Wednesday, November 26, 2025

TheXYGhost IV 331


Refuse her demands and she will replace you.

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TheXYGhost III 331


She’s constantly searching for love because, deep down, she has none within herself.

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TheXYGhost II 331


Her : He didn’t make me happy.

TheXYGhost : You are supposed to make a man happy. That’s what makes women happy.

Lunch With My Sister

I had a late lunch with my liberal, leftist, Democrat sister. Three kids from three different men. She lives in NYC public housing on government money. Three child support checks, subsidized rent, free gas and electricity, food stamps, and welfare. She sublet one bedroom for market rate cash while working an off the books job. Now that her kids are grown, she bought a waterfront house in cash while still keeping her subsidized apartment.

She calls Trump a racist who is using the presidency to make himself richer. She never questions the $149 million Hillary Clinton made as Secretary of State or the $31 million in four mansions she owns. She condemns Trump for ending the war in Syria while worshipping Obama, who campaigned on ending wars yet started twelve, including the very one Trump ended. And Obama got a Nobel Peace Prize before he even had two months in office.

The truth is simple, she wants to protect her current husband, the government. That is her provider now.

During our talk, I said every woman hates her husband. She snapped back, “I never hated any of my husbands, I just knew it was time for them to leave.” Translation, she discarded them when they no longer served her.

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Why are there so many books and courses on how to please and understand women?

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Tuesday, November 25, 2025

TheXYGhost IV 330


She abandons what she conquers.

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TheXYGhost III 330


She hated the new car he bought her because it was the wrong color.

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Once you drop all the habits she considers bad, she will leave you because you obeyed her, making you seem weak in her eyes.

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Women Wants a Man to Be Her Personal Servant

Women think that a man's job is to

1. Seek them out

2. Pursue them even though they reject them at every stage. If you are worthy in her mind you should keep pursuing even while she tells you to stop. If you are not worthy in her mind watch out

3. Impress them

4. Wine and dine them

5. Find what makes her happy and do it constantly because she will refuse to take any action for her own happiness

6. Be richer than all of her previous boyfriends

7. Satisfy her in bed better than all other men she has been with. She will give you not a single clue about what she wants or enjoys

8. Be her provider and cover all her wants needs and desires when she wants them and how she wants them no matter the cost

9. Protect her even if she puts you in harm's way deliberately just to see how you perform

10. Act jealous but not too jealous. It must always be to her liking and she will flirt with others just to see how you react. Perform to her liking again

11. Do all the above or she will not see you again but she will still treat you like a wimp if you do everything she expects

Fuck all that

1. If you want me to protect you with my life then show me that you are worth my time and worth me dying over

2. If you want a King in your life then do not expect me to be your servant. Kings are obeyed and servants get stepped on

3. What can you do for me that I cannot do or pay for myself

4. Are you worth my time effort energy and resources or will you add to my workload. I like driving nice cars and high maintenance cars get left on the side of the road

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I encourage all women to embrace feminism. It's easy. Drive a truck or an Uber. Be your own boss. Take a man out to dinner.

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Monday, November 24, 2025

TheXYGhost IV 329


She respects only what she cannot control.

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TheXYGhost III 329


She will find a complaint in a bouquet of roses.

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She hates when you rest because you’re her workhorse, expected to work harder for her growing demands.

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Today's Woman in a Nutshell

Women today demand on a level that has no precedent. Their wants, needs, and desires are so inflated they exist only in fantasy. It is not enough for a man to like them. It is not enough for him to love them. She wants a version of love so grand it has never existed in her life or anyone else’s. She wants her man obsessed with her, proving it every moment of every day under any condition. She will test him relentlessly. Her definition of unconditional love is this: “Love me even after I’ve kicked you in the balls.”

Explain to her that real love is forged over years, not found in some instant mix, and she will accuse you of trying to escape your “duty” to love her and pass all her tests. At that point she will placate you, keep you on the hook, and quietly scan the horizon for her next man to start the process over again.

She will pile on more demands for her “performing monkey” but never give direct instructions. She will only drop hints. The same woman who parrots the line “communication is key” will be the very one who sabotages it by speaking in riddles.

To her, you are just a resource, a temporary branch to cling to while she searches for the next one. Replacing you is effortless. All she needs to do is spin a one-sided sob story about your “abuse” and the new man will believe it without question. He will puff himself up as her savior while she revels in his blind protection.

When she finally finds a man who can decipher her unspoken demands and contort himself to meet them all, she will squeeze him dry just like the last. The only difference is he will think he’s special, until she decides he’s not.

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He has long-term strategies to achieve long-term goals.

She has short-term actions and long-term wishes, dreams, and hopes.

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Sunday, November 23, 2025

TheXYGhost IV 328


She does not pity the man who gives everything, she despises him.

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TheXYGhost III 328


If you are rich, she will say that you are not rich enough.

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TheXYGhost II 328


We all learn and grow from our mistakes.

So, ladies, how is it possible for you to grow if you’re never wrong?

TheXYGhost

Why so Many "Strong Independent Women" Are Single

They asked me why so many "strong" women are single. My answer was simple.

1. Women marry up. Always. Stronger, faster, richer, taller. They measure a man against every competitor and against themselves. When the numbers stop impressing them, they leave.

2. They are dominant and domineering, especially toward their men. That is not feminine. Weak men tolerate it. Strong men walk away without looking back.

3. They aren't searching for a partner. They're hunting for a competitor. They don't know how to stop competing.

4. The women who scream the loudest about being strong are usually the weakest. They have to broadcast it nonstop because deep down they know it's a façade.

5. They define themselves by strength and expect a stronger man to engage in the same endless displays. They can't handle a man who doesn't need to prove himself.

6. They look for a man stronger than their own subjective definition of strength, assuming he will match their energy but with more stamina and better results.

7. They secretly want a man to put them "in their place," yet they will never admit such a place exists. This makes them weaker, not stronger, and they can't see it.

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Her: I have been in many successful relationships.

TheXYGhost : I wish you many more.

Saturday, November 22, 2025

TheXYGhost IV 327


Sacrifice blindly and you will be discarded ruthlessly.

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TheXYGhost III 327


No matter how good you do something, she will tell you to do better.

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She whips her hair in your face so you’ll notice her and introduce yourself.

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The Single Female Test

For those still chasing "Miss Right," here's an impassable test that will expose her before she wastes your time.

Ask her:

1. How many successful relationships have you had?

• The correct answer is zero. If she claims otherwise, ask why it ended if it was so "successful." Did she hit her goal and leave? If she's over 25 and still single, why can't she keep a man?

2. Are you looking for a provider?

• If she says yes, ask who's providing for her right now. Then press for specifics, what provisions does she expect? Get her to define her shopping list.

3. Why did your last relationship end?

• Whatever she says, hold it against her.

• "We didn't get along" ? Why can't you get along with people?

• "We weren't right for each other" ? Then why did you start dating him?

• "He cheated / lied / was a drug addict" ? "Sounds like you love bad boys and have terrible judgment. That's on you."

4. He was abusive

• Tell her there are thousands of men who will never hit a woman, yet she found the one who would. Either she has a talent for picking abusers, or she did something to provoke it. Violence doesn't just drop from the sky.

5. He always did what I told him

• Ask why she told him to do things she didn't actually want him to do. If she admits to it, she's manipulative. If she denies it, she's lying.

This isn't just a test for her, it's a test for you to see if you have the spine to walk away the moment you see the truth.

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She has 3 kids from three men. She is independent!

You got 3 girls pregnant. She calls you a loser because you always pick the wrong girls.

TheXYGhost

Friday, November 21, 2025

TheXYGhost IV 326


Provide without boundaries and you will be drained without mercy.

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TheXYGhost III 326


The women laughed when she publicly insulted him, but when he responded and made her cry, they called him a jerk.

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TheXYGhost II 326


Women hate men they can’t control.

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And You Want to Date a Single Mom

From childhood to my twilight years, I’ve heard young girls whisper to their friends about how “hot” their stepdad is.

...And you still want to date a single mom.

I’ve heard young girls boast, mostly lies, about sleeping with their stepdad.

...And you still want to date a single mom.

For decades I’ve heard stories of girls accusing their stepdad of molestation.

...And you still want to date a single mom.

When your single mom girlfriend wants to punish you for refusing to marry her, she can accuse you of molesting her daughter.

...And you still want to date a single mom.

Turn down a woman’s sexual advances and she will lash out in ways you never imagined. Her daughter will do the same.

...And you still want to date a single mom.

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Marry a single mom. Her kids need a father. Pay for their school and she will divorce you when they turn 18.

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Thursday, November 20, 2025

TheXYGhost IV 325


She does not weigh morality, she weighs opportunity.

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TheXYGhost III 325


Ten kids by ten different men. At what point will women admit the issue might be with the woman?

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TheXYGhost II 325


She calls it abuse anytime you dare disagree with her or expose her for being wrong.

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Wisdom From a 76-year-old Pastor and Marriage Counselor

I spoke to a 76-year-old man who had been a minister and marriage counselor for 45 years. He told me that during his first 12 years of counseling, he believed the men were the problem in every case. Then one day he changed his approach. He began every first session by asking, “How is your relationship with your spouse?” He would ask the husband first, then the wife.

What he discovered was eye-opening. The husbands almost always answered, “Everything is fine.” The wives, on the other hand, would unload a laundry list of every fault they could pin on their husbands, including things neither of them could control.

He noticed how often the wives used the word “enough” in their complaints: “He doesn’t love me enough.” “He doesn’t spend enough time with the kids.” “He doesn’t give me enough attention.”

When he asked, “What is enough?” the answer was almost always, “More than he is doing now.” When he pressed them for a solution, the majority answered, “Divorce.”

Think about that. To them, the solution to “not enough time with the kids” was to permanently remove the father from the home.

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A woman's sexual market value peaks at age 25. Her sexual appetite peaks at around 35.

Ha! Ha!

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Wednesday, November 19, 2025

TheXYGhost IV 324


Her devotion ends the moment another option appears.

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TheXYGhost III 324


She parked near a prison hoping to catch the attention of a newly released prisoner. She really loves bad boys.

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TheXYGhost II 324


When she found a man rich enough for her, she showed him and his parents a 5 page list of demands for them to do for her when they get married.

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The Diminishing Price of a Woman

I remember in the 1970s a documentary on prostitution in New York City. The women said they charged $100 an hour.

In the 1980s when I was working the nightclub scene in New York, the rate was still $100 an hour.

By the late 1990s, a friend told me he was paying $70 to $80 an hour.

In August 2019, a man told me the going rate was about $50 an hour.

At first glance you might think the price has dropped $50 in 50 years, but you’d be wrong. Adjusted for inflation, $100 in the 1970s equals $661 today. That is a 92% drop in value.

Factor in supply and demand and the picture is even clearer, back then, women selling sex were scarce, which drove the price up. Today, there are so many of them willing to sell it that the price has collapsed. What does that tell you about the women of today?

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Women, it's easy to become a feminist. Just take a hard working man to dinner and pay the check.

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Tuesday, November 18, 2025

TheXYGhost IV 323


Her affection lasts only as long as your usefulness.

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TheXYGhost III 323


If she’s broke and hungry, she will accept a date from any man. 

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TheXYGhost II 323


Women have no problem shaming and insulting a short man but when a man points out a fat girl, you will be labeled a misogynist.

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It's Always a Man's Fault

• When a woman hits a man, the man is wrong. She must have had a reason.

• When a man hits a woman, he is wrong and he goes to jail.

• When a man divorces a woman, he is wrong and he will pay.

• When a woman divorces a man and takes his kids, he must have done something wrong and he must pay.

• When a man cheats on a woman, she will leave him and he must pay.

• When a woman cheats and brings another man's child into a man's life, he is expected to be understanding.

If a woman sues for divorce and takes everything a man has worked for his entire life, leaving him to rent an apartment and ride the bus, he is labeled as no good.

Monday, November 17, 2025

TheXYGhost IV 322


She does not love unconditionally, she bargains.

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She has three kids from 3 men and four grandkids, yet she cries and complains about wasting her beauty.

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TheXYGhost II 322


Ask her what a man should bring to the table and she will talk for hours.

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5 Kids From 5 Restaurant Owners

I remember a woman trying to introduce me to a “good girl,” a “nice girl” who was asking about me. When I learned she was talking about her niece, I asked her son about his cousin. His warning was blunt, stay away. It wasn’t the usual brotherly protection. He told me his cousin had five kids from five different restaurant owners, had been divorced twice, and had no children from either marriage. She was also a chronic dominator who felt the need to control anyone she could.

I never went back to my friend’s mom’s place after that. We still went out sometimes, but I avoided her house. His cousin was in the middle of breaking up with the latest father of her latest child and moving back in with her mother. Dependency on repeat.

Over time, my friend told me more. She was pregnant with restaurant owner #1 while still married to husband #1. That ended quickly and divorce #1 was done. Husband #2 cucked his way in, but she got pregnant again with restaurant owner #2, and divorce #2 followed.

When meeting the next three restaurant owners, she hid the fact that she even had children. In her teens, she’d had two abortions. She’d collected a list of STDs. She’d been with drug addicts and even one man in prison.

If this is what passes for a “good girl” and a “nice girl,” I have no interest in finding out what a bad girl looks like.

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Women can have abortions without the fathers permission. Men need permission from their wives to get a vasectomy.

My body my choice?

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Sunday, November 16, 2025

TheXYGhost IV 321


The man who believes in unconditional love is already defeated.

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She laughs at him when he cries.

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Her : What kind of woman are you looking for?

TheXYGhost : I want a woman that puts me in my place.

She's in College for Pre-wed

Back in 2003, I met a girl at a Starbucks in Manhattan. We talked for hours until I got hungry. I offered to buy her soup at an upscale Chinese soup place across the street. She was a Columbia University student, so I knew she didn’t have money for it.

At the restaurant, she almost immediately told me why she chose Columbia. She was looking for a rich man to “take care of her.” I didn’t flinch. I already knew exactly what that meant.

“Take care of me” is code for this, she will do absolutely nothing in exchange for the provisions she demands. She expects you to fund every want, need, and desire, exactly when, where, and how she wants it, without a shred of reciprocation. If you fail to deliver on her ridiculous fantasies, her punishment is a scorched-earth divorce that strips you bare.

I finished my meal, paid the bill, and we left. Outside, I shook her hand and wished her well. As I started to walk away, she looked shocked and asked why I wasn’t asking for her number. I told her, “I’m not rich, but there are plenty of guys out there who are far more financially gifted than I am.” Then I walked away without looking back.

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Date a feminist! She will pay for the dinner, drinks and the movie.

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Saturday, November 15, 2025

TheXYGhost IV 320


Men never get support. They get judged, ignored, or used.

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TheXYGhost III 320


Jealous of the attention he gave his classic car project, she destroyed it out of spite.

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TheXYGhost II 320


If your female friend ghosts you and you can’t figure out why, she determined that you are not controllable or you know your worth. 

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When My Wife Walked Out on Me

When my wife walked out, she didn't waste a second before shacking up with her new simp. The bed wasn't even cold before she was in his.

When word got out, the interrogation started. • You must have done something wrong for her to leave you,

• What did you do to her to make her leave,

• She must have had a reason,

• You picked the wrong woman,

• Maybe you couldn't satisfy her,

• Maybe you couldn't make her happy,

• You hate women,

Every question carried the same assumption, that if a woman leaves, the man is automatically guilty. Her decision is never questioned, her motives are never challenged, you are guilty by default.

The twisted part was how quickly every lonely, bitter, or bored woman in my orbit came sniffing around. Single moms, divorced wrecks, even married women with unmet needs, all suddenly "available."

The married ones were the worst. When I refused their game, they ran back to their husbands claiming I came on to them. The single moms and divorcées spread rumors about me the second I turned them down.

I had young girls whispering that their mothers liked me. One told me her daughter, a walking cautionary tale with five kids from five different restaurant owners, was asking about me. That daughter still had a doormat boyfriend who could never pass mommy's inspection.

Refuse a woman and the claws come out. Suddenly you are gay. You are defective. One told me I should try a gay dating site. When I nearly exploded at her disrespect, she smirked and said, "You are angry… maybe that's why your wife left you." That is how they operate, bait you, provoke you, and then use your reaction as proof.

At work it was the same circus. Women I barely knew were spreading stories about why my wife left, inventing details out of thin air. It was a nonstop smear campaign mixed with inappropriate advances. A bizarro world where rejecting a woman made you a villain, and being targeted by one made you guilty.

Eventually I stopped telling anyone I was divorced. Not because I was ashamed, but because I was done giving women more ammunition to twist into whatever fantasy or accusation served them that week.

So I will ask, has your post-divorce battlefield looked like mine, or were you spared the full circus?

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Her: I'm not a feminist. Treat me to dinner!

TheXYGhost : If you do nothing to stop feminism, you are the problem.

Friday, November 14, 2025

TheXYGhost IV 319


Her instability lets her twist every shady manipulation into another chance to pose as the victim.

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TheXYGhost III 319


She started dating again when the house she got in the divorce was facing foreclosure.

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TheXYGhost II 319


If she is so independent then why is she constantly looking for a provider?

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