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Ask a feminist if she wants to date a man that is her equal and watch her head explode.
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You Can't Compromise With Greedy and Selfish Women.

Feminism - A man freely gives an inch out of the kindness of his heart and she demands 10 miles or else she takes it all. If you give in, you are a sucker and if you don't, you are cheap and stingy. Meanwhile your friends tell you to compromise and meet her in the middle.

Never ever ever under any circumstances offer anything to an ungrateful woman.

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Why should I provide for a person that refuses to provide for themselves?
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A Married Woman and My Brother

I was visiting my dad's place on Halloween night when I heard the doorbell ring. I thought it was a bunch of Trick-or-Treaters so I answered the door with a bowl full of candy. To my surprise, I opened the door to find a girl in her late 20's to early 30's standing outside waiting with an envelope in her hands.

She told me that she lived down the road from me and that she had a "peace offering" for my son. I corrected her and told her I had no son but I did have brothers. She then told me that she was dating my brother and that there was a break up, that their relationship ended on a sour note. She handed me an envelope and asked that I give the envelope to my brother as her personal "peace offering" and that she was leaving the country tonight.

I took the envelope and ensured that it would get to my brother as soon as he gets back.

She left and I texted my brother, "Some girl stopped by dad's place to leave off a card as a piece offering. She is leaving town today and her mom lives down the block from dad. She thought that I was your father."

He texted back, "It's a married woman who is obsessed with me.

But thanks man"

I'm 32 years older than my younger brother and nobody in my family knows anything about my affiliation with MGTOW and alias as AKA John Stone. I guess he has the same troubles that I had.

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You want a $150K ring to prove that I love you?
Where is your proof to me that you love me?
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"That Girl Likes You"

So, after my divorce was over, and a number of months went by, I thought that going to a church for the first time was going to improve my odds in finding a decent girl with whom to share my life. I picked a church that was not near me; away from anyone I would ever know and attended services very quietly.

It wasn't long until a few gentlemen approached and welcomed me. They gave me tremendous support and sound logical advice and not a sermon. They invited me to bible study on Wednesday nights, pre and post sermon groups and events and they even invited me into their homes for other studies. They really reached out and open their hearts to me. I will always thank them.

One day, while I was working on setting up snacks for an after-sermon lecture, an older woman approached me and asked me my name. She introduced me to her other two friends, also elderly women. The first woman took me aside and asked me, confidentially, what kind of work I did. My guard was down and I never would have thought that she was sizing me up. So, I told her occupation and as soon as I was done, she became very excited! Huffing and puffing she said, "Oh! Oh! Oh! You're rich! This girl, Wilma, likes you."

I politely told her that I was not here for that, yet I started to think who this Wilma was, as I've never talked or never been introduced to a Wilma before. I would have remembered that name as it was the name of Fred Flintstone's wife in the cartoon series, we all know and love.

A few weeks past and the second of the two women pulled me aside to ask a few questions of me. Then she asked, "What kind of work do you do?" My guard was up a bit due to my experience before but I told her. Just like the first old woman, she exclaimed with excitement, "Ooow! You're rich! Did you know that Wilma likes you?" I could not believe it. It was like I was in the Twilight Zone. I told this woman that I was not here to be set up with anyone, and that I was fine the way I was.

The following week, the first woman told me to pray during the sermon to meet someone right after services and GOD would answer my prayers. I told her that I was not here to be set up with anyone now. She insisted that I should pray anyway so that GOD's will could be revealed to me.

I had to admit that during this whole time, I was wondering who this "Wilma" was. Over the weeks I sought her out without asking for her. I attended other groups and stood in the hallways seeking her out. Then I saw her. There she was! A very tall and elegant black woman that was very attractive.

I walked over to her to be near her in order to see if she would, at the very least, say something to me. After all, two ladies said that she liked me. Why would they lie? But nothing happened. Wilma had no idea who I was.

Later on, while I was preparing for a kids function at the church, the third old lady asked me what kind of work I did while others were listening. I thought to myself, "Oh no, here we go again." So, I told her my occupation. Just like a precision time piece, she said, "Ooooh, you're rich…" I cut her off before she could tell me about someone liking me, saying, "If I had 10 times the money of Bill Gates, I would not be as rich as Jesus Christ." The three women looked at each other with a puzzled look on their face. Needless to say, I was fed up with this nonsense.

The following Sunday I attended services and sat on the opposite side than usual. At the end of services there was announcements being made and the last of which was the engagement announcement of Wilma and Jacob. I whipped my neck around to look at the 3 old ladies. All 3 of them had sour looks on their faces. My assumption is that the three women did not approve of the lily-white Jacob getting together with that woman that was not white. They wanted me to be placed between them. I could be wrong, but who knows for sure. They never bothered me about Wilma liking me again.

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If you are not checking the DNA of your child at birth, you are a fool.
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Women and Tipping

I've spoken with waiters, waitresses and cab drivers. They have all told me that men tip way better than women. The overwhelming number of tips in the hospitality sector comes from men. I know many New York City cab drivers that will avoid a woman to pick up a man because of this fact. The only time I've ever seen a woman tip well is if that woman was, at one time or another, a waitress herself.

Which of the sexes are greedy, stingy and selfish? Remember that when a female calls you cheap for not buying her the most expensive meal and wine on your first date.

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If a woman’s prerogative is to change her mind, why ask her opinion in the first place?
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Women in Prisons

Over my lifetime I have spoken to many corrections officers, male and female, from New York City, New York State, New Jersey, New Hampshire, Arizona and California. This much is very clear, the men in jail are vicious and violent (the more violent ones are on television shows) but the women are nasty, dirty and disgusting. All the officers I've spoken to tell me they would rather be in a men's prison than a female one.

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MGTOW is about men choosing their freedom over being a servant "provider".
Why do women hate that?
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The Divorce Equation

There absolutely is a mathematical equation for understanding when a woman will separate from her man…

1) A woman will leave a man if there are no kids between them on or before 3 years.

2) A woman will break it off with a man when the youngest child between them is 4 - 5 years old.

If it goes beyond that, you got a good one.

If a woman divorced her husband after 7 or 8 years, you can almost calculate that there are, at least 2 kids that were involved.

This is one thing I have never seen written anywhere but I've seen it over and over again for many years.

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Her : Buy me a ring or I’m leaving you.
TheXYGhost : Retract that demand or I’ll leave you.

Women of Today Think That Men Are the Problem

I hate when women of today say men are the problem but here's something to think about.

Women today think that 90% of men are below average.

Women of today think that the following men are the problem

…men under 6 feet tall.

…men that earn under $200k per year.

…men that are not pleasing them all the time.

…men that are pleasing them all the time.

…men not pursuing them every day.

…men pursuing them every day.

…men not giving them everything they want.

…men giving them everything they want.

…men that are too masculine.

…men that are too feminine.

…men that are too strict.

…men that are too nice.

…men that work too much.

…men that don't work enough.

…men that are too aggressive.

…men that are not aggressive enough.

…men that love them too much.

…men that don't love them enough.

…men that give them too much attention.

…men that don't give them enough attention.

Should I keep on?

Women of today think that men are the problem, always.

Have you ever met a woman that said that they were the fault of their last breakup?

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5 kids, 21 DNA tests, 10 years and you still can’t find all your kid's fathers. You blame men for this, right?
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Women Love Abusive Men

Several times in my life I met women that said they were in abusive relationships. Some were married and others were living together. When I would tell them they should break it off, they would tell me that they couldn't. When I asked them as to why they couldn't, their response would be the same, "You just don't understand". Some of those girls would even say, "But I love him".

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Her : I want a $25,000 ring because I’m worth it.
TheXYGhost : Is that the price of your love for me?

My Father Dealing With Me Being Single.

Today I had an argument with my 81-year-old father.

My father and mother separated when I was only 4. I lived with a psycho-mom up until the age of 10. Then I lived in Europe with my retired grandparents until age 14. When I returned to America, I was told that my father was found. Mother really hid us. I was taught to hate him and I did.

Years later, my mother's psychotic ways made it impossible for me to stay. I moved in with my dad, when my hate for him still occupied my heart. I graduated high school and off to college. I quit college and found an apartment as I worked for my father who I still hated through no fault of his own.

My father later got married. He had two sons and, although I was never pushed aside by anyone, I felt as though I was not a part of this family.

So, I left and never turned back.

16 years later I saw my 2 brothers on Facebook and there was a very tearful reunion.

As I was divorced now, I understood my dad. The hatred for my father was gone, sometime after my mother passed away.

As the years went by, I visited my dad, my stepmom and newly found brothers on a regular basis. My father always asked me about me being single.

Every time for the next few years he would ask the same questions;

"How's your love life?"

"Do you have any new romances in your life?"

"Do you have anyone new in your life?"

"Have you met anyone at your new job?"

"You know, I got married when I was 46. There's still hope for you."

"You know, your grandfather got married when he was 53. There's still hope for you."

"You know, my tenant upstairs thinks you are quite good looking."

Every single time I went to visit my father, he cycles through one of the same statements above. It drove me insane. It got to the point where the older of my half-brother joined in. He started with lectures. I shrugged it off for years until a few days ago when I stopped him and started to yell at him while we went out to a nearby mall.

He asked the same question yet again. I returned with, "What's with the questions? Do you think I'm a faggot or something? What is wrong with me? What should I do in my life to make you happy?" I yelled and yelled at my dad trying to get into his head that I was single and I'm not going to change that.

The next day, he asked again. I could not believe it. Didn't he hear me say before?

I got home and the next day sent him about 7 of my Facebook posts. Then I texted him;

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Me: I sent you a few articles I wrote. Show them to Billy (not real name). Maybe one day you and him will not call me a faggot any more.

My Dad: Don't be ridiculous

Me: There is a lecture from Billy almost every time. And you constantly toss hints at me every single time. Don't you know it hurts me every time you ask me about my "Love Life" or "Romantic Interests"?

My Dad: Ok

Me: I get this all the time from people that nag me constantly about me being and remaining single. I really don't care that Mary (tenant) thinks I'm "good looking". Does that mean she wants to leave her current man for me? Does that mean that I can now view myself as good looking because some Asian woman says so? You can't keep poking at a tiger and expect it not to lash out after the 100th time.

I had enough psychopathic girlfriends that wanted me to be their own personal provider for everything they could ever imagine. It's insane. You want me to return to that insanity?

Yes, I know, they always tell me, "Not all women are like that" and I'm at fault for picking them.

So, I will not pick them any longer.

I stopped talking to the people that nag me about being single. Who really wants to be around people that nag all the time?

I do not want to do that with you.

I've been with way too many women in my life.

I only wanted one

I'm not jumping into that fire of insanity again.

Women with kids from multiple men with a history of abortions and a few STDs are not for me.

I've had it up to my neck in entitled women that expect the world from me.

I was never put on this earth to be a woman's sole meal ticket.

My Dad: kay there's not much to say except to say I won't mention it again

Me: Please.

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I wrote this article then texted the following;

Me: I'm sorry I blew up like that. It's a sensitive issue for me.

My Dad: No problem, John we all get to blow off once in a while no problem at all

Me: I'm very sorry I did. I'm very proud that we have these small amounts of time together. I don't want it to end.

My Dad: It ends when I pass on. Then you have Bobby, Billy and Maria (his wife). No sweat

Me: There will be time.

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Her: My boyfriend does not know how to make me happy.
TheXYGhost : Next time date Bozo the Clown.

How My Father Sees Me As A Single Man

I used to visit my 84-year-old father every other weekend. I spend a night or two every time. For the past 4 - 5 years he has asked me one of the following questions every single time I've visited.

He asks;

"How's your love life?"

"Did you meet any girls lately?"

"Are you involved with any one now?"

"Are you seeing anyone?"

"Is there someone special in your life?"

"Do you have any romance in your life?"

"Have any new romances popped up?"

"Did you meet anyone new at your new job?"

"Have you ever dated a nice girl in your life?"

"You said you were consulting with a (female) nutritionist. Is she available?" (She was 60 years old and hated her husband because he never made enough money.)

"Are you dating anyone special?"

"I know this girl (53-year-old divorced woman) that thinks you are handsome."

He just won't stop no matter how gruff of a response I give him.

I've answered the above questions with the following;

"No."

"No!"

"I only love GOD and Jesus. There is no room left in my heart for anyone else."

"I don't have enough money, time or effort to make any one woman happy. I've failed every time."

I've asked him, "How many times do you think you can poke a tiger before it attacks?"

I've even started to respond with, "NO! BECAUSE I'M A FUCKEN FAGOT! IS THAT WHAT YOU WANT TO HEAR? DO I EMBARRASS YOU BECAUSE I'M SINGLE? AM I NOT A MAN BECAUSE I'M SINGLE? WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH ME THAT YOU PRESS FOR SO LONG? DO YOU THINK I'M A FAGOT BECAUSE I WALK ALONE?"

My best friend of 35 years has never once seen me angry, ever! He saw for the very first time how angry and enraged I got when I explained this situation.

Meanwhile nothing is said about my eldest sister that has 3 kids from 3 men that were all substance abusers and lives in the NYC Housing Projects.

Now my younger (half) brother chimes in with his two cents trying to probe me for information as to why I don't have a girlfriend and it are getting sick.

Sure, I see a girl or two on the side. I never pay one dime to be with them. But I toss them away once they start their shit. I dare not bring them to my place let alone my dad's home.

In the book, "The Art of War", Sun Tzu said, "You can never avoid war. You only postpone it." I have come to understand this quote more and more. I should have tossed over tables and chairs after he asked me the third time.

I hang out with my youngest (half) brother (age 30) we go out and have fun all the time. I flirt with waitresses and bartenders and other females everywhere we go. We have a great time together always.

I stopped visiting my dad until he texts me telling me he misses me, I text him back with, "What time is the intervention? Are you going to ask me about my love life again?"

He promises me that he won't but when I arrive, he continues.

I leave the next day and stay away longer.

Most people I tell this tell me that he nags me because he loves me. That is sick and twisted. Why do people have this deranged view of love? Where is the love in asking a question over and over again when the answer has been the same year in and year out? Since when nagging until you strike anger is love? Why is it love to enrage someone for so long?

Please give me advice. I do not want to miss out on my father's company this late in life. I reunited with him after I walked away for 22 years. He got remarried and his wife is a real gem. I love her dearly. But at that time, I didn't believe I fit in his new life.

I have no problem walking away. I walked away from my mother and sister for upwards of 15 years after they blamed me for my wife leaving, cheating and stealing $250,000 from me. (It's not stealing if you are married)

Please help.

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Whitney Houston: I want to dance with somebody who loves me.
TheXYGhost : Because loving someone, other than yourself is too much work for you.

Women Say They Have it So Hard

Most modern women get drunk on their perception of their own power. Many women worked before the 1960's and they made money they were married in their late teens and had kids while keeping house.

My grandmother was a maid in NYC while my grandfather was a dockworker. My grandmother used to scrub my grandfather's back in the bathtub when he got home. My grandmother shopped, cleaned house and did laundry neatly by hand then ironed all the pants and shirts with a cast-iron iron that she heated on the stove. She did dishes, cleaned toilets at work and at home. She sewed by hand and by peddle powered sewing machine. She patched torn clothes when she could.

My grandfather cooked because that was his thing. When he was in the Army in WWII my grandmother worked 2 and 3 jobs, and cooked, cleaned and took care of 2 kids for 2 years on her own. No fast food, no instant dinners, no take out, no car, no telephone, no air conditioner, no microwave, air-fryer, rice cooker or crockpot. She made spaghetti with flour and eggs. There was no welfare, no section 8, and no housing projects. She made tomato sauce with tomatoes she bought from the grocer. No can goods. She made fresh muffins, fresh food and not one single complaint.

My grandmother buried my grandfather with a marble tombstone with her loving words to her "Mikey". You will never see that kind of love from a woman today.

My grandfather bought my grandmother a $2,000 gold bracelet after 25 years of marriage. That's $25,000 in today's money. My grandmother never liked that. It was too much for her. She never wore that once but she loved my grandfather. She loved him. She never measured his height, income or dick size. She never nagged for a Prada bag. She never left him for another man. That was her first man and they loved each other.

Today women will take pride that she can't boil water they look to the provider to provide everything. Gucci bags, a $200,000 2 karat diamond ring, $100,000 wedding, 2, $60,000 cars, $1 million home, maids, a six-figure man, six foot tall, six figure income, and she gives and does nothing at all but she brings everything to the table. What a joke. You women should be ashamed. You have 2, 3, 4, and even 5 and 6 kids from as many drug addicts and felons. It's a disgrace to see this. Nasty.

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The Next Karate Kid, Ghostbusters, Oceans 8, What Men Want, Overboard, Supergirl, Dr. Who, and Captain Marvel. When will Hollywood learn?
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Old Gypsy Saying

"A woman can run faster and longer with her dress up than a man ever could with his pants down."

Don't get caught with your pants down.

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Behind every successful man is a woman looking to take a huge chunk of his wealth for herself.
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What She Does With an Alpha and Beta Males

Today's woman, outside of the guidance of a patriarchal hierarchy, is free to choose her own fate when it comes down to finding a mate. She wants an Alpha or Beta man but she settles for the Alpha or Beta for his provisions and protection for the time being. (First order of business for a woman is to get security in whatever form it takes.) She is with the Alpha or Beta until she gets an Alpha or Beta to impregnate her.

Once with the Alpha or Beta, she tests his strength by mistreating him. By this point in her life, she has manipulated so many for so long that she manipulates herself into utter confusion. She will test the Alpha or Beta with drama and mistreatment. When the Alpha or Beta won't put up with that treatment and walks out of her life. She will attempt to save face by blaming the Alpha or Beta with a phrase like, "He didn't know how to handle me". It's his fault and his fault only. She remains faultless. She returns to the Alpha or Beta that will service her needs like the servant she needs but does not want.

She secretly hates the Alpha or Beta when he is "nice" to her and resents being around a spineless servant. She cheats on him behind his back and blames him for "letting" or "allowing" her to cheat on him.

Her misguided perception of ?,?,? and ?s is loosely based on her ever changing feelings about that person. Feelings change as the wind changes and so does her mind.

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The most dangerous person in your child’s life is mommy’s new boyfriend / husband.
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No More Shame

Women had shame at one time.

Shamed to be single after age 25.

Shamed to be with an evil man.

Shamed to be a single mom.

Shamed to be divorced.

Shamed to not be a virgin before marriage.

Shamed to be loud in public.

Shamed to cheat on her husband.

Shamed to accept welfare or public assistance.

Shamed to live off the government and get food stamps.

Shamed to have an abortion.

Shamed to hit a man without good cause.

But now, times have changed, for the modern woman. The things that use to be shameful are now the source of her power and the symbol of her self-proclaimed independence.

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If I care, protect and provide for you, but all you offer in return is sex, What does that make you?
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10,000 Genders, Brought to You by the Feminists

Here is the List of Non-Binary Gender-Fluid Pronouns for all you CIS-Gendered, Male Privileged (and in some cases) White Privileged, Misogynistic, Homophobic, Chauvinistic, Woman Hating Bastards.

These are all the gender-neutral pronouns I've managed to hunt down but I am ABSOLUTELY CERTAIN there are several missing. So let me know if you know of any others or if I conjugated these incorrectly:

they/them/their/themselves

tey/tem/ter/temself

ey/em/eir/emself

e/em/eir/emself

thon/thon/thons/thonself

fae/faer/faers/faerself

vae/vaer/vaers/vaerself

ae/aer/aers/aerself

ne/nym/nis/nymself

ne/nem/nir/nemself

xe/xem/xyr/xemself

xe/xim/xis/ximself

xie/xem/xyr/xemself

ze(or zie)/zir/zirs/zirself

zhe/zhir/zhirs/zhirself

ze/hir/hirs/hirself

sie/sier/siers/sierself

zed/zed/zeds/zedself

zed/zed/zeir/zedself

ce/cir/cirs/cirself

co/cos/cos/coself

ve/vis/vir/verself

jee/jem/jeir/jemself

lee/lim/lis/limself

kye/kyr/kyne/kyrself

per/per/pers/perself

hu/hum/hus/humself

bun/bun/buns/bunself

it/it/its/itself

I've also seen "yo" and "fey" pronouns but I have no idea how to conjugate them. And I'm off to still hunt for more! If you know of any Gender-Neutral pronouns feel free to re-blog and add unto the list and I'll edit the original as well.

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Her: If you don’t buy me a ring, I will leave you.
TheXYGhost : Don’t threaten me with freedom, I might choose it.

An Entitlement Mentality Leads to Socialism

Women feel entitled to their husband's money. They dare not spend their own. They will be on their provider's side until they find a better provider. To a woman, there is no better provider than the government. When they switch their dependency from a man to the government being their provider their allegiance switches from the man to their new provider, the government. They now feel entitled to the government provisions because the government has Unlimited funds and the check come on time.

This is why women embrace socialism. They teach their sons to be momma's boys and their daughters to sell themselves to the highest bidder collecting kids to be wards of the state along the way. Single moms love the money and vote socialist all the way.

Men are no longer competing for a woman to be his wife to start up a family. They are on a constant and never-ending battle to keep that wife on the straight and narrow to make a family work. Women, who are taught by the media, are on a constant and never-ending lookout for the provider with the most to offer. Kids or no kids, she will take her kids to a man she decides is a better man for her kids than the man that fathered them.

She will get the government to sleigh the father of her kids. It's a never-ending perpetual web of lies, deceit and manipulation. The government protects the woman to strip the man of everything he owns because they are protecting their supporter.

The government is empowered when the people need a problem fixed. The government agrees to fix it using $1000 of tax money to throw $100 at a problem that would have taken $10. And the problem is not fixed.

Education is bad, the people cry out to the government, the government takes more tax money and makes the problem worse and in a few years the people will cry out again.

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Her: You don’t love me.
TheXYGhost : You do nothing to make me love you.

Do What's Right

I have been riding the New York City Subway system since the 1960's and on my own since the 1970's. I had been known, from time to time, to offer my seat to the elderly and pregnant. I later found out the dangers of wrongly assuming someone being pregnant.

By the mid 1980's I started to notice how few women gave up their seats to the elderly and pregnant. If they did, they mostly gave their seats to elderly women and not so many elderly men. When these women gave up their seats, they did it with anger that nobody gave their seat before they did. In fact, since the 1980's I have only counted 3 women giving up their seats for an elderly man.

Now, when I do give up my seat, I only give it to elderly men and once in a while, I'll give my seat to men that look like they had a hard day.

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Your ex-wife has a new man. He will give your 4 year old daughter baths and tucks her in at night.
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What I Love About Being A Man

What I love about being a man:

1. Your best friend calls you the worst names under the sun and you can call him the worst piece of shit on this earth.

2. Even your worst enemy will not strike you when you are sleeping, eating or with your family.

3. Even your worst mistake is eventually forgiven.

4. Every once in a while, the other guy in your crew offers to take one for the team.

And for those of you that agree, here is an example of #1:

Go Fuck Yourself. ..!., you Cocksucker Mother Fuckers and Pieces of Garbage

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Can you say, "Toxic Femininity"?
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Her Insecurities Defined

Women's primary concern is her personal security. With that in mind, she is born insecure. They are not insecure like us men are, their insecurities are on a different level than men. They are constantly looking for an external source for their security. Men on the other hand, deep down know that they need to conquer their own insecurities.

Some women look for men with money. That is the easiest way to measure security. Those women choose the easy route. Other women look for emotionally weaker men to contrast themselves, making sure they are better than that guy. That, less than desirable guy, compared to her makes her feel good about herself. It's like the hot girl that has a fat and ugly female friend to make the comparison even greater. She looks better compared to her friend. The ugly girl has a friend she can trust because neither of them are competing for the same man. The ugly girl gets to talk to the pretty girl's leftovers that she would never have if she was alone. Both of those girls will try to sabotage the other's relationships to keep their owe security in place.

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Do you really think that you can satisfy her every want, need and desire when, where and how she demands?
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How to Fail Her Test Deliberately

When a woman asks you, "What kind of woman do you like?" She has already marked you as her potential personal provider and she needs to know how to be the kind of woman you like.

I always say, I love a successful, independent, intelligent woman that has never been married, very feminine and doesn't come prepackaged with another man's child.

This way I can redefine any part of this in any way I see fit.

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It's never her fault. If she lied, cheated or stolen from you, either she had a reason or you picked the wrong one.
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Questions For Divorced Women

Women:

- Would you still love your mother and father if they made less money than you do?

- Would you still love your sons and daughters if they made less money than you do?

- Would you still love your aunts and uncles if they made less money than you do?

- Would you still love your cousins if they made less money than you do?

- Would you still love your brothers and sisters if they made less money than you do?

- Then why won't you love the man that you promised to love and cherish until death due you two apart?

- Why do you punish your own children by taking the most important man away from them when their father loses a job?

- Why do you use the police, lawyers and judges to break that man down when he does not fulfill every single one of your fantasies and cannot provide for your every want, need, desire and emotion on a silver platter, when, where and how you want it?

- Why do you choose to hate and not love the hand that fed you!

- Why do you exclude your love from the man you promised to love?

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If she cheated on you, then you picked the wrong one again.
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This Post Will Hurt Many Men

1. How many children have you lost in the hands of women?

2. How many were kidnapped and the courts allowed it?

3. How many women told you "This is your baby and it wasn't?

4. How many of your children were killed at the hands of a woman? (Abortion or otherwise)

5. How many of the above have you seen in other men's lives?

6. Were you kidnapped by your mother and kept from your father?

7. Did you know all your mother's boyfriend's names and never knew your father?

8. Do you want to be the father of another man's children while yet another man tucks your kids to bed at night?

9. How much money have you wasted in lawyer's fees, legal costs, court fees and time off work just to see your kids 4 days a month while another man tucks in your children at night?

10. Do these questions hurt too much?

11. Do you have what it takes to make a change for the better now?

Six Easy Steps

I. Share This (this means re-posting it)

II. React to this

III. Comment

IV. Join and become the solution TheXYGhost.com

V. Invite men you know to change history

VI. Post This on a pertinent Facebook Group

I ain't playing softball no more.

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Is she nagging you to, "Commit to Her"?
Why has she not committed to you?
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She Will Test Your Love For Her

She Will Test Your Love For Her

I have seen so many girls in the past deliberately go out of their way to start troubles with another man just to see if their man would fight for them. It's like the boy who cried "wolf". Later on, hearing from that girl to hear that she did it to see how much her man loves her, when deliberately putting her man in harm's way was proof positive that she doesn't care about him. When will a girl put the same efforts in loving her man?

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Why am I called a woman hater when I point out when women mistreating men?
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Women Murder Way More Than Men

Where are your Sons and Daughters?

In a massacre that is almost unspeakable, more than 66 million American babies have been murdered in the United States since Roe v. Wade was decided in 1973.

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Her Father: What can you offer my daughter?
TheXYGhost : What kind of offering are you expecting?

I Have Learned From My Past

From time to time, in the beginnings of the many relationships I have had, the girls involved would stop to check if I loved them. They would all ask, "Do you love me?" and when I gave my truthful answer, they would almost always be disappointed and ask again during the course of the day. One girl even asked me if I loved her and right after I said my piece, she immediately said, "How about now?", as if my mind changed that very second.

One day a new girl in my life started with the same question that all others in the past did. I answered her with, "I love you as much as you love me!"

I was set back by how angry she got right away. No doubt we had an argument about this, she was pissed off that I loved her so little, not realizing that she was admitting her lack of love towards me.

That hour we broke up with her saying, "I only want to date a man that loves me right from the start." She was even more infuriated when I told her that she was easily replaced, and I'll find another soon.

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Be her provider! Hopefully you can make more money than she can spend.
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Why I Choose MGTOW

They say MGTOW's are a bunch of men that are losers because they can't get themselves a woman.

As for myself, here are my experiences with women with regards to having girlfriends:

I had a girlfriend that became pregnant and I thought I was the father. I took care of my responsibilities above and beyond what I saw others did. I slowed down my college, took on two jobs and bought supplies, clothes, furniture and other things for the baby to come. The baby was born. I'm Caucasian, my girlfriend was too. The baby that was born, was black. She blamed me for not "being there for her". I walked away, but I said to myself, "Not all girls are like that" and moved on.

My next girlfriend got pregnant very early on despite my careful planning. But I accepted and then there were questions. Why was she 6 months pregnant when I was only with her for 5 months. Back then there was no DNA tests. A blood test proved upon birth that I could not be the father. She blamed me for not being able to control her, but I said to myself, "Not all girls are like that" and moved on.

I became more cautious. My next girlfriend I thought I chose carefully. She got pregnant too. The development of the fetus was on the same timeline as my presence. Then I received a phone call from someone that told me that I was interfering with his girl (my girlfriend). I invited him for coffee and we found out that my girlfriend was playing us both. $1,800 and a DNA test proved, I was not the father. Yes, she blamed her infidelity on me, but I said to myself, "Not all girls are like that" and moved on.

Then I became even more cautious. I rejected many until I was sued by a woman for child support. I only knew the girl's first name and never laid a finger on her. She put my name on her child's birth certificate and that was all that was needed. She was suing me with the help of the NY State Social Services. The case was dropped once it was discovered that the girl in question was petitioning the Department of Health to change the name of the father on the Birth Certificate, yet again. My name was the second name that was second father in a line of a few, but I said to myself, "Not all girls are like that" and moved on.

While the above was happening, I ran into one of my previous ex-girlfriends on the street. We exchanged numbers and the only reason she called me was to tell me that when she left me, she was pregnant and she had to abort it because I was not making enough money to raise it, trying to place her guilt on me. But I said to myself, "Not all girls are like that" and moved on.

I started to keep women at arm's distance. Never telling them where I lived or work. (Pump and dump) in the same time that all of the above happened, I had one girl that told her friends that I had raped her. I have never touched her. Another girlfriend told her friends and mine, I raped her too. She was a pump and dumper.

I had girlfriends that told me their stepdad had regular sex with them since they were in their early teens. I had single mothers of girlfriends that wanted to have sex with me and when I turned them down, they convinced their daughter to break up with me. One aunt of my girlfriend did the same but left me alone once I turned her down. I had girlfriends whose best friends did the same.

I had girlfriends that said that they were pregnant when they were not.

Two of my ex-girlfriends were married and forgot to tell me.

One girlfriend told me that she had herpes and it was nothing to worry about while telling me how she scared men off in the past by telling them she had herpes.

I finally got married. She had good parents and a cool brother. I thought this was it. Weeks after we got married, she cried to me that she was unable to have children. I was upset but accepted my fate. Three weeks before Christmas and a week before our 3rd wedding anniversary, my wife left me and moved into her new boyfriend's apartment. Only one week before this, my wife told me that the first time I had sex with her I raped her. What?!? I raped her and she married me? Make no mistake, she blamed me too. It was my fault that I believed her.

When I cleaned my apartment out, I found all her birth control pills hidden away in her side of the closet. People told me it was my fault for not checking up on her on a regular basis and not looking in her personal stuff. She gave birth to a boy a year later from the guy she moved in with after she left me.

My ex-wife stole $250,000 from me and spent $80,000 in credit card bills under my name and lawyers said I had no real recourse.

That was nearly 19 years ago. I'm 55 years old and a man last night told me I look like I'm in my early 40's. 22 years of looking for a woman to partner with was a living hell. 19 years of single life had its ups and downs but I will never trade the life I have for a woman!

Since my divorce, I have had 15 women propose marriage to me. I've declined them all. They ask me why and I tell them the stories of my past. They almost always tell me the same things;

1 - "You picked the wrong women"

And

2 - "Not all girls are like that"

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Never financially obligate yourself to an entity whose prerogative is to change their mind.
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Lorena Bobbitt The Pride of the Modern Woman

There is a new TV series on Amazon Prime called Lorena, revisiting the events of John Wayne & Lorena Bobbitt. In case you are not familiar with the subject, Lorena Bobbitt was the woman who cut off her husband's penis while he was asleep back in the 1990's.

In the trailer of this movie the phrase, "What did he do to make her do something like that?" is said. After that, they mentioned that that she lived with the abuse that pushed her over the edge. There were claims that he pushed and shoved her except nobody ever asked, "What did she do to make him do something like that?"

I do not advocate violence at all. Nobody should hit anyone, ever! Male, female or any of the newly discovered and / or not yet discovered 10,000 genders out there.

Lorena - Official Trailer | Prime Video

With that said, I was around at this time and was sickened on how many women were cheering for Lorena without knowing the facts that lead up to this horrific act.

Until this day, Lorena Bobbit gets standing ovations for the sexual Mutilation of another person.

Lorena Bobbitt: I just went insane || STEVE HARVEY

But here is what John Wayne Bobbit has to say:

John Wayne Bobbitt and his ex-wife Lorena, agree to disagree.

Now based on your life experiences, and your understanding, which side seems more plausible?

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Why are there so many books and courses on how to please and understand women?
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Lunch With My Sister

I had a late lunch with my liberal, leftist, Democrat sister today that had 3 kids from 3 different men and lives in NYC housing projects on government money. She had 3 child support payments and government subsidized housing, free gas and electricity, food stamps, and welfare. Meanwhile, she sublet one of her bedrooms for market rate and she had an off the books job. Now that the kids have grown, she bought a house on the waterfront in cash while maintaining the government subsidized rent.

She said that Trump was a racist that is only using the presidency to make himself richer. She never questions the $149 million Hillary Clinton made while she was Secretary of State or why she has $31 million in 4 mansions. She faults him for ending the war in Syria when Obama campaigned to end the wars as his number one priority. Instead, Obama, the Nobel Peace Prize winner before he was president for 2 months, started 12 wars including the one Trump ended in Syria.

The truth is that she wants to protect her source of income from her current husband, the government.

In my conversation with her I mentioned that every woman hates her husband. She corrected me by saying, I never hated any of my husbands, I just knew it was time for them to leave.

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I encourage all women to embrace feminism. It’s easy. Drive a truck or an Uber. Be your own boss. Take a man out to dinner.
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Women Wants a Man to be Her Personal Servant

Women think that a man's job is to:

1) Seek them out

2) Pursue them, even though they reject them at every stage (if you are worthy in her mind, you should keep pursuing although she is telling you to stop. If you are not worthy in her mind, watch out)

3) Impress them

4) Wine and dine them

5) Find what makes her happy and do it constant because she will refuse to take any action for her own.

6) Be richer than all of her previous boyfriends

7) Satisfy her in bed better than all other men she has been with. (Again, she will give you not a single clue about what she wants or enjoys)

8) Be her provider and provide for all her wants needs and desires when she wants it and how she wants it no matter the cost.

9) Protect her no matter if she puts you in harm's way deliberately just to see how you perform.

10) Act jealous but not too jealous. It's all to her liking and she will flirt with others to see how you react. So, perform to her liking again.

11) Do all the above or she won't see you again but she will treat you like a wimp when you do all she expects from you.

Fuck all that shit:

1) If you want me to protect you with my life, show me that you are worth my time and you are worth me dying over.

2) If you want a King in your life don't expect me to be your servant. Kings are obeyed and servants get stepped on.

3) What can you do for me that I can't do or pay for myself?

4) Are you even worth my time, efforts, energy and resources or are you going to add to my work? I like driving nice cars. High maintenance cars get left on the side of the road.

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96% of violent criminals were raised by single mothers.
80% of women file for divorce.
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Today's Woman in a Nutshell

Women today are so demanding and unforgiving with their ultra-high, wants, needs and desires that are on fantasy levels and have never been attained before in her lifetime. They are not satisfied with a man just liking them, they want love, and not only love on a scale never before experienced, they want their man to be in love with them and constantly prove it under any and all conditions. A woman will test that "love" with every trick she has. In her way, she is saying, "Love me even though I kicked you in your balls". To her that is unconditional love. If you try to explain to her that the love that she demands is developed over many years and does not come in a packet of instant love (just add water), she will instantly think that you are weaseling out of your duty to be in love with her while passing all her tests. At this point, she will pacify you and keep you happy until she finds another man to start the process off from the beginning.

She will have many other demands that she wants of her "little performing monkey", but she will never tell him what she wants, she will just hint.

Over and over again I hear women and some men make the statement that the key to a good relationship is communication, but the woman is guilty of the breakdown because she communicates in hints.

You are just another resource to her as she is looking to monkey branch to the next unsuspecting guy she finds.

Finding a replacement guy for her is easy as she can easily find some guy to believe her one sided tales of your abusive ways. The new guy will immediately believe her and her alone as he ignores the other side of the story. He falsely feels good as her new protector and she feels protected that this new guy believes her and her alone.

When and if she finds the person that knows what she wants, and bends over backwards to give her that.

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Her: I have been in many successful relationships.
TheXYGhost : I wish you many more.

Why So Many "Strong Independent Women" Are Single

They asked me why so many strong women are single. This was my answer;

1) Because women always marry up. They marry, stronger, faster, richer, taller, etc. it's hard for them to stay with a man when they are constantly comparing their status attributes and competing with any man that comes their way.

2) They are dominant, domineering and they tend to be dominant towards their men. That is not a feminine attribute. Weak men like to be dominated and strong man will walk away from that.

3) They are not looking for a partner, they are looking for a competitor and they don't know when to stop.

4) The women who believe they are strong are weak because they believe they need to show off their strength 24/7 non-stop.

5) They consider themselves strong and need to prove it every step of the way and they think a stronger man will do the same.

6) They are looking for a man stronger than they are (their own personal definition of strength) and they believe a strong man will do the same as they do only longer and better.

7) They want a man to put them in their (subjectively defined) place although they will never acknowledge their (self-perceived) place, thus proving themselves weaker.

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She has 3 kids from three men. She is independent!
You got 3 girls pregnant. She calls you a loser because you always pick the wrong girls.
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The Single Female Test

For those of you that are still looking for Miss. Right, here is an impassable test for her.

Ask her the following;

1) How many successful relationships have you had?

The answer should be zero. If she answers anything other than zero, then you need to also ask why were those relationships successful. Did she achieve her objective and left? If it was so successful, why did it end? If she is over 25, why can’t you maintain a relationship?The answer should be zero. If she answers anything other than zero, then you need to also ask why were those relationships successful. Did she achieve her objective and left? If it was so successful, why did it end? If she is over 25, why can’t you maintain a relationship?

2) Are you looking for a "Provider"?

If she answers, "Yes", you need to ask her who is providing for her now. You also need to ask her, what provisions does she require?

3) Why did your last relationship end?

Whatever she answers, you hold that against her. Some common answers are;

a. "We didn't get along" - Then ask her why can't she get along with people.

b. "We weren't 'right' for each other" - Then ask her why she started dating him if he wasn't 'right' for her.

c. "He cheated"

"He lied"

"He was a drug addict"

Then you really hit her with, "Wow, you sure know how to pick 'em. You must really like the 'Bad boys' and you have issues."

4) "He was abusive" - Tell her that you can find 10,000 men that will absolutely will never hit a woman. She found the abuser. She found the one man out of 10,000 that will hit a woman. Either that or she must have done something to get abused. Beatings don't just drop from the sky.

5) If she tells you, "He always did what I told him" You need to ask her why did she asked him to do things she never wanted him to do.

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Marry a single mom. Her kids need a father. Pay for their school and she will divorce you when they turn 18.
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And You Want to Date a Single Mom

From the time I was a child to my twilight years I've heard young girls telling their friends how hot their step-dad is...

...And you want to date a single mom.

I've often heard young girls brag (mostly lies) how they had sex with their step-dad...

...And you want to date a single mom.

Many years I heard stories of girls telling their friends that their step-dad was molesting them.

...And you want to date a single mom.

When your girlfriend (a single mom) wants to punish you for not wanting to marry her, she will accuse you of molesting her daughter.

...And you still want to date a single mom.

When you turn down a woman's sexual advances, she will stop at nothing to lash out at you. Her daughter is no different.

...And you still want to date a single mom.

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A woman’s sexual market value peaks at age 25. Her sexual appetite peaks at around 35.
Ha! Ha!
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Wisdom From a 76-Year-Old Pastor and Marriage Counselor

I spoke to a 76-year-old man the other day. He was a minister and a marriage counselor for 45 years. He told me that the first 12 years of his marriage counseling experience, he couldn't believe how bad all the men were. One day he started all his initial counseling sessions with the question, "How is your relationship with your spouse?" He would ask the husband first and then the wife. What he found out was eye-opening.

All of the husbands would answer the question by saying everything is OK. The wife, on the contrary would mention every single one of the man's "faults" to a tee including anything and everything that was not under either of their control.

He also said how the wife would use the word, "enough" as part of her complain. They would say, "He doesn't love me enough.", "He doesn't spend enough time with kids" and the dreaded, "He doesn't give me enough attention."

When he'd ask the wife, "What is enough?" They would almost always reply, "More than he is doing now". When he asked the wives what their solution was. The answer was almost always be, "Divorce". Just imagine that, they would think that the solution to not spending "enough" time with the kids, was a permanent dismissal from the home.

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Women, it’s easy to become a feminist. Just take a hard working man to dinner and pay the check.
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The Diminishing Price of a Woman

I remember back in the 1970's there was a documentary about prostitution in New York City. The hookers said they charged $100 per hour.

In the 1980's when I worked the New York City nightclub scene, it was still about $100 per hour.

By the late 1990's a friend of mine told me that he pays women $70 - $80 per hour.

Over this past weekend, (August 2019) a man told me that the going rate was about $50 per hour.

You might think that the price of a call girl's hourly service fee has gone down $50 in 50 years, and you'd be wrong. If you factor in for inflation, the $100 back in the 1970's had the buying power of today's $661. That is a savings of 92%. Factor in the Law of Supply and Demand and you will see that the ladies of the evening were scarce back then, thus commanding a higher price. What does that say about the girls of today?

It's Always A Man's Fault

- When a woman hits a man, the man is wrong. She must have hit him for a reason.

- When a man hits a woman, he is wrong and he goes to jail.

- When a man divorces a woman, he is wrong and he will pay.

- When a woman divorces a man, takes his kids, he must have done something wrong and he must pay.

- When a man cheats, on a woman, she will leave him and he needs to pay.

- When a woman cheats and brings another child into a man's life, he is supposed to be understanding.

If a woman sues for divorce and takes everything a man has worked for his entire life, and now he needs to rent an apartment and ride the bus, he is no good.

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Women can have abortions without the fathers permission. Men need permission from their wives to get a vasectomy.
My body my choice?
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5 Kids From 5 Restaurant Owners

I remember one day this woman wanted to introduce me to a "Good Girl". A really "Nice Girl" that was asking around about me. When I found out she was talking about her niece, I asked her son about his cousin. He told me to stay away from his cousin. He didn't say it in the way a brother does to protect her. He told me that his cousin had 5 kids from 5 different restaurant owners. Was divorced twice and never had any kids from those marriages. He also told me that his cousin was a real dominator. She felt the need to dominate anyone she saw fit.

I never stopped by my friend's place again. Sure, we went out from time to time but I never went back to his mom's place as his cousin was in the process of breaking up with the last father of her last child and preparing to move in with her mom. (Dependency, Dependency, Dependency).

As time went by, my friend told me stories about his cousin. She was pregnant with restaurant owner #1 while still married with husband #1. That fizzled out fast and just like that divorce #1 was done and husband #2 cucked his way in. She was pregnant again with restaurant owner #2 and divorce # 2 soon followed.

She hid the fact that she had children at all when she met the next 3 restaurant owners. She had 2 abortions when she was in her teens and had a host of STDs in the past. She even had a few drug-addicted boyfriends and one in prison.

If this is a "Good Girl" and a "Nice Girl" I sure hate to see what a bad girl is like.

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Date a feminist! She will pay for the dinner, drinks and the movie.
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She's In College for Pre-Wed

Back in 2003 I had a very interesting conversation with a girl I met at a Starbucks in Manhattan (New York City). We talked for hours and I started to get hungry. I offered to pay for soup in this fancy Chinese soup restaurant across the street. Since she was a student at Columbia University, I knew she had no money.

We continued the conversation at the restaurant when she almost immediately said why she picked Columbia University. She told me that she was looking for a rich man to take care of her. I never flinched a muscle and continued to talk to her.

I already knew what a girl means when she says, "take care of me". It means that she will do absolutely nothing at all for the provisions that she expects from her provider. What it means is she expects that you provide for her every want, need and desire, when, where and how she wants without any reciprocation on her part. If you do not fulfill all of her very unreasonable fantasies as she demands, a scorched-earth divorce is your punishment.

I finished the meal and paid for the bill. We put on our coats and walked out the door. Outside, I shook her hand and wished her well as I started to walk away. Astonished, she asked me why I was not asking for her phone number. I simply said, "I'm not rich, but there are many guys out there that are way more financially gifted than I am." Then I walked away and never turned back.

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Her: I’m not a feminist. Treat me to dinner!
TheXYGhost : If you do nothing to stop feminism, you are the problem.

When My Wife Walked Out On Me

When my wife walked out on me, she moved in with her new simp right away.

Soon after the accusations were pounding on my face;

- You must have done something wrong for her to leave you?

- What did you do to her to make her leave you?

- She must have left you for a reason.

- You picked the wrong girl.

- Maybe you didn't know how to satisfy her.

- Maybe you didn't know how to make her happy.

- You hate women.

The funny thing about this is that when word got around that my wife left me, All the single moms, divorced women and married women started to show their availability to me in a very overtly sexual way.

When I told the married women that I do not play that game, they went back to their husbands and told them I made a move on them.

As for the single moms and divorced women, they would spread rumors about me when I refused their advances.

I had young girls telling me that their mommy "likes me". I've even had one woman telling me that her daughter (a woman that had 5 kids from 5 different restaurant owners) was asking about me. She also had a simp of a boyfriend that never met with her mother's approval.

When I denied advances from a girl, I was immediately called gay and other names. One woman suggested that I go on a gay dating site. I nearly lost it and blew up in her face. She started to giggle at my anger only stating, "You're angry." And maybe that's why my wife left me.

Women at work spread all kinds of allegations about the reasons my wife left me without even knowing me or my ex that well. It was like living in a bizarro world on never ending accusations and advances. It got so crazy that I had to take a break from even talking about my divorce to anyone.

What are your experiences?

Were they similar to mine?

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Be a feminist! Be the breadwinner and provider for a man.
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Stupid Shit That Only Women Say:

Stupid Shit That Only Women Say:

- He didn't give me enough attention.

- I'm high maintenance.

- He couldn't handle me.

- He is too nice.

- He wasn't man enough.

- I'm worth it.

- He didn't make me happy.

- I'm picky.

- There must be a reason.

- I'm bored.

- He made me angry.

- He let me manipulate him.

- I want someone that will take care of me.

- He's afraid of commitments.

- I don't love him anymore.

- I'm highly educated.

- I'm a strong independent woman.

- You hate women.

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Flirting in the office is considered sexual harassment, if the man doing the flirting is broke or unattractive.
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I Need to Put This on Record

They say I don't know women. They say I'm jaded because of one girl that divorced me.

I'm ashamed to say that I had many girlfriends in my life. I have never cheated on any of my past girlfriends, I was accused several times.

I never hit any woman with whom I was involved. The other girls I've hit in the past I didn't know and were self-defense.

I've had 3 girls that claimed that I got them pregnant. Thanks to a blood test (semi paternity test in the 1980's), racial differences (I'm not black, neither was my girlfriend. The child was), and DNA testing, I'm not a father.

There were rumors that a girlfriend of mine had an abortion, she said it was mine.

One girlfriend told me flat out that she had aborted my child.

One girl put me on a birth certificate, I never even touched her and didn't know her last name. Family court was called off when it was found out that she petitioned the Board of Health multiple times to change the father's names, all different.

I had 4 girlfriends whose mothers (single moms, all 4 of them) were overtly hitting on me, when I refused, their mothers acted all the same, they told my girlfriend I was hitting on them.

4 - 6 of my friend's girlfriends wanted to get with me and when I turned them down, good bye friends. (See above)

I had one girlfriend whose aunt hit on me and when I said no, she left it alone.

2 of my ex's were married and they kept that small fact away from me.

I dated two single mothers, that was a big mistake both times.

4 of my ex's claimed they had an ongoing affair with their stepfather. So, how do you feel about dating a single mom with a daughter now?

I'm not bragging, some of my ex's fit into 2, 3 and 4 of these categories.

3 girls claimed that I raped them, (never formally) including my ex-wife who made the claim 2 weeks before she handed me my divorce papers about the first time we had sex, before we were married. Yeah, I raped her, then we got married, if you believe that one.

I had a few girlfriends that claimed to have been raped. But other things indicated otherwise.

I dated a famous singer of the 1970's. I was 22 she was 38. She is still kicking at 69. No, it wasn't Barbara Streisand.

I was involved with a rock star when she was in high school and I was at a nearby college.

I was involved with an actress whose both parents were very well-known actors.

1 of my ex's was the unspoken love-child of, then Attorney General at the time, later on he became mayor of NYC and he ran for president in 2008.

I dated a model for Victoria Secret and Talbot.

I dated a woman that was worth $40 million and I thought that money would not be a reason we break up. It was. She said that I couldn't keep up with her vacationing habits.

Between 2011 and 2014 I have had 14 women that asked me to marry them. OK, truth be told, most of them wanted green cards, at least 10 of them admitted that. 3 were foreigners that didn't admit that's why they wanted to marry. The last one was crazy. I'm 53 now, you gotta take what you can get at my age.

In the 1980's I worked for a very famous club promoter in NYC. We worked at Studio 54, Tracks, Xenon, The Red Parrot, The Underground, The Palladium, etc. and I had a public access cable TV show that I filmed at these places. I had my choice of women.

I only had 2 girlfriends that were very cool but they both went back to Germany. Who knows, maybe they were the ones that got away and maybe I never knew them long enough. Who really knows?

My mom was a single mom by 1967. Her and my sister persistently tried to overpower me every chance they had. I knew all my mom's boyfriends but I didn't know my dad until I was 14. I really grew to like him when I reunited with him at age 48.

My sister had 3 kids from 3 men and I watched how she destroyed all men in her path.

I created my own escort service and had 3 girls going on 1 or 2 dates a night 5 - 6 days a week. I did this while working at an office job.

I worked as a phone psychic for 2 1/2 years where I would receive 20 - 30 phone calls per day 7 days a week. 95% of the callers were women wanting to know if one guy loves them while they plan to leave another.

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Why do I need to Support, Provide for and Protect yet another fully grown, independent woman until she finds the man of her dreams?
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My Life As A Phone Psychic #8

Most of my callers would be women complaining about their income source (their husband or boyfriend) while working on a new one that is still married or in a more committed relationship. They would tell me how their man would not live up to their expectation of what they imagined. I would always tell them that there are two men in their lives; one that they wanted to come into their life, the other one they want to leave. I would tell these women this even before they speak. They were so typical.

Day in and day out it was a factory assembly line of women telling me what they couldn't tell their clergymen, friends, relatives or psychiatrists? It was no wonder how I pegged them so well without even a word from their mouths.

They would never see their actions as cheating. I would tell these women that I see them working hard to get a commitment from the married men they want but the men do not seem to be responding. I would usually praise these women with the level of effort they were providing in order to get their target men to commit to them. I even told these women that they were going above and beyond what they would usually do for the new man in order to get him to commit to her.

These women that called me were always so frustrated at their efforts to get an attached man to leave their committed partner and commit to them instead. Their dependencies were so intertwined. They depended on a man they hated while they looked at a new attached man as their new dependency. They will never drop one for the other. Walking that fine line to hold one in place while trying their best to attract and hold on to the new one. Never leaving the first dependency until the second one is secured tightly.

This is "Monkey Branching" at its finest.

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60 years of feminism has taught us that men are equal to women. Why do men always need to pay the bill?
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My Life As A Phone Psychic #7

Back in 2004, I received a call from a woman and after giving her my shtick, she asked me, "When is my Johnny coming back to me?"

In order to take more time (charging $6.99 per minute) I asked her Johnny's date of birth and the last time she was intimate with him, so my spirit guide could contact with his spirit.

She quickly said, "June 23, 1972"

Thinking that was Johnny's complete birth date, I asked her again when she was last intimate with Johnny. She told me, "1972".

I had to get things straight with her as I was a bit confused. She began by telling me that she met this man back in 1972 after a concert in which Johnny was playing. She slept with him the same day and he tried to go his own way.

She persisted in seeing him in every local concert he played. He didn't care about her.

She even moved into the same gated community and followed him to concerts when he was local. Johnny had to pass pictures of this stalker to security whenever he has a gig.

Years passed and he got married. She didn't take the hint. She persisted in stalking him. She followed him when he moved to Upstate New York and again to New Jersey. She even told me that she married a man to get him jealous. When he had kids, she got pregnant to get his attention.

A number of 'Protection Orders' and she still never backed off.

Now we are in 2004. She divorced her husband and now spends weekends in her husband's parent's basement and weekdays at her husband's place. Her 11-year-old daughter rather stay with her father than her mom. She could never hold a job to save her life. Johnny keeps getting 'Protection Orders' when the one before expires.

Johnny is still in a band and travels to Europe and all over the United States. He has 3 kids and is still married with his wife of 14 years.

Do you still want a side piece?

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I just finished talking to a Chinese woman that spoke very broken English. She knew the words, "Alimony" and "Half" really well.
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My Life As A Phone Psychic #6

My friend and I were phone psychics and it was a lot of fun sharing stories and ideas with him about the callers. Some of his callers would call me and some of mine sometimes called him. One day he stumbled upon something. He told a caller that was looking to leave her husband that her husband forced her to marry him. The woman cried and confessed that she never told a soul about that and she was ashamed to tell anyone.

He started to add that into his readings and soon found out that almost all the callers would agree. It was so insane that I started telling women that their husband forced them to marry them. Some would cry as they agreed and it made them call even more.

I tried to tell women not to leave their husbands but they would just hang up on me. These women didn't want psychics, they wanted to cherry pick ideas that made them look innocent and as a victim, always.

By the end of 6 months, I had a 30-minute monologue ready for any new caller that I started out even before they asked a single question. Their feedback on the website was something like;

"This man is very in tuned with me. He told me things I never told a soul. Right off the bat his readings were accurate and he never even asked me my date of birth. Highly recommend"

My Life As A Phone Psychic #5

At first, I laughed at my friend when he suggested that I should work as a phone psychic, but I soon found out that more than 90% of my callers were extremely predictable.

1) They were almost always women or gay men.

2) They were living off one man (husband or boyfriend) that they pretended to like yet they were not wrong for doing that.

3) They almost always asked about a 2nd, 3rd or even 4th man in their scope that they wish to live off instead.

4) They always ask, "Does he love me?", "Will he commit to me?" or "When will he commit to me or love me?"

5) They almost always believe you are a good psychic if you support them leaving the man, they are with for the man they want.

Wash, Rinse, Repeat.

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I do not have the Time, Money, Energy, Patience or the Knowledge to satisfy a woman's every Want, Need and Desire, When, Where and How they want.
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My Life As A Phone Psychic #4

I had a new caller and right away she started telling me her life story. So, at $6.99 per minute, I listened very carefully.

She told me that she was 57 years old and she lived a good life. She had 3 children and she made sure that her kids finished high school and college. She guided them to marry the "right" persons and "she" bought them all homes although she never had a job the entire marriage.

She told me that she did all that she could do for her kids and now it was her turn. She continued by saying, "I'm not selfish and I know where my kids are going. I've helped them on the right path in life. I DON'T WANT TO KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT MY LAZY GOOD FOR NOTHING HUSBAND. HE SOLD HIS BUSINESS AND ENDED UP WORKING AT A FLORIST SHOP!"

She maintained composure and told me that she wanted to find out about her boyfriend that was 76 years old and was an owner of an oil refinery in Louisiana. She told me that this guy of her dreams was fooling around with 2 - 30-year-old women that were after his money only.

She told me about her two sons and her daughter then she told me that she lived in a $800,000 home that was fully paid for. She also told me that her husband, age 68, sold his business (Financial Services company) for $5 million to work with his army buddy selling flowers.

She summed up her entire story by reiterating, "I don't want to know about me. I don't want to know about my kids or my good for nothing husband. I NEED TO KNOW WHEN WILL MY BOYFRIEND COMMIT TO ME BECAUSE I CAN'T LEAVE MY HUSBAND WITHOUT HIM."

I began by picking up the evil energies of the two 30-year-old girls. She was happy. I told her that these women will soon show their evil side to him and it will hit him that she is better for him. She was so pleased to hear that.

I told her that to get him hooked on her she needs to play "hard to get" and she agreed. She even said she thought that might be the best plan and she just needed me to confirm.

She then told me that she needed a hip replacement and she wanted to know if she should make her husband pay for it or should she wait for her boyfriend to commit to her. I became so sick to my stomach, I nearly thew up.

I ended up telling her to wait for her boyfriend to commit to her to get her hip replaced as when he rescues her, it will help him to bond with her.

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Ask 10,000 men on the street if they would ever hit a woman. Nearly all will say, "No". Leave it to a woman to find the most abusive men each and every time.
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My Life As A Phone Psychic #3

I had a caller that was very adamant about her intentions to leave her husband after 20 years, but in order to do that, she needed to find another man to latch on. She would call me from time to time asking me about every new man she met. She told her son, daughter and best friend of her intentions. She went in internet chat rooms (2002) to find men that will do her will and make her life a paradise.

One day she called me about a man in France that invited her to go there and live with him. He promised her the sun, moon and everything in between.

I almost begged her not to go. She told me that her 11-year-old daughter cried and begged her not to leave, but she bought a ticket to France to meet the man that she knew nothing about.

The next call I received from her was her in France, telling me that the man never showed up. She was shocked that I was right about what I told her. But she asked again if I thought the man would show up. I told her it would not be likely.

She spent a month in France, with the money she took from her husband, then went home. When she arrived, she was shocked at the reception she received from her family. She called me, and was ponderous as to why they would not be happy that she returned.

A few days past and she called, asking why her family was distancing themselves from her. She even told me that her best friend didn't return her calls. She then saw the credit card bills and noticed a few purchases from Victoria's Secret while she was in France.

In short, she kicked her support system in the crotch and wondered why he didn't support her afterwards. Now she wanted me to help her get back with her husband and get him to break it off with her ex best friend, so she could continue her search. All for $6.99 per minute.

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Women, Kings get treated well and servants serve your needs. Do you want a man that is a King or a servant?
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My Life As A Phone Psychic #2

I got this call from a woman in her mid-40s that told me her son died the day before. I really felt bad that moment and I wondered if I could handle this call on the psychic phone service I was working on. She told me that her two sons were arguing while working on a roofing job. One of her sons fell off the roof and that's how he died.

I panicked, I thought that she was going to ask me to channel his spirit or something strange and bizarre. I was wrong. She finished that last sentence about her own son dying unhurt as she went on to ask the question for which she initially called.

She began, saying, "I met this man a while ago and he has yet to ask me out on a date. I see him on a regular bases and we talk all the time. Does this man love me? Will he ever get the nerve to ask me out?"

I was amazed. Here is this woman, whose son just died the day before and she was asking me about the possibilities of a man asking her out without a tear or a second thought about a son that died the day before.

I had to stop the call. I told the woman that I had forgotten to take my medication and I was feeling ill. I hung up the phone and she called back 30 minutes later without even mentioning her son's death and focusing on how to get this man to take her out.

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I identify as a MGTOW. What pronoun should feminist use to address me?
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My Life As A Phone Psychic #1

After my divorce and after September 11th I became so depressed that I never left my apartment for years. After some time, a friend took pity on me and signed me up as a phone psychic. I laughed, telling this man that I was not a psychic. He then told me that all I had to do was tell people what they want to hear. This was very perplexing to me because, I thought that, in order for me to tell someone what they want to hear, I would have to know them and know what they want to hear in order for me to say those things. When I told him this he laughed and said it's not that hard and I'm making it harder than it really is.

So, I started and very soon I was the top 30 of the over 10,000 psychics they had on board. I found out very quickly that 95% of my callers were female and 4% were gay men (female mind set) and the one question they ALWAYS asked every single time is, "Does he love me?" This is what narcissistic women want to know. They have no responsibility to have their own reasoning and understanding they need someone to figure it out for them.

Before long, I had a complete speech for callers before they even said a single word. I would tell them that the spirits were telling me that they were loving, caring, giving and sharing all the time and they never bother to give to themselves. I'd then tell them to take one day to pamper them self with a manicure, pedicure, facial and massage because she deserves that. What woman would hang up at $6.99 per minute. (I would get slightly less than that as my cut.)

I would also say to them that there is 2 main men in their life; one that is pushing towards her but she does not want anything to do with him and another one that may be drifting away. They would definitely concur stating that the one in their life was their husband or boyfriend and the man that maybe drifting away is the man they really wanted. It is easy to read simple minds.

It was April 7, 2003 and I got a call from a woman from upstate New York. She had a whisper of a voice as she told me about this man that she wanted in her life named Russell. She would tell me how much she was in love with this man and she asked me if Russell loved her and have received her letters. I said that in fact, he did and that he carried one letter in particular in his pocket every day. She was pleased to hear that.

She then told me that today is Russell's birthday and that she was working hard to channel her energies to him because he is in New Zealand now. She also informed me that he was getting married today.

I was in shock. I had this gut feeling that she was talking about Russell Crowe the actor. I Google searched his name and to my surprise it was his birthday and he was getting married that very day.

I then started telling this lady that only minutes before he went to the alter to take his vows, he read her letter and put it in his inside jacket pocket right next to his heart. She sighed and moaned with that. I personally think by this time she was playing with her kitty. Which never happened before or since that day with other callers. At least I don't think it did.

I love the movie Gladiator. It's such a guy flick filled with great virtues. The Narcissist vs the Humble and a man that is a respected leader even as a slave alongside his sworn enemies. I've watched that movie over and over and over again at that time.

I told this woman about Russell's regrets for marrying this woman even as he said the words, "I do" I also described Russell the way I would describe Russell's character, Maximus, strong, leader, fearless and honorable. With every sentence I uttered, she responded with a sighing, "Yes!" I could not believe that this woman in her mid-forties was pining over a man that she had never met. This was purely pathetic. She paid $420 an hour for a stranger to tell her details about someone whom he does not know.

This went on for way more than an hour until her money ran out. Over the next few months, she called several times still wanting to know about her fantasy all the while distancing herself from any man that was real.

I'm gonna tweet this to Russell Crowe with my sincere apologies to him. @RussellCrowe

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Tolerate my intolerance.
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Girls, You Need to Lift the Seats Too

I was waiting in line to get in a bathroom at Starbucks® in midtown Manhattan in New York City. I was second in line and a cute, well-dressed girl with an expensive handbag was in front of me. Just then, the door to the bathroom opened and a Starbucks® employee came out with a broom, a dustpan and a spray bottle of sorts with him signifying that the bathroom was just cleaned. The girl went in and after a short time, you hear the toilet flush, water run and the hand dryer blowing, then she opened the door to leave.

I went in, locked the door and noticed a wad of toilet paper on the floor between the side of the toilet and the wall. I put on my glasses to inspect the seat, amazed to see droplets of urine on the left and right sides of the toilet seat. They say men are filthy and pee on the seats all the time. Women hover and they sprinkle on the sides of the seat. Why do they not lift the seat when they hover?

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What happens when, "It’s cheaper to keep her" meets "I’ll profit from a divorce"?
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My Encounter with a Domestic Violence Councilor

A 57-year-old business acquaintance of mine, who was, at one time, a domestic violence councilor, began to lecture me about all the disservices I was committing against myself for being single. He even asked me, "What do you do?", meaning what I did for sex. He even went as far as asking me if I masturbated often. I looked at him and asked him, "Why is my genitalia on your mind?" With that he stopped that line of questioning but he continued telling me how great his life was with "the right woman". He had only met her about 6 years before, in his early fifties and her in her early forties.

She lives in Los Angeles with their son (age 5) and he travels back and forth between there and New York City.

In the past, I have seen him call his wife asking her permission to do something in NYC. I never want to ask permission of anyone to do anything I want to do. I've seen him on the phone with her and complaining, after hanging up, that she treats him like a child. That is not what I'm looking for out of my life. There were times he was late calling his wife. He got an ear full when he finally did call her. Again, not my idea of a great time.

Anyway, after chewing my ear off, he told me about his life as a domestic violence councilor and how he used to council men in prison for doing, amongst other things, pushing their wife's face in a grease fryer. He started on this path trying to convince me that men were mean and abusive. He also told me about his wife's ex-husband and how abusive he was to her. The look on his face was priceless when I told him that one side of the story does not a conclusion make. I also told him that his point of view that men are mean to women is conversely perceived as women only accepting vicious and violent men, the same as a lioness in the wild seeks the most vicious lion.

He diverted the subject just ever so slightly telling me about domestic violence laws. He told me that a simple argument can be classified as domestic violence if, while arguing, the man walks closer to a perceived weapon. He even used an example of a couple arguing and the man walks towards the direction of a gun cabinet on his way to the bedroom. He also said the same man can, while having a simple argument, sit at a table near a butter knife or lean closer to a broomstick and that too will make a simple argument into a domestic violence situation. I told him that I don't want to live in fear that I might argue the wrong way that will end up with me in prison.

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The above was written 3 years ago and this man found out that the love of his life was cheating on him with another woman. He later found out that "his son" was not his. He never believed it nor did he want to take a DNA test to prove it. His wife grew tired of him and had him arrested for domestic violence. His wife had bruises all over her body and a black eye. He swore up and down that he never struck her but his wife was awarded an "Order of Protection" against him. He finally found proof that "his son" was not his and he was pissed off that he had to continue to pay child support for a child that was not his. His, now, ex-wife lives in the house that he has to pay the mortgage, and she gets monthly child support payments.

Too bad I have not seen him since our last meeting.

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Her: I’m a cougar.
TheXYGhost : Go catch a rat and eat it.