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Do Women Really Want Kings or Servants?
A subject proves his worthiness to royalty. Maybe I’m wrong but I’m not a servant that will invite a woman into my world the way she wants, how she wants when she wants and pay and provide for her every needs, wants and desires. Feminism made you females equal to men and its your turn to ask us out and entertain us properly or get turned down because you haven’t proven yourselves worthy.
I have to ask you girls something; Do you want to walk around with a king or a servant? Its your choice. A servant serves and a king gets treated well. Its that simple.
Men can take rejection. Most men get rejected tens of thousands of times at work, in team sports, etc. We know its part of life. We know if we ask and get rejected, we are still OK with it. No is only a word to us. No real man preaches political correctness because we know that words can never harm us. It is the perception of women that men fear rejection because women fear rejection, this is why women throughout history almost never go after anything they really want. Men get the jobs they want because they go to 100’s of interviews undaunted. You think a tiny “No” will shatter us? Its OK to think the way you want.
So what? We do not choose to communicate the way you want us to communicate. Tough. Again, men are not your servants.
If you want to dance, then dance and entertain us.
Compliments? Oh, OK, you look nice today. Well you had better put your best outfit together for us. If not, we don’t connect. Maybe you need to re-think the jeans and business suits that looks so butch and un flattering. If men wanted to date a person in jeans, figure out the rest.
Men are not supposed to impress you or shower you with gifts at your doorstep. Get a servant for that. Men are taking charge but they are not taking charge the way you define it, by serving your needs, wants and desires.
I need to ask one final thing; how many years do you think you are entitled to full royal pampering? Because kids in their teens and 20’s are dating. Why not you?
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Trading Your Dysfunctional Family In for a New Dysfunctional One
I sit back and watch as my friends, neighbors and relatives get divorced because their wives think that happiness is provided to them from a provider. When these wives are unhappy, because they are not achieving anything, and blame the man for not handing them happiness on a silver platter, the remedy is divorce. That man watches helplessly as he pays through the nose for lawyers just to watch judges play GOD with his children’s lives. Then helplessly he watches another man marrying his ex-wife and move in and is the dominant figure in his children’s lives. Sadly, the only thing he does is marry another home wrecker that left her husband as he supports children that are not his as the real father of those children watches helplessly as he takes over another man’s children.
I looked at my step father one day and told him, “you are not my father.” As my mother insisted that he lay down the law on me. Coincidentally, his kids said the same thing to their surrogate father once he tried the same thing.
I vowed never to be a surrogate father nor let my children have one. The first part, I can control, the second is dependent of the prerogative of a woman, and that is to change her mind. (“But that is not all women” as all women say)
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Men Are Disposable to Women
Women hate men. They only like a man’s wealth. They have sh!tted on men all their lives and now when they have 2 or 3 kids from 2 or 3 men, 3 or 4 abortions, a slew of STDs now they want a man for the only purpose of fixing their things because they are too cheap to pay a man to fix stuff. They are too stupid to fix things. Once the item is fixed, they will dismiss you.
I have been single now for 23 years after my wife left, cheated, stole and lied to me. The female collective responds to this as;
1 – You picked the wrong one
2 – You let her steal from you
3 – You hate women
And the all time fave rate;
Not all women are like that.
To which I answer;
Not all bees sting! Not all alligators eat people. Not all bears attack.
Women hate men, and when I have been pointing that out for 40 years, they call me a woman hater
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A Poem From an Unknown Artist
I’m tired of hearing
Some of these women
From the beginning
Feeling entitled to men who accomplished what they need.
Having a long list of standards
They haven’t met
And some of them probably never meet
He has to make 6 figures
Has to have excellent credit
While you can’t keep a job and your credit is shot
He has to have no kids
While you have plenty
He has to finish college
While you have not
He has to have a nice car
Because yours keeps breaking down
He must stay loyal
While you mess with your ex
He has to bring you the world
And all things in it
So you can toss it out
And ask for snacks
Yet, but still
things get real,
You have flaws
Let’s not forget
He has to deal with your self proclaimed “craziness”
And disrespectful mouth and still hand you all the respect
Then you brag about being spoiled
And have a bad attitude
And how he hasn’t left yet
But I’m sorry baby girl
In all actuality
A woman of his equal
He probably hasn’t met
He has to work his full shifts
Accept endless O, T,
To pay all the bills
And expensive trips
Just to come home
To no home cooked meal
Yet you provide excessive lip
He has to play daddy
With no kids of his own
Because your kids’ dad wont claim them
And when he asks you something
As small as some of his favorites
You can’t even name them
Out of all that he does for you
Bending over backwards all the time
All you really want to do is to shame him
And when things don’t go right
Inside of your life
You just find a way to blame him
And now he is stuck
Trying to figure out why he has to pay for what your ex did
And when you start to realize he’s not the same him
Well, that was your fault
You stayed where you didn’t belong
Thinking you can change him
Now the man you prayed to GOD to send your way
Because you knew you deserved better
Got with you and realizes he does too
And a woman of his equal
He wants to go get her
Because you laugh at his dreams
You think it is cute to be mean
And play victim when he goes astray
But he has no use for verbal abuse
And those egotistical games that you play
See, you have to stop thinking
You’re GOD’s gift to man
When all you bring to the table is sex
Men have endless battles daily to continue to come home to stress
And when he leaves
You better believe
All those credentials you wanted
Are tagged only to his name
And now you are stuck
Claiming you do not give a fuck
When clearly you are accustom to lame
The term, “Nice guys finish last”
I’ve heard in the past
And unfortunately, it seems to be true
You may think you’re bad
But that’s just a fad
If nothing else comes with you
You see, being attractive on the surface
Serves no purpose
If there is no personality to match
And all the negativity that comes with you
Just is not worth it for a good man in reality to be attached
You say hoes are winning
But that’s just the beginning
Of the many excuses
To make you feel like you are above
If you can’t reciprocate what you think you deserve
Then you are just not ready for love
People want what they can’s have
Reach but can’t grab
And if that is the case
Put it back on the shelf
And those credentials you want your real man to have
You need to start acquiring them yourself
You see, life don’t goes as expected
Which its smart to have a “Plan B”
And C
And D
And E
Not another man
But those plans that solely involve “Me”
So before you chant, “there are no good men”
Make sure that men of that caliber are your equal
Or, you will be forever stuck
Not knowing the end to your, “Men ain’t shit” sequel
See, you want the ring, the life, the things, the love and title too
But when it comes to kings
They are only wifeing queens
hey feel their entitled too
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In An Email Thread I Received:
Anna : Remember that the next time you try to minimize or belittle a woman.
TheXYGhost : Women belittle themselves. Nobody needs to belittle women. They have invented nothing throughout time. They have built nothing throughout all of history. They have done nothing to improve mankind. If you hate men so much, get your car fixed by a female mechanic, get your plumbing repaired by a female plumber. Get your roof repaired by a female roofer. Get a job as a sewer worker. Join the military and get your legs blown off for your fellow countrymen. Get a job as a trucker. Become a sanitation worker you nasty, stinking, smelly, angry, ugly, fat, old, feminist, witch, that wants a man so bad you can’t even taste it. You Bitch, Cunt, Slut, Skank, Vixen, Trollop, Harlot, Wench, Tramp, Whore, Hag, Floozy, Jezebel, Hussy, Vamp, Hoe, Shrew, Bimbo, She-Devil, Hooker, Heifer, Dame, Broad, Tart, Sleaze, Fem Fetale, Streetwalker, Strumpet, Skirt, Concubine, Witch, Succubus, Squeeze, Diva, THOT, Feminoid, Shetard, Sow
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“Not All Women Are Like That”
The female collective will constantly repeat this phrase whenever a man speaks about the terrible experience he had with a woman. Lets explore this.
Women want a man in her life who is:
Taller than her
Stronger than her
Smarter than her
Faster than her
Richer than her
More dgrees than her
More experienced than her
And whenever you speak negatively about women in general, They all speak out in unison.
“Not ALL women are like that!”
“You hate women.”
“Who hurt you?”
“You just pick the wrong women.”
“Where do you find these women?”
When you marry the above woman and have kids with her, she will divorce you and make your children fatherless because she imagines that she has surpassed your status. If she wins a lottery, her winnings will determine that your kids do not need you any longer.
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Parasitic Relationship
Women could be as good as men or even better if they resort to finding a host they can call a “provider” and latch firmly on. They will feed off this host like a parasite while warding off any and all other potential feeders. When the man is drained of all his strength and emotion, she will walk away blaming and faulting him for allowing “letting” her to do such damage. He is deemed weak as she walks away, but not before she finds and secures yet another host to leach off like a tic. Once she is gone, vultures come and take the scraps. They act as of they care and pretend to nurture while their eyes are searching for more of your carcass to devour. When they are finished with you, you are poor, destitute and struggling to even breathe as you try to figure out what had happened.
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Understanding The Dysfunctional Pseudo-Logic of Women
One day after work, I met up with a friend, his girlfriend and a few co-workers at a lounge. His girlfriend started to “educate” the men on the thought processes of women.
She started out by saying, “You men do not understand us women. You guys need to know that when a woman says ‘No’ it can mean, ‘No’ but it can also mean, ‘Try harder’.”
The men were a bit perplexed at this statement and started to ask her questions. They were eager to find out more but they, knowing who I was, kept an eye on me because they knew I would chime in on this subject.
I kept quiet until the questions died down. After all the questions were asked, I reached in my pocket and pulled out 5 – $100 bills and handed to her.
Not knowing what to say she looked at the others, looking for cues on how to react. She then asked, “What is that for?”
“Its for you. Take it.”, I said.
She, sheepishly reached out and started to take the money. When she was about to touch it, I pulled back and said, “Why did you not tell me ‘No’, even if you meant ‘No’ or ‘Try harder’?”
She almost stuttered when she said, “Well, there is no need for me to tell you ‘No’ or ‘Try harder’ that money has value.”
“Exactly right”, I said.
I told her that if I asked a girl on a date and if she said “No” and meant “No” then I will respect her wishes. I also told her that if I asked a girl on a date and she said “No” that was meant for me to try harder, then she has no respect for me and sees no value in my offer. I asked the group if they would ever order someone offering a gift to them to “Try harder. The group shook their heads in unison.
This is a key factor in understanding female dysfunctional pseudo-logic.
Another example of this disfunction is when I was in Miami and we were out in a nightclub with the boys. There was a younger guy in our troop that was an amazing dancer. He asked one girl to dance and he was turned down. With his tail between his legs he came over to me and told me that he wanted to dance but he got turned down. I looked towards the bar and saw 6 girls in a row nursing their drinks watching the dance floor. I told him to ask those girls to dance.
Puzzled, he asked, “What if they turn me down?”
I looked at him and said, “If one turns you down, ask the other.”
I told him to keep asking until one says “Yes”.
He then walked over to the first girl and asked her to dance. When she said, “No” he went to the next. By the third girl, he had a partner. The third girl got the hint that this guy would not ask a second time and she would miss an opportunity if she did not accept. They danced fantastic together. In fact, all the other girls that turned him down were upset and even jealous that he was getting compliments on the dance floor.
The most interesting part of this story is that, after a while, the first of the 6 girls that he asked came up to me and said, “Your friend is stupid”
I answered her with a short, “I know”, because that would make it harder for her to say anything else. She wanted a lead-in like, “Why?” To make it easier to reply.
Frustrated, (Ha ha) she blurted out, “He only asked me once. I would have danced with him if he asked again.”
I finished the conversation with, “I’ll let him know he is stupid when he gets back.”
This girl said, “No” but wanted him to try harder. She put the barrier in front of him to see how much this man desired her when he breaks that barrier. She wanted to be desired so much that he would break the block she put in his way.
Do you get it? Good!
I showed some examples how women place roadblocks (to herself) in front of a man to see if the man desires her so much that he would break the block she put in his way. She will use the word “No” to block you when she really means, “Try harder”. This is not to say that all “No’s” mean to “Try harder”, some “No’s” do actually mean “No” at her discretion which makes this situation pretty precarious to say the least.
Once you have identified this problem, you have a decision to make. You can nip it in the bud before blossoms. No matter what you do it will be there, but managing someone’s innate subconscious impulses can be trying on ones patience. Either that or you can leave. No matter what you decide to do, identifying the problem is key and not knowing the problem can be costly.
As a teen you may have had a girl abruptly stop a make out session or interrupt the flow of a sexual encounter with the dreaded words, “Where is this relationship going?” No matter how you answer it at the time, she will become more and more frustrated because the roadblock she put between you prevented you from going after her. She asks what she doesn’t want and gets mad when you comply.
In another story I wrote, (tinyurl.com/jma3egn) a girlfriend of mine was on the phone from the minute I arrived at her place, through dinner until after I went to bed. When I was asleep, that’s when she attacked. From her perception, she was mad that her deliberate block from me to her (never ending phone conversations) was successful in stopping me to get to her.
When you ask a girl for her number or her name, (don’t do that that is the wrong approach) her immediate response will almost always be, “Why?” In this case, questioning your request is the block. She is putting a rule in front of you that she wants you to break. This is how she unconsciously responds to block your approach.
A better approach to get her phone number is to offer her your smartphone, already in dial mode and tell her to dial her number. She may perceive asking as begging and a direct order as evidence of confidence. She may still say “No” or ask “Why” but if you insist without showing any anger or frustration, she may give in. Bear in mind that she may say “No” and mean it. Make sure when you do this, you have a good phone case, she may even drop your phone.
I know many of you have heard the phrase, “I want a man that knows what he wants.” To you or me that statement sounds stupid. Any 6 year old knows what they want. They want a pony and live in a castle. What women should say is, “I want a man that knows what he wants from me no matter how much I try to stop him.” To her, a man who knows what he wants despite the roadblocks she puts up in front of him and taking her, is “putting her in her place.” Which is another phrase a girl might say. Can you see where this is going?
In all these cases a woman is using a lie or a manipulation, to get you to do what she expects of you, to correct her to for your purposes to her liking. She uses a lie to get you to show how much you desire her, whenever she sees fit that will meet her approval. This video (goo.gl/ERF5c2) is a girl explaining it as best a girl can.
So if you are about to go out on with a girl and she gives you a hard time at the last minute, that’s a block. The thing you can do is keep in focus and be firm about going out while ignoring her complaints, without being angry or frustrated. You can not cater and nurture this behavior or it will get worse. Do not give in to her lies and manipulation.
There is a whole lot more of this in Part 3 that will explain;
why women leave men
why the like criminals
why they take kids away from men and say that the father didn’t love their own child
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Time to Play the Game
(Written to me from CrownEyes)
We live in a time of social decay, degeneracy, greed, lack of love and cognitive dissonance. The games many people play to achieve their agendas can be relentless. The games played in relationships are almost never ending unlike the fairytales girls used to watch when they were young.
Men today are a shadow of their former selves while women’s shadows have grown into a greedy hungry monster waiting to devour its next victim. Regretfully, the modern woman is like a parasite waiting for a host to suck off everything they can until it dies or finds a better host in order to “upgrade” her financial and social status.
In the stage of the game, we’re all actors and characters. What happens when the environment of the stage has everything in place for women to “win” and men to “lose”? It’s almost like watching the mightiest of heroes lose at the end of the movie. As it is said, we are all a product of our environment. Because of the way the stage is set, women can play games to their advantage without consequence, unlike any other time in history.
With her many interactions, women play games with men in almost every move they make. It’s a constant battle of words, psychology and energy of who can dominate. She constantly plays power games with the man, looking for points of weakness and ways she can establish power over the man. She is looking to see what she can take from him with little to nothing in return. She is a parasite. When she is successful, in reality or in her own imagination, she becomes disinterested and leaves, but not before she finds another host. The more she plays, the better she gets, and the faster she gets detached.
A moral woman wouldn’t belittle, take advantage, rip off, cheat, beat down; disrespect anyone much less the man she supposedly is in love with. But because the system favors women, many women take advantage of all the details and little things most don’t pick up. This proves that most women are narcissistic, selfish and conceited human beings. They are without any concern with creating a family or a future. They are devoid of any future planning. They are without morals.
Greed, coupled with her ability to become detached from her feelings is all she needs, especially when a woman sees a man as her golden ticket. When her target man has money or even more than her previous host, her prize is marriage or engagement.
To be fair they have been brainwashed to be weaponized against men. As a result, men have been stripped of any power they have ever had. When employers give women jobs, they don’t realize they are making it worse for all other men by doing that. First you give a job to women, means a job a man didn’t get including the money and career it comes with. Second, you raise a woman’s status to the point where she doubles or even triples the standard of the status of the man she seeks as a mate. The higher a woman’s salary, the higher she perceives her own status, the higher her expectations of her potential mate’s status and salary. This cycle continues to the point she has unreasonable expectations as most women expect a man to always have a higher social status than her. She will always seek out a mate that is better off financially than her.
Women think they’re more beautiful than they actually are, the makeup and plastic surgery has infected their self-perception and inflated their egos way beyond repair. Even her parents helped along the way, most likely her father, telling her that she’s a princess and she’s beautiful which is nice but they’re lying to her. She is no princess.
The Marxist culture, using Hollywood, Disney and the music industry has blown women’s egos and self-perception out of proportion. Women today have massive egos, they are on power trips. Social media is the steroids that push this false delusional ego into the beyond the stratosphere. It’s parents’ fault for not raising feminine moral girls who hold a family together and be faithful wives. They raise career women as if they were men.
Now when men look for a wife, they’re finding a man inside a woman’s body not a feminine woman like they used to make them and I don’t mean that in the transgender sense but in how women behave in the modern age. They compete against their boyfriends and husbands and not assist and help them. They don’t want to serve but to be served. If you want a woman to behave as a woman you need to get off your knees and become a King right from the start. If she won’t have you as her King, then the King needs to kick her out of his Kingdom and win in the game of life.
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She Decides Who Fathers Her Child
Women, and women only decide with which man they will procreate. They hold all the cards.
If she is with a man she deems undesirable (married or not) she may be on some sort of birth control while telling that man she can’t have children. She may go as far as checking into a fertility clinic and even blame it on him. After all, its never her fault and the man to her is a place holder until the one she selects comes along to rescue her from that man.
If a woman agrees with her partner to wait a while to have children, she may skip out on taking birth control and get pregnant on her terms and not what was agreed upon. She has control again.
If you use a condom and do not flush the evidence immediately, she may insert the condom’s contents when you are not looking.
If she gets pregnant, she may have an abortion without that man’s knowledge or permission.
She needs no permission from her husband to abort their child, get her tubes tied or put their child up for adoption while the man needs consent from the wife to have a vasectomy.
Another option she may look at is running off, hiding and never looking back or tell the man about her pregnancy.
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How One Sided The Office Can Be
A while ago I was working for this company that offered a health insurance package. One day I called the 1-800 number of that insurance provider to get some information on my benefits. The number connected to an operator was based in the Philippines. They asked for my Social Security number as the only way to look up my files. This was unacceptable as I never give out that information to anyone in a foreign country.
I called the department that handled the insurance policies in my office and told the woman that it was not safe giving my Social Security number out to someone in a foreign country. She assured me that it was safe to give my information. I told her, “Just because you are oblivious to the security risks involved in giving out my personal information to people in other countries, does not make it safe.”
Shocked, she said, “You called me oblivious? I’m offended!”
With that she hung up the phone. In under 40 minutes I get a visit from my manager, his manager, the project leader and his assistant. I told them what happened and they were puzzled. Soon after, I had 2 more women from human resources arrive as they suggested we go to a conference room to talk.
In the conference room, I told my story again. The two women from HR looked at each other. Not hearing my story and only hearing what they wanted to hear, they asked me why I called the woman om the phone “Oblivious”. This went on for a while until the managers (the men) called out on how absurd this whole thing was. I cringed on the inside, thinking these woman would now take offense at a manager calling their investigation “absurd”. Too bad that didn’t happen.
I was then instructed to sign a letter warning me on the importance of office etiquette. I only signed it when a full report was attached.
Why wasn’t this woman given instructions on the importance of office tolerance?
By the way, the policy was changed so that you can give your policy number or an employee number to get information about your insurance.
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With Regards to Bill Cosby
With regards to Bill Cosby’s situation I need to say that I have not followed this trial at all for two reasons;
1 – Bill Cosby has been around for many many years without incident.
2 – I know how women lie and manipulate to get others to overpower someone they don’t like. In other words all the false rape allegations I have seen in my life leads me to believe that others have done this as well.
The boy who cried, “”wolf”” became the women who cry, “”rape””.
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The Irony
Find an animal on the side of the road;
Pick it up
Clean it
Feed it and it will be your best friend for life always by your side.
Pick a man up when he is down
Feed him
Share your space with him
And he will never forget the kindness you shared
He will be there whenever you need
Find an insecure girl and scared and frightened
Pick her up
Show her that she is worth something
Allow her to understand her true beauty…
She will tell you how stupid you are for trusting her and she will laugh at you when she leaves.
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A Great Video Idea For You to Try
Here is an interesting question you should ask a female then post her reaction on video. If you do, add the hashtag #TheXYGhost
Here is the question:
Should a 25 year old go to prison for having sex with a 13 year old?
When the dust settles, ask, how many years should that woman be locked up?
Watch the look on her face.
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The Pride She Has in Homewrecking Herself
I've ran into so many women in my life that have this sense of pride when they talk about their divorce or breakup. They almost always make it a point to hammer in the fact that they broke it off with their partner and not the other way around. They will continue on by saying that they do not want their partner back but their partner wants her back. From Middle School to High School to College to your neighborhood, your work place and beyond, they are all full of pride breaking up with some man.
I was talking to this girl about her ex-husband and in the middle of the story, I asked her why she divorced him, as it is almost always the case where the woman breaks up with the man. I could not believe my ears when she thanked me for noticing that she was the one that divorced him and not the other way around.
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Her : I don’t know, that’s why you need work hard to find out
TheXYGhost : I pass.
Her : Selfish
They Never Initiate Anything, Therefore They Have No Responsibility
In a chat session between a man and a girl, it seems that if you do not send them a question to answer, the conversation is over. It's almost like they don't know what to say or do after that. Are they waiting for another question to answer or are they just not interested? It never ceases to amaze me about how often this happens. Do women not know how to communicate or are they just lazy?
They, also never take the opportunity to initiate a conversation. Be it a phone call, email or text. In the rare cases that they do initiate a conversation, it's only to say, "Hi" and they wait for you to say something. If you reply only with a, "Hi" Back, most likely that's the end of the conversation.
Even back in the day when there was no internet, a girl would sit by the phone waiting for someone to call her. But when that call came in, she wasted no time to let the phone ring a few times before she answered it. Once she answers, she play "hard to get"
None of the above applies if they are in need of your resources, then they have no problem telling you their problems so you initiate "Fix It Man" mode. Again, they never ask, they only state their problems.
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Family Court : The modern day Philistines that comes to Delilah’s aid when she sees a slight imperfection with the true father of her kids.
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I'm Sure You Men Heard These Words Before
Woman : Yes, you were a good provider, you gave me food to eat, clothes to wear, you helped me a great deal in my personal life and career. We had great times together, we went places and shared experiences together. You were so good to me in every way I can think of. Yes dear, you loved me. But that is not enough. I met another and I'm moving in with him today. I fell in love with him. It just happened. It was not my fault. I never planned it this way.
Remember, I still love you.
(I hope he buys this in case my new boyfriend does not work out)
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Women Searching For The Married Man
The arrogance of some women that do not think they are cheating when they are in bed with a married man. They think they are next in line for a ring on the finger and a white gown.
I feel like yelling at the top of my lungs to these women, "HEY, STUPID! HE IS MARRIED, YOU IDIOT! IF YOU MARRY HIM, YOU ARE MARRYING A CHEATER!"
Men almost never initiate the divorce of their wives. The cost is too great. It's a rigged game and the judges are one sided. Never will you see a woman giving half her wealth, the house and kids to the man, let alone pay him alimony.
You will almost always hear the same thing out of their mouths when you simply ask, "Why?"; "Because I love him."
You will see them scoping men out in social settings looking for that band of gold on the man's finger. They actively search for that man.
When I had a ring on my finger, I was hit on more than once. To them, a wedding ring is their sign that another woman thinks he is a good provider. They do not have to strain their brain to do the analyzation themselves, that is their proof.
There are men that don't cheat on their wives and there are women that want that man. Those women will stop at nothing to break up that union any way they can.
I've seen women in office settings that will put lipstick on their finger and make like they are fixing their boss's collar before they leave for home. They put a dab of lipstick on the man's collar and when he gets home, his wife sees the lipstick mark and that is all she needs to prove, without a shadow of doubt that her husband is cheating. Cue in the lawyers that will make the wife profit from her misunderstanding.
I've heard of women that threw their panties in the back seat of a man's (her coworker) car to start up drama between the married couple. When the man divorces, she can console him and get close to him.
Men are treated as property to women, don't you believe otherwise.
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At Work, I Covered His Six and He Covered Mine
At work, my manager started dating a girl in a different department. I told him to be careful. He took my warnings light heartedly.
After a few weeks of dating and bed hopping, he took the woman to an after work gathering where he was asked if that is his new girlfriend. He answered with, "I'm not sure yet, but so far, it looks good."
When she heard his reply, she was furious! "What do you mean you are not sure?"
From what I heard, she yelled, screamed and carried on way beyond a normal office party setting.
The next morning, he told me the story. He thought he was going to lose his job over it. As the day went on, he was assured from Human Resources, that his part in the incident was not going to be a negative as far as they were concerned.
By 5pm, it was time for me to go home. I had things to do. My cubicle was right next to his office and I heard the front door open and close. It was her. She stood in front of his office door. She was explaining how last nights incident was not her fault. He stayed sitting at his desk telling her it was over and he can't afford an incident like that and it would damage his career.
She pleaded and begged him to reconsider. He stuck to his guns and adamantly said, "No"
The conversation slowly escalated from, "It's not my fault" to "You are to blame"
My manager (also a great friend) knew that I was still in my cubicle listening intently to back him up when the time arose.
Noticing that this encounter was starting a path to a place he had no intention of going, my friend told the girl that I was still at my cubicle to be witness and protect him. When I heard that, I spoke up in the deepest and most authoritative voice I had, "Is there any trouble in there?"
She walked over to my cubicle and took a look at me and got very intimidated. (I'm a nice guy but I look as intimidating as a meber of the Tony Soprano's crew) I held up a broken digital camera and told her that I was recording things.
She looked shocked and she said a few last words and left.
My friend thanked me. When he found a new employment opportunity, I was his first hire and he gave me a great position.
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Rest In Peace
Nathanial "Nate" Johnson
#TheXYGhost
I Ain’t Gonna Do That No Mo’e
I paid for the dinners
I paid for the drinks
I bought the flowers
I bought the candies
I bought the jewelry
I paid for the entertainment
I paid for the trips
I’ve done it all and the recipients of the above declared that it wasn’t enough. It’s never enough. It doesn’t work. That’s why I don’t do it any more.
If you think I’m cheap, I had a great fun dinner with my friend Gilbert Wong. Our bill was $219.93. He even guessed the amount of the bill before it arrived. He was only 7¢ off. Great time we had. We split the bill and enjoyed the whole evening.
Thanx Gil.
No more paying for cunts making their foodie calls.
#TheXYGhost
Where Are Feminists now When Disaster Strikes?
Are they risking their lives saving people in flood zones with their boats?
There were No feminists on the Titanic.
Men and men alone to he rescue and not a Feminist in sight.
#TheXYGhost
Same Old Story From Women About Abusive Men
I saw this beggar on the NYC Subway system today. She was claiming that she was homeless, single mother that had an abusive husband and now they are divorced.
I started to think, was this woman in a great relationship before she went to bed with that man to get pregnant, or was this man abusive from day one. Nobody just becomes abusive all of a sudden, for no reason whatsoever.
But since it is in New York City, and on the Subway, it is all just probably a lie.
Lie or not, this woman wouldn't tell that story day in and day out riding one train car after another if she was not making money from the deal.
But women and men pay her for her story.
A man would be looked down upon by women. They would not give him a cent.
#TheXYGhost
All of Her Ex-Boyfriends and Ex-Husbands Were No Good
Of all the girls I met and keep on meeting, I keep on hearing the same stories of their last boyfriend / husband.
1 - He was abusive
This is a scam, did she really mean that she was loving, caring, giving and sharing and all he did was punch her in the face? I can walk on any street in America today and take a poll of 10,000 men (including you and I) and they would all say they would never hit a female. These females want me to believe that they found that 1 man in 10,000 that would hit a female. I won't believe it.
2 - He didn't give me enough attention
- Danger Will Robinson, my sensors indicate extreme human manipulation - Every time I hear this excuse, I think to myself the following;
- How much attention did he promise you?
- Did he give you a lot of attention, but that was not enough?
- Did he give you all the attention any human can give, but that was not enough?
- How much attention did he promise you when you first met?
- How much attention is enough?
- How much attention have you received since you two split?
- Was breaking up your family your solution to your attention needs?
3 - He didn't love me
When I hear this I can't help but asking, "You must have loved him a whole lot for you to leave him." or "How do you measure someone's love for you?" or "Do you measure your pet's love for you?"
4 - He cheated on me
An oldie but goodie. I've seen this a million times. Females don't mind cheaters if the man is cheating on his wife for her. They never mind being the target of a cheating man. But that's the man they partnered with and now they are surprised that he cheated yet again.
5 - He was a gambler, alcoholic or a substance abuser
Gamblers and substance abusers rarely just pop up out of nowhere. There are indications and warning signs all around that the female chooses to ignore.
#TheXYGhost
You Will Be Picky Until You Are Desperate
I was talking to this girl once when we were talking about relationships. I asked her why was she single and she said what all girls say, "I'm picky".
I responded with, "You will be picky until you are desperate"
She quickly replied, "I'm not desperate!"
I repeated with, "You will be picky until you are desperate"
She replied only with an, "Oh."
Then she caught herself saying, "I will never be desperate, look at this" (as she sat up in her seat displaying her body)
I only replied with an, "Oh"
I think I ruined her day.
#TheXYGhost
No Matter What, You Are Always The Fault of Her Actions
It's so sad to see that every time a man talks about his cheating partner to another woman, she will spare no time to blame the man sitting in front of her. She will blame him in the following ways;
1 - It's your fault for trusting her
2 - It's your fault for picking her
3 - It's your fault for not giving her enough
4 - It's your fault because maybe unconsciously, you wanted her to cheat
5 - It's your fault for not paying her enough attention
6 - It's your fault because you must have treated her badly
7 - It's your fault for not showing her that you love her.
And my favorite;
8 - It's your fault for giving her everything she wanted, because maybe she didn't want what she asked for
Face it fellas, it's just your fault.
#TheXYGhost
Women Will Believe The Most Obvious Lies But Never The Truth
I think that women are so desperate to find a larger than life man they will believe any liar that tells them all the lies they want to hear.
"I love you more than anything on this earth" - That's a lie. Nobody loves one thing so much.
"You are the most beautiful woman I've ever seen" - This is a lie too.
"You are the world to me" - Is there a man out there that will stop living because she is gone?
"I love you more than the sun, moon the sky and stars" - No man love these things.
#TheXYGhost
Angelic Devil
Four and a half years ago my brother met this girl. She was soft spoken, sweet and angelic looking. She was only 21 and my brother was 26. She was from a good family where the mom and dad were married until her father's death. My father and stepmom loved her and saw her as a perfect angel. I knew there was a slight problem when she told me that she liked my brother because he had so much "potential".
My brother and my other family members do not know about this group or anything I stand for.
I looked at her statement to me about my brother's "potential" and asked myself, "Potential for what?" I really know that she meant "money making" potential but I looked at her statement at face value.
"Potential for what?", I thought. Potential to be a top mechanic or a fabulous clothing designer? The sentence she stated was incomplete. Not grammatically but it incomplete in ideas. Did she not have "potential"? Don't we all have "potential" (man or woman)? Potential to be what we want and strive to be? But she saw potential in him to latch on.
My brother gave her a job in a large city as he is second in line from the mayor. My brother negotiated a great salary for her then helped her move to a top accounting firm. She now made $130,000 a year. More than my brother makes.
They saved their money while living rent free in my father's basement. They saved their money until my brother bought a distressed 2 family home, renovated it and started renting it out. He did that 2 more times until he had 6 units paying him top dollar to live in a great home.
They moved to a luxury apartment in the center of the city. The apartment had all the amenities you could ever want. 24 hour gym, pool, sauna, jacuzzi, steam room and sun deck. They were living the life.
Then one day, on my brother's birthday, she packed up her stuff and left him to move in with her mom. (Dependency swap). She swore that she would take all of their joint properties for herself. This was building up for a long time with her claims of lack of attention to her etc.
She texts my brother for a while and then my brother forwards those texts to her mother. The girlfriend gets wise and blocks my brother's texts on her mom's phone. Her mother is appalled at her daughter's actions.
She then texts him something to the effect of, not wanting to communicate with him for 2 weeks and their relationship lacks "consistency"(another incomplete idea). She also granted him permission to have affairs (so arrogant of her) but he is not allowed to move in another girl into their apartment.
That's when I came in. My brother met me at my father's place. My father is 81 years old and full of energy. Before my brother arrived, my father said that my brother should have been "nicer" to this girl as if she was an angelic entity.
My father was quick to take the girl's side claiming that she made more money than my brother. I could not contain myself. I said wait a minute, my brother gave that girl her first job that catapulted her to the job she is in now. He groomed and prepped her for the interview. He also created 3 investment properties with a total of 6 rental units making her and him money on the rents, the home appreciation and the equity. I told my father that my brother takes home little in the job but makes a great deal more with investments. She should be nicer to him.
My brother arrived and confronted me with his girlfriend's demands and her claims of "no consistency" in their relationship.
I told him this, "What consistency did you promise her that you did not fulfill? What consistency is she monitoring while she is imposing a two week silencing period? Life does not promises such consistency why should you offer her more than life will?"
We spent a week together at his home. We never talked much, I mostly listened. I slept on his couch and we would go to the roof deck at night drinking the expensive wine and champagne that she bought for a special occasion. We drank, smoked and talked.
He begged me for my unbiased opinion of his situation. I told him that was an impossibility, as I was his brother but facts are unbiased. I pointed out all the above facts and stated that she was a little girl was having a temper tantrum because she has no idea what she wants but she wants if now and she wants you to provide it to her.
I gave him a game plan, get her back and slowly get rid of her control of their properties. She also needs to submit a pregnancy test if she does come back. If she won't come back, we will buy out her interest, then sue her for half the rent and utilities she owes you on the apartment you jointly agreed to rent.
We've spent a week together and by the end of the week, he decided to take a week off from work to go to Colombia. He's half Colombian.
His first day in Colombia, he met a girl that lived near his aunt's house. They went out together and she paid for everything, food, drink and she had a car to drive him where he needed to go. My brother was shocked. The girl told him that she would love to come to the United States but she would not make the money she is making now. She just wants to be his girlfriend while he is there.
Next month he plans to go to Greece.
#TheXYGhost
Who Would Take Your Side Over Your Girlfriend?
I have a question for everyone here:
If you and your girlfriend/wife had a fight, whose side would your parents take?
My experience has shown me that most fathers take the side of the girl whereas the mother takes the side of the man. Most outsiders (cops, judges and SJW) will only take the side of the female.
#TheXYGhost
Just Having Fun With A Personal Ad
I Answered a craigslist personal ad titled, "Buy Me A Drink" and this is how the threads read:
TheXYGhost : Do you PayPal? Bitcoin? Apple Pay?
Her : I'm not a hooker asshole
TheXYGhost : Oh, good. How many drinks should a man buy you on the first date?
Her : If the man in question is you then zero because I'm not interested
TheXYGhost : I'm not talking about me, I'm talking about your date perfection personified. How many drinks must your Prince Charming buy you before you determine that he is charming enough for you?
Do many men submit to your demands and kiss your ass? If so, you are a wimp magnet.
Her : You're being a major creep, leave me alone
TheXYGhost : I'm stupid, you are smart. I seek your knowledge. Answer the questions and I will leave. Shed some light. Additionally, if you answer my questions as honest as you can, I'll help you satisfy your alcoholic cravings at any liquor store of your choice. I'll even have a bottle or two of you favorite rum or vodka delivered to you.
Her : (Never Replied)
I'm so hurt.
#TheXYGhost
She Gets Off Scott Free for Fraud Every Single Time
Question : What is the only fraud that is not punishable by any law in the United States? You can lose ten if not hundreds of thousands of dollars over a 20 year period?
Answer : Paternity Fraud.
There is no punishment nor payback for that.
#TheXYGhost
The Delusions of a Step-Father
I just left a conversation where the man was telling me how much his step-daughter looks like him.
I'm not sure how to take this.
#TheXYGhost
Who Comes Along With A New Girlfriend?
Let's count the people in your life when you have a loving relationship with a woman.
1 - Her parents - They are always telling you that you are not doing enough to make their precious little angel happy. Which makes you think; was she so deeply depressed before you met her? Meanwhile you know what a nasty bitch she was when she was in bed with you last. Where did she learn those moves. She ain't no angel.
2 - Her big fat ugly friend - This bitch is so ugly (inside and out) you wonder what is the attraction between her and your girl. She sticks by your girl like glue because she uses your girl the way fishermen use chum. She needs your girl to attract males and you are in her way of meeting her man. She wants you out.
3 - Her other friend with a boyfriend - This one has already determined that you are an upgrade to the man she has as a placeholder. She (along with #2) will lie and manipulate your girl, convincing her that you cheated. Once you find your car all keyed up with mounds of dog shit inside, you will know it's the work of your girl getting revenge for things you never did. What you won't know is she was manipulated by these two. This girl will come to your aide but will never tell you how she started everything.
4 - Some of your guy friends - I won't call them men. They will complement your girl telling you how lucky you are to have her when in fact she is lucky to have you. Get rid of any guy that flirts with your girl.
As for me, I just don't play the game of love. Too many bosses and haters invited into my life. I work for nobody and I definitely am not responsible for another full grown person's happiness.
#TheXYGhost
Women want the right to kill their offspring, yet they want the government to restrict them from protecting themselves from rapist.
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Allow Strong Independent Women to Be Strong and Independent (Without Men)
If men were to strike from offering their free services to women for a year, women would be begging men to be with them. They need what men provide and without it, they are a mess.
Stop helping
Stop taking care of them
Stop explaining how the world works
Stop paying for their bills
Stop fixing their problems
No attitude needed; just Stop all free assistance.
That's the kind of strike that will eventually break them, because if they can't run to a man for help, and their world will eventually come tumbling down.
How can, we as a group get this message out and accelerate our collective success?If men were to strike from offering their free services to women for a year, women would be begging men to be with them. They need what men provide and without it, they are a mess.
#TheXYGhost
Do Women Want Kings or Servants?
Women say they want a strong assertive man in their lives. Just ask any woman what kind of man is her preference, a king or a servant? She will always choose a king. When it comes to reality, she wants a subservient, submissive man that jumps to serve and pay for all of her needs, wants and desires if, when and how she wants it.
#TheXYGhost
We Did As You Asked But All You Want Is More More More
Dear Women;
We held doors open for you.
We stood up and tipped our hats to you when you entered the room.
We gave you our seats in crowded buses and trains.
We gave you first priority entering a room, saying, "Ladies first".
We shared our meals with you.
We gave you our coat when it was cold.
We fought to the death for your honor.
We worked daily to be your provider.
We made sure you left a dangerous situation safely before men were allowed to leave.
You were not happy, you wanted more.
You wanted rights to own property even though there were no real restrictions for women owning property.
We made sure that was in writing.
You still were not happy, you wanted more.
You wanted the right to vote and 100 years later we have an overly large government that caters to every one of women's childish complaints.
You still were not happy, you wanted more.
You were manipulated to start smoking and you felt empowered, now you smoke while you are pregnant harming your unborn children.
You still were not happy, you wanted more.
You rejected the fact that men were working and you were not allowed to be self-sufficient. You wanted the right to work and now that you are self-sufficient, you are still looking for someone with more resources than you to be responsible for your every want need and desire.
You still were not happy, you wanted more.
You fought for the right to kill your own child claiming that the body within your body was your body and you had every right to remove it. Now 58 million children's lives were terminated calling them fetuses so it sounds better.
You still were not happy, you wanted more.
You fought for the right to go to college even though the first woman to attain a degree was in 1767 and the first all female college was established in 1837. (A school excluding women is just sexist) There are more government and private grants and scholarships earmarked for women because earmarking such grans and scholarships for men only, is just sexist. Now, more women than men have a college degree and still 73% of the work force and overwhelming majority of millionaires and billionaires are still men. Yet there are still no women financially supporting men.
Now we know, after 60 years of the feminist and the women's liberation movement, that women are never happy and they always want more.
#TheXYGhost
The Hard Core Truth About How Women Expose Their Kids to Strange Men
Question : When is it legal for a full grown man to touch your underaged naked daughter in the bathtub?
Answer : When your wife divorces you and marries another man.
#TheXYGhost
Who is a MAN?
A man is the most beautiful part of God's creation.
He sacrifices his dreams for just a smile on his parents' face.
He spends his entire pocket money on buying gifts for the lady he loves, just to see her smiling.
He sacrifices his full youth for his wife & children by working late at night without any complaint.
He builds their future by taking loans from banks & repaying them for his entire lifetime.
He struggles a lot & still has to bear scolding from his mother, wife and boss.
His life ends up only by compromising for others' happiness.
If he goes out, he's careless.
If he stays at home, he's a lazy.
If he scolds his children, he's a monster.
If he doesn't scold them, he's an irresponsible guy.
If he stops wife from working, then he's an insecure guy.
If he doesn't stop wife from working, then he's somebody who lives on wife's earnings.
If he listens to mom, he's mama's boy.
If he listens to his wife, he's wife's slave.
If he does not play he's too serious, stern and stiff.
If he plays, he's a joker who never Matures.
If he dresses well, he's extravagant and possible womanizer. If he doesn't dress well, he's a loser who's not a gentleman.
If he helps his wife, he's taken for granted as a fool. If he doesn't help his wife, he's cruel and wicked.
Respect every male in your life. You will never know what he has sacrificed for you.
Worth sending to every man to make him smile & every woman to make her realize his worth!
Remember, June is Father Appreciation Month.
#TheXYGhost
Again With The Wage Gap Myth
We all know the feminist's myth that women make 77¢ to a man's $1 and that's because women wont do the hard and dangerous job that men do. Women will never be mechanics, plumbers, electricians, painters, dry-wall installers, carpenters, roofers, truck drivers, miners, etc. There are jobs out there that women do, that pay far more than any man in the same line of work. The highest paid female fashion model can easily go to the $10's of millions while it tops out at $377 million for one female while the top male model made $1.5 million.
What line of work do women get paid more than men, doing the same job?
1 - Models
2 - Pornography
3 - Strippers
4 - Waitresses / Bartenders
5 - Childcare
6 - Nursing
7 - Real Estate Sales
8 - Spouse
9 - Doctor
10 - Social Worker
#TheXYGhost
You Choose; Slavery or Freedom
When a man partners with a woman he immediately becomes a second class citizen never to be believed. He is her provider, breadwinner and her personal ATM machine. Once she is satisfied with her partner, she will give up on her responsibilities and place them on his shoulder. He becomes her workhorse only to be shot to death when the time comes when he breaks a leg. The only thing she does is shops around for his replacement, an upgrade.
If his partner lies and tells the world he hit her or cheated on her, the world goes to her defense as if she could never lie. She is too cute to lie. He is punished. His child is taken away and the woman gets all the attention she wanted while the world rescues her from the big bad abusive man.
If a man finds out this is the case over and over again with the women he partners with, he is at fault for picking her and not knowing what the future holds for that woman.
If he chooses not to partner with women in the future, he is labeled a faggot or a loser and the world starts to shame him relentlessly.
#TheXYGhost
She Wants You to Commit to Her…
She will use all the weapons in her arsenal to get you to commit to her. Shaming, pressure, make demands, manipulate, getting her friends, family and in some cases she will get her own kids to help her. But commitment is only one direction, you commit to her and she will never commit to you.
#TheXYGhost
No Matter How Much She Has, She Expects You To Have More
When I was 26 I met this 38 year old woman that I dated. I later found out that she had a net worth of $41 million. My first thoughts were this could last, she likes me, I like her, we made a good couple. There should have been no money issues since she made her own and I made my own.
As it turned out, she had the problem that I could never afford the vacations that she is used to. Needless to say, she ended it.
#TheXYGhost
One Up On PUA’s
I really do not care what any PickUp Artist has to say. The best way to get a girl to take notice is never taking notice of her great looks and compliment her with words like, “Gorgeous” and “Beautiful”. That is just kissing her ass and showing how submissive you are to her. You need to take a scrutinizing look at her call her on any imperfections you see right away.
#TheXYGhost
I’m Worth It
TheXYGhost : Today’s women love criminals, substance abusers, minors and submissive simps. The forbidden fruit.
Girl : You don’t know what you are talking about. Not All Women Are Like That. There are plenty of women looking for the good guy, you just have to find them.
TheXYGhost : Why should I actively search for them if they are looking themselves?
Girl : You need to meet them half way.
TheXYGhost : If they initiate a conversation, I’ll answer.
Girl : No, you need to make the first move.
TheXYGhost : Why?
Girl : Girls like when a guy makes the first move.
TheXYGhost : Not All Women Are Like That. If they are looking, they will find me.
Girl : You are impossible
TheXYGhost : I’m worth it.
#TheXYGhost
Girlfriends For A 75 Year Old Man
Just walked out of my apartment building today and began a conversation with a man that moved in with his then girlfriend back in 1963. They were married and had no kids. He told me that since his wife’s passing 6 years ago, he has visited 15 countries in 5 years. He is 75 years old and has had 3 girlfriends since his wife’s passing. All three of his girlfriends were under 34 years old.
Do you really think that the average woman can get 30 year old boyfriends in their mid 70’s? You have it good my friend. You are a man, be proud of that fact. You create, invent, improve, build, repair, provide and protect.
#TheXYGhost
3 Musts If You Are Getting Married
If you are stupid enough to marry a broad (bird if you are from the UK and Sheila if you an Ausi), remember this;
1-Prenup
2-Postnup
and…
3-Amendments on every anniversary
#TheXYGhost
The Many People You Need To Contend With When You Have A Girlfriend
When you are in a relationship with a woman, there are too many people you need to contend with.
Your girlfriend secretly wants your best friend
One of your friends wants your girlfriend.
Your girlfriend has a “guy friend” that’s her “Plan B” who she puts in the “Friend Zone” but you need to accept that from her but she will never accept the fact that you have lunch with a female coworker from time to time.
There is a guy at her job that she also secretly likes and another guy at work that likes her and she tells you about him.
Her fat and ugly single “best friend” hates you because you took her dependency away from her. You see, that ugly broad can’t attract any guy on her own so she uses your girlfriend’s attraction to get noticed. Your girlfriend likes that fat blob because she feels better looking in contrast.
One of her friends really likes you over the man she pretends to love. This girl and the fat one are constantly trying to break up you and your girlfriend. They both stand to gain.
There is the guy that your girlfriend leads on so she can manipulate you into fighting for her. That would really turn her on.
And they always seem to say, “Not All Women Are Like That”
#TheXYGhost
False Accusations
How many here were falsly accused of rape or domestic abuse? I’m not talking about a full arrest, trial and conviction or acquittal, just the accusation is good enough for this question. For me it was 4 times.
Once right after sex, this girl that I had sex with often told me afterwards that I raped her. (I was 19 and she was in her 20’s
Another time a girl I knew (I only known her first name before this incident) told all of my friends that I broke in her apartment and raped her.
Another girl accused me of raping her when she got mad at me for telling her I didn’t know where our relationship is going? We only knew each other about a month at that point.
My ex-wife even told me, one week before she served me divorce papers, that I raped her the first time we ever had sex. (Yeah right! Then she married me)
I had a few girlfriends, growing up that told me that their stepfather was continually raping them. All those accusations were false.
#TheXYGhost
Feminist Hypocrisy
Why is it that the very same women that say that women can do anything a man can, also say that the best business decision that a woman can make is marrying the right man?
One woman told me the latter and I told her, “Why are you out with me? Go find yourself a Bill Gates, Jeff Bezos or a Mark Zuckerberg.”
Do you mean to tell me that even after 60 years of feminism, women still think they can’t earn enough to make a difference?
#TheXYGhost
They Are All Over The Place
I always thought it was only the girls of my neighborhood then only the girls in school. Then I thought it was only Manhattan, then it took a while and thought it was only in NYC. Later on I thought it was only in America. Went to Europe, dated Asians from the mother-continent, then South America. Went to church and it totally confirmed that women are lazy, leaches, tics, blood suckers and vultures. They think they all deserve better and want you to work your ass off to meet their highly imaginative sense of what they are entitled to. Their dependency on you is extreme and like a parasite she will take all she can until she finds another host to latch on so she can finish off her last host.
#TheXYGhost