Back in 2001, I met a man whose wife just walked out on him only days before. The man, Chris, worked as a food & beverage manager at a hotel in NYC. Chris lived in a 3 family house where his 81 year old mother lived alone in one apartment while Chris lived with his wife and 2 sons in another. The third apartment was rented out to another family.
Chris was heartbroken and cried often after his wife left. He ended up blaming himself for his wife's actions. She blamed him too. I met up with him every evening after work to help him through the troubles he was experiencing. He was hurt over his wife's departure. She took money and the kids. Later on, he was awarded 50/50 custody with his kids and they stayed over just about every weekend because the mother found a weekend job. The court said she couldn't take the home because it was in his mom's name. But she tried to take it.
His wife laughed at him, and told him she was going to find a better man than him. She teased and taunted him for years afterwards. She said that he will never change and that she left because he never loved her.
Chris told me there was a time when his wife nearly died after giving birth. He stood by her side non-stop for days without leaving the hospital for even a minute. He told me that he did everything in his power to be the best husband he knew how. He asked over and over again, "How could she do this to him after all that he'd done for her?"
The ex-wife found a new husband to marry. She rubbed it in Chris' face every chance she could but it had less effect on him the longer they were divorced. That only lasted 8 months as she took the new husband's money and left.
Years went by and Chris sold the house after his mom passed. He bought a very nice condominium and lived with his two sons and new girlfriend. His boys are both in college now.
Chris called me today, 17 years after we first met to tell me that he ran into his ex-wife. He told me how she hung her head in shame as the two passed each other on the street. He later found out through friends of his ex-wife's family that his ex-wife stole money from her second husband and moved to Florida. She spent all that money and she moved into a trailer park. Later, she was unable to afford the trailer park and moved back to NYC to move into a woman's homeless shelter.
Chris thanked me for helping him out in the beginning and to tell me that I was right in saying that she will get hers in the end.
Sunday, April 6, 2025
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A relationship between a man and a woman begins to break down when the women wants the man to manage her emotions.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Saturday, April 5, 2025
TheXYGhost II 096
How much money have you wasted in lawyer's fees, legal costs, court fees and time off work just to see your kids 4 days a month while another man tucks in your children at night?
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Cheating Defined (By Her)
To a woman, the definition of cheating is so damn broad that it encompasses just about anything from the innocuous conversation with a female co-worker to a glance of another girl on the street. And why not? If she finds a reason to leave him for another, it clears her conscious, whether her accusations are real or imaginary. If that is a reason for divorce, she winds up with half the man's holdings.
Friday, April 4, 2025
TheXYGhost II 095
You want a man to help raise your ex-husband's kids. What kind of man would you even consider for raising your son's kids?
Wake Up Men
If you pay a female for sex you get and make a whore. I'm not embarrassed at being treated like a king. Kings should be treated with respect. Men will risk their lives for their women and women will never reciprocate on that level. If a woman wants someone to protect them with their lives, there is a cost for that. Women need to pay always. Money or payment for sex is prostitution, while it legal to pay a body guard. I'm not looking the 93% that want to prostitute themselves. I'm looking for the rare 7%. Diamonds are rare. I want rare not whats common.
Women: do you want a king or a servant?
Women: do you want a king or a servant?
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Her : Give me your time. Pay me unlimited attention. Love me unconditionally until I betray you when I find a man that has more to offer than you.
TheXYGhost : I think not.
TheXYGhost : I think not.
Thursday, April 3, 2025
TheXYGhost II 094
Do you want to be the father of another man's children while yet another man tucks your kids to bed at night?
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
The Love Women Used to Have for Their Husbands
This morning I saw my neighbor pushing his wife in a wheelchair to get some air and have a bit of lunch. For more than 30 years I have watched and counted men pushing wives in wheelchairs and I only ever seen 1 woman push her husband in a wheelchair.
Back in 1990 I met a woman that bathed, fed and clothed her ailing husband until the day he died. She was 81 and still caring for the man that she loved since they married in their early teens.
When I hear women give the excuse "We married too young" as their personal excuse for divorcing, I think about this woman. When I see women divorcing the day their husband loses a job, I get sick to my stomach.
What benefits do men have getting married these days?
Back in 1990 I met a woman that bathed, fed and clothed her ailing husband until the day he died. She was 81 and still caring for the man that she loved since they married in their early teens.
When I hear women give the excuse "We married too young" as their personal excuse for divorcing, I think about this woman. When I see women divorcing the day their husband loses a job, I get sick to my stomach.
What benefits do men have getting married these days?
Wednesday, April 2, 2025
TheXYGhost II 093
Did you know all your mother's boyfriend's names and never knew your father?
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
She Was Happy With Her Divorce Settlement Until...
I remember talking to this girl when, out of the blue, she proudly professed that she was recently divorced. When I asked her why did she divorced her husband, she first thanked me for assuming that she divorced him rather than the other way around. Then she said, "He was a jerk but I married him for the money. But the next time I marry, it will be for love."
I then asked her how long was she married and how much money she get from the divorce. She answered with all the pride she could muster and told me she was married for 3 years and she received $20,000.
I congratulated her on her victory and pointed out that her $20,000 for 3 years was just slightly under $7,000 per year. I further pointed out that a full time position at a fast food establishment would have earned her the same amount in a year and after 3 years she could prove her worth and become a manager and earn more.
Her face changed when I was done. I then asked her, "How many successful relationship have you been a part of?"
Her answer was an inquisitive, "Many."
"Then I wish you many more.", as I excused myself and walked away.
I then asked her how long was she married and how much money she get from the divorce. She answered with all the pride she could muster and told me she was married for 3 years and she received $20,000.
I congratulated her on her victory and pointed out that her $20,000 for 3 years was just slightly under $7,000 per year. I further pointed out that a full time position at a fast food establishment would have earned her the same amount in a year and after 3 years she could prove her worth and become a manager and earn more.
Her face changed when I was done. I then asked her, "How many successful relationship have you been a part of?"
Her answer was an inquisitive, "Many."
"Then I wish you many more.", as I excused myself and walked away.
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Do you really think that you have the power, energy, knowledge, time and patience to make an insecure entity secure? Think again.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Tuesday, April 1, 2025
Beware of a Woman That Loves You
In NYC the rents are unbelievably high unless you have a Rent Controlled apartment that froze your rent from the 1970's. (Rent Stabilized apartments are different) A friend of mine was born in the 1970's and lived in the same apartment until 2009. He invited his girlfriend to move in after knowing her for only a few months. She then called the police and filed false charges of domestic abuse on him. She filed an order of protection on him and had him kicked out of the apartment he was born in. Now with rents in New York City upwards of $3,000 a month for a 1 bedroom apartment, this girl lives with her sister and her niece for $430 a month. The man lost his job, career, apartment, all of his possessions and had to live in a homeless shelter while attending anger management classes before he could leave the state and move in to his brother's home in Pennsylvania.
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Today, tell a girl that she looks good today...
Then tell her, "April Fools"
TheXYGhost
Then tell her, "April Fools"
TheXYGhost
Monday, March 31, 2025
TheXYGhost II 091
How many of your children were killed at the hands of a woman? (Abortion or otherwise)
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
To the women of Germany, America, Canada, the UK, New Zealand and Australia:
- You have screamed and cried "Feminism" at the top of your lungs to no end professing your equality to men.
- You exclaimed with pride that you have no need for men. As I recall, you have said that you need a man like a fish needs a bicycle.
- You have lied and manipulated men to do your will to no end.
- You have beaten men, lied and placed false charges on men for rape, domestic abuse, and child abuse.
- You have sued men into poverty when it was convenient for you without provocation for your own personal gain when you proclaimed that man was imperfect for your immediate needs.
- You have taken kids from men, by manipulating a court system.
- You have laughed at men that had their penis severed from their body while these men were helpless and asleep.
- You gave the women that committed this sexual mutilation standing ovations.
- You have aborted our children because we were not perfect enough for you in every way that you fantasized or that a pregnancy was not convenient to your lifestyle.
- You celebrated the victory of Roe vs. Wade because you think you were born with the right to kill a child (you call it aborting a fetus because you hate the truth and the truth hurts so much) and 44 years later you have killed 52,000,000 children in the United States alone. More than any one standing army ever killed. How victorious you must feel now that you know it was your choice!
- You kidnapped countless unborn children from one man and found another man naive enough to believe that child is his to raise.
- You have lived off the blood, sweat and tears of many men only to leave them when times were just a bit too hard for you.
- You have complained about wage gaps but you won't take dangerous jobs and overtime is always a problem for you. Yet somehow you complained when your man takes those extra hours to provide for you and his family.
- You take and never give.
- You worship gangsters, thugs, criminals, rapists, murderers and serial killers and piss on the hardworking man that is the backbone of any moral civilization.
- You take pride in taking government handouts like food stamps, government subsidized housing, free medical care, schooling and welfare, as you denounce the patriarchy that pays for all that you take
- You teach your kids to be the gangsters, thugs, criminals, rapists, murderers and serial killers that you adore and the jails and prisons are full of the product of your upbringing. Our kids are in jail because you kept them from men as you teach them to be the criminals you adore.
- You walk the streets with your banners in your hand, mocking the men that protected you all your lives.
- You raise your fists in solidarity, burn your bra and claim that you are a feminists, that you hate the patriarchy and are liberated from the tyranny of men.
Now the Islamic migrants that you petitioned the government to allow access to your countries are flooding in. They are beating, raping women like no tomorrow. Now you need our help. What's wrong, are you not equal enough to protect yourselves and others the way men have selflessly done for millennia before the feminist movement?
Who is going to save you now from the barbarians you yourself petitioned to allow in your countries? Now you want us to risk our lives for you? What have you don for us lately?
- You exclaimed with pride that you have no need for men. As I recall, you have said that you need a man like a fish needs a bicycle.
- You have lied and manipulated men to do your will to no end.
- You have beaten men, lied and placed false charges on men for rape, domestic abuse, and child abuse.
- You have sued men into poverty when it was convenient for you without provocation for your own personal gain when you proclaimed that man was imperfect for your immediate needs.
- You have taken kids from men, by manipulating a court system.
- You have laughed at men that had their penis severed from their body while these men were helpless and asleep.
- You gave the women that committed this sexual mutilation standing ovations.
- You have aborted our children because we were not perfect enough for you in every way that you fantasized or that a pregnancy was not convenient to your lifestyle.
- You celebrated the victory of Roe vs. Wade because you think you were born with the right to kill a child (you call it aborting a fetus because you hate the truth and the truth hurts so much) and 44 years later you have killed 52,000,000 children in the United States alone. More than any one standing army ever killed. How victorious you must feel now that you know it was your choice!
- You kidnapped countless unborn children from one man and found another man naive enough to believe that child is his to raise.
- You have lived off the blood, sweat and tears of many men only to leave them when times were just a bit too hard for you.
- You have complained about wage gaps but you won't take dangerous jobs and overtime is always a problem for you. Yet somehow you complained when your man takes those extra hours to provide for you and his family.
- You take and never give.
- You worship gangsters, thugs, criminals, rapists, murderers and serial killers and piss on the hardworking man that is the backbone of any moral civilization.
- You take pride in taking government handouts like food stamps, government subsidized housing, free medical care, schooling and welfare, as you denounce the patriarchy that pays for all that you take
- You teach your kids to be the gangsters, thugs, criminals, rapists, murderers and serial killers that you adore and the jails and prisons are full of the product of your upbringing. Our kids are in jail because you kept them from men as you teach them to be the criminals you adore.
- You walk the streets with your banners in your hand, mocking the men that protected you all your lives.
- You raise your fists in solidarity, burn your bra and claim that you are a feminists, that you hate the patriarchy and are liberated from the tyranny of men.
Now the Islamic migrants that you petitioned the government to allow access to your countries are flooding in. They are beating, raping women like no tomorrow. Now you need our help. What's wrong, are you not equal enough to protect yourselves and others the way men have selflessly done for millennia before the feminist movement?
Who is going to save you now from the barbarians you yourself petitioned to allow in your countries? Now you want us to risk our lives for you? What have you don for us lately?
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Her : I need a High Value Man.
TheXYGhost : How much money must a man have before you will love him?
TheXYGhost : How much money must a man have before you will love him?
Sunday, March 30, 2025
She Thinks it's Your Job to Make Her Happy
I once asked a girl why she broke up with her boyfriend. Her answer was a sharp, "Because he didn't make me happy."
I then asked her what makes her happy. Her reply was, "I don't know".
So I continued by saying, "You do not know what makes you happy but its up to the man you partner with to find out so he can make you happy?"
Her reply was simply, "Yes"
I then asked her what makes her happy. Her reply was, "I don't know".
So I continued by saying, "You do not know what makes you happy but its up to the man you partner with to find out so he can make you happy?"
Her reply was simply, "Yes"
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You get hit on by 100 men a week but you married an inmate that you met while visiting your cousin in prison.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Saturday, March 29, 2025
Men Work in Teams Women Fight
Every sport known in history has proven without a shadow of a doubt that men can and will work as a team. If that's not enough proof for you, lets look at the longest lasting bands.
The Rolling Stones: 1962 - Present. The Moody Blues: 1966 - Present. ZZ Top: 1969 - Present. Rush: 1968 - Present. Golden Earring: 1961 - Present. The Eagles: 1971 - Present. Aerosmith: 1971 - Present. U2: 1976 - Present.
Also Queen, The Who and many all male bands stick together. Banana Rama, The Spice Girls, The Go-Go's, TLC, The Bengals and Destiny's Child all squabbled and broke up.
Cops, judges and Social Justice Warriors still think that men are the problem.
The Rolling Stones: 1962 - Present. The Moody Blues: 1966 - Present. ZZ Top: 1969 - Present. Rush: 1968 - Present. Golden Earring: 1961 - Present. The Eagles: 1971 - Present. Aerosmith: 1971 - Present. U2: 1976 - Present.
Also Queen, The Who and many all male bands stick together. Banana Rama, The Spice Girls, The Go-Go's, TLC, The Bengals and Destiny's Child all squabbled and broke up.
Cops, judges and Social Justice Warriors still think that men are the problem.
Friday, March 28, 2025
TheXYGhost II 088
Her : Why can't you make more money like our neighbor?
TheXYGhost : Why can't you look like his wife?
TheXYGhost : Why can't you look like his wife?
Beware of Dating Single Mothers
I say, "Never Ever Ever Under Any Circumstances Date A Single-Mother No Matter What"
Give me a reason and I'll add it to the list.
1) You run a risk of being accused of sexual child abuse
2) In some countries you would be liable for child support of children that are not yours.
3) There desperate for someone to get resources from, hence they'll pick anyone.
4) You'll become the newest babysitter and YOUR social life will vanish
5) If she can not love or forgive the most important man in her child's life what chance do you have?
6) Between her career, time with her kids, with her family and the kids' father, she will have no time for you other than to do chores for her.
7) Would you want another man in your child's life if you were ejected from the family?
Her ex might still be in the picture. It's very likely he will be a large part of her life for at least the next 18 years
9) When you correct the wrong the child is doing, you get, "You're not my father" in return
10) When you reprimand that child, you run the risk of the child telling its biker gang father that you hit them and the father retaliating.
11) I have heard many girls of my past talk about having an affair with their stepdad. Most were not true but how would you like to be accused of statutory rape all because of a girl's fantasy mistaken for reality?
Give me a reason and I'll add it to the list.
1) You run a risk of being accused of sexual child abuse
2) In some countries you would be liable for child support of children that are not yours.
3) There desperate for someone to get resources from, hence they'll pick anyone.
4) You'll become the newest babysitter and YOUR social life will vanish
5) If she can not love or forgive the most important man in her child's life what chance do you have?
6) Between her career, time with her kids, with her family and the kids' father, she will have no time for you other than to do chores for her.
7) Would you want another man in your child's life if you were ejected from the family?
Her ex might still be in the picture. It's very likely he will be a large part of her life for at least the next 18 years
9) When you correct the wrong the child is doing, you get, "You're not my father" in return
10) When you reprimand that child, you run the risk of the child telling its biker gang father that you hit them and the father retaliating.
11) I have heard many girls of my past talk about having an affair with their stepdad. Most were not true but how would you like to be accused of statutory rape all because of a girl's fantasy mistaken for reality?
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Do you think it is possible for a woman to love a man without knowing his financial status?
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Thursday, March 27, 2025
TheXYGhost II 087
Her : My husband and I never share any quality time together.
TheXYGhost : Maybe you are just not a quality person.
TheXYGhost : Maybe you are just not a quality person.
Rules For Younger Men
1 - Never date a single mother or divorced women.
2 - Never spend money on women.
3 - Never lend money to women.
4 - Never give women access to your money.
5 - Never tell women how much money you make.
6 - Never tell woman your secrets, your full name or where you live.
7 - Never financially obligate yourself. (marry) to an entity whose prerogative is to change her mind and profit from you.
8 - Never pay women's bills.
9 - Never co-sign women's credit cards or loans.
10 - Never get involved with female co-workers.
11 - Never get involved with illegal immigrants that need a green card.(Marriage Fraud).
12 - Never get involved with long distance women. (mail order brides)
13 - Never let women move in with you.
14 - Never underestimate how devastating women can be.
15 - Never take care of another man's child.
16 - Never fight over women.
17 - Never fight women's battles.
18 - Never give up hobbies & friends for girlfriends or wives.
19 - Never put women's needs before your needs.
20 - Never teach women how to be as strong as you.
21 - Never date women who has a bad or no relationship with her father.
22 - Never rescue women from a violent boyfriend.
23 - Always remember that women will cheat on you at any time and they are better at hiding it than you think..
24 - Always get a DNA test before you sign a birth certificate.
25 - Always make Women feel as if you can snap any minute.
26 - Always criticize her appearance.
27 - Always let women know how displeased you are with her.
28 - Always let women know how replaceable she is to you.
29 - A woman will always want you to go above and beyond to meet her very high standards yet she will never do that for you.
30 - If she asks your occupation, she is a gold digger.
31 - If she uses sex as a bargaining tool, you are in trouble.
32 - If she has a complaint about you in any way, tell her to find a perfect man and show her the door.
33 - Past performance does not guarantee future results.
34 - Her ultimatum is your cue to leave her.
35 - "Provider" and "Chivalry" means you are a slave and a servant to her.
36 - Above All, Stay away from feminists!
Remember, a woman wants you to commit to her and love her exclusively, she will never love or commit to you. A woman will always want you to go above and beyond to meet her very high standards yet she will never do that for you. She wants a man that will protect her with his life and she wants him to worship her for that chance to die trying to save her when she deliberately places herself in harms way.
2 - Never spend money on women.
3 - Never lend money to women.
4 - Never give women access to your money.
5 - Never tell women how much money you make.
6 - Never tell woman your secrets, your full name or where you live.
7 - Never financially obligate yourself. (marry) to an entity whose prerogative is to change her mind and profit from you.
8 - Never pay women's bills.
9 - Never co-sign women's credit cards or loans.
10 - Never get involved with female co-workers.
11 - Never get involved with illegal immigrants that need a green card.(Marriage Fraud).
12 - Never get involved with long distance women. (mail order brides)
13 - Never let women move in with you.
14 - Never underestimate how devastating women can be.
15 - Never take care of another man's child.
16 - Never fight over women.
17 - Never fight women's battles.
18 - Never give up hobbies & friends for girlfriends or wives.
19 - Never put women's needs before your needs.
20 - Never teach women how to be as strong as you.
21 - Never date women who has a bad or no relationship with her father.
22 - Never rescue women from a violent boyfriend.
23 - Always remember that women will cheat on you at any time and they are better at hiding it than you think..
24 - Always get a DNA test before you sign a birth certificate.
25 - Always make Women feel as if you can snap any minute.
26 - Always criticize her appearance.
27 - Always let women know how displeased you are with her.
28 - Always let women know how replaceable she is to you.
29 - A woman will always want you to go above and beyond to meet her very high standards yet she will never do that for you.
30 - If she asks your occupation, she is a gold digger.
31 - If she uses sex as a bargaining tool, you are in trouble.
32 - If she has a complaint about you in any way, tell her to find a perfect man and show her the door.
33 - Past performance does not guarantee future results.
34 - Her ultimatum is your cue to leave her.
35 - "Provider" and "Chivalry" means you are a slave and a servant to her.
36 - Above All, Stay away from feminists!
Remember, a woman wants you to commit to her and love her exclusively, she will never love or commit to you. A woman will always want you to go above and beyond to meet her very high standards yet she will never do that for you. She wants a man that will protect her with his life and she wants him to worship her for that chance to die trying to save her when she deliberately places herself in harms way.
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Men need women like an eagle needs a sledgehammer. Women, on the other hand are constantly looking for a "provider". Who needs who?
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Wednesday, March 26, 2025
TheXYGhost II 086
Her : I hate my husband! He lets me walk all over him.
TheXYGhost : Maybe he just has tough skin. You hate him for letting you treat him like dirt? Who's treating who like dirt?
TheXYGhost : Maybe he just has tough skin. You hate him for letting you treat him like dirt? Who's treating who like dirt?
What She Really Means
When a woman says, "I like Italian men", "I like Greek men", "I like Jewish men"; It really doesn't matter what race, religion the man is, she is telling you her preference, even though she is still not settled down. She is telling you the type of man she prefers to be seen with over all the other men she has been with.
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If she is pressuring you for a commitment, ask her what does she have to offer and watch her head explode.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Tuesday, March 25, 2025
TheXYGhost II 085
He risks his life at work daily so that his family has the comforts of a home. His wife does not think that's good enough.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Flip the Script on Her #2
This is how to flip the script on the, "You don't love me" accusation that women do.
Women do not have the same superior analytical abilities as men. Instead of analyzing and weighing in on all the factors, then making a judgment based on the data they've collected, they make an accusation and wait for that man to defend themselves by proving the accusation was false, thus giving her all the analysis, she was lacking.
Woman: You don't love me anymore.
Man: Wait a minute! Do you love me?
Woman: Of course I do! I'm just saying that you do not love me.
Man: I know that you love me, my conscience is clear. You love me because I do the right things for you every chance I get. But I need to find out why you feel so guilty. If you love me because I'm doing the right things for you, what have you been lacking that would make me stop loving you? I think you better leave before I find out what you have done.
Women do not have the same superior analytical abilities as men. Instead of analyzing and weighing in on all the factors, then making a judgment based on the data they've collected, they make an accusation and wait for that man to defend themselves by proving the accusation was false, thus giving her all the analysis, she was lacking.
Woman: You don't love me anymore.
Man: Wait a minute! Do you love me?
Woman: Of course I do! I'm just saying that you do not love me.
Man: I know that you love me, my conscience is clear. You love me because I do the right things for you every chance I get. But I need to find out why you feel so guilty. If you love me because I'm doing the right things for you, what have you been lacking that would make me stop loving you? I think you better leave before I find out what you have done.
Monday, March 24, 2025
Flip the Script on Her #1
Have you ever noticed when you ask a girl her name, her first instinctual response is, "I have a boyfriend"?
After that, you are on the defensive trying to explain yourself. Not a pretty sight.
Well, I was talking to this female bartender today, when she asked me the inevitable question, "What sort of work do you do?"
I looked at her and said, "Sorry, I'm not looking for a girlfriend."
The look of surprise on her face was priceless. Now she was on the defensive. Now she was backpedaling trying to explain herself. What a sight to see. You should try it yourself one day.
After that, you are on the defensive trying to explain yourself. Not a pretty sight.
Well, I was talking to this female bartender today, when she asked me the inevitable question, "What sort of work do you do?"
I looked at her and said, "Sorry, I'm not looking for a girlfriend."
The look of surprise on her face was priceless. Now she was on the defensive. Now she was backpedaling trying to explain herself. What a sight to see. You should try it yourself one day.
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Most cultures, in the past, a father offered a man a dowry to marry his daughter.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Sunday, March 23, 2025
TheXYGhost II 083
Her : I don't want to be independent any more. I want to be married.
TheXYGhost : So, what you're saying is that you're broke.
TheXYGhost : So, what you're saying is that you're broke.
Her Dating Cycle #2
Seek me out. Impress me. Make me laugh. Entertain me. Sweep me off my feet (better than the 100's of men before you)
Pursue me even when I tell you to leave me alone.
Buy me fancy gifts.
Buy me nice jewelry.
Take me to lavish restaurants and pay for my company.
Buy fine wine.
Drive me in an expensive car.
Pay me attention.
Pay me compliments.
If I'm satisfied how well you serve my needs, I'll let you financially obligate yourself to me by marrying me.
But first...
I want a nice engagement ring and party.
I want a big wedding, and a huge wedding ring. White dress too.
Now you are obligated to give me everything I want need and desire. After all, I'm entitled to it.
Feed me.
Clothe me.
Make me happy.
Make me feel good about myself.
Make me feel beautiful and sexy.
Love me.
Cherish me.
I will test you soon. (You better pass my unscientific tests)
If we have kids, and I feel like leaving you for any reason, I'll have the state to back me up. They will help me take your children, money and home away from you.
Do it now because I'm worth it.
Pursue me even when I tell you to leave me alone.
Buy me fancy gifts.
Buy me nice jewelry.
Take me to lavish restaurants and pay for my company.
Buy fine wine.
Drive me in an expensive car.
Pay me attention.
Pay me compliments.
If I'm satisfied how well you serve my needs, I'll let you financially obligate yourself to me by marrying me.
But first...
I want a nice engagement ring and party.
I want a big wedding, and a huge wedding ring. White dress too.
Now you are obligated to give me everything I want need and desire. After all, I'm entitled to it.
Feed me.
Clothe me.
Make me happy.
Make me feel good about myself.
Make me feel beautiful and sexy.
Love me.
Cherish me.
I will test you soon. (You better pass my unscientific tests)
If we have kids, and I feel like leaving you for any reason, I'll have the state to back me up. They will help me take your children, money and home away from you.
Do it now because I'm worth it.
Saturday, March 22, 2025
TheXYGhost II 082
When she says, "I deserve…" in any context, what she's really doing is shamelessly demanding a man's resources, as if the world owes her something for merely existing.
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TheXYGhost
Her Dating Cycle #1
Women's relationships today follow a very predictable pattern:
• They wait for a man to ask for them.
• They play hard to get
• They push men for commitment
• They get what they want
• They lose interest in sex
• They become attracted to someone else
• They start cheating
• They begin telling their partners that they need time apart
• They blame their partners for their behavior
• After a long time of back and forth, and several failed attempts to give up their affairs, they end their relationships or marriages.
• Then you pay them because you are the reason why they cheated on you because you didn't make them happy.
• They wait for a man to ask for them.
• They play hard to get
• They push men for commitment
• They get what they want
• They lose interest in sex
• They become attracted to someone else
• They start cheating
• They begin telling their partners that they need time apart
• They blame their partners for their behavior
• After a long time of back and forth, and several failed attempts to give up their affairs, they end their relationships or marriages.
• Then you pay them because you are the reason why they cheated on you because you didn't make them happy.
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- Women have 52% of all the college degrees.
- Outstanding student debt in America - $1.5 Trillion.
- Women's share of Student debt $930 Billion (66%)
- Yet women don't seem to understand that they need to pay that loan back.
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- Outstanding student debt in America - $1.5 Trillion.
- Women's share of Student debt $930 Billion (66%)
- Yet women don't seem to understand that they need to pay that loan back.
TheXYGhost
Friday, March 21, 2025
TheXYGhost II 081
Her : I deliberately start arguments with my man to see where I stand
TheXYGhost : Why don't you do that to your boss and co-workers?
TheXYGhost : Why don't you do that to your boss and co-workers?
Women Never Change Despite Feminism
50 years of Feminism and Woman's Liberation Movement and women still almost always define themselves based on The man's wealth and status. They never take time to build their own lives and fortune and share it with the one they love.
Thursday, March 20, 2025
TheXYGhost II 080
Her : I start problems with him so he can put me in my place.
TheXYGhost : You should know your place, it will save time and arguments.
TheXYGhost : You should know your place, it will save time and arguments.
How I See Girls Today
I look at the girls of today that they can't keep their legs closed and they blame you that its your fault that you didn't give them enough attention while you were working.
Wednesday, March 19, 2025
TheXYGhost II 079
Her : I feel that you are too nice.
TheXYGhost : Teach me to be more evil for your pleasure.
TheXYGhost : Teach me to be more evil for your pleasure.
False Allegations
According to the Department of Justice ALL crimes have approximately a 2% false allegation rate. Rape and domestic violence is upward of 30%. This means that 30 out of every 100 rapes and domestic violence reported by women are false reports. I think those figures are way too low. I was accused of rape 4 times in my life and none of those accusations ever reached the police. Even my ex wife told me, only days before she handed me divorce papers, that I raped her before we were married. Does that mean that she married me after I raped her? Did she marry me as some form of sick punishment?
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This is the new normal...
- 5 kids from 5 different restaurant owners. - 21 DNA tests and she still can't find any the fathers to her 4 kids. - 3 divorces and 6 abortions because they were not 'Right' for her.
If you say it's her fault, you are a misogynist.
TheXYGhost
- 5 kids from 5 different restaurant owners. - 21 DNA tests and she still can't find any the fathers to her 4 kids. - 3 divorces and 6 abortions because they were not 'Right' for her.
If you say it's her fault, you are a misogynist.
TheXYGhost
Tuesday, March 18, 2025
TheXYGhost II 078
If she says, "He didn't make me happy," she's outright admitting that she's incapable of taking responsibility for her own emotions and pathetically relies on others to fix her life.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Integrity: The Difference Between Two Generations
My grandmother took care of two kids for 2 years, on her own when her husband, my grandfather went and volunteered to serve his newly adopted country in WWII.
I look at the girls of today that they can't keep their legs closed and they blame you that it's your fault that you didn't give them enough attention while you were working.
I look at the girls of today that they can't keep their legs closed and they blame you that it's your fault that you didn't give them enough attention while you were working.
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Your wife divorced you and took your kids, then you remarried and had kids with a woman that divorced her husband and took his kids. Do you not see a destructive pattern?
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Monday, March 17, 2025
TheXYGhost II 077
She divorced her husband, took the kids making everyone else miserable. She did this because she was not happy.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Equal Pay vs. Equal Outcome in the Bible
I believe in equal treatment as opposed to making sure that everyone achieves an equal outcome.
I was talking to my best friend's 16 year old daughter, who claimed to be a feminist. She talked about equal treatment of everyone. I agreed on that. She even mentioned equal pay for people doing the same job despite their sex. I agreed as well with a tiny difference;
If you accept a salary for a job, don't complain when your coworker is getting more. This idea is as old as the hills.
Matthew 20:1-16 The Parable of the Workers in the Vineyard 20 "For the kingdom of heaven is like a landowner who went out early in the morning to hire workers for his vineyard. 2 He agreed to pay them a denarius[a] for the day and sent them into his vineyard.
3 "About nine in the morning he went out and saw others standing in the marketplace doing nothing. 4 He told them, 'You also go and work in my vineyard, and I will pay you whatever is right.' 5 So they went.
"He went out again about noon and about three in the afternoon and did the same thing. 6 About five in the afternoon he went out and found still others standing around. He asked them, 'Why have you been standing here all day long doing nothing?'
7 "'Because no one has hired us,' they answered.
"He said to them, 'You also go and work in my vineyard.'
8 "When evening came, the owner of the vineyard said to his foreman, 'Call the workers and pay them their wages, beginning with the last ones hired and going on to the first.'
9 "The workers who were hired about five in the afternoon came and each received a denarius. 10 So when those came who were hired first, they expected to receive more. But each one of them also received a denarius. 11 When they received it, they began to grumble against the landowner. 12 'These who were hired last worked only one hour,' they said, 'and you have made them equal to us who have borne the burden of the work and the heat of the day.'
13 "But he answered one of them, 'I am not being unfair to you, friend. Didn't you agree to work for a denarius? 14 Take your pay and go. I want to give the one who was hired last the same as I gave you. 15 Don't I have the right to do what I want with my own money? Or are you envious because I am generous?'
16 "So the last will be first, and the first will be last."
I was talking to my best friend's 16 year old daughter, who claimed to be a feminist. She talked about equal treatment of everyone. I agreed on that. She even mentioned equal pay for people doing the same job despite their sex. I agreed as well with a tiny difference;
If you accept a salary for a job, don't complain when your coworker is getting more. This idea is as old as the hills.
Matthew 20:1-16 The Parable of the Workers in the Vineyard 20 "For the kingdom of heaven is like a landowner who went out early in the morning to hire workers for his vineyard. 2 He agreed to pay them a denarius[a] for the day and sent them into his vineyard.
3 "About nine in the morning he went out and saw others standing in the marketplace doing nothing. 4 He told them, 'You also go and work in my vineyard, and I will pay you whatever is right.' 5 So they went.
"He went out again about noon and about three in the afternoon and did the same thing. 6 About five in the afternoon he went out and found still others standing around. He asked them, 'Why have you been standing here all day long doing nothing?'
7 "'Because no one has hired us,' they answered.
"He said to them, 'You also go and work in my vineyard.'
8 "When evening came, the owner of the vineyard said to his foreman, 'Call the workers and pay them their wages, beginning with the last ones hired and going on to the first.'
9 "The workers who were hired about five in the afternoon came and each received a denarius. 10 So when those came who were hired first, they expected to receive more. But each one of them also received a denarius. 11 When they received it, they began to grumble against the landowner. 12 'These who were hired last worked only one hour,' they said, 'and you have made them equal to us who have borne the burden of the work and the heat of the day.'
13 "But he answered one of them, 'I am not being unfair to you, friend. Didn't you agree to work for a denarius? 14 Take your pay and go. I want to give the one who was hired last the same as I gave you. 15 Don't I have the right to do what I want with my own money? Or are you envious because I am generous?'
16 "So the last will be first, and the first will be last."
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Men Provide, Protect and Create
Women Want, Whine, Nag, Provoke, Complain and Destroy.
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Women Want, Whine, Nag, Provoke, Complain and Destroy.
TheXYGhost
Sunday, March 16, 2025
TheXYGhost II 076
She's always keeping score on everything, how much you love her, what you do for her, and so on. No matter how much you give, it'll never measure up to her endless list of shortcomings.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Who Has the Incentive to Marry and Divorce
With men paying for everything from the first date to the engagement ring, wedding ring, the house, car and all the bills, don't you think that the man has a vested interest to preserve the marriage?
With all of the outrageously high alimony and child support settlements given out, without much thought by the judges, don't you think that the woman has a vested interest to end the marriage?
With all of the outrageously high alimony and child support settlements given out, without much thought by the judges, don't you think that the woman has a vested interest to end the marriage?
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When she says that she doesn't love him any more, she made a conscious choice to stop loving him. Don't be fooled.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Saturday, March 15, 2025
TheXYGhost II 075
Women don't get it. Good men reject cheaters, while weak men welcome them with open arms. If she cheats, she'll only end up with a spineless man who'll let her walk all over him.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Duality Instilled by a Single Mother and the Community
I was raised by a single mom that lived in the government projects. She went to all the Women's Liberation (Women's Lib) and Feminists Movement meetings with her kids (me and my sister) in tow.
My older sister would constantly provoke and torment me for her pleasure. If I complained to my mom when she got home from work, she would tell me to not bother her. When I hit my sister back, I was beaten, badly.
By the time I was 14, (1978) I would not stand for that shit from my sister. One day she played with me the wrong way one too many times and I knocked her out cold with one punch. She had a fat lip and she showed it to all the project rats that I was an abusive brother.
For years after that day I would get the local thugs chase me whenever they saw me.
I never resorted to violence, that's not my thing. It takes a whole lot to get me to that point. The only time I would attack anyone is if they were to attack me. Curse me, look at me, say what you may, the minute you touch me, I will be one of the people that will be arrested after I am done.
My older sister would constantly provoke and torment me for her pleasure. If I complained to my mom when she got home from work, she would tell me to not bother her. When I hit my sister back, I was beaten, badly.
By the time I was 14, (1978) I would not stand for that shit from my sister. One day she played with me the wrong way one too many times and I knocked her out cold with one punch. She had a fat lip and she showed it to all the project rats that I was an abusive brother.
For years after that day I would get the local thugs chase me whenever they saw me.
I never resorted to violence, that's not my thing. It takes a whole lot to get me to that point. The only time I would attack anyone is if they were to attack me. Curse me, look at me, say what you may, the minute you touch me, I will be one of the people that will be arrested after I am done.
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If you think you are a better father than the child's natural father, you may be a cuck, simp or a beta male.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Friday, March 14, 2025
TheXYGhost II 074
If she sees a good man who's married, she'll eagerly ruin his life by falsely accusing him of cheating, all so she can swoop in and replace his wife. And if she can't tear them apart, she'll destroy him just to satisfy her petty revenge.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Differences Between A Man and a Woman
A woman will block men from her friend in any way she can so she wont be alone.
A man will jump on the fat chick that every hot girl drags along so his buddy can get the hottie.
A man will jump on the fat chick that every hot girl drags along so his buddy can get the hottie.
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If you move in on another man's wife and kids, you may be a cuck, simp or a beta male.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Thursday, March 13, 2025
TheXYGhost II 073
A 97-year-old woman was filmed saying, "I sure hope the man of my dreams comes and gets me, I don't have much longer to live." She still clung to the fantasy that a man would save her.
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TheXYGhost
Men and Women in Songs
Whenever you hear a love song by a man, you hear him professing his love for someone. The direction of love flows from the man to the woman. From the one who has love to the target of his love. Men's songs contain stories and information hidden or blatant. They also sing about the loss of of their target object of affection.
Modern women, on the other hand sing songs of what they want, need and desire. Their songs of love always are a want, need and desire to be loved. The direction of love is in their direction. They are looking to be the target of that love in the hopes that if someone loves them enough, their feeling of longing will go away.
One of the most obvious examples of this is a song by Whitney Houston, "I Want to Dance With Somebody Who Loves Me" where the direction of love is pointing to her. Yes I also know that Whitney sings, "I Will Always Love You" a song written by Dolly Parton in 1973.
The first is a sign of narcissism and it is very evident when you listen to people speaking. From biblical times, Songs of Solomon to the songs of Eminem and Beyonce, very little has changed except that more female song writers in the past 50 years have been singing more and more about their needs to be loved.
In high school and college when I was young, I would come across many girls expressing their need to give birth so that their newborn baby can love them. They place the burden on an infant to love them. Again, the direction of love is to them from the baby.
Most men understand that in order to change his feelings from normal to loving, an action on his part has to be taken. This is why men have fun with children (show love and affection) and they feel great. Most women wait for their baby to love them and get jealous of the love and bond that the child has with the father and thats when they find an excuse to break it off with them. They feel betrayed by both child and father.
What eludes women most about love is they will never feel love until they become loving.
Modern women, on the other hand sing songs of what they want, need and desire. Their songs of love always are a want, need and desire to be loved. The direction of love is in their direction. They are looking to be the target of that love in the hopes that if someone loves them enough, their feeling of longing will go away.
One of the most obvious examples of this is a song by Whitney Houston, "I Want to Dance With Somebody Who Loves Me" where the direction of love is pointing to her. Yes I also know that Whitney sings, "I Will Always Love You" a song written by Dolly Parton in 1973.
The first is a sign of narcissism and it is very evident when you listen to people speaking. From biblical times, Songs of Solomon to the songs of Eminem and Beyonce, very little has changed except that more female song writers in the past 50 years have been singing more and more about their needs to be loved.
In high school and college when I was young, I would come across many girls expressing their need to give birth so that their newborn baby can love them. They place the burden on an infant to love them. Again, the direction of love is to them from the baby.
Most men understand that in order to change his feelings from normal to loving, an action on his part has to be taken. This is why men have fun with children (show love and affection) and they feel great. Most women wait for their baby to love them and get jealous of the love and bond that the child has with the father and thats when they find an excuse to break it off with them. They feel betrayed by both child and father.
What eludes women most about love is they will never feel love until they become loving.
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If you only judge a woman based on how good she looks to you, you may be a cuck, simp or a beta male.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Wednesday, March 12, 2025
TheXYGhost II 072
Ask a married woman if she could redo her life from scratch, would she marry the man she's with today, and watch her scramble for an answer as she tries to mask the regret.
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