Why I Choose MGTOW

They say MGTOW men are just losers who can't get a woman.

As for me, I could get plenty. The problem was surviving them.

I had a girlfriend who got pregnant. I thought the child was mine. I slowed down my college, took two jobs, bought everything a baby would need. When the baby was born, both parents were white, but the child was black. She blamed me for "not being there for her." I walked away, telling myself, "Not all girls are like that," and moved on.

The next girlfriend got pregnant early despite my caution. She was six months pregnant when I had only known her for five. Back then there were no DNA tests. A blood test at birth proved I wasn't the father. She blamed me for "not being able to control her." I moved on.

The third time, I chose carefully. She got pregnant. The timeline fit. Then I got a call from another man saying I was interfering with "his girl." We met for coffee. She had been playing us both. I paid $1,800 for a DNA test that proved I wasn't the father. She blamed me for her cheating. I moved on.

The fourth time, I got sued for child support by a woman I had never touched. She put my name on her kid's birth certificate. The state of New York came after me. The case fell apart when it turned out I was just the second fake father she had listed. I moved on.

One day I ran into an ex. She called only to tell me she aborted my baby because I "wasn't making enough money." She tried to put that guilt on me. I moved on.

By then I kept women at arm's length. Pump and dump. No addresses, no job details. Even so, one woman told her friends I raped her. Another did the same. Both were lying.

I had girlfriends who told me their stepfathers had been sleeping with them since they were teens. I had girlfriends' mothers and aunts try to sleep with me. When I refused, they convinced their daughters to dump me. I had girlfriends who lied about being pregnant. Two were married and "forgot" to mention it. One told me she had herpes like it was a joke.

I finally got married. Her family was good. I thought this was it. Weeks after the wedding, she told me she couldn't have children. I accepted it. Three weeks before Christmas, just before our third anniversary, she left for her new boyfriend. A week before leaving, she claimed the first time we had sex, I raped her. She married me after that, but still blamed me.

When I packed her things, I found birth control pills hidden in her closet. A year later, she had a baby with the man she left me for. She stole $250,000 from me and racked up $80,000 in debt under my name. Lawyers told me there was nothing I could do.

That was 19 years ago. I'm 55 now. I spent 22 years chasing women and 19 years living without one. I would never trade the life I have now to go back to that hell.

Since my divorce, 15 women have proposed marriage to me. I said no to every one of them. When they ask why, I tell them these stories. They all say the same things:

1. "You picked the wrong women."

2. "Not all girls are like that."

I used to believe that. I don't anymore.