80% of women file for divorce.
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Women today are so demanding and unforgiving with their ultra-high, wants, needs and desires that are on fantasy levels and have never been attained before in her lifetime. They are not satisfied with a man just liking them, they want love, and not only love on a scale never before experienced, they want their man to be in love with them and constantly prove it under any and all conditions. A woman will test that “love” with every trick she has. In her way, she is saying, “Love me even though I kicked you in your balls”. To her that is unconditional love. If you try to explain to her that the love that she demands is developed over many years and does not come in a packet of instant love (just add water), she will instantly think that you are weaseling out of your duty to be in love with her while passing all her tests. At this point, she will pacify you and keep you happy until she finds another man to start the process off from the beginning.
She will have many other demands that she wants of her “little performing monkey”, but she will never tell him what she wants, she will just hint.
Over and over again I hear women and some men make the statement that the key to a good relationship is communication, but the woman is guilty of the breakdown because she communicates in hints.
You are just another resource to her as she is looking to monkey branch to the next unsuspecting guy she finds.
Finding a replacement guy for her is easy as she can easily find some guy to believe her one sided tales of your abusive ways. The new guy will immediately believe her and her alone as he ignores the other side of the story. He falsely feels good as her new protector and she feels protected that this new guy believes her and her alone.
When and if she finds the person that knows what she wants, and bends over backwards to give her that.
They asked me why so many strong women are single. This was my answer;
1) Because women always marry up. They marry, stronger, faster, richer, taller, etc. it’s hard for them to stay with a man when they are constantly comparing their status attributes and competing with any man that comes their way.
2) They are dominant, domineering and they tend to be dominant towards their men. That is not a feminine attribute. Weak men like to be dominated and strong man will walk away from that.
3) They are not looking for a partner, they are looking for a competitor and they don’t know when to stop.
4) The women who believe they are strong are weak because they believe they need to show off their strength 24/7 non-stop.
5) They consider themselves strong and need to prove it every step of the way and they think a stronger man will do the same.
6) They are looking for a man stronger than they are (their own personal definition of strength) and they believe a strong man will do the same as they do only longer and better.
7) They want a man to put them in their (subjectively defined) place although they will never acknowledge their (self-perceived) place, thus proving themselves weaker.
For those of you that are still looking for Miss. Right, here is an impassable test for her.
Ask her the following;
1) How many successful relationships have you had?
The answer should be zero. You need to also ask why it was successful. Did she achieve her objective and left? If it was so successful, why did it end? If she is over 25, why can’t you maintain a relationship?
2) Are you looking for a “Provider”?
If she answers, “Yes”, you need to ask her who is providing for her now. You also need to ask her, what provisions does she require?
3) Why did your last relationship end?
Whatever she answers, you hold that against her. Some common answers are;
a. “We didn’t get along” – Then ask her why can’t she get along with people.
b. “We weren’t ‘right’ for each other” – Then ask her why she started dating him if he wasn’t ‘right’ for her.
c. “He cheated”
“He lied”
“He was a drug addict”
Then you really hit her with, “Wow, you sure know how to pick ’em. You must really like the ‘Bad boys’ and you have issues.”
4) “He was abusive” – Tell her that you can find 10,000 men that will absolutely will never hit a woman. She found the abuser. She found the one man out of 10,000 that will hit a woman. Either that or she must have done something to get abused. Beatings don’t just drop from the sky.
5) If she tells you, “He always did what I told him” You need to ask her why did she asked him to do things she never wanted him to do.
Add your own test below in the comments.
From the time I was a child to my twilight years I’ve heard young girls telling their friends how hot their step-dad is…
…And you want to date a single mom.
I’ve often heard young girls brag (mostly lies) how they had sex with their step-dad…
…And you want to date a single mom.
Many years I heard stories of girls telling their friends that their step-dad was molesting them.
…And you want to date a single mom.
When your girlfriend (a single mom) wants to punish you for not wanting to marry her, she will accuse you of molesting her daughter.
…And you still want to date a single mom.
When you turn down a woman’s sexual advances, she will stop at nothing to lash out at you. Her daughter is no different.
…And you still want to date a single mom.
I spoke to a 76-year-old man the other day. He was a minister and a marriage counselor for 45 years. He told me that the first 12 years of his marriage counseling experience, he couldn’t believe how bad all the men were. One day he started all his initial counseling session with the question, “How is your relationship with your spouse?” He would ask the husband first and then the wife. What he found out was eye-opening.
All of the husbands would answer the question by saying everything is OK. The wife, on the contrary would mention every single one of the man’s “faults” to a tee including anything and everything that was not under either of their control.
He also said how the wife would use the word, “enough” as part of her complain. They would say, “He doesn’t love me enough.”, “He doesn’t spend enough time with kids” and the dreaded, “He doesn’t give me enough attention.”
When he’d ask the wife, “What is enough?” They would almost always reply, “More than he is doing now”. When he asked the wives what their solution was. The answer was almost always be, “Divorce”. Just imagine that, they would think that the solution to not spending “enough” time with the kids, was a permanent dismissal from the home.
I remember back in the 1970’s there was a documentary about prostitution in New York City. The hookers said they charged $100 per hour.
In the 1980’s when I worked the New York City nightclub scene, it was still about $100 per hour.
By the late 1990’s a friend of mine told me that he pays women $70 – $80 per hour.
Over this past weekend, (August 2019) a man told me that the going rate was about $50 per hour.
You might think that the price of a call girl’s hourly service fee has gone down $50 in 50 years, and you’d be wrong. If you factor in for inflation, the $100 back in the 1970’s had the buying power of today’s $661. That is a savings of 92%. Factor in the Law of Supply and Demand and you will see that the ladies of the evening were scarce back then, thus commanding a higher price. What does that say about the girls of today?
– When a woman hits a man, the man is wrong. She must have hit him for a reason.
– When a man hits a woman, he is wrong and he goes to jail.
– When a man divorces a woman, he is wrong and he will pay.
– When a woman divorces a man, takes his kids, he must have done something wrong and he must pay.
– When a man cheats, on a woman, she will leave him and he needs to pay.
– When a woman cheats and brings another child into a man’s life, he is supposed to be understanding.
If a woman sues for divorce and takes everything a man has worked for his entire life, and now he needs to rent an apartment and ride the bus, he is no good.
I remember one day this woman wanted to introduce me to a “Good Girl”. A really “Nice Girl” that was asking around about me. When I found out she was talking about her niece, I asked her son about his cousin. He told me to stay away from his cousin. He didn’t say it in the way a brother does to protect her. He told me that his cousin had 5 kids from 5 different restaurant owners. Was divorced twice and never had any kids from those marriages. He also told me that his cousin was a real dominator. She felt the need to dominate anyone she saw fit.
I never stopped by my friend’s place again. Sure, we went out from time to time but I never went back to his mom’s place as his cousin was in the process of breaking up with the last father of her last child and preparing to move in with her mom. (Dependency, Dependency, Dependency).
As time went by, my friend told me stories about his cousin. She was pregnant with restaurant owner #1 while still married with husband #1. That fizzled out fast and just like that divorce #1 was done and husband #2 cucked his way in. She was pregnant again with restaurant owner #2 and divorce # 2 soon followed.
She hid the fact that she had children at all when she met the next 3 restaurant owners. She had 2 abortions when she was in her teens and had a host of STDs in the past. She even had a few drug-addicted boyfriends and one in prison.
If this is a “Good Girl” and a “Nice Girl” I sure hate to see what a bad girl is like.=
Back in 2003 I had a very interesting conversation with a girl I met at a Starbucks in Manhattan (New York City). We talked for hours and I started to get hungry. I offered to pay for soup in this fancy Chinese soup restaurant across the street. Since she was a student at Columbia University, I knew she had no money.
We continued the conversation at the restaurant when she almost immediately said why she picked Columbia University. She told me that she was looking for a rich man to take care of her. I never flinched a muscle and continued to talk to her.
I already knew what a girl means when she says, “take care of me”. It means that she will do absolutely nothing at all for the provisions that she expects from her provider. What it means is she expects that you provide for her every want, need and desire, when, where and how she wants without any reciprocation on her part. If you do not fulfill all of her very unreasonable fantasies as she demands, a scorched-earth divorce is your punishment.
I finished the meal and paid for the bill. We put on our coats and walked out the door. Outside, I shook her hand and wished her well as I started to walk away. Astonished, she asked me why I was not asking for her phone number. I simply said, “I’m not rich, but there are many guys out there that are way more financially gifted than I am.” Then I walked away and never turned back.
When my wife walked out on me, she moved in with her new simp right away.
Soon after the accusations were pounding on my face;
– You must have done something wrong for her to leave you?
– What did you do to her to make her leave you?
– She must have left you for a reason.
– You picked the wrong girl.
– Maybe you didn’t know how to satisfy her.
– Maybe you didn’t know how to make her happy.
– You hate women.
The funny thing about this is that when word got around that my wife left me, All the single moms, divorced women and married women started to show their availability to me in a very overtly sexual way.
When I told the married women that I do not play that game, they went back to their husbands and told them I made a move on them.
As for the single moms and divorced women, they would spread rumors about me when I refused their advances.
I had young girls telling me that their mommy “likes me”. I’ve even had one woman telling me that her daughter (a woman that had 5 kids from 5 different restaurant owners) was asking about me. She also had a simp of a boyfriend that never met with her mother’s approval.
When I denied advances from a girl, I was immediately called gay and other names. One woman suggested that I go on a gay dating site. I nearly lost it and blew up in her face. She started to giggle at my anger only stating, “You’re angry.” And maybe that’s why my wife left me.
Women at work spread all kinds of allegations about the reasons my wife left me without even knowing me or my ex that well. It was like living in a bizarro world on never ending accusations and advances. It got so crazy that I had to take a break from even talking about my divorce to anyone.
What are your experiences?
Were they similar to mine?
Stupid Shit That Only Women Say:
– He didn’t give me enough attention.
– I’m high maintenance.
– He couldn’t handle me.
– He is too nice.
– He wasn’t man enough.
– I’m worth it.
– He didn’t make me happy.
– I’m picky.
– There must be a reason.
– I’m bored
– He made me angry.
– He let me manipulate him.
– I want someone that will take care of me.
– He’s afraid of commitments.
– I don’t love him anymore.
– I’m highly educated.
– I’m a strong independent woman.
– You hate women.
They say I don’t know women. They say I’m jaded because of one girl that divorced me.
I’m ashamed to say that I had many girlfriends in my life. I have never cheated on any of my past girlfriends, I was accused several times.
I never hit any woman with whom I was involved. The other girls I’ve hit in the past I didn’t know and were self-defense.
I’ve had 3 girls that claimed that I got them pregnant. Thanks to a blood test (semi paternity test in the 1980’s), racial differences (I’m not black, neither was my girlfriend. The child was), and DNA testing, I’m not a father.
There were rumors that a girlfriend of mine had an abortion, she said it was mine.
One girlfriend told me flat out that she had aborted my child.
One girl put me on a birth certificate, I never even touched her and didn’t know her last name. Family court was called off when it was found out that she petitioned the Board of Health multiple times to change the father’s names, all different.
I had 4 girlfriends whose mothers (single moms, all 4 of them) were overtly hitting on me, when I refused, their mothers acted all the same, they told my girlfriend I was hitting on them.
4 – 6 of my friend’s girlfriends wanted to get with me and when I turned them down, good bye friends. (See above)
I had one girlfriend whose aunt hit on me and when I said no, she left it alone.
2 of my ex’s were married and they kept that small fact away from me.
I dated two single mothers, that was a big mistake both times.
4 of my ex’s claimed they had an ongoing affair with their stepfather. So, how do you feel about dating a single mom with a daughter now?
I’m not bragging, some of my ex’s fit into 2, 3 and 4 of these categories.
3 girls claimed that I raped them, (never formally) including my ex-wife who made the claim 2 weeks before she handed me my divorce papers about the first time we had sex, before we were married. Yeah, I raped her, then we got married, if you believe that one.
I had a few girlfriends that claimed to have been raped. But other things indicated otherwise.
I dated a famous singer of the 1970’s. I was 22 she was 38. She is still kicking at 69. No, it wasn’t Barbara Streisand.
I was involved with a rock star when she was in high school and I was at a nearby college.
I was involved with an actress whose both parents were very well-known actors.
1 of my ex’s was the unspoken love-child of, then Attorney General at the time, later on he became mayor of NYC and he ran for president in 2008.
I dated a model for Victoria Secret and Talbot.
I dated a woman that was worth $40 million and I thought that money would not be a reason we break up. It was. She said that I couldn’t keep up with her vacationing habits.
Between 2011 and 2014 I have had 14 women that asked me to marry them. OK, truth be told, most of them wanted green cards, at least 10 of them admitted that. 3 were foreigners that didn’t admit that’s why they wanted to marry. The last one was crazy. I’m 53 now, you gotta take what you can get at my age.
In the 1980’s I worked for a very famous club promoter in NYC. We worked at Studio 54, Tracks, Xenon, The Red Parrot, The Underground, The Palladium, etc. and I had a public access cable TV show that I filmed at these places. I had my choice of women.
I only had 2 girlfriends that were very cool but they both went back to Germany. Who knows, maybe they were the ones that got away and maybe I never knew them long enough. Who really knows?
My mom was a single mom by 1967. Her and my sister persistently tried to overpower me every chance they had. I knew all my mom’s boyfriends but I didn’t know my dad until I was 14. I really grew to like him when I reunited with him at age 48.
My sister had 3 kids from 3 men and I watched how she destroyed all men in her path.
I created my own escort service and had 3 girls going on 1 or 2 dates a night 5 – 6 days a week. I did this while working at an office job.
I worked as a phone psychic for 2 1/2 years where I would receive 20 – 30 phone calls per day 7 days a week. 95% of the callers were women wanting to know if one guy loves them while they plan to leave another.
Most of my callers would be women complaining about their income source (their husband or boyfriend) while working on a new one that is still married or in a more committed relationship. They would tell me how their man would not live up to their expectation of what they imagined. I would always tell them that there are two men in their lives; one that they wanted to come into their life, the other one they want to leave. I would tell these women this even before they speak. They were so typical.
Day in and day out it was a factory assembly line of women telling me what they couldn’t tell their clergymen, friends, relatives or psychiatrists? It was no wonder how I pegged them so well without even a word from their mouths.
They would never see their actions as cheating. I would tell these women that I see them working hard to get a commitment from the married men they want but the men do not seem to be responding. I would usually praise these women with the level of effort they were providing in order to get their target men to commit to them. I even told these women that they were going above and beyond what they would usually do for the new man in order to get him to commit to her.
These women that called me were always so frustrated at their efforts to get an attached man to leave their committed partner and commit to them instead. Their dependencies were so intertwined. They depended on a man they hated while they looked at a new attached man as their new dependency. They will never drop one for the other. Walking that fine line to hold one in place while trying their best to attract and hold on to the new one. Never leaving the first dependency until the second one is secured tightly.
This is “Monkey Branching” at its finest.
Back in 2004, I received a call from a woman and after giving her my shtick, she asked me, “When is my Johnny coming back to me?”
In order to take more time (charging $6.99 per minute) I asked her Johnny’s date of birth and the last time she was intimate with him, so my spirit guide could contact with his spirit.
She quickly said, “June 23, 1972”
Thinking that was Johnny’s complete birth date, I asked her again when she was last intimate with Johnny. She told me, “1972”.
I had to get things straight with her as I was a bit confused. She began by telling me that she met this man back in 1972 after a concert in which Johnny was playing. She slept with him the same day and he tried to go his own way.
She persisted in seeing him in every local concert he played. He didn’t care about her.
She even moved into the same gated community and followed him to concerts when he was local. Johnny had to pass pictures of this stalker to security whenever he has a gig.
Years passed and he got married. She didn’t take the hint. She persisted in stalking him. She followed him when he moved to Upstate New York and again to New Jersey. She even told me that she married a man to get him jealous. When he had kids, she got pregnant to get his attention.
A number of ‘Protection Orders’ and she still never backed off.
Now we are in 2004. She divorced her husband and now spends weekends in her husband’s parent’s basement and weekdays at her husband’s place. Her 11-year-old daughter rather stay with her father than her mom. She could never hold a job to save her life. Johnny keeps getting ‘Protection Orders’ when the one before expires.
Johnny is still in a band and travels to Europe and all over the United States. He has 3 kids and is still married with his wife of 14 years.
Do you still want a side piece?
My friend and I were phone psychics and it a lot of was fun sharing stories and ideas with him about the callers. Some of his callers would call me and some of mine sometimes called him. One day he stumbled upon something. He told a caller that was looking to leave her husband that her husband forced her to marry him. The woman cried and confessed that she never told a soul about that and she was ashamed to tell anyone.
He started to add that into his readings and soon found out that almost all the callers would agree. It was so insane that I started telling women that their husband forced them to marry them. Some would cry as they agreed and it made them call even more.
I tried to tell women not to leave their husbands but they would just hang up on me. These women didn’t want psychics, they wanted to cherry pick ideas that made them look innocent and as a victim, always.
By the end of 6 months, I had a 30-minute monologue ready for any new caller that I started out even before they asked a single question. Their feedback on the website was something like;
“This man is very in tuned with me. He told me things I never told a soul. Right off the bat his readings were accurate and he never even asked me my date of birth. Highly recommend”
At first, I laughed at my friend when he suggested that I should work as a phone psychic, but I soon found out that more than 90% of my callers were extremely predictable.
1) They were almost always women or gay men.
2) They were living off one man (husband or boyfriend) that they pretended to like yet they were not wrong for doing that.
3) They almost always asked about a 2nd, 3rd or even 4th man in their scope that they wish to live off instead.
4) They always ask, “Does he love me?”, “Will he commit to me?” or “When will he commit to me or love me?”
5) They almost always believe you are a good psychic if you support them leaving the man, they are with for the man they want.
Wash, Rinse, Repeat.
I had a new caller and right away she started telling me her life story. So, at $6.99 per minute, I listened very carefully.
She told me that she was 57 years old and she lived a good life. She had 3 children and she made sure that her kids finished high school and college. She guided them to marry the “right” persons and “she” bought them all homes although she never had a job the entire marriage.
She told me that she did all that she could do for her kids and now it was her turn. She continued by saying, “I’m not selfish and I know where my kids are going. I’ve helped them on the right path in life. I DON’T WANT TO KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT MY LAZY GOOD FOR NOTHING HUSBAND. HE SOLD HIS BUSINESS AND ENDED UP WORKING AT A FLORIST SHOP!”
She maintained composure and told me that she wanted to find out about her boyfriend that was 76 years old and was an owner of an oil refinery in Louisiana. She told me that this guy of her dreams was fooling around with 2 – 30-year-old women that were after his money only.
She told me about her two sons and her daughter then she told me that she lived in a $800,000 home that was fully paid for. She also told me that her husband, age 68, sold his business (Financial Services company) for $5 million to work with his army buddy selling flowers.
She summed up her entire story by reiterating, “I don’t want to know about me. I don’t want to know about my kids or my good for nothing husband. I NEED TO KNOW WHEN WILL MY BOYFRIEND COMMIT TO ME BECAUSE I CAN’T LEAVE MY HUSBAND WITHOUT HIM.”
I began by picking up the evil energies of the two 30-year-old girls. She was happy. I told her that these women will soon show their evil side to him and it will hit him that she is better for him. She was so pleased to hear that.
I told her that to get him hooked on her she needs to play “hard to get” and she agreed. She even said she thought that might be the best plan and she just needed me to confirm.
She then told me that she needed a hip replacement and she wanted to know if she should make her husband pay for it or should she wait for her boyfriend to commit to her. I became so sick to my stomach, I nearly thew up.
I ended up telling her to wait for her boyfriend to commit to her to get her hip replaced as when he rescues her, it will help him to bond with her.
I had a caller that was very adamant about her intentions to leave her husband after 20 years, but in order to do that, she needed to find another man to latch on. She would call me from time to time asking me about every new man she met. She told her son, daughter and best friend of her intentions. She went in internet chat rooms (2002) to find men that will do her will and make her life a paradise.
One day she called me about a man in France that invited her to go there and live with him. He promised her the sun, moon and everything in between.
I almost begged her not to go. She told me that her 11-year-old daughter cried and begged her not to leave, but she bought a ticket to France to meet the man that she knew nothing about.
The next call I received from her was her in France, telling me that the man never showed up. She was shocked that I was right about what I told her. But she asked again if I thought the man would show up. I told her it would not be likely.
She spent a month in France, with the money she took from her husband, then went home. When she arrived, she was shocked at the reception she received from her family. She called me, and was ponderous as to why they would not be happy that she returned.
A few days past and she called, asking why her family was distancing themselves from her. She even told me that her best friend didn’t return her calls. She then saw the credit card bills and noticed a few purchases from Victoria’s Secret while she was in France.
In short, she kicked her support system in the crotch and wondered why he didn’t support her afterwards. Now she wanted me to help her get back with her husband and get him to break it off with her ex best friend, so she could continue her search. All for $6.99 per minute.
I got this call from a woman in her mid-40s that told me her son died the day before. I really felt bad that moment and I wondered if I could handle this call on the psychic phone service I was working on. She told me that her two sons were arguing while working on a roofing job. One of her sons fell off the roof and that’s how he died.
I panicked, I thought that she was going to ask me to channel his spirit or something strange and bizarre. I was wrong. She finished that last sentence about her own son dying unhurt as she went on to ask the question for which she initially called.
She began, saying, “I met this man a while ago and he has yet to ask me out on a date. I see him on a regular bases and we talk all the time. Does this man love me? Will he ever get the nerve to ask me out?”
I was amazed. Here is this woman, whose son just died the day before and she was asking me about the possibilities of a man asking her out without a tear or a second thought about a son that died the day before.
I had to stop the call. I told the woman that I had forgotten to take my medication and I was feeling ill. I hung up the phone and she called back 30 minutes later without even mentioning her son’s death and focusing on how to get this man to take her out.
After my divorce and after September 11th I became so depressed that I never left my apartment for years. After some time, a friend took pity on me and signed me up as a phone psychic. I laughed, telling this man that I was not a psychic. He then told me that all I had to do was tell people what they want to hear. This was very perplexing to me because, I thought that, in order for me to tell someone what they want to hear, I would have to know them and know what they want to hear in order for me to say those things. When I told him this he laughed and said it’s not that hard and I’m making it harder than it really is.
So, I started and very soon I was the top 30 of the over 10,000 psychics they had on board. I found out very quickly that 95% of my callers were female and 4% were gay men (female mind set) and the one question they ALWAYS asked every single time is, “Does he love me?” This is what narcissistic women want to know. They have no responsibility to have their own reasoning and understanding they need someone to figure it out for them.
Before long, I had a complete speech for callers before they even said a single word. I would tell them that the spirits were telling me that they were loving, caring, giving and sharing all the time and they never bother to give to themselves. I’d then tell them to take one day to pamper them self with a manicure, pedicure, facial and massage because she deserves that. What woman would hang up at $6.99 per minute. (I would get slightly less than that as my cut.)
I would also say to them that there is 2 main men in their life; one that is pushing towards her but she does not want anything to do with him and another one that may be drifting away. They would definitely concur stating that the one in their life was their husband or boyfriend and the man that maybe drifting away is the man they really wanted. It is easy to read simple minds.
It was April 7, 2003 and I got a call from a woman from upstate New York. She had a whisper of a voice as she told me about this man that she wanted in her life named Russell. She would tell me how much she was in love with this man and she asked me if Russell loved her and have received her letters. I said that in fact, he did and that he carried one letter in particular in his pocket every day. She was pleased to hear that.
She then told me that today is Russell’s birthday and that she was working hard to channel her energies to him because he is in New Zealand now. She also informed me that he was getting married today.
I was in shock. I had this gut feeling that she was talking about Russell Crowe the actor. I Google searched his name and to my surprise it was his birthday and he was getting married that very day.
I then started telling this lady that only minutes before he went to the alter to take his vows, he read her letter and put it in his inside jacket pocket right next to his heart. She sighed and moaned with that. I personally think by this time she was playing with her kitty. Which never happened before or since that day with other callers. At least I don’t think it did.
I love the movie Gladiator. It’s such a guy flick filled with great virtues. The Narcissist vs the Humble and a man that is a respected leader even as a slave alongside his sworn enemies. I’ve watched that movie over and over and over again at that time.
I told this woman about Russell’s regrets for marrying this woman even as he said the words, “I do” I also described Russell the way I would describe Russell’s character, Maximus, strong, leader, fearless and honorable. With every sentence I uttered, she responded with a sighing, “Yes!” I could not believe that this woman in her mid-forties was pining over a man that she had never met. This was purely pathetic. She paid $420 an hour for a stranger to tell her details about someone whom he does not know.
This went on for way more than an hour until her money ran out. Over the next few months, she called several times still wanting to know about her fantasy all the while distancing herself from any man that was real.
I’m gonna tweet this to Russell Crowe with my sincere apologies to him. @RussellCrowe
I was waiting in line to get in a bathroom at Starbucks® in midtown Manhattan in New York City. I was second in line and a cute, well-dressed girl with an expensive handbag was in front of me. Just then, the door to the bathroom opened and a Starbucks® employee came out with a broom, a dustpan and a spray bottle of sorts with him signifying that the bathroom was just cleaned. The girl went in and after a short time, you hear the toilet flush, water run and the hand dryer blowing, then she opened the door to leave.
I went in, locked the door and noticed a wad of toilet paper on the floor between the side of the toilet and the wall. I put on my glasses to inspect the seat, amazed to see droplets of urine on the left and right sides of the toilet seat. They say men are filthy and pee on the seats all the time. Women hover and they sprinkle on the sides of the seat. Why do they not lift the seat when they hover?
A 57-year-old business acquaintance of mine, who was, at one time, a domestic violence councilor, began to lecture me about all the disservices I was committing against myself for being single. He even asked me, “What do you do?”, meaning what I did for sex. He even went as far as asking me if I masturbated often. I looked at him and asked him, “Why is my genitalia on your mind?” With that he stopped that line of questioning but he continued telling me how great his life was with “the right woman”. He had only met her about 6 years before, in his early fifties and her in her early forties.
She lives in Los Angeles with their son (age 5) and he travels back and forth between there and New York City.
In the past, I have seen him call his wife asking her permission to do something in NYC. I never want to ask permission of anyone to do anything I want to do. I’ve seen him on the phone with her and complaining, after hanging up, that she treats him like a child. That is not what I’m looking for out of my life. There were times he was late calling his wife. He got an ear full when he finally did call her. Again, not my idea of a great time.
Anyway, after chewing my ear off, he told me about his life as a domestic violence councilor and how he used to council men in prison for doing, amongst other things, pushing their wife’s face in a grease fryer. He started on this path trying to convince me that men were mean and abusive. He also told me about his wife’s ex-husband and how abusive he was to her. The look on his face was priceless when I told him that one side of the story does not a conclusion make. I also told him that his point of view that men are mean to women is conversely perceived as women only accepting vicious and violent men, the same as a lioness in the wild seeks the most vicious lion.
He diverted the subject just ever so slightly telling me about domestic violence laws. He told me that a simple argument can be classified as domestic violence if, while arguing, the man walks closer to a perceived weapon. He even used an example of a couple arguing and the man walks towards the direction of a gun cabinet on his way to the bedroom. He also said the same man can, while having a simple argument, sit at a table near a butter knife or lean closer to a broomstick and that too will make a simple argument into a domestic violence situation. I told him that I don’t want to live in fear that I might argue the wrong way that will end up with me in prison.
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The above was written 3 years ago and this man found out that the love of his life was cheating on him with another woman. He later found out that “his son” was not his. He never believed it nor did he want to take a DNA test to prove it. His wife grew tired of him and had him arrested for domestic violence. His wife had bruises all over her body and a black eye. He swore up and down that he never struck her but his wife was awarded an “Order of Protection” against him. He finally found proof that “his son” was not his and he was pissed off that he had to continue to pay child support for a child that was not his. His, now, ex-wife lives in the house that he has to pay the mortgage, and she gets monthly child support payments.
Too bad I have not seen him since our first meeting.
– They love the gangsters, thugs and criminals.
– They love the prisoners.
– They love the married man.
– They love the liar and cheater.
– They love the under aged.
When years and years of this ideology not working for them, they want a millionaire, with a hot body to take all of their problems away from them.
Women use false accusations because there is virtually no accountability for them.
Far too few are even charged, never mind tried and jailed and when they are, the sentence is a complete farce considering they can and have completely ruined a man’s life.
This is why due process and the rule of law MUST be followed! Sexual assault is a horrific crime but so are false accusations as they complete ruin a man’s life as well.
Here are some of the lies women have told and many men’s lives have been destroyed by lies like these.
This is a TINY SAMPLE from a 180+ page document I have compiled with untold hundreds of other examples, and I have the links to all the articles to prove they are all true. If you like I will send you the whole document.
Heartbroken mum of teen who killed himself after withdrawn rape allegation found hanged at family home.
– The family of grief-stricken Karin Cheshire, 55, said she ‘could not see a future’ without son Jay
– Cheshire, 17, who took his own life AFTER BEING FALSELY ACCUSED OF RAPE
– USC ignored likelihood that female student invented rape to not get fired, appeals court rules
– One of Justice Brett M. Kavanaugh’s accusers admitted this week that she made up her lurid tale of a backseat car rape, saying it “was a tactic” to try to derail the judge’s confirmation to the Supreme Court.
– Always Believe Women? Boy’s Life Destroyed by Girls’ False Allegations. The female accusers admitted they’d lied simply because they didn’t like the boy.
– Woman lied about rape because date didn’t drive her home
– Drunk seductress, 36, who forced herself on a 14-year-old boy then falsely accused him of rape when he reported her is jailed for more than four years
– Woman Claims Cop Raped Her. Then Body Cam Footage Is Released. A complete lie!
– Student Files Fake Gang Rape Case AFTER MISSING UNIVERSITY EXAM. The woman was let off after a stern warning from the police.
– Mother loses custody after filing 10 false abuse report against father
– Woman said her ex-fiance hit her, causing a black eye and other injuries. But now his attorney says this home surveillance video tells a different story as it shows the woman shouting, screaming and striking herself many times
– Two Students Hooked Up. It Was Clearly Consensual. He Still Spent $12,000 Defending Himself. A brief romantic encounter at UC-Davis triggered a Title IX investigation after the female student changed her mind about it weeks later.
– Mohali woman filed over 30 complaints of rape, wrongful restraint in 4 years
– Declared Innocent By Court Once Again, Rohtak Boys Ask Media To Declare Them Innocent. The media should now come forward and ‘declare’ the innocent Rohtak boys not guilty.
– The full bombshell texts that cleared BT engineer sent by jilted ex who wrongly accused him of rape, cleared him
– Connor Fitzgerald, 19, lost his job when he was accused of raping an ex – but she bragged how she wanted to ‘ruin his life’
– Woman accused 6 men of raping her is a false accusation. She also collected $2,000 from a special program for “rape victims”. That is nothing but a false rape encouragement and benefit program.
– ‘I’m free from this living hell’: Haunting last words of man who took his own life after fake rape claim… as police finally investigate accuser
– Weston man cleared of rapes ‘relieved’ 11-month nightmare at an end
– Woman who accused former Awabakal Local Aboriginal Land Council deputy chairman Richard John Green of rape makes full retraction
– Middlebury College Student Describes Hell of False Rape Allegation
– Mum gave kids sedatives in a bid to frame dad for ‘drugging and sexually abusing’ them
– Woman Who Falsely Accused Men Of Abuse Before Robbing Homes Is Arrested Again
– Woman who lied about being abducted, raped by black men pleads guilty to faking evidence
– Niagara Regional Police have charged a St. Catharines woman with public mischief after surmising she “misled police” about being sexually assaulted in Niagara Falls three weeks ago.
– Lawyer apologizes for falsely accusing trooper of rape
– Woman who falsely accused DPS trooper of rape won’t face additional charges
– Two girls arrested for filing fake rape complaint to extort Rs 2 lakh from youth
– Man cleared of raping ‘chronic liar’ demands police apology
– Father-of-two, 53, spent ‘torturous’ EIGHT MONTHS in jail over false rape claims after police withheld vital phone messages
– Woman arrested for trying to frame man in false rape case in Uttar Pradesh
– Another rape trial disgrace: Case collapses after police failed to investigate 30,000 Facebook ssages linked to the ‘victim’.