A real woman does not cheat on her husband.
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Thursday, October 2, 2025
How Stingy and Petty Women Can Be
When Kobe Bryant and his nine-year-old daughter died in a helicopter crash, he left his wife a $680 million estate.
Five years later, Kobe’s parents were struggling financially. His widow refused to help them.
Five years later, Kobe’s parents were struggling financially. His widow refused to help them.
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80% of divorces are initiated by women and family courts will stop fathers getting custody to see their kids.
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Wednesday, October 1, 2025
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A real man won’t sit there and watch his woman struggle to pay her bills. He will breakup with her and get with a woman that is worth something.
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A real man won’t sit there and watch his woman struggle to pay her bills. He will breakup with her and get with a woman that is worth something.
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Women Will Almost Never Be Generous
Hetty Green, known as The Witch of Wall Street, is listed in the Guinness Book of World Records as the stingiest woman in history. Her net worth in today’s dollars was over $5.4 billion.
Despite her extreme wealth, she married a millionaire and lived on leftover cakes and broken biscuits from a nearby bakery.
She caused her own son to lose his leg because she wasted time looking for a free clinic instead of paying a hospital bill.
She died in 1916 at the age of 81 from a stroke while arguing with her maid over a pay raise.
Despite her extreme wealth, she married a millionaire and lived on leftover cakes and broken biscuits from a nearby bakery.
She caused her own son to lose his leg because she wasted time looking for a free clinic instead of paying a hospital bill.
She died in 1916 at the age of 81 from a stroke while arguing with her maid over a pay raise.
Tuesday, September 30, 2025
Men and Women Lie
I was at a gathering with three men and four women when one woman suddenly blurted, “Men are dogs. They lie all the time to get what they want from us women.”
The men turned to me, knowing I was about to say something the women would not like.
I said, “Yes, men lie. They say, ‘I love you,’ or, ‘You are the most beautiful woman in the world,’ and you eat it up. Do you really believe it when a man says you are the most beautiful woman on the planet? But women lie too. They say, ‘You are the father,’ or, ‘He was abusive.’ The truth is, both sexes lie.”
One woman huffed. “You are generalizing. Not all women are like that. You cannot judge all women like that.”
I responded, “You started this conversation by saying men are dogs and that they lie all the time. Was that not a generalization? Was that not a judgment? I gave examples of both sexes lying, but you only defended women. Did I not also make examples about men? Why did you jump to defend women as if I only criticized them? Why do you excuse negative generalizations about men but take offense when it is about women?”
She said, “You made it seem like women are evil.”
I replied, “I never said that. I spoke about both sides equally. I do not understand your concern.”
She thought she ended the conversation by saying, “You hate women,” as the other women nodded in agreement.
I said, “Are you not a hater of men if you make such negative statements about men?”
I know, I ruin the party sometimes.
The men turned to me, knowing I was about to say something the women would not like.
I said, “Yes, men lie. They say, ‘I love you,’ or, ‘You are the most beautiful woman in the world,’ and you eat it up. Do you really believe it when a man says you are the most beautiful woman on the planet? But women lie too. They say, ‘You are the father,’ or, ‘He was abusive.’ The truth is, both sexes lie.”
One woman huffed. “You are generalizing. Not all women are like that. You cannot judge all women like that.”
I responded, “You started this conversation by saying men are dogs and that they lie all the time. Was that not a generalization? Was that not a judgment? I gave examples of both sexes lying, but you only defended women. Did I not also make examples about men? Why did you jump to defend women as if I only criticized them? Why do you excuse negative generalizations about men but take offense when it is about women?”
She said, “You made it seem like women are evil.”
I replied, “I never said that. I spoke about both sides equally. I do not understand your concern.”
She thought she ended the conversation by saying, “You hate women,” as the other women nodded in agreement.
I said, “Are you not a hater of men if you make such negative statements about men?”
I know, I ruin the party sometimes.
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If he wants traditional family and gender roles, he's a beta male, creep or "living in the 1950s".
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Monday, September 29, 2025
The Many Powers That Men Have
Men have the rare ability to shut out everything and focus entirely on one thing until the job is done. You see it when a man is watching his game of choice and nothing anyone says or does breaks his focus until the commercial break.
Men also have the ability to self-sacrifice for the good of the team. "Take one for the team" is not just a phrase. In WWI and WWII, men threw themselves on live grenades to save their brothers in arms.
Women think everything is connected to everything else.
1. How she looks depends on how others see her.
2. How she feels depends on how she looks.
3. How successful she is depends on how she feels.
After 60 years of the feminist movement, they still believe the smartest business move they can make is to marry the right man. Once again, dependency on others.
Every story about why women cheat centers on her dependence. Listen to her words: "He didn't make me happy," "He made me upset," "He made me feel unwanted," "He made me cry." Then when she is pleased: "He makes me feel good," "He makes me feel confident," "He makes me laugh," "He makes me smile."
There is always an outside source she depends on. Always.
Men also have the ability to self-sacrifice for the good of the team. "Take one for the team" is not just a phrase. In WWI and WWII, men threw themselves on live grenades to save their brothers in arms.
Women think everything is connected to everything else.
1. How she looks depends on how others see her.
2. How she feels depends on how she looks.
3. How successful she is depends on how she feels.
After 60 years of the feminist movement, they still believe the smartest business move they can make is to marry the right man. Once again, dependency on others.
Every story about why women cheat centers on her dependence. Listen to her words: "He didn't make me happy," "He made me upset," "He made me feel unwanted," "He made me cry." Then when she is pleased: "He makes me feel good," "He makes me feel confident," "He makes me laugh," "He makes me smile."
There is always an outside source she depends on. Always.
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Adolf Hitler : 6 million Jews.
Planned Parenthood : 68 million babies and counting.
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Planned Parenthood : 68 million babies and counting.
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Sunday, September 28, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 272
She publicly humiliated men on the first date in order to test them. She wonders why she’s single at 40.
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She publicly humiliated men on the first date in order to test them. She wonders why she’s single at 40.
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Mommy-daughter Day
Single mothers and married mothers looking to upgrade their husbands will often take their daughters out to socialize. The mother uses her daughter’s presence to attract men while blocking any man who shows more interest in the daughter than in her.
Man: “Hey, you two look like sisters.”
That kind of line makes the mother tingle inside.
Just like a fat, unattractive friend will chase off men interested in her better-looking friend, the mother will run interference for herself. In these situations, a second man is often needed to take one for the team by charming the mother or the chubby friend so the other man can pursue his target.
Man: “Hey, you two look like sisters.”
That kind of line makes the mother tingle inside.
Just like a fat, unattractive friend will chase off men interested in her better-looking friend, the mother will run interference for herself. In these situations, a second man is often needed to take one for the team by charming the mother or the chubby friend so the other man can pursue his target.
Saturday, September 27, 2025
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Her best idea of meeting “the right one” is finding a way to manipulate him into approaching her.
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Her best idea of meeting “the right one” is finding a way to manipulate him into approaching her.
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Women Love Jerks
Let’s face it, women are often drawn to bad men. I have spent a lifetime searching for someone who could be a wife and a loving mother in a stable home. Yet the more love you show, the more disrespect you get.
Women will cry over the abusive man who left them, run to your arms for comfort, let you restore them, and then leave you for another abuser. It is like a boxer retreating to the corner between rounds to be patched up, only to step right back into the fight. She uses the man with resources for stability but always goes back to the one who hurts her. She may even tell the next man you were abusive because victimhood has value when it goes unchallenged.
I know this too well. Over 24 years of relationships, I have watched women I cared about betray me for abusive men.
If you rescue a damsel in distress, care for her, provide for her, and protect her, she will often leave you for another abuser, only to become a damsel in distress again. She enjoys the rescue.
I do not drink, smoke, or use drugs. I have never been to prison. I live clean and I have always made sure the women I dated had similar values. Yet many of my exes told me horror stories about abusive, deceptive, and violent men they dated before me. And after we broke up, most went to men even worse.
Two of my exes ended up with heroin addicts. Three others, including my ex-wife, chose heavy drinkers. One dated a man already married with two kids, who also had another child with a different woman in his home country. At the same time, he had two women pregnant, one in the Bronx and another in Washington Heights.
One ex dated a car thief. I read later in the news that he took her on a joyride in a stolen car. It ended in a high-speed chase on the Long Island Expressway, a crash, and a hospital bed. He was paralyzed. She had multiple broken bones.
Another moved in with a felon on parole. Yet another fell under the control of a pimp.
People hear this and say, “You picked the wrong women,” or, “Where do you find these women?”
My answer is simple: How can anyone predict someone’s future choices? Should I have earned a Ph.D. in human behavior by the age of 19 just to date?
This is not just my experience. I have seen the same pattern in the lives of friends, family, coworkers, classmates, and neighbors. It shows up on social media, in YouTube videos, and everywhere else.
Corrections officers across the country will tell you most male inmates have children with multiple women who visit them regularly. Some even start new relationships from prison. High-profile violent criminals receive love letters from women all over the world after they are arrested.
There is even a trend where women in church prison ministries leave their husbands and children, give up alimony and shared property, and marry inmates serving long sentences or life.
Women will cry over the abusive man who left them, run to your arms for comfort, let you restore them, and then leave you for another abuser. It is like a boxer retreating to the corner between rounds to be patched up, only to step right back into the fight. She uses the man with resources for stability but always goes back to the one who hurts her. She may even tell the next man you were abusive because victimhood has value when it goes unchallenged.
I know this too well. Over 24 years of relationships, I have watched women I cared about betray me for abusive men.
If you rescue a damsel in distress, care for her, provide for her, and protect her, she will often leave you for another abuser, only to become a damsel in distress again. She enjoys the rescue.
I do not drink, smoke, or use drugs. I have never been to prison. I live clean and I have always made sure the women I dated had similar values. Yet many of my exes told me horror stories about abusive, deceptive, and violent men they dated before me. And after we broke up, most went to men even worse.
Two of my exes ended up with heroin addicts. Three others, including my ex-wife, chose heavy drinkers. One dated a man already married with two kids, who also had another child with a different woman in his home country. At the same time, he had two women pregnant, one in the Bronx and another in Washington Heights.
One ex dated a car thief. I read later in the news that he took her on a joyride in a stolen car. It ended in a high-speed chase on the Long Island Expressway, a crash, and a hospital bed. He was paralyzed. She had multiple broken bones.
Another moved in with a felon on parole. Yet another fell under the control of a pimp.
People hear this and say, “You picked the wrong women,” or, “Where do you find these women?”
My answer is simple: How can anyone predict someone’s future choices? Should I have earned a Ph.D. in human behavior by the age of 19 just to date?
This is not just my experience. I have seen the same pattern in the lives of friends, family, coworkers, classmates, and neighbors. It shows up on social media, in YouTube videos, and everywhere else.
Corrections officers across the country will tell you most male inmates have children with multiple women who visit them regularly. Some even start new relationships from prison. High-profile violent criminals receive love letters from women all over the world after they are arrested.
There is even a trend where women in church prison ministries leave their husbands and children, give up alimony and shared property, and marry inmates serving long sentences or life.
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Women hate it when the government forces them to be mothers. They only want the government to forced men to pay.
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Friday, September 26, 2025
Promiscuity: Male Vs. Female
If you put a good woman in front of a man who has slept with a thousand women, he will value her because men judge women by who they are in the present, not by their past. He will protect her, care for her, and see her as something worth keeping.
But if you put the best man in front of a woman who has slept with more than five men, she will pick him apart piece by piece. She will focus on every flaw, real or imagined, because women judge men by their ability to measure up to every man she has ever been with. Her mind will compare, her ego will test, and her loyalty will falter the second she feels she can “do better.”
Men forgive a woman’s past when they see present value. Women punish a man in the present for not matching the fantasy she built from her past. That is why a man can cherish a woman who has been through hell, but a woman will discard a man who doesn’t measure up to her smallest expectation.
But if you put the best man in front of a woman who has slept with more than five men, she will pick him apart piece by piece. She will focus on every flaw, real or imagined, because women judge men by their ability to measure up to every man she has ever been with. Her mind will compare, her ego will test, and her loyalty will falter the second she feels she can “do better.”
Men forgive a woman’s past when they see present value. Women punish a man in the present for not matching the fantasy she built from her past. That is why a man can cherish a woman who has been through hell, but a woman will discard a man who doesn’t measure up to her smallest expectation.
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Women have the legislative "right" to abortion. Men don't have the legislative right to say no to child support.
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Thursday, September 25, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 269
She does not want a man to love and raise a family. She wants a man to raise her status in every way possible.
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She does not want a man to love and raise a family. She wants a man to raise her status in every way possible.
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Her : You make it seem like all women are bad.
TheXYGhost : I’m not responsible for your interpretations.
TheXYGhost : I’m not responsible for your interpretations.
I Can Do Better
When a man says he can do better, he rolls up his sleeves and gets to work. He grinds through long nights, sacrifices comfort, learns new skills, takes risks, and eats failure for breakfast until he creates something worth respecting. He builds himself from the ground up because he knows no one is coming to save him.
When a woman says she can do better, she doesn’t roll up her sleeves, she rolls her eyes and looks for a man who has already built the life she wants to step into. She scans for success someone else has bled for, a lifestyle someone else earned, and positions herself to enjoy the rewards without enduring the process.
A man’s “better” comes from what he creates.
A woman’s “better” too often comes from who she can attach herself to after the work is already done.
When a woman says she can do better, she doesn’t roll up her sleeves, she rolls her eyes and looks for a man who has already built the life she wants to step into. She scans for success someone else has bled for, a lifestyle someone else earned, and positions herself to enjoy the rewards without enduring the process.
A man’s “better” comes from what he creates.
A woman’s “better” too often comes from who she can attach herself to after the work is already done.
Wednesday, September 24, 2025
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Height matters to her because it’s a status symbol, part of how she competes with other women.
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Height matters to her because it’s a status symbol, part of how she competes with other women.
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The most popular way a woman murders her husband is poisoning his food. And you want a woman to cook for you.
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The First Commandment Is the Hardest to Follow
In my relentless search to understand why men and women often clash at the deepest levels, I sought out experts. Psychiatrists, therapists, educated men and women with years of study behind them. Yet every explanation they offered felt incomplete, shallow, or conveniently sidestepped the brutal truth.
Then I began meeting weekly with a minister to discuss the nature of relationships between men and women. Week after week, we explored the tension between the sexes, the repeated failures, the cycles of attraction and disappointment. One day, as our session ended, he looked me in the eye and said, “The first commandment is the hardest to follow.”
The first commandment, Exodus 20:3:“Thou shalt have no other gods before me.”
I left puzzled. I had never bowed to Zeus, Apollo, Thor, or Aphrodite. I did not worship idols. Why would this matter to my question?
It took time, weeks of reflection, before the truth hit me: we make gods out of each other.
The old saying, Never meet your heroes, explains it. When you meet them, they rarely match the perfect image in your mind. The higher you elevate them, the further they fall when reality sets in.
Parents who idolize their children, treating them as incapable of wrongdoing, cripple them. They remove discipline, they erase boundaries, and they feed a delusion that only gods are flawless.
In relationships, men often turn women into goddesses. They worship beauty, charm, and allure, ignoring the warnings, the flaws, the evidence in front of them. They sacrifice their standards to keep her on a pedestal. When reality breaks through and the goddess bleeds like anyone else, the man feels betrayed, not by her actions, but by the collapse of the image he built.
Women do the same but with sharper judgment. They dream up a godlike man who is a provider, protector, redeemer, and savior all in one. He must be a fountain of happiness, love, attention, and security. The moment he falters, misses a beat, shows a flaw, has a bad day, he is stripped of divinity and cast aside. Boyfriends, fiancés, husbands, all replaced because no mortal man can meet divine expectations.
We are not built to worship each other, yet we do it constantly. And when the gods we invent fail to perform miracles, we do not forgive them, we crucify them.
Then I began meeting weekly with a minister to discuss the nature of relationships between men and women. Week after week, we explored the tension between the sexes, the repeated failures, the cycles of attraction and disappointment. One day, as our session ended, he looked me in the eye and said, “The first commandment is the hardest to follow.”
The first commandment, Exodus 20:3:“Thou shalt have no other gods before me.”
I left puzzled. I had never bowed to Zeus, Apollo, Thor, or Aphrodite. I did not worship idols. Why would this matter to my question?
It took time, weeks of reflection, before the truth hit me: we make gods out of each other.
The old saying, Never meet your heroes, explains it. When you meet them, they rarely match the perfect image in your mind. The higher you elevate them, the further they fall when reality sets in.
Parents who idolize their children, treating them as incapable of wrongdoing, cripple them. They remove discipline, they erase boundaries, and they feed a delusion that only gods are flawless.
In relationships, men often turn women into goddesses. They worship beauty, charm, and allure, ignoring the warnings, the flaws, the evidence in front of them. They sacrifice their standards to keep her on a pedestal. When reality breaks through and the goddess bleeds like anyone else, the man feels betrayed, not by her actions, but by the collapse of the image he built.
Women do the same but with sharper judgment. They dream up a godlike man who is a provider, protector, redeemer, and savior all in one. He must be a fountain of happiness, love, attention, and security. The moment he falters, misses a beat, shows a flaw, has a bad day, he is stripped of divinity and cast aside. Boyfriends, fiancés, husbands, all replaced because no mortal man can meet divine expectations.
We are not built to worship each other, yet we do it constantly. And when the gods we invent fail to perform miracles, we do not forgive them, we crucify them.
Tuesday, September 23, 2025
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She’ll test you with toxic behavior to see if you’re useful for her ego, control, amusement or attention.
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She’ll test you with toxic behavior to see if you’re useful for her ego, control, amusement or attention.
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She took his phone and EpiPen, then served him a salad made with peanut oil. As his allergic reaction started, she laughed and said it was payback for his cheap birthday gift.
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She Will Test You Until You Two Break up
She Will Test You Until You Two Break Up
• She will test your strength to no end.
• She will endlessly search for your weak points and exploit them.
• She will poke holes in your armor.
• She will place obstacles in your path.
• She will create roadblocks to your goals.
• She will cry that you are not putting her first.
• She will add problems to your day.
• She will add drama to your hard day.
• She will complain that you are not doing enough for her.
•• If you accept her as she is, then you are too weak for her liking and she will search for another provider.
•• If you correct her, then you are abusive, and she will seek out another provider.
•• If you walk away from this abusive behavior, then you are the one who could not handle her.
Like one woman once told me, “You are not supposed to trust me, only love me.”
• She will test your strength to no end.
• She will endlessly search for your weak points and exploit them.
• She will poke holes in your armor.
• She will place obstacles in your path.
• She will create roadblocks to your goals.
• She will cry that you are not putting her first.
• She will add problems to your day.
• She will add drama to your hard day.
• She will complain that you are not doing enough for her.
•• If you accept her as she is, then you are too weak for her liking and she will search for another provider.
•• If you correct her, then you are abusive, and she will seek out another provider.
•• If you walk away from this abusive behavior, then you are the one who could not handle her.
Like one woman once told me, “You are not supposed to trust me, only love me.”
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Her : I need a man like a fish needs a bicycle.
TheXYGhost : Take your car to a female mechanic.
TheXYGhost : Take your car to a female mechanic.
Monday, September 22, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 266
Her : You ruined this relationship.
TheXYGhost : A relationship where only one person is accountable isn’t a relationship; it is a sentence.
TheXYGhost : A relationship where only one person is accountable isn’t a relationship; it is a sentence.
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I am tired of hearing women saying that they are giving a man a chance. A chance at what? A chance at being your servant?
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Here Is a Fact:
Eighty percent of divorces are initiated by the woman, and the percentage is even higher with non-married couples.
Now imagine if the rules were reversed. If filing for divorce meant she had to pay alimony to him, surrender custody of the children to him, and pay him child support every month for the next 18 years.
That statistic would collapse overnight. Divorce filings by women would plummet because suddenly it would not be an escape to freedom, it would be a financial and emotional prison of her own making. The vast majority of women who now walk out at the first sign of discomfort would instead fight to keep the relationship together, not out of love, but to avoid the crushing cost of losing everything.
The truth is, divorce is easy for women because the system rewards it. Reverse the rewards, and you reverse the numbers.
Now imagine if the rules were reversed. If filing for divorce meant she had to pay alimony to him, surrender custody of the children to him, and pay him child support every month for the next 18 years.
That statistic would collapse overnight. Divorce filings by women would plummet because suddenly it would not be an escape to freedom, it would be a financial and emotional prison of her own making. The vast majority of women who now walk out at the first sign of discomfort would instead fight to keep the relationship together, not out of love, but to avoid the crushing cost of losing everything.
The truth is, divorce is easy for women because the system rewards it. Reverse the rewards, and you reverse the numbers.
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Her : I can't live off a man's salary if he makes less than $200K a year.
TheXYGhost : How, on earth are you getting by now?
TheXYGhost : How, on earth are you getting by now?
Sunday, September 21, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 265
Her : You’re afraid of commitment.
TheXYGhost : No, I’m afraid of wasting my time with the wrong person.
TheXYGhost : No, I’m afraid of wasting my time with the wrong person.
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Angered by news of her ex-husband’s new child, she destroyed the house she lived in with her current husband.
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Trick Her Into Admitting She Was Wrong
I have asked this one question to many women who have been single for a while, and 99% of them answered, “Yes.”
The question is:
“If you knew that the last man in your life would be the last man in your life, would you have treated him better?”
When they said “Yes,” they admitted without realizing it that they had mistreated him. They admitted they took him for granted, disrespected him, or pushed him away thinking there would always be another man waiting in the wings.
That single answer exposes the entitlement. They assumed men were an endless resource. Only when time and options ran out did they look back and realize they had destroyed the one relationship that mattered. By then, it was too late.
The question is:
“If you knew that the last man in your life would be the last man in your life, would you have treated him better?”
When they said “Yes,” they admitted without realizing it that they had mistreated him. They admitted they took him for granted, disrespected him, or pushed him away thinking there would always be another man waiting in the wings.
That single answer exposes the entitlement. They assumed men were an endless resource. Only when time and options ran out did they look back and realize they had destroyed the one relationship that mattered. By then, it was too late.
Saturday, September 20, 2025
TheXYGhost III 264
She began looking for a stepfather for her child the moment she heard that her husband was in a car accident and in intensive care.
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For What Men and Women Are Known
What Women Do
• Cry
• Lie
• Talk
• Want
• Shame
• Accuse
• Bicker
• Provoke
• Complain
• Gaslight
• Manipulate
• Throw tantrum
• Reject Accountability
What Men Do
• Build
• Provide
• Protect
• Instruct
• Repair
• Invent
• Formulate teams
• Cry
• Lie
• Talk
• Want
• Shame
• Accuse
• Bicker
• Provoke
• Complain
• Gaslight
• Manipulate
• Throw tantrum
• Reject Accountability
What Men Do
• Build
• Provide
• Protect
• Instruct
• Repair
• Invent
• Formulate teams
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