber are your equal
Or, you will be forever stuck Not knowing the end to your, "Men ain't shit" sequel
See, you want the ring, the life, the things, the love and title too But when it comes to kings They are only wifeing queens They feel their entitled too
Having a long list of standards They haven't met And some of them probably never meet
He has to make 6 figures Has to have excellent credit While you can't keep a job and your credit is shot
He has to have no kids While you have plenty He has to finish college While you have not
He has to have a nice car Because yours keeps breaking down He must stay loyal While you mess with your ex
He has to bring you the world And all things in it So you can toss it out And ask for snacks
Yet, but still things get real, You have flaws Let's not forget
He has to deal with your self proclaimed "craziness" And disrespectful mouth and still hand you all the respect
Then you brag about being spoiled And have a bad attitude And how he hasn't left yet
But I'm sorry baby girl In all actuality A woman of his equal He probably hasn't met
He has to work his full shifts Accept endless O, T, To pay all the bills And expensive trips
Just to come home To no home cooked meal Yet you provide excessive lip
He has to play daddy With no kids of his own Because your kids' dad wont claim them
And when he asks you something As small as some of his favorites You can't even name them
Out of all that he does for you Bending over backwards all the time All you really want to do is to shame him
And when things don't go right Inside of your life You just find a way to blame him
And now he is stuck Trying to figure out why he has to pay for what your ex did And when you start to realize he's not the same him
Well, that was your fault You stayed where you didn't belong Thinking you can change him
Now the man you prayed to GOD to send your way Because you knew you deserved better Got with you and realizes he does too And a woman of his equal He wants to go get her
Because you laugh at his dreams You think it is cute to be mean And play victim when he goes astray
But he has no use for verbal abuse And those egotistical games that you play
See, you have to stop thinking You're GOD's gift to man When all you bring to the table is sex
Men have endless battles daily to continue to come home to stress
And when he leaves You better believe All those credentials you wanted Are tagged only to his name
And now you are stuck Claiming you do not give a fuck When clearly you are accustom to lame
The term, "Nice guys finish last" I've heard in the past And unfortunately, it seems to be true
You may think you're bad But that's just a fad If nothing else comes with you
You see, being attractive on the surface Serves no purpose If there is no personality to match
And all the negativity that comes with you Just is not worth it for a good man in reality to be attached
You say hoes are winning But that's just the beginning Of the many excuses To make you feel like you are above
If you can't reciprocate what you think you deserve Then you are just not ready for love
People want what they can's have Reach but can't grab And if that is the case Put it back on the shelf
And those credentials you want your real man to have You need to start acquiring them yourself
You see, life don't goes as expected Which its smart to have a "Plan B" And C And D And E
Not another man But those plans that solely involve "Me"
So before you chant, "there are no good men" Make sure that men of that caliber are your equal
Or, you will be forever stuck Not knowing the end to your, "Men ain't shit" sequel
See, you want the ring, the life, the things, the love and title too But when it comes to kings They are only wifeing queens They feel their entitled too
TheXYGhost 263
Why do women get so enraged when a man professes his unwillingness to ever marry?
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Friday, July 11, 2025
TheXYGhost III 193
Some women never cheat. They initiate a temporary breakup, put the relationship on hold, or start a fight so that you break up with them. The breakup is to try out a new guy in their lineup. They want to make up when the new guy doesn't work out.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
In An Email Thread I Received:
Anna : Remember that the next time you try to minimize or belittle a woman.
TheXYGhost : Women belittle themselves. Nobody needs to belittle women. They have invented nothing throughout time. They have built nothing throughout all of history. They have done nothing to improve mankind. If you hate men so much, get your car fixed by a female mechanic, get your plumbing repaired by a female plumber. Get your roof repaired by a female roofer. Get a job as a sewer worker. Join the military and get your legs blown off for your fellow countrymen. Get a job as a trucker. Become a sanitation worker you nasty, stinking, smelly, angry, ugly, fat, old, feminist, witch, that wants a man so bad you can't even taste it. You Bitch, Cunt, Slut, Skank, Vixen, Trollop, Harlot, Wench, Tramp, Whore, Hag, Floozy, Jezebel, Hussy, Vamp, Hoe, Shrew, Bimbo, She-Devil, Hooker, Heifer, Dame, Broad, Tart, Sleaze, Fem Fetale, Streetwalker, Strumpet, Skirt, Concubine, Witch, Succubus, Squeeze, Diva, THOT, Feminoid, Shetard, Sow
TheXYGhost : Women belittle themselves. Nobody needs to belittle women. They have invented nothing throughout time. They have built nothing throughout all of history. They have done nothing to improve mankind. If you hate men so much, get your car fixed by a female mechanic, get your plumbing repaired by a female plumber. Get your roof repaired by a female roofer. Get a job as a sewer worker. Join the military and get your legs blown off for your fellow countrymen. Get a job as a trucker. Become a sanitation worker you nasty, stinking, smelly, angry, ugly, fat, old, feminist, witch, that wants a man so bad you can't even taste it. You Bitch, Cunt, Slut, Skank, Vixen, Trollop, Harlot, Wench, Tramp, Whore, Hag, Floozy, Jezebel, Hussy, Vamp, Hoe, Shrew, Bimbo, She-Devil, Hooker, Heifer, Dame, Broad, Tart, Sleaze, Fem Fetale, Streetwalker, Strumpet, Skirt, Concubine, Witch, Succubus, Squeeze, Diva, THOT, Feminoid, Shetard, Sow
Thursday, July 10, 2025
Women are Like Children
Women, just like children, need constant and never-ending attention when, where and how they want. When a child does not get what they want, a tantrum ensues, and the fully grown woman will throw her tantrum too. You can discipline a child with some harsh words and a punishment. But the adult female is more immune to those tactics and well above the law to hit you. She knows damn well you won't hit her and is proud of that. She will never learn right from wrong when she can manipulate and command a group of nearby servant males to come to her aid anytime, she wants, whether she is right or wrong. Police, judges and bystanders will come to her aid in no time at all. She feels vindicated because people running to her aid are proof that she is in the right.
A child needs toys and will not care where the money comes from as long as they get the toy that they will end up discarding in only a few days. The woman wants more expensive toys and will never work to get them. Her provider needs to get that.
The wedding day gives her all the attention they want on the silver platter they've desired. She is the center of attention. All eyes on her. Now, once you marry her, you need to, single handedly give her all the attention of the many that gave her before you got married.
But you can't stop there. If you do not give her all she desires, she has another attention grabber up her sleeve.
Divorce gives a woman everything she missed out on that day you married and much more. She gets to be viewed as a victim of a very bad man. She is sure that man is bad because she sees every single imperfection in him, but she will never see the imperfections in herself. She gets police, judges and lawyers to defeat the bad man. She gets to temporarily feel that she is in control and empowered to get others to serve her to destroy that bad man. She uses kids to get to see that man come back and beg for her, but he is only there to see his children. She has manipulated so many for so long that she manipulated herself to think that the man still wants her. She gets weekly payments for being married and to support his kids. But that money is going straight to her. His children are an ancillary thought in her mind.
A child needs toys and will not care where the money comes from as long as they get the toy that they will end up discarding in only a few days. The woman wants more expensive toys and will never work to get them. Her provider needs to get that.
The wedding day gives her all the attention they want on the silver platter they've desired. She is the center of attention. All eyes on her. Now, once you marry her, you need to, single handedly give her all the attention of the many that gave her before you got married.
But you can't stop there. If you do not give her all she desires, she has another attention grabber up her sleeve.
Divorce gives a woman everything she missed out on that day you married and much more. She gets to be viewed as a victim of a very bad man. She is sure that man is bad because she sees every single imperfection in him, but she will never see the imperfections in herself. She gets police, judges and lawyers to defeat the bad man. She gets to temporarily feel that she is in control and empowered to get others to serve her to destroy that bad man. She uses kids to get to see that man come back and beg for her, but he is only there to see his children. She has manipulated so many for so long that she manipulated herself to think that the man still wants her. She gets weekly payments for being married and to support his kids. But that money is going straight to her. His children are an ancillary thought in her mind.
TheXYGhost 261
She wants you to be her child's new father while another man is tucking in your kids at night.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Wednesday, July 9, 2025
TheXYGhost III 191
Her : Some women don't say what they mean.
TheXYGhost : Not all women are like that. A real woman says what she means.
TheXYGhost : Not all women are like that. A real woman says what she means.
TheXYGhost II 191
Her : What kind of woman do you want?
TheXYGhost : She needs to be under 5' 10", under 32, an Emmy or an Academy award winner, someone that likes giving daily massages, looks great with makeup, and not an Aquarius.
TheXYGhost : She needs to be under 5' 10", under 32, an Emmy or an Academy award winner, someone that likes giving daily massages, looks great with makeup, and not an Aquarius.
Parasitic Relationship
Women could be as good as men or even better if they resort to finding a host they can call a "provider" and latch firmly on. They will feed off this host like a parasite while warding off any and all other potential feeders. When the man is drained of all his strength and emotion, she will walk away blaming and faulting him for allowing "letting" her to do such damage. He is deemed weak as she walks away, but not before she finds and secures yet another host to leach off like a tic. Once she is gone, vultures come and take the scraps. They act as of they care and pretend to nurture while their eyes are searching for more of your carcass to devour. When they are finished with you, you are poor, destitute and struggling to even breathe as you try to figure out what had happened.
Tuesday, July 8, 2025
TheXYGhost III 190
Never pursue a woman; that's a game for children. A real woman doesn't play games.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Understanding The Dysfunctional Pseudo-Logic of Women
One day after work, I met up with a friend, his girlfriend and a few co-workers at a lounge. His girlfriend started to "educate" the men on the thought processes of women.
She started out by saying, "You men do not understand us women. You guys need to know that when a woman says 'No' it can mean, 'No' but it can also mean, 'Try harder'."
The men were a bit perplexed at this statement and started to ask her questions. They were eager to find out more but they, knowing who I was, kept an eye on me because they knew I would chime in on this subject.
I kept quiet until the questions died down. After all the questions were asked, I reached in my pocket and pulled out 5 - $100 bills and handed to her.
Not knowing what to say she looked at the others, looking for cues on how to react. She then asked, "What is that for?"
"Its for you. Take it.", I said.
She, sheepishly reached out and started to take the money. When she was about to touch it, I pulled back and said, "Why did you not tell me 'No', even if you meant 'No' or 'Try harder'?"
She almost stuttered when she said, "Well, there is no need for me to tell you 'No' or 'Try harder' that money has value."
"Exactly right", I said.
I told her that if I asked a girl on a date and if she said "No" and meant "No" then I will respect her wishes. I also told her that if I asked a girl on a date and she said "No" that was meant for me to try harder, then she has no respect for me and sees no value in my offer. I asked the group if they would ever order someone offering a gift to them to "Try harder. The group shook their heads in unison.
This is a key factor in understanding female dysfunctional pseudo-logic.
Another example of this disfunction is when I was in Miami and we were out in a nightclub with the boys. There was a younger guy in our troop that was an amazing dancer. He asked one girl to dance and he was turned down. With his tail between his legs he came over to me and told me that he wanted to dance but he got turned down. I looked towards the bar and saw 6 girls in a row nursing their drinks watching the dance floor. I told him to ask those girls to dance.
Puzzled, he asked, "What if they turn me down?"
I looked at him and said, "If one turns you down, ask the other."
I told him to keep asking until one says "Yes".
He then walked over to the first girl and asked her to dance. When she said, "No" he went to the next. By the third girl, he had a partner. The third girl got the hint that this guy would not ask a second time and she would miss an opportunity if she did not accept. They danced fantastic together. In fact, all the other girls that turned him down were upset and even jealous that he was getting compliments on the dance floor.
The most interesting part of this story is that, after a while, the first of the 6 girls that he asked came up to me and said, "Your friend is stupid"
I answered her with a short, "I know", because that would make it harder for her to say anything else. She wanted a lead-in like, "Why?" To make it easier to reply.
Frustrated, (Ha ha) she blurted out, "He only asked me once. I would have danced with him if he asked again."
I finished the conversation with, "I'll let him know he is stupid when he gets back."
This girl said, "No" but wanted him to try harder. She put the barrier in front of him to see how much this man desired her when he breaks that barrier. She wanted to be desired so much that he would break the block she put in his way.
Do you get it? Good!
I showed some examples how women place roadblocks (to herself) in front of a man to see if the man desires her so much that he would break the block she put in his way. She will use the word "No" to block you when she really means, "Try harder". This is not to say that all "No's" mean to "Try harder", some "No's" do actually mean "No" at her discretion which makes this situation pretty precarious to say the least.
Once you have identified this problem, you have a decision to make. You can nip it in the bud before blossoms. No matter what you do it will be there, but managing someone's innate subconscious impulses can be trying on ones patience. Either that or you can leave. No matter what you decide to do, identifying the problem is key and not knowing the problem can be costly.
As a teen you may have had a girl abruptly stop a make out session or interrupt the flow of a sexual encounter with the dreaded words, "Where is this relationship going?" No matter how you answer it at the time, she will become more and more frustrated because the roadblock she put between you prevented you from going after her. She asks what she doesn't want and gets mad when you comply.
In another story I wrote, (tinyurl.com/jma3egn) a girlfriend of mine was on the phone from the minute I arrived at her place, through dinner until after I went to bed. When I was asleep, thats when she attacked. From her perception, she was mad that her deliberate block from me to her (never ending phone conversations) was successful in stopping me to get to her.
When you ask a girl for her number or her name, (don't do that that is the wrong approach) her immediate response will almost always be, "Why?" In this case, questioning your request is the block. She is putting a rule in front of you that she wants you to break. This is how she unconsciously responds to block your approach.
A better approach to get her phone number is to offer her your smartphone, already in dial mode and tell her to dial her number. She may perceive asking as begging and a direct order as evidence of confidence. She may still say "No" or ask "Why" but if you insist without showing any anger or frustration, she may give in. Bear in mind that she may say "No" and mean it. Make sure when you do this, you have a good phone case, she may even drop your phone.
I know many of you have heard the phrase, "I want a man that knows what he wants." To you or me that statement sounds stupid. Any 6 year old knows what they want. They want a pony and live in a castle. What women should say is, "I want a man that knows what he wants from me no matter how much I try to stop him." To her, a man who knows what he wants despite the roadblocks she puts up in front of him and taking her, is "putting her in her place." Which is another phrase a girl might say. Can you see where this is going?
In all these cases a woman is using a lie or a manipulation, to get you to do what she expects of you, to correct her to for your purposes to her liking. She uses a lie to get you to show how much you desire her, whenever she sees fit that will meet her approval. This video (goo.gl/ERF5c2) is a girl explaining it as best a girl can.
So if you are about to go out on with a girl and she gives you a hard time at the last minute, thats a block. The thing you can do is keep in focus and be firm about going out while ignoring her complaints, without being angry or frustrated. You can not cater and nurture this behavior or it will get worse. Do not give in to her lies and manipulation.
There is a whole lot more of this in Part 3 that will explain;
why women leave men why the like criminals why they take kids away from men and say that the father didn't love their own child
She started out by saying, "You men do not understand us women. You guys need to know that when a woman says 'No' it can mean, 'No' but it can also mean, 'Try harder'."
The men were a bit perplexed at this statement and started to ask her questions. They were eager to find out more but they, knowing who I was, kept an eye on me because they knew I would chime in on this subject.
I kept quiet until the questions died down. After all the questions were asked, I reached in my pocket and pulled out 5 - $100 bills and handed to her.
Not knowing what to say she looked at the others, looking for cues on how to react. She then asked, "What is that for?"
"Its for you. Take it.", I said.
She, sheepishly reached out and started to take the money. When she was about to touch it, I pulled back and said, "Why did you not tell me 'No', even if you meant 'No' or 'Try harder'?"
She almost stuttered when she said, "Well, there is no need for me to tell you 'No' or 'Try harder' that money has value."
"Exactly right", I said.
I told her that if I asked a girl on a date and if she said "No" and meant "No" then I will respect her wishes. I also told her that if I asked a girl on a date and she said "No" that was meant for me to try harder, then she has no respect for me and sees no value in my offer. I asked the group if they would ever order someone offering a gift to them to "Try harder. The group shook their heads in unison.
This is a key factor in understanding female dysfunctional pseudo-logic.
Another example of this disfunction is when I was in Miami and we were out in a nightclub with the boys. There was a younger guy in our troop that was an amazing dancer. He asked one girl to dance and he was turned down. With his tail between his legs he came over to me and told me that he wanted to dance but he got turned down. I looked towards the bar and saw 6 girls in a row nursing their drinks watching the dance floor. I told him to ask those girls to dance.
Puzzled, he asked, "What if they turn me down?"
I looked at him and said, "If one turns you down, ask the other."
I told him to keep asking until one says "Yes".
He then walked over to the first girl and asked her to dance. When she said, "No" he went to the next. By the third girl, he had a partner. The third girl got the hint that this guy would not ask a second time and she would miss an opportunity if she did not accept. They danced fantastic together. In fact, all the other girls that turned him down were upset and even jealous that he was getting compliments on the dance floor.
The most interesting part of this story is that, after a while, the first of the 6 girls that he asked came up to me and said, "Your friend is stupid"
I answered her with a short, "I know", because that would make it harder for her to say anything else. She wanted a lead-in like, "Why?" To make it easier to reply.
Frustrated, (Ha ha) she blurted out, "He only asked me once. I would have danced with him if he asked again."
I finished the conversation with, "I'll let him know he is stupid when he gets back."
This girl said, "No" but wanted him to try harder. She put the barrier in front of him to see how much this man desired her when he breaks that barrier. She wanted to be desired so much that he would break the block she put in his way.
Do you get it? Good!
I showed some examples how women place roadblocks (to herself) in front of a man to see if the man desires her so much that he would break the block she put in his way. She will use the word "No" to block you when she really means, "Try harder". This is not to say that all "No's" mean to "Try harder", some "No's" do actually mean "No" at her discretion which makes this situation pretty precarious to say the least.
Once you have identified this problem, you have a decision to make. You can nip it in the bud before blossoms. No matter what you do it will be there, but managing someone's innate subconscious impulses can be trying on ones patience. Either that or you can leave. No matter what you decide to do, identifying the problem is key and not knowing the problem can be costly.
As a teen you may have had a girl abruptly stop a make out session or interrupt the flow of a sexual encounter with the dreaded words, "Where is this relationship going?" No matter how you answer it at the time, she will become more and more frustrated because the roadblock she put between you prevented you from going after her. She asks what she doesn't want and gets mad when you comply.
In another story I wrote, (tinyurl.com/jma3egn) a girlfriend of mine was on the phone from the minute I arrived at her place, through dinner until after I went to bed. When I was asleep, thats when she attacked. From her perception, she was mad that her deliberate block from me to her (never ending phone conversations) was successful in stopping me to get to her.
When you ask a girl for her number or her name, (don't do that that is the wrong approach) her immediate response will almost always be, "Why?" In this case, questioning your request is the block. She is putting a rule in front of you that she wants you to break. This is how she unconsciously responds to block your approach.
A better approach to get her phone number is to offer her your smartphone, already in dial mode and tell her to dial her number. She may perceive asking as begging and a direct order as evidence of confidence. She may still say "No" or ask "Why" but if you insist without showing any anger or frustration, she may give in. Bear in mind that she may say "No" and mean it. Make sure when you do this, you have a good phone case, she may even drop your phone.
I know many of you have heard the phrase, "I want a man that knows what he wants." To you or me that statement sounds stupid. Any 6 year old knows what they want. They want a pony and live in a castle. What women should say is, "I want a man that knows what he wants from me no matter how much I try to stop him." To her, a man who knows what he wants despite the roadblocks she puts up in front of him and taking her, is "putting her in her place." Which is another phrase a girl might say. Can you see where this is going?
In all these cases a woman is using a lie or a manipulation, to get you to do what she expects of you, to correct her to for your purposes to her liking. She uses a lie to get you to show how much you desire her, whenever she sees fit that will meet her approval. This video (goo.gl/ERF5c2) is a girl explaining it as best a girl can.
So if you are about to go out on with a girl and she gives you a hard time at the last minute, thats a block. The thing you can do is keep in focus and be firm about going out while ignoring her complaints, without being angry or frustrated. You can not cater and nurture this behavior or it will get worse. Do not give in to her lies and manipulation.
There is a whole lot more of this in Part 3 that will explain;
why women leave men why the like criminals why they take kids away from men and say that the father didn't love their own child
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Her : I want a Man that knows what he wants.
TheXYGhost : Most men and children know what they want.
TheXYGhost : Most men and children know what they want.
Monday, July 7, 2025
TheXYGhost III 189
When she tells you that you could have said it in a better way, she means she can't argue with the facts but doesn't like the truth.
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If you take her out on a date and she orders multiple entrees, cancel the date, tip the waiter $20 and leave.
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So, You Say Masculinity Is Toxic
43% of boys are raised by single moms.
78% of teachers are female.
50% of boys have 100%female influence and 80% female influence at school.
Toxic Masculinity is not the problem.
The lack of masculinity is.
78% of teachers are female.
50% of boys have 100%female influence and 80% female influence at school.
Toxic Masculinity is not the problem.
The lack of masculinity is.
Sunday, July 6, 2025
TheXYGhost III 188
She will endlessly try to control and dominate you. Once she's successful, she will blame you and deem you worthless.
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If you have exclusive access to her body, don't give her exclusive access to your resources.
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She Decides Who Fathers Her Child
Women, and women only decide with which man they will procreate. They hold all the cards.
If she is with a man she deems undesirable (married or not) she may be on some sort of birth control while telling that man she can't have children. She may go as far as checking into a fertility clinic and even blame it on him. After all, its never her fault and the man to her is a place holder until the one she selects comes along to rescue her from that man.
If a woman agrees with her partner to wait a while to have children, she may skip out on taking birth control and get pregnant on her terms and not what was agreed upon. She has control again.
If you use a condom and do not flush the evidence immediately, she may insert the condom's contents when you are not looking.
If she gets pregnant, she may have an abortion without that man's knowledge or permission.
She needs no permission from her husband to abort their child, get her tubes tied or put their child up for adoption while the man needs consent from the wife to have a vasectomy.
Another option she may look at is running off, hiding and never looking back or tell the man about her pregnancy.
If she is with a man she deems undesirable (married or not) she may be on some sort of birth control while telling that man she can't have children. She may go as far as checking into a fertility clinic and even blame it on him. After all, its never her fault and the man to her is a place holder until the one she selects comes along to rescue her from that man.
If a woman agrees with her partner to wait a while to have children, she may skip out on taking birth control and get pregnant on her terms and not what was agreed upon. She has control again.
If you use a condom and do not flush the evidence immediately, she may insert the condom's contents when you are not looking.
If she gets pregnant, she may have an abortion without that man's knowledge or permission.
She needs no permission from her husband to abort their child, get her tubes tied or put their child up for adoption while the man needs consent from the wife to have a vasectomy.
Another option she may look at is running off, hiding and never looking back or tell the man about her pregnancy.
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If she comes back after a breakup, her backup guy (Plan B) dumped her too.
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Saturday, July 5, 2025
TheXYGhost III 187
With over 25,000 televised DNA tests performed, 88% of them end in, "You are not the father."
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Once she gives birth to two kids, she starts resenting the father and refuses him sex.
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How One Sided The Office Can Be
I was working in this large government agency in NYC in the computer lab with a female coworker. She was OK, maybe because I kept my distance from her.
We needed an assistant and hired a man that was just let go from Montclair State University. You see his previous manageress and part time tyrant called him useless every chance she had. I remember the first day he showed up for work in his tie and white shirt, I told him to dress down. The computer lab was in a remote building far away from anyone ever seeing us. The next day he showed up in khakis and a dress shirt. I insisted that he dress down further. After all I was in jeans and a teeshirt every day. By his third day he was wearing jeans.
I quickly knew that this job was way below his capabilities and told him so before the end of his first week. The look of shock on his face was a combination of "Is he going to fire me because I'm over qualified?" and "I never thought I was so valuable."
Needless to say we bonded instantly. He introduced me to an "Open Source" programming language and we would talk about relationships and our respective single moms. It was amazing how his psycho mom was so much like mine in many ways.
As luck would have it, a few short months later, my manager was fired by the project leader and upper management was upset that the project leader didn't hire a replacement before firing my manager. With a little quick thinking, the project manager said he did hire someone for my manager's job. Now my assistant became my manager.
I was OK with his new position, he had to dress the part and deal with the real idiots, the executives. He immediately apologized for his quick promotion and I laughed, congratulating him for doing a job I would have refused. Over the years we had a very great friend manager relationship. He politely did his job and I respected his position all while being friends.
Years went by and the project ended. I went my way and he went his. He ended up working for this technology firm starting salary $240,000 a year plus bonus and stock options. This was a far cry from useless his previous manager would have him believe.
The funny part of the story is that his previous manager in MSU got fired herself and moved back to Ohio where she is the assistant manager of a local supermarket.
We needed an assistant and hired a man that was just let go from Montclair State University. You see his previous manageress and part time tyrant called him useless every chance she had. I remember the first day he showed up for work in his tie and white shirt, I told him to dress down. The computer lab was in a remote building far away from anyone ever seeing us. The next day he showed up in khakis and a dress shirt. I insisted that he dress down further. After all I was in jeans and a teeshirt every day. By his third day he was wearing jeans.
I quickly knew that this job was way below his capabilities and told him so before the end of his first week. The look of shock on his face was a combination of "Is he going to fire me because I'm over qualified?" and "I never thought I was so valuable."
Needless to say we bonded instantly. He introduced me to an "Open Source" programming language and we would talk about relationships and our respective single moms. It was amazing how his psycho mom was so much like mine in many ways.
As luck would have it, a few short months later, my manager was fired by the project leader and upper management was upset that the project leader didn't hire a replacement before firing my manager. With a little quick thinking, the project manager said he did hire someone for my manager's job. Now my assistant became my manager.
I was OK with his new position, he had to dress the part and deal with the real idiots, the executives. He immediately apologized for his quick promotion and I laughed, congratulating him for doing a job I would have refused. Over the years we had a very great friend manager relationship. He politely did his job and I respected his position all while being friends.
Years went by and the project ended. I went my way and he went his. He ended up working for this technology firm starting salary $240,000 a year plus bonus and stock options. This was a far cry from useless his previous manager would have him believe.
The funny part of the story is that his previous manager in MSU got fired herself and moved back to Ohio where she is the assistant manager of a local supermarket.
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Her : You are the worst lover I have ever had!
TheXYGhost : You mean that your best lover left you too?
TheXYGhost : You mean that your best lover left you too?
Friday, July 4, 2025
TheXYGhost III 186
Most men would rather marry a respectful 5 over a disrespectful 7, 8, 9 or 10
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TheXYGhost II 186
English may not be her first language but bet your bottom dollar that she will speak words you wouldn't expect to know in court.
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He Believed His Female Manager and He Thought He Was Worthless
I was working in this large government agency in NYC in the computer lab with a female coworker. She was OK, maybe because I kept my distance from her.
We needed an assistant and hired a man that was just let go from Montclair State University. You see his previous manageress and part time tyrant called him useless every chance she had. I remember the first day he showed up for work in his tie and white shirt, I told him to dress down. The computer lab was in a remote building far away from anyone ever seeing us. The next day he showed up in khakis and a dress shirt. I insisted that he dress down further. After all I was in jeans and a teeshirt every day. By his third day he was wearing jeans.
I quickly knew that this job was way below his capabilities and told him so before the end of his first week. The look of shock on his face was a combination of "Is he going to fire me because I'm over qualified?" and "I never thought I was so valuable."
Needless to say we bonded instantly. He introduced me to an "Open Source" programming language and we would talk about relationships and our respective single moms. It was amazing how his psycho mom was so much like mine in many ways.
As luck would have it, a few short months later, my manager was fired by the project leader and upper management was upset that the project leader didn't hire a replacement before firing my manager. With a little quick thinking, the project manager said he did hire someone for my manager's job. Now my assistant became my manager.
I was OK with his new position, he had to dress the part and deal with the real idiots, the executives. He immediately apologized for his quick promotion and I laughed, congratulating him for doing a job I would have refused. Over the years we had a very great friend manager relationship. He politely did his job and I respected his position all while being friends.
Years went by and the project ended. I went my way and he went his. He ended up working for this technology firm starting salary $240,000 a year plus bonus and stock options. This was a far cry from useless his previous manager would have him believe.
The funny part of the story is that his previous manager in MSU got fired herself and moved back to Ohio where she is the assistant manager of a local supermarket.
We needed an assistant and hired a man that was just let go from Montclair State University. You see his previous manageress and part time tyrant called him useless every chance she had. I remember the first day he showed up for work in his tie and white shirt, I told him to dress down. The computer lab was in a remote building far away from anyone ever seeing us. The next day he showed up in khakis and a dress shirt. I insisted that he dress down further. After all I was in jeans and a teeshirt every day. By his third day he was wearing jeans.
I quickly knew that this job was way below his capabilities and told him so before the end of his first week. The look of shock on his face was a combination of "Is he going to fire me because I'm over qualified?" and "I never thought I was so valuable."
Needless to say we bonded instantly. He introduced me to an "Open Source" programming language and we would talk about relationships and our respective single moms. It was amazing how his psycho mom was so much like mine in many ways.
As luck would have it, a few short months later, my manager was fired by the project leader and upper management was upset that the project leader didn't hire a replacement before firing my manager. With a little quick thinking, the project manager said he did hire someone for my manager's job. Now my assistant became my manager.
I was OK with his new position, he had to dress the part and deal with the real idiots, the executives. He immediately apologized for his quick promotion and I laughed, congratulating him for doing a job I would have refused. Over the years we had a very great friend manager relationship. He politely did his job and I respected his position all while being friends.
Years went by and the project ended. I went my way and he went his. He ended up working for this technology firm starting salary $240,000 a year plus bonus and stock options. This was a far cry from useless his previous manager would have him believe.
The funny part of the story is that his previous manager in MSU got fired herself and moved back to Ohio where she is the assistant manager of a local supermarket.
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Women will sabotage your success out of fear you will be more attractive to prettier girls.
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Thursday, July 3, 2025
TheXYGhost III 185
She craves attention and validation over respect and authenticity, feels entitled to what men around her possess, takes everything for granted without appreciation, constantly wants more, and holds unrealistically high expectations without offering anything in return.
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Beware the woman that says, "I deserve" or "I'm entitled" Nobody deserves or is entitled to anything from anyone.
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With Regards to Bill Cosby
With regards to Bill Cosby's situation, I need to say that I have not followed this trial at all for two reasons;
1 - Bill Cosby has been around for many many years without incident.
2 - I know how women lie and manipulate to get others to overpower someone they don't like. In other words all the false rape allegations I have seen in my life leads me to believe that others have done this as well.
The boy who cried, "wolf" became the women who cry, "rape".
1 - Bill Cosby has been around for many many years without incident.
2 - I know how women lie and manipulate to get others to overpower someone they don't like. In other words all the false rape allegations I have seen in my life leads me to believe that others have done this as well.
The boy who cried, "wolf" became the women who cry, "rape".
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Her : You are the worst lover I've ever had.
TheXYGhost : Am I the worst of 100 or more?
TheXYGhost : Am I the worst of 100 or more?
Wednesday, July 2, 2025
TheXYGhost III 184
There are men who actually believe that if they take on the role of a provider, the woman they're providing for will never look for a better provider while they're out working.
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She has 3 kids from three men and she is angry because one father gave his kid a Christmas present and not the others.
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The Irony
Find an animal on the side of the road. Pick it up, clean it, and feed it. In return, it will be your best friend for life, always loyal and by your side. Its gratitude will be simple yet unwavering.
Help a man when he is down. Feed him, offer him shelter, and share your space with him. He will remember your kindness and be there for you whenever you need him. A bond forged through compassion will endure.
But find a girl who is insecure, scared, and broken. Lift her up, show her she is valuable, and help her see her true beauty. Yet, in the end, she may call you foolish for trusting her and laugh as she walks away.
Help a man when he is down. Feed him, offer him shelter, and share your space with him. He will remember your kindness and be there for you whenever you need him. A bond forged through compassion will endure.
But find a girl who is insecure, scared, and broken. Lift her up, show her she is valuable, and help her see her true beauty. Yet, in the end, she may call you foolish for trusting her and laugh as she walks away.
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How many times were you threatened with false rape or false Domestic Violence?
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Tuesday, July 1, 2025
TheXYGhost III 183
She found religion and divorced her husband, left her kids behind and had an affair with the preacher.
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TheXYGhost II 183
Give all you can to her and she'll call it "The Bare Minimum" even though she's never received any better.
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Subtle Signs That She Blames Others
OK, we all know that there are many women out there that blame others of everything that goes wrong in their lives, and here is how you spot them. Just have a conversation with them and you will hear it.
Most men will say, "That comedian is funny" (an opinion based on his evaluation) or "I laughed my ass off" (a point of fact). Most women that you want to stay away from will take an accusatory stance, "He made me laugh". Although innocuous, she is accusing the comedian of making her laugh.
The difference is subtle, yet it is still there. "I was angry at him" versus "He made me angry"
Most men will say, "That comedian is funny" (an opinion based on his evaluation) or "I laughed my ass off" (a point of fact). Most women that you want to stay away from will take an accusatory stance, "He made me laugh". Although innocuous, she is accusing the comedian of making her laugh.
The difference is subtle, yet it is still there. "I was angry at him" versus "He made me angry"
Monday, June 30, 2025
Women Are Extremely Dependent on Men to Make Them Happy
I just read the introduction of a book called "Women's Infidelity" written by a woman, Michelle Langley. In her introduction she alludes that women are not happy and they look for external sources of happiness from their partners. When they don't find it in them, they look for another man to provide that happiness.
What are your thoughts?
What are your thoughts?
Sunday, June 29, 2025
TheXYGhost III 181
The solution to all her marital troubles, whether real or imagined, is to break up her family and bring another man into the children's lives.
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