What She Does With an Alpha and Beta Males

Today’s woman is no longer bound by the traditions she calls oppressive. She has complete freedom to choose her own path in relationships, and she uses that freedom to serve her own advantage. She may be drawn to the Alpha male for his strength and presence, but she will settle for the Beta male when she needs temporary shelter, a steady paycheck, and protection she did not earn. Her goal is not love or loyalty, her goal is stability on her terms, for as long as it benefits her. She will remain until she finds a man with more resources, more status, or more opportunities, and that man becomes the father of her children.

When she is with an Alpha male, she will test him. She will push, provoke, and create conflict. She will mistreat him just to see how much he will take before he pushes back. Over time, the manipulation becomes second nature, so ingrained that even she cannot tell if she is testing him or simply acting on habit. The drama is constant, a calculated way to measure his tolerance. If he refuses to accept it and walks away, she will put all the blame on him. “He didn’t know how to handle me,” she will say, as if she is a storm that must be mastered. In her mind, she is never at fault.

When she burns the Alpha bridge, she returns to a Beta male. She treats him less like a partner and more like a servant. He provides, he protects, he caters to her demands. She rewards him with contempt. She resents his kindness, sees his loyalty as weakness, and quietly despises him for bending to her. That resentment festers until she cheats, and when she is caught, she blames him for letting it happen.

Her definition of Alpha or Beta is not based on reality, it is based on her emotions in the moment. If she is pleased, he is Alpha. If she is displeased, he is Beta. Her judgments are unstable because her emotions are unstable, and a man’s worth in her eyes can shift in a single day. This is why her praise means nothing and her criticism even less, both are just echoes of her mood, not reflections of the truth.