A woman’s primary concern is her personal security. Everything else is secondary. From birth she is wired for it. This is not insecurity in the way men experience it, it is deeper, more primal, and it never stops. She is always looking for an external source to make her feel safe. A man, on the other hand, knows at his core that he must conquer his own insecurities or they will conquer him.
Some women measure security in money. They seek out men with resources because it is the easiest, laziest way to feel safe. Others measure security by dominance over the man himself. They choose weaker men because it makes them feel strong by comparison. They want to look down and know they are in control.
It is the same tactic as the attractive woman who keeps a fat and unattractive friend. Standing next to her, she appears even more beautiful. The ugly friend benefits because she is not competing for the same men, and she gets access to the attention and leftovers she would never have on her own. Both of these women, despite their alliance, will quietly sabotage each other’s relationships to keep their own security intact.
This is the hidden economy of female relationships. It is not built on loyalty, it is built on strategy. It is not about friendship, it is about positioning. And in the end, security is not something they create for themselves, it is something they take from others.
Friday, December 5, 2025
Thursday, December 4, 2025
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New Dating Rule #6
If she invites another to your date, end it right away.
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If she invites another to your date, end it right away.
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How to Fail Her Test Deliberately
When a woman asks, “What kind of woman do you like?” she has already marked you as a potential personal provider. She is not asking out of curiosity, she is gathering intelligence. She needs to know what shape to mold herself into so she can pass your inspection long enough to secure her position.
My answer is always the same. I say I love a successful, independent, intelligent woman who has never been married, is very feminine, and does not come prepackaged with another man’s child.
Why that answer? Because I can redefine any part of it at any time, in any way I see fit. If she tries to perform the role, I can move the goalpost. If she tries to fake the qualities, I can call it out. By keeping the definition in my hands, I keep the power where it belongs.
Never hand over your blueprint. The moment she knows exactly what you want, she will shape-shift into it just long enough to get what she wants. Then the mask comes off.
My answer is always the same. I say I love a successful, independent, intelligent woman who has never been married, is very feminine, and does not come prepackaged with another man’s child.
Why that answer? Because I can redefine any part of it at any time, in any way I see fit. If she tries to perform the role, I can move the goalpost. If she tries to fake the qualities, I can call it out. By keeping the definition in my hands, I keep the power where it belongs.
Never hand over your blueprint. The moment she knows exactly what you want, she will shape-shift into it just long enough to get what she wants. Then the mask comes off.
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Do you really think that you can satisfy her every want, need and desire when, where and how she demands?
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Wednesday, December 3, 2025
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New Dating Rule #5
If she orders multiple appetizers or the most expensive entrées, tip the waiter, cancel the order and leave.
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If she orders multiple appetizers or the most expensive entrées, tip the waiter, cancel the order and leave.
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Questions for Divorced Women
Women:
• Would you still love your mother and father if they made less money than you do?
• Would you still love your sons and daughters if they made less money than you do?
• Would you still love your aunts and uncles if they made less money than you do?
• Would you still love your cousins if they made less money than you do?
• Would you still love your brothers and sisters if they made less money than you do?
Then why will you not love the man you promised to love and cherish until death? Why do you punish your own children by removing the most important man from their lives simply because he lost a job? Why do you call the police, hire lawyers, and run to judges to break him down when he fails to fulfill every fantasy and cannot serve your every want, need, desire, and emotion on a silver platter exactly when, where, and how you demand it?
Why do you choose to hate the very hand that fed you? Why do you take the love you vowed to give and lock it away the moment he is no longer a perfect provider in your eyes?
A vow is not a contract you cancel when your lifestyle dips. It is not a promise with a clause that expires when you are no longer entertained. The man you discard is the same man you chose. The man you betray is the one you once called your future. When you strip him from your children, you do not just punish him, you punish them. And for what? For failing to keep you in the comfort you decided you deserved.
• Would you still love your mother and father if they made less money than you do?
• Would you still love your sons and daughters if they made less money than you do?
• Would you still love your aunts and uncles if they made less money than you do?
• Would you still love your cousins if they made less money than you do?
• Would you still love your brothers and sisters if they made less money than you do?
Then why will you not love the man you promised to love and cherish until death? Why do you punish your own children by removing the most important man from their lives simply because he lost a job? Why do you call the police, hire lawyers, and run to judges to break him down when he fails to fulfill every fantasy and cannot serve your every want, need, desire, and emotion on a silver platter exactly when, where, and how you demand it?
Why do you choose to hate the very hand that fed you? Why do you take the love you vowed to give and lock it away the moment he is no longer a perfect provider in your eyes?
A vow is not a contract you cancel when your lifestyle dips. It is not a promise with a clause that expires when you are no longer entertained. The man you discard is the same man you chose. The man you betray is the one you once called your future. When you strip him from your children, you do not just punish him, you punish them. And for what? For failing to keep you in the comfort you decided you deserved.
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It's never her fault. If she lied, cheated or stolen from you, either she had a reason or you picked the wrong one.
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Tuesday, December 2, 2025
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No matter how many times she divorces, she will always want another. Just like a leech wanting a new host.
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This Post Will Hurt Many Men
1. How many children have you lost because of a woman?
2. How many were taken from you with the court's blessing?
3. How many times were you told, "This is your baby," and it was not?
4. How many of your children were killed at the hands of a woman, whether by abortion or otherwise?
5. How many times have you seen these same things happen to other men?
6. Were you taken from your father by your mother and kept away from him?
7. Did you know all your mother's boyfriends but never knew your father?
8. Do you want to raise another man's children while another man tucks your kids into bed at night?
9. How much money have you bled out in lawyers, legal costs, court fees, and lost work just to see your children four days a month while another man takes your place at night?
10. Do these questions cut too deep?
11. Do you have the will to make a real change now?
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V. Invite men you know to change history
VI. Post this in every group where it matters
I am done playing softball.
2. How many were taken from you with the court's blessing?
3. How many times were you told, "This is your baby," and it was not?
4. How many of your children were killed at the hands of a woman, whether by abortion or otherwise?
5. How many times have you seen these same things happen to other men?
6. Were you taken from your father by your mother and kept away from him?
7. Did you know all your mother's boyfriends but never knew your father?
8. Do you want to raise another man's children while another man tucks your kids into bed at night?
9. How much money have you bled out in lawyers, legal costs, court fees, and lost work just to see your children four days a month while another man takes your place at night?
10. Do these questions cut too deep?
11. Do you have the will to make a real change now?
Six Steps to Start
I. Share this
II. React to it
III. Comment on it
IV. Join and be part of the solution - TheXYGhost.com
V. Invite men you know to change history
VI. Post this in every group where it matters
I am done playing softball.
Monday, December 1, 2025
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New Dating Rule #3
Single moms and women over 30 need to pay for the date.
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Single moms and women over 30 need to pay for the date.
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She Will Test Your Love for Her
I have seen too many women deliberately go out of their way to start trouble with another man just to see if their own man will fight for them. They treat it like some twisted loyalty test, a real-life reenactment of the boy who cried wolf.
Later, you hear her admit she did it to “see how much he loves me,” as if deliberately putting him in harm’s way is some romantic gesture. That is not love. That is proof she does not care about him. She was willing to risk his safety, his freedom, and his future for her own ego boost.
When will a woman put the same effort into loving her man as she does into testing him? When will she fight to protect him instead of provoking danger just to watch him bleed for her? The answer is simple, most never will. Because for too many, the test is the point, the drama is the goal, and the love was never real.
Later, you hear her admit she did it to “see how much he loves me,” as if deliberately putting him in harm’s way is some romantic gesture. That is not love. That is proof she does not care about him. She was willing to risk his safety, his freedom, and his future for her own ego boost.
When will a woman put the same effort into loving her man as she does into testing him? When will she fight to protect him instead of provoking danger just to watch him bleed for her? The answer is simple, most never will. Because for too many, the test is the point, the drama is the goal, and the love was never real.
Sunday, November 30, 2025
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Once you win her heart, she will add another man in her life to compete for her attention, validation and drama at her fingertips.
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Women Murder Way More Than Men
Where are your sons and daughters?
In a massacre that should disgust every man with a pulse, over 63 million American babies have been killed since the 1973 Roe v. Wade ruling . That is not a statistic, it is a human catastrophe beyond belief.
Entire generations erased before their first breath. Millions of sons who would have carried your name and daughters who would have called you father, all gone, discarded under the banner of “choice” and hailed as progress.
Make no mistake, this was not liberation. It was execution. And ignoring the blood price will not make it disappear.
Politicians deliberately stripped fathers of their rights. The media sold this genocide as empowerment. Activists dressed it up as equality. In truth, they used it as a cultural wrecking ball, destroying the family, replacing fathers with bureaucrats, and weaponizing women into political tools.
In a massacre that should disgust every man with a pulse, over 63 million American babies have been killed since the 1973 Roe v. Wade ruling . That is not a statistic, it is a human catastrophe beyond belief.
Entire generations erased before their first breath. Millions of sons who would have carried your name and daughters who would have called you father, all gone, discarded under the banner of “choice” and hailed as progress.
Make no mistake, this was not liberation. It was execution. And ignoring the blood price will not make it disappear.
Politicians deliberately stripped fathers of their rights. The media sold this genocide as empowerment. Activists dressed it up as equality. In truth, they used it as a cultural wrecking ball, destroying the family, replacing fathers with bureaucrats, and weaponizing women into political tools.
Saturday, November 29, 2025
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Most women seem to show they’re happy on the outside, but the truth is, one in four are on some kind of psychiatric medication.
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New Dating Rule #1
Free dates are offered to fit virgins under 25 years old
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Free dates are offered to fit virgins under 25 years old
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I Have Learned From My Past
From the start of almost every relationship I have had, the woman would eventually test the waters with the same tired question: “Do you love me?”
When I gave my truthful answer, it was never enough. They would pout, get quiet, or ask the same question again later that day, as if repetition could magically change my heart. One woman actually asked, “Do you love me?” and when I gave my answer, she immediately followed with, “How about now?” as if my feelings could shift in the span of five seconds.
Then came another woman, new in my life, who asked me the same question. This time, I answered differently: “I love you as much as you love me.”
Her smile disappeared in an instant. She became angry, defensive, and offended. She was furious that my love matched hers, because deep down she knew it was not much to begin with. She had just exposed herself without realizing it.
Within the hour, we broke up. She spat out, “I only want to date a man who loves me right from the start.” She was livid when I told her she was easily replaced and that I would find another woman soon.
What she really wanted was not love, but validation. And like every other woman before her, she wanted more than she was ever willing to give.
When I gave my truthful answer, it was never enough. They would pout, get quiet, or ask the same question again later that day, as if repetition could magically change my heart. One woman actually asked, “Do you love me?” and when I gave my answer, she immediately followed with, “How about now?” as if my feelings could shift in the span of five seconds.
Then came another woman, new in my life, who asked me the same question. This time, I answered differently: “I love you as much as you love me.”
Her smile disappeared in an instant. She became angry, defensive, and offended. She was furious that my love matched hers, because deep down she knew it was not much to begin with. She had just exposed herself without realizing it.
Within the hour, we broke up. She spat out, “I only want to date a man who loves me right from the start.” She was livid when I told her she was easily replaced and that I would find another woman soon.
What she really wanted was not love, but validation. And like every other woman before her, she wanted more than she was ever willing to give.
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Her Father: What can you offer my daughter?
TheXYGhost : What kind of offering are you expecting?
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Friday, November 28, 2025
TheXYGhost III 333
She believes she’s too pretty to face jail time for the crimes she committed.
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She never left him, she tried to control him by denying him sex and he left her.
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Why I Choose MGTOW
They say MGTOW men are just losers who can't get a woman.
As for me, I could get plenty. The problem was surviving them.
I had a girlfriend who got pregnant. I thought the child was mine. I slowed down my college, took two jobs, bought everything a baby would need. When the baby was born, both parents were white, but the child was black. She blamed me for "not being there for her." I walked away, telling myself, "Not all girls are like that," and moved on.
The next girlfriend got pregnant early despite my caution. She was six months pregnant when I had only known her for five. Back then there were no DNA tests. A blood test at birth proved I wasn't the father. She blamed me for "not being able to control her." I moved on.
The third time, I chose carefully. She got pregnant. The timeline fit. Then I got a call from another man saying I was interfering with "his girl." We met for coffee. She had been playing us both. I paid $1,800 for a DNA test that proved I wasn't the father. She blamed me for her cheating. I moved on.
The fourth time, I got sued for child support by a woman I had never touched. She put my name on her kid's birth certificate. The state of New York came after me. The case fell apart when it turned out I was just the second fake father she had listed. I moved on.
One day I ran into an ex. She called only to tell me she aborted my baby because I "wasn't making enough money." She tried to put that guilt on me. I moved on.
By then I kept women at arm's length. Pump and dump. No addresses, no job details. Even so, one woman told her friends I raped her. Another did the same. Both were lying.
I had girlfriends who told me their stepfathers had been sleeping with them since they were teens. I had girlfriends' mothers and aunts try to sleep with me. When I refused, they convinced their daughters to dump me. I had girlfriends who lied about being pregnant. Two were married and "forgot" to mention it. One told me she had herpes like it was a joke.
I finally got married. Her family was good. I thought this was it. Weeks after the wedding, she told me she couldn't have children. I accepted it. Three weeks before Christmas, just before our third anniversary, she left for her new boyfriend. A week before leaving, she claimed the first time we had sex, I raped her. She married me after that, but still blamed me.
When I packed her things, I found birth control pills hidden in her closet. A year later, she had a baby with the man she left me for. She stole $250,000 from me and racked up $80,000 in debt under my name. Lawyers told me there was nothing I could do.
That was 19 years ago. I'm 55 now. I spent 22 years chasing women and 19 years living without one. I would never trade the life I have now to go back to that hell.
Since my divorce, 15 women have proposed marriage to me. I said no to every one of them. When they ask why, I tell them these stories. They all say the same things:
1. "You picked the wrong women."
2. "Not all girls are like that."
I used to believe that. I don't anymore.
As for me, I could get plenty. The problem was surviving them.
I had a girlfriend who got pregnant. I thought the child was mine. I slowed down my college, took two jobs, bought everything a baby would need. When the baby was born, both parents were white, but the child was black. She blamed me for "not being there for her." I walked away, telling myself, "Not all girls are like that," and moved on.
The next girlfriend got pregnant early despite my caution. She was six months pregnant when I had only known her for five. Back then there were no DNA tests. A blood test at birth proved I wasn't the father. She blamed me for "not being able to control her." I moved on.
The third time, I chose carefully. She got pregnant. The timeline fit. Then I got a call from another man saying I was interfering with "his girl." We met for coffee. She had been playing us both. I paid $1,800 for a DNA test that proved I wasn't the father. She blamed me for her cheating. I moved on.
The fourth time, I got sued for child support by a woman I had never touched. She put my name on her kid's birth certificate. The state of New York came after me. The case fell apart when it turned out I was just the second fake father she had listed. I moved on.
One day I ran into an ex. She called only to tell me she aborted my baby because I "wasn't making enough money." She tried to put that guilt on me. I moved on.
By then I kept women at arm's length. Pump and dump. No addresses, no job details. Even so, one woman told her friends I raped her. Another did the same. Both were lying.
I had girlfriends who told me their stepfathers had been sleeping with them since they were teens. I had girlfriends' mothers and aunts try to sleep with me. When I refused, they convinced their daughters to dump me. I had girlfriends who lied about being pregnant. Two were married and "forgot" to mention it. One told me she had herpes like it was a joke.
I finally got married. Her family was good. I thought this was it. Weeks after the wedding, she told me she couldn't have children. I accepted it. Three weeks before Christmas, just before our third anniversary, she left for her new boyfriend. A week before leaving, she claimed the first time we had sex, I raped her. She married me after that, but still blamed me.
When I packed her things, I found birth control pills hidden in her closet. A year later, she had a baby with the man she left me for. She stole $250,000 from me and racked up $80,000 in debt under my name. Lawyers told me there was nothing I could do.
That was 19 years ago. I'm 55 now. I spent 22 years chasing women and 19 years living without one. I would never trade the life I have now to go back to that hell.
Since my divorce, 15 women have proposed marriage to me. I said no to every one of them. When they ask why, I tell them these stories. They all say the same things:
1. "You picked the wrong women."
2. "Not all girls are like that."
I used to believe that. I don't anymore.
Thursday, November 27, 2025
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He met every one of her ridiculous standards, but by the third date, she lost interest, he was just too perfect for her to feel anything.
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She has a list of places not to go on the first date. But you are paying. Show her that she’s not the leader.
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Lorena Bobbitt the Pride of the Modern Woman
Amazon Prime has a new series called Lorena, digging up the John Wayne and Lorena Bobbitt case from the 1990s. For those who forgot, she is the woman who cut off her husband’s penis while he was asleep.
In the trailer, a voice asks, “What did he do to make her do something like that?” The answer they give is abuse. They claim he pushed and shoved her. Yet nobody ever asked, “What did she do to make him do something like that?” That question never gets asked when the victim is a man.
I do not advocate violence of any kind. Nobody should hit anyone. Male, female, or any of the ten thousand genders that activists have invented and the rest of us have yet to hear about.
Back then, I remember clearly how sick it was to watch women cheering for Lorena without knowing the facts. She toured the country for years afterward, giving speeches on “domestic violence” and getting standing ovations. She even went on Steve Harvey’s show and got the same treatment. Apparently, mutilating your sleeping husband is a ticket to fame, applause, and a platform. Makes you wonder if she was handing out advice on how to become a domestic abuser.
Her claims? That her husband cheated on her, had a drug and alcohol problem, and hit her. Even if that were true, if she feared for her life, why did she wait for him to come home from work? Why not leave? Why not call the police?
John Wayne Bobbitt worked three jobs. Two of them required periodic drug testing. Does anyone really believe a man working three jobs had the money, time, or energy to live the life she accused him of? He says Lorena used to hit him and mock his earnings. That never made the headlines.
But society’s conclusion was simple: it is never a woman’s fault. He “made” her do it.
In the trailer, a voice asks, “What did he do to make her do something like that?” The answer they give is abuse. They claim he pushed and shoved her. Yet nobody ever asked, “What did she do to make him do something like that?” That question never gets asked when the victim is a man.
I do not advocate violence of any kind. Nobody should hit anyone. Male, female, or any of the ten thousand genders that activists have invented and the rest of us have yet to hear about.
Back then, I remember clearly how sick it was to watch women cheering for Lorena without knowing the facts. She toured the country for years afterward, giving speeches on “domestic violence” and getting standing ovations. She even went on Steve Harvey’s show and got the same treatment. Apparently, mutilating your sleeping husband is a ticket to fame, applause, and a platform. Makes you wonder if she was handing out advice on how to become a domestic abuser.
Her claims? That her husband cheated on her, had a drug and alcohol problem, and hit her. Even if that were true, if she feared for her life, why did she wait for him to come home from work? Why not leave? Why not call the police?
John Wayne Bobbitt worked three jobs. Two of them required periodic drug testing. Does anyone really believe a man working three jobs had the money, time, or energy to live the life she accused him of? He says Lorena used to hit him and mock his earnings. That never made the headlines.
But society’s conclusion was simple: it is never a woman’s fault. He “made” her do it.
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Never financially obligate yourself to an entity whose prerogative is to change their mind.
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Wednesday, November 26, 2025
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She’s constantly searching for love because, deep down, she has none within herself.
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Her : He didn’t make me happy.
TheXYGhost : You are supposed to make a man happy. That’s what makes women happy.
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Lunch With My Sister
I had a late lunch with my liberal, leftist, Democrat sister. Three kids from three different men. She lives in NYC public housing on government money. Three child support checks, subsidized rent, free gas and electricity, food stamps, and welfare. She sublet one bedroom for market rate cash while working an off the books job. Now that her kids are grown, she bought a waterfront house in cash while still keeping her subsidized apartment.
She calls Trump a racist who is using the presidency to make himself richer. She never questions the $149 million Hillary Clinton made as Secretary of State or the $31 million in four mansions she owns. She condemns Trump for ending the war in Syria while worshipping Obama, who campaigned on ending wars yet started twelve, including the very one Trump ended. And Obama got a Nobel Peace Prize before he even had two months in office.
The truth is simple, she wants to protect her current husband, the government. That is her provider now.
During our talk, I said every woman hates her husband. She snapped back, “I never hated any of my husbands, I just knew it was time for them to leave.” Translation, she discarded them when they no longer served her.
She calls Trump a racist who is using the presidency to make himself richer. She never questions the $149 million Hillary Clinton made as Secretary of State or the $31 million in four mansions she owns. She condemns Trump for ending the war in Syria while worshipping Obama, who campaigned on ending wars yet started twelve, including the very one Trump ended. And Obama got a Nobel Peace Prize before he even had two months in office.
The truth is simple, she wants to protect her current husband, the government. That is her provider now.
During our talk, I said every woman hates her husband. She snapped back, “I never hated any of my husbands, I just knew it was time for them to leave.” Translation, she discarded them when they no longer served her.
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Why are there so many books and courses on how to please and understand women?
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Tuesday, November 25, 2025
TheXYGhost II 330
Once you drop all the habits she considers bad, she will leave you because you obeyed her, making you seem weak in her eyes.
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Women Wants a Man to Be Her Personal Servant
Women think that a man's job is to
1. Seek them out
2. Pursue them even though they reject them at every stage. If you are worthy in her mind you should keep pursuing even while she tells you to stop. If you are not worthy in her mind watch out
3. Impress them
4. Wine and dine them
5. Find what makes her happy and do it constantly because she will refuse to take any action for her own happiness
6. Be richer than all of her previous boyfriends
7. Satisfy her in bed better than all other men she has been with. She will give you not a single clue about what she wants or enjoys
8. Be her provider and cover all her wants needs and desires when she wants them and how she wants them no matter the cost
9. Protect her even if she puts you in harm's way deliberately just to see how you perform
10. Act jealous but not too jealous. It must always be to her liking and she will flirt with others just to see how you react. Perform to her liking again
11. Do all the above or she will not see you again but she will still treat you like a wimp if you do everything she expects
Fuck all that
1. If you want me to protect you with my life then show me that you are worth my time and worth me dying over
2. If you want a King in your life then do not expect me to be your servant. Kings are obeyed and servants get stepped on
3. What can you do for me that I cannot do or pay for myself
4. Are you worth my time effort energy and resources or will you add to my workload. I like driving nice cars and high maintenance cars get left on the side of the road
1. Seek them out
2. Pursue them even though they reject them at every stage. If you are worthy in her mind you should keep pursuing even while she tells you to stop. If you are not worthy in her mind watch out
3. Impress them
4. Wine and dine them
5. Find what makes her happy and do it constantly because she will refuse to take any action for her own happiness
6. Be richer than all of her previous boyfriends
7. Satisfy her in bed better than all other men she has been with. She will give you not a single clue about what she wants or enjoys
8. Be her provider and cover all her wants needs and desires when she wants them and how she wants them no matter the cost
9. Protect her even if she puts you in harm's way deliberately just to see how you perform
10. Act jealous but not too jealous. It must always be to her liking and she will flirt with others just to see how you react. Perform to her liking again
11. Do all the above or she will not see you again but she will still treat you like a wimp if you do everything she expects
Fuck all that
1. If you want me to protect you with my life then show me that you are worth my time and worth me dying over
2. If you want a King in your life then do not expect me to be your servant. Kings are obeyed and servants get stepped on
3. What can you do for me that I cannot do or pay for myself
4. Are you worth my time effort energy and resources or will you add to my workload. I like driving nice cars and high maintenance cars get left on the side of the road
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I encourage all women to embrace feminism. It's easy. Drive a truck or an Uber. Be your own boss. Take a man out to dinner.
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Monday, November 24, 2025
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She hates when you rest because you’re her workhorse, expected to work harder for her growing demands.
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Today's Woman in a Nutshell
Women today demand on a level that has no precedent. Their wants, needs, and desires are so inflated they exist only in fantasy. It is not enough for a man to like them. It is not enough for him to love them. She wants a version of love so grand it has never existed in her life or anyone else’s. She wants her man obsessed with her, proving it every moment of every day under any condition. She will test him relentlessly. Her definition of unconditional love is this: “Love me even after I’ve kicked you in the balls.”
Explain to her that real love is forged over years, not found in some instant mix, and she will accuse you of trying to escape your “duty” to love her and pass all her tests. At that point she will placate you, keep you on the hook, and quietly scan the horizon for her next man to start the process over again.
She will pile on more demands for her “performing monkey” but never give direct instructions. She will only drop hints. The same woman who parrots the line “communication is key” will be the very one who sabotages it by speaking in riddles.
To her, you are just a resource, a temporary branch to cling to while she searches for the next one. Replacing you is effortless. All she needs to do is spin a one-sided sob story about your “abuse” and the new man will believe it without question. He will puff himself up as her savior while she revels in his blind protection.
When she finally finds a man who can decipher her unspoken demands and contort himself to meet them all, she will squeeze him dry just like the last. The only difference is he will think he’s special, until she decides he’s not.
Explain to her that real love is forged over years, not found in some instant mix, and she will accuse you of trying to escape your “duty” to love her and pass all her tests. At that point she will placate you, keep you on the hook, and quietly scan the horizon for her next man to start the process over again.
She will pile on more demands for her “performing monkey” but never give direct instructions. She will only drop hints. The same woman who parrots the line “communication is key” will be the very one who sabotages it by speaking in riddles.
To her, you are just a resource, a temporary branch to cling to while she searches for the next one. Replacing you is effortless. All she needs to do is spin a one-sided sob story about your “abuse” and the new man will believe it without question. He will puff himself up as her savior while she revels in his blind protection.
When she finally finds a man who can decipher her unspoken demands and contort himself to meet them all, she will squeeze him dry just like the last. The only difference is he will think he’s special, until she decides he’s not.
TheXYGhost 032
He has long-term strategies to achieve long-term goals.
She has short-term actions and long-term wishes, dreams, and hopes.
TheXYGhost
She has short-term actions and long-term wishes, dreams, and hopes.
TheXYGhost
Sunday, November 23, 2025
TheXYGhost II 328
We all learn and grow from our mistakes.
So, ladies, how is it possible for you to grow if you’re never wrong?
TheXYGhost
So, ladies, how is it possible for you to grow if you’re never wrong?
TheXYGhost
Why so Many "Strong Independent Women" Are Single
They asked me why so many "strong" women are single. My answer was simple.
1. Women marry up. Always. Stronger, faster, richer, taller. They measure a man against every competitor and against themselves. When the numbers stop impressing them, they leave.
2. They are dominant and domineering, especially toward their men. That is not feminine. Weak men tolerate it. Strong men walk away without looking back.
3. They aren't searching for a partner. They're hunting for a competitor. They don't know how to stop competing.
4. The women who scream the loudest about being strong are usually the weakest. They have to broadcast it nonstop because deep down they know it's a façade.
5. They define themselves by strength and expect a stronger man to engage in the same endless displays. They can't handle a man who doesn't need to prove himself.
6. They look for a man stronger than their own subjective definition of strength, assuming he will match their energy but with more stamina and better results.
7. They secretly want a man to put them "in their place," yet they will never admit such a place exists. This makes them weaker, not stronger, and they can't see it.
1. Women marry up. Always. Stronger, faster, richer, taller. They measure a man against every competitor and against themselves. When the numbers stop impressing them, they leave.
2. They are dominant and domineering, especially toward their men. That is not feminine. Weak men tolerate it. Strong men walk away without looking back.
3. They aren't searching for a partner. They're hunting for a competitor. They don't know how to stop competing.
4. The women who scream the loudest about being strong are usually the weakest. They have to broadcast it nonstop because deep down they know it's a façade.
5. They define themselves by strength and expect a stronger man to engage in the same endless displays. They can't handle a man who doesn't need to prove himself.
6. They look for a man stronger than their own subjective definition of strength, assuming he will match their energy but with more stamina and better results.
7. They secretly want a man to put them "in their place," yet they will never admit such a place exists. This makes them weaker, not stronger, and they can't see it.
TheXYGhost 031
Her: I have been in many successful relationships.
TheXYGhost : I wish you many more.
TheXYGhost : I wish you many more.
Saturday, November 22, 2025
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