Her : I left him because he always did what I told him.
TheXYGhost : Why did you ask for what you didn't want?
TheXYGhost : Why did you ask for what you didn't want?
Monday, October 13, 2025
Sunday, October 12, 2025
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It’s never about her lacking acceptance, forgiveness, gratitude, or appreciation. He is always expected to do more for her.
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It’s never about her lacking acceptance, forgiveness, gratitude, or appreciation. He is always expected to do more for her.
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This May Be the Hardest Pill to Swallow
If you were raised by a single mother who filled your head with stories about how badly your father treated her, it may be time to reevaluate. She may have been attracted to that man, whether he was a substance abuser, violent, a con artist, a liar, a cheat, or a criminal. Or she may have exaggerated, lied, or provoked him until he snapped.
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He never cheated on his wife for 40 years. He asked my advice and 10 years later, he slept with over 300 women.
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Saturday, October 11, 2025
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She will never approach a man, because she does not want to look desperate. But when a man approaches her, she feels he’s desperate.
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She will never approach a man, because she does not want to look desperate. But when a man approaches her, she feels he’s desperate.
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Ask Her Qualifying Questions
Ask her about the man who loved her the most, and she will call him boring. She wanted entertainment, not stability.
Ask her about the man she loved the most, and she will say he was abusive and a cheater.
Make no mistake, women are often drawn to men who cheat or have the potential to cheat. If her man does not cheat, she may invent stories that he did. This victim narrative gains her sympathy and attracts other men who want to rescue her.
Ask her if she would have treated her first boyfriend better if she had known he would be the last man in her life. If she says yes, she admits she mistreated him.
Be cautious. Keep your distance or see her only as casual. She will likely never be satisfied.
Ask her about the man she loved the most, and she will say he was abusive and a cheater.
Make no mistake, women are often drawn to men who cheat or have the potential to cheat. If her man does not cheat, she may invent stories that he did. This victim narrative gains her sympathy and attracts other men who want to rescue her.
Ask her if she would have treated her first boyfriend better if she had known he would be the last man in her life. If she says yes, she admits she mistreated him.
Be cautious. Keep your distance or see her only as casual. She will likely never be satisfied.
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Her : My son needs a father.
TheXYGhost : Don't look at me, you divorced his father, not me.
TheXYGhost : Don't look at me, you divorced his father, not me.
Friday, October 10, 2025
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Her : Single women are happier than married women.
TheXYGhost : I pray you remain single for the rest of your life.
TheXYGhost : I pray you remain single for the rest of your life.
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Her : Single women are happier than married women.
TheXYGhost : I pray you remain single for the rest of your life.
TheXYGhost : I pray you remain single for the rest of your life.
Sperm Jacking Is Real
A hotel maid, while cleaning a suite, found a used condom in the trash. Knowing the occupant was wealthy, she took the contents and inserted them into herself. She became pregnant and sued the man for child support. With DNA results and her story, the courts ruled in her favor and awarded her a large sum.
Coaches warn new athletes to dispose of condoms immediately and properly after use.
What would happen if there were a law blocking any woman from collecting child support unless she was married to the father or if the DNA did not match?
And what should happen to the child and the wife if the child she gave birth to is not her husband’s?
Coaches warn new athletes to dispose of condoms immediately and properly after use.
What would happen if there were a law blocking any woman from collecting child support unless she was married to the father or if the DNA did not match?
And what should happen to the child and the wife if the child she gave birth to is not her husband’s?
Thursday, October 9, 2025
Have You Been Home Wrecked?
Home wrecking is when a woman deliberately sabotages a relationship for her own gain. She may call your girlfriend or wife and lie about your supposed infidelity. The sad truth is this tactic often works because many women will take another woman's word without investigation. They will react emotionally based on the shock of the accusation. Your partner may not even tell you about the anonymous call from this manipulative Jezebel.
Has your wife or girlfriend ever accused you of cheating out of nowhere?
Possible reasons for these sudden accusations:
1. She is angry at you for something you said or did at work or in your social circle.
2. She sees you as a great catch and wants you and your partner to break up so she can step in and console you.
3. Your girlfriend or wife angered her.
4. She is jealous and wants your relationship to fail because you have something she does not.
Has your wife or girlfriend ever accused you of cheating out of nowhere?
Possible reasons for these sudden accusations:
1. She is angry at you for something you said or did at work or in your social circle.
2. She sees you as a great catch and wants you and your partner to break up so she can step in and console you.
3. Your girlfriend or wife angered her.
4. She is jealous and wants your relationship to fail because you have something she does not.
Wednesday, October 8, 2025
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She tested him by accusing him of flirting with another woman. She made such a scene, he never called her back.
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She tested him by accusing him of flirting with another woman. She made such a scene, he never called her back.
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Summary of Today's Modern Woman
Today's woman wants a personal slave.
Provide me food.
Provide me shelter.
Provide me clothes.
Provide me protection.
Provide me attention.
Provide me compliments.
Provide me entertainment.
Provide me luxuries.
Provide me travel.
Provide me adventure.
Provide me drama.
Provide me jewelry.
Provide me happiness.
Provide me emotional care.
Make me feel special.
Make me feel comfortable.
Make me happy.
Commit to me on my terms, but I will never commit to you.
Love me and honor me, but I will never put in the effort to love you.
Love me.
Protect me.
Provide for me.
Praise me.
Fight for me even when I am wrong.
I will measure, question, and challenge your love for me, but you are never allowed to do the same.
Be taller than me.
Be stronger than me.
Be faster than me.
Be richer than me.
Be older than me.
Be nice when I demand it.
Never be too nice.
Be strong when I need strength.
Be sensitive when I want sensitivity.
Be my doctor.
Be my lawyer.
Be my therapist.
Pay my rent.
Pay my bills.
Pay me attention.
Pay me compliments.
And if you do all that, I owe you nothing. You cannot tell me anything.
Listen to my problems but do not solve them unless I present them in the way I want them solved.
Do not tell me your problems, I will see you as weak and lose respect for you.
I will use your words to shame and humiliate you in public.
Tiptoe around my insecurities from my past toxic men I chose over you.
If you have insecurities from your past, that is your fault. I will ignore them, mock them, and dismiss them.
I want a leader. Lead me only where I want to go. Lead me how I want to be led. Lead me when I want leadership. Never guide me where you want me to go. If you fail to lead me exactly as I demand, I will take control and leave you.
I will never forgive your mistakes, but you better forgive mine.
If I raise my status with degrees, income, or attention, you must raise yours too or I will leave.
I will only accept you if you are six feet tall or taller, if you make six figures or more, if you have six pack abs. You must accept me no matter how I look, how I act, or how much I make.
They say relationships are hard work, so you must work hard to understand me and make me happy.
I do not know what makes me happy, but you better find it.
I will not cook for you, provide me a chef and an assistant. I will not clean for you, provide me a maid.
If you give me more than any woman in history, it might still not be enough.
Work more.
Work better.
Work faster.
Work longer.
If you do everything I demand, you are weak.
If you do not, I do not want you.
If I lie, it is your fault for believing me.
If I swindle you, it is your fault for trusting me.
If I cheat, it is your fault for choosing me.
I will speak in hints and expect you to know exactly what I mean because communication is key.
I will never tell you what I want, but I will tell everyone you are not giving it to me.
I will find your weaknesses and exploit them. If you fall for my manipulation, you are too weak, so I will keep trying.
If I cheat, you must forgive me.
If I even imagine you cheated, I will destroy you, take everything, and keep your children from you.
Be better in bed than the hundred men before you.
Take care of me and my children from other men who failed me.
Give me everything I want because I am worth it.
I will insult, guilt, cry, manipulate, complain, and nag until you do what I want. I will never simply ask.
I am allowed to hit you, but if you touch me, I will have you arrested.
If you please me and my kids, I will still divorce you, take your home, your pension, your money, and more. You will pay child support for children I will withhold from you and alimony because I want it. This will prove I am independent and do not need a man.
I am the prize. Get on your knee and offer yourself to me. But others can still take me from you at any time.
I am not like other girls.
And remember, we are equal.
Provide me food.
Provide me shelter.
Provide me clothes.
Provide me protection.
Provide me attention.
Provide me compliments.
Provide me entertainment.
Provide me luxuries.
Provide me travel.
Provide me adventure.
Provide me drama.
Provide me jewelry.
Provide me happiness.
Provide me emotional care.
Make me feel special.
Make me feel comfortable.
Make me happy.
Commit to me on my terms, but I will never commit to you.
Love me and honor me, but I will never put in the effort to love you.
Love me.
Protect me.
Provide for me.
Praise me.
Fight for me even when I am wrong.
I will measure, question, and challenge your love for me, but you are never allowed to do the same.
Be taller than me.
Be stronger than me.
Be faster than me.
Be richer than me.
Be older than me.
Be nice when I demand it.
Never be too nice.
Be strong when I need strength.
Be sensitive when I want sensitivity.
Be my doctor.
Be my lawyer.
Be my therapist.
Pay my rent.
Pay my bills.
Pay me attention.
Pay me compliments.
And if you do all that, I owe you nothing. You cannot tell me anything.
Listen to my problems but do not solve them unless I present them in the way I want them solved.
Do not tell me your problems, I will see you as weak and lose respect for you.
I will use your words to shame and humiliate you in public.
Tiptoe around my insecurities from my past toxic men I chose over you.
If you have insecurities from your past, that is your fault. I will ignore them, mock them, and dismiss them.
I want a leader. Lead me only where I want to go. Lead me how I want to be led. Lead me when I want leadership. Never guide me where you want me to go. If you fail to lead me exactly as I demand, I will take control and leave you.
I will never forgive your mistakes, but you better forgive mine.
If I raise my status with degrees, income, or attention, you must raise yours too or I will leave.
I will only accept you if you are six feet tall or taller, if you make six figures or more, if you have six pack abs. You must accept me no matter how I look, how I act, or how much I make.
They say relationships are hard work, so you must work hard to understand me and make me happy.
I do not know what makes me happy, but you better find it.
I will not cook for you, provide me a chef and an assistant. I will not clean for you, provide me a maid.
If you give me more than any woman in history, it might still not be enough.
Work more.
Work better.
Work faster.
Work longer.
If you do everything I demand, you are weak.
If you do not, I do not want you.
If I lie, it is your fault for believing me.
If I swindle you, it is your fault for trusting me.
If I cheat, it is your fault for choosing me.
I will speak in hints and expect you to know exactly what I mean because communication is key.
I will never tell you what I want, but I will tell everyone you are not giving it to me.
I will find your weaknesses and exploit them. If you fall for my manipulation, you are too weak, so I will keep trying.
If I cheat, you must forgive me.
If I even imagine you cheated, I will destroy you, take everything, and keep your children from you.
Be better in bed than the hundred men before you.
Take care of me and my children from other men who failed me.
Give me everything I want because I am worth it.
I will insult, guilt, cry, manipulate, complain, and nag until you do what I want. I will never simply ask.
I am allowed to hit you, but if you touch me, I will have you arrested.
If you please me and my kids, I will still divorce you, take your home, your pension, your money, and more. You will pay child support for children I will withhold from you and alimony because I want it. This will prove I am independent and do not need a man.
I am the prize. Get on your knee and offer yourself to me. But others can still take me from you at any time.
I am not like other girls.
And remember, we are equal.
Tuesday, October 7, 2025
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Her : What do you mean by coffee date?
TheXYGhost : Do I look like a simp? How confused are you?
TheXYGhost : Do I look like a simp? How confused are you?
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Her : What do you mean by coffee date?
TheXYGhost : Do I look like a simp? How confused are you?
TheXYGhost : Do I look like a simp? How confused are you?
On Her Level
Most modern women want a man on her self-defined level or higher. This level is vague, subjective, and changes from woman to woman, but it almost always comes down to his income, status, height, and looks.
For the sake of this point, say she rates herself as a level 5. She will demand a man who is a 6 or higher, factoring in whatever components she decides matter at the moment.
The very fact that she seeks a man on a higher level is a red flag, and here is why:
1. What happens if she raises herself to a 7 in her mind and decides he is still the same? In her eyes, he is falling behind.
2. What happens when time passes and she decides his level is now lower than hers?
3. What if his level rises to a 10 or 12 while she drops to a 3 or 4?
4. Do you think she will stay if she believes she is above him?
5. Do you think her self-assessment is inflated?
6. Do you think her assessment of your value is accurate?
Regardless of her perception, you will still be expected to pay all the bills, open her doors, and kiss her feet while she saves her money for herself. You will be her personal servant, expected to fight and die for her, while she sees it as beneath her to even get you a glass of water.
Women like this say things like, "He needs to keep up with me" and "I might give him a chance." Imagine a woman thinking she is offering you the privilege of becoming her servant.
The truth is she is not looking for a man to love, honor, or respect. She is looking for a man to raise her status and income while looking down on him as her provider and protector. A man should never provide for or protect someone who uses him. A man should provide for and protect only those who respect him.
For the sake of this point, say she rates herself as a level 5. She will demand a man who is a 6 or higher, factoring in whatever components she decides matter at the moment.
The very fact that she seeks a man on a higher level is a red flag, and here is why:
1. What happens if she raises herself to a 7 in her mind and decides he is still the same? In her eyes, he is falling behind.
2. What happens when time passes and she decides his level is now lower than hers?
3. What if his level rises to a 10 or 12 while she drops to a 3 or 4?
4. Do you think she will stay if she believes she is above him?
5. Do you think her self-assessment is inflated?
6. Do you think her assessment of your value is accurate?
Regardless of her perception, you will still be expected to pay all the bills, open her doors, and kiss her feet while she saves her money for herself. You will be her personal servant, expected to fight and die for her, while she sees it as beneath her to even get you a glass of water.
Women like this say things like, "He needs to keep up with me" and "I might give him a chance." Imagine a woman thinking she is offering you the privilege of becoming her servant.
The truth is she is not looking for a man to love, honor, or respect. She is looking for a man to raise her status and income while looking down on him as her provider and protector. A man should never provide for or protect someone who uses him. A man should provide for and protect only those who respect him.
Monday, October 6, 2025
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She married a man after her boyfriend was sent to prisonn. Once he was paroled, she divorced her husband, and left her kids to be with her true love.
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She married a man after her boyfriend was sent to prisonn. Once he was paroled, she divorced her husband, and left her kids to be with her true love.
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They Never Stop Looking for Their Provider #2
I have been writing these articles since I was 42. Now at 61, I see the pattern clearly. When a woman starts talking about having a companion, she is often hinting that you should consider her for that role. Women speak in hints, and this is one of their favorites.
For most of my life, my female friends were married, had children with the same man, and had never been divorced. I believed they were devoted to their husbands and families. I made it a point to know their husbands personally.
Recently I have noticed that some of these same women, now my age, approach me when their husbands become sick or retire. They start by pushing the idea that I need a companion. Later I learn their husbands are either in the hospital or no longer working.
One woman even cried to me, “How can I travel to Europe to see my family if my husband retires? Does he only think about himself?”
The real meaning behind that is, “How dare he stop working after 40 years without asking me” or “How dare my provider stop providing for me.”
I am not anyone’s Prince Charming, but I have been single for 25 years and have made enough money to support a wife and family. To some women, that alone qualifies me as a potential provider.
But I will not be mom’s boyfriend. I will not be grandma’s boyfriend.
For most of my life, my female friends were married, had children with the same man, and had never been divorced. I believed they were devoted to their husbands and families. I made it a point to know their husbands personally.
Recently I have noticed that some of these same women, now my age, approach me when their husbands become sick or retire. They start by pushing the idea that I need a companion. Later I learn their husbands are either in the hospital or no longer working.
One woman even cried to me, “How can I travel to Europe to see my family if my husband retires? Does he only think about himself?”
The real meaning behind that is, “How dare he stop working after 40 years without asking me” or “How dare my provider stop providing for me.”
I am not anyone’s Prince Charming, but I have been single for 25 years and have made enough money to support a wife and family. To some women, that alone qualifies me as a potential provider.
But I will not be mom’s boyfriend. I will not be grandma’s boyfriend.
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Her : I divorced him because it was not meant to be.
TheXYGhost : Next time marry one that is meant to be.
TheXYGhost : Next time marry one that is meant to be.
Sunday, October 5, 2025
They Never Stop Looking for Their Provider #1
A female friend I had known for 21 years called out of the blue to have coffee. We had not seen each other since the pandemic. I was 60, she was 63, her husband was 72. We had worked together in various ways over the years. I had met her husband a few times. We even ran into each other in the Hamptons one summer. Her husband owned a shipping company. We got along fine.
She and I used to talk on the phone about news and movies. I was comfortable with her because she had been with her husband since she was 16.
We met at a bagel deli in Manhattan. We hugged, exchanged pleasantries, asked about each other’s families. She said everyone was fine.
After about 30 minutes she asked, “Why are you still single?”
I thought she knew, but I said it anyway. “I am not going through that again. Women hate men.”
She replied with the standard line, “You just picked the wrong women.”
I told her, “I picked the wrong women. My neighbors picked the wrong women. My family picked the wrong women. My friends, classmates, coworkers, all picked the wrong women. Everyone is picking the wrong women, but the women are never wrong for their actions. Besides, I do not have the money, knowledge, energy, patience, or time to make a woman happy.”
She snickered. “Don’t be silly. You need to open your mind. I heard you are doing well for yourself. It is not hard to make a woman happy.”
I snapped. “I will not provide for and protect another woman who has backstabbed all of her previous men, only to backstab me for doing the same. I will not be used again.”
She smiled. “I’m sure you will find someone you fall in love with. It’s just a matter of time.”
My anger grew. I told her, “I have loved many women and been betrayed every time. I want a woman to pick me because I am the right one. I want her to love me. I want her to reach into her pockets and buy me a car, a watch, and a dinner or two. What woman, with no history of loyalty or respect, should I devote my life and earnings to protect? All I am offered now is a position of servitude as mom’s boyfriend or grandma’s boyfriend. I will not provide for another man’s wife or raise another man’s child.”
She brushed it off. “That’s dumb. You’re paranoid. Not all women are out to get you. You need a loving woman beside you.”
I wondered why she was pushing so hard. I told her bluntly, “Let’s get off the subject. I don’t want to talk about it. If we keep talking about this, I will leave. I don’t want to offend you, but if you continue, I will have no choice.”
She got the message. We changed the subject for about 10 minutes. Then she checked her watch, said she had to go. I walked her to her building, gave her a hug and a kiss on the cheek, and apologized for my tone.
Three weeks later, she called me crying. Her husband was in the hospital and might not make it. I tried to console her. She said he had pancreatic cancer and may not have long. Then she told me he had been admitted to the hospital about a month ago.
In case you missed it, here is the timeline: her husband went into the hospital. Three weeks later she met me, told me everyone was fine, then tried to sell me on getting a companion. One week later she called with the news.
She never realized what she had admitted. That was months ago. I am sure her husband has passed. She has not called me about it since. While he was in the hospital, she was hunting for her next provider. Maybe she found him.
She and I used to talk on the phone about news and movies. I was comfortable with her because she had been with her husband since she was 16.
We met at a bagel deli in Manhattan. We hugged, exchanged pleasantries, asked about each other’s families. She said everyone was fine.
After about 30 minutes she asked, “Why are you still single?”
I thought she knew, but I said it anyway. “I am not going through that again. Women hate men.”
She replied with the standard line, “You just picked the wrong women.”
I told her, “I picked the wrong women. My neighbors picked the wrong women. My family picked the wrong women. My friends, classmates, coworkers, all picked the wrong women. Everyone is picking the wrong women, but the women are never wrong for their actions. Besides, I do not have the money, knowledge, energy, patience, or time to make a woman happy.”
She snickered. “Don’t be silly. You need to open your mind. I heard you are doing well for yourself. It is not hard to make a woman happy.”
I snapped. “I will not provide for and protect another woman who has backstabbed all of her previous men, only to backstab me for doing the same. I will not be used again.”
She smiled. “I’m sure you will find someone you fall in love with. It’s just a matter of time.”
My anger grew. I told her, “I have loved many women and been betrayed every time. I want a woman to pick me because I am the right one. I want her to love me. I want her to reach into her pockets and buy me a car, a watch, and a dinner or two. What woman, with no history of loyalty or respect, should I devote my life and earnings to protect? All I am offered now is a position of servitude as mom’s boyfriend or grandma’s boyfriend. I will not provide for another man’s wife or raise another man’s child.”
She brushed it off. “That’s dumb. You’re paranoid. Not all women are out to get you. You need a loving woman beside you.”
I wondered why she was pushing so hard. I told her bluntly, “Let’s get off the subject. I don’t want to talk about it. If we keep talking about this, I will leave. I don’t want to offend you, but if you continue, I will have no choice.”
She got the message. We changed the subject for about 10 minutes. Then she checked her watch, said she had to go. I walked her to her building, gave her a hug and a kiss on the cheek, and apologized for my tone.
Three weeks later, she called me crying. Her husband was in the hospital and might not make it. I tried to console her. She said he had pancreatic cancer and may not have long. Then she told me he had been admitted to the hospital about a month ago.
In case you missed it, here is the timeline: her husband went into the hospital. Three weeks later she met me, told me everyone was fine, then tried to sell me on getting a companion. One week later she called with the news.
She never realized what she had admitted. That was months ago. I am sure her husband has passed. She has not called me about it since. While he was in the hospital, she was hunting for her next provider. Maybe she found him.
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A female who has had an abortion, won't think twice about exterminating your life in any way possible.
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Saturday, October 4, 2025
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She pretended to lose interest, hoping he’d fight harder for her. Instead, he saw that she wasn’t invested and walked away without looking back.
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She pretended to lose interest, hoping he’d fight harder for her. Instead, he saw that she wasn’t invested and walked away without looking back.
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She Obeys Her Enemies
Therapy is code for a dependency on others to think and analyze for her.
What most people do not understand is that women are dependent on others for almost everything they do. They consult psychics, therapists, astrologers, and their female friends, who often guide them to fail because they do not want their friends to rise above them in status.
The modern woman obeys and submits to astrologers, psychics, therapists, jealous girlfriends, lawyers, psychiatrists, and doctors who prescribe harmful mood-altering drugs. Yet she is combative toward the man who professes his love for her, using shaming tactics, insults, humiliation, guilt trips, nagging, and constant arguments.
In short, she obeys everyone who profits from her loss while spitting on the man who loves her.
What most people do not understand is that women are dependent on others for almost everything they do. They consult psychics, therapists, astrologers, and their female friends, who often guide them to fail because they do not want their friends to rise above them in status.
The modern woman obeys and submits to astrologers, psychics, therapists, jealous girlfriends, lawyers, psychiatrists, and doctors who prescribe harmful mood-altering drugs. Yet she is combative toward the man who professes his love for her, using shaming tactics, insults, humiliation, guilt trips, nagging, and constant arguments.
In short, she obeys everyone who profits from her loss while spitting on the man who loves her.
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She aborted his child because her husband didn't do what she told him to do.
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Friday, October 3, 2025
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She tested him by flirting with other men on their first date. He saw it as disrespectful and walked away. She laughed and said, “He couldn’t handle me.
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She tested him by flirting with other men on their first date. He saw it as disrespectful and walked away. She laughed and said, “He couldn’t handle me.
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But That's My Money
My childhood friend married a widowed mother. Her first husband died while working as a maintenance worker on the Verrazzano-Narrows Bridge in New York City. My friend vowed to provide for and protect her and her daughter.
They later had three more daughters. The apartment was too small, so he started working nights and weekends, seven days a week, to save for a down payment on a house. This went on for two years.
He finally bought a small home built in 1957. It was modest but bigger than the apartment. He promised to add a second floor so all four daughters could have their own rooms.
He worked as a bouncer on the side and sometimes drove a limousine. Many nights he slept in my living room because he was too exhausted to drive home. I often packed food for him since I was single and cooked in large portions.
He hired an architect and took an apprentice job as a carpenter to make the expansion happen. By September, the second floor was finished after years of planning. Halloween came and went. Thanksgiving was in the new house. Then came Christmas.
With little money left, he still bought a Christmas tree, decorations, and presents for the whole family. Just before New Year’s, the boiler broke. He told the family they would have to brave the cold with blankets and space heaters until they could fix it.
One day, he picked up the mail and accidentally opened his wife’s bank statement, thinking it was a credit card bill. The balance was $180,000. Shocked, he showed her. She snatched it from his hands and shouted, “That’s my money!”
When he asked where it came from, she said it was from her late husband’s insurance policy. He asked when she got it. She said while she was pregnant with their first child.
He asked when she was going to tell him. She kept repeating, “That’s my money.”
He reminded her he had worked two and three jobs, seven days a week, for years to buy the house. She snapped, “You wanted to work those jobs.”
He asked if she would have let the kids freeze without a boiler. She replied, “That’s your job, and that’s my money.”
He made her sign over the money. He repaired the boiler, completed the second floor, bought a new car, and opened four investment accounts for his daughters’ futures.
They later had three more daughters. The apartment was too small, so he started working nights and weekends, seven days a week, to save for a down payment on a house. This went on for two years.
He finally bought a small home built in 1957. It was modest but bigger than the apartment. He promised to add a second floor so all four daughters could have their own rooms.
He worked as a bouncer on the side and sometimes drove a limousine. Many nights he slept in my living room because he was too exhausted to drive home. I often packed food for him since I was single and cooked in large portions.
He hired an architect and took an apprentice job as a carpenter to make the expansion happen. By September, the second floor was finished after years of planning. Halloween came and went. Thanksgiving was in the new house. Then came Christmas.
With little money left, he still bought a Christmas tree, decorations, and presents for the whole family. Just before New Year’s, the boiler broke. He told the family they would have to brave the cold with blankets and space heaters until they could fix it.
One day, he picked up the mail and accidentally opened his wife’s bank statement, thinking it was a credit card bill. The balance was $180,000. Shocked, he showed her. She snatched it from his hands and shouted, “That’s my money!”
When he asked where it came from, she said it was from her late husband’s insurance policy. He asked when she got it. She said while she was pregnant with their first child.
He asked when she was going to tell him. She kept repeating, “That’s my money.”
He reminded her he had worked two and three jobs, seven days a week, for years to buy the house. She snapped, “You wanted to work those jobs.”
He asked if she would have let the kids freeze without a boiler. She replied, “That’s your job, and that’s my money.”
He made her sign over the money. He repaired the boiler, completed the second floor, bought a new car, and opened four investment accounts for his daughters’ futures.
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Australia's female soccer team (ranked 5th in the world) was beaten 7-0 by a team of boys, all under 15 years old.
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Thursday, October 2, 2025
How Stingy and Petty Women Can Be
When Kobe Bryant and his nine-year-old daughter died in a helicopter crash, he left his wife a $680 million estate.
Five years later, Kobe’s parents were struggling financially. His widow refused to help them.
Five years later, Kobe’s parents were struggling financially. His widow refused to help them.
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80% of divorces are initiated by women and family courts will stop fathers getting custody to see their kids.
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Wednesday, October 1, 2025
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A real man won’t sit there and watch his woman struggle to pay her bills. He will breakup with her and get with a woman that is worth something.
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A real man won’t sit there and watch his woman struggle to pay her bills. He will breakup with her and get with a woman that is worth something.
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Women Will Almost Never Be Generous
Hetty Green, known as The Witch of Wall Street, is listed in the Guinness Book of World Records as the stingiest woman in history. Her net worth in today’s dollars was over $5.4 billion.
Despite her extreme wealth, she married a millionaire and lived on leftover cakes and broken biscuits from a nearby bakery.
She caused her own son to lose his leg because she wasted time looking for a free clinic instead of paying a hospital bill.
She died in 1916 at the age of 81 from a stroke while arguing with her maid over a pay raise.
Despite her extreme wealth, she married a millionaire and lived on leftover cakes and broken biscuits from a nearby bakery.
She caused her own son to lose his leg because she wasted time looking for a free clinic instead of paying a hospital bill.
She died in 1916 at the age of 81 from a stroke while arguing with her maid over a pay raise.
Tuesday, September 30, 2025
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