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Her : Why can't you make more money like our neighbor?

TheXYGhost : Why can't you look like his wife?

Beware of Dating Single Mothers

I say, "Never Ever Ever Under Any Circumstances Date A Single-Mother No Matter What"

Give me a reason and I'll add it to the list.

1) You run a risk of being accused of sexual child abuse

2) In some countries you would be liable for child support of children that are not yours.

3) There desperate for someone to get resources from, hence they'll pick anyone.

4) You'll become the newest babysitter and YOUR social life will vanish

5) If she can not love or forgive the most important man in her child's life what chance do you have?

6) Between her career, time with her kids, with her family and the kids' father, she will have no time for you other than to do chores for her.

7) Would you want another man in your child's life if you were ejected from the family?

Her ex might still be in the picture. It's very likely he will be a large part of her life for at least the next 18 years

9) When you correct the wrong the child is doing, you get, "You're not my father" in return

10) When you reprimand that child, you run the risk of the child telling its biker gang father that you hit them and the father retaliating.

11) I have heard many girls of my past talk about having an affair with their stepdad. Most were not true but how would you like to be accused of statutory rape all because of a girl's fantasy mistaken for reality?

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Do you think it is possible for a woman to love a man without knowing his financial status?

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Her : My husband and I never share any quality time together.

TheXYGhost : Maybe you are just not a quality person.

Rules For Younger Men

1 - Never date a single mother or divorced women.

2 - Never spend money on women.

3 - Never lend money to women.

4 - Never give women access to your money.

5 - Never tell women how much money you make.

6 - Never tell woman your secrets, your full name or where you live.

7 - Never financially obligate yourself. (marry) to an entity whose prerogative is to change her mind and profit from you.

8 - Never pay women's bills.

9 - Never co-sign women's credit cards or loans.

10 - Never get involved with female co-workers.

11 - Never get involved with illegal immigrants that need a green card.(Marriage Fraud).

12 - Never get involved with long distance women. (mail order brides)

13 - Never let women move in with you.

14 - Never underestimate how devastating women can be.

15 - Never take care of another man's child.

16 - Never fight over women.

17 - Never fight women's battles.

18 - Never give up hobbies & friends for girlfriends or wives.

19 - Never put women's needs before your needs.

20 - Never teach women how to be as strong as you.

21 - Never date women who has a bad or no relationship with her father.

22 - Never rescue women from a violent boyfriend.

23 - Always remember that women will cheat on you at any time and they are better at hiding it than you think..

24 - Always get a DNA test before you sign a birth certificate.

25 - Always make Women feel as if you can snap any minute.

26 - Always criticize her appearance.

27 - Always let women know how displeased you are with her.

28 - Always let women know how replaceable she is to you.

29 - A woman will always want you to go above and beyond to meet her very high standards yet she will never do that for you.

30 - If she asks your occupation, she is a gold digger.

31 - If she uses sex as a bargaining tool, you are in trouble.

32 - If she has a complaint about you in any way, tell her to find a perfect man and show her the door.

33 - Past performance does not guarantee future results.

34 - Her ultimatum is your cue to leave her.

35 - "Provider" and "Chivalry" means you are a slave and a servant to her.

36 - Above All, Stay away from feminists!

Remember, a woman wants you to commit to her and love her exclusively, she will never love or commit to you. A woman will always want you to go above and beyond to meet her very high standards yet she will never do that for you. She wants a man that will protect her with his life and she wants him to worship her for that chance to die trying to save her when she deliberately places herself in harms way.

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Men need women like an eagle needs a sledgehammer. Women, on the other hand are constantly looking for a "provider". Who needs who?

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Her : I hate my husband! He lets me walk all over him.

TheXYGhost : Maybe he just has tough skin. You hate him for letting you treat him like dirt? Who's treating who like dirt?

What She Really Means

When a woman says, "I like Italian men", "I like Greek men", "I like Jewish men"; It really doesn't matter what race, religion the man is, she is telling you her preference, even though she is still not settled down. She is telling you the type of man she prefers to be seen with over all the other men she has been with.

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If she is pressuring you for a commitment, ask her what does she have to offer and watch her head explode.

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He risks his life at work daily so that his family has the comforts of a home. His wife does not think that's good enough.

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Flip the Script on Her #2

This is how to flip the script on the, "You don't love me" accusation that women do.

Women do not have the same superior analytical abilities as men. Instead of analyzing and weighing in on all the factors, then making a judgment based on the data they've collected, they make an accusation and wait for that man to defend themselves by proving the accusation was false, thus giving her all the analysis, she was lacking.

Woman: You don't love me anymore.

Man: Wait a minute! Do you love me?

Woman: Of course I do! I'm just saying that you do not love me.

Man: I know that you love me, my conscience is clear. You love me because I do the right things for you every chance I get. But I need to find out why you feel so guilty. If you love me because I'm doing the right things for you, what have you been lacking that would make me stop loving you? I think you better leave before I find out what you have done.

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Her: You can't handle me!

TheXYGhost : I know that.

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Her confidence is based on her delusion.

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Flip the Script on Her #1

Have you ever noticed when you ask a girl her name, her first instinctual response is, "I have a boyfriend"?

After that, you are on the defensive trying to explain yourself. Not a pretty sight.

Well, I was talking to this female bartender today, when she asked me the inevitable question, "What sort of work do you do?"

I looked at her and said, "Sorry, I'm not looking for a girlfriend."

The look of surprise on her face was priceless. Now she was on the defensive. Now she was backpedaling trying to explain herself. What a sight to see. You should try it yourself one day.

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Most cultures, in the past, a father offered a man a dowry to marry his daughter.

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Her : I don't want to be independent any more. I want to be married.

TheXYGhost : So, what you're saying is that you're broke.

Her Dating Cycle #2

Seek me out. Impress me. Make me laugh. Entertain me. Sweep me off my feet (better than the 100's of men before you)

Pursue me even when I tell you to leave me alone.

Buy me fancy gifts.

Buy me nice jewelry.

Take me to lavish restaurants and pay for my company.

Buy fine wine.

Drive me in an expensive car.

Pay me attention.

Pay me compliments.

If I'm satisfied how well you serve my needs, I'll let you financially obligate yourself to me by marrying me.

But first...

I want a nice engagement ring and party.

I want a big wedding, and a huge wedding ring. White dress too.

Now you are obligated to give me everything I want need and desire. After all, I'm entitled to it.

Feed me.

Clothe me.

Make me happy.

Make me feel good about myself.

Make me feel beautiful and sexy.

Love me.

Cherish me.

I will test you soon. (You better pass my unscientific tests)

If we have kids, and I feel like leaving you for any reason, I'll have the state to back me up. They will help me take your children, money and home away from you.

Do it now because I'm worth it.

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Finish this sentence...

I will go out on a date with a woman if...

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When she says, "I deserve…" in any context, what she's really doing is shamelessly demanding a man's resources, as if the world owes her something for merely existing.

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Her Dating Cycle #1

Women's relationships today follow a very predictable pattern:

• They wait for a man to ask for them.

• They play hard to get

• They push men for commitment

• They get what they want

• They lose interest in sex

• They become attracted to someone else

• They start cheating

• They begin telling their partners that they need time apart

• They blame their partners for their behavior

• After a long time of back and forth, and several failed attempts to give up their affairs, they end their relationships or marriages.

• Then you pay them because you are the reason why they cheated on you because you didn't make them happy.

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- Women have 52% of all the college degrees.

- Outstanding student debt in America - $1.5 Trillion.

- Women's share of Student debt $930 Billion (66%)

- Yet women don't seem to understand that they need to pay that loan back.

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Her : I deliberately start arguments with my man to see where I stand

TheXYGhost : Why don't you do that to your boss and co-workers?

Women Never Change Despite Feminism

50 years of Feminism and Woman's Liberation Movement and women still almost always define themselves based on The man's wealth and status. They never take time to build their own lives and fortune and share it with the one they love.

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Her: You don't know what to do with me!

TheXYGhost : You are right about that

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Her : I start problems with him so he can put me in my place.

TheXYGhost : You should know your place, it will save time and arguments.

How I See Girls Today

I look at the girls of today that they can't keep their legs closed and they blame you that its your fault that you didn't give them enough attention while you were working.

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Love is a decision. A decision women cannot make.

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Her : I feel that you are too nice.

TheXYGhost : Teach me to be more evil for your pleasure.

False Allegations

According to the Department of Justice ALL crimes have approximately a 2% false allegation rate. Rape and domestic violence is upward of 30%. This means that 30 out of every 100 rapes and domestic violence reported by women are false reports. I think those figures are way too low. I was accused of rape 4 times in my life and none of those accusations ever reached the police. Even my ex wife told me, only days before she handed me divorce papers, that I raped her before we were married. Does that mean that she married me after I raped her? Did she marry me as some form of sick punishment?

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This is the new normal...

- 5 kids from 5 different restaurant owners. - 21 DNA tests and she still can't find any the fathers to her 4 kids. - 3 divorces and 6 abortions because they were not 'Right' for her.

If you say it's her fault, you are a misogynist.

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If she says, "He didn't make me happy," she's outright admitting that she's incapable of taking responsibility for her own emotions and pathetically relies on others to fix her life.

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Integrity: The Difference Between Two Generations

My grandmother took care of two kids for 2 years, on her own when her husband, my grandfather went and volunteered to serve his newly adopted country in WWII.

I look at the girls of today that they can't keep their legs closed and they blame you that it's your fault that you didn't give them enough attention while you were working.

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Your wife divorced you and took your kids, then you remarried and had kids with a woman that divorced her husband and took his kids. Do you not see a destructive pattern?

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She divorced her husband, took the kids making everyone else miserable. She did this because she was not happy.

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Equal Pay vs. Equal Outcome in the Bible

I believe in equal treatment as opposed to making sure that everyone achieves an equal outcome.

I was talking to my best friend's 16 year old daughter, who claimed to be a feminist. She talked about equal treatment of everyone. I agreed on that. She even mentioned equal pay for people doing the same job despite their sex. I agreed as well with a tiny difference;

If you accept a salary for a job, don't complain when your coworker is getting more. This idea is as old as the hills.

Matthew 20:1-16 The Parable of the Workers in the Vineyard 20 "For the kingdom of heaven is like a landowner who went out early in the morning to hire workers for his vineyard. 2 He agreed to pay them a denarius[a] for the day and sent them into his vineyard.

3 "About nine in the morning he went out and saw others standing in the marketplace doing nothing. 4 He told them, 'You also go and work in my vineyard, and I will pay you whatever is right.' 5 So they went.

"He went out again about noon and about three in the afternoon and did the same thing. 6 About five in the afternoon he went out and found still others standing around. He asked them, 'Why have you been standing here all day long doing nothing?'

7 "'Because no one has hired us,' they answered.

"He said to them, 'You also go and work in my vineyard.'

8 "When evening came, the owner of the vineyard said to his foreman, 'Call the workers and pay them their wages, beginning with the last ones hired and going on to the first.'

9 "The workers who were hired about five in the afternoon came and each received a denarius. 10 So when those came who were hired first, they expected to receive more. But each one of them also received a denarius. 11 When they received it, they began to grumble against the landowner. 12 'These who were hired last worked only one hour,' they said, 'and you have made them equal to us who have borne the burden of the work and the heat of the day.'

13 "But he answered one of them, 'I am not being unfair to you, friend. Didn't you agree to work for a denarius? 14 Take your pay and go. I want to give the one who was hired last the same as I gave you. 15 Don't I have the right to do what I want with my own money? Or are you envious because I am generous?'

16 "So the last will be first, and the first will be last."

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Men Provide, Protect and Create

Women Want, Whine, Nag, Provoke, Complain and Destroy.

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She's always keeping score on everything, how much you love her, what you do for her, and so on. No matter how much you give, it'll never measure up to her endless list of shortcomings.

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Who Has the Incentive to Marry and Divorce

With men paying for everything from the first date to the engagement ring, wedding ring, the house, car and all the bills, don't you think that the man has a vested interest to preserve the marriage?

With all of the outrageously high alimony and child support settlements given out, without much thought by the judges, don't you think that the woman has a vested interest to end the marriage?

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When she says that she doesn't love him any more, she made a conscious choice to stop loving him. Don't be fooled.

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Women don't get it. Good men reject cheaters, while weak men welcome them with open arms. If she cheats, she'll only end up with a spineless man who'll let her walk all over him.

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Duality Instilled by a Single Mother and the Community

I was raised by a single mom that lived in the government projects. She went to all the Women's Liberation (Women's Lib) and Feminists Movement meetings with her kids (me and my sister) in tow.

My older sister would constantly provoke and torment me for her pleasure. If I complained to my mom when she got home from work, she would tell me to not bother her. When I hit my sister back, I was beaten, badly.

By the time I was 14, (1978) I would not stand for that shit from my sister. One day she played with me the wrong way one too many times and I knocked her out cold with one punch. She had a fat lip and she showed it to all the project rats that I was an abusive brother.

For years after that day I would get the local thugs chase me whenever they saw me.

I never resorted to violence, that's not my thing. It takes a whole lot to get me to that point. The only time I would attack anyone is if they were to attack me. Curse me, look at me, say what you may, the minute you touch me, I will be one of the people that will be arrested after I am done.

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If you think you are a better father than the child's natural father, you may be a cuck, simp or a beta male.

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If she sees a good man who's married, she'll eagerly ruin his life by falsely accusing him of cheating, all so she can swoop in and replace his wife. And if she can't tear them apart, she'll destroy him just to satisfy her petty revenge.

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Differences Between A Man and a Woman

A woman will block men from her friend in any way she can so she wont be alone.

A man will jump on the fat chick that every hot girl drags along so his buddy can get the hottie.

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If you move in on another man's wife and kids, you may be a cuck, simp or a beta male.

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A 97-year-old woman was filmed saying, "I sure hope the man of my dreams comes and gets me, I don't have much longer to live." She still clung to the fantasy that a man would save her.

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Men and Women in Songs

Whenever you hear a love song by a man, you hear him professing his love for someone. The direction of love flows from the man to the woman. From the one who has love to the target of his love. Men's songs contain stories and information hidden or blatant. They also sing about the loss of of their target object of affection.

Modern women, on the other hand sing songs of what they want, need and desire. Their songs of love always are a want, need and desire to be loved. The direction of love is in their direction. They are looking to be the target of that love in the hopes that if someone loves them enough, their feeling of longing will go away.

One of the most obvious examples of this is a song by Whitney Houston, "I Want to Dance With Somebody Who Loves Me" where the direction of love is pointing to her. Yes I also know that Whitney sings, "I Will Always Love You" a song written by Dolly Parton in 1973.

The first is a sign of narcissism and it is very evident when you listen to people speaking. From biblical times, Songs of Solomon to the songs of Eminem and Beyonce, very little has changed except that more female song writers in the past 50 years have been singing more and more about their needs to be loved.

In high school and college when I was young, I would come across many girls expressing their need to give birth so that their newborn baby can love them. They place the burden on an infant to love them. Again, the direction of love is to them from the baby.

Most men understand that in order to change his feelings from normal to loving, an action on his part has to be taken. This is why men have fun with children (show love and affection) and they feel great. Most women wait for their baby to love them and get jealous of the love and bond that the child has with the father and thats when they find an excuse to break it off with them. They feel betrayed by both child and father.

What eludes women most about love is they will never feel love until they become loving.

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If you only judge a woman based on how good she looks to you, you may be a cuck, simp or a beta male.

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Ask a married woman if she could redo her life from scratch, would she marry the man she's with today, and watch her scramble for an answer as she tries to mask the regret.

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A Question to Ponder #7

If she can keep her tantrums, arguments, drama, and hormonal rages in check while at work or in her family's presence, why can't she keep it in check when she is with you?

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No matter how "Alpha" you are, she will find your fault and label you a beta.

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Ask a married woman what she'd do if she won the lottery and watch her immediately start fantasizing about how she'd ditch her husband and his useless ass.

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A Question to Ponder #6

Can you name me one song where the singer professes her love for a man?

Excluding the Dolly Parton song that Whitney Houston sang, "I Will Always Love You" and Tammy Wynette's, "Stand By Your Man"?

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If she refers to you as a "Provider", she does not love you, she loves your provisions.

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Ask a married woman if her husband is happy and watch her fumble, completely clueless, because she's too busy with herself to notice.

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A Question to Ponder #5

If I don't want you to feed me and support me any longer, because I found an imperfection in you, how much would you owe me?

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You will never ever hear a woman faulting herself for a divorce. It is always his fault on every single level.

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The only reason women get college degrees is to inflate their status, hoping it'll land them a high-status man who'll pay off her student loans and finance her life while she does nothing with the degrees she worked so hard for.

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A Question to Ponder #4

If I don't want you to feed me and support me any longer, how much would you owe me?

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TheXYGhost : You are 38 years old and still looking for a provider?

Her: I'm picky.

TheXYGhost : Well, beggars can't be choosers.

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I always hear women say, "I might give him a chance." A chance at what? A chance to be her unpaid servant and provider?

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A Question to Ponder #3

Do you think that a working wife will work hard to add extra money to her loving husband and family or is she hoarding that extra cash while spending her husband's money so she can break free from someone that openly helped her when she had nothing?

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Men never leave their own kids. They leave women after finding out the kid is not theirs.

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The new trend for women is to toss aside a loving, caring, great man, all for some shallow excitement or selfish reason.

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A Question to Ponder #2

What would anyone have to do for you, in order for you to protect them with your life, work hard all day to pay their bills?

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Why do women want their husbands and sons in charge of taking out the trash?

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She'd rather be a king's concubine than a loyal, average man's wife. Her worth is tied to status, not real commitment.

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A Question to Ponder #1

How have women, in your past thanked you for wining, dining, entertaining, providing and protecting her with your life?

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Men never leave their own kids. They leave women that make life impossible while they have the police, lawyers, judges and all the simps of the world supporting and encouraging her bad behavior.

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If you marry a non-virgin, you're nothing more than her second choice. Her ideal man is a fantasy made up of the best traits from all the men she's slept with, yet that man will never exist.

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A Pattern That I've Noticed

Women seem to start disliking their man they are with around the time their youngest child hits 4 - 5 years of age. They also start this trait after 3 years when there are no kids involved. Have you notice this in your lives? Let us look at this phenomenon to find the cause and cure.

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I only take advice from people I wish to be like.

I do not want to be like a woman.

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She claims to hate cheaters, yet she has no problem being the side piece for a married man.

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The Aftermath of 2 Girls Hidden From Their Fathers

Today I ran into a friend of mine that retired to Florida. He came back to NYC to visit. He told me that his 44 year old daughter contacted him from out of the blue. You see, when my friend returned from duty in Vietnam, he settled down with a woman. When only 8 months pregnant, she ran away, never to be seen again. Well, the baby turned out to be a girl that he had never seen. She found her father through Ancestry.com and wrote a letter, that ended up arriving at the man's old place of residence where his son lives.

It turned out that his newly found daughter lives 8 miles away from were her father retired. She has 2 kids, one 10 the other 13. He says that his daughter looks and even acts like him and they even ""complete each others sentences."" He is happy now that he has grandchildren to watch over.

As for the mother, when her kids grew up, that woman and 2 other boys from 2 other fathers, she got involved with a gang of criminals. They were shooting heroin and she died somehow or another. He didn't give much detail and I didn't press him for any.

Anyway, he is happy. This is the second daughter that came back to him. The other one, from a past wife, ran off just to get the child support. When this daughter came back to him 20 years ago to confront him on not paying child support, this man opened his desk drawer and gave his daughter a box of canceled checks proving otherwise.

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Women want equallity for all yet they hate poor men. Never will they ever take a poor man out for a dinner.

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