A man does not want to commit his life to a woman that is committed to many.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Tuesday, October 21, 2025
This Is How Cold Some Women Can Be
He gave his wife a kidney, saved her life, paid every bill, and cared for her until she was healthy again. The moment she recovered, she divorced him, took the children, and demanded more.
In court, the judge was stunned. “You want the house, you want him to keep paying the mortgage, and you want child support? This man gave you his kidney.”
She answered without shame. “That’s because he loves me. I don’t love him. He’s a great man, I’ve never said he wasn’t, but he’s just not good enough for me. He deserves a woman who truly loves him.”
The room went silent. People could not believe what they had heard.
She looked around and said, “What? At least I’m being honest.”
In court, the judge was stunned. “You want the house, you want him to keep paying the mortgage, and you want child support? This man gave you his kidney.”
She answered without shame. “That’s because he loves me. I don’t love him. He’s a great man, I’ve never said he wasn’t, but he’s just not good enough for me. He deserves a woman who truly loves him.”
The room went silent. People could not believe what they had heard.
She looked around and said, “What? At least I’m being honest.”
TheXYGhost 363
Her : Where have all the good men gone?
TheXYGhost : You divorced 2 and you dumped many before them.
TheXYGhost : You divorced 2 and you dumped many before them.
Monday, October 20, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 294
The 5 D's, gentlemen:
Don't pay her bills
Don't send her money
Don't date single mothers
Don't pay for her or her kids
Don't marry divorced women
They want 4B, let them experience 5D.
TheXYGhost
Don't pay her bills
Don't send her money
Don't date single mothers
Don't pay for her or her kids
Don't marry divorced women
They want 4B, let them experience 5D.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost III 294
Men no longer have to get down on one knee to ask a woman to let him be her provider, protector, and risk his life for her.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Why Are Women Even Allowed to Work and Earn College Degrees?
As of 2024, total student loan debt sits at $1.6 trillion. Women hold over 67 percent of it. That is $1 trillion in debt owed by women. Over 60 percent of college degrees are now held by women.
Many of these women spend their prime years chasing degrees instead of building relationships. They believe status will make them more attractive to men, the same way they view a man’s education as desirable. They think that if they achieve enough status, a high-caliber man will marry them, pay off their student loans, and give them the financial stability to quit working.
It is a strategy built on the belief that a man should be the reward for her ambition, and the solution to the debt she chose to create.
Many of these women spend their prime years chasing degrees instead of building relationships. They believe status will make them more attractive to men, the same way they view a man’s education as desirable. They think that if they achieve enough status, a high-caliber man will marry them, pay off their student loans, and give them the financial stability to quit working.
It is a strategy built on the belief that a man should be the reward for her ambition, and the solution to the debt she chose to create.
TheXYGhost 362
You go through 3 divorces. You keep picking the wrong ones. She divorces 3 times, its never her fault.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Sunday, October 19, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 293
She tells everyone that all of her exes were toxic, insecure, and controlling. Maybe she was the only perfect one.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost III 293
A high school teacher having an affair with an underaged student is socially acceptable when the teacher is a female.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Female Communication #3
Him: What’s wrong? Her: Nothing. Him: Are you sure? You seem upset. Her: Nothing’s wrong. I’m OK. Him: OK, I was just checking.
Her mind: Why didn’t he ask me a third time? I was ready to tell him if he had just asked once more. He must not love me anymore.
Her mind: Why didn’t he ask me a third time? I was ready to tell him if he had just asked once more. He must not love me anymore.
TheXYGhost 361
He pays $25,000 a month towards child support for a child he has never seen yet.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Saturday, October 18, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 292
I divorced him because he never cherish and treasured me like the high value woman I am.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost III 292
I divorced him because he never cherish and treasured me like the high value woman I am.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Female Communication #2
Most of the time, women communicate with men through hints. They speak in statements or questions laced with hidden meanings. That is only half the problem. Because she speaks in hints, she assumes your direct statements also contain hidden meanings.
She may ask, “Are you going to wear that suit to the event tomorrow?”
You, as a man, answer “Yes” or “No.” But the hidden meaning behind her question is disapproval. Your direct answer will be taken as dismissive, proof in her mind that you do not care about her feelings.
If you ask her a direct question like, “Do you want to order takeout tonight?” she may interpret it as a hint that you hate her cooking. She will fill in the blanks with the worst possible scenario.
Even something as simple as, “Are you going to work tomorrow?” can turn into a trap. She may not see a direct question. She may pause, suspicious, and ask, “What do you mean by that?”
I have seen countless interviews where a woman is asked a direct question, yet she answers as if the real question is hidden between the words. It is how she hears the world.
She may ask, “Are you going to wear that suit to the event tomorrow?”
You, as a man, answer “Yes” or “No.” But the hidden meaning behind her question is disapproval. Your direct answer will be taken as dismissive, proof in her mind that you do not care about her feelings.
If you ask her a direct question like, “Do you want to order takeout tonight?” she may interpret it as a hint that you hate her cooking. She will fill in the blanks with the worst possible scenario.
Even something as simple as, “Are you going to work tomorrow?” can turn into a trap. She may not see a direct question. She may pause, suspicious, and ask, “What do you mean by that?”
I have seen countless interviews where a woman is asked a direct question, yet she answers as if the real question is hidden between the words. It is how she hears the world.
TheXYGhost 360
He spent 5 years in prison for not paying child support for a child that was not his.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Friday, October 17, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 291
She doesn’t want to be a wife, she doesn’t want a husband. She wants an equal partner where she sets the ever changing terms.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost III 291
She doesn’t want to be a wife, she doesn’t want a husband. She wants an equal partner where she sets the ever changing terms.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Female Communication #1
She will complain to her friends and family that you are not giving her what she never asked for. She will be angry that you cannot read her mind. In her mind, if you truly loved her, you would magically know what she wants.
She believes telling you directly would ruin the gesture because it would not come from you naturally. So she drops hints. But hints are not communication, they are games.
She feels betrayed when you do not give her what she wanted, but the truth is she betrayed herself. She set impossible expectations. Her own refusal to communicate clearly built the wall between you and her, and she will still blame you for it.
She believes telling you directly would ruin the gesture because it would not come from you naturally. So she drops hints. But hints are not communication, they are games.
She feels betrayed when you do not give her what she wanted, but the truth is she betrayed herself. She set impossible expectations. Her own refusal to communicate clearly built the wall between you and her, and she will still blame you for it.
Thursday, October 16, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 290
Her : I’m the prize.
TheXYGhost : You do have potential. I’m sure some guy will give you a chance.
TheXYGhost : You do have potential. I’m sure some guy will give you a chance.
TheXYGhost III 290
Her : I’m the prize.
TheXYGhost : You do have potential. I’m sure some guy will give you a chance.
TheXYGhost : You do have potential. I’m sure some guy will give you a chance.
Why Are Girls Attracted to Married Men?
The answer is simple but layered. Many men notice that when they are single, women reject them. Once they have a girlfriend, other women suddenly show interest. Several forces may be at work:
1. A man carries himself with more confidence when he has a partner.
2. Women use social proof, seeing another woman choose him as proof of his value.
3. She is drawn to the forbidden nature of pursuing a taken man.
4. She sees the girlfriend as a rival and wants to even the score by sleeping with her man.
5. She envies the girlfriend's looks or status and wants to take what she has.
6. She sees how well he treats his woman and wants to punish her own man for not doing the same.
7. She wants to break them up so she can have him for herself.
1. A man carries himself with more confidence when he has a partner.
2. Women use social proof, seeing another woman choose him as proof of his value.
3. She is drawn to the forbidden nature of pursuing a taken man.
4. She sees the girlfriend as a rival and wants to even the score by sleeping with her man.
5. She envies the girlfriend's looks or status and wants to take what she has.
6. She sees how well he treats his woman and wants to punish her own man for not doing the same.
7. She wants to break them up so she can have him for herself.
TheXYGhost 358
She is twice divorced and has 3 kids from 3 different men, and you think she loves you?
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Wednesday, October 15, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 289
She pouts and withdraws when she’s upset, waiting for the man she’s angry at to notice and pry her feelings out of her.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost III 289
She pouts and withdraws when she’s upset, waiting for the man she’s angry at to notice and pry her feelings out of her.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
We Are Not in the Same Boat
I am 58 years old and have my daily coffee at a local restaurant bar. I often chat with the female bartender and sometimes share stories about my past relationships. I could tell she doubted some of them.
One day, as I was telling her how long I have been single, a woman in her 50s walked up and handed me her business card. She said, “You’re single? I’m single too. We single people need to stick together. We’re in the same boat.”
I took her card and replied, “We are not in the same boat. We are in the same storm.”
Her card said she was a branch manager at a bank down the street. Over the next few days she came back to the bar with a laptop, pretending to work while sitting near me. The bartenders, knowing my vision is limited, kept watch. They told me she kept glancing at me, waiting for me to make a move.
Every time she left, they said she walked out frustrated.
I will not be fooled again.
One day, as I was telling her how long I have been single, a woman in her 50s walked up and handed me her business card. She said, “You’re single? I’m single too. We single people need to stick together. We’re in the same boat.”
I took her card and replied, “We are not in the same boat. We are in the same storm.”
Her card said she was a branch manager at a bank down the street. Over the next few days she came back to the bar with a laptop, pretending to work while sitting near me. The bartenders, knowing my vision is limited, kept watch. They told me she kept glancing at me, waiting for me to make a move.
Every time she left, they said she walked out frustrated.
I will not be fooled again.
TheXYGhost 357
Her : Why are you still single?
TheXYGhost : I can't find a woman that can buy the type of car I want.
TheXYGhost : I can't find a woman that can buy the type of car I want.
Tuesday, October 14, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 288
Her : I want to find a man on my level or higher.
TheXYGhost. : Every man is higher than your level.
TheXYGhost. : Every man is higher than your level.
TheXYGhost III 288
Her : I want to find a man on my level or higher.
TheXYGhost. : Every man is higher than your level.
TheXYGhost. : Every man is higher than your level.
Are Women Good at Multitasking?
Women love to claim they are great multitaskers, yet they put relationships on hold to chase degrees and careers. When they are finally ready for a family, they expect a man who can juggle keeping them happy, keeping his customers happy, and keeping his bosses happy, all at the same time, while they focus only on running the household.
If they are such great multitaskers, why can they not handle school, work, and spending time with a man who wants to build a family?
If they are such great multitaskers, why can they not handle school, work, and spending time with a man who wants to build a family?
Monday, October 13, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 287
It’s never about her lacking acceptance, forgiveness, gratitude, or appreciation. He is always expected to do more for her.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost III 287
It’s never about her lacking acceptance, forgiveness, gratitude, or appreciation. He is always expected to do more for her.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Breakups: Men Vs. Women
A man will end a relationship based on what a woman did.
A woman will end a relationship based on what a man did not do, specifically what she expected him to do despite all the hints she thinks she gave him. Afterward, she may still claim he wronged her.
A woman will end a relationship based on what a man did not do, specifically what she expected him to do despite all the hints she thinks she gave him. Afterward, she may still claim he wronged her.
TheXYGhost 355
Her : I left him because he always did what I told him.
TheXYGhost : Why did you ask for what you didn't want?
TheXYGhost : Why did you ask for what you didn't want?
Sunday, October 12, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 286
It’s never about her lacking acceptance, forgiveness, gratitude, or appreciation. He is always expected to do more for her.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost III 286
It’s never about her lacking acceptance, forgiveness, gratitude, or appreciation. He is always expected to do more for her.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
This May Be the Hardest Pill to Swallow
If you were raised by a single mother who filled your head with stories about how badly your father treated her, it may be time to reevaluate. She may have been attracted to that man, whether he was a substance abuser, violent, a con artist, a liar, a cheat, or a criminal. Or she may have exaggerated, lied, or provoked him until he snapped.
TheXYGhost 354
He never cheated on his wife for 40 years. He asked my advice and 10 years later, he slept with over 300 women.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Saturday, October 11, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 285
She will never approach a man, because she does not want to look desperate. But when a man approaches her, she feels he’s desperate.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost III 285
She will never approach a man, because she does not want to look desperate. But when a man approaches her, she feels he’s desperate.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Ask Her Qualifying Questions
Ask her about the man who loved her the most, and she will call him boring. She wanted entertainment, not stability.
Ask her about the man she loved the most, and she will say he was abusive and a cheater.
Make no mistake, women are often drawn to men who cheat or have the potential to cheat. If her man does not cheat, she may invent stories that he did. This victim narrative gains her sympathy and attracts other men who want to rescue her.
Ask her if she would have treated her first boyfriend better if she had known he would be the last man in her life. If she says yes, she admits she mistreated him.
Be cautious. Keep your distance or see her only as casual. She will likely never be satisfied.
Ask her about the man she loved the most, and she will say he was abusive and a cheater.
Make no mistake, women are often drawn to men who cheat or have the potential to cheat. If her man does not cheat, she may invent stories that he did. This victim narrative gains her sympathy and attracts other men who want to rescue her.
Ask her if she would have treated her first boyfriend better if she had known he would be the last man in her life. If she says yes, she admits she mistreated him.
Be cautious. Keep your distance or see her only as casual. She will likely never be satisfied.
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Her : My son needs a father.
TheXYGhost : Don't look at me, you divorced his father, not me.
TheXYGhost : Don't look at me, you divorced his father, not me.
Friday, October 10, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 284
Her : Single women are happier than married women.
TheXYGhost : I pray you remain single for the rest of your life.
TheXYGhost : I pray you remain single for the rest of your life.
TheXYGhost III 284
Her : Single women are happier than married women.
TheXYGhost : I pray you remain single for the rest of your life.
TheXYGhost : I pray you remain single for the rest of your life.
Sperm Jacking Is Real
A hotel maid, while cleaning a suite, found a used condom in the trash. Knowing the occupant was wealthy, she took the contents and inserted them into herself. She became pregnant and sued the man for child support. With DNA results and her story, the courts ruled in her favor and awarded her a large sum.
Coaches warn new athletes to dispose of condoms immediately and properly after use.
What would happen if there were a law blocking any woman from collecting child support unless she was married to the father or if the DNA did not match?
And what should happen to the child and the wife if the child she gave birth to is not her husband’s?
Coaches warn new athletes to dispose of condoms immediately and properly after use.
What would happen if there were a law blocking any woman from collecting child support unless she was married to the father or if the DNA did not match?
And what should happen to the child and the wife if the child she gave birth to is not her husband’s?
Thursday, October 9, 2025
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