In a new relationship if she points out any problem she sees in you, tell her to finds perfect men then tell her a flaw you see in her.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Sunday, April 6, 2025
The Story of Chris' Divorce
Back in 2001, I met a man whose wife just walked out on him only days before. The man, Chris, worked as a food & beverage manager at a hotel in NYC. Chris lived in a 3 family house where his 81 year old mother lived alone in one apartment while Chris lived with his wife and 2 sons in another. The third apartment was rented out to another family.
Chris was heartbroken and cried often after his wife left. He ended up blaming himself for his wife's actions. She blamed him too. I met up with him every evening after work to help him through the troubles he was experiencing. He was hurt over his wife's departure. She took money and the kids. Later on, he was awarded 50/50 custody with his kids and they stayed over just about every weekend because the mother found a weekend job. The court said she couldn't take the home because it was in his mom's name. But she tried to take it.
His wife laughed at him, and told him she was going to find a better man than him. She teased and taunted him for years afterwards. She said that he will never change and that she left because he never loved her.
Chris told me there was a time when his wife nearly died after giving birth. He stood by her side non-stop for days without leaving the hospital for even a minute. He told me that he did everything in his power to be the best husband he knew how. He asked over and over again, "How could she do this to him after all that he'd done for her?"
The ex-wife found a new husband to marry. She rubbed it in Chris' face every chance she could but it had less effect on him the longer they were divorced. That only lasted 8 months as she took the new husband's money and left.
Years went by and Chris sold the house after his mom passed. He bought a very nice condominium and lived with his two sons and new girlfriend. His boys are both in college now.
Chris called me today, 17 years after we first met to tell me that he ran into his ex-wife. He told me how she hung her head in shame as the two passed each other on the street. He later found out through friends of his ex-wife's family that his ex-wife stole money from her second husband and moved to Florida. She spent all that money and she moved into a trailer park. Later, she was unable to afford the trailer park and moved back to NYC to move into a woman's homeless shelter.
Chris thanked me for helping him out in the beginning and to tell me that I was right in saying that she will get hers in the end.
Chris was heartbroken and cried often after his wife left. He ended up blaming himself for his wife's actions. She blamed him too. I met up with him every evening after work to help him through the troubles he was experiencing. He was hurt over his wife's departure. She took money and the kids. Later on, he was awarded 50/50 custody with his kids and they stayed over just about every weekend because the mother found a weekend job. The court said she couldn't take the home because it was in his mom's name. But she tried to take it.
His wife laughed at him, and told him she was going to find a better man than him. She teased and taunted him for years afterwards. She said that he will never change and that she left because he never loved her.
Chris told me there was a time when his wife nearly died after giving birth. He stood by her side non-stop for days without leaving the hospital for even a minute. He told me that he did everything in his power to be the best husband he knew how. He asked over and over again, "How could she do this to him after all that he'd done for her?"
The ex-wife found a new husband to marry. She rubbed it in Chris' face every chance she could but it had less effect on him the longer they were divorced. That only lasted 8 months as she took the new husband's money and left.
Years went by and Chris sold the house after his mom passed. He bought a very nice condominium and lived with his two sons and new girlfriend. His boys are both in college now.
Chris called me today, 17 years after we first met to tell me that he ran into his ex-wife. He told me how she hung her head in shame as the two passed each other on the street. He later found out through friends of his ex-wife's family that his ex-wife stole money from her second husband and moved to Florida. She spent all that money and she moved into a trailer park. Later, she was unable to afford the trailer park and moved back to NYC to move into a woman's homeless shelter.
Chris thanked me for helping him out in the beginning and to tell me that I was right in saying that she will get hers in the end.
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A relationship between a man and a woman begins to break down when the women wants the man to manage her emotions.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Saturday, April 5, 2025
TheXYGhost II 096
How much money have you wasted in lawyer's fees, legal costs, court fees and time off work just to see your kids 4 days a month while another man tucks in your children at night?
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Cheating Defined (By Her)
To a woman, the definition of cheating is so damn broad that it encompasses just about anything from the innocuous conversation with a female co-worker to a glance of another girl on the street. And why not? If she finds a reason to leave him for another, it clears her conscious, whether her accusations are real or imaginary. If that is a reason for divorce, she winds up with half the man's holdings.
Friday, April 4, 2025
TheXYGhost II 095
You want a man to help raise your ex-husband's kids. What kind of man would you even consider for raising your son's kids?
Wake Up Men
If you pay a female for sex you get and make a whore. I'm not embarrassed at being treated like a king. Kings should be treated with respect. Men will risk their lives for their women and women will never reciprocate on that level. If a woman wants someone to protect them with their lives, there is a cost for that. Women need to pay always. Money or payment for sex is prostitution, while it legal to pay a body guard. I'm not looking the 93% that want to prostitute themselves. I'm looking for the rare 7%. Diamonds are rare. I want rare not whats common.
Women: do you want a king or a servant?
Women: do you want a king or a servant?
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Her : Give me your time. Pay me unlimited attention. Love me unconditionally until I betray you when I find a man that has more to offer than you.
TheXYGhost : I think not.
TheXYGhost : I think not.
Thursday, April 3, 2025
TheXYGhost II 094
Do you want to be the father of another man's children while yet another man tucks your kids to bed at night?
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
The Love Women Used to Have for Their Husbands
This morning I saw my neighbor pushing his wife in a wheelchair to get some air and have a bit of lunch. For more than 30 years I have watched and counted men pushing wives in wheelchairs and I only ever seen 1 woman push her husband in a wheelchair.
Back in 1990 I met a woman that bathed, fed and clothed her ailing husband until the day he died. She was 81 and still caring for the man that she loved since they married in their early teens.
When I hear women give the excuse "We married too young" as their personal excuse for divorcing, I think about this woman. When I see women divorcing the day their husband loses a job, I get sick to my stomach.
What benefits do men have getting married these days?
Back in 1990 I met a woman that bathed, fed and clothed her ailing husband until the day he died. She was 81 and still caring for the man that she loved since they married in their early teens.
When I hear women give the excuse "We married too young" as their personal excuse for divorcing, I think about this woman. When I see women divorcing the day their husband loses a job, I get sick to my stomach.
What benefits do men have getting married these days?
Wednesday, April 2, 2025
TheXYGhost II 093
Did you know all your mother's boyfriend's names and never knew your father?
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
She Was Happy With Her Divorce Settlement Until...
I remember talking to this girl when, out of the blue, she proudly professed that she was recently divorced. When I asked her why did she divorced her husband, she first thanked me for assuming that she divorced him rather than the other way around. Then she said, "He was a jerk but I married him for the money. But the next time I marry, it will be for love."
I then asked her how long was she married and how much money she get from the divorce. She answered with all the pride she could muster and told me she was married for 3 years and she received $20,000.
I congratulated her on her victory and pointed out that her $20,000 for 3 years was just slightly under $7,000 per year. I further pointed out that a full time position at a fast food establishment would have earned her the same amount in a year and after 3 years she could prove her worth and become a manager and earn more.
Her face changed when I was done. I then asked her, "How many successful relationship have you been a part of?"
Her answer was an inquisitive, "Many."
"Then I wish you many more.", as I excused myself and walked away.
I then asked her how long was she married and how much money she get from the divorce. She answered with all the pride she could muster and told me she was married for 3 years and she received $20,000.
I congratulated her on her victory and pointed out that her $20,000 for 3 years was just slightly under $7,000 per year. I further pointed out that a full time position at a fast food establishment would have earned her the same amount in a year and after 3 years she could prove her worth and become a manager and earn more.
Her face changed when I was done. I then asked her, "How many successful relationship have you been a part of?"
Her answer was an inquisitive, "Many."
"Then I wish you many more.", as I excused myself and walked away.
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Do you really think that you have the power, energy, knowledge, time and patience to make an insecure entity secure? Think again.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Tuesday, April 1, 2025
Beware of a Woman That Loves You
In NYC the rents are unbelievably high unless you have a Rent Controlled apartment that froze your rent from the 1970's. (Rent Stabilized apartments are different) A friend of mine was born in the 1970's and lived in the same apartment until 2009. He invited his girlfriend to move in after knowing her for only a few months. She then called the police and filed false charges of domestic abuse on him. She filed an order of protection on him and had him kicked out of the apartment he was born in. Now with rents in New York City upwards of $3,000 a month for a 1 bedroom apartment, this girl lives with her sister and her niece for $430 a month. The man lost his job, career, apartment, all of his possessions and had to live in a homeless shelter while attending anger management classes before he could leave the state and move in to his brother's home in Pennsylvania.
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Today, tell a girl that she looks good today...
Then tell her, "April Fools"
TheXYGhost
Then tell her, "April Fools"
TheXYGhost
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