TheXYGhost 008

Her: You don’t love me.
TheXYGhost : You need to find someone that does.

"No" Means "No", or Does It?

"Yes" means "Yes" (At this moment)

"Yes" means "No" (If I'm not in the mood)

"No" means "No" (Unless it means, ‘Try harder'"

"No" means "Yes" (Until I change my mind)

"Maybe" means "Yes" (To keep my options open)

"Maybe" means "No" (When I'm unsure)

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Her: You don’t love me.
TheXYGhost : Why? What have you done wrong?

"All Men are Bad, And You Are Too", The Female Collective.

When I told the women in my life what my ex-wife did to me they would all turn around sooner or later to blame me and later spread rumors that I hated all women. It never ceased to amaze me. Why would every girl I talk to about my ex-wife immediately blame me then spread rumors that I hated all women when I talked about the actions of only one. This made no sense. I became more and more amazed at this phenomena as time passed.

It got to the point where I would tell women the events of my divorce just to see them blame me for her bad behavior and tell me that I'm a woman hater.

They blamed me for choosing such a woman, and faulted me for "allowing" or "letting" her steal my money and cheat on me. Just imagine that your house was robbed and I blamed you for allowing and letting burglars rob you.

These same women would march on Washington DC if you were to say that even one woman was raped because she allowed it to happen.

I got tired of telling women what my ex did and started to lie about why I was no longer married. I told women that my ex-wife died. I thought there would be no questions after that. A simple, "I'm sorry for your loss", and maybe a question or 2 on what happened.

No way! I would get evil looks at some women telling me that I killed my ex-wife. Some would state their condolences and later on tell people that they knew that I killed my ex-wife. There was no escaping their accusations no matter what my story was.

At this time I called this phenomenon "The Female Collective" after The Borg Collective (an alien life form from the TV series Star Trek). It was like all the women I talked to saw all women, including themselves as faultless and were ready at a moment, without any investigation blame the man and exonerate any woman from any wrong doing.

Any time they would hear a news story on how a woman killed a man, they would immediately fault the man the woman killed.

I see this line of thinking in politics. If you do not like the actions of Barack Hussein Obama, then you hate all black people. When President Donald J. Trump wants to build a wall on the Mexican border and temporarily bans the immigration from 7 countries then he becomes the hater of all Mexicans, Muslims and immigrants. When Trump lashes out on one woman (Rosie O'Donnell) they say that he hates all women.

What do we call this irrational action?

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Her: You haven’t taken me out in months.
TheXYGhost : You haven’t taken me out, ever!

Why Women "Say" they are leaving you.

Here are some of the idiotic reasons that girls gave, for breaking up.

1) You didn't love me enough 2) You never gave me enough attention 3) We are just not compatable. 4) You didn't control me enough 5) You always want things done your way 6) You never think about me 7) You love your job/car more than me 8) We've grown apart 9) You are abusive 10) You're too nice 11) It's just not working out 12) We are not meant to be together 13) You are overshadowing me 14) Your cancer is not going to ruin my life 15) My ex-boyfriend just got early parole and I still love him. (He was in for murder) 16) If you don't do X, Y & Z? I'll find someone who will. 17) If you do X, Y & Z again, I will leave you. 18) I don't love you any more, I love him. It's not my fault, it just happened. 19) The nerve of your family telling me that I have a drinking problem. I'm leaving you. 20) You lost your job 21) We need to see other people. 22) You're selfish, stingy and greedy. (I didn't spend money on her kid. We'd only been dating a very short time.) 23) It's not you, it's me. I need to work on myself. (Begins dating another dude almost immediately). 24) You're too good to be true. 25) I'm confused 26) I don't know what I want.

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Her: Buy me a drink
TheXYGhost : Why? Are you broke or just cheap?

Endless Loop Dating.

She told me that her husband was abusive.

She said he was a jerk.

She told me that he cheated on her.

She told me that she left him and she is not getting a thing.

I'll take her in.

She told me that she loves me.

I just proposed.

Now we are married.

Where is she?

I just caught her in a lie.

Why is her story not adding up.

We had a fight.

I just got arrested.

She took out a protective order on me.

She told the cops and everyone that I was abusive.

She called me a jerk to the man she is dating.

She told him I cheated on her.

She took my home and she told him it was hers.

I can't believe that guy believes her.

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Simp: You only have one mother.
TheXYGhost : Who will be the next father to your children?

Women Are Nasty to Men and Other Women.

So, the wife of my best friend of 30 plus years had an unusual encounter with a nasty woman:

It was 8AM and she just left the hospital with a diagnosis of a cracked rib and now she was on line at a Starbucks waiting to pick up her order. A woman with an English accent bumped into her rather hard.

"Ow", she said mostly to herself as she ignored the woman the bumped her.

Irritated, the English woman looked my friend up and down and said in a snobbish tone, "Do you think that I am to apologize to you?"

My friend's wife is not one to start trouble but she was not gonna let this one slide. She stared the woman right in the eyes and said, "No, you don't need to say sorry to me, I need to say sorry to you;

I'm sorry that every man you thought was 'the one' left you. I'm sorry that you wasted your youth. I'm sorry you go home alone every night. I'm so sorry that by wearing sequin 10 inch heels at 8AM will never help you find a man.

Look dear, men want 3 things in a woman; 1 - A beautiful face 2 - A beautiful heart 3 - A beautiful vagina

and frankly my dear all 3 of yours are rotten. I'm going to get my coffee and be on my way and forget all about this conversation. You will remember this day forever! You should just get a cat and call it a day. Enjoy your coffee."

And the black woman behind the counter asked my friend's wife, "Are you part black, because you read that girl like a book!"

You just gotta love New York City women.

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Her: I don’t need a man, I have a job!
TheXYGhost : OK by me.

Men Are Always Wrong, Women Have No Consequences.

If a man cheats...

Bad man, poor woman.

If a woman cheats...

"She must have cheated for a reason." "He was not doing enough to satisfy her."

Divorce him and take half his net worth, take the house and the kids, he has to pay for his lawyer and your lawyer too.

If a man hits a woman...

Bad man! Never hit a woman for any reason. "Arrest him."

If a woman hits a man...

"He must have done something wrong for her to hit him." "She must have had a reason to hit him."

If a man divorces a woman...

Bad man. He must pay. Take half his wealth, take half of all future earnings, and take away his kids.

If a woman divorces a man...

He must be a bad man. He must pay. Take half his wealth, take half of all future earnings, and take away his kids.

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Feminism is about equality!
We need more female sanitation workers.
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Girls and Delilah

Women are great at snitching. They always look for a higher authority to conquer anyone in their way.

Just like Sampson and Delilah

When GOD is a woman's ultimate authority, she will go to GOD for advice.

Why do you think that women initiate 80% of divorces. They go to the higher authority. (Cops, Lawyers and Judges) Delilah went to the Philistines as her higher authority.

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Her : Women age like fine wine.
TheXYGhost : Wine is worthless once uncorked.

Women Don't Want A Good Man Until They Are Damaged.

Good guys are never an option until a woman is tired of being played.

Until she is getting old. Until she wants a husband. Until she wants a step father for her child. Until she has kids with a guy that doesn't want anything to do with her.

Early in life most women choose the wrong guys & then after those guys spit them out.

Now they want a good man.

The same good man they thought was boring. The same good man they didn't want to talk to.

Understand this, the hoe phase is real. If a woman is still going through that. You as a good man will never touch her. You will only touch her after & that can be 10 years later.

Good guys deal with damaged women. Bad guys get the best years.

Good guys deal with women with insecurities. Women with trauma. Women with anger. Women with babies.

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Her : Your new home needs a woman's touch.
TheXYGhost : Don't you lay one finger on my house.

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Her : Where have all the good men gone?
TheXYGhost : Do you think you are entitled to an endless number of getting down on one knee with a diamond ring in hand, begging you to be your servant?

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Her : Where have all the good men gone?
TheXYGhost : You divorced 2 and you dumped many before them.

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You go through 3 divorces. You keep picking the wrong ones. She divorces 3 times, its never her fault.
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He pays $25,000 a month towards child support for a child he has never seen yet.
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He spent 5 years in prison for not paying child support for a child that was not his.
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Her : It wasn't my fault. It just happened.
TheXYGhost : Nothing is ever your fault.

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She is twice divorced and has 3 kids from 3 different men, and you think she loves you?
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Her : Why are you still single?
TheXYGhost : I can't find a woman that can buy the type of car I want.

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Her : There's plenty of fish in the sea.
TheXYGhost : I prefer a filet mignon.

TheXYGhost 355

Her : I left him because he always did what I told him.
TheXYGhost : Why did you ask for what you didn't want?

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He never cheated on his wife for 40 years. He asked my advice and 10 years later, he slept with over 300 women.
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Her : My son needs a father.
TheXYGhost : Don't look at me, you divorced his father, not me.

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Her : I have a boyfriend.
TheXYGhost : You are so lucky.

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Her : What kind of work do you do?
TheXYGhost : I am not interested in you.

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Her : I left him because he was abusive.
TheXYGhost : He caught you cheating, right?

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Her : I divorced him because it was not meant to be.
TheXYGhost : Next time marry one that is meant to be.

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A female who has had an abortion, won't think twice about exterminating your life in any way possible.
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They Never Stop Looking for Their Provider

A female friend of mine, that I’ve known for 21 years, called me out of the blue to have coffee and catch up. We hadn’t seen each other since the pandemic. At the time, I was 60 years old, she was 63, and her husband was 72. We had worked together in various capacities over the years. I met her husband a few times, I even bumped into her and her husband while in the Hamptons one summer. Her husband owned a shipping company. We got along great. No problems at all.

Her and I used to spend time on the phone together talking about things we saw on the news or movies, etc. I was comfortable with her because she had been with her husband since she was 16.

We met in a bagel deli in Manhattan. We hugged and exchange pleasantries. She asked how my family was and I asked how her husband, kids and grandkids were. She commented that everybody was fine.

We talked for about a half an hour until she asked the question, "Why are you still single"

I thought she knew. I knew I told her the story, but I stated anyway, "I’m not going through that again. Women hate men. "

She said one of the phrases that most women say, "You just picked the wrong women "

I responded with, "I picked the wrong women. My neighbors picked the wrong women. People in my family picked the wrong women. My friends picked the wrong women. My classmates picked the wrong women. My coworkers picked the wrong women. It seems that everybody is picking the wrong women, but the women are not wrong for their actions. Besides, I do not have enough money, knowledge, energy, patience, or time to make a woman happy. "

She snickered with, "Don’t be silly. You need to open your mind. I heard you’re doing well for yourself. It’s not hard to make a woman happy."

I snapped sharply with, "I will not provide for and protect yet another woman who has backstabbed all of her previous boyfriends and lovers only to be backstabbed once again for providing it protecting. "

With a smile on her face, she said, "I'm sure you will find someone that you will fall in love with. It's just a matter of time."

I was starting to get angry so my delivery to her was harsh. I said, "I have loved many women in the past only to be backstabbed over and over again. I want to give a woman a chance to pick me, because I’m the right one. I want to give a woman a chance to love me. I want a woman to reach deep in her pockets and buy me a car, a watch and dinner or two. What woman, that I do not know now, that has zero track record of any loyalty or respect, should I devote my life to protect and devote my life’s earnings towards? All I’m offered now are positions of servitude to be mom’s or grandma’s boyfriend. I will not provide and protect another man's wife or another child's mom."

She tried to play down my tone by saying, "That’s just dumb. You are just being paranoid. Not all women are out to get you. You need a loving woman beside you. "

I was wondering why she was giving me the hard sell. So I told her, bluntly, "let’s get off the subject. I don’t want to talk about it anymore. If we talk about this anymore, I will leave. I don’t want to offend you, but if you continue on this subject, I will have no choice but to leave. "

I think she got the message, and we talked about something else for about 10 minutes then she looked at her watch and said she had to go home. I walked her to her apartment building and left her with the doorman. A final hug and a kiss on the cheek, and I apologize for my gruffness.

Three weeks later, she calls me on the phone crying that her husband is in the hospital and he might not make it. I tried to console her and asked her a few questions. She told me that he had pancreatic cancer and he may not have long to live, she also told me that he was admitted to the hospital about a month ago.

In case you missed it, this is the timeline. Her husband was admitted to the hospital then three weeks later she met me, telling me that everybody in her family was OK. Then she tried to sell me on getting a female companion. One week later this call.

The call went on for a few more minutes, and she never realized what she told me.

That was a few months ago. I’m sure her husband has passed, but she has never called me about it since. While her husband was in the hospital, she was hunting for her new provider. Maybe she’s with him now.

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She aborted his child because her husband didn't do what she told him to do.
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She Obeys Her Enemies

Therapy is code for their dependency on others to analyze for them.

What people do not understand is that women are totally dependent on others for just about anything they do.

They consult with psychics, therapists, astrologists and their other female friends that guide her to fail as they too, do not want their friends to be higher status than they are.

The modern woman today obeys and submits to astrologers, psychics, therapists, their jealous girlfriends, lawyers, psychiatrist and doctors that prescribe harmful mood altering drugs for her. The sad thing is that she is combative to the man that professes his love to her, with shaming tactics, insults, humiliation, guilt trips, nagging and constant arguments.

In short, she obeys all that profits from her loss while spitting on the man that loves her.

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Australia's female soccer team (ranked 5th in the world) was beaten 7-0 by a team of boys, all under 15 years old.
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But That's My Money

My childhood friend married a widowed mother. Her former husband died while working as a maintenance worker on theVerrazzano-Narrows Bridge in New York City. My friend vowed to provide for and protect his new wife and her daughter.

After a while, he had three more daughters. He was feeling the need to buy a house as his apartment was too small for the family. He started working nights and weekends, seven days a week to save the money he needed for a down payment of a home. This went on for 2 years.

He finally bought a small home built in 1957. The house was small, yet bigger than the apartment they lived in. He vowed to add an extra floor to his new home, and give all four of his daughters their own room.

He had a side job as a bouncer, and sometimes he drove a limousine. He spent nights in my living room sleeping because he was too exhausted to drive home. I even packed food for him to bring home when I cooked for myself. I only know how to cook large portions and I was single at the time

He hired an architect and he took an apprentice job as a carpenter to make his dream home come true.

The second floor was completed by September after years of planning. Halloween came and went Without a problem. Thanksgiving came to the new home. Now came Christmas.

With very little money left, he bought a Christmas tree, decorations, and presents for the entire family.

Just before New Year’s, the boiler of his house broke. With little money left, he told his family that they needed to brave the cold with blankets and some space heaters.

One day, he came home and picked up the mail. He accidentally opened his wife’s bank statement, thinking it was a credit card bill.

To his surprise, he saw a bank balance of $180,000 in his wife’s name . He could not believe his eyes. He went to his wife to show her what he found. She snatched the statement out of his hands, while yelling, “Thats my money!”

He asked her where did she get this money and she stated that it came from the insurance policy she had from her previous husband.

He asked when did she come into this money and she told him that it came while she was pregnant with their first child.

He asked her when was she going to tell him about this money and she kept repeating, “Thats my money!”

He continued by saying, “You let me work 2 and three jobs and 7 days a week for years to get the money to buy this house?”

She yelled out, “You wanted to work those jobs.”

Still pissed off at her, he said, “You would let your children brave the cold without a boiler?”

She cried out, “That’s your job and that’s my money”

He made her sign over all that money to him, he repaired the boiler, finished the second floor, bought himself a new car and set up 4 investment accounts for his daughters future.

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80% of divorces are initiated by women and family courts will stop fathers getting custody to see their kids.
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How Stingy and Petty Women Can Be

When famed basketball player, Kobe Bryant and his 9 year old daughter died in a tragic helicopter crash, he left his wife with his $680 million estate.

5 years after his death, Kobe's parents were going through some hard times but the widow of Kobe refused to help them out.

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I now pronounce that October is "Dump Your Girlfriend Month"
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Women Will Almost Never Be Generous

Hetty Green, AKA The Witch of Wall Street, is the stingyest woman in the world according to The Guinness Book of World Records. Her net worth was estimated at more than $5.4 billion in 2024’s dollars.

Even though she was extremely rich, she married a millionaire. She lived on leftover cakes and broken biscuits from a nearby bakery.

Hetty caused her own son to have his leg amputated, as a result from spending time looking for a free clinic instead of paying a hospital bill.

She dìed in 1916 of a stroke at the age of 81 while arguing with her maid over a pay raise.