Thursday, July 31, 2025

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She will chase females from her male friend. Men and women can’t be friends.

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Women perceive the world through their feelings. They will do what feels good to them at that time.

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You Are Not The Father!

30 years and more than 5,000 episodes of the Maury Show and the phrase "You are not the father" hasn't told you anything yet?

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Did Snow White do anything for those 7 little working men when she found her prince?

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Wednesday, July 30, 2025

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She will base her male friends of the money they have.

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Make no mistake, women select men. If you don’t believe me, tell a hot girl she’s your girlfriend and see how fast she laughs.

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Why I Am TheXYGhost

I've been deliberately single for 23 years now and in that time I had many women come to me implying they will leave their husbands to be with me. I had many more women (single moms divorcees etc) approach me and I push them all aside. Even at age 59 I was approached by this old 50-something bank manager who gave me her business card.

I'm not saying I'm the object of all female desire, I'm fat, bald, ugly and I'm nearly blind. I do admit, I have a big personality. I stay away from broads altogether.

I was married and 23 years ago my wife moved out and divorced me taking $250k out of the bank. She racked up $50k in credit card debt furnishing her new boyfriend's apartment. 4 lawyer friends told me that there was not much I could do and that contesting the divorce might get worse with false accusations etc.

American women hate men. They will say that they love men but they want to love as many as they can as they take those men's resources.

Ask any woman, "How many successful relationships have you been in?" And if her answer is more than one then you know that she is looking for yet another successful one. A successful relationship, to her, is when she takes, for herself, a profit. I tell those women, "I wish you many more successful relationships"

When a girl tells me that they like older men, I reply by saying, "There are many older men out there for you to choose. The world is your oyster.."

This is why I'm The XY Ghost (The Invisible Man)

Google my name. TheXYGhost

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Her: Your father lost a job. I'm leaving him. I'll find you a new father that may have had his kids taken away from him. Sweet dreams.

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Tuesday, July 29, 2025

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She is plotting to sabotage his marrage, to secure him for herself. Men and women can't be friends.

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Women would rather see their sons single or gay, providing for mamma.

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New First date Rules For Her

Non-virgins need to split the bill

Divorces need to pay the whole bill

Single moms need to pay for the whole date and a Rolex for each child he needs to take care of.

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Love : A temporary loss of income equals a permanent loss of a full time father for her kids. Now she's looking for a felon step-dad to change the kid's diapers.

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Monday, July 28, 2025

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She will be disrespctful to those she feels she outranks.

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Women never love, they feel and all they want are good feelings no matter what it takes to get those feelings.

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Why I DO What I Do

I'm 60 years old, when I was 7 my babysitter gave me my first oral. When I was 14 and 15 I had affairs with 3 of my high school teachers. My first girlfriend left me for a 20 year old drug addict that I saw lying in the streets strung out 20 years later. I had 3 girlfriends that were pregnant but tests prove I was not the father. I had 2 of my ex's that had abortions behind my back. Although I was never formally charged, I had 3 girls that accused me of gRAPE. They spread rumors around the circle of people with whom I surrounded myself. Two of those girls I never even touched, the third one I have never had sex.

Two weeks before my wife served me my divorce papers, she blurted out, "the first time we had sex, you raped me". Did she mean to say that I raped her, and then she married me?

In my teens and into my twenties, I had a few girlfriends confide in me that their step dad was constantly molesting them. (And you want to marry a single mother). Female classmates in college and in high school told me similar stories. I never knew why those girls never reported this to the police. I later found out that young girls have gRAPE fantasies about their step-fathers. Sometimes these young girls blurt out their fantasies to invoke or manipulate a "rescue me" response from a boy with whom she's talking. (And you STILL want to marry a single mother)

I've dated movie starlets and had 3 women in my life that were singers. (2 well known at the time and 1 not so well known.) I was married in my late 30's and when she divorced me, stole $310,000 from my accounts. After my divorce 23 married women in my neighborhood started approaching me suggesting they will leave their man for me. 10 of those women had kids. One of those women divorced her husband, and when the divorce was final, she started coming around again. One time she sent her 12-year-old daughter to tell me, "you're my mommy's boyfriend." I'm not about to break up a family. When I showed my disinterest, they went to their husbands and told them I was hitting on them. In my teens I had 4 girlfriends of single mothers and their mom (3 of them) made advances towards me. When I turned them down, they told their daughter to leave me. One of the girl's I dated, her aunt hit on me and left it alone after that.

I've had several girlfriends in the past. When their best friend hit on me and I refused, they told my girlfriend that I hit on them. One of my girlfriends' best friends convinced my girlfriend to break up with me. When she did, that girl came up to me and asked if I could "give her a try".

I've dated a woman that had a net worth of $41 million back in the 1980's, she left me for a 55 year old man that was worth much more. He ended up dumping her a few months later and she begged me to come back to her.

My 61 year old sister had 3 kids from 3 different men and married and divorced 2 of them. From the age of 16, all of her boyfriends and husbands were alcoholic, drug addicts and violent criminals. Mind you that growing up, her and I were never surrounded by any drugs or alcohol.

My life has been a series of temporary hookups based on financial worth. I've watched my childhood friends, my classmates, coworkers and neighbors in the same storm. No love, just temporary conquest until something better comes along. I have only wanted one girlfriend, I'm ashamed that I've had so many.

I've been single for 22 years and even last month a 50+ year old female bank manager came over to my side of the bar to give me her business card. I am not a drinker of spirits but I have a coffee every afternoon at the bar of a nice restaurant near me. She overheard that I was single while I was talking to the bartender. She said, "I overheard that you are single. We are both in the same boat". The bartender was shocked when she saw this. She thought I was lying about my dating past. The only thing that was going through my mind when she handed me her card was, "we are not in the same boat, we are in the same storm"

I'm 60 years old, bald, ugly, fat and going blind. I'm not saying that I'm this "hot" commodity that every girl desires, I'm saying I know the modern feminist influenced woman so well, I can even predict with almost 60% accuracy, what they will say next and how they lie.

When I tell women my story, they almost always say one of the following.

"Not ALL women are like that!" "You hate women." "Who hurt you?" "You just pick the wrong women." "Where do you find these women?"

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Women used to have shame and chase homewreckers away. Now they are homewrecking their own families without a shred of shame.

TheXYGhost : You look 30 to a blind man.

Sunday, July 27, 2025

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She wants the power to reject him for her own ego and validation. 

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No woman is good enough for her son. She wants her Son to be her provider only.

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A Man Has Way More Love in His Heart Than Any Woman Has Ever Had

A man will die to save his family A man will die to save friends A man will die to save a stranger A man will die for the betterment of society

And I'm not even talking about war.

How many men in Japan went on a suicide mission to clean up the reactors in Fukushima

How many men went to work cleaning up Chernobyl knowing they would die?

How many firemen run into a burning building to save strangers?

How many women risk their lives to do anything? They just stand outside a burning building screaming, "Somebody save my baby"

A man I once knew had a burnt face because as a baby his mother ran out of a burning house and left him as a 5 year old in the same room she ran from.

I cringe when I hear women say they don't need a man. I just wish men would go on a 1 week strike every year and do absolutely nothing. No work, TV nor buying, etc.

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I identify as a midget aboriginal gay man trapped in a Swedish lesbian's body. Now am I allowed to hit a woman?

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Saturday, July 26, 2025

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She’s there for all your wins but finds a new man when you lose.

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Women teach their boys to be feminine and to be momma’s personal provider.

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If Women Claim They Can Multitask, Then Why...

Women are incapable of juggling a career and a relationship at the same time, yet they say that they can multitask. Men have juggled their families and careers for meliniae.

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My next date with a hot woman will be paid for by that woman.

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Friday, July 25, 2025

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She’s 57 years old, 320 lbs. and she’s still waiting for the 6 foot tall millionaire to find her, pursue her and sweep her off her feet.

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Women will teach their sons and daughters to fear and hate their fathers.

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Her Self-Control Is Only for Her Employer

I dated a Director of Marketing for a large international cosmetics company, where she had worked for 12 years.

We spent weekends together, and from time to time, she experienced what she called a "panic attack." Whenever this happened, I did my best to calm her down, asking what I could do to help and taking steps to alleviate her condition.

Over the course of eight months, she had six such episodes. Determined to help, I read books and consulted professionals to better understand her condition.

One day, I asked her how often she experienced these attacks at work, hoping to identify possible triggers. She told me, quite directly, that she had never had these episodes at work.

At that moment, I realized these "attacks" were likely contrived and deliberately staged, perhaps as a way to manipulate me for attention.

I saw an opportunity to exit this toxic situation. I told her, "Maybe I'm the trigger that causes these episodes."

Hearing this, she knew I was about to leave her, and almost immediately, another attack began. Seeing this unfold, I told her, "This confirms I'm no good for you," and I left her apartment.

When I arrived home, there was a message on my answering machine. Her friend informed me that the police had been called and that she had been admitted to Bellevue Hospital for observation.

The same friend called again, trying to convince me to return and help her. I replied, "What are you doing to help her?"

That was the last time I ever heard from her.

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She wants an Alpha that services her every want, need and desire, when, where and how she wants for fear she may leave him.

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Thursday, July 24, 2025

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She listens to relationship advice from a woman that had 4 divorces and still is not married.

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With all the things I know about women, it took me 60 years to find out that there is no reason to be friends with the opposite sex.

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A woman will never;

1. Approach you. 2. Introduce herself to you. 3. Make the first move. 4. Open up with a "line". 5. Ask for a number. 6. Make the first call. 7. Suggest a date. 8. Set up a first date. 9. Initiate the first date. 10. Pick you up. 11. Hold open a door for you. 12. Buy you a gift. 13. Drive to the date. 14. Initiate conversations. 15. Maintain conversation. 16. Make you laugh. 17. Make you happy. 18. Pay for the date. 19. Drive you home. 20. Initiate the first kiss. 21. Initiate any communication after the first date. 22. Help you out. 23. Risk her life for you. 24. Protect you with her life. 25. Commit to you. 26. Buy you an engagement ring. 27. Get on one knee and propose marriage. 28. Pay for a wedding. 29. Buy you a house. 30. Buy you a car. 31. Buy you a wedding ring. 32. Initiate sex. 33. Perform better than your last 20 partners. 34. Work hard to support your expensive taste. 35. Work 2 and 3 jobs to support you.

But if you fail, in her eyes, any of the above things she will never do for you, she will initiate a new boyfriend (at that point she won't consider that cheating) initiate a divorce, take your home, kids, pension, 401 K, stock portfolio and force you to pay alimony, child support and the mortgage for the house she is living with your replacement as he tucks your kids in bed every night.

If you think she wronged you, remember this, you picked her, therefore you should have known that she was planning this for you. It's all your fault. You must have done something wrong, because she never is wrong.

In fact, she will initiate nothing with you except the divorce.

And you wonder why men are not begging to do that all over again.

Do you think that this has been done this way to break up families, confuse children and emasculate men and destroy their power?

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Women complain that men aren't Chivalrous. They also complain when men say they don't act like ladies.

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Wednesday, July 23, 2025

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When you marry her, she gets to spend your money. When she divorces you, she gets to take it all.

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While her husband of 37 years was admitted to the hospital, she went out to look for his replacement.

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Why Men Cheat vs. Why Women Cheat

Men cheat because, as the saying goes, there is one food that, when consumed, depletes a woman's sexual appetite by 99.99%: wedding cake.

Women cheat because they find a provider who supports them in every way. They often interpret "support" as an unconditional vow to stand by them no matter what they do. Once they have a supporter and provider, they may feel that this provider fails to deliver happiness, excitement, and drama—so they seek to create it themselves.

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Women, stop training your sons to be girls and I won't train you to be a lady.

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Tuesday, July 22, 2025

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If she only wants money, point her to an ATM, and walk away.

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Never let a woman know that she is worthless to you. She may retaliate one day in the future.

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Private Support Group For Men Only Females are not allowed!

What happens here stays here!

Free Speech Spoken here!

TheXYGhost = The Missing Man

MGTOW = Men Going Their Own Way MGHOW = Men Going His Own Way

Men Going Their Own Way means men who choose their own lifestyle. Whether it is by being a PUA's (Pick Up Artists), MRA's (Mens' Rights Activists), MRM's (Men's Rights Movement), one of the various stages of MGTOW, or a man maintaining his own family, we are here to help in any way we can.

Men excel at finding solutions to problems and implementing help. This is why we helped women in our past only to receive the proverbial kick in the groin in return. Please use this group to ask questions of all the men here for any reason you see fit. Questions on your personal life, business, financial, car, whatever. We are men, and unlike women we invent, fix, improve and help others.

We are men becoming ghosts in the family. Men are being ejected from the families by Delilahs that are supported by the Philistines of our times (Police, Family Courts, Social Justice Warriors, etc.) These modern day Philistines are willing to do whatever Delilah demands.

We realize that women hate men and for the most part, we are OK with that. We do not hate women in return, we will leave you to your devices and go our own way.

When audiences of women all over the country, time and time again over the past 20 years give Lorena Bobbitt standing ovations for sexually mutilating an unarmed man in his sleep as an act of revenge, we know it's hatred in their hearts. Women like man hating lesbian Gloria Steinem glorifies abortion to the tune of 58 million unborn children since 1972 (Row vs Wade) Donna Hylton who spends 27 years in prison for beating, torturing, raping and killing a 62 year old man, speaks for women's rights.

This is Not "The He-Man Woman Haters Club" But We Don't Want Any Women.

"As iron sharpens iron, one man sharpens an other" Proverbs 27:17

Est. July 22, 2016

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Monday, July 21, 2025

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She can't admit she's wrong when she's been told all her life that she's perfect.

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Women get excited when they manipulate a man to cry, hurt or get angry.

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Proof That Men Are Sexy at Any Age

As sexy as 45 year old Tina Turner was back in the mid 1980's, no man in their 20's and 30's has ever drooled over her.

Sean Connery in his 60's had girls in their 20's, 30's and beyond who found him sexy.

I once talked to a 50 year old woman who said that when she was 16 she that 45 year old Ed Asner, who played Lou Grant on the 1970's TV show, The Mary Tyler Moore Show. Ed Asner was a short, frumpy, bald man. That woman said that she was turned on whenever Lou Grant yelled out for Mary

Can you imagine a 16 year old girl being attracted to a 45 year old, bald, short man. It happens.

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When she says she can do better, she means she can find a richer man that will provide for her.

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Sunday, July 20, 2025

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After having multiple children with multiple men and aborting the fetuses of many average-earning men, she feels entitled to and deserving of a millionaire's resources to support her and all her kids.

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A woman wants a perfect man to fix her broken life.

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Who Is Making Her Feel Safe Now?

Her: All I want is someone to make me feel safe.

TheXYGhost: Have you ever been safe in your life?

What or who has ever made you feel safe?

Will feeling safe mean you actually are safe?

What's threatening you at the moment?

Are you paranoid?

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Happy wife, Happy life.

Nothing in the world makes her happy.

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Saturday, July 19, 2025

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She doesn't want a husband, or a marriage, she's does not want to be a wife. She wants a wedding, kids and a man's money. And you wonder why divorce is so prevalent.

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What hurts her the most is when she leaves you and you’re OK with it.

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He Worked for 25 Years So She Can Save Her Money

After 25 years of marriage, she divorced him and had saved enough money to buy a house all in cash. He had to pay alimony because she made less than him.

There is "Our Money" and there is "My Money". She lived off her provider.

Don't be a provider!

Providers are servants.

Be a king and get treated well.

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He overfills his kids plates so he can eat their leftovers. His wife drugged him before.

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Friday, July 18, 2025

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She may really love you but she will still marry a man with more money.

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What the hell is emotional intelligence anyway?

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Dating Tip

Before you ask a girl on a date, ask her if she would go on a date with a man she does not like. If she says, "Yes", Don't ask her.

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He told me that his wife was more of a problem than his 4 daughters.

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Thursday, July 17, 2025

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Her : Why do men not understand hints?

TheXYGhost : I'm not Batman and you are not the Riddler. You can talk normal like a real woman.

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She asked GOD to find her a good man. She found one and divorced her husband and moved her kids to another man's house.

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Men Are Just Intimidated by a Strong, Independent Woman Like Me

Men are not intimidated by women like you. That's a euphemism women like to use to manipulate others and themselves to feel superior to men. Men don't care about your success, you judge men by the power you think you have over him. You think you are superior to men that you out earn. They just walk away from you due to how you treat them. Then you pat yourself on the back by saying that men are intimidated by you.

#TheXYGhost

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Why do you think I'm gay when I'm single? Were you gay when you were single?

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Wednesday, July 16, 2025

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Men know how to have a good time, but women know how to have a expensive time.

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She will embarrass you in public as one of her tests. No matter what you do, you fail in her eyes.

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Detecting Emotional Thinking in Guys and Females

How to detect emotional thinking;

1) They constantly change the subject or they add non-relevant subjects to the conversation especially when they disagree with you..

2) They tend to speak incredibly fast, once triggered.

3) They constantly interrupt you in conversations once a trigger word or phrase is mentioned.

4) They have an accusatory tone. (In their mind they hear a statement then they manipulate it to the most negative version of that statement then they accuse that person for their own interpretation of that statement)

5) They constantly protect their provider (the government) or collective. Children and women protect their providers. When a woman protects the government over her husband, she is looking to divorce that husband soon.

When someone speaks bad about President Obama, The emotional thinking will say, "You hate him because he's black" When someone speaks out about what their ex-wife did to them, the emotional thinking will say, "You hate all women." (Both of the above are examples of 4 and 5)

6) They consistently use the phrase, "I feel...". Like, "I feel that you are not telling the truth." or "I feel that he is a jerk".

7) They justify their actions by manipulating facts or statistics

These are traits of children and women. Men need to transform from a child's emotional thinking to thinking logical. Young boys raised by single mothers never grow to become logical men.

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She is always looking for ways to prove you love her. Switch it up and see what happens.

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Tuesday, July 15, 2025

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There are not enough wealthy men in the world today for the multitude of women that feel they are deserving of one.

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She will tell you that her man is immature but it's not true. She treats him like a child.

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