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Now a word from our members
A MGTOW Public Service Announcement.
It’s important to remember… MGTOW is not an organization or political movement… it’s a philosophy. Chief amongst it’s beliefs is that men do not need a woman or a gynocentric society to determine their value. MGTOW are men who determine their own value by their own yard stick of personal achievement based on their life…not anyone else’s.
MGTOW are Black, White, Asian, and Brown. They’re conservative and liberal. They’re of many different religions. Because of these cultural, racial and societal differences… MGTOW disagree on many things. However, at the core…all know that feminism and everything spawned from it is cancer.
An essential element of MGTOW is ghosting… that means…in its simplest form… being invisible. The best defense against narcissistic women who want to entrap you and abuse your emotions is to avoid them… period. Feminists cannot attack what they cannot see.
The best way to avoid society pressuring you into gynocentric woman worship is to be invisible while doing your own thing. Avoiding vagina worship is a core survival skill here. Just as important is to avoid associating with men who worship vaginas… whether they’re tradcons, liberal white knights, PUAs, or just thirsty simps.
We don’t need protests…we don’t need petitions… we don’t need advocacy… MGTOW only need to back away from commitment to narcissistic, abusive, and manipulative women and do our own thing. MGTOW understand that… often… natural consequences are far worse than any consequence that we would bring to the table.
MGTOW understand that time is a non-renewable resource… so we should focus it on ourselves and our individual happiness… rather than waste it arguing with a woman who will never get it… or who cannot accept truthful criticism of her own problems. MGTOW understand that political protests in the name of men’s rights… don’t work. It’s better to ghost and let nature take its course.
Educate yourself… read. Learn a new skill… or hone an old one. Teach your brothers about things you know… these things are the best way to strengthen our MGTOW community… be the example for others to follow.
MGTOW understand that because we’re smart enough to avoid the rigged game of marriage… commitment… and the politics surrounding it… gynocentric hypocrites will constantly attack us. MGTOW know the best response to this is to ghost away and disappear… one cannot attack what they cannot see.
MGTOW are not alone… the brothers who follow this philosophy grow daily…as more men are red pilled and realize that today’s women are unable to make the lifelong commitment of marriage and often cannot even commit to a monogamous dating relationship.
MGTOW is the natural consequence of feminist policies…as long as they continue to discriminate against men…MGTOW will grow.
So brothers…no matter where you are…what you do in life…support each other…make sure, in times of crisis, our brothers in need know they’re not alone and there’s life after gynocentrism and that it’s worth living…because at the end of the day…Ghosting…doing our own thing…and supporting each other…is the best defense against gynocentric hypocrisy. We’re men…as such…we’re strong enough to overcome any obstacle we set our minds to.
Women love the gangster, thug, criminal, substance abuser, ex-convict, gambler, sweet talker, liar, cheater, woman beater, jerk, married men, con artist, lazy idiot, and abuser all in the name of feminism.
Feminism taught women that they were empowered and superior to men. Women took it so literally that they now pick a mate which they can be superior. Either that or women have this overwhelming urge to be rescued by some handsome prince with shining armor from the guy they chose. Either way, women will never get out from harm’s way on their own.
They call these guys fixer uppers. Women want to fix them in their own image through manipulation and drama.
Do you want to spend your time, efforts and money buying expensive dinners, gifts and entertainment for an entity that feels entitled to your efforts, just for the chance that this entity approves you to be her personal servant and financial slave?
Or do you want someone that will be on her toes trying to pamper your life ensuring that you will protect her on the time of need.
Single Mothers – Living proof that she is a man hater and does not have a single forgiving bone in her body. It was always his fault, but it was never her fault for laying down with him. She hates the most important man in her child’s life as she looks for a strange man that likes touching kids to replace the real dad.
If she says he was abusive, an ass kicking didn’t fall from the sky for no reason or she likes bad boys.
If he was a substance abuser, chances are he was abusing in front of her all along and she likes the bad boys.
She should be shamed and ridiculed on every level, like they did once before. Now days they are praised and exulted and if she wants such praise, she will call a lawyer and divorce your ass without cause.
For the lips of the adulterous woman drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil; but in the end she is bitter as gall, sharp as a double-edged sword. Her feet go down to death; her steps lead straight to the grave. Proverbs 5:3-5
For a prostitute can be had for a loaf of bread, but another man’s wife preys on your very life. Proverbs 6:21
Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife.
Proverbs 21:19
But I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God.
1 Corinthians 11:3
A woman should learn in quietness and full submission.
1 Timothy 2:11
I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; she must be quiet. 1 Timothy 2:12
And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner. 1 Timothy 2:14
I also want the women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, adorning themselves, not with elaborate hairstyles or gold or pearls or expensive clothes. 1 Timothy 2:9
Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. Titus 2:3
There is a good principle which created order, light, and man, and an evil principle which created chaos, darkness, and woman.
Pythagoras (570-495 BC)
“Women and people of low birth are very hard to deal with. If you are friendly with them, they get out of hand, and if you keep your distance, they resent it.” Confucius (551-479 BC)
A firm bosom; sparkling eyes; a small mouth […] are characteristics of a woman which are always praised. But when we neglect the surface, we find that the internal characteristics corresponding to these are hardness of heart, shifty eyes, a deceitful face, insecurity and cunning. When we bear in mind both the superficial and inward characteristics of a woman, we must declare that the one who should possess them can be dear only to the beasts of the field. The Vairagya Sataka
A woman talks to one man, looks at a second, and thinks of a third.
The Sringa Sataka
By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you will be happy. If you get a bad one, you will be a philosopher. Socrates (470-399 BC)
O botheration take you all! How you (women) cajole and flatter. A hell it is to live with you; to live without, a hell Aristophanes
There is no beast, no rush of fire, like woman so untamed. She calmly goes her way where even panthers would be shamed. Aristophanes
Woman is adept at getting money for herself and will not easily let herself be deceived; she understands deceit too well herself.
Aristophanes
There is but one thing in the world worse than a shameless woman, and that’s another woman. Thesmorphoriazusae
Women are accustomed to creep into dark places, and when dragged out into the light they will exert their utmost powers of resistance … therefore, as I said before, in most places they will not endure to have the truth spoken without raising a tremendous outcry. Plato
One single thing I trust a woman saying. To other statements no attention paying: When I am dead, I won’t return to grieve you. Till death takes place, in naught else I’ll believe you. Antiphanes
What! When you court concealment, will you tell the matter to a woman? Just as well tell all the criers in the public squares! Tis hard to say which of them louder blares. Antiphanes
Cursed be the dart of love that works men pain! Cursed be the land where women rule supreme! And cursed the fool that bows to woman’s sway! Jataka
There’s no such thing as picking out the best woman: it’s only a question of comparative badness Titus Maccius Plautus
Amongst all the savage beasts none is found so harmful as woman.
St John Chrysostom
It does not profit a man to marry. For what is a woman but an enemy of friendship, an inescapable punishment, a necessary evil, a natural temptation, a domestic danger, delectable mischief, a fault in nature, painted with beautiful colors? St John Chrysostom
“I was shown Hell and I have never seen anything more terrifying than it. And I saw that the majority of its people are women.” They said, “Why, O Messenger of Allah?” He said, “Because of their ingratitude.” It was said, “Are they ungrateful to Allah?” He said, “They are ungrateful to their companions (husbands) and ungrateful for good treatment. If you are kind to one of them for a lifetime then she sees one (undesirable) thing in you, she will say, ‘I have never had anything good from you. Muhammad
When the Prophet heard the news that the people of the Persia had made the daughter of Khosrau their Queen (ruler), he said, “Never will succeed such a nation as makes a woman their ruler.” Muhammad
“A man can be happy with any woman, as long as he does not love her.” Oscar Wilde (The Portrait of Dorian Grey)
“The great question that has never been answered, and which I have not yet been able to answer, despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, is ‘What does a woman want?” Sigmund Freud
“You sometimes have to answer a woman according to her womanishness, just as you have to answer a fool according to his folly.” George Bernard Shaw
“Never ever ever, under any circumstances financially obligate yourself (marry) to an entity that will profit from exercising her natural born prerogative to change her mind.” TheXYGhost
A number of years ago I was sitting at a bar in Caffe Roma in Beverly Hills, California (https://ift.tt/4l9ijMZ) waiting for my friends to arrive. They were late again. After a while of sitting there nursing my drink, this well-dressed man with long blonde hair stood next to me. As it turned out, this gentleman was Fabio, Fabio Lanzoni! (https://ift.tt/czeYiCb) Fabio, you know the Italian model that was on the cover of all those Harlequin Romance Novels (https://ift.tt/wNVJvGQ) and the famous “I Can’t Believe It’s Not Butter” ads. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xszIaNpYILY That Fabio! The icon of female desire.
Well, he and I began to talk, it was so surreal, and after a while I asked him if he was married. A very serious look came on his face as he looked at me and said with a tone that I would never forget.
“Do I look stupid to you?” he said.
He continued with, “Women are crazy.”
Here I am sitting and talking with the one man that could attract any woman he wants by his looks and popularity yet he keeps women at arm’s length and no more.
As you can see from the Wikipedia page (https://ift.tt/mLwRpdP) he was never married. If he won’t get married, why should you?
By the way, congratulations go out to Fabio for becoming a US Citizen as of March 16, 2016. Welcome to our country, we are proud to have you.
There are some antifeminist women out there claiming that they were old time feminists once before but now they see where feminism has gone wrong. They have seen what has become of feminism and they do not approve of its direction and accomplishments. These feminists rode the attention seeking highway promoting their vile spew and now they have switched sides. Now they are riding the attention seeking bandwagon of the antifeminist rant.
These nouveau antifeminists are denouncing their old feminist ways of the past 60 years, but see no real reason for societies reverting back to the old traditional archaic gender roles. In other words, women of the past didn’t like the way things were going and expected everyone to change to their way and now some of these women realize their way was wrong but they want everyone to go another untested way that they have not decided upon yet, but reverting back to a proven ideology of “Leave People Alone, The World Will Not Go Your Way” is not good enough for them.
Where do you want to go? Do you want to go down a road that someone plans for you and see where it goes 60 years down the line? As for me, I am going my own way; I will not follow your way nor dictate where another should go.
Feminism – A man freely gives an inch out of the kindness of his heart and she demands 10 miles or else she takes it all. If you give in, you are a sucker and if you don’t, you are cheap and stingy. Meanwhile your friends tell you to compromise and meet her in the middle.
Never ever ever under any circumstances offer anything to an ungrateful woman.
I was visiting my dad’s place on Halloween night when I heard the doorbell ring. I thought it was a bunch of Trick-or-Treaters so I answered the door with a bowl full of candy. To my surprise, I opened the door to find a girl in her late 20’s to early 30’s standing outside waiting with an envelope in her hands.
She told me that she lived down the road from me and that she had a “peace offering” for my son. I corrected her and told her I had no son but I did have brothers. She then told me that she was dating my brother and that there was a break up, that their relationship ended on a sour note. She handed me an envelope and asked that I give the envelope to my brother as her personal “peace offering” and that she was leaving the country tonight.
I took the envelope and ensured that it would get to my brother as soon as he gets back.
She left and I texted my brother, “Some girl stopped by dad’s place to leave off a card as a piece offering. She is leaving town today and her mom lives down the block from dad. She thought that I was your father.”
He texted back, “It’s a married woman who is obsessed with me.
But thanks man”
I’m 32 years older than my younger brother and nobody in my family knows anything about my affiliation with MGTOW and alias as AKA John Stone. I guess he has the same troubles that I had.
So, after my divorce was over, and a number of months went by, I thought that going to a church for the first time was going to improve my odds in finding a decent girl with whom to share my life. I picked a church that was not near me; away from anyone I would ever know and attended services very quietly.
It wasn’t long until a few gentlemen approached and welcomed me. They gave me tremendous support and sound logical advice and not a sermon. They invited me to bible study on Wednesday nights, pre and post sermon groups and events and they even invited me into their homes for other studies. They really reached out and open their hearts to me. I will always thank them.
One day, while I was working on setting up snacks for an after-sermon lecture, an older woman approached me and asked me my name. She introduced me to her other two friends, also elderly women. The first woman took me aside and asked me, confidentially, what kind of work I did. My guard was down and I never would have thought that she was sizing me up. So, I told her occupation and as soon as I was done, she became very excited! Huffing and puffing she said, “Oh! Oh! Oh! You’re rich! This girl, Wilma, likes you.”
I politely told her that I was not here for that, yet I started to think who this Wilma was, as I’ve never talked or never been introduced to a Wilma before. I would have remembered that name as it was the name of Fred Flintstone’s wife in the cartoon series, we all know and love.
A few weeks past and the second of the two women pulled me aside to ask a few questions of me. Then she asked, “What kind of work do you do?” My guard was up a bit due to my experience before but I told her. Just like the first old woman, she exclaimed with excitement, “Ooow! You’re rich! Did you know that Wilma likes you?” I could not believe it. It was like I was in the Twilight Zone. I told this woman that I was not here to be set up with anyone, and that I was fine the way I was.
The following week, the first woman told me to pray during the sermon to meet someone right after services and GOD would answer my prayers. I told her that I was not here to be set up with anyone now. She insisted that I should pray anyway so that GOD’s will could be revealed to me.
I had to admit that during this whole time, I was wondering who this “Wilma” was. Over the weeks I sought her out without asking for her. I attended other groups and stood in the hallways seeking her out. Then I saw her. There she was! A very tall and elegant black woman that was very attractive.
I walked over to her to be near her in order to see if she would, at the very least, say something to me. After all, two ladies said that she liked me. Why would they lie? But nothing happened. Wilma had no idea who I was.
Later on, while I was preparing for a kids function at the church, the third old lady asked me what kind of work I did while others were listening. I thought to myself, “Oh no, here we go again.” So, I told her my occupation. Just like a precision time piece, she said, “Ooooh, you’re rich…” I cut her off before she could tell me about someone liking me, saying, “If I had 10 times the money of Bill Gates, I would not be as rich as Jesus Christ.” The three women looked at each other with a puzzled look on their face. Needless to say, I was fed up with this nonsense.
The following Sunday I attended services and sat on the opposite side than usual. At the end of services there was announcements being made and the last of which was the engagement announcement of Wilma and Jacob. I whipped my neck around to look at the 3 old ladies. All 3 of them had sour looks on their faces. My assumption is that the three women did not approve of the lily-white Jacob getting together with that woman that was not white. They wanted me to be placed between them. I could be wrong, but who knows for sure. They never bothered me about Wilma liking me again.
I’ve spoken with waiters, waitresses and cab drivers. They have all told me that men tip way better than women. The overwhelming number of tips in the hospitality sector comes from men. I know many New York City cab drivers that will avoid a woman to pick up a man because of this fact. The only time I’ve ever seen a woman tip well is if that woman was, at one time or another, a waitress herself.
Which of the sexes are greedy, stingy and selfish? Remember that when a female calls you cheap for not buying her the most expensive meal and wine on your first date.
Over my lifetime I have spoken to many corrections officers, male and female, from New York City, New York State, New Jersey, New Hampshire, Arizona and California. This much is very clear, the men in jail are vicious and violent (the more violent ones are on television shows) but the women are nasty, dirty and disgusting. All the officers I’ve spoken to tell me they would rather be in a men’s prison than a female one.
There absolutely is a mathematical equation for understanding when a woman will separate from her man…
1) A woman will leave a man if there are no kids between them on or before 3 years.
2) A woman will break it off with a man when the youngest child between them is 4 – 5 years old.
If it goes beyond that, you got a good one.
If a woman divorced her husband after 7 or 8 years, you can almost calculate that there are, at least 2 kids that were involved.
This is one thing I have never seen written anywhere but I’ve seen it over and over again for many years.
I hate when women of today say men are the problem but here’s something to think about.
Women today think that 90% of men are below average.
Women of today think that the following men are the problem
…men under 6 feet tall.
…men that earn under $200k per year.
…men that are not pleasing them all the time.
…men that are pleasing them all the time.
…men not pursuing them every day.
…men pursuing them every day.
…men not giving them everything they want.
…men giving them everything they want.
…men that are too masculine.
…men that are too feminine.
…men that are too strict.
…men that are too nice.
…men that work too much.
…men that don’t work enough.
…men that are too aggressive.
…men that are not aggressive enough.
…men that love them too much.
…men that don’t love them enough.
…men that give them too much attention.
…men that don’t give them enough attention.
Should I keep on?
Women of today think that men are the problem, always.
Have you ever met a woman that said that they were the fault of their last breakup?
Several times in my life I met women that said they were in abusive relationships. Some were married and others were living together. When I would tell them they should break it off, they would tell me that they couldn’t. When I asked them as to why they couldn’t, their response would be the same, “You just don’t understand”. Some of those girls would even say, “But I love him”.
Today I had an argument with my 81-year-old father.
My father and mother separated when I was only 4. I lived with a psycho-mom up until the age of 10. Then I lived in Europe with my retired grandparents until age 14. When I returned to America, I was told that my father was found. Mother really hid us. I was taught to hate him and I did.
Years later, my mother’s psychotic ways made it impossible for me to stay. I moved in with my dad, when my hate for him still occupied my heart. I graduated high school and off to college. I quit college and found an apartment as I worked for my father who I still hated through no fault of his own.
My father later got married. He had two sons and, although I was never pushed aside by anyone, I felt as though I was not a part of this family.
So, I left and never turned back.
16 years later I saw my 2 brothers on Facebook and there was a very tearful reunion.
As I was divorced now, I understood my dad. The hatred for my father was gone, sometime after my mother passed away.
As the years went by, I visited my dad, my stepmom and newly found brothers on a regular basis. My father always asked me about me being single.
Every time for the next few years he would ask the same questions;
“How’s your love life?”
“Do you have any new romances in your life?”
“Do you have anyone new in your life?”
“Have you met anyone at your new job?”
“You know, I got married when I was 46. There’s still hope for you.”
“You know, your grandfather got married when he was 53. There’s still hope for you.”
“You know, my tenant upstairs thinks you are quite good looking.”
Every single time I went to visit my father, he cycles through one of the same statements above. It drove me insane. It got to the point where the older of my half-brother joined in. He started with lectures. I shrugged it off for years until a few days ago when I stopped him and started to yell at him while we went out to a nearby mall.
He asked the same question yet again. I returned with, “What’s with the questions? Do you think I’m a faggot or something? What is wrong with me? What should I do in my life to make you happy?” I yelled and yelled at my dad trying to get into his head that I was single and I’m not going to change that.
The next day, he asked again. I could not believe it. Didn’t he hear me say before?
I got home and the next day sent him about 7 of my Facebook posts. Then I texted him;
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Me: I sent you a few articles I wrote. Show them to Billy (not real name). Maybe one day you and him will not call me a faggot any more.
My Dad: Don’t be ridiculous
Me: There is a lecture from Billy almost every time. And you constantly toss hints at me every single time. Don’t you know it hurts me every time you ask me about my “Love Life” or “Romantic Interests”?
My Dad: Ok
Me: I get this all the time from people that nag me constantly about me being and remaining single. I really don’t care that Mary (tenant) thinks I’m “good looking”. Does that mean she wants to leave her current man for me? Does that mean that I can now view myself as good looking because some Asian woman says so? You can’t keep poking at a tiger and expect it not to lash out after the 100th time.
I had enough psychopathic girlfriends that wanted me to be their own personal provider for everything they could ever imagine. It’s insane. You want me to return to that insanity?
Yes, I know, they always tell me, “Not all women are like that” and I’m at fault for picking them.
So, I will not pick them any longer.
I stopped talking to the people that nag me about being single. Who really wants to be around people that nag all the time?
I do not want to do that with you.
I’ve been with way too many women in my life.
I only wanted one
I’m not jumping into that fire of insanity again.
Women with kids from multiple men with a history of abortions and a few STDs are not for me.
I’ve had it up to my neck in entitled women that expect the world from me.
I was never put on this earth to be a woman’s sole meal ticket.
My Dad: kay there’s not much to say except to say I won’t mention it again
Me: Please.
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I wrote this article then texted the following;
Me: I’m sorry I blew up like that. It’s a sensitive issue for me.
My Dad: No problem, John we all get to blow off once in a while no problem at all
Me: I’m very sorry I did. I’m very proud that we have these small amounts of time together. I don’t want it to end.
My Dad: It ends when I pass on. Then you have Bobby, Billy and Maria (his wife). No sweat
Me: There will be time.
I used to visit my 84-year-old father every other weekend. I spend a night or two every time. For the past 4 – 5 years he has asked me one of the following questions every single time I’ve visited.
He asks;
“How’s your love life?”
“Did you meet any girls lately?”
“Are you involved with any one now?”
“Are you seeing anyone?”
“Is there someone special in your life?”
“Do you have any romance in your life?”
“Have any new romances popped up?”
“Did you meet anyone new at your new job?”
“Have you ever dated a nice girl in your life?”
“You said you were consulting with a (female) nutritionist. Is she available?” (She was 60 years old and hated her husband because he never made enough money.)
“Are you dating anyone special?”
“I know this girl (53-year-old divorced woman) that thinks you are handsome.”
He just won’t stop no matter how gruff of a response I give him.
I’ve answered the above questions with the following;
“No.”
“No!”
“I only love GOD and Jesus. There is no room left in my heart for anyone else.”
“I don’t have enough money, time or effort to make any one woman happy. I’ve failed every time.”
I’ve asked him, “How many times do you think you can poke a tiger before it attacks?”
I’ve even started to respond with, “NO! BECAUSE I’M A FUCKEN FAGOT! IS THAT WHAT YOU WANT TO HEAR? DO I EMBARRASS YOU BECAUSE I’M SINGLE? AM I NOT A MAN BECAUSE I’M SINGLE? WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH ME THAT YOU PRESS FOR SO LONG? DO YOU THINK I’M A FAGOT BECAUSE I WALK ALONE?”
My best friend of 35 years has never once seen me angry, ever! He saw for the very first time how angry and enraged I got when I explained this situation.
Meanwhile nothing is said about my eldest sister that has 3 kids from 3 men that were all substance abusers and lives in the NYC Housing Projects.
Now my younger (half) brother chimes in with his two cents trying to probe me for information as to why I don’t have a girlfriend and it are getting sick.
Sure, I see a girl or two on the side. I never pay one dime to be with them. But I toss them away once they start their shit. I dare not bring them to my place let alone my dad’s home.
In the book, “The Art of War”, Sun Tzu said, “You can never avoid war. You only postpone it.” I have come to understand this quote more and more. I should have tossed over tables and chairs after he asked me the third time.
I hang out with my youngest (half) brother (age 30) we go out and have fun all the time. I flirt with waitresses and bartenders and other females everywhere we go. We have a great time together always.
I stopped visiting my dad until he texts me telling me he misses me, I text him back with, “What time is the intervention? Are you going to ask me about my love life again?”
He promises me that he won’t but when I arrive, he continues.
I leave the next day and stay away longer.
Most people I tell this tell me that he nags me because he loves me. That is sick and twisted. Why do people have this deranged view of love? Where is the love in asking a question over and over again when the answer has been the same year in and year out? Since when nagging until you strike anger is love? Why is it love to enrage someone for so long?
Please give me advice. I do not want to miss out on my father’s company this late in life. I reunited with him after I walked away for 22 years. He got remarried and his wife is a real gem. I love her dearly. But at that time, I didn’t believe I fit in his new life.
I have no problem walking away. I walked away from my mother and sister for upwards of 15 years after they blamed me for my wife leaving, cheating and stealing $250,000 from me. (It’s not stealing if you are married)
Please help.
Most modern women get drunk on their perception of their own power. Many women worked before the 1960’s and they made money they were married in their late teens and had kids while keeping house.
My grandmother was a maid in NYC while my grandfather was a dockworker. My grandmother used to scrub my grandfather’s back in the bathtub when he got home. My grandmother shopped, cleaned house and did laundry neatly by hand then ironed all the pants and shirts with a cast-iron iron that she heated on the stove. She did dishes, cleaned toilets at work and at home. She sewed by hand and by peddle powered sewing machine. She patched torn clothes when she could.
My grandfather cooked because that was his thing. When he was in the Army in WWII my grandmother worked 2 and 3 jobs, and cooked, cleaned and took care of 2 kids for 2 years on her own. No fast food, no instant dinners, no take out, no car, no telephone, no air conditioner, no microwave, air-fryer, rice cooker or crockpot. She made spaghetti with flour and eggs. There was no welfare, no section 8, and no housing projects. She made tomato sauce with tomatoes she bought from the grocer. No can goods. She made fresh muffins, fresh food and not one single complaint.
My grandmother buried my grandfather with a marble tombstone with her loving words to her “Mikey”. You will never see that kind of love from a woman today.
My grandfather bought my grandmother a $400 gold bracelet after 25 years of marriage. That’s $25,000 in today’s money. My grandmother never liked that. It was too much for her. She never wore that once but she loved my grandfather. She loved him. She never measured his height, income or dick size. She never nagged for a Prada bag. She never left him for another man. That was her first man and they loved each other.
Today women will take pride that she can’t boil water they look to the provider to provide everything. Gucci bags, a $200,000 2 karat diamond ring, $100,000 wedding, 2, $60,000 cars, $1 million home, maids, a six-figure man, six foot tall, six figure income, and she gives and does nothing at all but she brings everything to the table. What a joke. You women should be ashamed. You have 2, 3, 4, and even 5 and 6 kids from as many drug addicts and felons. It’s a disgrace to see this. Nasty.
“A woman can run faster and longer with her dress up than a man ever could with his pants down.”
Don’t get caught with your pants down.
Today’s woman, outside of the guidance of a patriarchal hierarchy, is free to choose her own fate when it comes down to finding a mate. She wants an Alpha or Beta man but she settles for the Alpha or Beta for his provisions and protection for the time being. (First order of business for a woman is to get security in whatever form it takes.) She is with the Alpha or Beta until she gets an Alpha or Beta to impregnate her.
Once with the Alpha or Beta, she tests his strength by mistreating him. By this point in her life, she has manipulated so many for so long that she manipulates herself into utter confusion. She will test the Alpha or Beta with drama and mistreatment. When the Alpha or Beta won’t put up with that treatment and walks out of her life. She will attempt to save face by blaming the Alpha or Beta with a phrase like, “He didn’t know how to handle me”. It’s his fault and his fault only. She remains faultless. She returns to the Alpha or Beta that will service her needs like the servant she needs but does not want.
She secretly hates the Alpha or Beta when he is “nice” to her and resents being around a spineless servant. She cheats on him behind his back and blames him for “letting” or “allowing” her to cheat on him.
Her misguided perception of ?,?,? and ?s is loosely based on her ever changing feelings about that person. Feelings change as the wind changes and so does her mind.
Women had shame at one time.
Shamed to be single after age 25.
Shamed to be with an evil man.
Shamed to be a single mom.
Shamed to be divorced.
Shamed to not be a virgin before marriage.
Shamed to be loud in public.
Shamed to cheat on her husband.
Shamed to accept welfare or public assistance.
Shamed to live off the government and get food stamps.
Shamed to have an abortion.
Shamed to hit a man without good cause.
But now, times have changed, for the modern woman. The things that use to be shameful are now the source of her power and the symbol of her self-proclaimed independence.
Here is the List of Non-Binary Gender-Fluid Pronouns for all you CIS-Gendered, Male Privileged (and in some cases) White Privileged, Misogynistic, Homophobic, Chauvinistic, Woman Hating Bastards.
These are all the gender-neutral pronouns I’ve managed to hunt down but I am ABSOLUTELY CERTAIN there are several missing. So let me know if you know of any others or if I conjugated these incorrectly:
they/them/their/themselves
tey/tem/ter/temself
ey/em/eir/emself
e/em/eir/emself
thon/thon/thons/thonself
fae/faer/faers/faerself
vae/vaer/vaers/vaerself
ae/aer/aers/aerself
ne/nym/nis/nymself
ne/nem/nir/nemself
xe/xem/xyr/xemself
xe/xim/xis/ximself
xie/xem/xyr/xemself
ze(or zie)/zir/zirs/zirself
zhe/zhir/zhirs/zhirself
ze/hir/hirs/hirself
sie/sier/siers/sierself
zed/zed/zeds/zedself
zed/zed/zeir/zedself
ce/cir/cirs/cirself
co/cos/cos/coself
ve/vis/vir/verself
jee/jem/jeir/jemself
lee/lim/lis/limself
kye/kyr/kyne/kyrself
per/per/pers/perself
hu/hum/hus/humself
bun/bun/buns/bunself
it/it/its/itself
I’ve also seen “yo” and “fey” pronouns but I have no idea how to conjugate them. And I’m off to still hunt for more! If you know of any Gender-Neutral pronouns feel free to re-blog and add unto the list and I’ll edit the original as well.
Women feel entitled to their husband’s money. They dare not spend their own. They will be on their provider’s side until they find a better provider. To a woman, there is no better provider than the government. When they switch their dependency from a man to the government being their provider their allegiance switches from the man to their new provider, the government. They now feel entitled to the government provisions because the government has Unlimited funds and the check come on time.
This is why women embrace socialism. They teach their sons to be momma’s boys and their daughters to sell themselves to the highest bidder collecting kids to be wards of the state along the way. Single moms love the money and vote socialist all the way.
Men are no longer competing for a woman to be his wife to start up a family. They are on a constant and never-ending battle to keep that wife on the straight and narrow to make a family work. Women, who are taught by the media, are on a constant and never-ending lookout for the provider with the most to offer. Kids or no kids, she will take her kids to a man she decides is a better man for her kids than the man that fathered them.
She will get the government to sleigh the father of her kids. It’s a never-ending perpetual web of lies, deceit and manipulation. The government protects the woman to strip the man of everything he owns because they are protecting their supporter.
The government is empowered when the people need a problem fixed. The government agrees to fix it using $1000 of tax money to throw $100 at a problem that would have taken $10. And the problem is not fixed.
Education is bad, the people cry out to the government, the government takes more tax money and makes the problem worse and in a few years the people will cry out again.
I have been riding the New York City Subway system since the 1960’s and on my own since the 1970’s. I had been known, from time to time, to offer my seat to the elderly and pregnant. I later found out the dangers of wrongly assuming someone being pregnant.
By the mid 1980’s I started to notice how few women gave up their seats to the elderly and pregnant. If they did, they mostly gave their seats to elderly women and not so many elderly men. When these women gave up their seats, they did it with anger that nobody gave their seat before they did. In fact, since the 1980’s I have only counted 3 women giving up their seats for an elderly man.
Now, when I do give up my seat, I only give it to elderly men and once in a while, I’ll give my seat to men that look like they had a hard day.
Women’s primary concern is her personal security. With that in mind, she is born insecure. They are not insecure like us men are, their insecurities are on a different level than men. They are constantly looking for an external source for their security. Men on the other hand, deep down know that they need to conquer their own insecurities.
Some women look for men with money. That is the easiest way to measure security. Those women choose the easy route. Other women look for emotionally weaker men to contrast themselves, making sure they are better than that guy. That, less than desirable guy, compared to her makes her feel good about herself. It’s like the hot girl that has a fat and ugly female friend to make the comparison even greater. She looks better compared to her friend. The ugly girl has a friend she can trust because neither of them are competing for the same man. The ugly girl gets to talk to the pretty girl’s leftovers that she would never have if she was alone. Both of those girls will try to sabotage the other’s relationships to keep their owe security in place.
When a woman asks you, “What kind of woman do you like?” She has already marked you as her potential personal provider and she needs to know how to be the kind of woman you like.
I always say, I love a successful, independent, intelligent woman that has never been married, very feminine and doesn’t come prepackaged with another man’s child.
This way I can redefine any part of this in any way I see fit.
Women:
– Would you still love your mother and father if they made less money than you do?
– Would you still love your sons and daughters if they made less money than you do?
– Would you still love your aunts and uncles if they made less money than you do?
– Would you still love your cousins if they made less money than you do?
– Would you still love your brothers and sisters if they made less money than you do?
– Then why won’t you love the man that you promised to love and cherish until death due you two apart?
– Why do you punish your own children by taking the most important man away from them when their father loses a job?
– Why do you use the police, lawyers and judges to break that man down when he does not fulfill every single one of your fantasies and cannot provide for your every want, need, desire and emotion on a silver platter, when, where and how you want it?
– Why do you choose to hate and not love the hand that fed you!
– Why do you exclude your love from the man you promised to love?
1. How many children have you lost in the hands of women?
2. How many were kidnapped and the courts allowed it?
3. How many women told you “This is your baby and it wasn’t?
4. How many of your children were killed at the hands of a woman? (Abortion or otherwise)
5. How many of the above have you seen in other men’s lives?
6. Were you kidnapped by your mother and kept from your father?
7. Did you know all your mother’s boyfriend’s names and never knew your father?
8. Do you want to be the father of another man’s children while yet another man tucks your kids to bed at night?
9. How much money have you wasted in lawyer’s fees, legal costs, court fees and time off work just to see your kids 4 days a month while another man tucks in your children at night?
10. Do these questions hurt too much?
11. Do you have what it takes to make a change for the better now?
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I ain’t playing softball no more.
She Will Test Your Love For Her
I have seen so many girls in the past deliberately go out of their way to start troubles with another man just to see if their man would fight for them. It’s like the boy who cried “wolf”. Later on, hearing from that girl to hear that she did it to see how much her man loves her, when deliberately putting her man in harm’s way was proof positive that she doesn’t care about him. When will a girl put the same efforts in loving her man?
Where are your Sons and Daughters?
In a massacre that is almost unspeakable, more than 66 million American babies have been murdered in the United States since Roe v. Wade was decided in 1973.
From time to time, in the beginnings of the many relationships I have had, the girls involved would stop to check if I loved them. They would all ask, “Do you love me?” and when I gave my truthful answer, they would almost always be disappointed and ask again during the course of the day. One girl even asked me if I loved her and right after I said my piece, she immediately said, “How about now?”, as if my mind changed that very second.
One day a new girl in my life started with the same question that all others in the past did. I answered her with, “I love you as much as you love me!”
I was set back by how angry she got right away. No doubt we had an argument about this, she was pissed off that I loved her so little, not realizing that she was admitting her lack of love towards me.
That hour we broke up with her saying, “I only want to date a man that loves me right from the start.” She was even more infuriated when I told her that she was easily replaced, and I’ll find another soon.
They say MGTOW’s are a bunch of men that are losers because they can’t get themselves a woman.
As for myself, here are my experiences with women with regards to having girlfriends:
I had a girlfriend that became pregnant and I thought I was the father. I took care of my responsibilities above and beyond what I saw others did. I slowed down my college, took on two jobs and bought supplies, clothes, furniture and other things for the baby to come. The baby was born. I’m Caucasian, my girlfriend was too. The baby that was born, was black. She blamed me for not “being there for her”. I walked away, but I said to myself, “Not all girls are like that” and moved on.
My next girlfriend got pregnant very early on despite my careful planning. But I accepted and then there were questions. Why was she 6 months pregnant when I was only with her for 5 months. Back then there was no DNA tests. A blood test proved upon birth that I could not be the father. She blamed me for not being able to control her, but I said to myself, “Not all girls are like that” and moved on.
I became more cautious. My next girlfriend I thought I chose carefully. She got pregnant too. The development of the fetus was on the same timeline as my presence. Then I received a phone call from someone that told me that I was interfering with his girl (my girlfriend). I invited him for coffee and we found out that my girlfriend was playing us both. $1,800 and a DNA test proved, I was not the father. Yes, she blamed her infidelity on me, but I said to myself, “Not all girls are like that” and moved on.
Then I became even more cautious. I rejected many until I was sued by a woman for child support. I only knew the girl’s first name and never laid a finger on her. She put my name on her child’s birth certificate and that was all that was needed. She was suing me with the help of the NY State Social Services. The case was dropped once it was discovered that the girl in question was petitioning the Department of Health to change the name of the father on the Birth Certificate, yet again. My name was the second name that was second father in a line of a few, but I said to myself, “Not all girls are like that” and moved on.
While the above was happening, I ran into one of my previous ex-girlfriends on the street. We exchanged numbers and the only reason she called me was to tell me that when she left me, she was pregnant and she had to abort it because I was not making enough money to raise it, trying to place her guilt on me. But I said to myself, “Not all girls are like that” and moved on.
I started to keep women at arm’s distance. Never telling them where I lived or work. (Pump and dump) in the same time that all of the above happened, I had one girl that told her friends that I had raped her. I have never touched her. Another girlfriend told her friends and mine, I raped her too. She was a pump and dumper.
I had girlfriends that told me their stepdad had regular sex with them since they were in their early teens. I had single mothers of girlfriends that wanted to have sex with me and when I turned them down, they convinced their daughter to break up with me. One aunt of my girlfriend did the same but left me alone once I turned her down. I had girlfriends whose best friends did the same.
I had girlfriends that said that they were pregnant when they were not.
Two of my ex-girlfriends were married and forgot to tell me.
One girlfriend told me that she had herpes and it was nothing to worry about while telling me how she scared men off in the past by telling them she had herpes.
I finally got married. She had good parents and a cool brother. I thought this was it. Weeks after we got married, she cried to me that she was unable to have children. I was upset but accepted my fate. Three weeks before Christmas and a week before our 3rd wedding anniversary, my wife left me and moved into her new boyfriend’s apartment. Only one week before this, my wife told me that the first time I had sex with her I raped her. What?!? I raped her and she married me? Make no mistake, she blamed me too. It was my fault that I believed her.
When I cleaned my apartment out, I found all her birth control pills hidden away in her side of the closet. People told me it was my fault for not checking up on her on a regular basis and not looking in her personal stuff. She gave birth to a boy a year later from the guy she moved in with after she left me.
My ex-wife stole $250,000 from me and spent $80,000 in credit card bills under my name and lawyers said I had no real recourse.
That was nearly 19 years ago. I’m 55 years old and a man last night told me I look like I’m in my early 40’s. 22 years of looking for a woman to partner with was a living hell. 19 years of single life had its ups and downs but I will never trade the life I have for a woman!
Since my divorce, I have had 15 women propose marriage to me. I’ve declined them all. They ask me why and I tell them the stories of my past. They almost always tell me the same things;
1 – “You picked the wrong women”
And
2 – “Not all girls are like that”
I had a late lunch with my liberal, leftist, Democrat sister today that had 3 kids from 3 different men and lives in NYC housing projects on government money. She had 3 child support payments and government subsidized housing, free gas and electricity, food stamps, and welfare. Meanwhile, she sublet one of her bedrooms for market rate and she had an off the books job. Now that the kids have grown, she bought a house on the waterfront in cash while maintaining the government subsidized rent.
She said that Trump was a racist that is only using the presidency to make himself richer. She never questions the $149 million Hillary Clinton made while she was Secretary of State or why she has $31 million in 4 mansions. She faults him for ending the war in Syria when Obama campaigned to end the wars as his number one priority. Instead, Obama, the Nobel Peace Prize winner before he was president for 2 months, started 12 wars including the one Trump ended in Syria.
The truth is that she wants to protect her source of income from her current husband, the government.
In my conversation with her I mentioned that every woman hates her husband. She corrected me by saying, I never hated any of my husbands, I just knew it was time for them to leave.
Women think that a man’s job is to:
1) Seek them out
2) Pursue them, even though they reject them at every stage (if you are worthy in her mind, you should keep pursuing although she is telling you to stop. If you are not worthy in her mind, watch out)
3) Impress them
4) Wine and dine them
5) Find what makes her happy and do it constant because she will refuse to take any action for her own.
6) Be richer than all of her previous boyfriends
7) Satisfy her in bed better than all other men she has been with. (Again, she will give you not a single clue about what she wants or enjoys)
8) Be her provider and provide for all her wants needs and desires when she wants it and how she wants it no matter the cost.
9) Protect her no matter if she puts you in harm’s way deliberately just to see how you perform.
10) Act jealous but not too jealous. It’s all to her liking and she will flirt with others to see how you react. So, perform to her liking again.
11) Do all the above or she won’t see you again but she will treat you like a wimp when you do all she expects from you.
Fuck all that shit:
1) If you want me to protect you with my life, show me that you are worth my time and you are worth me dying over.
2) If you want a King in your life don’t expect me to be your servant. Kings are obeyed and servants get stepped on.
3) What can you do for me that I can’t do or pay for myself?
4) Are you even worth my time, efforts, energy and resources or are you going to add to my work? I like driving nice cars. High maintenance cars get left on the side of the road.
Women today are so demanding and unforgiving with their ultra-high, wants, needs and desires that are on fantasy levels and have never been attained before in her lifetime. They are not satisfied with a man just liking them, they want love, and not only love on a scale never before experienced, they want their man to be in love with them and constantly prove it under any and all conditions. A woman will test that “love” with every trick she has. In her way, she is saying, “Love me even though I kicked you in your balls”. To her that is unconditional love. If you try to explain to her that the love that she demands is developed over many years and does not come in a packet of instant love (just add water), she will instantly think that you are weaseling out of your duty to be in love with her while passing all her tests. At this point, she will pacify you and keep you happy until she finds another man to start the process off from the beginning.
She will have many other demands that she wants of her “little performing monkey”, but she will never tell him what she wants, she will just hint.
Over and over again I hear women and some men make the statement that the key to a good relationship is communication, but the woman is guilty of the breakdown because she communicates in hints.
You are just another resource to her as she is looking to monkey branch to the next unsuspecting guy she finds.
Finding a replacement guy for her is easy as she can easily find some guy to believe her one sided tales of your abusive ways. The new guy will immediately believe her and her alone as he ignores the other side of the story. He falsely feels good as her new protector and she feels protected that this new guy believes her and her alone.
When and if she finds the person that knows what she wants, and bends over backwards to give her that.
They asked me why so many strong women are single. This was my answer;
1) Because women always marry up. They marry, stronger, faster, richer, taller, etc. it’s hard for them to stay with a man when they are constantly comparing their status attributes and competing with any man that comes their way.
2) They are dominant, domineering and they tend to be dominant towards their men. That is not a feminine attribute. Weak men like to be dominated and strong man will walk away from that.
3) They are not looking for a partner, they are looking for a competitor and they don’t know when to stop.
4) The women who believe they are strong are weak because they believe they need to show off their strength 24/7 non-stop.
5) They consider themselves strong and need to prove it every step of the way and they think a stronger man will do the same.
6) They are looking for a man stronger than they are (their own personal definition of strength) and they believe a strong man will do the same as they do only longer and better.
7) They want a man to put them in their (subjectively defined) place although they will never acknowledge their (self-perceived) place, thus proving themselves weaker.
For those of you that are still looking for Miss. Right, here is an impassable test for her.
Ask her the following;
1) How many successful relationships have you had?
The answer should be zero. You need to also ask why it was successful. Did she achieve her objective and left? If it was so successful, why did it end? If she is over 25, why can’t you maintain a relationship?
2) Are you looking for a “Provider”?
If she answers, “Yes”, you need to ask her who is providing for her now. You also need to ask her, what provisions does she require?
3) Why did your last relationship end?
Whatever she answers, you hold that against her. Some common answers are;
a. “We didn’t get along” – Then ask her why can’t she get along with people.
b. “We weren’t ‘right’ for each other” – Then ask her why she started dating him if he wasn’t ‘right’ for her.
c. “He cheated”
“He lied”
“He was a drug addict”
Then you really hit her with, “Wow, you sure know how to pick ’em. You must really like the ‘Bad boys’ and you have issues.”
4) “He was abusive” – Tell her that you can find 10,000 men that will absolutely will never hit a woman. She found the abuser. She found the one man out of 10,000 that will hit a woman. Either that or she must have done something to get abused. Beatings don’t just drop from the sky.
5) If she tells you, “He always did what I told him” You need to ask her why did she asked him to do things she never wanted him to do.
Add your own test below in the comments.
From the time I was a child to my twilight years I’ve heard young girls telling their friends how hot their step-dad is…
…And you want to date a single mom.
I’ve often heard young girls brag (mostly lies) how they had sex with their step-dad…
…And you want to date a single mom.
Many years I heard stories of girls telling their friends that their step-dad was molesting them.
…And you want to date a single mom.
When your girlfriend (a single mom) wants to punish you for not wanting to marry her, she will accuse you of molesting her daughter.
…And you still want to date a single mom.
When you turn down a woman’s sexual advances, she will stop at nothing to lash out at you. Her daughter is no different.
…And you still want to date a single mom.
I spoke to a 76-year-old man the other day. He was a minister and a marriage counselor for 45 years. He told me that the first 12 years of his marriage counseling experience, he couldn’t believe how bad all the men were. One day he started all his initial counseling session with the question, “How is your relationship with your spouse?” He would ask the husband first and then the wife. What he found out was eye-opening.
All of the husbands would answer the question by saying everything is OK. The wife, on the contrary would mention every single one of the man’s “faults” to a tee including anything and everything that was not under either of their control.
He also said how the wife would use the word, “enough” as part of her complain. They would say, “He doesn’t love me enough.”, “He doesn’t spend enough time with kids” and the dreaded, “He doesn’t give me enough attention.”
When he’d ask the wife, “What is enough?” They would almost always reply, “More than he is doing now”. When he asked the wives what their solution was. The answer was almost always be, “Divorce”. Just imagine that, they would think that the solution to not spending “enough” time with the kids, was a permanent dismissal from the home.
I remember back in the 1970’s there was a documentary about prostitution in New York City. The hookers said they charged $100 per hour.
In the 1980’s when I worked the New York City nightclub scene, it was still about $100 per hour.
By the late 1990’s a friend of mine told me that he pays women $70 – $80 per hour.
Over this past weekend, (August 2019) a man told me that the going rate was about $50 per hour.
You might think that the price of a call girl’s hourly service fee has gone down $50 in 50 years, and you’d be wrong. If you factor in for inflation, the $100 back in the 1970’s had the buying power of today’s $661. That is a savings of 92%. Factor in the Law of Supply and Demand and you will see that the ladies of the evening were scarce back then, thus commanding a higher price. What does that say about the girls of today?
– When a woman hits a man, the man is wrong. She must have hit him for a reason.
– When a man hits a woman, he is wrong and he goes to jail.
– When a man divorces a woman, he is wrong and he will pay.
– When a woman divorces a man, takes his kids, he must have done something wrong and he must pay.
– When a man cheats, on a woman, she will leave him and he needs to pay.
– When a woman cheats and brings another child into a man’s life, he is supposed to be understanding.
If a woman sues for divorce and takes everything a man has worked for his entire life, and now he needs to rent an apartment and ride the bus, he is no good.
I remember one day this woman wanted to introduce me to a “Good Girl”. A really “Nice Girl” that was asking around about me. When I found out she was talking about her niece, I asked her son about his cousin. He told me to stay away from his cousin. He didn’t say it in the way a brother does to protect her. He told me that his cousin had 5 kids from 5 different restaurant owners. Was divorced twice and never had any kids from those marriages. He also told me that his cousin was a real dominator. She felt the need to dominate anyone she saw fit.
I never stopped by my friend’s place again. Sure, we went out from time to time but I never went back to his mom’s place as his cousin was in the process of breaking up with the last father of her last child and preparing to move in with her mom. (Dependency, Dependency, Dependency).
As time went by, my friend told me stories about his cousin. She was pregnant with restaurant owner #1 while still married with husband #1. That fizzled out fast and just like that divorce #1 was done and husband #2 cucked his way in. She was pregnant again with restaurant owner #2 and divorce # 2 soon followed.
She hid the fact that she had children at all when she met the next 3 restaurant owners. She had 2 abortions when she was in her teens and had a host of STDs in the past. She even had a few drug-addicted boyfriends and one in prison.
If this is a “Good Girl” and a “Nice Girl” I sure hate to see what a bad girl is like.=
Back in 2003 I had a very interesting conversation with a girl I met at a Starbucks in Manhattan (New York City). We talked for hours and I started to get hungry. I offered to pay for soup in this fancy Chinese soup restaurant across the street. Since she was a student at Columbia University, I knew she had no money.
We continued the conversation at the restaurant when she almost immediately said why she picked Columbia University. She told me that she was looking for a rich man to take care of her. I never flinched a muscle and continued to talk to her.
I already knew what a girl means when she says, “take care of me”. It means that she will do absolutely nothing at all for the provisions that she expects from her provider. What it means is she expects that you provide for her every want, need and desire, when, where and how she wants without any reciprocation on her part. If you do not fulfill all of her very unreasonable fantasies as she demands, a scorched-earth divorce is your punishment.
I finished the meal and paid for the bill. We put on our coats and walked out the door. Outside, I shook her hand and wished her well as I started to walk away. Astonished, she asked me why I was not asking for her phone number. I simply said, “I’m not rich, but there are many guys out there that are way more financially gifted than I am.” Then I walked away and never turned back.
When my wife walked out on me, she moved in with her new simp right away.
Soon after the accusations were pounding on my face;
– You must have done something wrong for her to leave you?
– What did you do to her to make her leave you?
– She must have left you for a reason.
– You picked the wrong girl.
– Maybe you didn’t know how to satisfy her.
– Maybe you didn’t know how to make her happy.
– You hate women.
The funny thing about this is that when word got around that my wife left me, All the single moms, divorced women and married women started to show their availability to me in a very overtly sexual way.
When I told the married women that I do not play that game, they went back to their husbands and told them I made a move on them.
As for the single moms and divorced women, they would spread rumors about me when I refused their advances.
I had young girls telling me that their mommy “likes me”. I’ve even had one woman telling me that her daughter (a woman that had 5 kids from 5 different restaurant owners) was asking about me. She also had a simp of a boyfriend that never met with her mother’s approval.
When I denied advances from a girl, I was immediately called gay and other names. One woman suggested that I go on a gay dating site. I nearly lost it and blew up in her face. She started to giggle at my anger only stating, “You’re angry.” And maybe that’s why my wife left me.
Women at work spread all kinds of allegations about the reasons my wife left me without even knowing me or my ex that well. It was like living in a bizarro world on never ending accusations and advances. It got so crazy that I had to take a break from even talking about my divorce to anyone.
What are your experiences?
Were they similar to mine?
Stupid Shit That Only Women Say:
– He didn’t give me enough attention.
– I’m high maintenance.
– He couldn’t handle me.
– He is too nice.
– He wasn’t man enough.
– I’m worth it.
– He didn’t make me happy.
– I’m picky.
– There must be a reason.
– I’m bored
– He made me angry.
– He let me manipulate him.
– I want someone that will take care of me.
– He’s afraid of commitments.
– I don’t love him anymore.
– I’m highly educated.
– I’m a strong independent woman.
– You hate women.
They say I don’t know women. They say I’m jaded because of one girl that divorced me.
I’m ashamed to say that I had many girlfriends in my life. I have never cheated on any of my past girlfriends, I was accused several times.
I never hit any woman with whom I was involved. The other girls I’ve hit in the past I didn’t know and were self-defense.
I’ve had 3 girls that claimed that I got them pregnant. Thanks to a blood test (semi paternity test in the 1980’s), racial differences (I’m not black, neither was my girlfriend. The child was), and DNA testing, I’m not a father.
There were rumors that a girlfriend of mine had an abortion, she said it was mine.
One girlfriend told me flat out that she had aborted my child.
One girl put me on a birth certificate, I never even touched her and didn’t know her last name. Family court was called off when it was found out that she petitioned the Board of Health multiple times to change the father’s names, all different.
I had 4 girlfriends whose mothers (single moms, all 4 of them) were overtly hitting on me, when I refused, their mothers acted all the same, they told my girlfriend I was hitting on them.
4 – 6 of my friend’s girlfriends wanted to get with me and when I turned them down, good bye friends. (See above)
I had one girlfriend whose aunt hit on me and when I said no, she left it alone.
2 of my ex’s were married and they kept that small fact away from me.
I dated two single mothers, that was a big mistake both times.
4 of my ex’s claimed they had an ongoing affair with their stepfather. So, how do you feel about dating a single mom with a daughter now?
I’m not bragging, some of my ex’s fit into 2, 3 and 4 of these categories.
3 girls claimed that I raped them, (never formally) including my ex-wife who made the claim 2 weeks before she handed me my divorce papers about the first time we had sex, before we were married. Yeah, I raped her, then we got married, if you believe that one.
I had a few girlfriends that claimed to have been raped. But other things indicated otherwise.
I dated a famous singer of the 1970’s. I was 22 she was 38. She is still kicking at 69. No, it wasn’t Barbara Streisand.
I was involved with a rock star when she was in high school and I was at a nearby college.
I was involved with an actress whose both parents were very well-known actors.
1 of my ex’s was the unspoken love-child of, then Attorney General at the time, later on he became mayor of NYC and he ran for president in 2008.
I dated a model for Victoria Secret and Talbot.
I dated a woman that was worth $40 million and I thought that money would not be a reason we break up. It was. She said that I couldn’t keep up with her vacationing habits.
Between 2011 and 2014 I have had 14 women that asked me to marry them. OK, truth be told, most of them wanted green cards, at least 10 of them admitted that. 3 were foreigners that didn’t admit that’s why they wanted to marry. The last one was crazy. I’m 53 now, you gotta take what you can get at my age.
In the 1980’s I worked for a very famous club promoter in NYC. We worked at Studio 54, Tracks, Xenon, The Red Parrot, The Underground, The Palladium, etc. and I had a public access cable TV show that I filmed at these places. I had my choice of women.
I only had 2 girlfriends that were very cool but they both went back to Germany. Who knows, maybe they were the ones that got away and maybe I never knew them long enough. Who really knows?
My mom was a single mom by 1967. Her and my sister persistently tried to overpower me every chance they had. I knew all my mom’s boyfriends but I didn’t know my dad until I was 14. I really grew to like him when I reunited with him at age 48.
My sister had 3 kids from 3 men and I watched how she destroyed all men in her path.
I created my own escort service and had 3 girls going on 1 or 2 dates a night 5 – 6 days a week. I did this while working at an office job.
I worked as a phone psychic for 2 1/2 years where I would receive 20 – 30 phone calls per day 7 days a week. 95% of the callers were women wanting to know if one guy loves them while they plan to leave another.
Most of my callers would be women complaining about their income source (their husband or boyfriend) while working on a new one that is still married or in a more committed relationship. They would tell me how their man would not live up to their expectation of what they imagined. I would always tell them that there are two men in their lives; one that they wanted to come into their life, the other one they want to leave. I would tell these women this even before they speak. They were so typical.
Day in and day out it was a factory assembly line of women telling me what they couldn’t tell their clergymen, friends, relatives or psychiatrists? It was no wonder how I pegged them so well without even a word from their mouths.
They would never see their actions as cheating. I would tell these women that I see them working hard to get a commitment from the married men they want but the men do not seem to be responding. I would usually praise these women with the level of effort they were providing in order to get their target men to commit to them. I even told these women that they were going above and beyond what they would usually do for the new man in order to get him to commit to her.
These women that called me were always so frustrated at their efforts to get an attached man to leave their committed partner and commit to them instead. Their dependencies were so intertwined. They depended on a man they hated while they looked at a new attached man as their new dependency. They will never drop one for the other. Walking that fine line to hold one in place while trying their best to attract and hold on to the new one. Never leaving the first dependency until the second one is secured tightly.
This is “Monkey Branching” at its finest.
Back in 2004, I received a call from a woman and after giving her my shtick, she asked me, “When is my Johnny coming back to me?”
In order to take more time (charging $6.99 per minute) I asked her Johnny’s date of birth and the last time she was intimate with him, so my spirit guide could contact with his spirit.
She quickly said, “June 23, 1972”
Thinking that was Johnny’s complete birth date, I asked her again when she was last intimate with Johnny. She told me, “1972”.
I had to get things straight with her as I was a bit confused. She began by telling me that she met this man back in 1972 after a concert in which Johnny was playing. She slept with him the same day and he tried to go his own way.
She persisted in seeing him in every local concert he played. He didn’t care about her.
She even moved into the same gated community and followed him to concerts when he was local. Johnny had to pass pictures of this stalker to security whenever he has a gig.
Years passed and he got married. She didn’t take the hint. She persisted in stalking him. She followed him when he moved to Upstate New York and again to New Jersey. She even told me that she married a man to get him jealous. When he had kids, she got pregnant to get his attention.
A number of ‘Protection Orders’ and she still never backed off.
Now we are in 2004. She divorced her husband and now spends weekends in her husband’s parent’s basement and weekdays at her husband’s place. Her 11-year-old daughter rather stay with her father than her mom. She could never hold a job to save her life. Johnny keeps getting ‘Protection Orders’ when the one before expires.
Johnny is still in a band and travels to Europe and all over the United States. He has 3 kids and is still married with his wife of 14 years.
Do you still want a side piece?