The woman that you loved and married changed into an unrecognizable woman that you divorced.
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TheXYGhost
Saturday, June 28, 2025
The Quintessential Feminist Woman of the Modern Age
My sister is the quintessential feminist woman of the modern age. She had 3 children from 3 different men divorcing them all while claiming that all the fathers were substance abusers. All of her boyfriends had some sort of drug addiction. From, cocaine, crack, alcohol and pills. She lived in government housing while renting out one room at market value. She collected welfare and child support payments from 3 men while she had under the books jobs. She instructs her female peers with ways to use the courts to collect as much as she thinks they can get.
Now that her kids have grown up, she bought herself a nice vacation home on the waterfront while maintaining her apartment in the projects. Where did she get the money?
Now that her kids have grown up, she bought herself a nice vacation home on the waterfront while maintaining her apartment in the projects. Where did she get the money?
TheXYGhost 249
Women will do whatever it takes to get a man's earnings for her very own. In the process, she will gladly destroy him if she is successful or or not.
TheXYGhost
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Friday, June 27, 2025
TheXYGhost III 179
She has a list of 750 requirements you must meet before she’ll allow you to become her servant and spend significant money on her and the children she had with a drug addict.
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TheXYGhost II 179
She knew he wanted a family, but she secretly took birth control pills and blamed him for not getting pregnant. Meanwhile, she was searching for a better man while he supported her.
TheXYGhost
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I've Changed My Ways Because I Kept Hearing the Same Old Story Over and Over and Over Again
By the time I was in my mid 20's I started becoming tired of meeting women with their stories of cheating, abusive and substance abusive boyfriends while I was seeing in my life and the lives of my friends that their girlfriends and wives were cheating and leaving with claims of "Not Enough!"
Not enough attention
Not enough love
Not enough quality time
Not enough sex
Not enough money
When I persistently made the mistake of dating these women, (all women think their last boyfriends were abusive, so I was left with no real choice) I found myself in the same boat I was not doing enough as they sought out their next partner under the umbrella of protection and provisions, I supplied them.
But they were never at fault for cheating. Even in the eyes of other woman, I was the fault for picking them or not providing them enough and they were not even about to say that those women were at fault for seeking another man.
My solution: I do not pick any longer. Buy me gifts, shower me with attention, provide for me and I will tell you it's not enough.
Not enough attention
Not enough love
Not enough quality time
Not enough sex
Not enough money
When I persistently made the mistake of dating these women, (all women think their last boyfriends were abusive, so I was left with no real choice) I found myself in the same boat I was not doing enough as they sought out their next partner under the umbrella of protection and provisions, I supplied them.
But they were never at fault for cheating. Even in the eyes of other woman, I was the fault for picking them or not providing them enough and they were not even about to say that those women were at fault for seeking another man.
My solution: I do not pick any longer. Buy me gifts, shower me with attention, provide for me and I will tell you it's not enough.
TheXYGhost 248
Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez, NYC spends $28,000 per child per year K-12. How is that free or fair to tax payers? Princeton is $27,500.
TheXYGhost
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Thursday, June 26, 2025
TheXYGhost II 178
She does not want a husband, kids and a family but she will sleep with multiple men per month as she charges by the hour
TheXYGhost
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He Knocked Out His Ex-Wife's New Boyfriend For Slapping His Daughter
The arrogance of some guys that proclaim that they are a better father than the man the woman kicked out. Who will be better for that man's child once he is kicked out for being imperfect?
I once witnessed a pissed off woman drive into a loading dock where her ex worked. She stormed out of her car leaving the child in the back seat and her new guy in the front. She walked over to the man and started yelling, screaming and hitting him. He was totally un-phased.
He was suing this woman for full custody because his daughter told him that mommy's boyfriend slapped her for saying something.
A minute or two went by and the boyfriend in the front seat got the courage to step out of the car to join in, the child followed and was upset at her mom and dad fighting. The daughter ran to her dad and her dad picked her up. By this time the mom backed off and that's when the boyfriend chimed in with his two cents.
The man, with his daughter in his arm, looked astonished.
In a loud voice that drowned out the sounds of the truck engines, he said, "Who the FUCK are you?"
Not caring for an answer, he turned to his daughter and said, "Is this the man that hit you?"
The girl nodded and with one punch he knocked the boyfriend out. Then he turned to his daughter and said, "I bet you he won't hit you any more."
The cops were called and the boyfriend regained consciousness. The boyfriend wanted to press charges but the man stated to the cops that the incident is all on camera and he will press charges on his ex if any charges are to be pressed. Then he told the cops why he hit the boyfriend, and the cops began telling the boyfriend, "Are you stupid? Hitting another man's kid?"
The boyfriend started to explain his actions to the cops telling them he was only just reprimanding the girl.
The cop looked at the boyfriend and told him, "I don't care! You do not hit anyone's kid! You understand?"
Like I said earlier, The arrogance of some guys that proclaim that they are a better father.
I once witnessed a pissed off woman drive into a loading dock where her ex worked. She stormed out of her car leaving the child in the back seat and her new guy in the front. She walked over to the man and started yelling, screaming and hitting him. He was totally un-phased.
He was suing this woman for full custody because his daughter told him that mommy's boyfriend slapped her for saying something.
A minute or two went by and the boyfriend in the front seat got the courage to step out of the car to join in, the child followed and was upset at her mom and dad fighting. The daughter ran to her dad and her dad picked her up. By this time the mom backed off and that's when the boyfriend chimed in with his two cents.
The man, with his daughter in his arm, looked astonished.
In a loud voice that drowned out the sounds of the truck engines, he said, "Who the FUCK are you?"
Not caring for an answer, he turned to his daughter and said, "Is this the man that hit you?"
The girl nodded and with one punch he knocked the boyfriend out. Then he turned to his daughter and said, "I bet you he won't hit you any more."
The cops were called and the boyfriend regained consciousness. The boyfriend wanted to press charges but the man stated to the cops that the incident is all on camera and he will press charges on his ex if any charges are to be pressed. Then he told the cops why he hit the boyfriend, and the cops began telling the boyfriend, "Are you stupid? Hitting another man's kid?"
The boyfriend started to explain his actions to the cops telling them he was only just reprimanding the girl.
The cop looked at the boyfriend and told him, "I don't care! You do not hit anyone's kid! You understand?"
Like I said earlier, The arrogance of some guys that proclaim that they are a better father.
Wednesday, June 25, 2025
TheXYGhost III 177
Your son has a stepfather while his father is a stepfather to another man's children. One day soon, your grandchildren will have a stepfather while your son raises another man's children.
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TheXYGhost II 177
The step-dad got his step-daughter pregnant. The mother chose him over her daughter's real dad.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
A Great Video Idea For You to Try
Here is an interesting question you should ask a female then post her reaction on video. If you do, add the hashtag #TheXYGhost
Here is the question:
Should a 25 year old go to prison for having sex with a 13 year old?
When the dust settles, ask, how many years should that woman be locked up?
Watch the look on her face.
Here is the question:
Should a 25 year old go to prison for having sex with a 13 year old?
When the dust settles, ask, how many years should that woman be locked up?
Watch the look on her face.
Tuesday, June 24, 2025
TheXYGhost III 176
She will renounce feminism once she is ordered to pay child support or alimony.
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TheXYGhost II 176
She had a child that was not her husband's. 8 years later DNA revealed the truth and she said it was an accident and it was only once.
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The Pride She Has in Homewrecking Herself
I've ran into so many women in my life that have this sense of pride when they talk about their divorce or breakup. They almost always make it a point to hammer in the fact that they broke it off with their partner and not the other way around. They will continue on by saying that they do not want their partner back but their partner wants her back. From Middle School to High School to College to your neighborhood, your work place and beyond, they are all full of pride breaking up with some man.
I was talking to this girl about her ex-husband and in the middle of the story, I asked her why she divorced him, as it is almost always the case where the woman breaks up with the man. I could not believe my ears when she thanked me for noticing that she was the one that divorced him and not the other way around.
I was talking to this girl about her ex-husband and in the middle of the story, I asked her why she divorced him, as it is almost always the case where the woman breaks up with the man. I could not believe my ears when she thanked me for noticing that she was the one that divorced him and not the other way around.
Monday, June 23, 2025
They Never Initiate Anything, Therefore They Have No Responsibility
In a chat session between a man and a girl, it seems that if you do not send them a question to answer, the conversation is over. It's almost like they don't know what to say or do after that. Are they waiting for another question to answer or are they just not interested? It never ceases to amaze me about how often this happens. Do women not know how to communicate or are they just lazy?
They, also never take the opportunity to initiate a conversation. Be it a phone call, email or text. In the rare cases that they do initiate a conversation, it's only to say, "Hi" and they wait for you to say something. If you reply only with a, "Hi" Back, most likely that's the end of the conversation.
Even back in the day when there was no internet, a girl would sit by the phone waiting for someone to call her. But when that call came in, she wasted no time to let the phone ring a few times before she answered it. Once she answers, she playsssss "hard to get"
None of the above applies if they are in need of your resources, then they have no problem telling you their problems so you initiate "Fix It Man" mode. Again, they never ask, they only state their problems.
They, also never take the opportunity to initiate a conversation. Be it a phone call, email or text. In the rare cases that they do initiate a conversation, it's only to say, "Hi" and they wait for you to say something. If you reply only with a, "Hi" Back, most likely that's the end of the conversation.
Even back in the day when there was no internet, a girl would sit by the phone waiting for someone to call her. But when that call came in, she wasted no time to let the phone ring a few times before she answered it. Once she answers, she playsssss "hard to get"
None of the above applies if they are in need of your resources, then they have no problem telling you their problems so you initiate "Fix It Man" mode. Again, they never ask, they only state their problems.
TheXYGhost 244
TheXYGhost : What makes you happy?
Her : I don't know, that's why you need work hard to find out
TheXYGhost : I pass.
Her : Selfish
Her : I don't know, that's why you need work hard to find out
TheXYGhost : I pass.
Her : Selfish
Sunday, June 22, 2025
I'm Sure You Men Heard These Words Before
Woman : Yes, you were a good provider, you gave me food to eat, clothes to wear, you helped me a great deal in my personal life and career. We had great times together, we went places and shared experiences together. You were so good to me in every way I can think of. Yes dear, you loved me. But that is not enough. I met another and I'm moving in with him today. I fell in love with him. It just happened. It was not my fault. I never planned it this way.
Remember, I still love you.
(I hope he buys this in case my new boyfriend does not work out)
Remember, I still love you.
(I hope he buys this in case my new boyfriend does not work out)
TheXYGhost 243
Family Court : The modern day Philistines that comes to Delilah's aid when she sees a slight imperfection with the true father of her kids.
TheXYGhost
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Saturday, June 21, 2025
TheXYGhost III 173
She is a master of deception and deceit. She will never use it for you, only against you.
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TheXYGhost II 173
She expects a man to provide her with professional psychiatric help for the heartbreaks caused by all the bad boys she slept with.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Women Searching For The Married Man
The arrogance of some women that do not think they are cheating when they are in bed with a married man. They think they are next in line for a ring on the finger and a white gown.
I feel like yelling at the top of my lungs to these women, "HEY, STUPID! HE IS MARRIED, YOU IDIOT! IF YOU MARRY HIM, YOU ARE MARRYING A CHEATER!"
Men almost never initiate the divorce of their wives. The cost is too great. It's a rigged game and the judges are one sided. Never will you see a woman giving half her wealth, the house and kids to the man, let alone pay him alimony.
You will almost always hear the same thing out of their mouths when you simply ask, "Why?"; "Because I love him."
You will see them scoping men out in social settings looking for that band of gold on the man's finger. They actively search for that man.
When I had a ring on my finger, I was hit on more than once. To them, a wedding ring is their sign that another woman thinks he is a good provider. They do not have to strain their brain to do the analyzation themselves, that is their proof.
There are men that don't cheat on their wives and there are women that want that man. Those women will stop at nothing to break up that union any way they can.
I've seen women in office settings that will put lipstick on their finger and make like they are fixing their boss's collar before they leave for home. They put a dab of lipstick on the man's collar and when he gets home, his wife sees the lipstick mark and that is all she needs to prove, without a shadow of doubt that her husband is cheating. Cue in the lawyers that will make the wife profit from her misunderstanding.
I've heard of women that threw their panties in the back seat of a man's (her coworker) car to start up drama between the married couple. When the man divorces, she can console him and get close to him.
Men are treated as property to women, don't you believe otherwise.
I feel like yelling at the top of my lungs to these women, "HEY, STUPID! HE IS MARRIED, YOU IDIOT! IF YOU MARRY HIM, YOU ARE MARRYING A CHEATER!"
Men almost never initiate the divorce of their wives. The cost is too great. It's a rigged game and the judges are one sided. Never will you see a woman giving half her wealth, the house and kids to the man, let alone pay him alimony.
You will almost always hear the same thing out of their mouths when you simply ask, "Why?"; "Because I love him."
You will see them scoping men out in social settings looking for that band of gold on the man's finger. They actively search for that man.
When I had a ring on my finger, I was hit on more than once. To them, a wedding ring is their sign that another woman thinks he is a good provider. They do not have to strain their brain to do the analyzation themselves, that is their proof.
There are men that don't cheat on their wives and there are women that want that man. Those women will stop at nothing to break up that union any way they can.
I've seen women in office settings that will put lipstick on their finger and make like they are fixing their boss's collar before they leave for home. They put a dab of lipstick on the man's collar and when he gets home, his wife sees the lipstick mark and that is all she needs to prove, without a shadow of doubt that her husband is cheating. Cue in the lawyers that will make the wife profit from her misunderstanding.
I've heard of women that threw their panties in the back seat of a man's (her coworker) car to start up drama between the married couple. When the man divorces, she can console him and get close to him.
Men are treated as property to women, don't you believe otherwise.
TheXYGhost 242
Can you remember a time when a female shared something of hers to you when you were in need?
TheXYGhost
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Friday, June 20, 2025
TheXYGhost III 172
She don't need a man until she wants a man to fund her extravagant lifestyle.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
At Work, I Covered His Six and He Covered Mine
At work, my manager started dating a girl in a different department. I told him to be careful. He took my warnings light heartedly.
After a few weeks of dating and bed hopping, he took the woman to an after work gathering where he was asked if that is his new girlfriend. He answered with, "I'm not sure yet, but so far, it looks good."
When she heard his reply, she was furious! "What do you mean you are not sure?"
From what I heard, she yelled, screamed and carried on way beyond a normal office party setting.
The next morning, he told me the story. He thought he was going to lose his job over it. As the day went on, he was assured from Human Resources, that his part in the incident was not going to be a negative as far as they were concerned.
By 5pm, it was time for me to go home. I had things to do. My cubicle was right next to his office and I heard the front door open and close. It was her. She stood in front of his office door. She was explaining how last night's incident was not her fault. He stayed sitting at his desk telling her it was over and he can't afford an incident like that and it would damage his career.
She pleaded and begged him to reconsider. He stuck to his guns and adamantly said, "No"
The conversation slowly escalated from, "It's not my fault" to "You are to blame"
My manager (also a great friend) knew that I was still in my cubicle listening intently to back him up when the time arose.
Noticing that this encounter was starting a path to a place he had no intention of going, my friend told the girl that I was still at my cubicle to be witness and protect him. When I heard that, I spoke up in the deepest and most authoritative voice I had, "Is there any trouble in there?"
She walked over to my cubicle and took a look at me and got very intimidated. (I'm a nice guy but I look as intimidating as a member of the Tony Soprano's crew) I held up a broken digital camera and told her that I was recording things.
She looked shocked and she said a few last words and left.
My friend thanked me. When he found a new employment opportunity, I was his first hire and he gave me a great position.
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Rest In Peace
Nathanial "Nate" Johnson
After a few weeks of dating and bed hopping, he took the woman to an after work gathering where he was asked if that is his new girlfriend. He answered with, "I'm not sure yet, but so far, it looks good."
When she heard his reply, she was furious! "What do you mean you are not sure?"
From what I heard, she yelled, screamed and carried on way beyond a normal office party setting.
The next morning, he told me the story. He thought he was going to lose his job over it. As the day went on, he was assured from Human Resources, that his part in the incident was not going to be a negative as far as they were concerned.
By 5pm, it was time for me to go home. I had things to do. My cubicle was right next to his office and I heard the front door open and close. It was her. She stood in front of his office door. She was explaining how last night's incident was not her fault. He stayed sitting at his desk telling her it was over and he can't afford an incident like that and it would damage his career.
She pleaded and begged him to reconsider. He stuck to his guns and adamantly said, "No"
The conversation slowly escalated from, "It's not my fault" to "You are to blame"
My manager (also a great friend) knew that I was still in my cubicle listening intently to back him up when the time arose.
Noticing that this encounter was starting a path to a place he had no intention of going, my friend told the girl that I was still at my cubicle to be witness and protect him. When I heard that, I spoke up in the deepest and most authoritative voice I had, "Is there any trouble in there?"
She walked over to my cubicle and took a look at me and got very intimidated. (I'm a nice guy but I look as intimidating as a member of the Tony Soprano's crew) I held up a broken digital camera and told her that I was recording things.
She looked shocked and she said a few last words and left.
My friend thanked me. When he found a new employment opportunity, I was his first hire and he gave me a great position.
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Rest In Peace
Nathanial "Nate" Johnson
Thursday, June 19, 2025
TheXYGhost III 171
She constantly places herself in hardship to garner sympathy from others.
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I Ain't Gonna Do That No Mo'e
• I paid for the dinners
• I paid for the drinks
• I bought the flowers
• I bought the candies
• I bought the jewelry
• I paid for the entertainment
• I paid for the trips
I've done it all and the recipients of the above declared that it wasn't enough. It's never enough. It doesn't work. That's why I don't do it anymore.
If you think I'm cheap, I had a great fun dinner with my friend Gilbert Wong. Our bill was $219.93. He even guessed the amount of the bill before it arrived. He was only 7¢ off. Great time we had. We split the bill and enjoyed the whole evening.
Thanx Gil.
No more paying for cunts making their foodie calls.
• I paid for the drinks
• I bought the flowers
• I bought the candies
• I bought the jewelry
• I paid for the entertainment
• I paid for the trips
I've done it all and the recipients of the above declared that it wasn't enough. It's never enough. It doesn't work. That's why I don't do it anymore.
If you think I'm cheap, I had a great fun dinner with my friend Gilbert Wong. Our bill was $219.93. He even guessed the amount of the bill before it arrived. He was only 7¢ off. Great time we had. We split the bill and enjoyed the whole evening.
Thanx Gil.
No more paying for cunts making their foodie calls.
Wednesday, June 18, 2025
TheXYGhost III 170
She has 6 kids. After 34 DNA tests, she still can't find a father for any of her kids.
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TheXYGhost II 170
When she accuses you of not loving her, she realizes that she can't control you.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
You Sure Cured Me From Being Chivalrous
Yes, I was a human placeholder. The good guy that came to a girl's rescue when her bad boy that she picked, abused, cheated and was a no good gambler, drug addicted or all around criminal.
I was that guy that never cheated and did the best I could to build that girl up. Once she had the confidence she once lacked, off she would go in another bad boy arms with the claims that I was not good enough etc. I would then get the goodbye kiss and an affirmation that she still loves me.
Not no more.
I won't do that ever again.
Not this man.
I was that guy that never cheated and did the best I could to build that girl up. Once she had the confidence she once lacked, off she would go in another bad boy arms with the claims that I was not good enough etc. I would then get the goodbye kiss and an affirmation that she still loves me.
Not no more.
I won't do that ever again.
Not this man.
TheXYGhost 239
When a girl posts something stupid, it gets 1,000's of shares. When a man posts something wise, nobody shares. Why?
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Tuesday, June 17, 2025
TheXYGhost III 169
She wants a man that's a leader but thinks it's oppressive to be a follower.
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TheXYGhost II 169
She used men all her life now at 44 she cries when she sees a mother, father and children together in a mall
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Where Are Feminists now When Disaster Strikes?
Are they risking their lives saving people in flood zones with their boats?
There were No feminists on the Titanic.
Men and men alone to her rescue and not a Feminist in sight.
There were No feminists on the Titanic.
Men and men alone to her rescue and not a Feminist in sight.
Monday, June 16, 2025
TheXYGhost II 168
She cried because she was jealous of her 8 year old son was getting all the attention on his birthday.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Same Old Story From Women About Abusive Men
I saw this beggar on the NYC Subway system today. She was claiming that she was homeless, single mother that had an abusive husband and now they are divorced.
I started to think, was this woman in a great relationship before she went to bed with that man to get pregnant, or was this man abusive from day one. Nobody just becomes abusive all of a sudden, for no reason whatsoever.
But since it is in New York City, and on the Subway, it is all just probably a lie.
Lie or not, this woman wouldn't tell that story day in and day out riding one train car after another if she was not making money from the deal.
But women and men pay her for her story.
A man would be looked down upon by women. They would not give him a cent.
I started to think, was this woman in a great relationship before she went to bed with that man to get pregnant, or was this man abusive from day one. Nobody just becomes abusive all of a sudden, for no reason whatsoever.
But since it is in New York City, and on the Subway, it is all just probably a lie.
Lie or not, this woman wouldn't tell that story day in and day out riding one train car after another if she was not making money from the deal.
But women and men pay her for her story.
A man would be looked down upon by women. They would not give him a cent.
TheXYGhost 237
If I identified as a woman just before I punched her in the face, is that OK?
TheXYGhost
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Sunday, June 15, 2025
TheXYGhost III 167
Her : if you love me, you would do what I asked of you.
TheXYGhost : If you love me, you wouldn't try to use emotional blackmail on me.
TheXYGhost : If you love me, you wouldn't try to use emotional blackmail on me.
TheXYGhost II 167
If everything is going smoothly in her married life, she'll get bored and create drama.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
All of Her Ex-Boyfriends and Ex-Husbands Were No Good
Of all the girls I met and keep on meeting, I keep on hearing the same stories of their last boyfriend / husband.
1. He was abusive
a. This is a scam, did she really mean that she was loving, caring, giving and sharing and all he did was punch her in the face? I can walk on any street in America today and take a poll of 10,000 men (including you and I) and they would all say they would never hit a female. These females want me to believe that they found that 1 man in 10,000 that would hit a female. I won't believe it.
2. He didn't give me enough attention
Danger Will Robinson, my sensors indicate extreme human manipulation - Every time I hear this excuse, I think to myself the following;
a. How much attention did he promise you?
b. Did he give you a lot of attention, but that was not enough?
c. Did he give you all the attention any human can give, but that was not enough?
d. How much attention did he promise you when you first met?
e. How much attention is enough?
f. How much attention have you received since you two split?
g. Was breaking up your family your solution to your attention needs?
3. He didn't love me
a. When I hear this, I can't help but asking, "You must have loved him a whole lot for you to leave him." or "How do you measure someone's love for you?" or "Do you measure your pet's love for you?"
4. He cheated on me
a. An oldie but goodie. I've seen this a million times. Females don't mind cheaters if the man is cheating on his wife for her. They never mind being the target of a cheating man. But that's the man they partnered with and now they are surprised that he cheated yet again.
5. He was a gambler, alcoholic or a substance abuser
a. Gamblers and substance abusers rarely just pop up out of nowhere. There are indications and warning signs all around that the female chooses to ignore.
1. He was abusive
a. This is a scam, did she really mean that she was loving, caring, giving and sharing and all he did was punch her in the face? I can walk on any street in America today and take a poll of 10,000 men (including you and I) and they would all say they would never hit a female. These females want me to believe that they found that 1 man in 10,000 that would hit a female. I won't believe it.
2. He didn't give me enough attention
Danger Will Robinson, my sensors indicate extreme human manipulation - Every time I hear this excuse, I think to myself the following;
a. How much attention did he promise you?
b. Did he give you a lot of attention, but that was not enough?
c. Did he give you all the attention any human can give, but that was not enough?
d. How much attention did he promise you when you first met?
e. How much attention is enough?
f. How much attention have you received since you two split?
g. Was breaking up your family your solution to your attention needs?
3. He didn't love me
a. When I hear this, I can't help but asking, "You must have loved him a whole lot for you to leave him." or "How do you measure someone's love for you?" or "Do you measure your pet's love for you?"
4. He cheated on me
a. An oldie but goodie. I've seen this a million times. Females don't mind cheaters if the man is cheating on his wife for her. They never mind being the target of a cheating man. But that's the man they partnered with and now they are surprised that he cheated yet again.
5. He was a gambler, alcoholic or a substance abuser
a. Gamblers and substance abusers rarely just pop up out of nowhere. There are indications and warning signs all around that the female chooses to ignore.
Saturday, June 14, 2025
TheXYGhost II 166
Women use social proof to assess the world. If many women like him, he's good enough for her.
TheXYGhost
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You Will Be Picky Until You Are Desperate
I was talking to this girl once when we were talking about relationships. I asked her why was she single and she said what all girls say, "I'm picky".
I responded with, "You will be picky until you are desperate"
She quickly replied, "I'm not desperate!"
I repeated with, "You will be picky until you are desperate"
She replied only with an, "Oh."
Then she caught herself saying, "I will never be desperate, look at this" (as she sat up in her seat displaying her body)
I only replied with an, "Oh"
I think I ruined her day.
I responded with, "You will be picky until you are desperate"
She quickly replied, "I'm not desperate!"
I repeated with, "You will be picky until you are desperate"
She replied only with an, "Oh."
Then she caught herself saying, "I will never be desperate, look at this" (as she sat up in her seat displaying her body)
I only replied with an, "Oh"
I think I ruined her day.
TheXYGhost 235
The rise in feminism brought on a rise in divorces, single mothers and child abuse.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Friday, June 13, 2025
TheXYGhost II 165
He's married and wearing a ring. That's proof to other women that he's a good catch.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
No Matter What, You Are Always The Fault of Her Actions
It's so sad to see that every time a man talks about his cheating partner to another woman, she will spare no time to blame the man sitting in front of her. She will blame him in the following ways;
1 - It's your fault for trusting her
2 - It's your fault for picking her
3 - It's your fault for not giving her enough
4 - It's your fault because maybe unconsciously, you wanted her to cheat
5 - It's your fault for not paying her enough attention
6 - It's your fault because you must have treated her badly
7 - It's your fault for not showing her that you love her.
And my favorite;
8 - It's your fault for giving her everything she wanted, because maybe she didn't want what she asked for
Face it fellas, it's just your fault.
1 - It's your fault for trusting her
2 - It's your fault for picking her
3 - It's your fault for not giving her enough
4 - It's your fault because maybe unconsciously, you wanted her to cheat
5 - It's your fault for not paying her enough attention
6 - It's your fault because you must have treated her badly
7 - It's your fault for not showing her that you love her.
And my favorite;
8 - It's your fault for giving her everything she wanted, because maybe she didn't want what she asked for
Face it fellas, it's just your fault.
Thursday, June 12, 2025
TheXYGhost II 164
A woman wants to control a man 100%. If she can't, he's not a real man, if she can, she hates him for giving her control over him.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Women Will Believe The Most Obvious Lies But Never The Truth
I think that women are so desperate to find a larger-than-life man they will believe any liar that tells them all the lies they want to hear.
"I love you more than anything on this earth" - That's a lie. Nobody loves one thing so much.
"You are the most beautiful woman I've ever seen" - This is a lie too.
"You are the world to me" - Is there a man out there that will stop living because she is gone?
"I love you more than the sun, moon the sky and stars" - No man love these things.
"I love you more than anything on this earth" - That's a lie. Nobody loves one thing so much.
"You are the most beautiful woman I've ever seen" - This is a lie too.
"You are the world to me" - Is there a man out there that will stop living because she is gone?
"I love you more than the sun, moon the sky and stars" - No man love these things.
Wednesday, June 11, 2025
Angelic Devil
Four and a half years ago, my brother met a young woman. She was soft-spoken, sweet, and angelic-looking. At the time, she was only 21, while my brother was 26. She came from a respectable family--her parents had been married until her father passed away. My father and stepmother adored her and saw her as a perfect angel. However, I sensed a red flag when she told me she liked my brother because he had "so much potential."
My brother and the rest of my family are unaware of the online groups or philosophies I align with, so I kept my thoughts to myself. But I couldn't help pondering what she meant by "potential." Potential for what? I knew she likely meant "money-making potential," but I initially took her words at face value.
I thought about it more. Potential to be a top mechanic? A fabulous clothing designer? Her statement felt incomplete--not grammatically, but in terms of ideas. Did she not see potential in herself? Don't we all, men and women, have the potential to achieve what we strive for? Yet, she seemed focused only on what my brother could offer her.
Soon after they began dating, my brother helped her secure a job in the city. As second in command to the mayor, he negotiated a great salary for her. This opportunity led to her moving to a prestigious accounting firm, where she eventually earned $130,000 annually--more than my brother's salary.
During this time, they lived rent-free in my father's basement, saving their money. My brother invested in distressed properties, renovating them and renting them out. Over time, he built a portfolio of three investment properties with six units, generating steady income. They eventually moved into a luxury apartment in the city, complete with amenities like a 24-hour gym, pool, sauna, jacuzzi, steam room, and sundeck. They seemed to be living the dream.
Then, on my brother's birthday, she abruptly packed her things, left him, and moved back to her mother's house in another state--quitting her job without notice. She quickly shifted her dependency from my brother to her mother. She also declared her intention to claim all their joint properties.
For a while, she continued texting my brother, but when he forwarded those messages to her mother, she blocked his number on her mom's phone. Even her mother was appalled by her behavior. Eventually, she sent my brother a message saying she wanted no contact for two weeks because their relationship lacked "consistency." The vagueness of her complaint frustrated my brother. She also gave him "permission" to have affairs but forbade him from moving another woman into their apartment. It was clear to me she was keeping my brother as a backup in case her new relationship didn't work out.
When my brother visited my father's house to discuss the situation, my father--81 and full of energy--insisted my brother should have been "nicer" to her, continuing to see her as an angel. My father even pointed out that she made more money than my brother.
I couldn't hold back. I reminded my father that my brother had jumpstarted her career, securing her first job and helping her prepare for interviews. He also built three investment properties with six rental units, generating significant income for both of them. I argued that she should have been more grateful to him.
When my brother arrived, he shared her recent demands and claims of "inconsistency." I asked him, "What consistency did you promise her that you failed to provide? What consistency did she expect that you failed to deliver? What consistency is she providing while imposing a two-week silence? Life doesn't guarantee consistency, so why should you offer her more than life itself?"
I spent a week with him at his home, mostly listening. We didn't talk much, but we spent nights on his rooftop deck, drinking expensive wine and champagne she had bought for special occasions. He begged me for my honest opinion. I told him that while I couldn't be entirely unbiased as his brother, the facts were clear: she was acting like a spoiled child, unsure of what she wanted but expecting him to provide it anyway.
I gave him a plan: try to get her back, but work toward removing her name from their shared properties. If she returned, she should take a pregnancy test. If she refused to come back, buy out her share and sue her for half the rent and utilities she owed on the apartment.
By the end of the week, my brother decided to take a break. He took time off work and traveled to Colombia, where he is half-Colombian. On his first day there, he met a woman near his aunt's house. She paid for their meals, drinks, and even drove him around in her car. My brother was stunned by her generosity. She expressed no interest in moving to the United States, as she was content with her career, but she was happy to be his girlfriend while he was there.
When he returned from Colombia, his ex-girlfriend hit him with a lawsuit, demanding full ownership of all three properties. However, when the case went to court, the judge ruled in my brother's favor. He was only required to pay her $2,500.
Her lawyer later told my brother that he had advised her to settle for $10,000, but she had insisted on trying to take it all. Ironically, after paying her legal fees, she ended up with nothing.
My brother and the rest of my family are unaware of the online groups or philosophies I align with, so I kept my thoughts to myself. But I couldn't help pondering what she meant by "potential." Potential for what? I knew she likely meant "money-making potential," but I initially took her words at face value.
I thought about it more. Potential to be a top mechanic? A fabulous clothing designer? Her statement felt incomplete--not grammatically, but in terms of ideas. Did she not see potential in herself? Don't we all, men and women, have the potential to achieve what we strive for? Yet, she seemed focused only on what my brother could offer her.
Soon after they began dating, my brother helped her secure a job in the city. As second in command to the mayor, he negotiated a great salary for her. This opportunity led to her moving to a prestigious accounting firm, where she eventually earned $130,000 annually--more than my brother's salary.
During this time, they lived rent-free in my father's basement, saving their money. My brother invested in distressed properties, renovating them and renting them out. Over time, he built a portfolio of three investment properties with six units, generating steady income. They eventually moved into a luxury apartment in the city, complete with amenities like a 24-hour gym, pool, sauna, jacuzzi, steam room, and sundeck. They seemed to be living the dream.
Then, on my brother's birthday, she abruptly packed her things, left him, and moved back to her mother's house in another state--quitting her job without notice. She quickly shifted her dependency from my brother to her mother. She also declared her intention to claim all their joint properties.
For a while, she continued texting my brother, but when he forwarded those messages to her mother, she blocked his number on her mom's phone. Even her mother was appalled by her behavior. Eventually, she sent my brother a message saying she wanted no contact for two weeks because their relationship lacked "consistency." The vagueness of her complaint frustrated my brother. She also gave him "permission" to have affairs but forbade him from moving another woman into their apartment. It was clear to me she was keeping my brother as a backup in case her new relationship didn't work out.
When my brother visited my father's house to discuss the situation, my father--81 and full of energy--insisted my brother should have been "nicer" to her, continuing to see her as an angel. My father even pointed out that she made more money than my brother.
I couldn't hold back. I reminded my father that my brother had jumpstarted her career, securing her first job and helping her prepare for interviews. He also built three investment properties with six rental units, generating significant income for both of them. I argued that she should have been more grateful to him.
When my brother arrived, he shared her recent demands and claims of "inconsistency." I asked him, "What consistency did you promise her that you failed to provide? What consistency did she expect that you failed to deliver? What consistency is she providing while imposing a two-week silence? Life doesn't guarantee consistency, so why should you offer her more than life itself?"
I spent a week with him at his home, mostly listening. We didn't talk much, but we spent nights on his rooftop deck, drinking expensive wine and champagne she had bought for special occasions. He begged me for my honest opinion. I told him that while I couldn't be entirely unbiased as his brother, the facts were clear: she was acting like a spoiled child, unsure of what she wanted but expecting him to provide it anyway.
I gave him a plan: try to get her back, but work toward removing her name from their shared properties. If she returned, she should take a pregnancy test. If she refused to come back, buy out her share and sue her for half the rent and utilities she owed on the apartment.
By the end of the week, my brother decided to take a break. He took time off work and traveled to Colombia, where he is half-Colombian. On his first day there, he met a woman near his aunt's house. She paid for their meals, drinks, and even drove him around in her car. My brother was stunned by her generosity. She expressed no interest in moving to the United States, as she was content with her career, but she was happy to be his girlfriend while he was there.
When he returned from Colombia, his ex-girlfriend hit him with a lawsuit, demanding full ownership of all three properties. However, when the case went to court, the judge ruled in my brother's favor. He was only required to pay her $2,500.
Her lawyer later told my brother that he had advised her to settle for $10,000, but she had insisted on trying to take it all. Ironically, after paying her legal fees, she ended up with nothing.
Tuesday, June 10, 2025
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