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A woman’s sexual market value peaks at age 25. Her sexual appetite peaks at around 35.
Ha! Ha!
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Wisdom From a 76-Year-Old Pastor and Marriage Counselor

I spoke to a 76-year-old man the other day. He was a minister and a marriage counselor for 45 years. He told me that the first 12 years of his marriage counseling experience, he couldn't believe how bad all the men were. One day he started all his initial counseling sessions with the question, "How is your relationship with your spouse?" He would ask the husband first and then the wife. What he found out was eye-opening.

All of the husbands would answer the question by saying everything is OK. The wife, on the contrary would mention every single one of the man's "faults" to a tee including anything and everything that was not under either of their control.

He also said how the wife would use the word, "enough" as part of her complain. They would say, "He doesn't love me enough.", "He doesn't spend enough time with kids" and the dreaded, "He doesn't give me enough attention."

When he'd ask the wife, "What is enough?" They would almost always reply, "More than he is doing now". When he asked the wives what their solution was. The answer was almost always be, "Divorce". Just imagine that, they would think that the solution to not spending "enough" time with the kids, was a permanent dismissal from the home.

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Women, it’s easy to become a feminist. Just take a hard working man to dinner and pay the check.
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The Diminishing Price of a Woman

I remember back in the 1970's there was a documentary about prostitution in New York City. The hookers said they charged $100 per hour.

In the 1980's when I worked the New York City nightclub scene, it was still about $100 per hour.

By the late 1990's a friend of mine told me that he pays women $70 - $80 per hour.

Over this past weekend, (August 2019) a man told me that the going rate was about $50 per hour.

You might think that the price of a call girl's hourly service fee has gone down $50 in 50 years, and you'd be wrong. If you factor in for inflation, the $100 back in the 1970's had the buying power of today's $661. That is a savings of 92%. Factor in the Law of Supply and Demand and you will see that the ladies of the evening were scarce back then, thus commanding a higher price. What does that say about the girls of today?

It's Always A Man's Fault

- When a woman hits a man, the man is wrong. She must have hit him for a reason.

- When a man hits a woman, he is wrong and he goes to jail.

- When a man divorces a woman, he is wrong and he will pay.

- When a woman divorces a man, takes his kids, he must have done something wrong and he must pay.

- When a man cheats, on a woman, she will leave him and he needs to pay.

- When a woman cheats and brings another child into a man's life, he is supposed to be understanding.

If a woman sues for divorce and takes everything a man has worked for his entire life, and now he needs to rent an apartment and ride the bus, he is no good.

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Women can have abortions without the fathers permission. Men need permission from their wives to get a vasectomy.
My body my choice?
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5 Kids From 5 Restaurant Owners

I remember one day this woman wanted to introduce me to a "Good Girl". A really "Nice Girl" that was asking around about me. When I found out she was talking about her niece, I asked her son about his cousin. He told me to stay away from his cousin. He didn't say it in the way a brother does to protect her. He told me that his cousin had 5 kids from 5 different restaurant owners. Was divorced twice and never had any kids from those marriages. He also told me that his cousin was a real dominator. She felt the need to dominate anyone she saw fit.

I never stopped by my friend's place again. Sure, we went out from time to time but I never went back to his mom's place as his cousin was in the process of breaking up with the last father of her last child and preparing to move in with her mom. (Dependency, Dependency, Dependency).

As time went by, my friend told me stories about his cousin. She was pregnant with restaurant owner #1 while still married with husband #1. That fizzled out fast and just like that divorce #1 was done and husband #2 cucked his way in. She was pregnant again with restaurant owner #2 and divorce # 2 soon followed.

She hid the fact that she had children at all when she met the next 3 restaurant owners. She had 2 abortions when she was in her teens and had a host of STDs in the past. She even had a few drug-addicted boyfriends and one in prison.

If this is a "Good Girl" and a "Nice Girl" I sure hate to see what a bad girl is like.

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Date a feminist! She will pay for the dinner, drinks and the movie.
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She's In College for Pre-Wed

Back in 2003 I had a very interesting conversation with a girl I met at a Starbucks in Manhattan (New York City). We talked for hours and I started to get hungry. I offered to pay for soup in this fancy Chinese soup restaurant across the street. Since she was a student at Columbia University, I knew she had no money.

We continued the conversation at the restaurant when she almost immediately said why she picked Columbia University. She told me that she was looking for a rich man to take care of her. I never flinched a muscle and continued to talk to her.

I already knew what a girl means when she says, "take care of me". It means that she will do absolutely nothing at all for the provisions that she expects from her provider. What it means is she expects that you provide for her every want, need and desire, when, where and how she wants without any reciprocation on her part. If you do not fulfill all of her very unreasonable fantasies as she demands, a scorched-earth divorce is your punishment.

I finished the meal and paid for the bill. We put on our coats and walked out the door. Outside, I shook her hand and wished her well as I started to walk away. Astonished, she asked me why I was not asking for her phone number. I simply said, "I'm not rich, but there are many guys out there that are way more financially gifted than I am." Then I walked away and never turned back.

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Her: I’m not a feminist. Treat me to dinner!
TheXYGhost : If you do nothing to stop feminism, you are the problem.

When My Wife Walked Out On Me

When my wife walked out on me, she moved in with her new simp right away.

Soon after the accusations were pounding on my face;

- You must have done something wrong for her to leave you?

- What did you do to her to make her leave you?

- She must have left you for a reason.

- You picked the wrong girl.

- Maybe you didn't know how to satisfy her.

- Maybe you didn't know how to make her happy.

- You hate women.

The funny thing about this is that when word got around that my wife left me, All the single moms, divorced women and married women started to show their availability to me in a very overtly sexual way.

When I told the married women that I do not play that game, they went back to their husbands and told them I made a move on them.

As for the single moms and divorced women, they would spread rumors about me when I refused their advances.

I had young girls telling me that their mommy "likes me". I've even had one woman telling me that her daughter (a woman that had 5 kids from 5 different restaurant owners) was asking about me. She also had a simp of a boyfriend that never met with her mother's approval.

When I denied advances from a girl, I was immediately called gay and other names. One woman suggested that I go on a gay dating site. I nearly lost it and blew up in her face. She started to giggle at my anger only stating, "You're angry." And maybe that's why my wife left me.

Women at work spread all kinds of allegations about the reasons my wife left me without even knowing me or my ex that well. It was like living in a bizarro world on never ending accusations and advances. It got so crazy that I had to take a break from even talking about my divorce to anyone.

What are your experiences?

Were they similar to mine?

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Be a feminist! Be the breadwinner and provider for a man.
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Stupid Shit That Only Women Say:

Stupid Shit That Only Women Say:

- He didn't give me enough attention.

- I'm high maintenance.

- He couldn't handle me.

- He is too nice.

- He wasn't man enough.

- I'm worth it.

- He didn't make me happy.

- I'm picky.

- There must be a reason.

- I'm bored.

- He made me angry.

- He let me manipulate him.

- I want someone that will take care of me.

- He's afraid of commitments.

- I don't love him anymore.

- I'm highly educated.

- I'm a strong independent woman.

- You hate women.

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Flirting in the office is considered sexual harassment, if the man doing the flirting is broke or unattractive.
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I Need to Put This on Record

They say I don't know women. They say I'm jaded because of one girl that divorced me.

I'm ashamed to say that I had many girlfriends in my life. I have never cheated on any of my past girlfriends, I was accused several times.

I never hit any woman with whom I was involved. The other girls I've hit in the past I didn't know and were self-defense.

I've had 3 girls that claimed that I got them pregnant. Thanks to a blood test (semi paternity test in the 1980's), racial differences (I'm not black, neither was my girlfriend. The child was), and DNA testing, I'm not a father.

There were rumors that a girlfriend of mine had an abortion, she said it was mine.

One girlfriend told me flat out that she had aborted my child.

One girl put me on a birth certificate, I never even touched her and didn't know her last name. Family court was called off when it was found out that she petitioned the Board of Health multiple times to change the father's names, all different.

I had 4 girlfriends whose mothers (single moms, all 4 of them) were overtly hitting on me, when I refused, their mothers acted all the same, they told my girlfriend I was hitting on them.

4 - 6 of my friend's girlfriends wanted to get with me and when I turned them down, good bye friends. (See above)

I had one girlfriend whose aunt hit on me and when I said no, she left it alone.

2 of my ex's were married and they kept that small fact away from me.

I dated two single mothers, that was a big mistake both times.

4 of my ex's claimed they had an ongoing affair with their stepfather. So, how do you feel about dating a single mom with a daughter now?

I'm not bragging, some of my ex's fit into 2, 3 and 4 of these categories.

3 girls claimed that I raped them, (never formally) including my ex-wife who made the claim 2 weeks before she handed me my divorce papers about the first time we had sex, before we were married. Yeah, I raped her, then we got married, if you believe that one.

I had a few girlfriends that claimed to have been raped. But other things indicated otherwise.

I dated a famous singer of the 1970's. I was 22 she was 38. She is still kicking at 69. No, it wasn't Barbara Streisand.

I was involved with a rock star when she was in high school and I was at a nearby college.

I was involved with an actress whose both parents were very well-known actors.

1 of my ex's was the unspoken love-child of, then Attorney General at the time, later on he became mayor of NYC and he ran for president in 2008.

I dated a model for Victoria Secret and Talbot.

I dated a woman that was worth $40 million and I thought that money would not be a reason we break up. It was. She said that I couldn't keep up with her vacationing habits.

Between 2011 and 2014 I have had 14 women that asked me to marry them. OK, truth be told, most of them wanted green cards, at least 10 of them admitted that. 3 were foreigners that didn't admit that's why they wanted to marry. The last one was crazy. I'm 53 now, you gotta take what you can get at my age.

In the 1980's I worked for a very famous club promoter in NYC. We worked at Studio 54, Tracks, Xenon, The Red Parrot, The Underground, The Palladium, etc. and I had a public access cable TV show that I filmed at these places. I had my choice of women.

I only had 2 girlfriends that were very cool but they both went back to Germany. Who knows, maybe they were the ones that got away and maybe I never knew them long enough. Who really knows?

My mom was a single mom by 1967. Her and my sister persistently tried to overpower me every chance they had. I knew all my mom's boyfriends but I didn't know my dad until I was 14. I really grew to like him when I reunited with him at age 48.

My sister had 3 kids from 3 men and I watched how she destroyed all men in her path.

I created my own escort service and had 3 girls going on 1 or 2 dates a night 5 - 6 days a week. I did this while working at an office job.

I worked as a phone psychic for 2 1/2 years where I would receive 20 - 30 phone calls per day 7 days a week. 95% of the callers were women wanting to know if one guy loves them while they plan to leave another.

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Why do I need to Support, Provide for and Protect yet another fully grown, independent woman until she finds the man of her dreams?
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My Life As A Phone Psychic #8

Most of my callers would be women complaining about their income source (their husband or boyfriend) while working on a new one that is still married or in a more committed relationship. They would tell me how their man would not live up to their expectation of what they imagined. I would always tell them that there are two men in their lives; one that they wanted to come into their life, the other one they want to leave. I would tell these women this even before they speak. They were so typical.

Day in and day out it was a factory assembly line of women telling me what they couldn't tell their clergymen, friends, relatives or psychiatrists? It was no wonder how I pegged them so well without even a word from their mouths.

They would never see their actions as cheating. I would tell these women that I see them working hard to get a commitment from the married men they want but the men do not seem to be responding. I would usually praise these women with the level of effort they were providing in order to get their target men to commit to them. I even told these women that they were going above and beyond what they would usually do for the new man in order to get him to commit to her.

These women that called me were always so frustrated at their efforts to get an attached man to leave their committed partner and commit to them instead. Their dependencies were so intertwined. They depended on a man they hated while they looked at a new attached man as their new dependency. They will never drop one for the other. Walking that fine line to hold one in place while trying their best to attract and hold on to the new one. Never leaving the first dependency until the second one is secured tightly.

This is "Monkey Branching" at its finest.

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60 years of feminism has taught us that men are equal to women. Why do men always need to pay the bill?
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My Life As A Phone Psychic #7

Back in 2004, I received a call from a woman and after giving her my shtick, she asked me, "When is my Johnny coming back to me?"

In order to take more time (charging $6.99 per minute) I asked her Johnny's date of birth and the last time she was intimate with him, so my spirit guide could contact with his spirit.

She quickly said, "June 23, 1972"

Thinking that was Johnny's complete birth date, I asked her again when she was last intimate with Johnny. She told me, "1972".

I had to get things straight with her as I was a bit confused. She began by telling me that she met this man back in 1972 after a concert in which Johnny was playing. She slept with him the same day and he tried to go his own way.

She persisted in seeing him in every local concert he played. He didn't care about her.

She even moved into the same gated community and followed him to concerts when he was local. Johnny had to pass pictures of this stalker to security whenever he has a gig.

Years passed and he got married. She didn't take the hint. She persisted in stalking him. She followed him when he moved to Upstate New York and again to New Jersey. She even told me that she married a man to get him jealous. When he had kids, she got pregnant to get his attention.

A number of 'Protection Orders' and she still never backed off.

Now we are in 2004. She divorced her husband and now spends weekends in her husband's parent's basement and weekdays at her husband's place. Her 11-year-old daughter rather stay with her father than her mom. She could never hold a job to save her life. Johnny keeps getting 'Protection Orders' when the one before expires.

Johnny is still in a band and travels to Europe and all over the United States. He has 3 kids and is still married with his wife of 14 years.

Do you still want a side piece?

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I just finished talking to a Chinese woman that spoke very broken English. She knew the words, "Alimony" and "Half" really well.
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My Life As A Phone Psychic #6

My friend and I were phone psychics and it was a lot of fun sharing stories and ideas with him about the callers. Some of his callers would call me and some of mine sometimes called him. One day he stumbled upon something. He told a caller that was looking to leave her husband that her husband forced her to marry him. The woman cried and confessed that she never told a soul about that and she was ashamed to tell anyone.

He started to add that into his readings and soon found out that almost all the callers would agree. It was so insane that I started telling women that their husband forced them to marry them. Some would cry as they agreed and it made them call even more.

I tried to tell women not to leave their husbands but they would just hang up on me. These women didn't want psychics, they wanted to cherry pick ideas that made them look innocent and as a victim, always.

By the end of 6 months, I had a 30-minute monologue ready for any new caller that I started out even before they asked a single question. Their feedback on the website was something like;

"This man is very in tuned with me. He told me things I never told a soul. Right off the bat his readings were accurate and he never even asked me my date of birth. Highly recommend"

My Life As A Phone Psychic #5

At first, I laughed at my friend when he suggested that I should work as a phone psychic, but I soon found out that more than 90% of my callers were extremely predictable.

1) They were almost always women or gay men.

2) They were living off one man (husband or boyfriend) that they pretended to like yet they were not wrong for doing that.

3) They almost always asked about a 2nd, 3rd or even 4th man in their scope that they wish to live off instead.

4) They always ask, "Does he love me?", "Will he commit to me?" or "When will he commit to me or love me?"

5) They almost always believe you are a good psychic if you support them leaving the man, they are with for the man they want.

Wash, Rinse, Repeat.

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I do not have the Time, Money, Energy, Patience or the Knowledge to satisfy a woman's every Want, Need and Desire, When, Where and How they want.
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My Life As A Phone Psychic #4

I had a new caller and right away she started telling me her life story. So, at $6.99 per minute, I listened very carefully.

She told me that she was 57 years old and she lived a good life. She had 3 children and she made sure that her kids finished high school and college. She guided them to marry the "right" persons and "she" bought them all homes although she never had a job the entire marriage.

She told me that she did all that she could do for her kids and now it was her turn. She continued by saying, "I'm not selfish and I know where my kids are going. I've helped them on the right path in life. I DON'T WANT TO KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT MY LAZY GOOD FOR NOTHING HUSBAND. HE SOLD HIS BUSINESS AND ENDED UP WORKING AT A FLORIST SHOP!"

She maintained composure and told me that she wanted to find out about her boyfriend that was 76 years old and was an owner of an oil refinery in Louisiana. She told me that this guy of her dreams was fooling around with 2 - 30-year-old women that were after his money only.

She told me about her two sons and her daughter then she told me that she lived in a $800,000 home that was fully paid for. She also told me that her husband, age 68, sold his business (Financial Services company) for $5 million to work with his army buddy selling flowers.

She summed up her entire story by reiterating, "I don't want to know about me. I don't want to know about my kids or my good for nothing husband. I NEED TO KNOW WHEN WILL MY BOYFRIEND COMMIT TO ME BECAUSE I CAN'T LEAVE MY HUSBAND WITHOUT HIM."

I began by picking up the evil energies of the two 30-year-old girls. She was happy. I told her that these women will soon show their evil side to him and it will hit him that she is better for him. She was so pleased to hear that.

I told her that to get him hooked on her she needs to play "hard to get" and she agreed. She even said she thought that might be the best plan and she just needed me to confirm.

She then told me that she needed a hip replacement and she wanted to know if she should make her husband pay for it or should she wait for her boyfriend to commit to her. I became so sick to my stomach, I nearly thew up.

I ended up telling her to wait for her boyfriend to commit to her to get her hip replaced as when he rescues her, it will help him to bond with her.

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Ask 10,000 men on the street if they would ever hit a woman. Nearly all will say, "No". Leave it to a woman to find the most abusive men each and every time.
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My Life As A Phone Psychic #3

I had a caller that was very adamant about her intentions to leave her husband after 20 years, but in order to do that, she needed to find another man to latch on. She would call me from time to time asking me about every new man she met. She told her son, daughter and best friend of her intentions. She went in internet chat rooms (2002) to find men that will do her will and make her life a paradise.

One day she called me about a man in France that invited her to go there and live with him. He promised her the sun, moon and everything in between.

I almost begged her not to go. She told me that her 11-year-old daughter cried and begged her not to leave, but she bought a ticket to France to meet the man that she knew nothing about.

The next call I received from her was her in France, telling me that the man never showed up. She was shocked that I was right about what I told her. But she asked again if I thought the man would show up. I told her it would not be likely.

She spent a month in France, with the money she took from her husband, then went home. When she arrived, she was shocked at the reception she received from her family. She called me, and was ponderous as to why they would not be happy that she returned.

A few days past and she called, asking why her family was distancing themselves from her. She even told me that her best friend didn't return her calls. She then saw the credit card bills and noticed a few purchases from Victoria's Secret while she was in France.

In short, she kicked her support system in the crotch and wondered why he didn't support her afterwards. Now she wanted me to help her get back with her husband and get him to break it off with her ex best friend, so she could continue her search. All for $6.99 per minute.

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Women, Kings get treated well and servants serve your needs. Do you want a man that is a King or a servant?
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My Life As A Phone Psychic #2

I got this call from a woman in her mid-40s that told me her son died the day before. I really felt bad that moment and I wondered if I could handle this call on the psychic phone service I was working on. She told me that her two sons were arguing while working on a roofing job. One of her sons fell off the roof and that's how he died.

I panicked, I thought that she was going to ask me to channel his spirit or something strange and bizarre. I was wrong. She finished that last sentence about her own son dying unhurt as she went on to ask the question for which she initially called.

She began, saying, "I met this man a while ago and he has yet to ask me out on a date. I see him on a regular bases and we talk all the time. Does this man love me? Will he ever get the nerve to ask me out?"

I was amazed. Here is this woman, whose son just died the day before and she was asking me about the possibilities of a man asking her out without a tear or a second thought about a son that died the day before.

I had to stop the call. I told the woman that I had forgotten to take my medication and I was feeling ill. I hung up the phone and she called back 30 minutes later without even mentioning her son's death and focusing on how to get this man to take her out.

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I identify as a MGTOW. What pronoun should feminist use to address me?
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My Life As A Phone Psychic #1

After my divorce and after September 11th I became so depressed that I never left my apartment for years. After some time, a friend took pity on me and signed me up as a phone psychic. I laughed, telling this man that I was not a psychic. He then told me that all I had to do was tell people what they want to hear. This was very perplexing to me because, I thought that, in order for me to tell someone what they want to hear, I would have to know them and know what they want to hear in order for me to say those things. When I told him this he laughed and said it's not that hard and I'm making it harder than it really is.

So, I started and very soon I was the top 30 of the over 10,000 psychics they had on board. I found out very quickly that 95% of my callers were female and 4% were gay men (female mind set) and the one question they ALWAYS asked every single time is, "Does he love me?" This is what narcissistic women want to know. They have no responsibility to have their own reasoning and understanding they need someone to figure it out for them.

Before long, I had a complete speech for callers before they even said a single word. I would tell them that the spirits were telling me that they were loving, caring, giving and sharing all the time and they never bother to give to themselves. I'd then tell them to take one day to pamper them self with a manicure, pedicure, facial and massage because she deserves that. What woman would hang up at $6.99 per minute. (I would get slightly less than that as my cut.)

I would also say to them that there is 2 main men in their life; one that is pushing towards her but she does not want anything to do with him and another one that may be drifting away. They would definitely concur stating that the one in their life was their husband or boyfriend and the man that maybe drifting away is the man they really wanted. It is easy to read simple minds.

It was April 7, 2003 and I got a call from a woman from upstate New York. She had a whisper of a voice as she told me about this man that she wanted in her life named Russell. She would tell me how much she was in love with this man and she asked me if Russell loved her and have received her letters. I said that in fact, he did and that he carried one letter in particular in his pocket every day. She was pleased to hear that.

She then told me that today is Russell's birthday and that she was working hard to channel her energies to him because he is in New Zealand now. She also informed me that he was getting married today.

I was in shock. I had this gut feeling that she was talking about Russell Crowe the actor. I Google searched his name and to my surprise it was his birthday and he was getting married that very day.

I then started telling this lady that only minutes before he went to the alter to take his vows, he read her letter and put it in his inside jacket pocket right next to his heart. She sighed and moaned with that. I personally think by this time she was playing with her kitty. Which never happened before or since that day with other callers. At least I don't think it did.

I love the movie Gladiator. It's such a guy flick filled with great virtues. The Narcissist vs the Humble and a man that is a respected leader even as a slave alongside his sworn enemies. I've watched that movie over and over and over again at that time.

I told this woman about Russell's regrets for marrying this woman even as he said the words, "I do" I also described Russell the way I would describe Russell's character, Maximus, strong, leader, fearless and honorable. With every sentence I uttered, she responded with a sighing, "Yes!" I could not believe that this woman in her mid-forties was pining over a man that she had never met. This was purely pathetic. She paid $420 an hour for a stranger to tell her details about someone whom he does not know.

This went on for way more than an hour until her money ran out. Over the next few months, she called several times still wanting to know about her fantasy all the while distancing herself from any man that was real.

I'm gonna tweet this to Russell Crowe with my sincere apologies to him. @RussellCrowe

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Tolerate my intolerance.
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Girls, You Need to Lift the Seats Too

I was waiting in line to get in a bathroom at Starbucks® in midtown Manhattan in New York City. I was second in line and a cute, well-dressed girl with an expensive handbag was in front of me. Just then, the door to the bathroom opened and a Starbucks® employee came out with a broom, a dustpan and a spray bottle of sorts with him signifying that the bathroom was just cleaned. The girl went in and after a short time, you hear the toilet flush, water run and the hand dryer blowing, then she opened the door to leave.

I went in, locked the door and noticed a wad of toilet paper on the floor between the side of the toilet and the wall. I put on my glasses to inspect the seat, amazed to see droplets of urine on the left and right sides of the toilet seat. They say men are filthy and pee on the seats all the time. Women hover and they sprinkle on the sides of the seat. Why do they not lift the seat when they hover?

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What happens when, "It’s cheaper to keep her" meets "I’ll profit from a divorce"?
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My Encounter with a Domestic Violence Councilor

A 57-year-old business acquaintance of mine, who was, at one time, a domestic violence councilor, began to lecture me about all the disservices I was committing against myself for being single. He even asked me, "What do you do?", meaning what I did for sex. He even went as far as asking me if I masturbated often. I looked at him and asked him, "Why is my genitalia on your mind?" With that he stopped that line of questioning but he continued telling me how great his life was with "the right woman". He had only met her about 6 years before, in his early fifties and her in her early forties.

She lives in Los Angeles with their son (age 5) and he travels back and forth between there and New York City.

In the past, I have seen him call his wife asking her permission to do something in NYC. I never want to ask permission of anyone to do anything I want to do. I've seen him on the phone with her and complaining, after hanging up, that she treats him like a child. That is not what I'm looking for out of my life. There were times he was late calling his wife. He got an ear full when he finally did call her. Again, not my idea of a great time.

Anyway, after chewing my ear off, he told me about his life as a domestic violence councilor and how he used to council men in prison for doing, amongst other things, pushing their wife's face in a grease fryer. He started on this path trying to convince me that men were mean and abusive. He also told me about his wife's ex-husband and how abusive he was to her. The look on his face was priceless when I told him that one side of the story does not a conclusion make. I also told him that his point of view that men are mean to women is conversely perceived as women only accepting vicious and violent men, the same as a lioness in the wild seeks the most vicious lion.

He diverted the subject just ever so slightly telling me about domestic violence laws. He told me that a simple argument can be classified as domestic violence if, while arguing, the man walks closer to a perceived weapon. He even used an example of a couple arguing and the man walks towards the direction of a gun cabinet on his way to the bedroom. He also said the same man can, while having a simple argument, sit at a table near a butter knife or lean closer to a broomstick and that too will make a simple argument into a domestic violence situation. I told him that I don't want to live in fear that I might argue the wrong way that will end up with me in prison.

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The above was written 3 years ago and this man found out that the love of his life was cheating on him with another woman. He later found out that "his son" was not his. He never believed it nor did he want to take a DNA test to prove it. His wife grew tired of him and had him arrested for domestic violence. His wife had bruises all over her body and a black eye. He swore up and down that he never struck her but his wife was awarded an "Order of Protection" against him. He finally found proof that "his son" was not his and he was pissed off that he had to continue to pay child support for a child that was not his. His, now, ex-wife lives in the house that he has to pay the mortgage, and she gets monthly child support payments.

Too bad I have not seen him since our last meeting.

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Her: I’m a cougar.
TheXYGhost : Go catch a rat and eat it.

Women Want What She Shouldn't Have. They Want the Forbidden Fruit.

- They love the gangsters, thugs and criminals.

- They love the prisoners.

- They love the married man.

- They love the liar and cheater.

- They love the under aged.

When years and years of this ideology not working for them, they want a millionaire, with a hot body to take all of their problems away from them.

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Her: If you liked it, then you should have put a ring on it.
TheXYGhost : That explains why I have no ring from you.

False Rape Accusations.

Women use false accusations because there is virtually no accountability for them.

Far too few are even charged, never mind tried and jailed and when they are, the sentence is a complete farce considering they can and have completely ruined a man's life.

This is why due process and the rule of law MUST be followed! Sexual assault is a horrific crime but so are false accusations as they complete ruin a man's life as well.

Here are some of the lies women have told and many men's lives have been destroyed by lies like these.

This is a TINY SAMPLE from a 180+ page document I have compiled with untold hundreds of other examples, and I have the links to all the articles to prove they are all true. If you like I will send you the whole document.

Heartbroken mum of teen who killed himself after withdrawn rape allegation found hanged at family home.

- The family of grief-stricken Karin Cheshire, 55, said she 'could not see a future' without son Jay

- Cheshire, 17, who took his own life AFTER BEING FALSELY ACCUSED OF RAPE

- USC ignored likelihood that female student invented rape to not get fired, appeals court rules

- One of Justice Brett M. Kavanaugh's accusers admitted this week that she made up her lurid tale of a backseat car rape, saying it "was a tactic" to try to derail the judge's confirmation to the Supreme Court.

- Always Believe Women? Boy's Life Destroyed by Girls' False Allegations. The female accusers admitted they'd lied simply because they didn't like the boy.

- Woman lied about rape because date didn't drive her home

- Drunk seductress, 36, who forced herself on a 14-year-old boy then falsely accused him of rape when he reported her is jailed for more than four years

- Woman Claims Cop Raped Her. Then Body Cam Footage Is Released. A complete lie!

- Student Files Fake Gang Rape Case AFTER MISSING UNIVERSITY EXAM. The woman was let off after a stern warning from the police.

- Mother loses custody after filing 10 false abuse report against father

- Woman said her ex-fiance hit her, causing a black eye and other injuries. But now his attorney says this home surveillance video tells a different story as it shows the woman shouting, screaming and striking herself many times

- Two Students Hooked Up. It Was Clearly Consensual. He Still Spent $12,000 Defending Himself. A brief romantic encounter at UC-Davis triggered a Title IX investigation after the female student changed her mind about it weeks later.

- Mohali woman filed over 30 complaints of rape, wrongful restraint in 4 years

- Declared Innocent By Court Once Again, Rohtak Boys Ask Media To Declare Them Innocent. The media should now come forward and 'declare' the innocent Rohtak boys not guilty.

- The full bombshell texts that cleared BT engineer sent by jilted ex who wrongly accused him of rape, cleared him

- Connor Fitzgerald, 19, lost his job when he was accused of raping an ex - but she bragged how she wanted to 'ruin his life'

- Woman accused 6 men of raping her is a false accusation. She also collected $2,000 from a special program for "rape victims". That is nothing but a false rape encouragement and benefit program.

- 'I'm free from this living hell': Haunting last words of man who took his own life after fake rape claim... as police finally investigate accuser

- Weston man cleared of rapes 'relieved' 11-month nightmare at an end

- Woman who accused former Awabakal Local Aboriginal Land Council deputy chairman Richard John Green of rape makes full retraction

- Middlebury College Student Describes Hell of False Rape Allegation

- Mum gave kids sedatives in a bid to frame dad for 'drugging and sexually abusing' them

- Woman Who Falsely Accused Men Of Abuse Before Robbing Homes Is Arrested Again

- Woman who lied about being abducted, raped by black men pleads guilty to faking evidence

- Niagara Regional Police have charged a St. Catharines woman with public mischief after surmising she "misled police" about being sexually assaulted in Niagara Falls three weeks ago.

- Lawyer apologizes for falsely accusing trooper of rape

- Woman who falsely accused DPS trooper of rape won't face additional charges

- Two girls arrested for filing fake rape complaint to extort Rs 2 lakh from youth

- Man cleared of raping 'chronic liar' demands police apology

- Father-of-two, 53, spent 'torturous' EIGHT MONTHS in jail over false rape claims after police withheld vital phone messages

- Woman arrested for trying to frame man in false rape case in Uttar Pradesh

- Another rape trial disgrace: Case collapses after police failed to investigate 30,000 Facebook ssages linked to the 'victim'.

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Her: You don’t love me.
TheXYGhost : You need to find someone that does.

"No" Means "No", or Does It?

"Yes" means "Yes" (At this moment)

"Yes" means "No" (If I'm not in the mood)

"No" means "No" (Unless it means, ‘Try harder'"

"No" means "Yes" (Until I change my mind)

"Maybe" means "Yes" (To keep my options open)

"Maybe" means "No" (When I'm unsure)

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Her: You don’t love me.
TheXYGhost : Why? What have you done wrong?

"All Men are Bad, And You Are Too", The Female Collective.

When I told the women in my life what my ex-wife did to me they would all turn around sooner or later to blame me and later spread rumors that I hated all women. It never ceased to amaze me. Why would every girl I talk to about my ex-wife immediately blame me then spread rumors that I hated all women when I talked about the actions of only one. This made no sense. I became more and more amazed at this phenomena as time passed.

It got to the point where I would tell women the events of my divorce just to see them blame me for her bad behavior and tell me that I'm a woman hater.

They blamed me for choosing such a woman, and faulted me for "allowing" or "letting" her steal my money and cheat on me. Just imagine that your house was robbed and I blamed you for allowing and letting burglars rob you.

These same women would march on Washington DC if you were to say that even one woman was raped because she allowed it to happen.

I got tired of telling women what my ex did and started to lie about why I was no longer married. I told women that my ex-wife died. I thought there would be no questions after that. A simple, "I'm sorry for your loss", and maybe a question or 2 on what happened.

No way! I would get evil looks at some women telling me that I killed my ex-wife. Some would state their condolences and later on tell people that they knew that I killed my ex-wife. There was no escaping their accusations no matter what my story was.

At this time I called this phenomenon "The Female Collective" after The Borg Collective (an alien life form from the TV series Star Trek). It was like all the women I talked to saw all women, including themselves as faultless and were ready at a moment, without any investigation blame the man and exonerate any woman from any wrong doing.

Any time they would hear a news story on how a woman killed a man, they would immediately fault the man the woman killed.

I see this line of thinking in politics. If you do not like the actions of Barack Hussein Obama, then you hate all black people. When President Donald J. Trump wants to build a wall on the Mexican border and temporarily bans the immigration from 7 countries then he becomes the hater of all Mexicans, Muslims and immigrants. When Trump lashes out on one woman (Rosie O'Donnell) they say that he hates all women.

What do we call this irrational action?

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Her: You haven’t taken me out in months.
TheXYGhost : You haven’t taken me out, ever!

Why Women "Say" they are leaving you.

Here are some of the idiotic reasons that girls gave, for breaking up.

1) You didn't love me enough 2) You never gave me enough attention 3) We are just not compatable. 4) You didn't control me enough 5) You always want things done your way 6) You never think about me 7) You love your job/car more than me 8) We've grown apart 9) You are abusive 10) You're too nice 11) It's just not working out 12) We are not meant to be together 13) You are overshadowing me 14) Your cancer is not going to ruin my life 15) My ex-boyfriend just got early parole and I still love him. (He was in for murder) 16) If you don't do X, Y & Z? I'll find someone who will. 17) If you do X, Y & Z again, I will leave you. 18) I don't love you any more, I love him. It's not my fault, it just happened. 19) The nerve of your family telling me that I have a drinking problem. I'm leaving you. 20) You lost your job 21) We need to see other people. 22) You're selfish, stingy and greedy. (I didn't spend money on her kid. We'd only been dating a very short time.) 23) It's not you, it's me. I need to work on myself. (Begins dating another dude almost immediately). 24) You're too good to be true. 25) I'm confused 26) I don't know what I want.

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Her: Buy me a drink
TheXYGhost : Why? Are you broke or just cheap?

Endless Loop Dating.

She told me that her husband was abusive.

She said he was a jerk.

She told me that he cheated on her.

She told me that she left him and she is not getting a thing.

I'll take her in.

She told me that she loves me.

I just proposed.

Now we are married.

Where is she?

I just caught her in a lie.

Why is her story not adding up.

We had a fight.

I just got arrested.

She took out a protective order on me.

She told the cops and everyone that I was abusive.

She called me a jerk to the man she is dating.

She told him I cheated on her.

She took my home and she told him it was hers.

I can't believe that guy believes her.

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Simp: You only have one mother.
TheXYGhost : Who will be the next father to your children?

Women Are Nasty to Men and Other Women.

So, the wife of my best friend of 30 plus years had an unusual encounter with a nasty woman:

It was 8AM and she just left the hospital with a diagnosis of a cracked rib and now she was on line at a Starbucks waiting to pick up her order. A woman with an English accent bumped into her rather hard.

"Ow", she said mostly to herself as she ignored the woman the bumped her.

Irritated, the English woman looked my friend up and down and said in a snobbish tone, "Do you think that I am to apologize to you?"

My friend's wife is not one to start trouble but she was not gonna let this one slide. She stared the woman right in the eyes and said, "No, you don't need to say sorry to me, I need to say sorry to you;

I'm sorry that every man you thought was 'the one' left you. I'm sorry that you wasted your youth. I'm sorry you go home alone every night. I'm so sorry that by wearing sequin 10 inch heels at 8AM will never help you find a man.

Look dear, men want 3 things in a woman; 1 - A beautiful face 2 - A beautiful heart 3 - A beautiful vagina

and frankly my dear all 3 of yours are rotten. I'm going to get my coffee and be on my way and forget all about this conversation. You will remember this day forever! You should just get a cat and call it a day. Enjoy your coffee."

And the black woman behind the counter asked my friend's wife, "Are you part black, because you read that girl like a book!"

You just gotta love New York City women.

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Her: I don’t need a man, I have a job!
TheXYGhost : OK by me.

Men Are Always Wrong, Women Have No Consequences.

If a man cheats...

Bad man, poor woman.

If a woman cheats...

"She must have cheated for a reason." "He was not doing enough to satisfy her."

Divorce him and take half his net worth, take the house and the kids, he has to pay for his lawyer and your lawyer too.

If a man hits a woman...

Bad man! Never hit a woman for any reason. "Arrest him."

If a woman hits a man...

"He must have done something wrong for her to hit him." "She must have had a reason to hit him."

If a man divorces a woman...

Bad man. He must pay. Take half his wealth, take half of all future earnings, and take away his kids.

If a woman divorces a man...

He must be a bad man. He must pay. Take half his wealth, take half of all future earnings, and take away his kids.

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Feminism is about equality!
We need more female sanitation workers.
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Girls and Delilah

Women are great at snitching. They always look for a higher authority to conquer anyone in their way.

Just like Sampson and Delilah

When GOD is a woman's ultimate authority, she will go to GOD for advice.

Why do you think that women initiate 80% of divorces. They go to the higher authority. (Cops, Lawyers and Judges) Delilah went to the Philistines as her higher authority.

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Her : Women age like fine wine.
TheXYGhost : Wine is worthless once uncorked.

Women Don't Want A Good Man Until They Are Damaged.

Good guys are never an option until a woman is tired of being played.

Until she is getting old. Until she wants a husband. Until she wants a step father for her child. Until she has kids with a guy that doesn't want anything to do with her.

Early in life most women choose the wrong guys & then after those guys spit them out.

Now they want a good man.

The same good man they thought was boring. The same good man they didn't want to talk to.

Understand this, the hoe phase is real. If a woman is still going through that. You as a good man will never touch her. You will only touch her after & that can be 10 years later.

Good guys deal with damaged women. Bad guys get the best years.

Good guys deal with women with insecurities. Women with trauma. Women with anger. Women with babies.

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Her : Your new home needs a woman's touch.
TheXYGhost : Don't you lay one finger on my house.

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Her : Where have all the good men gone?
TheXYGhost : Do you think you are entitled to an endless number of getting down on one knee with a diamond ring in hand, begging you to be your servant?

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Her : Where have all the good men gone?
TheXYGhost : You divorced 2 and you dumped many before them.

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You go through 3 divorces. You keep picking the wrong ones. She divorces 3 times, its never her fault.
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He pays $25,000 a month towards child support for a child he has never seen yet.
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He spent 5 years in prison for not paying child support for a child that was not his.
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Her : It wasn't my fault. It just happened.
TheXYGhost : Nothing is ever your fault.

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She is twice divorced and has 3 kids from 3 different men, and you think she loves you?
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Her : Why are you still single?
TheXYGhost : I can't find a woman that can buy the type of car I want.

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Her : There's plenty of fish in the sea.
TheXYGhost : I prefer a filet mignon.

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Her : I left him because he always did what I told him.
TheXYGhost : Why did you ask for what you didn't want?

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He never cheated on his wife for 40 years. He asked my advice and 10 years later, he slept with over 300 women.
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Her : My son needs a father.
TheXYGhost : Don't look at me, you divorced his father, not me.

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Her : I have a boyfriend.
TheXYGhost : You are so lucky.

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Her : What kind of work do you do?
TheXYGhost : I am not interested in you.

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Her : I left him because he was abusive.
TheXYGhost : He caught you cheating, right?

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Her : I divorced him because it was not meant to be.
TheXYGhost : Next time marry one that is meant to be.

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A female who has had an abortion, won't think twice about exterminating your life in any way possible.
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They Never Stop Looking for Their Provider

A female friend of mine, that I’ve known for 21 years, called me out of the blue to have coffee and catch up. We hadn’t seen each other since the pandemic. At the time, I was 60 years old, she was 63, and her husband was 72. We had worked together in various capacities over the years. I met her husband a few times, I even bumped into her and her husband while in the Hamptons one summer. Her husband owned a shipping company. We got along great. No problems at all.

Her and I used to spend time on the phone together talking about things we saw on the news or movies, etc. I was comfortable with her because she had been with her husband since she was 16.

We met in a bagel deli in Manhattan. We hugged and exchange pleasantries. She asked how my family was and I asked how her husband, kids and grandkids were. She commented that everybody was fine.

We talked for about a half an hour until she asked the question, "Why are you still single"

I thought she knew. I knew I told her the story, but I stated anyway, "I’m not going through that again. Women hate men. "

She said one of the phrases that most women say, "You just picked the wrong women "

I responded with, "I picked the wrong women. My neighbors picked the wrong women. People in my family picked the wrong women. My friends picked the wrong women. My classmates picked the wrong women. My coworkers picked the wrong women. It seems that everybody is picking the wrong women, but the women are not wrong for their actions. Besides, I do not have enough money, knowledge, energy, patience, or time to make a woman happy. "

She snickered with, "Don’t be silly. You need to open your mind. I heard you’re doing well for yourself. It’s not hard to make a woman happy."

I snapped sharply with, "I will not provide for and protect yet another woman who has backstabbed all of her previous boyfriends and lovers only to be backstabbed once again for providing it protecting. "

With a smile on her face, she said, "I'm sure you will find someone that you will fall in love with. It's just a matter of time."

I was starting to get angry so my delivery to her was harsh. I said, "I have loved many women in the past only to be backstabbed over and over again. I want to give a woman a chance to pick me, because I’m the right one. I want to give a woman a chance to love me. I want a woman to reach deep in her pockets and buy me a car, a watch and dinner or two. What woman, that I do not know now, that has zero track record of any loyalty or respect, should I devote my life to protect and devote my life’s earnings towards? All I’m offered now are positions of servitude to be mom’s or grandma’s boyfriend. I will not provide and protect another man's wife or another child's mom."

She tried to play down my tone by saying, "That’s just dumb. You are just being paranoid. Not all women are out to get you. You need a loving woman beside you. "

I was wondering why she was giving me the hard sell. So I told her, bluntly, "let’s get off the subject. I don’t want to talk about it anymore. If we talk about this anymore, I will leave. I don’t want to offend you, but if you continue on this subject, I will have no choice but to leave. "

I think she got the message, and we talked about something else for about 10 minutes then she looked at her watch and said she had to go home. I walked her to her apartment building and left her with the doorman. A final hug and a kiss on the cheek, and I apologize for my gruffness.

Three weeks later, she calls me on the phone crying that her husband is in the hospital and he might not make it. I tried to console her and asked her a few questions. She told me that he had pancreatic cancer and he may not have long to live, she also told me that he was admitted to the hospital about a month ago.

In case you missed it, this is the timeline. Her husband was admitted to the hospital then three weeks later she met me, telling me that everybody in her family was OK. Then she tried to sell me on getting a female companion. One week later this call.

The call went on for a few more minutes, and she never realized what she told me.

That was a few months ago. I’m sure her husband has passed, but she has never called me about it since. While her husband was in the hospital, she was hunting for her new provider. Maybe she’s with him now.

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She aborted his child because her husband didn't do what she told him to do.
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She Obeys Her Enemies

Therapy is code for their dependency on others to analyze for them.

What people do not understand is that women are totally dependent on others for just about anything they do.

They consult with psychics, therapists, astrologists and their other female friends that guide her to fail as they too, do not want their friends to be higher status than they are.

The modern woman today obeys and submits to astrologers, psychics, therapists, their jealous girlfriends, lawyers, psychiatrist and doctors that prescribe harmful mood altering drugs for her. The sad thing is that she is combative to the man that professes his love to her, with shaming tactics, insults, humiliation, guilt trips, nagging and constant arguments.

In short, she obeys all that profits from her loss while spitting on the man that loves her.

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Australia's female soccer team (ranked 5th in the world) was beaten 7-0 by a team of boys, all under 15 years old.
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But That's My Money

My childhood friend married a widowed mother. Her former husband died while working as a maintenance worker on theVerrazzano-Narrows Bridge in New York City. My friend vowed to provide for and protect his new wife and her daughter.

After a while, he had three more daughters. He was feeling the need to buy a house as his apartment was too small for the family. He started working nights and weekends, seven days a week to save the money he needed for a down payment of a home. This went on for 2 years.

He finally bought a small home built in 1957. The house was small, yet bigger than the apartment they lived in. He vowed to add an extra floor to his new home, and give all four of his daughters their own room.

He had a side job as a bouncer, and sometimes he drove a limousine. He spent nights in my living room sleeping because he was too exhausted to drive home. I even packed food for him to bring home when I cooked for myself. I only know how to cook large portions and I was single at the time

He hired an architect and he took an apprentice job as a carpenter to make his dream home come true.

The second floor was completed by September after years of planning. Halloween came and went Without a problem. Thanksgiving came to the new home. Now came Christmas.

With very little money left, he bought a Christmas tree, decorations, and presents for the entire family.

Just before New Year’s, the boiler of his house broke. With little money left, he told his family that they needed to brave the cold with blankets and some space heaters.

One day, he came home and picked up the mail. He accidentally opened his wife’s bank statement, thinking it was a credit card bill.

To his surprise, he saw a bank balance of $180,000 in his wife’s name . He could not believe his eyes. He went to his wife to show her what he found. She snatched the statement out of his hands, while yelling, “Thats my money!”

He asked her where did she get this money and she stated that it came from the insurance policy she had from her previous husband.

He asked when did she come into this money and she told him that it came while she was pregnant with their first child.

He asked her when was she going to tell him about this money and she kept repeating, “Thats my money!”

He continued by saying, “You let me work 2 and three jobs and 7 days a week for years to get the money to buy this house?”

She yelled out, “You wanted to work those jobs.”

Still pissed off at her, he said, “You would let your children brave the cold without a boiler?”

She cried out, “That’s your job and that’s my money”

He made her sign over all that money to him, he repaired the boiler, finished the second floor, bought himself a new car and set up 4 investment accounts for his daughters future.

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80% of divorces are initiated by women and family courts will stop fathers getting custody to see their kids.
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How Stingy and Petty Women Can Be

When famed basketball player, Kobe Bryant and his 9 year old daughter died in a tragic helicopter crash, he left his wife with his $680 million estate.

5 years after his death, Kobe's parents were going through some hard times but the widow of Kobe refused to help them out.

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I now pronounce that October is "Dump Your Girlfriend Month"
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Women Will Almost Never Be Generous

Hetty Green, AKA The Witch of Wall Street, is the stingyest woman in the world according to The Guinness Book of World Records. Her net worth was estimated at more than $5.4 billion in 2024’s dollars.

Even though she was extremely rich, she married a millionaire. She lived on leftover cakes and broken biscuits from a nearby bakery.

Hetty caused her own son to have his leg amputated, as a result from spending time looking for a free clinic instead of paying a hospital bill.

She dìed in 1916 of a stroke at the age of 81 while arguing with her maid over a pay raise.

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If he wants traditional family and gender roles, he's a beta male, creep or "living in the 1950s".
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Adolf Hitler : 6 million Jews. Planned Parenthood : 68 million babies.
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