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Who Has the Incentive to Marry and Divorce
With men paying for everything from the first date to the engagement ring, wedding ring, the house, car and all the bills, don’t you think that the man has a vested interest to preserve the marriage?
With all of the outrageously high alimony and child support settlements given out, without much thought by the judges, don’t you think that the woman has a vested interest to end the marriage?
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Duality Instilled by a Single Mother and the Community
I was raised by a single mom that lived in the government projects. She went to all the Women’s Liberation (Women’s Lib) and Feminists Movement meetings with her kids (me and my sister) in tow.
My older sister would constantly provoke and torment me for her pleasure. If I complained to my mom when she got home from work, she would tell me to not bother her. When I hit my sister back, I was beaten, badly.
By the time I was 14, (1978) I would not stand for that shit from my sister. One day she played with me the wrong way one too many times and I knocked her out cold with one punch. She had a fat lip and she showed it to all the project rats that I was an abusive brother.
For years after that day I would get the local thugs chase me whenever they saw me.
I never resorted to violence, that’s not my thing. It takes a whole lot to get me to that point. The only time I would attack anyone is if they were to attack me. Curse me, look at me, say what you may, the minute you touch me, I will be one of the people that will be arrested after I am done.
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Differences Between A Man and a Woman
A woman will block men from her friend in any way she can so she wont be alone.
A man will jump on the fat chick that every hot girl drags along so his buddy can get the hottie.
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A Question to Ponder #3
Do you think that a working wife will work hard to add extra money to her loving husband and family or is she hoarding that extra cash while spending her husband’s money so she can break free from someone that openly helped her when she had nothing?
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Men and Women in Songs.
Whenever you hear a love song by a man, you hear him professing his love for someone. The direction of love flows from the man to the woman. From the one who has love to the target of his love. Men’s songs contain stories and information hidden or blatant. They also sing about the loss of of their target object of affection.
Modern women, on the other hand sing songs of what they want, need and desire. Their songs of love always are a want, need and desire to be loved. The direction of love is in their direction. They are looking to be the target of that love in the hopes that if someone loves them enough, their feeling of longing will go away.
One of the most obvious examples of this is a song by Whitney Houston, “I Want to Dance With Somebody Who Loves Me” where the direction of love is pointing to her. Yes I also know that Whitney sings, “I Will Always Love You” a song written by Dolly Parton in 1973.
The first is a sign of narcissism and it is very evident when you listen to people speaking. From biblical times, Songs of Solomon to the songs of Eminem and Beyonce, very little has changed except that more female song writers in the past 50 years have been singing more and more about their needs to be loved.
In high school and college when I was young, I would come across many girls expressing their need to give birth so that their newborn baby can love them. They place the burden on an infant to love them. Again, the direction of love is to them from the baby.
Most men understand that in order to change his feelings from normal to loving, an action on his part has to be taken. This is why men have fun with children (show love and affection) and they feel great. Most women wait for their baby to love them and get jealous of the love and bond that the child has with the father and thats when they find an excuse to break it off with them. They feel betrayed by both child and father.
What eludes women most about love is they will never feel love until they become loving.
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Here is a fact:
80% of divorces are initiated by the woman. (The percentages are higher with non-married couples)
How would that statistic change if they had to pay alimony, give up the man’s children and pay child support?
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A Question to Ponder #2
What would anyone have to do for you, in order for you to protect them with you life, work hard all day to pay their bills?
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Subtle Signs That She Blames Others
OK, we all know that there are many women out there that blame others of everything that goes wrong in their lives, and here is how you spot them. Just have a conversation with them and you will hear it.
Most men will say, "That comedian is funny" (an opinion based on his evaluation) or "I laughed my ass off" (a point of fact). Most women that you want to stay away from will take an accusatory stance, "He made me laugh". Although innocuous, she is accusing the comedian of making her laugh.
The difference is subtle, yet it is still there. "I was angry at him" versus "He made me angry"
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A Question to Ponder #1
How have women, in your past thanked you for winding, dining, entertaining, providing and protecting her with your life?
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A Pattern That I’ve Noticed
Women seem to start disliking their man they are with around the time their youngest child hits 4 - 5 years of age. They also start this trait after 3 years when there are no kids involved. Have you notice this in your lives? Let us look at this phenomenon to find the cause and cure.
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The Aftermath of 2 Girls Hidden From Their Fathers.
Today I ran into a friend of mine that retired to Florida. He came back to NYC to visit. He told me that his 44 year old daughter contacted him from out of the blue. You see, when my friend returned from duty in Vietnam, he settled down with a woman. When only 8 months pregnant, she ran away, never to be seen again. Well, the baby turned out to be a girl that he had never seen. She found her father through Ancestry.com and wrote a letter, that ended up arriving at the man’s old place of residence where his son lives.
It turned out that his newly found daughter lives 8 miles away from were her father retired. She has 2 kids, one 10 the other 13. He says that his daughter looks and even acts like him and they even “complete each others sentences”. He is happy now that he has grandchildren to watch over.
As for the mother, when her kids grew up, that woman and 2 other boys from 2 other fathers, she got involved with a gang of criminals. They were shooting heroin and she died somehow or another. He didn’t give much detail and I didn’t press him for any.
Anyway, he is happy. This is the second daughter that came back to him. The other one, from a past wife, ran off just to get the child support. When this daughter came back to him 20 years ago to confront him on not paying child support, this man opened his desk drawer and gave his daughter a box of canceled checks proving otherwise.
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How Women Define Themselves
Women define themselves by how they perceive their partner’s worth and status. They constantly compare their situations to the ones of the women in their sphere of influence.
With absolutely no regards as to his needs, a woman will place ALL of her needs, wants, and desires (real or imaginary) solely on that partner to fulfill. Without his knowledge or consent she puts him in charge of satisfying her in every way without giving him a single clue as to what she wants. He should know or else it is not meant to be. If he does not live up to unrealistic expectations, she will then start look at him as if he betrayed her and she will act accordingly.
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Here is what I do not understand;
Why are there so many females heading up the Fathers’ Rights movement? That makes no GOD damn sense. I started up this account to empower men and to shatter the angelic images of females in the heads of men. I post stuff all day, more than any Mens’ or Fathers’ rights group. I never asked for money and I am only one person they are groups of male followers lead by Judas Goat females leading men to slaughter. I have my own group (Men Only) and I only friend with men, no females. I have complimented women on their comments and even posted videos of great women of today. I do not hate strong, powerful, intelligent, creative women. I wish they could all be that way. Instead I see bossy, vicious, vindictive, money grubbing whores and women that enjoy leading men.
There was this female who put her kid’s face on her profile. No doubt a single mom that walked out on the father yet she feels sorry for the new man in her life whose wife walked out on him. Now she is the admin that deleted one of my posts.
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Men!
We have sold ourselves way too short to women for far too long. These women are not the women of the 1950’s that will raise our kids, make our homes and beds when we go out in the foxholes and risk our necks for the family. Those women made sure we came back to a clean home, clean clothes and warm food when we come home.
Today’s women want slaves that will provide for their every want, need and desire, real or imaginary. They wont do anything loving for us, we have to provide the hot meals for them after a hard days work and we have to provide $10,000 handbags, maid service and a gourmet chef at their disposal. They demand new cars and a fancy home with all the furnishings. They demand that we provide them happiness and shower them with attention, jewelry and roses all on a silver platter. They demand constant and never ending compliments and accolades. This is far more than any 10 men could ever give one female.
She will abort and kidnap our children and make us pay through the nose just for the possibility of seeing our kids 4 days a month if you dont pamper the queen like a good servant.
And what does she give back that is worth all that?
I think the time is right to say to women, “If you want to live under my protection and to enjoy my provisions, you need to prove your worth to me.” What can you offer a man that will risk his life to defend, feed and clothe you?
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A Friend Wrote Me The Following #3
I lived with my mother and her husband until I was 15.
She told me that she didn’t know if my biological father was alive or not.
It was all a big lie. My father was alive and paying 20% of his monthly salary to my mother. It was automatically deducted from his check. In addition, the medical insurance was paid as well. She got the money every month.
When I was 14, I wanted to travel to another country for my 15th birthday, and discovered that my father was alive and paying something similar to alimony.
I searched and found him. He was living in the same city, in another neighbourhood and still working for the same government office.
So, both my mother and former stepfather lied to me for years.
She divorced him as well.
Those things happen.
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A Friend Wrote Me The Following #2
I was working 2 jobs; 8 hours a day in a truck stop and 6 to 8 hours a day selling and installing CB radios, linear amplifiers and trucks. I was doing my business and doing my job, as a man should, to bring home money for food, clothes and diapers for the baby. She also needed pot to smoke because Mexican women like to smoke weed.
I was busting my ass just like my father did for his family. Her complaint was that I was never home and when I was home I was sleeping.
Well I knew about the pot. What I didn't know about was the meth. So while I was working all night on the graveyard shift, she was fucking the dude with the bag and glass dick (crack pipe) they smoked all of my weed.
It took me 3 years to figure this shit out. They say love is blind until you get hit in the head with a big stick. Then I woke up.
You know I don't care if someone uses dope. Likewise, I don't care if someone drinks. But if the alcohol or the use of a mind altering substance takes control of your life then you have a problem.
You can buy a bag of whatever you want with leftover money after all bills are paid and consume some on your time off work. Have fun enjoy. But if you have to consume every day just to function or spend all your money on it and not take care of bills then you have a problem and you need to stop.
Well my ex had a big problem with consuming too much. She would buy a big bag and would try to smoke it all at one time or till unconscious, whichever came first. I couldn’t understand that. I kept asking her how high she wanted to go. For me, I like to fly 15,000 to 35,000 feet. This is a nice cruising altitude. You can still function and take care of business.
I was never married but I paid child support for 21 years. At first the amount was set at $123.00 per month but every few years she had my finances re-investigated and by the end of my support was over $400 plus a month.
I figured it out! We used a condom and the KY jelly always came up missing. She, being a nursing student, knew that petroleum jelly breaks down the latex of condoms. After our fun, I pulled out and only the bottom half of the condom was intact. She sperm jacked me!
She only initiated sex during her optimum fertile time. With me being so high and horny, we used petroleum jelly to lubricate the condom. She was supposed to be on the pill as well. 2 month later she’s sick in the morning. We went to the doctor, and sure enough, she comes back pregnant.
Well, I did what every other male would do at 29 years of age. I buckled down and bust my ass. But, that was not good enough for her. No matter how much money I brought home, her hidden meth habit took more than I could make. Then certain things came up missing.
When they sabotaged the tires on my vehicle, hoping for me to have a fatal accident and cash in on my life insurance that was the last straw. Of course I couldn’t prove it at the time, but I took a crossbow arrow out of my rear truck tire when it went flat on me. My buddy, who was a tire man, showed me this.
I wish I could rip out that chapter of my life she changed my whole life on my opinion on bitches. She ran me through the gutter.
Then, with an electronics back ground I put electronic bugs in our house to listen in. It turned out that the dude she ran off with was making her turn tricks at the local bar and he beat the stuff out of her.
I stalked her for 4 years after that. It's amazing what you can hide in a children's toy that runs on batteries and give it to your baby they never found out and it would transmit over a mile.
I'm glad the whore is out of my life. Now with social media, I can see what they're doing. I looked at her she has so many miles on their body she looks older than I am and we're the same age.
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A friend wrote me the following #1
I moved to Florida an was engaged to my child’s mother for 2 years. I was going to full time night classes so I could be with my daughter during the day. I got injured in the Marines in ’07 which made the Florida Police Academy really tough to accomplish in 2012, but I did because I knew it was my only hope of keeping and supporting my daughter.
Then she walked out on me, taking my daughter with her. I spent $5,000 on an attorney which did absolutely nothing for me, because he couldn’t serve her mother the papers. Florida has awful laws for unwed fathers. I’m on the birth certificate and my child has my last name but I have zero rights because you must be married to the child’s mother before you have any rights to your child.
So, January 2013, her mom took off with my child again to another state. It took me a year and a half to find out that they were in North Carolina. Back in 2011 I bought her a brand new Nissan Altima which, of course had to be in my name because I had perfect 760 credit score back then. She let it get repossessed, which made my credit go to 450.
So back to me after finding out she ran; I applied for Tampa Police Department, which I didn’t get the job because I failed my mental evaluation. They told me I was emotionally unstable due to my child being taken. They told me to try back again in 8 months.
So at this point I had no reason to live in Florida any more then I moved back home to Texas to be around family and friends and try to regroup and find my kid.
I went from a $60,000 year career to no career at all. From a 760 credit score to 450, and I lost my only purpose and my joy (my child).
So 3 weeks ago I moved here to North Carolina to fight for my baby girl. I’m not sure how I will get that done because I spent most my money getting put here and paying rent and other expenses. But I can’t give up. She is 6 yrs old and I haven’t seen her since Nov 22, 2012. It has literally killed me. One day Madi daddy will hold and kiss you again.
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Why does this man have to fight to be in his child’s life?
Our prayers are out to you my brother.
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Throwing Them The Curveball
When I meet a girl, I will sometimes tell them, "I promised myself that if I met a girl that looks as good as you do, I would buy that girl a diamond ring." Then I would walk away.
Sometimes I tell them, "If I met 5 more girls like you, I would marry them all the very next day."
Some days I will ask a girl I met, "I always attract the craziest women, so if you are attracted to me, I do not want your number."
Most of the time when I'm the third wheel between my friend and his wife, I tell the waitress, "I wanted to bring my girlfriend but my wife would get pissed at me."
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Worship Women or Be Called A Misogynist
I’m glad that we have a culture that fosters love for mothers, but at this point, it’s become a cult that considers mothers and females in general beyond reproach and criticism. Every conversation that is brought up about single mothers, the talk of responsibility must either be split by mothers and fathers (which we already know that deadbeat dads are already criticized) or thrown onto fathers by those that are offended. As always, nothing gets done, and the end result is that anyone who questions single motherhood must hate women. Rinse and repeat.
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Women Mess Up Their Own Wedding Lottery
From time to time I see stories of gold digging whores who attached themselves to a millionaire. To seal the deal and secure her own personal financial future, she spits out a kid. To the amazement of the treasure seeker, the millionaire conducts a DNA test to find out that the kid is not his and the real father is a thug in prison. I gotta laugh at this point but it still is tragic for the child and a bitter sweet victory for the man.
If it were me, and I was the female digging for gold, I definatly would not risk losing a millionaires wealth by sticking around with a gangster. That’s like knowingly having the winning Power Ball ticket in your hand and instead of going home with the ticket, you go out and get drunk until you pass out.
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Women Are Chameleons.
They become what men require of them. That’s why they always end up asking men, “What kind of woman do you like?” They ask us this so men can tell them how we want them to be. I’ve spoken to way too many of them to be fooled. They are all the same. Trust me, they want someone to put food in their mouthes and they will behave the way we expect them to until they get what they want. They hear the phrase, “The grass is always greener on the other side” and they view that as their roadmap instead of a warning.
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Helping Men vs Helping Women
Help a man out once and when you meet many years later, he will remember all you did for him, thank you and offer a hand if and when you need.
Do the same for a woman and she will either ask for more, make excuses for not keeping in-touch (partly because she feels guilty for deliberately keeping away from you) and point all your faults.
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Grandma Wants Attention Too
My friend’s son fell off a skateboard and had a severe compound fracture very close to the elbow. Surgery was eminent. We all came to visit him and his father in the hospital before and after surgery to bring presents and other fun stuff for little boys. When all of a sudden, out of nowhere the boy’s grandmother started crying out, yelling, “When is it ever going to be my turn?” As she stormed out the hospital room.
As it turned out, this woman was jealous of all the attention that her 12 year old grandson was getting.
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Perpetual Hatred of Fathers
I hate when I hear a man that was brought up by a single mother, bad mouth his father. He will still talk bad about his father even after his baby’s mother runs off and alienates him from his child, all the while telling that child how bad his father was. Doesn’t this man see the pattern?
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The Ultimate Prank
I would love to have the guts to ask a girl if she wants to go to Greece or some place far. I will buy her a ticket there and buy myself a round trip ticket and see if she makes it home.
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Sure Fire Way To Mess With A Girl
Here is a sure fire way to see if a girl likes you; ask her if she is married or has a boyfriend. If the answer is “no”, she may be lying but she is looking at you as a possible mate.
If she says “yes”, she may be lying but she don’t like you for sure.
When I ask that question, no matter what answer I get from the girl, I congratulate her and tell her that she is so lucky. I tell her that she is lucky to be all alone and independent or she is lucky in this day and time that a man would commit to her. Either way, its a mind fuck for her.
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We Need To Work Together!
I was watching a documentary on Scientology, the so called religion created by science fiction writer L. Ron Hubbard. It seemed that, at one time, the IRS did not accept that The Church of Scientology was a church and that Scientology was not a religion. The IRS further claimed that this organization fraudulently exempted themselves from taxes and, as a result, owed $1.5 Billion in back taxes and penalties.
The Scientologists responded by filing 2,500 lawsuits on the IRS in jurisdictions across America. This became a legal nightmare for the IRS and they finally had to back off and accept that the Church of Scientology was, in fact a religion and is eligible for tax exempt status.
I wonder if results like the example above can be accomplished in the same way for men. What would be the first accomplishment and how can we make it happen?
We could act together as one team and file lawsuits on the family court system on a certain day of the year? Maybe when we are 200,000 strong we could manage.
Don’t just “Like” this post, your ideas are valuable, please post them.
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The Provider
There is a definite problem with women that refer to men as a “Provider”. They seem to have a profound unrealistic view of the meaning of the word. They seem to want a man that will be by her side 24 hours a day 7 days a week working hard and earning money for the sole purpose of pampering them and them alone. She wants you at her disposal at any time day or night no matter what you are doing at the time.
If she is not excited, you have to provide her excitement.
If she is unhappy, its the providers fault because he is not providing her happiness on a silver platter for her majesty.
If you tell her that happiness comes from within, she will look at you like you are trying to convince her that she is responsible and that you are trying to weasel out of your responsibility.
If you are not achieving her very lofty and highly unrealistic goals quick enough, then she will slowly start resenting you and start destroying things you like in order to punish you, because you should never like anything any more than you like her.
Her jealousy runs high. I’ve seen women destroy cars, boats, businesses and even the fathers kids.
One girl I talked to told me that she hated the man she was with so much that she will destroy the one thing that man loves the most. When I asked her what that was she looked me straight in the eye and said, “Me”. This girl was so intent on punishing her boyfriend that she was willing to punish him by destroying her own life. I was in such shock at that point that I couldn’t even ask her what that entailed.
I met one girl that was so unhappy that there was no excitement in her marriage that she told me it was ruining her life. I told her to find a hobby or a means to fulfill her life. She quickly barked, “That’s his job!”
All I could say is, “WoW!” This girl was beyond saving. She later found an initiator and provider that gave her excitement then her husband caught those two in bed and now she is divorced and that second man is long gone. Where is the excitement now?
Girls like these do not initiate anything. They somehow think that if it is “meant to be”, (remember that phrase, they tend to say that a lot) someone will make it happen.
When I hear stories of women destroying another man’s life, inevitably I will hear another woman blaming the man for not stopping her beforehand. They act like a collective never blaming a woman for anything.
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Women Change
All my life I’ve been told to look for a nice woman and settle down. Ive looked hard for 20 years. Ive even followed the advice that girls give, “Not to look, Let it happen.” They only say that because they would never initiate any relationship in their life. And I found one thing to be true; women are children that want a fantasy, fairytale life were they place themselves in bad situations, creating the damsel in distress while they wait for their prince charming, knight in shining armor to rescue them. I have not only seen this in my life but in the lives of my sisters, brothers, cousins, neighbors, coworkers, in college and everywhere I go even to this day. I have studied divorce since I was 9 years old and now I’m 43. I have consulted with many men going through divorces for at least 25 years of my life and they are all clueless how cold and calculating, mean, vicious and vindictive their woman turned out. I have lived on my own for 18 years and it has been a peaceful journey with events happening from time to time.
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Reclaiming Valentine’s Day
Remember that February 14th is the day that women must show their love to Men, After all, we build their houses, install and maintain the roofs, walls, driveways, windows, plumbing, gas, electricity, heating and cooling. We pay for these services too. We have invented cars, boats, airplanes, jets, radios, televisions, telephones, computers, and software. We are constantly improving the skills of men long ago to create bigger, better, stronger, faster, and more efficient products than ever before. Men created and maintain roads, sewers, refuge, water supplies, gasoline (petrol), propane, and power generators (nuclear, hydro-electric, coal, and petroleum). On a daily basis Men risk their lives as police officers, firemen, construction workers to make our lives better. Men pilot planes, drive trucks and taxies and navigate ships so the world can travel and for commerce. Men do not need to prove their love to one woman because we have shown love to the people everywhere with the sweat from our brows.
I look at members of my military and thank them for their duty and service for they freely volunteered to risk their lives for my safety and security. I will not demand gratuity from them.
Women should thank men for our service to the world and not demand us to bow to them further. We are not their indentured servants for life.
Women have nothing, do nothing and achieve nothing without men. All they have is due to men. If they have taken too much it is our fault and we need to correct it now.
Even Saint Valentine, himself was a man that risked his life to marry people when the law of the land punished priests with death for doing so.
Valentine’s Day is for women to show their love and respect to the man that has given her and his community so much.
Say NO to Valentine’s Day
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The Insanity Is Here
I've been single now for 17 years and I have saved a ton of money in that time, I suddenly have the urge to find me a single mom with 2 or 3 kids (preferably from more than one father) and blow my life savings on their school, activities, clothes, toys and vacations. Hell I just want to buy another man's child their first car. I want to be their father without the permission of the man that inseminated her. Oh, he can send money but I'll be glad to see him every other weekend while my new girlfriend sneaks her way into my phone and erase pictures of girls that I save. It wont matter if the picture is of my cousin in a beauty pageant, she will delete them. I get to see her ex live and the spawn of his sperm every day.
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Independent Woman Defined
Independent woman is a woman that makes their own money while they refuse to love any man that has or makes even a few dollars less than her. Meanwhile she sleeps around with gangsters, thugs, criminals and pimps until she meets the mega millionaire that accepts her the way she is; burnt out, with several STDs brewing and either a few kids in tow or a history of several abortions. When in her thirties, her standards will drop dramatically to be impregnated by any guy she meets or rushes to marriage because her biological clock is ticking.
Its funny how no man claims to be Independent.
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3 Simple Rules For Women
Women: There are 3 basic rules to keep a man happy;
1) Feed Me
2) Fuck Me
3) Leave Me The Hell Alone
1 is optional, if you don't feed him he can make himself a sandwich
2 is optional as well, if you are not in the mood or you are too tired, he can rub one out in the shower
3 is mandatory. If you continually badger and nag him, he will have no choice other than to leave.
You just need to wonder why a father will walk out on a pretty girl and his own flesh and blood.
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Just A Question For You
Is a woman entitled to receive free meals, gifts and entertainment from any and all men until she feels that her sexual currency is diminishing or has completely eroded away? Is she entitled always and forever to a man’s earnings?
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I have had my eyes open and need to join woman’s struggle
to be free and independent. I believe that women are our equals
I believe that they should get equal pay as men. In fact,
they should get paid more than men. But they aren’t getting the pay they
deserve.
I look up and down my street every day for many years and
see our country going to hell and there is hardly an outcry for the misogyny
that I see gone completely rampant;
Trucks delivering packages every day and there is not a
woman allowed to take those jobs. And the guilty parties are UPS, FedEx and the
USPS. They are secretly forbidding women to drive those trucks so that they too
can have productive lives like men do on a daily basis. They are to blame. They
are at fault. This needs to change.
But that is just the very tip of the iceberg that is big
enough to sink our sexist country let alone a tiny ship in the North Atlantic.
I stayed home one afternoon waiting for my cable to be
installed and to my surprise there was a man setting up my cable, phone and
Internet. I was perplexed at this but kept my mouth shut. “Where are the female
workers?” I thought.
So I called my friends to see if they agree with my
observations. They too have been noticing what was in front of their very eyes.
It was almost as it were hidden in plain sight. My friends said their cable
providers were Verizon, Time Warner Cable, Optimum and they too started to see
that their installers were men and not women.
One of my neighbors had work done on his basement and the
other had his roof repaired. Again, both places had no women workers. A male
plumber worked on my bathroom and a male electrician worked on my friend’s
house.
I started to call plumbers, electricians, roofers, and
other general contractors, and what I discovered was completely astounding.
When I called these places, some of them had a female picking up the phone but
that’s where it stopped. When I asked if there were any female workers that could
do the work, they all replied with a resounding, “No!” In fact, some of the
companies that I called even laughed at me for even asking that.
Let me get this straight, companies throughout this
country are keeping their doors closed to one half of the population based on
their sex and giving the most visible positions to women as a token.
To give a job to a woman as a receptionist, a job so easy
that an 8th grader could do it, is a slap in the face for women around the
world. Women are capable of anything and more and they are relegated to only
perform menial tasks that require no thought at all.
This is a travesty that you will never see on the nightly
news. In fact, MSNBC, Fox News and the rest will hire women and put them in
front of the camera for the entire world to see as a token for they do not have
the same male to female ratio behind the scenes.
In the television court shows, they only display mostly
female judges to make you believe that the appointed judges in your local
courts are equally male and female when they are not. Judge Judith Sheindlin,
Judge Jeanine Pirro, Judge Lynn Toler, and Judge Marilyn Milian are the visible
tokens when they know that your court system is comprised of mostly men.
The same goes with just about every restaurant I have ever
visited. There is a female hostess, waitress, and maybe a female bartender
where everyone can see. The sexist sided of the restaurants comes to play when
you open the kitchen doors. You will never see a woman in any kitchen. Sexism
is in restaurants as well. They won’t even allow a women cook.
Speaking about cooking, why are most of the celebrity
chefs male? If you do a search on the top celebrity chefs you will be
overwhelmed at the ratio between male and female chefs, Jamie Oliver, Gordon
Ramsay, Wolfgang Puck, David Chang, Emeril Lagasse, Anthony Bourdain, and Guy
Fieri. You have the occasional Rachael Ray and a few others that are not
household words due to lack of promotion.
In the transportation industry I see in the New York City
Transit Authority all the train conductors and the motormen (a sexist job title
to ostracize women) are men. Their bus drivers are overwhelmingly men but there
is no outcry. Stand outside the Port Authority Bus Terminal where the busses
enter and you will never see a female bus driver. This is very overtly sexist
without shame. I’m very sure that this is true in many cities throughout
America.
You can’t find a cab in New York City that is driven by a
man. Uber and Lyft are new companies that just emerged in the past few years
and you would have to look real hard to find a female driver. In fact the men
line up at the Taxi and Limousine Commission to get licensing to drive such
cars but there is no encouragement provided by the T&LC to get women to
drive and earn a decent living.
When was the last time you saw a female auto mechanic?
Sears, Pep Boys, and just about any independent mechanic you find, are men.
I watched the garbage trucks that drive by picking up
garbage every day and wouldn’t you know it? I have never seen a woman do these
jobs. In fact, most the New York City Police Department and the Fire Department
are overwhelmingly men. This is the hidden sexism and they are editing that
from the news.
Feminist organizations speak out about this injustice by
stating that the gender wage gap is such that women get paid 77¢ to a man’s
dollar but I think that gap is much wider. These organizations respond by
saying that women need encouragement in order to get these high paying jobs so
that they can earn more. I say we need to go further.
We need to find the organizations that only encourage men
to do these jobs and punish them for not encouraging women. By the way, these
employment encouraging agencies must be encouraging men in the direction
towards high paying jobs while directing women to the porn and modeling
industries. These jobs overtly objectify women to the point that it’s
humiliating beyond reason.
We have to do our part by voting with our dollars and only
get our cars fixed where females are allowed to be mechanics. Go to restaurants
that have women that work behind the scenes. We need to focus our collective
monies where women are getting employed. We need to boycott taxis that are not
driven by women and only take such cabs that are operated by women. Women are
not allowed to be gainfully employed and we wonder why they fight so hard for
alimony, palimony, child support, welfare, section 8 housing, food stamps, and
social security disability. There are women’s shelters throughout America
because there are no jobs for them.
Together we can help make women truly independent and
productive.
How Women Think
Why is it that every time I explain to some girl why I’ve been single for so many years, they manipulate my pointing out how women are hateful to men as me hating women. Their knee jerk reaction to me pointing out women’s bad behavior is me hating women and suggest that I learn to be gay.
Let me get this straight, I should suck dick because women are so messed up.
#TheXYGhost
Rebuttal to, “Dating: 10 Things Men Don’t Do Anymore”
There is an article on the Internet titled “Dating: 10 Things Men Don’t Do Anymore”
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It lists 10 things men do not do anymore on or for dates. And they are;
1 – Men don’t accept rejection anymore
2 – Men don’t make phone calls anymore
3 – Men don’t buy drinks anymore
4 – Men don’t ask women to dance anymore
5 – Men don’t give meaningful compliments anymore
6 – Men don’t work at impressing anymore
7 – Men don’t show up at your door with a gift/token anymore
8 – Men don’t take charge of dating plans anymore
9 – Men don’t ask women out in advance anymore
10 – Men don’t ask women on dates anymore
I’ve come up with my list of 10 things that women do not do any more.
1 – Women will never tell you whose child you are raising – At the dawn of the 21st century we are now finding out that women have more affairs than usually believed. With DNA testing we find that some men are raising children that are not even theirs. Some conservative estimates state that some 30 – 35% of fathers today are raising another man’s child unbeknownst to either of the men.
2 – Women do not keep their families together – In this age of disposable razors, lighters, pens, diapers, etc. women found a way to dispose of the most important man in their child’s life for any minuscule reason they can think of and they will have the backing of the Family Courts’ anti-masculine agenda to cut a man to pieces just because that man is imperfect for her immediate needs.
3 – Women are not forgiving – 80% of all divorces in America today are initiated by females. Make no mistake, forgiveness is not part of their plan that includes taking everything you own (children included) and they will stop at nothing to ruin your life with false rape and domestic violence accusations if you do not meet their exact expectations.
4 – Women do not cook – It was once said that a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach but that line of thinking is gone. Once a woman places the dehumanizing label of “provider” or gets you to agree to “take care of her”, she will take that to mean that you provide for her every need, want and desire and that includes food, clothes, happiness and excitement when she wants it and how she wants it. Every man would kill or die for a woman that gave him a warm meal at the end of his hard day, but that is too hard for today’s woman.
5 – Women do not partner with strong masculine and moral men – good bye John Wayne and hello to Joey, Chandler and Ross. Women also like the meanest and nastiest men around. They have love affairs with murderers, rapists, thugs and criminals. In fact, when there is a high profile murder or rapist on the news that just got arrested, women will waste no time in writing love letters to that man.
6 – Women do not contribute to the household expenses – If you talk to any married woman and you get to the point where she talks about finances, she will inevitably say that there is “her money” (The money she acquired even if it was from his wallet) and there is “our money” (the money that he works hard to make). If the hot water heater is broken and there is no money in “our” bank account to fix it, even if she has enough of “her” money to fix it, there is going to be some cold showers in the household’s future.
7 – Women have no shame – Once upon a time women were shamed to have a child out of wedlock, be divorced or even caught in another man’s bed other than her husband’s. Now these things are the source of a woman’s pride and attention. Single motherhood, divorce, receiving welfare and having multiple children from multiple men are badges of honor for today’s woman.
8 – Women do not work – Nearly 60 years have past since the feminist movement of the 1960’s and women still do not work. Sure they will take the part time, minimum wage job but they will not even try to be ambitious to do their share to bring in money for the household. If they make more money than their husband, that is grounds for divorce in her eyes. During WWII women worked in factories building ships, tanks and planes for their men at war. In the pre industrial revolution, a woman scrubbed the floors, washed dishes by hand, washed clothes on a washboard by hand chopped wood for fire to make bread, breakfast, lunch and dinner. Today’s woman wants a provider to pamper her in luxury to the point that he needs 2 and even 3 jobs to pay for it.
9 – Women do not take care of their children – Today’s statistics show that 75% of all convicted criminals in prison today come from a single mother home. What kind of morals are being instilled by a mother to her child without the father’s influence? It seems that for the most part, women only care about theirselves and the care they give to their kids ends up being responsible for America’s ultra high prison population.
10 – Women are not loving – When a man comes home from work, instead of a hot meal, a change of clothes and a shoulder rub after a hard day, a woman will complain how hard her life was, give her worn out husband orders to take out the trash, order up food and sweep the leaves.
Its no wonder why men now are doing their own thing for themselves and excluding selfish, self-centered women behind.
#TheXYGhost
Women Are Unhappy
In these times, women, in the Western World are the unhappiest of all.
They feel unfulfilled. They feel unaccomplished. And they will always blame the man they selected and labeled as their own personal "Provider". Their dependency on their unreasonable expectations they place on that provider is so great that they have nothing to do to obtain a sense of pride that comes from doing something deserving of the fulfillment they desire.
They place all their wants, needs and desires, real or unreal on that provider and they will do nothing to get what they want, need or desire, except for another provider.
They are the ones that sit back and relinquish themselves any and all responsibility to do anything to achieve.
I hear it all the time when women tell me the reason they divorced or broke up with a man.
"I’m not happy", the implication is that their provider did not provide them happiness.
I would love to see women that are independent. I want to see them independent from me, men, the state and their parents. I want them independent from alimony and welfare.
#TheXYGhost
Ungrateful
It does not matter how much money you have, the woman that you select (she really selects you) will find a way to accuse you of wrong doing while she calls the lawyers (The modern day Philistines to your Delilah), the police and judges to take your money and take away your kids because men are treated as the second class citizens.
The icon of music history, Sir Paul McCartney, whose net worth is estimated at $1.2 billion married a one legged woman who waited until she had a child to break up her child with an amazing man. I never really liked The Beatles but nobody can deny Paul’s contribution to history.
Most of us men, including me, would not mind living and raising a child with a woman as iconic as he is. What did this skank do? She alienated her child for a few pieces of silver and went right over to Rupert Murdock with her pickaxe, shovel and a bulk of Paul’s money.
Fuck Rupert Murdock for enabling that whore for making that kid have a temporary father and a surrogate father just to get a piece of one-legged ass.
Paul’s ex-wife is a parasite, a leach, a blood-sucking vampire whose only accomplishment is the capturing of other men’s accomplishments.
I remember saying this about my own mother, “I know all the names of my mom’s past boyfriends but I never had the chance to know my own dad.”
It took me 40 plus years to reunite with my dad. He is a pain in the ass, always nagging me to get a girlfriend and get married. His third wife is a dream. My half brothers are cool too. I wish I had a dad during grade school and high school.
I never wanted to be another kid’s temporary dad until mommy finds a better man. That’s why I steer clear from single moms. If they are not forgiving to the most important man in their child’s life, what can she do to me?
#TheXYGhost
Any Man Can But Who Would Want This?
Any guy can get laid, but do you want to eat pussy that was filled only hours before you lick it? Maybe you like tonguing a broad only minutes after she gave the last PUA a blowjob.
It’s up to you. Wipe another man’s goo off your dick and kiss that filthy mouth afterwards.
#TheXYGhost
Not All Women Are Like That
Her: Not all girls are the same!
TheXYGhost : Good. I’ll wait until some girls takes me out, buys me dinner and sweeps me off of my feet until she is ready to propose to me with a new car.
Her: That’s never gonna happen.
TheXYGhost : Why? Because no girl will ever take the time, energy and money to pamper a man.
Her: You got that right!
TheXYGhost : So, what you are telling me is that all girls are the same.
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My Perfect Date
TheXYGhost : Hey, do you want to join me for dinner?
Her: You mean like a date?
TheXYGhost : If you wanna call it that, I guess so.
Her: That would be nice. Where are we going?
TheXYGhost : Burger King®️.
Her: Burger King®️? That’s the cheapest date that anyone has ever offered me.
TheXYGhost : Have you been on many dates that were more costly?
Her: Hell yeah. More than you can imagine.
TheXYGhost : Are any of those guys still with you now?
Her: You hate women!
#TheXYGhost
Women Complain That They Have a Hard Life
From the American Revolution to the present day wars men have died for our collective freedoms at a ratio of 1000 men for every 1 woman when the ratio between men and women in the military are 5000 men for every woman. When those ratios change to about 1 to 1 I’ll look at women differently.
And don’t give me that bs about men always wanting war. Maxine Waters, Hillary Clinton, Nancy Pelosi, Diane Feinstein, Barbara Boxer, Barbara Bush and even Laura Bush was all in for men to fight and die for our freedoms.
#TheXYGhost
What Girls Want
So you are looking for a man that will kill or is willing to be killed to protect you?
You also want him to work hard and earn enough money to feed, clothe and shelter you as he showers you with gifts and pampers you.
He will be your provider and he must live up to his responsibilities to you. You will hold him responsible for your every want, need and desire. If you are not happy in your life, you hold no personal responsibilities for your own happiness, he is the provider and he needs to provide you happiness when, whee are how you want it.
After a long hard day at work, you want that man to complete a list of things to be done around the house. You affectionately call it your “Honeydew List” (Honey Do List). This is all the things you want him to work on because you have no smarts to do them yourself. You were too busy getting a manicure, pedicure, a facial and a massage from his hard earned money. You dare not spend the money you earned because you think that’s unfair. Besides you want to see that man of yours to work non-stop.
While he is working on that list, after a hard days work, you take his money and order out food because you do not dare touch dishes, pots or pans. That’s sexist.
He will have to ask you permission to hang out with his buddies as you do as you please when you want. If he utters a single word about your night out, you label him “controlling” as you consult a lawyer while he is away.
If he cheats on you, (your definition for cheating is so broad that even being cordial to a waitress is cheating) you take his kids away from their father and collect alimony and child support that you will use on yourself to get prettied up to find a new dad for the kids you took from the father. The child support will support no kids.
If you cheat on him, it’s his fault for not giving you enough of what you want from him. You always have sufficient justification for your actions. Now you get to sue him for half his current and future worth while you are with a new man that will be the new father to your kids because you are the one that assigns an arbitrary guy to be a father at your command.
You want some stranger to ask you for a date. Spend money on you, show you a great time. When he has done this enough times, you will pressure him to marry you. You want him to spend obscene amounts of money on a ring, wedding dress, and a wedding party until he is in debt to his eyeballs.
You want him to get down on one knee, like the subservient slave that you want him to be and beg to be your servant with an expensive bribe (Engagement ring) in his hand so that he can be your obedient servant.
I think I’ll pass.
Find yet another subservient wimp that will serve your needs until you find another one with more resources to offer.
I’ll be my own boss
I’ll live my own life
#TheXYGhost
Women Love Men?
My neighbor’s son got into a serious accident that left him permanently crippled and partially brain damaged. A girl “fell in love” with him for a long time until he won a huge amount of money in the lawsuit. Before that, she was pressuring the boy to marry her.
The father made his son sign over all his awards to himself and made himself his son’s caretaker and guardian.
When the girl found that the father was the only one that was in charge of the money, the girl left as if the boy was poison. She never returned.
#TheXYGhost
Women Hate Men
Women hate men to the point that they refuse to have them in their child’s life. These women have children for the purpose of the child loving the mother. They place the burden of the child to love them and they do not want the child to love another. That is also the reason that women choose to divorce the father when the child starts to prefer the dad over the mom. Dads play with their children. Dads wrestle and make their child laugh, a feat that no mom has ever done.
Women hate men. They are taught that by media, movies and commercials. This is part of the reason why there is a overwhelming amount of single mothers in this country. 80% of divorces are initiated by women.
Women have hatred in their hearts for men because men could never live up to the ever increasing standards they impose on men.
Women want a king and make him her servant. If he falls in line as a servant, she hates that he dose what he is told. If he refuses to be her servant, he is labeled, “mean” and “abusive” the way a child calls it’s parents mean for not letting them eat candy all day.
A woman is a child protected by the state. They look for a person to provide for them the way a child wants the parents to provide.
They take provider to mean that a man is to provide for her every want, need and desire whether they are real or imaginary. “I’m not happy” turns into “Provide me happiness on a silver platter, when, where and how I want it.”
#TheXYGhost
Turn Her Down Fast and Hard
Her: What kind of work do you do?
TheXYGhost : Would you date a man that works at McDonald’s?
Her: No!
TheXYGhost : Not even the CEO of McDonald’s, Inc.?
Her: Well, that’s a different story.
TheXYGhost : I am a French Fry chef at a McDonald’s now go and find your Prince Charming elsewhere. I’m not interested in broke people looking for money.
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This is What Women of Today can Never Understand.
Every man admires a Ferrari, but no man wants a Ferrari with 600,000 miles on the odometer no matter how shiny it looks.
I’m talking to you Mrs. I’m-50-years-old-but-I-look-30.
#TheXYGhost
I Guess You Can Call Me a Feminist
I guess you can call me a feminist. I want to see men and women treated the same. Equally. I want to see more men getting sole custody and child support payments. I want to see more female mechanics, firemen, sanitation workers, construction workers, painters, plasterers, dry wall installers, plumbers, roofers, electricians, gardeners, pilots, maintenance workers, janitors, truck drivers, taxi drivers, bus drivers, train conductors, fork lift operators, coal minors, oil riggers, etc.
Let's show support for woman risking their lives to support their husbands and families with hard work.
#TheXYGhost