Her : I did everything for you.
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TheXYGhost : You did everything for control, not love.
Monday, September 28, 2026
TheXYGhost III 272
She publicly humiliated men on the first date in order to test them. She wonders why she’s single at 40.
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TheXYGhost
Mommy / Daughter Day
Single mothers and married mothers looking to upgrade their husbands will often take their daughters out to socialize. The mother uses her daughter’s presence to attract men while blocking any man who shows more interest in the daughter than in her.
Man: “Hey, you two look like sisters.”
That kind of line makes the mother tingle inside.
Just like a fat, unattractive friend will chase off men interested in her better-looking friend, the mother will run interference for herself. In these situations, a second man is often needed to take one for the team by charming the mother or the chubby friend so the other man can pursue his target.
Man: “Hey, you two look like sisters.”
That kind of line makes the mother tingle inside.
Just like a fat, unattractive friend will chase off men interested in her better-looking friend, the mother will run interference for herself. In these situations, a second man is often needed to take one for the team by charming the mother or the chubby friend so the other man can pursue his target.
Sunday, September 27, 2026
TheXYGhost IV 271
Her : You changed after we got together.
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TheXYGhost : Yes, I stopped pretending you were special.
TheXYGhost III 271
Her best idea of meeting “the right one” is finding a way to manipulate him into approaching her.
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TheXYGhost
Women Love Jerks
Let’s face it, women are often drawn to bad men. I have spent a lifetime searching for someone who could be a wife and a loving mother in a stable home. Yet the more love you show, the more disrespect you get.
Women will cry over the abusive man who left them, run to your arms for comfort, let you restore them, and then leave you for another abuser. It is like a boxer retreating to the corner between rounds to be patched up, only to step right back into the fight. She uses the man with resources for stability but always goes back to the one who hurts her. She may even tell the next man you were abusive because victimhood has value when it goes unchallenged.
I know this too well. Over 24 years of relationships, I have watched women I cared about betray me for abusive men.
If you rescue a damsel in distress, care for her, provide for her, and protect her, she will often leave you for another abuser, only to become a damsel in distress again. She enjoys the rescue.
I do not drink, smoke, or use drugs. I have never been to prison. I live clean and I have always made sure the women I dated had similar values. Yet many of my exes told me horror stories about abusive, deceptive, and violent men they dated before me. And after we broke up, most went to men even worse.
Two of my exes ended up with heroin addicts. Three others, including my ex-wife, chose heavy drinkers. One dated a man already married with two kids, who also had another child with a different woman in his home country. At the same time, he had two women pregnant, one in the Bronx and another in Washington Heights.
One ex dated a car thief. I read later in the news that he took her on a joyride in a stolen car. It ended in a high-speed chase on the Long Island Expressway, a crash, and a hospital bed. He was paralyzed. She had multiple broken bones.
Another moved in with a felon on parole. Yet another fell under the control of a pimp.
People hear this and say, “You picked the wrong women,” or, “Where do you find these women?”
My answer is simple: How can anyone predict someone’s future choices? Should I have earned a Ph.D. in human behavior by the age of 19 just to date?
This is not just my experience. I have seen the same pattern in the lives of friends, family, coworkers, classmates, and neighbors. It shows up on social media, in YouTube videos, and everywhere else.
Corrections officers across the country will tell you most male inmates have children with multiple women who visit them regularly. Some even start new relationships from prison. High-profile violent criminals receive love letters from women all over the world after they are arrested.
There is even a trend where women in church prison ministries leave their husbands and children, give up alimony and shared property, and marry inmates serving long sentences or life.
Women will cry over the abusive man who left them, run to your arms for comfort, let you restore them, and then leave you for another abuser. It is like a boxer retreating to the corner between rounds to be patched up, only to step right back into the fight. She uses the man with resources for stability but always goes back to the one who hurts her. She may even tell the next man you were abusive because victimhood has value when it goes unchallenged.
I know this too well. Over 24 years of relationships, I have watched women I cared about betray me for abusive men.
If you rescue a damsel in distress, care for her, provide for her, and protect her, she will often leave you for another abuser, only to become a damsel in distress again. She enjoys the rescue.
I do not drink, smoke, or use drugs. I have never been to prison. I live clean and I have always made sure the women I dated had similar values. Yet many of my exes told me horror stories about abusive, deceptive, and violent men they dated before me. And after we broke up, most went to men even worse.
Two of my exes ended up with heroin addicts. Three others, including my ex-wife, chose heavy drinkers. One dated a man already married with two kids, who also had another child with a different woman in his home country. At the same time, he had two women pregnant, one in the Bronx and another in Washington Heights.
One ex dated a car thief. I read later in the news that he took her on a joyride in a stolen car. It ended in a high-speed chase on the Long Island Expressway, a crash, and a hospital bed. He was paralyzed. She had multiple broken bones.
Another moved in with a felon on parole. Yet another fell under the control of a pimp.
People hear this and say, “You picked the wrong women,” or, “Where do you find these women?”
My answer is simple: How can anyone predict someone’s future choices? Should I have earned a Ph.D. in human behavior by the age of 19 just to date?
This is not just my experience. I have seen the same pattern in the lives of friends, family, coworkers, classmates, and neighbors. It shows up on social media, in YouTube videos, and everywhere else.
Corrections officers across the country will tell you most male inmates have children with multiple women who visit them regularly. Some even start new relationships from prison. High-profile violent criminals receive love letters from women all over the world after they are arrested.
There is even a trend where women in church prison ministries leave their husbands and children, give up alimony and shared property, and marry inmates serving long sentences or life.
TheXYGhost 340
Women hate it when the government forces them to be mothers. They only want the government to forced men to pay.
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TheXYGhost
Saturday, September 26, 2026
TheXYGhost IV 270
Her : I hope you’re happy without me.
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TheXYGhost : That is why I’m leaving.
TheXYGhost III 270
Conquer your sexual appetite and women have no control over you.
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TheXYGhost
Promiscuity: Male Vs. Female
If you put a good woman in front of a man who has slept with a thousand women, he will value her because men judge women by who they are in the present, not by their past. He will protect her, care for her, and see her as something worth keeping.
But if you put the best man in front of a woman who has slept with more than five men, she will pick him apart piece by piece. She will focus on every flaw, real or imagined, because women judge men by their ability to measure up to every man she has ever been with. Her mind will compare, her ego will test, and her loyalty will falter the second she feels she can “do better.”
Men forgive a woman’s past when they see present value. Women punish a man in the present for not matching the fantasy she built from her past. That is why a man can cherish a woman who has been through hell, but a woman will discard a man who doesn’t measure up to her smallest expectation.
But if you put the best man in front of a woman who has slept with more than five men, she will pick him apart piece by piece. She will focus on every flaw, real or imagined, because women judge men by their ability to measure up to every man she has ever been with. Her mind will compare, her ego will test, and her loyalty will falter the second she feels she can “do better.”
Men forgive a woman’s past when they see present value. Women punish a man in the present for not matching the fantasy she built from her past. That is why a man can cherish a woman who has been through hell, but a woman will discard a man who doesn’t measure up to her smallest expectation.
TheXYGhost 339
Women have the legislative "right" to abortion. Men don't have the legislative right to say no to child support.
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TheXYGhost
Friday, September 25, 2026
TheXYGhost IV 269
Her : You’ll regret losing me.
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TheXYGhost : Regret comes from losing value. I see none here.
TheXYGhost III 269
She does not want a man to love and raise a family. She wants a man to raise her status in every way possible.
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TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost II 269
Her : You make it seem like all women are bad.
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TheXYGhost : I’m not responsible for your interpretations.
I Can Do Better
When a man says he can do better, he rolls up his sleeves and gets to work. He grinds through long nights, sacrifices comfort, learns new skills, takes risks, and eats failure for breakfast until he creates something worth respecting. He builds himself from the ground up because he knows no one is coming to save him.
When a woman says she can do better, she doesn’t roll up her sleeves, she rolls her eyes and looks for a man who has already built the life she wants to step into. She scans for success someone else has bled for, a lifestyle someone else earned, and positions herself to enjoy the rewards without enduring the process.
A man’s “better” comes from what he creates.
A woman’s “better” too often comes from who she can attach herself to after the work is already done.
When a woman says she can do better, she doesn’t roll up her sleeves, she rolls her eyes and looks for a man who has already built the life she wants to step into. She scans for success someone else has bled for, a lifestyle someone else earned, and positions herself to enjoy the rewards without enduring the process.
A man’s “better” comes from what he creates.
A woman’s “better” too often comes from who she can attach herself to after the work is already done.
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