Women Complain That They Have a Hard Life
From the American Revolution to the present-day wars, men have died for our collective freedoms at a ratio of 1000 men for every 1 woman when the ratio between men and women in the military are 5000 men for every woman. When those ratios change to about 1 to 1, I'll look at women differently.
What Girls Want
So, you are looking for a man that will kill or is willing to be killed to protect you?
Women hate men to the point that they refuse to have them in their child’s life. These women have children for the purpose of the child loving the mother. They place the burden of the child to love them and they do not want the child to love another. That is also the reason that women choose to divorce the father when the child starts to prefer the dad over the mom. Dads play with their children. Dads wrestle and make their child laugh, a feat that no mom has ever done.
Women hate men. They are taught that by media, movies and commercials. This is part of the reason why there is a overwhelming amount of single mothers in this country. 80% of divorces are initiated by women.
Women have hatred in their hearts for men because men could never live up to the ever increasing standards they impose on men.
Women want a king and make him her servant. If he falls in line as a servant, she hates that he dose what he is told. If he refuses to be her servant, he is labeled, “mean” and “abusive” the way a child calls it’s parents mean for not letting them eat candy all day.
A woman is a child protected by the state. They look for a person to provide for them the way a child wants the parents to provide.
They take provider to mean that a man is to provide for her every want, need and desire whether they are real or imaginary. “I’m not happy” turns into “Provide me happiness on a silver platter, when, where and how I want it.”
Her: What kind of work do you do?
TheXYGhost : Would you date a man that works at McDonald’s?
Her: No!
TheXYGhost : Not even the CEO of McDonald’s, Inc.?
Her: Well, that’s a different story.
TheXYGhost : I am a French Fry chef at a McDonald’s now go and find your Prince Charming elsewhere. I’m not interested in broke people looking for money.
Every man admires a Ferrari, but no man wants a Ferrari with 600,000 miles on the odometer no matter how shiny it looks.
I’m talking to you Mrs. I’m-50-years-old-but-I-look-30.
I guess you can call me a feminist. I want to see men and women treated the same. Equally. I want to see more men getting sole custody and child support payments. I want to see more female mechanics, firemen, sanitation workers, construction workers, painters, plasterers, dry wall installers, plumbers, roofers, electricians, gardeners, pilots, maintenance workers, janitors, truck drivers, taxi drivers, bus drivers, train conductors, fork lift operators, coal minors, oil riggers, etc.
Let’s show support for woman risking their lives to support their husbands and families with hard work.
OMG, I wrote this on October 6th, 2013 and I would post it on any dating site that someone insisted that I join.
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I sometimes wonder what people look for on a site like this. I have been happily divorced for about 13 years. Whenever somebody is not satisfied with my current state of zen, they usually tell me to find myself a girl with whom I can settle. When they tell me of a new website to join, I join it.
When women divorce men, the general consensus is that the man must have done somthing wrong for the woman to have left. When a man divorces a woman, he is looked at as evil. Never is a woman wrong.
This was true even of my divorce. When I told people that my wife left me, they usually asked me what did I do to make her leave. When I tell people that she cleaned out my bank accounts and maxed out my credit cards to furnish her new apartment that she moved in right away with her new boyfriend, they tell me its my fault for trusting her. When I tell people that she lied to me about not being able to have children, and finding birth control pills hidden in the house after she left, they say its my fault too for not searching the home for something hidden. When I tell people that my ex-wife lied, cheated, deceived and stole from me the reply is simple for the simple minded, its my fault for picking her.
It is the current mindset that it is never a woman’s fault. When was the last time you heard of a woman that had to leave the house and the kids to the man that worked so hard to pay for the house and all of the kids care. Never. In fact, quite the opposite happens. The woman is awarded the custody of the children, the house and weekly payments awarded to the kids that the woman uses for her own needs. Just to add a insult to a injury, a man in that position, would have to pay the mortgage and the upkeep of a house while the woman that backstabbed the father of her children got the home.
When you say that women only want money, you will be attacked by women, telling you otherwise.
When I told a woman that I only attract the craziest women and that last year I received 6 marriage proposals. Her reply was quick. “You must be very rich.” Mind you she never said that I was kind or very caring, she said that the only reason that women proposed marriage to me is because I maybe rich.
I went on a date with one girl that told me the best business decision a woman can make is marrying the right man. Immediately asked for the check and paid the bill and left. I parted with the following words of advice. There are millionaires and billionaires in america, start with the billionaires and move your way to the millionaires when the billionaires do not like you.
I am so sick of these single moms in my neighborhood asking me to do something for them around the house only to find out its their way of flirting with me. I hate it even more when they ask their kids if they would like it if I were their new father.
They divorced the father of their kids because the man was less than perfect. Funny, that is why my ex-wife left me. I guess I am less than perfect as well.
Women seem to hold their single parenthood like a badge of honor. I look at it this way; since 80% of the divorces are filed by women, and 90% of all divorces are for financial reasons. It is safe to say that she most likely filed the divorce papers on the most important man in her children’s life for her perception of money problems.
My grandfather once told me; “Never complain about my efforts unless you can do better”. My guess is that the women complaining about their mans efforts to earn a living can do better. Why don’t they just do a better job?
When I was over a friends place, his mother, a very sweet lady, asked me if I was interested in a nice single woman. My friend interrupted his mother, because he knew my opinion. Later on I found out that this woman wanted me to be introduced to a woman that had 5 children from 5 different men. I really can’t see myself in that situation. Like I really want to change my lifestyle to feed and clothe 5 children that are not mine and juggle visitation schedules with men I have never met. Not me.
Women seem to hate it when a man saves pictures of their ex-girlfriends. But living in a household with another man’s children, you see the children every day and see the woman’s ex-(fill in the blank) every other weekend for visitation.
My neighbor tried to tell me about her niece that was available. I wanted to hear more. After asking my neighbor a few choice questions, I found out the following; Her niece was married and divorced 2 times with 2 children. The second child was from a man whom she had an affair while married to number one. The reason for her first divorce. The second divorced came after lucky number two found out that both of her kids were not from her first husband.
One final question before I finish. Have you ever heard of a man (without a home of his own) marry a woman with a home of her own. Have kids, then the man files for divorce then is awarded the home, the custody of the children and child support from the woman?
Now I can tell my friend that I joined this site that he recommended. Mission accomplished.
Did you even read the whole thing?
What is with some of you women? Did you really put a picture of you and your child on a dating site? Really? Did you ask them what they thought about it?
1. Don’t make him responsible for your every want, need and desire.
2. Don’t expect him to be your doctor, lawyer, psychiatrist and handyman all in one.
3. Don’t go looking for his faults every second of the day. You have faults too.
4. You can take him out too.
5. The solutions to all your problems are not in another man when you find an imperfection in him.
6. Stop testing him, he is not a lab rat and you are not a scientist.
7. Treating him like he is your provider is dehumanizing. Strive to be equal partners.
8. Just because it is easy for you to cheat, does not mean that every text and picture on his phone is a cheating partner of his.
9. You can’t change him from what he is to what you want. Change will come for you and him if you just sit back and enjoy.
10. Stop complaining. If something is not the way you want it, take the initiative.
11. The saying “The grass is greener on the other side”, is a warning not a roadmap.
12. Know when enough is enough and when to stop. This goes for nagging, whining, crying, complaining and threatening to leave.
13. Do you really think that taking away his kids and living with a new guy that had his kids taken away is going to be less problems for you?
14. Threatening to leave him if he doesn’t want to marry you only proves to him how little you love him and how inflated your ego is.
15. Nobody can make anyone happy.
16. He cannot read your mind.
17. Stop hinting. It is not the most efficient means of communication.
18. If you ask a question and he answers it directly, don’t be sad that he didn’t figure out what you really meant.
19. If you like “Bad Boys” it’s your fault that he he is in your life. Bad means bad.
20. Just because you hint at him, doesn’t mean that you need to look deeper than his answer.
21. Manipulation is done via deceit. That is lying.
22. Having a “Plan B” is cheating.
23. Your best relationship is your first one, it’s all downhill from there.
24. Treat him the way you want to be treated.
TheXYGhost
To a woman, a good man is defined as a walking ATM machine that will pay for anything and everything she wants, needs and desires. They want an instant Prince Charming while they look down at the little working men. (Snow White Syndrome). Or they hide in the woods waiting for Prince Charming to kiss her and change her life. (Sleeping Beauty Syndrome). They don’t want to look but they want to be found.
In the 1930’s my grandfather came to America waving the American flag. He kissed the ground of his new homeland. He worked hard and studied to become an American citizen. He married an American woman and had two kids, my mother and my uncle.
When WWII broke out by grandfather volunteered to join the US Army. He left his wife and children behind to do his part for his adopted country.
By herself, my 8th grade educated grandmother took a few jobs as a maid and supported her family. There was no Food Stamps, there was no Welfare, no WIC, no housing projects or Section 8 housing.
For 2 years this went on, no telephones, a few letters as my grandfather never knew enough English to write a letter.
My grandmother held on to her family. She didn’t complain that she didn’t have enough attention from her husband. She never once complained that she didn’t have a $10,000 Gucci purse.
Today, we see migrants entering this country illegally, with hatred and distain in their hearts for the country of which they want to be a part. They burn our flag and wave the banner of the country they are fleeing. They demand welfare and housing from the government they despise.
The women of today praises the government to break up their family, demand free and subsidized housing, food and medication while financially destroying the most important man in their child’s life. They switch their dependency from a man to the government and the shout out that it’s not enough and they are empowered and independent.
When I tell this to today’s woman they dismiss all I have said with the phrase, “That was then.”
Do you think that today’s woman can do what my grandmother and other women did during a time of crisis? They will leave on the first sign of trouble to switch his child’s father at a drop of a hat. Yet the women of today claim their independence and shout to the world how empowered they are.
If she hits you, you must have done something wrong, she hit you for a reason.
If you hit her back, you are wrong as you should never hit a woman.
If you divorce her, you did the wrong thing
If she divorces you, she did it for a reason, you were bad.
If she divorces you, takes your children away and takes you through the family court system for all your money, house, alimony and child support, then you really did her wrong.
If she accuses you of rape, domestic violence or sexual harassment, you must be a bad man why would she lie about something like that.
If she cries, “inequality”, the world cries for and with her. When you cry foul, you get told to, “Man up” as if you are a crying whining boy.
According to the US Justice Department, every single crime has a false allegation rate of about 1 – 2% except for rape, domestic violence, sexual harassment and child abuse. Those have an up to 30% false allegation rate.
Face it, you are a bad man always.
She tells everyone that she left you because you were abusive.
Now you found a new one that tells you that her ex was abusive and her ex said that she is crazy.
Wash, Rinse, Repeat
Solution: MGTOW
There was this article sent to me back in 2009.
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I read it and thought it was weak. Then I looked at the author and found out a woman wrote this. So I decided to write my own article. I started writing it back then, but for some reason, I had to stop. This week, 8 years later, I finished my version of the article, finishing items #1 & #2 just now.
Top 10: Cruel Things Women Do to Men and How to Avoid Them.
10: They Don’t Pick Up The Phone.
Girls relinquish their responsibilities when it comes to the initiation of relationships. They feel any action on their part is an act of desperation. Lets face it, when was the last time a girl took you out, asked for your contact information or even bought you a drink to get to know you? Even after the courtship is over and the wedding ring has been on for many years, girls will still complain that their husbands will not take them out as if they had no ability to go out on their own or even set up something for the man they claim to love. Some girls feel that returning a call is too much work putting towards the relationship start up. Barring the fact that you are some notable, wealthy individual, she will never initiate a conversation with you let alone ask you for your number. Although girls require men to take the initiative in the courtship process, they will label unwanted men desperate for taking the same action they expect from a man they desire. Girls have a much stronger need to be in a relationship than men because their principle need for security. A man around to protect her, is a major step up to her security needs. Chances are that her grandmother, in the 1960’s, burned her bra and raised her fists in solidarity along with Gloria Steinem, Jane Fonda and Billy Jean King to prove they are equal to men. There is no equality. Men are men and women are women and they will never be equal. With that in mind, If you happen to get a phone number from a girl, and that number happens to be real, treat all women equally. When you do call and get to the point of leaving a voice mail, leave only one message and one message only. At the end of that message, in a nice way, state that if she doesn’t call back that it was good meeting her. After that call, never call her again! If you do call her again, she will then know that she means more to you than you mean to her. She may even label you a “Puppy dog” if you call a third and fourth time. Either case, it’s a bad place to be if she thinks you need her more. You never ever give away a valuable prize cheaply. If she wants to earn the type of security that a man is capable of giving, she has to earn that prize. A man has the innate ability of sacrificing his own life to protect others. A long time ago, I was told that if you ask more than once, you are begging. Don’t beg for the chance of giving away a million dollar prize that is innate in you.
9: They Use Men for Free Drinks, Dinners and Nights Out.
This has been true always. Girls do this and you need to understand that. Girls use men to pay for this petty vice more blatantly than ever before. Some girls deliberately leave their homes without any cash in their pockets as insurance that they will not buy their own drinks. Never put yourself in the position that you have to buy a girl something she has yet to earn. Do not be her personal automatic teller machine. Do not be her sucker. Girls hate suckers yet they are great in making men their sucker for a day. Don’t prove to her how big of a sucker you can be. You are not so desperate for a conversation that you have to pay someone to listen to you. In a bar situation, only approach girls with a drink in their hand when you have a drink in yours. If she finishes her drink quickly in order for you to pay for another one, ask her, “Is that the cost of talking to you?”, and walk away. She may slap you, but read on how to deal with that. Maybe it would be better to just walk away without saying a word. I usually leave with this quote; “Now I see why you are a magnet to wimpy and desperate boys”. My line of thought is that someone desperate for conversation will pay for someone to listen to them.
8. They Use Men As Placeholders
A placeholder needs to be explained. Since a girl’s first priority is her self security, she needs a man around her until she finds, “the right one for her”. Put simply, a placeholder is a man that she is with until she finds the man she wants. Girls usually do not leave their man until they have someone to go to. In some cases, that go to place is their parents’ place. You can avoid being a placeholder by making sure that she earns the abilities you possess that she needs. Show that you are not tolerant of nonsense. Even though she wrongly earmarks you for a placeholder, she will eventually see that she has to earn you as a prize and then she will respect you. More about that coming up.
7: They Emotionally Manipulate Men
This is as straight forward as I can get without a prescription; Immune yourself from the most powerful weapon a woman has against you. Superman has his Kryptonite but unlike Superman, you can remove this deadly, weapon from your life. Crying is emotional blackmail and girls can cry on command as easy as your uncle could fart on command when he told you as a child, “Pull my finger”. Girls get a lot of mileage from crying and they use it whenever and however they can against you. Unless your girl is physically hurt and injured, ignore all tears and get to the point at hand or excuse yourself away from her as fast as possible until the tears are gone. When she sees that you are not putting up with her nonsense, you win. Crying and other emotional tactics in her arsenal are a way that she regresses her behavior to resemble a helpless child. If a child gave you that look, pouted and cried, you are still going to say no to more candy.
6: They Use Violence
Men know that physical violence is the last resort of any confrontation. Girls on the other hand have never experienced the physical ramifications of their violent attack. Men wont hit back. Being a woman does not give you special rights to assault anyone whenever you want without repercussions. Men are told never to hit women under any circumstances but what is a man to do if his child is being attacked by a crazed woman? If you are hit by a girl that you know, stop everything and make a really big deal about her hitting you. Do not hit back but make it a really big deal and verbally reprimand her for doing that. There is no excuse for hitting and you have to show her that you are not playing games in this serious matter. Raise your voice and keep focused on the fact that she hit you and you are not taking it laying down. When a girlfriend of mine hit me a second time, I told her right then and there it was over. There is no excuse for hitting unless she is being attacked.
5: The Criticize Men in Public
This is one of the things girls do best. If you are in a public argument with a girl you date, she will air out all of your most intimate secrets not related to the argument without any warning. She will attempt to make you feel as small and insecure as she possibly can. What she doesn’t know is how she is showing all within earshot that she can’t keep secrets and she can’t be trusted. Let her know that she is no longer trustworthy and treat her as such. I would just walk away as if she didn’t exist. Girls hate that you will not give them any attention.
4: They Don’t Disclose Their Relationship Status
There are two reasons that a girl will not disclose their relationship status; One, its non of your business and she just enjoys the conversation. If she accepts drinks from you and still does not disclose her status, that is a problem but you now know, after reading this article, that you are not so desperate for someone to listen to you that you have to pay someone in drinks at a bar. The second reason is that they are playing the “available” card in the hopes that you are interested then you buy them a drink. Refer to item #9. The real problem resides when a girl that easily tells everyone she meets that she is attached, everyone except you. Is she lying to others to get rid of them or is she telling the truth and not revealing the truth to you? Does she have a placeholder that she labels a boyfriend to ward off unwanted men at her command and earmarks you as her next upgrade? This is a judgement call you have to make. A girl that will upgrade her placeholder to you, will replace you too.
3: They Withhold Sex To Make A Point.
There is only one word for someone who uses sex for a personal gain. Take it from there. There is nothing much you can do when you are financially obligated to her in the form of a marriage. If you get some for elsewhere, that is grounds for her to take everything you own. There are other ways to discourage a wife’s behavior. Since she married you, she found something valuable about you, take that away from her. Two can play at that game. Take credit cards, jewelry, cars, whatever you bought her in the past. If your girlfriend does this to you, then you can take a walk and not tell her anything when you return. Let her imagination get the best of her.
2: They Test Men
Women will test men on a constant and never ending bases until you put a stop to it right away. Tests come into play in a variety of different ways.
A – She accuses you of something so that you can be on the defensive as you explain to her what she will not take time to figure on her own. She will accuse you of not loving her, loving someone other than her, lying, cheating, etc. If you get one or more of these on a daily bases, you simply say, “If you think that I don’t love you, then you must be doing something wrong, and now you must leave. Women hate when their man is defensive. To her it looks like you fear her.
B – She will flirt or talk about another man as if you should be jealous of this guy. Again, let her know that if she pointed out that you are not good enough, tell her to find a perfect man and leave you.
C – They start petty arguments to see how you deal with conflict. Again, kill cancer before it kills you.
Women can conjure up tests on the fly without rhyme or reason. Their feeble tests and outcomes are not scientific in nature and you are not a lab rat to be tested by an immature amateur scientist.
1: They Flirt To Inspire Jealousy
If there is one emotion that women obsess over all others is the one of jealousy. From my days in grade school, middle school, high school, college and into my 50’s, the talks that women cackle to their gaggle of friends is of jealousy. They speak of jealousy as if jealousy from a man equates to love when, in fact, they hate when they are jealous.
For decades I have listened to women as they have professed how they want to “make him jealous” but I never heard them saying how much they want to make a man feel loved, comfortable, happy or proud. Jealousy is the feeling woman prefer to invoke their men overall.
Jealousy is nothing but insecurity, anger and frustration and a woman loves when she has the power to invoke such emotions from the man she so calls the one she loves. She will manipulate this emotion out of a man as if that man is her personal play toy. She will flirt and talk about other men until she gets what she wants. Like all things in this article, cut it off before it grows and consumes you. When you see her working overtime to force you to have the emotion, she demands of you, dismiss her and tell her it’s over.
Remember, never ever threaten or hit anyone that hasn’t hit you first, especially not a woman, but always let the girl know that you are prepared to go to jail over her foolishness.
I am a 53 year old man that was divorced in 2000 and considered myself luckier than most men in my position.
There is this one very important issue about false rape allegations that I can’t get to the younger men quick enough.
I was a product of a “broken home” when my father went on his way and left my mother with two kids, my sister (age 5) and I (age 4). This is when the abuse began. In retrospect I saw that my mother manipulated men to do her will, this abuse from her was the reason my father left. It would be now harder for her with 2 kids in tow so we were in her way and she had to get rid of us. The beatings were severe to the point that a broomstick was broken over my back at age 5.
Side note: When I tell females about my mother breaking a broomstick over my back, the female collective responds every time that I must have been a very bad kid to be hit with a broomstick. I would stop and ask what would a 5 year old child have to do for you to break a broomstick over their back.
By age 7 or so, I remember a morning news show warned of a rapist in the area. My mother slapped me hard and told me, “If you ever rape a woman I will disown you.” Her instruction to my sister was to scream “Rape” if she was in trouble with a man in the future.
Imagine, I do not even know the word “rape” and she is warning me against committing such a violent act. One day we were all sitting down to watch our favorite show, “Star Trek” (1968). In this one episode, “Shore Leave”, a female member of the landing party was raped then it was revealed that the planet they landed on was fulfilling all of their fantasies. I questioned my mother asking why was the girl beaten and the others were given their fantasy. My mother told me that that woman wanted to be raped by Don Juan as my mother giggled. Now I was confused.
A number of months or maybe years went by when my mother was called into jury duty. Her case was an admitted prostitute claiming to be raped by some man, I remember my mother’s talk on the phone with her friends stating that she did not believe the woman because she claimed that the man ripped her jeans and that jeans were not easily ripped from someone’s body.
As I got older, about 16 – 17 years old, I remember having an very heated argument with my mother. When I was winning my argument on a logical level, I could see that my mother was getting more and more frustrated to the point she yelled, “Rape! Rape! Rape!”, from the living room of our project apartment. I wasted no time to run out and not come back for a few days. Hell, I even spent the summer night in Central Park, in NYC.
As I was about 19 years old one of my friends called me to inform me that a girl, of who I had common friends, was spreading rumors that I broke into her apartment and raped her. My female friends, who never knew where I lived, were angry at me without even investigating the allegations. I left that group of friends as fast as I could.
In my early 20’s I discovered myself further and enjoyed meeting new girls and fucking them and they seem to like it too. I kept things going until one morning when I woke up to the girl I came home with looking at me in shock, as she told me that I raped her. When the night before was purely consensual. I kept a very strict policy of never telling anyone where I lived. I escaped with the skin of my teeth.
Over the years I have dated many girls that told me stories of a rapist attacking them. I can remember up to 5 girls of my past tell me that their step father molested them for many years. What surprised me in how they all mentioned their rape so casually and then they never called police. Yet these same girls that gave a pass for a violent criminal that raped them, would not forgive a person that said something that pissed them off.
I finally got married in my mid 30’s, and after 3 years of marriage, my wife told me one day out of the blue that the first time we had sex, that I raped her. “Where the hell did that come from?”, I thought to myself. Did she mean to say that I raped her then she married me? A week later, she presented me my divorce papers when she was working on for months before while being lovey dovey with me.
False rape allegations do exist and they are very serious. I have escaped 2 and experienced even more than my personal experience.
By the way, 7 years ago I reunited with my 80 year old father and we enjoy each others company, we even text each other on a regular basis.
P. S. I showed this letter to one of my friends and they told me that he never came across any girl that did any of that. Then he quickly remembered a time when he was driving in NYC in a brand new sports car waiting for the light to change green. A woman opened his door and sat in the car and told him, “If you don’t give me some money, I will scream, ‘Rape!!'” When he finished that story he recalled a time when his sister warned a boy on the phone that if he didn’t stop calling her, she will call the police and claimed that he raped her.
Husbands and Wives Calling Private Investigators
When it comes to the point where a spouse feels the need to call a private investigator, both husbands and wives call for different reasons and get different reactions.
The wife would call the investigator to find dirt on her husband and will be pissed off if there is none.
The husband will hire a PI to see if there is any infidelity on the wife's part. He will be devastated if there is and relieved if there is not.
And they say men and women are equal.
The Jealousy of Women Is Insane
From time-to-time previous girlfriends of mine found their way to my photo album, back in the day when photos were paper and displayed in a book. Nowadays pictures are stored on phones). They would question every photo I had with another female, even if I wasn't in the photo with them. Back in those days my hobby was photography and I had many photos. I would sometimes find certain photos of girls missing as they would take and destroy them and deny they ever did. I remember one time a girlfriend took a look at a group of pictures of my first cousin that was in a beauty pageant. She made sure she looked at my facial expressions when she asked me who that was in the picture in the hope of catching me in a lie. Those pictures were gone one day, maybe while I was asleep. It was then I found out how deep a woman's jealousy really is. They are jealous to the point where they will not tolerate an image, thought or the spoken word of another girl in Her Majesty's Holy presence.
I hear the same thing in modern times when a girl sneaks a peek at her boyfriend's phone as he enters his password or conveniently asks for his password for his phone when she tells him her phone's battery died. This is all to gain access to your photos for her scrutiny.
When a woman learns that you are working in an office with another woman, they will go nuts even if they do not show it right away. She may tell you to quit that job and find another, and if you say "no" she will find a way to swing on the monkey branch again to find your replacement. But before she leaves you, she will make sure you pay for her jealousy by breaking something of yours.
It seems so hypocritical that the same woman will think nothing about pushing her kids (a living, breathing existence of her former lover) on you to accept unconditionally with the promise that you will have to see the man's face in the child and the man himself every other weekend when he comes for his scheduled visitation. You will be labeled a cheater if you ever talked to your ex while you are with her but you are to tolerate her talking to the father of her kids.
Who is Laughing Now?
In the mid 1990's a psychiatrist friend of mine called me a misogynist for pointing out how violent women are. He also pointed out that I was the problem in searching out women like the ones I have been involved with. In addition, he told me that I sought out men that were like me that had the same attraction to problematic women. He no longer wanted to be my friend and told mutual friends of ours a whole host of lies about me from telling people that I beat my wife to, I told him to buy stocks that went under to me hitting on his hideous live-in woman he refused to marry. Yet he was the one, I found out after the fact that was hitting on my wife when I was married. He even told friends that I wrote a bad review on his book when Amazon.com only sold books. He said that I needed medication for my neurotic ideas. Then he terminated our friendship right there.
Fuck You George Viddler
The Principles of Seduction: How to Get Another Person to Fall in Love With You by G. Clayton Viddler
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There is this song, by the 1950’s R & B group called The Coasters, called “Get An Ugly Girl to Marry You”.
(Partial Lyrics below)
I asked a girl what did the song mean, and she told me that beautiful women are trouble and they tend to cheat. I then asked her if she was a cheater or is she ugly. She was in shock as she froze and had no clue how to answer.
If you want to be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So for my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you
A pretty woman makes her husband look small
And very often causes his downfall
As soon as he married her and then she starts
To do the things that will break his heart
But if you make an ugly woman your wife
Ah you’ll be happy for the rest of your life
An ugly woman cooks meals on time
She’ll always give you peace of mind
Don’t let your friends say you have no taste
Go ahead and marry anyway
Though her face is ugly, her eyes don’t match
Take it from me, she’s a better catch
Say man! Hey baby!
I saw your wife the other day!
Yeah? Yeah, an’ she’s ugly!
Yeah, she’s ugly, but she sure can cook, baby!
Yeah, alright!
If you want to be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So for my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you.
A girl that I once dated when I was 16 years old found me on Facebook some 35 years later. We met up and had dinner. She told me that her two kids that she had with an alcoholic, drug addicted thug she married in high school were doing fine. She also wanted to know if I was married. When I told her I was divorced, she was unhappy to find out I would never marry again. She tried to encourage me saying that I can correct the errors I made in that marriage to make my next marriage better.
It’s always a man’s fault.
First off this telegram that you mentioned was from a man that loved his wife dearly. She was probably his first love. Which means his wife must have stayed with him through thick and thin. She stayed with him and allowed love to develop. She didn’t go to the next guy because he didn’t have a better car or a better paying income as seen in todays’s modern “independent” woman that is always on the lookout for a higher earning guy. Love does not happen instantly as today’s modern woman demands. She wants instant love and instant security in the form of status and earnings while she pesters him for the “commitment”. The woman in this telegram earned his love with kindness and care.
Her Royal Highness Dr. Wendy Osefo PhD (https://ift.tt/3EytXuV) has all the sheepskin she could muster from student loans but has no idea that she is a little whining baby that demands way too much. She said that women evolved and men have to “Rise to the occasion to meet where we are”. Which means, “Rise to my ever increasing level, the level that is based on my ever increasing, overinflated sense of her self, misperceived worth”.
Today’s woman wants a man to buy her gifts, pay her way, wine, dine and entertain her under the understanding that if you don’t, she will divorce you and take it all. She wants you to spend, spend, spend on her all the while she is saving her money for the jerk she will love over you. She knows way too well that a man’s innate abilities are to help and provide for his woman, except she thinks that is every man’s job.
I wonder if she would tell her sons to rise to the levels of their girlfriends? Good luck.
By the way, holding a door open is not exclusively for men holding doors for women only. Holding a door open is, what used to be called, “politeness” and it means that the first one to the door holds it for the next. Men hold the door open for women and for men all the time and that is a sign of self respect and honor. Make no mistake, many times women will go through a door with no regard for anyone behind her, man or women.
To all those not understanding why so many men and women are against the Gillette ad.
This is not just about the one ad. It is a combination of a strategically targeted attacks against men and boys in general. Here is a list of ONLY Australian events.
A Australian wide, government funded, feminist led DV awareness campaign targeting only male perpetrators.
Petitioning of men’s awareness films such as The Red Pill to shut down screenings and threats of violence made if failure to comply.
Push from feminist groups to rename fathers day ‘special persons day’.
Airline policy not allowing unsupervised children to sit next to men.
Duluth model of DV – only men can be perpetrators.
National campaign to end “violence against women”.
Women standing up for male issues being targeted by feminists.
Women being name called by feminists for acknowledging male issues. Terms such as “internalized misogyny” are used. Implying the women that supports men’s issues are trying to appeal sexually to men.
Women being labeled “gender traitors” for wanting to discuss men and women’s issues.
Minister for women. No minister for men.
Julia Gillard and women’s groups continuing to try to removed shared parenting laws.
The ludicrous idea of male privilege.
Lisa Wilkinson on The Project openly being able to say “Men are the problem”, without repercussion.
Advertising displaying men as the “dumb” dads.
Cafe’s having a “men’s” tax to offset an imaginary gender wage gap.
Australian Army male recruiting ban in 2017.
Women’s pink parking in shopping centers.
Feminists commentators being able to make statements of “kill all men”, and “I bathe in male tears”, whilst a male will loose his job for commenting on a woman’s dress.
Female only superannuation top up, paid for by men.
Men in universities having to take consent tests.
The fortnight gamer, who was attacked repeatedly by his partner (who has a history of violence) being painted as the abuser.
Men’s rights march to raise awareness into male suicide and family court issues being counter protested (by feminists) and misrepresented in the media.
Men being abused in social media ever raising male issues online.
Consistent fabricated statements to stifle discussion on male issues. Such as “derailing”, “mansplaining” etc etc.
#whataboutary – only applies to men.
Man spreading!
Mansplaining!
Boys having to compete with genitalia, regardless of merit due to gender quotas.
Zero discussions into male workplace deaths.
Men’s sheds being petitioned to be gender inclusive whilst female only gyms being protected.
Barbers being charged with discrimination on the grounds of gender.
Men being attacked and shamed for using “parents” rooms.
Fathers discrimination in family court.
Sunrise, studio 10 and numerous other media outlets consistently releasing segments about women having it harder. Do you think men need to do this? Should men do that?
Next to zero discussion into male suicide.
No services for male domestic violence victims. And no discussion in regards to it.
Zero male victims of DV funding.
No discussions into male health issues and 10% of the funding.
No media discussions on international men’s day.
Discrimination awareness training in the workplace, focusing solely on women.
Gender wage gap, ignoring men on average work longer hours.
Consistent discussions on toxic masculinity, without discussing the inherent issues within femininity.
Politicians being able to call all men “morons and pigs”, without ANY repercussions despite that same politician hypocritically going through a sexual discrimination case.
Domestic violence campaigns such as White Ribbon being able to go around to our schools telling boys to stand up in front of the class and swore an oath to the girls, however the opposite is not reciprocated. This gives the boys the idea that they are inherently dangerous because they are boys.
Boys failing in school and university with nil discussions into how to resolve this.
Male victims of DV (Such as the John Howard saga) being misrepresented as the perpetrator.
This continues every single day and Australia is tired of it.
If we cannot bring girls and boys up together, equally, and address each others faults, then we with further divide our country and create more tension.
This feminist attack is dangerous and toxic.
Consistent subtle attacks then being gas lighted telling us we are imagining it.
When I was 16 years old I had a heated argument with my mom, I brushed past her to get away from her rage and she called the cops on me. She claimed that I beat her. With the help of my sister, by the next day all the kids in the neighborhood knew that I beat my mom.
When my sister and my mom fought and busted up the house, the television and all the dishes until those two were on the floor pulling each others hair while punching each other violently in the face repeatedly. When I got home to see this, my sister ran out. My mom cried about how confused my sister was. She felt sorry for my sister that beat her.
Not a word was said to the kids in my neighborhood.
Men have this unbelievably unique ability to ignore everything and anything to fully concentrate all of his focus on one thing and one thing only until the job is done. This is evident when men watch the game of their choice and ignore everything anyone says or does until the commercial comes on.
Men also have the ability to self sacrifice for the good of their teammates. “Take one for the team”, tragically, we see evidence of this during WWI and WWII, when men jumped on a live grenade to save members of his team.
Women constantly think anything an everything is connected to each other.
How they look is dependent on how others perceive her looks.
How they feel is dependent on how she looks
How successful she is depends on how she feels.
Furthermore, after 60 years of the feminist movement they still believe the best business decision they can make is to marry the right man. Dependency yet again.
Every time I read a story about why women cheat it almost always surrounds her dependencies on others. You can hear it clearly when she accuses, “He didn’t make me happy”, “He made me upset”, “He made me feel unwanted”, “He made me cry”, and so on. Then you can hear it again when she says, “He makes me feel good”, “He makes me feel confident”, “He makes me laugh”, “He makes me smile”.
There always is an outside dependency for her.
Women, just like children need constant and never ending attention when, where and how they want. When a child does not get what they want, a tantrum ensues, and the fully grown woman will throw her tantrum too. You can discipline a child with some harsh words and a punishment. But the adult female is more immune to those tactics and well above the law to hit you. She knows damn well you won’t hit her and is proud of that. She will never learn right from wrong when she can manipulate and command a group of nearby servant males to come to her aid anytime she wants, whether she is right or wrong. Police, judges and bystanders will come to her aid in no time at all. She feels vindicated because people running to her aid is proof that she is in the right.
A child needs toys and will not care where the money comes from as long as they get the toy that they will end up discarding in only a few days. The woman wants more expensive toys and will never work to get them. Her provider needs to get that.
The wedding day gives her all the attention they want on the silver platter they’ve desired. She is the center of attention. All eyes on her. Now, once you marry her, you need to, single handedly give her all the attention of the many that gave her before you got married.
But you can’t stop there. If you do not give her all she desires, she has another attention grabber up her sleeve.
Divorce gives a woman everything she missed out on that day you married and much more. She gets to be viewed as a victim of a very bad man. She is sure that man is bad because she sees every single imperfection in him, but she will never see the imperfections in herself. She gets police, judges and lawyers to defeat the bad man. She gets to temporarily feel that she is in control and empowered for getting other to serve her to destroy that bad man. She uses kids to get to see that man come back and beg for her, but he is only there to see his children. She has manipulated so many for so long that she manipulated herself to think that the man still wants her. She gets weekly payments for being married and to support his kids. But that money is going straight to her. His children is an ancillary thought in her mind.
Flip the Script on Her
Have you ever noticed when you ask a girl her name, her first instinctual response is, "I have a boyfriend"?
After that, you are on the defensive trying to explain yourself. Not a pretty sight.
Well, I was talking to this female bartender today, when she asked me the inevitable question, "What sort of work do you do?"
I looked at her and said, "Sorry, I'm not looking for a girlfriend."
The look of surprise on her face was priceless. Now she was on the defensive. Now she was backpedaling trying to explain herself. What a sight to see. You should try it yourself one day.
Not ALL Women Are Like That
If you talk about women, in front of women about how great they ALL are, not one woman will stop you. If you state that ALL women are beautiful, strong and intelligent, they will nod their heads in unison. If you state that ALL men are pigs, weak, cheaters and deadbeats, the women will not raise a voice to object.
BUT
If you state the fact that 80% of women are home wrecking their own family by initiating a divorce or breakup because they found a flaw in that man, you will watch the women jump out of hibernation and say these words.
"Not ALL women are like that!"
"You hate women."
"Who hurt you?"
"You just pick the wrong women."
"Where do you find these women?"
In an instant, the woman defends "The Female Collective" unceasingly at all costs to herself and others.
43% of boys are raised by single moms.
78% of teachers are female.
50% of boys have 100%!female influence and 80% female influence at school.
Toxic Masculinity is not the problem.
The lack of masculinity is.
Women partner with those who will elevate their status; either by association or by contrast.
Elevating by association:
Most women of a certain strength reject men they perceive are weaker than they are.
If a woman is rich, she rejects men she perceives are less financially successful than she is.
If a woman has a college degree, she rejects men with no degree.
If a woman has 2 college degrees, she rejects men with less than two degrees.
If a woman is tall, she rejects men that are shorter than her.
A female bodybuilder will reject all men that are not at her level.
A woman with a 140 IQ will reject men with lower IQ than herself.
Women hate lesser men than herself. She will kick a man out of her life once she sees that she can overtake that man.
Whatever a woman thinks is her strength, she rejects men that are lesser than her strength.
In short, if a poor woman marries a billionaire, she becomes a billionaire by association.
Mind you, perception is the key here. If a man is smarter than a woman who perceives herself smarter, she will leave.
Elevating by contrast:
Imagine, if you will, all of the above scenarios with the woman deliberately picking men that were less than they were. When she does, she will hold those strengths over that man’s head every chance she gets. This is also why she partners with the gangster, thug, criminal, substance abuser, ex-convict, gambler, sweet talker, liar, cheater, woman beater, jerk, married men, con artist, lazy idiot, and abuser. They love the bad boy that is weaker than a man.
The problem is women. Women are the ones that pick men and women are the first to divorce them.
