A woman’s primary concern is her personal security. Everything else is secondary. From birth she is wired for it. This is not insecurity in the way men experience it, it is deeper, more primal, and it never stops. She is always looking for an external source to make her feel safe. A man, on the other hand, knows at his core that he must conquer his own insecurities or they will conquer him.
Some women measure security in money. They seek out men with resources because it is the easiest, laziest way to feel safe. Others measure security by dominance over the man himself. They choose weaker men because it makes them feel strong by comparison. They want to look down and know they are in control.
It is the same tactic as the attractive woman who keeps a fat and unattractive friend. Standing next to her, she appears even more beautiful. The ugly friend benefits because she is not competing for the same men, and she gets access to the attention and leftovers she would never have on her own. Both of these women, despite their alliance, will quietly sabotage each other’s relationships to keep their own security intact.
This is the hidden economy of female relationships. It is not built on loyalty, it is built on strategy. It is not about friendship, it is about positioning. And in the end, security is not something they create for themselves, it is something they take from others.
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