If you caught her cheating on you, no need to argue, now you know she’s your side piece.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Tuesday, September 16, 2025
Dating Strategies of a Female as a Fisherman
A woman wants to catch the biggest and tastiest fish without owning a pole, line, hook, reel, or lure. She will not step near a lake, pond, creek, or river. She expects the fish to find her, pursue her, and convince her to take him, all while she hides away in a mountain cabin waiting for her meal to leap into her frying pan.
Just like Sleeping Beauty, she hides in the woods expecting someone to come to her. A woman initiates nothing but breakups and divorces, yet still believes the best will somehow arrive at her doorstep without effort, risk, or pursuit on her part.
Just like Sleeping Beauty, she hides in the woods expecting someone to come to her. A woman initiates nothing but breakups and divorces, yet still believes the best will somehow arrive at her doorstep without effort, risk, or pursuit on her part.
Monday, September 15, 2025
TheXYGhost III 259
Women often prefer dating over marriage because dating is focused on fun and enjoyment, while marriage involves real-life responsibilities and challenges.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost II 259
If you caught her in your bed with another man, she planned that. She wanted you too to fight for her.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
What a Shitty Way of Ending a Relationship
I had a girlfriend who went to an out of state college after we had been dating for almost eight months. We had known each other for a year before we started the relationship. I had already been in college for two years but dropped out a year before she began. I asked her if she wanted to end things when she left, but she said no. During her first year away, I visited her every month, and she even convinced me to restart my education at her college.
I applied, got accepted, and was set to start in September. At the end of her semester, we found an apartment together for the new school year. I paid the first month’s rent and the deposit for both of us.
That summer was great, we spent time together and talked about our future living together while attending school.
When September came, we packed and prepared to move. Out of nowhere, she called me from our apartment, saying she had arrived early to get it ready.
Two days later, I arrived to find the locks changed. She came to the door wearing another man’s shirt and handed me an envelope with the money I had paid for rent and deposit. She told me it was time to break up.
Inside, a shirtless man sat drinking beer and watching TV. My first reaction was rage, I wanted to lash out, but growing up in a rough neighborhood taught me that violence would not fix anything.
Now I was in a new city on the first day of school with nowhere to stay. I found a last minute spot in an expensive dorm across the street. I stayed there for a year and never saw her again.
I applied, got accepted, and was set to start in September. At the end of her semester, we found an apartment together for the new school year. I paid the first month’s rent and the deposit for both of us.
That summer was great, we spent time together and talked about our future living together while attending school.
When September came, we packed and prepared to move. Out of nowhere, she called me from our apartment, saying she had arrived early to get it ready.
Two days later, I arrived to find the locks changed. She came to the door wearing another man’s shirt and handed me an envelope with the money I had paid for rent and deposit. She told me it was time to break up.
Inside, a shirtless man sat drinking beer and watching TV. My first reaction was rage, I wanted to lash out, but growing up in a rough neighborhood taught me that violence would not fix anything.
Now I was in a new city on the first day of school with nowhere to stay. I found a last minute spot in an expensive dorm across the street. I stayed there for a year and never saw her again.
Sunday, September 14, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 258
Her : You’re controlling.
TheXYGhost : Telling you no is not control; it is standards. Learn the difference.
TheXYGhost : Telling you no is not control; it is standards. Learn the difference.
TheXYGhost III 258
She provokes him until he gets angry then cries, saying that he’s abusive.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost II 258
Her : What type of woman do you like?
TheXYGhost : She’d need to be a bit taller than you, has a college degree and definitely not a Capricorn.
TheXYGhost : She’d need to be a bit taller than you, has a college degree and definitely not a Capricorn.
Her Perception of Her Provider's Duties
Regardless of her age, marital status, or social standing, a woman will not give her love to a man unless he surpasses her in status and income. She will expect him to take on even her most basic responsibilities without question. You will often hear her say, “He is not making me happy,” placing the entire weight of her happiness on his shoulders as if her emotional state is his lifelong assignment. She sees him as a provider by default and believes it is his duty to ensure her comfort, her lifestyle, and her sense of fulfillment. In her mind, a man’s primary purpose is to pay the bills for another full grown adult.
It does not matter if she has one child or several from previous relationships, she assumes any man stepping into her life should want to provide for them as if they were his own. In her mind, his main role is not to build a partnership but to financially support her and another man’s offspring without complaint.
When she finds such a man, she will often push for marriage, not out of deep love, but to secure a lifelong contract binding him to her needs. The moment he legally commits, the dynamic shifts. Affection can fade, appreciation can vanish, and her energy turns to highlighting his flaws, whether they exist or not. Divorce then becomes a profitable exit strategy, a way to cash out on the man she once claimed to cherish.
Any man who obeys her every demand is not, in her mind, a “real man.” The irony is that any man who refuses to be her personal provider gets branded with the exact same insult. In her world, a man only earns respect when he sacrifices himself entirely for her benefit, and even then, it is never enough.
It does not matter if she has one child or several from previous relationships, she assumes any man stepping into her life should want to provide for them as if they were his own. In her mind, his main role is not to build a partnership but to financially support her and another man’s offspring without complaint.
When she finds such a man, she will often push for marriage, not out of deep love, but to secure a lifelong contract binding him to her needs. The moment he legally commits, the dynamic shifts. Affection can fade, appreciation can vanish, and her energy turns to highlighting his flaws, whether they exist or not. Divorce then becomes a profitable exit strategy, a way to cash out on the man she once claimed to cherish.
Any man who obeys her every demand is not, in her mind, a “real man.” The irony is that any man who refuses to be her personal provider gets branded with the exact same insult. In her world, a man only earns respect when he sacrifices himself entirely for her benefit, and even then, it is never enough.
Saturday, September 13, 2025
TheXYGhost II 257
On her first date she ordered 48 oysters, 4 sides, 2 entrees and 4 drinks and she wondered why he left her cold.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Her Pickup Strategy
She rejects, mocks, and ridicules any man who approaches her, yet she depends on those approaches to feed her self-worth. Every glance, every compliment, every attempt to connect is validation that she still has value. The more men approach, the more powerful she feels. The irony is that she will even reject men she finds attractive, because turning them down boosts her sense of superiority. Her ego swells with every dismissal.
She hides behind predictable routines of home, work, and school, waiting for her perfect Prince Charming to seek her out, discover her, and rescue her from her own monotony. She refuses to initiate any form of relationship, convincing herself that making the first move would mean forcing something that is not “meant to be.”
In social settings, even when she has her eye on a man in the room, she refuses to act directly. Instead, she adjusts her clothes, flips her hair, and shifts her posture in a silent plea for attention. She treats these subtle gestures as effort, expecting him to notice, approach, and pursue. If no one does, she leaves the event irritated, blaming men for not “stepping up.”
She will even avoid eye contact or any gesture that might make her interest obvious. And if, by some rare chance, the man she desires approaches her and initiates contact, she still finds a reason to reject him. Maybe he spoke too soon, waited too long, stood too close, or said the wrong words. No matter the reason, she frames it as proof that he did not approach her the “right way,” preserving her throne while keeping every man beneath it.
She hides behind predictable routines of home, work, and school, waiting for her perfect Prince Charming to seek her out, discover her, and rescue her from her own monotony. She refuses to initiate any form of relationship, convincing herself that making the first move would mean forcing something that is not “meant to be.”
In social settings, even when she has her eye on a man in the room, she refuses to act directly. Instead, she adjusts her clothes, flips her hair, and shifts her posture in a silent plea for attention. She treats these subtle gestures as effort, expecting him to notice, approach, and pursue. If no one does, she leaves the event irritated, blaming men for not “stepping up.”
She will even avoid eye contact or any gesture that might make her interest obvious. And if, by some rare chance, the man she desires approaches her and initiates contact, she still finds a reason to reject him. Maybe he spoke too soon, waited too long, stood too close, or said the wrong words. No matter the reason, she frames it as proof that he did not approach her the “right way,” preserving her throne while keeping every man beneath it.
Friday, September 12, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 256
Her : You’re being mean.
TheXYGhost : No, I’m being honest. You’re just not used to it.
TheXYGhost : No, I’m being honest. You’re just not used to it.
TheXYGhost III 256
She only is attracted to men who don’t like her. Once she wins him over, she finds him boring as she seeks out another man that dislikes her.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
What She Really Wants
• She does not want to be a girlfriend.
• She does not want to be a fiancée.
• She does not want to be a wife.
• She does not want to be a mother.
• She wants to be a bride.
• She does not want to be married.
• She only wants a wedding.
• She does not want a boyfriend.
• She does not want a man.
• She does not want a husband.
• She does not want a father for her kids.
• She only wants a provider.
• She does not want a man to love her.
• She wants a never-ending stream of men to praise and compliment her while giving her endless attention and an endless flow of men pursuing her.
• She does not want to have a family.
• She does not even want to have kids.
• She does not even want to work.
• She only wants multiple streams of income in the form of child support from multiple providers while being the center of attention in family court as a judge with higher status than the men she chose gets dominated and controlled to her delight and benefit.
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I wrote the above and sent it out to several of my male friends. They all laughed, and some even replied that they knew a few women who fall into this line of thought.
hen I started to send this out to a few of my female friends. They all responded with, “Not ALL girls are like that.”
One woman, who had been married for 40 years and had grandkids, took it upon herself to call me in order to berate me and correct my evil and misogynistic ways.
She called, and the first words out of her mouth were, “Not ALL girls are like that.”
I replied, “I was not writing about ALL women. I started all lines with ‘She,’ not ‘All women.’”
Noticing her mistake, she paused for a moment and said, “But you made it seem like all women want that.”
I corrected her immediately. “I did not make it seem that all women were like that. I wrote that about one girl. I did not make it seem like anything. It was you who manipulated and misinterpreted it in a way that demonized me and victimized ALL women. I am not responsible for how you interpret my writings. You are mad at me for your own thoughts based on how you see the world. I did not make you mad, you got angry on your own.”
She immediately said, “You could have written that in a better way.”
I asked her, “How could I write that in a better way? Please tell me. I am willing to hear you out so I can correct my evil ways and write something you think is better. Please give me some pointers on how to become a better writer.”
She simply said, “You just could have written it better.”
I countered, “How could I have written this better? I do not know a better way to write what I have just written. I need some clue on how to better my writing.”
With that, she hung up the phone, but before she did, she uttered her final judgment: “You hate ALL women.”
• She does not want to be a fiancée.
• She does not want to be a wife.
• She does not want to be a mother.
• She wants to be a bride.
• She does not want to be married.
• She only wants a wedding.
• She does not want a boyfriend.
• She does not want a man.
• She does not want a husband.
• She does not want a father for her kids.
• She only wants a provider.
• She does not want a man to love her.
• She wants a never-ending stream of men to praise and compliment her while giving her endless attention and an endless flow of men pursuing her.
• She does not want to have a family.
• She does not even want to have kids.
• She does not even want to work.
• She only wants multiple streams of income in the form of child support from multiple providers while being the center of attention in family court as a judge with higher status than the men she chose gets dominated and controlled to her delight and benefit.
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I wrote the above and sent it out to several of my male friends. They all laughed, and some even replied that they knew a few women who fall into this line of thought.
hen I started to send this out to a few of my female friends. They all responded with, “Not ALL girls are like that.”
One woman, who had been married for 40 years and had grandkids, took it upon herself to call me in order to berate me and correct my evil and misogynistic ways.
She called, and the first words out of her mouth were, “Not ALL girls are like that.”
I replied, “I was not writing about ALL women. I started all lines with ‘She,’ not ‘All women.’”
Noticing her mistake, she paused for a moment and said, “But you made it seem like all women want that.”
I corrected her immediately. “I did not make it seem that all women were like that. I wrote that about one girl. I did not make it seem like anything. It was you who manipulated and misinterpreted it in a way that demonized me and victimized ALL women. I am not responsible for how you interpret my writings. You are mad at me for your own thoughts based on how you see the world. I did not make you mad, you got angry on your own.”
She immediately said, “You could have written that in a better way.”
I asked her, “How could I write that in a better way? Please tell me. I am willing to hear you out so I can correct my evil ways and write something you think is better. Please give me some pointers on how to become a better writer.”
She simply said, “You just could have written it better.”
I countered, “How could I have written this better? I do not know a better way to write what I have just written. I need some clue on how to better my writing.”
With that, she hung up the phone, but before she did, she uttered her final judgment: “You hate ALL women.”
Thursday, September 11, 2025
TheXYGhost III 255
It does not matter her age or marital status, she will only like you if you have something she needs from you.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
How Much Money Will It Take?
How much money does a man need to make before you even consider loving him?
How much will your son have to earn just to be tolerated by a woman who measures his worth in dollars instead of character?
How fat does a man’s wallet have to be before you decide your daughter is safe in his hands, not because of who he is, but because of what he can buy?
How much will your son have to earn just to be tolerated by a woman who measures his worth in dollars instead of character?
How fat does a man’s wallet have to be before you decide your daughter is safe in his hands, not because of who he is, but because of what he can buy?
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Her : Men are afraid to commit.
TheXYGhost : Men are not afraid to commit, you are not worth any man's commitment.
TheXYGhost : Men are not afraid to commit, you are not worth any man's commitment.
Wednesday, September 10, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 254
Her : You hate all women.
TheXYGhost : I hate childish accusations. Thanks for reminding me why.
TheXYGhost : I hate childish accusations. Thanks for reminding me why.
TheXYGhost III 254
She mocks men when she’s with her girlfriends, but deep down, she secretly hates and distrusts them. When faced with financial troubles, she quietly turns to a man for support.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
A Real Woman
So many times over the years, I have heard women spit out the words “not a real man” toward any man who refuses to bend, break, and submit to their immediate wants. They use it as a weapon, a way to shame men into compliance. But if we are going to talk about what “real” is, then it is time to lay down what makes a real woman.
• A real woman is feminine, not a cheap imitation of masculinity.
• A real woman smiles, because her energy lifts her family, it does not drain it.
• A real woman keeps her family together instead of threatening to destroy it when she does not get her way.
• A real woman is grateful and thankful to her husband for what he provides, instead of treating his efforts as bare minimum requirements.
• A real woman is intelligent, not just educated, but wise enough to know how to keep a man and raise a family.
• A real woman is calming, not chaotic.
• A real woman takes responsibility for her own happiness instead of demanding a man hand-deliver it to her.
• A real woman is the pride of her family, not the shame whispered about at reunions.
• A real woman is beautiful at any age because she values self-respect over self-exposure.
• A real woman is not masculine, because competing with her man is not the same as loving him.
• A real woman turns a man’s house into a loving home instead of a place he dreads walking into.
• A real woman wipes the tears off her husband’s face and does not belittle him for showing human emotion.
• A real woman holds high standards for her own actions instead of policing everyone else’s.
• A real woman is her man’s support, not his burden.
• A real woman does not get divorced as a shortcut to “finding herself.”
• A real woman does not have a body count over one, because she understands her value is not in being passed around.
• A real woman does not cheat on her husband, period.
• A real woman does not plot against her husband like he is the enemy.
• A real woman does not yell, scream, or hit when she is angry, because self-control is not optional.
• A real woman is the source of her man’s peace and comfort, not the reason he hides in the garage to avoid her.
• A real woman does not throw temper tantrums like a child.
• A real woman does not fake ailments for attention.
• A real woman does not crave attention, because she knows her worth without needing a crowd.
• A real woman does not threaten to tear apart her own family to win an argument.
• A real woman does not turn her children against their father for revenge.
• A real woman does not manipulate, shame, or test the people she claims to love.
• A real woman does not crave status symbols like overpriced clothes or jewelry to feel important.
• A real woman does not blame others for her own poor choices.
• A real woman does not whine or complain her way through life.
• A real woman does not need makeup to be beautiful, because beauty is built on character.
• A real woman does not cover herself in tattoos to appear edgy.
• A real woman does not carve herself up with surgeries to impress strangers.
• A real woman does not drink, smoke, or take drugs to escape reality.
• A real woman does not beg for validation from anyone outside her home.
• A real woman does not need a degree to prove her worth, because her value is not tied to a title.
• A real woman does not weaponize her status against her husband.
• A real woman is not jealous or insecure, because she is confident in the role she has built.
• A real woman does not measure her husband’s love in gifts or money, but in the loyalty, sacrifice, and dedication she gives him in return.
When was the last time you saw one? For most men today, the answer is simple, never.
• A real woman is feminine, not a cheap imitation of masculinity.
• A real woman smiles, because her energy lifts her family, it does not drain it.
• A real woman keeps her family together instead of threatening to destroy it when she does not get her way.
• A real woman is grateful and thankful to her husband for what he provides, instead of treating his efforts as bare minimum requirements.
• A real woman is intelligent, not just educated, but wise enough to know how to keep a man and raise a family.
• A real woman is calming, not chaotic.
• A real woman takes responsibility for her own happiness instead of demanding a man hand-deliver it to her.
• A real woman is the pride of her family, not the shame whispered about at reunions.
• A real woman is beautiful at any age because she values self-respect over self-exposure.
• A real woman is not masculine, because competing with her man is not the same as loving him.
• A real woman turns a man’s house into a loving home instead of a place he dreads walking into.
• A real woman wipes the tears off her husband’s face and does not belittle him for showing human emotion.
• A real woman holds high standards for her own actions instead of policing everyone else’s.
• A real woman is her man’s support, not his burden.
• A real woman does not get divorced as a shortcut to “finding herself.”
• A real woman does not have a body count over one, because she understands her value is not in being passed around.
• A real woman does not cheat on her husband, period.
• A real woman does not plot against her husband like he is the enemy.
• A real woman does not yell, scream, or hit when she is angry, because self-control is not optional.
• A real woman is the source of her man’s peace and comfort, not the reason he hides in the garage to avoid her.
• A real woman does not throw temper tantrums like a child.
• A real woman does not fake ailments for attention.
• A real woman does not crave attention, because she knows her worth without needing a crowd.
• A real woman does not threaten to tear apart her own family to win an argument.
• A real woman does not turn her children against their father for revenge.
• A real woman does not manipulate, shame, or test the people she claims to love.
• A real woman does not crave status symbols like overpriced clothes or jewelry to feel important.
• A real woman does not blame others for her own poor choices.
• A real woman does not whine or complain her way through life.
• A real woman does not need makeup to be beautiful, because beauty is built on character.
• A real woman does not cover herself in tattoos to appear edgy.
• A real woman does not carve herself up with surgeries to impress strangers.
• A real woman does not drink, smoke, or take drugs to escape reality.
• A real woman does not beg for validation from anyone outside her home.
• A real woman does not need a degree to prove her worth, because her value is not tied to a title.
• A real woman does not weaponize her status against her husband.
• A real woman is not jealous or insecure, because she is confident in the role she has built.
• A real woman does not measure her husband’s love in gifts or money, but in the loyalty, sacrifice, and dedication she gives him in return.
When was the last time you saw one? For most men today, the answer is simple, never.
Tuesday, September 9, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 253
Her : You don’t love me anymore.
TheXYGhost : Then you should stop wasting time with a man who doesn’t love you.
TheXYGhost : Then you should stop wasting time with a man who doesn’t love you.
TheXYGhost III 253
She treats her husband like a slave only to become the slave’s wife. If she treated him like a King, she would be a Queen.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
What About Me? I’m One of the Good Ones
Today, a woman who knew my writings decided to confront me about my views on women. She asked why I only wrote about bad women and never about the good ones. I asked her where I could find one of these good women. She pointed at herself with both thumbs and said, “Me.”
I started asking questions. She told me she had been married for six years and had two children, a 12 year old boy and a 9 year old girl. I immediately realized she had been married before and asked why she divorced her first husband. She claimed he never worked. But after digging deeper, I found out that her first husband had actually worked two jobs. Her real complaint was that he did not make enough money for her liking. She also admitted she refused to work because she believed providing was a man’s job.
I pointed out that in her second marriage she was now working, the very thing she refused to do in her first marriage. She did not like hearing that.
I asked how she met her second husband. She said they met and hit it off right away. I pressed further, asking if she had been looking for a replacement while still married to her first husband. She admitted she had. I asked if she secured her second husband before leaving her first. She said yes, without the slightest hesitation, as if there was nothing wrong with it.
Then I asked if she was currently looking for a replacement for her second husband. She acted shocked and demanded to know why I would ask that. I repeated the question. She said she loved her current husband. I told her it would have been easier to answer “yes” or “no” rather than dodge the question twice. I told her I would take her non-answer as a “yes.”
I asked if she wanted her son to marry a woman and raise another man’s children. She said, “No,” without hesitation. When I asked why, she said it was a terrible deal. So I asked how she felt about her second husband accepting the exact same terrible deal from her. Her face went red.
Then I hit her harder: “Do you want your son’s future wife to declare that he’s not doing enough, find a new man, and have him raise your future grandchildren so you can visit them in another man’s home?” She tensed up but kept her composure because she was at her place of business. She insisted that would never happen because her son is a great kid.
I reminded her that boys often seek out women like their mothers, so she should not be too confident.
Finally, I asked if she wanted her daughter to actively look for a replacement husband once she got married. That is when she got up and walked away.
I never judged her. I never insulted her. I just asked questions. She got angry because I made her look in a mirror, and she did not like the reflection staring back at her.
I started asking questions. She told me she had been married for six years and had two children, a 12 year old boy and a 9 year old girl. I immediately realized she had been married before and asked why she divorced her first husband. She claimed he never worked. But after digging deeper, I found out that her first husband had actually worked two jobs. Her real complaint was that he did not make enough money for her liking. She also admitted she refused to work because she believed providing was a man’s job.
I pointed out that in her second marriage she was now working, the very thing she refused to do in her first marriage. She did not like hearing that.
I asked how she met her second husband. She said they met and hit it off right away. I pressed further, asking if she had been looking for a replacement while still married to her first husband. She admitted she had. I asked if she secured her second husband before leaving her first. She said yes, without the slightest hesitation, as if there was nothing wrong with it.
Then I asked if she was currently looking for a replacement for her second husband. She acted shocked and demanded to know why I would ask that. I repeated the question. She said she loved her current husband. I told her it would have been easier to answer “yes” or “no” rather than dodge the question twice. I told her I would take her non-answer as a “yes.”
I asked if she wanted her son to marry a woman and raise another man’s children. She said, “No,” without hesitation. When I asked why, she said it was a terrible deal. So I asked how she felt about her second husband accepting the exact same terrible deal from her. Her face went red.
Then I hit her harder: “Do you want your son’s future wife to declare that he’s not doing enough, find a new man, and have him raise your future grandchildren so you can visit them in another man’s home?” She tensed up but kept her composure because she was at her place of business. She insisted that would never happen because her son is a great kid.
I reminded her that boys often seek out women like their mothers, so she should not be too confident.
Finally, I asked if she wanted her daughter to actively look for a replacement husband once she got married. That is when she got up and walked away.
I never judged her. I never insulted her. I just asked questions. She got angry because I made her look in a mirror, and she did not like the reflection staring back at her.
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When she says that she doesn't love him any more, she made a conscious choice to stop loving him. Don't be fooled.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Monday, September 8, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 252
She blamed her father for walking out on her mother, but years later, she walks out on her mother for pulling the same stunts she once defended.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost III 252
Her : I gotta go but if you buy me a drink, I will stay with you for a while.
TheXYGhost : I’m fine, but thanks for the offer.
TheXYGhost : I’m fine, but thanks for the offer.
TheXYGhost II 252
TheXYGhost : Do you want to pay for the date or are you broke and you don’t deserve my company again?
The Illusion of Powerlessness, Her Choices, Her Consequences
The average woman gets approached over a hundred times a month, online, at work, in public, on dating apps, in DMs, on the street. Men constantly throw compliments, attention, offers, and resources at her feet. From that endless stream of options, she gets to handpick who she gives her time, her body, and her future to.
She does not settle for an equal. She chooses the man who is better than her, more stable, more attractive, more successful. She targets the top tier man and then pressures him to marry her, because no man wakes up dreaming about signing a one sided lifelong contract that only benefits her. Men do not fantasize about weddings or commitment, they get dragged into it, manipulated by ultimatums, pregnancy traps, or emotional blackmail.
From the start, she holds every single card.She decides when to date. She decides who to sleep with. She decides whether to use birth control. She decides whether to take Plan B. She decides whether to have an abortion. She decides whether to keep the baby. She even decides whether the father gets to be in that child’s life at all. Family court will hand her the final say on everything, even if he is a great father. To the system, he is just an accessory to her decision.
And yet, when it all falls apart, when she is single with kids, broke, bitter, and alone, it is never her fault. It is always “he left,” “he changed,” or “men ain’t shit.” She had thousands of opportunities to get it right, thousands of men chasing her, and the power to vet, delay, protect, or abort. But when it blows up, she plays the victim.
She will claim she is powerless, but she had full reproductive control. She will claim men do not step up, but she picked the wrong men. She will claim she was tricked, but she controlled every single checkpoint from start to finish.
This is the modern scam, she has every choice, but accepts none of the blame.It is not that women are powerless, they are shielded from accountability. Empowered to choose, entitled to complain, and excused when their choices explode.
That is not oppression, that is unchecked power.
She does not settle for an equal. She chooses the man who is better than her, more stable, more attractive, more successful. She targets the top tier man and then pressures him to marry her, because no man wakes up dreaming about signing a one sided lifelong contract that only benefits her. Men do not fantasize about weddings or commitment, they get dragged into it, manipulated by ultimatums, pregnancy traps, or emotional blackmail.
From the start, she holds every single card.She decides when to date. She decides who to sleep with. She decides whether to use birth control. She decides whether to take Plan B. She decides whether to have an abortion. She decides whether to keep the baby. She even decides whether the father gets to be in that child’s life at all. Family court will hand her the final say on everything, even if he is a great father. To the system, he is just an accessory to her decision.
And yet, when it all falls apart, when she is single with kids, broke, bitter, and alone, it is never her fault. It is always “he left,” “he changed,” or “men ain’t shit.” She had thousands of opportunities to get it right, thousands of men chasing her, and the power to vet, delay, protect, or abort. But when it blows up, she plays the victim.
She will claim she is powerless, but she had full reproductive control. She will claim men do not step up, but she picked the wrong men. She will claim she was tricked, but she controlled every single checkpoint from start to finish.
This is the modern scam, she has every choice, but accepts none of the blame.It is not that women are powerless, they are shielded from accountability. Empowered to choose, entitled to complain, and excused when their choices explode.
That is not oppression, that is unchecked power.
Sunday, September 7, 2025
TheXYGhost III 251
Her : I gotta go but if you buy me a drink, I will stay with you for a while.
TheXYGhost : I don’t want to keep you from what you need to do.
TheXYGhost : I don’t want to keep you from what you need to do.
TheXYGhost II 251
No matter what happens to her or why, she will find a way to pat herself on the back.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
The Hatred for Men Is Strong
There is a deep rooted, institutionalized hatred for men in today’s culture, and the moment you dare to call it out, you are branded a misogynist. Women are systematically trained, through TV shows, movies, music, and talk shows, to distrust, belittle, and despise men at every level. From childhood, they are spoon fed a narrative that men are disposable, abusive, or useless, unless of course they need something. Then suddenly, a man becomes valuable for a moment, whether it is protection, money, attention, or emotional labor. But once that need is filled, he is tossed aside like a used napkin. Men are no longer seen as human beings, they are tools, temporary utilities in a woman’s emotional and financial toolbox, to be picked up when convenient and thrown away when they are not.
A man is expected to jump in front of a bullet, but keep his mouth shut when he is being emotionally gutted. He is expected to pay for dinner, even if he goes home alone. He is expected to provide, but never complain. He is expected to protect, but never be protected. His pain is mocked, his struggles ignored, and his worth measured only by what he can offer a woman in the moment. The second he stops being a benefit, he is labeled weak, toxic, or insecure.
When a woman cries in public, the world stops to comfort her. When a man cries, he is told to man up. When a woman is broke, people rush to help. When a man is broke, he is called a loser. When a woman vents, she is “empowered.” When a man vents, he is “bitter.” This double standard is not just obvious, it is celebrated. Even in the courtroom, a woman can destroy a man financially, lie without evidence, and walk away with half his income, full custody, and public sympathy. The man is left treated like a criminal simply for existing after she no longer wants him.
Men have been reduced to temporary solutions for permanent female desires. Need help moving? Call a man. Need a bill paid? Call a man. Need someone to listen to you cry? Call a man. But once the emotions are soothed, the rent is paid, and the crisis has passed, he disappears again. He is invisible. Disposable. Until the next need arises.
The worst part is that most men have been conditioned to accept this treatment without question. They are told this is what strength looks like. This is what a “real man” does. Be silent. Be useful. Die quietly. Society values a man only for what he gives, never for who he is. And the rare few who speak out are mocked, shamed, and accused of hating women simply for telling the truth.
This is not bitterness, it is clarity. The system is not broken, it is functioning exactly as it was designed, to exploit men while erasing their humanity. And the longer men stay silent, the more this exploitation becomes the norm.
A man is expected to jump in front of a bullet, but keep his mouth shut when he is being emotionally gutted. He is expected to pay for dinner, even if he goes home alone. He is expected to provide, but never complain. He is expected to protect, but never be protected. His pain is mocked, his struggles ignored, and his worth measured only by what he can offer a woman in the moment. The second he stops being a benefit, he is labeled weak, toxic, or insecure.
When a woman cries in public, the world stops to comfort her. When a man cries, he is told to man up. When a woman is broke, people rush to help. When a man is broke, he is called a loser. When a woman vents, she is “empowered.” When a man vents, he is “bitter.” This double standard is not just obvious, it is celebrated. Even in the courtroom, a woman can destroy a man financially, lie without evidence, and walk away with half his income, full custody, and public sympathy. The man is left treated like a criminal simply for existing after she no longer wants him.
Men have been reduced to temporary solutions for permanent female desires. Need help moving? Call a man. Need a bill paid? Call a man. Need someone to listen to you cry? Call a man. But once the emotions are soothed, the rent is paid, and the crisis has passed, he disappears again. He is invisible. Disposable. Until the next need arises.
The worst part is that most men have been conditioned to accept this treatment without question. They are told this is what strength looks like. This is what a “real man” does. Be silent. Be useful. Die quietly. Society values a man only for what he gives, never for who he is. And the rare few who speak out are mocked, shamed, and accused of hating women simply for telling the truth.
This is not bitterness, it is clarity. The system is not broken, it is functioning exactly as it was designed, to exploit men while erasing their humanity. And the longer men stay silent, the more this exploitation becomes the norm.
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Her : I need a man like a fish needs a bicycle.
TheXYGhost : Who will provide for you?
TheXYGhost : Who will provide for you?
Saturday, September 6, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 250
A rich man can change a broke woman’s life, but a rich woman would never even look at a broke man.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Do Good Guys Really Finish Last?
Good guys finish first because they refuse to carry the dead weight of a woman’s endless demands, emotional chaos, manufactured crises, tantrums, guilt trips, backhanded insults, fake tears, and psychological warfare. They rise because they are not wasting their lives pandering to a bottomless pit of neediness, entitlement, and manipulation. They move forward without being chained to someone who drains their energy, poisons their peace, and sabotages their progress. They win because they understand that walking alone is better than crawling under the weight of someone who only takes.
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She is always looking for ways to prove you love her. Never will she ever prove her love for you.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Friday, September 5, 2025
TheXYGhost III 249
Her : I don’t need no man, I have a job and pay my own bills.
TheXYGhost : I don’t need a woman, I can afford the services that most women refuse to provide.
TheXYGhost : I don’t need a woman, I can afford the services that most women refuse to provide.
TheXYGhost II 249
Some men go to jail for not paying child support for a child that is not theirs. The mother knows but does nothing to exonerate him.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
The Basic Female
For many women who grow up without a father in the home, the idea of the perfect man starts taking shape in their early teens. Movies, television, books, and traits they admire in people around them become the blueprint. The image is not based on one real man, but on a patchwork of qualities, charm, confidence, looks, status, humor, all stitched together into one idealized figure.
Over time, she fine tunes this fantasy. She adds traits, sharpens details, and upgrades the picture until her version of Prince Charming feels real in her mind. This man is no longer just a vague daydream, he becomes her destiny, the one who is supposed to find her.
But she does not go looking for him. She convinces herself that searching would ruin the “meant to be” moment. Instead, she waits. When men approach her, she rejects most of them, sometimes even men she finds attractive. She tells herself she is testing them. She wants to see persistence, as if enduring rejection is proof of worthiness.
This fantasy is built over years, shaped by flashes of influence, a smile from an actor, the ambition of a fictional hero, the voice of a singer. She collects what she likes, discards what she does not, and keeps refining the standard. Eventually, she starts judging real men against this impossible model and refuses to settle for anything less.
When she dates men who fall short of the fantasy, she treats them as placeholders. They are not “the one,” they are stopgaps, temporary providers of emotional comfort, financial help, or convenience. She calls it “survival mode,” but in truth, the fantasy is untouched and waiting in the background.
This mismatch poisons the relationship. She grows cold, critical, and emotionally withdrawn. She complains to friends but leaves her partner confused about why her affection has dried up. Beneath it is resentment, resentment toward him for not being her dream, resentment toward herself for compromising, and resentment toward the fact that he believes in the fake version of her she has been acting out.
Her affection becomes strategy, not love. She plays nice when it serves her, but it is calculated. When she meets men who treat her well, she mistrusts them, calling them “too nice.” This is projection, she assumes they are pretending because she has been pretending.
If someone appears who seems closer to the fantasy, she shifts. The act with her current man crumbles. She becomes distant and harsh. This is not a sudden change, it is the unmasking of how little she was invested from the start. Her energy and attention move toward the new possibility.
She expects total commitment from a man, but rarely gives the same. She waits until she feels secure that he is fully invested, then she relaxes her loyalty and begins scanning for upgrades. Her attachment is conditional, based on being chosen, not on choosing him in return.
When she says a man has “potential,” she does not mean career or intellect. She means potential to be molded into the man she has invented in her mind. She will influence, manipulate, and test to try and shape him into that role.
If the roles are reversed, and a man says she has potential, she takes offense. She hears it as proof that she is not already perfect. It rattles her self image.
The older she gets, the more the gap between reality and fantasy widens. By her forties or fifties, the fantasy has been so polished and refined that no real man can compete with it. At that point, she is chasing a ghost she created.
It is the same as a young man working entry level jobs while training for a career in law, each job is a stepping stone. Except in her case, the “career” is a man who may not even exist outside her imagination. And every real relationship in her life was nothing more than another stepping stone toward a man who only lives in her head.
Over time, she fine tunes this fantasy. She adds traits, sharpens details, and upgrades the picture until her version of Prince Charming feels real in her mind. This man is no longer just a vague daydream, he becomes her destiny, the one who is supposed to find her.
But she does not go looking for him. She convinces herself that searching would ruin the “meant to be” moment. Instead, she waits. When men approach her, she rejects most of them, sometimes even men she finds attractive. She tells herself she is testing them. She wants to see persistence, as if enduring rejection is proof of worthiness.
This fantasy is built over years, shaped by flashes of influence, a smile from an actor, the ambition of a fictional hero, the voice of a singer. She collects what she likes, discards what she does not, and keeps refining the standard. Eventually, she starts judging real men against this impossible model and refuses to settle for anything less.
When she dates men who fall short of the fantasy, she treats them as placeholders. They are not “the one,” they are stopgaps, temporary providers of emotional comfort, financial help, or convenience. She calls it “survival mode,” but in truth, the fantasy is untouched and waiting in the background.
This mismatch poisons the relationship. She grows cold, critical, and emotionally withdrawn. She complains to friends but leaves her partner confused about why her affection has dried up. Beneath it is resentment, resentment toward him for not being her dream, resentment toward herself for compromising, and resentment toward the fact that he believes in the fake version of her she has been acting out.
Her affection becomes strategy, not love. She plays nice when it serves her, but it is calculated. When she meets men who treat her well, she mistrusts them, calling them “too nice.” This is projection, she assumes they are pretending because she has been pretending.
If someone appears who seems closer to the fantasy, she shifts. The act with her current man crumbles. She becomes distant and harsh. This is not a sudden change, it is the unmasking of how little she was invested from the start. Her energy and attention move toward the new possibility.
She expects total commitment from a man, but rarely gives the same. She waits until she feels secure that he is fully invested, then she relaxes her loyalty and begins scanning for upgrades. Her attachment is conditional, based on being chosen, not on choosing him in return.
When she says a man has “potential,” she does not mean career or intellect. She means potential to be molded into the man she has invented in her mind. She will influence, manipulate, and test to try and shape him into that role.
If the roles are reversed, and a man says she has potential, she takes offense. She hears it as proof that she is not already perfect. It rattles her self image.
The older she gets, the more the gap between reality and fantasy widens. By her forties or fifties, the fantasy has been so polished and refined that no real man can compete with it. At that point, she is chasing a ghost she created.
It is the same as a young man working entry level jobs while training for a career in law, each job is a stepping stone. Except in her case, the “career” is a man who may not even exist outside her imagination. And every real relationship in her life was nothing more than another stepping stone toward a man who only lives in her head.
Thursday, September 4, 2025
TheXYGhost IV 248
It’s one thing to reward her for sex; it’s another thing entirely when sex is her way of rewarding you.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost III 248
She will never be satisfied with the actions of others. No matter how great the effort is, nobody will ever be good enough for her.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost II 248
Her husband died while she was on vacation, and she returned after his burial. She only cried upon learning she wasn’t in the will.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
Things Men Want Women to Stop Doing to Their Husbands
• Stop competing with men on every level.
• Stop being combative.
• Stop constantly testing men.
• Stop faking ailments for attention.
• Stop speaking in hints.
• Stop creating drama.
• Stop acting immature.
• Stop playing the victim.
• Stop telling others private details about your life with your husband.
• Stop putting yourself in dangerous situations and expecting men to save you.
• Stop questioning our every move.
• Stop focusing on our flaws while ignoring your own.
• Stop using double standards.
• Stop expecting us to read your mind.
• Stop treating us like projects to fix.
• Stop withholding affection as a manipulation tactic.
• Stop comparing us to other men.
• Stop assuming the worst about our intentions.
• Stop making everything a power struggle.
• Stop belittling our interests and hobbies.
• Stop bringing up past arguments to win current ones.
• Stop expecting us to be perfect while accepting flaws in yourself.
• Stop dismissing our feelings just because we express them differently.
• Stop being combative.
• Stop constantly testing men.
• Stop faking ailments for attention.
• Stop speaking in hints.
• Stop creating drama.
• Stop acting immature.
• Stop playing the victim.
• Stop telling others private details about your life with your husband.
• Stop putting yourself in dangerous situations and expecting men to save you.
• Stop questioning our every move.
• Stop focusing on our flaws while ignoring your own.
• Stop using double standards.
• Stop expecting us to read your mind.
• Stop treating us like projects to fix.
• Stop withholding affection as a manipulation tactic.
• Stop comparing us to other men.
• Stop assuming the worst about our intentions.
• Stop making everything a power struggle.
• Stop belittling our interests and hobbies.
• Stop bringing up past arguments to win current ones.
• Stop expecting us to be perfect while accepting flaws in yourself.
• Stop dismissing our feelings just because we express them differently.
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You want a traditional man yet you have 2 kids from 2 different men, you don't know how to cook and you wont do domestic chores.
TheXYGhost
TheXYGhost
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